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Pride Month 2022 has kicked off, and the LGBTQ+ communities are celebrating the freedom to be themselves. Which, even though it's the 21st century, is still apparently threatening to some people.

I know it sounds absurd, but take the subreddit "Are the Straights OK?" for example. Its members regularly discover posts that discriminate against minorities, and often do so in a way that resembles all those toxic cliches from 25, 75, and even a few hundred years ago.

Continue scrolling to check out what statements have recently appeared on the subreddit and fire up Bored Panda's older publication on it for more similar jibberish if you want to go down the rabbit hole even deeper.

Given all the problems they have, you might be surprised that wealth creation, according to new research from Merrill Lynch, is actually happening at a faster pace among diverse communities, including the black, Latino, and specifically, the LGBTQ+.

The study focused on "affluent households," which, according to the three reports from Merrill Lynch, means US households earning more than $125,000. Affluent gay, lesbian, and transgender households saw their net worth skyrocket by a whopping 76% since 2015. (For comparison, the average "affluent" home saw its wealth grow by 53% during this time frame.)

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Double Standards

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Sasha
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Forget the boys, half the reason cited for those rules are the teachers. We apparently trust men less than i do my dog with a sandwich on my coffee table, but women are too emotional for presidency

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Not All Heroes Wear Capes

Not All Heroes Wear Capes

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Jesus Christ

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Nyx
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Of course. As long as it's not born, it's a person and they want to protect it. As soon as it's born, it's a burden and they don't care anymore.

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"As a gay financial planner, I have seen the difference in family dynamics between my hetero clients and LGBTQ+ clients," David Rae wrote in Forbes. "About one-third of LGBTQ+ respondents said family members did not support them. While I believe acceptance is improving, it is not a given."

"LGBTQ+ Americans tend to get married later, and if they have children, they tend to have them later in life. Additionally, the cost of starting a family for LGBTQ+ individuals is usually much more expensive on average. That being said, for same-sex couples who don't have children, there is a lot more money to go around, which can make it easier to live a fabulous gay lifestyle while at the same time still building wealth."

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Better To Be Silent And Assumed A Fool Than To Speak Up And Remove All Doubt

Better To Be Silent And Assumed A Fool Than To Speak Up And Remove All Doubt

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Swimsuits

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Vorknkx
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Reminds me of how nipples are censored, only if they are female... even though they are anatomically identical to male ones.

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*gasp* Women Have... Veins?! Impossible!!

*gasp* Women Have... Veins?! Impossible!!

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Vorknkx
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Women with veins, how unnatural... next thing you're gonna tell me women can poop. It's crazy!

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Matt Walsh Is A Controlling A**hole And Jeffrey Combs Is An Absolute Gem

Matt Walsh Is A Controlling A**hole And Jeffrey Combs Is An Absolute Gem

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It's also important to point out that the LGBTQ+ community is still highly diverse, with members at the top and bottom of the income and wealth spectrums.

Merrill conducted an in-depth study to help understand the financial planning needs of the LGBTQ+ community. The study also explored the financial challenges that members of the LGBTQ+ community overcame. 'Diverse Viewpoints: Exploring Wealth in the LGBTQ+ Community' is just one in a series of studies that Merrill has commissioned.

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Holy Cr*p

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Caro Caro
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This made me tear up. The poor boy. I'm glad the mother stood up for her son and left the mother-effer!

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Nope, Definitely Not Ok, It's A Freaking Blanket!

Nope, Definitely Not Ok, It's A Freaking Blanket!

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Helen Witten
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ouch that would have seriously hurt. That's a lovely blanket and beautiful colours. Sorry you went through that. :(

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"There is fear throughout the LGBTQ+ community about growing old alone," Rae said. "I could easily make a joke here about the fear of looking old, but this is a serious issue for many in the LGBTQ+ community. As a group, we face many challenges as we age."

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"One pertinent question is, 'Who will look after us as we age.' LGBTQ+ folks are a third more likely to be concerned about paying for long-term care costs when compared to the general public. For one thing, long-term care is extremely expensive. Also, there is pervasive discrimination within many elder care facilities, both from residents and staff. These issues can be even more problematic for the transgender community and those living with HIV. I've spoken with many gay and lesbian seniors who have essentially gone back into the closet in their retirement communities."

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Why Can't Women Just Enjoy Their Boobies? Their Super Stuffed Up Milkies? Their Honker Wonker Doinky Bonkies?

Why Can't Women Just Enjoy Their Boobies? Their Super Stuffed Up Milkies? Their Honker Wonker Doinky Bonkies?

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Argle Bargle
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ask him to strap two pumpkins to his chest for a day and see what he thinks by 5pm.

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Sebastian Richter
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So If you're walking around with a big booger hanging out your nose... Wear it like a man!

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Ah Yes, Misogynistic Christmas Cards For All!

Ah Yes, Misogynistic Christmas Cards For All!

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K- THULU
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Gotta stop them from running away and screaming for help....what a fkn piece of sht!

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The US Department of the Treasury says that gay married couples make more money than lesbian couples, and both gay and lesbian couples make more than opposite-sex married couples.

"It is pretty easy to explain how gay and lesbian married couples can make more money per year and at the same time be paid less for equal work," Rae said. "The proportion of dual-income households among gay and lesbian couples is higher than that of opposite-sex couples. You may have two lesbians earning less both because they are female and lesbian, but if both work full-time, they, on average, make more than the so-called nuclear family where the husband works and the wife stays home (don't shoot the messenger, I'm just pointing this out)."

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Cait Doesn't Get It, And Neither Do I Mate...

Cait Doesn't Get It, And Neither Do I Mate...

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Trillian
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ok and I don‘t get that a grown woman wouldn‘t know „what to do with herself“ just bc her man is away for 2 (!) days?? Are you a toddler?

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However, in many places around the world people from the LGBTQ+ community still have to hide and even flee persecution for simply being who they are.

"Among 84 million people who are currently forcibly displaced worldwide, LGBTQ+ persons are particularly vulnerable and marginalized," the UN said in a statement in May. "Fleeing persecution and socio-economic exclusion, they often reside in countries that do not provide strong human rights protections or actively discriminate based on sexual orientation and gender identity."

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Pretty Much

Pretty Much

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Nathaniel
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

These are also the incels that tell women they will treat them like princesses, not like those Alpha Chads.

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I Genuinely Find This Hilarious Especially Knowing The Original Creator Was Being 100% Serious

I Genuinely Find This Hilarious Especially Knowing The Original Creator Was Being 100% Serious

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"The structural vulnerabilities that LGBTQ+ persons face are intensified by their situation as migrants, asylum seekers, refugees, or internally displaced persons," the statement continued.

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"Persecution from State and non-State actors, as well as socio-economic exclusion fueled by stigma, discrimination, armed conflict, natural disasters, and climate change force many persons of diverse sexual orientation and gender identity (SOGI) to flee their homes in search of a safe environment, where they can live authentically and fully exercise their rights."

#26

Women Are Such Mysterious Creatures, They Never Say What They Want

Women Are Such Mysterious Creatures, They Never Say What They Want

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Stardust she/her
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This happened several months ago so I blocked him after he kept trying to get me to date him. Now he somehow reached out to me on Skype and offline school will start in 2 days so now I have no choice but to see him in person

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#27

That- That's Not What Loyal Is-

That- That's Not What Loyal Is-

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About Ice Cream

About Ice Cream

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N Gregory
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well, if she bites it it means a) she's got teeth of titanium and b) she's a frickin animal - I mean, who bites ice cream? (I... may have missed the point)

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When You Think It Can’t Get Worse You Notice The Glove…

When You Think It Can’t Get Worse You Notice The Glove…

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Alan Green
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Both clearly having a laugh. Probably work on/own the farm and this is how they handle pregnant livestock so they're making a joke of it while letting family & friends know they are expecting. I think it a-moo-sing anyway.

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This Is Why We Can't Have Nice Things

This Is Why We Can't Have Nice Things

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Oh... My God

Oh... My God

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Andrew Pugg
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am not often lost for words but.... . . ..but what a cockwomble, twatbadger of a person I cannot call him a man

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At Least He End It There

At Least He End It There

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Kathi Schäffer
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes, please end it! Good riddance. My God, I'm getting more disgusted by the minute reading this list 🤬🤬🤬

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Found Some Vintage Anti-Suffrage Posters That Show How Afraid People Were Of Women Voting

Found Some Vintage Anti-Suffrage Posters That Show How Afraid People Were Of Women Voting

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dee dee
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So basically they were afraid of ending up in women's shoes. Aha.

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Not Only Did People Get Mad About The Trailer, This Post Got Reported A Lot

Not Only Did People Get Mad About The Trailer, This Post Got Reported A Lot

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Nyx
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Can't really tell from the poststamp sized picture, but I take it the long haired groom is a woman, too?

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Ah, Poor Babies…

Ah, Poor Babies…

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K- THULU
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't think I can type " for fks sake.." for every post in this list....

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How Do You Even... What

How Do You Even... What

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Yeah, Don't Have Sex Before Marriage

Yeah, Don't Have Sex Before Marriage

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This Sign Above A Children's Toilet

This Sign Above A Children's Toilet

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Are They Serious?

Are They Serious?

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Definitely Not Ok

Definitely Not Ok

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BoredBirb
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You're a bit more than weird buddy. A bit more than weird.

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#43

I've Lost So Much Respect For This Elon Musk Guy

I've Lost So Much Respect For This Elon Musk Guy

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Trillian
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Elon Musk and Putin have a lot in common. Like how could anyone have ever believed they were halfways decent? Y‘all need to have your a*****e radar checked.

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Honey,that Sounds Like A You Problem

Honey,that Sounds Like A You Problem

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Nyx
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's sad that men are brought up to be so homophobic, that they don't even dare marry a guy in a video game. Meanwhile they go out with the boys, get drunk, f*ck each other on a dare and don't consider it gay at all.

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... What

... What

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JiminKimLip7
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Racist and Sexist all in one! And Homophobic! That has to be a new record!

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This Is At A Kid’s Stationary Shop

This Is At A Kid’s Stationary Shop

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I May Be A Sex Repulsed Ace But Once A Week Seems A Bit Much When Your Partner Dosn't Feel Sexual Attraction

I May Be A Sex Repulsed Ace But Once A Week Seems A Bit Much When Your Partner Dosn't Feel Sexual Attraction

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Laugh or not
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes, because whatever the relationship and the orientation, seeing sex as a commodity that one submits to for the benefice of their partner regardless if their own desire is totally healthy and totally not-rapy.

Monday
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It makes sense though. If you and your partner don't have matching sex drives one of you is going to be unhappy if you don't find a compromise. If one half of the couple is not willing to compromise then the relationship should end, if both are happy to compromise then it can continue.

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Tigerpacingthecage
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Absolutely not. You always go at a frequency that the one who wants less sex can be ok with. Asexual or not. And accept it without nagging for sex even if it's frustrating. If you don't feel ok with your sex life you break up - it's a valid reason. Sure, you could come up with solutions like having an open relationship but that should be a mutual decision.

Emmydearest
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Devil's advocate here: if the ace person has no desire for sex but they are not in fact repulsed by it and once they have it they somehow don't mind/enjoy it, in that case scheduling some sex encounters with their partner can be doable. It's like eating a particular food: I don't crave for it but it doesn't disgust me so, if my partner cooks it and enjoys it, every once in a while I eat it too. It's just a theory, so please don't hate me. If any ace would reply with their opinion about it, I'll be happy to hear it.

Emmydearest
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'll add that obviously it must not come from pressure by the partner. The couple needs to sit down and respectfully talk about boundaries and such.

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Terran
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How about talking to each other, work something out, an if that doesn't work agree on a break up?

M O'Connell
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What!? The "minimum number of times to have sex per week" is always Zero.

Erin Eubanks
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So basically you're telling one person to weekly, rape another person.

John Rizcallah
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not at all. The asexual person is agreeing to have sex, not being coerced or forced or anything. This is a discussion between consenting partners. Rape is exactly the opposite.

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Joe Reaves
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Even apart from everything else, that just sounds incredibly unsexy for BOTH partners. Uh oh, it's Sunday and we haven't met the minimum quota for this week, better get it over with. I mean couples that DON'T involve an asexual don't schedule sex (in general, I mean if you've got 4 kids or whatever you may have to!).

I don't like avocado
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I actually think people are misinterpreting this one. Correct me if I'm wrong, but aren't some ace+non-ace couples active in that sense? That's something between the partners to discuss and make their own decision on. If asexuality is a spectrum, then it's good to mention that not every ace person thinks the same way! Every aspect of a relationship plays a role in it's success or failure, whether it involves an asexual person or not. This post is generalizing what ace people are comfortable with, and that I don't agree with in the slightest.

xolitaire
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes they exist and are "active" in that way, but it's a very delicate balance. A relationship like that needs clear boundaries and both partners openly stating what they can and can't do. And a "time table" like the article suggests is absolute bullsh*t and clearly made up by a person who doesn't really understand what asexual means.

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Bill cipher
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

people who think this will burn and as an asexual i will see to it that it happen >:(

dee dee
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What the f**k?? The very definition of asexuality is having no desire for sex. So, the ace would be forced to have sex just to please the partner? That's not a partner, or that is not asexuality anymore. Maybe both. Ugh.what the hell people. Person can't understand asexuality, maybe they should steer away from aces and let them enjoy their lives in peace.

John Rizcallah
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No. That isnt what the post says. Maybe you should actually read it? It says to talk it out and try to come to a compromise wherein they both agree to have sex because it is important to one of them. My gf LOVES to check the mail. I would never ever check the mail, otherwise. Literally never. We had a weird argument about it, but we compromised and I agreed to check the mail three times a week as time allows. I am doing something that I have no desire to do because it is important to her. We talked it out, like real adults. Same thing here. Talk it out, see if you can come to an agreement that makes everyone happy. Like fuxjing adults.

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JasonK
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This isn’t about hooking up on tinder or Grindr, it’s about making a loving relationship work. The asexual person can feel free to tell the partner “we won’t be having sex ever” but that’ll likely be the beginning of the end

Raccoon Queen
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Maybe once everything six months, though that seems like a lot

Chilli
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9 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ok everyone, here are your red flags *Hands out red flags.* now, we're all gonna wave them on three.

I don't like avocado
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As everyone has shared their opinion, I'd also like to share mine without being attacked. Thanks.

I don't like avocado
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Asexuality is a SPECTRUM. There's something called gray asexuality, and demisexuality. This isn't widely known or something, apparently. But, not all asexual people think the same! No, this isn't at all implying rape and frankly I'm disgusted people even suggested that. Who jumps to that kind of conclusion? Seriously? Some asexual people feel repulsed by the idea of sex. In this scenario, this would be definitely not cool if the asexual partner is downright repulsed. In most cases, you won't find any sex-repulsed person with a person who isn't. That isn't common in the slightest. When it happens, it's people who value romance over anything else. There are plenty of asexual people who happen to NOT be repulsed by sex and simply just don't have the urges. Those people, are the ones typically most commonly seen in relationships with non-ace people. Let me explain why; it's a need/want for one partner, but it's not for the other. The other is neutral and can consent to it!

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Voodoops_13
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To anyone saying "Well, in relationships you do things for your partner that you don't want to do because you love them" aren't getting it. Asexual is a large umbrella, but we seriously don't feel sexual attraction. Our libido is low (like we could go a lifetime without sex, years, decades). Weekly sex feels like torture. For us, not all but most, this would be like asking a heterosexual to have homosexual sex once a week. It's not a decision, it's who we are. If your partner doesn't get that, you need to move on.

John Rizcallah
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you can't be in the relationship, then leave. That's exactly the point. You are in fact AGREEING with this post, just refusing to understand it. If you can't handle having occasional sex with someone that isn't asexual, then you can't be in a relationship with them. That's what the post actually says.

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Genevieve
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don’t down vote me, I posted it before I realized that this is a very controversial subject. The article above is not okay, I will say that.

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Kate Jones
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

just get a freaking fleshlight. I get not wanting to be with a asexual person but this isn't like a new thing. Break up and move on or get a fleshlight.

Roxy Eastland
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There are techniques that can work for couples in this situation, that meet both people's needs, but just telling the asexual person they're going to have sex anyway isn't one of them.

Cin
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you start a relationship with an asexual, you know what you’re getting into and have to fully accept it. The idea of a minimum times of sex a week could potentially pressure someone into something they don’t want to do to please a partner. It’s something that has to just happen, not be planned.

Kathy L
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why would an asexual person want to even BE in a relationship with somebody who insisted on sex? Why not--I dunno, break up--and both find more compatible partners?

Daniele Tigli
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Siri, check my Calendar and let me know when would be a good time to f***"

xolitaire
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ok WHAT. I am ace and this is the absolute worst thing I have come across on this list. It totally disregards what the ace person in the relationship wants for the benefit of the other person. And on top of that it downgrades sex to a weekly chore. This is vile from start to finish.

John Rizcallah
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No it fuxjing doesnt. It validates that both the ace and the non-ace are important, and both if their sexualities are important. Did you even read it?? Grow up, mate. People matter, even when they aren't you. Fuxking immature twat

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censor
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm borderline ace and my now ex would want to do the deed at most once a month because she was borderline ace as well. It didn't work that well because I'd have preferred twice. Once it got to a year without any activities we agreed that our 'frequencies' were a bit out. You can't force someone into it, that's called rape.

DDmaybeandor
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If two adults are in a loving and respectful relationship, compromising on this is like compromising on anything else. If you love someone you do things you don’t enjoy for the sake of their happiness all the time, and they do the same for you.

John Rizcallah
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

...how else can an asexual and non-asexual person stay happy in a monogamous relationship? This seems perfectly reasonable to me. Solid relationships ship advice, even when neither person is asexual. For most people, sex is an important act of intimacy.

JasonK
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2 years ago

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Everyone here has no problem saying that the asexual person shouldn’t commit to having sex but in doing so you all are saying the sexual partner must commit to not having sex! Such a clear double-standard.

Tigerpacingthecage
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No? The person who wants more sex is free to leave the relationship. That's what you do when you both have dealbreakers and they don't go together. It's a totally valid reason to break up. I say this as a person with a higher sexdrive compared to my partner. You are never allowed to put pressure into having sex. Sex is about mutual consent. If it comes to the point when you can't follow their pace without being miserable - end the relationship.

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They Will Do Anything To Excuse R*pe

They Will Do Anything To Excuse R*pe

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Nyx
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sure. And that's why we do a DNA test. If the DNA is 100% the same as mom's, you can have your virgin birth. If not, some dude at the care facility is in for a world of hurt.

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#54

Ah Yes, Those Super Sexy Child Necks?

Ah Yes, Those Super Sexy Child Necks?

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Aboredpanda
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The logic in hiding the neck but making it obligatory to wear over-knee skirts... Just stupid. Why can't there just be unisex uniforms. It's not like women die from arousal all day oooking at mens necks.

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#55

Uhhh Rude!!

Uhhh Rude!!

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#56

Ah Yes Feminism, The Biggest Evil Plaguing Society

Ah Yes Feminism, The Biggest Evil Plaguing Society

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Vorknkx
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Makes it sound like women are cookies that you can just hand around. Geez!

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#57

Oh Nooo! James Bond Is Not Manly Macho Enough And Too Woke!

Oh Nooo! James Bond Is Not Manly Macho Enough And Too Woke!

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Romenriel
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So he looks great, but also he isn't Bond, he's Daniel Craig... Someone's a bit delusional.

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#58

"How Am I Supposed To Respect You When Ur Afraid To Show Ur Body?"

"How Am I Supposed To Respect You When Ur Afraid To Show Ur Body?"

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Troux
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You guys know that level of chill where you get angry at t-shirts for existing? No?

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#59

So I Guess No More Sexualities?

So I Guess No More Sexualities?

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BoredBirb
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wait, what is wrong with heterosexual? (honestly curious, dont get this one)

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#60

“Breastfeeding Your Daughters Is Wrong As It Provokes Lesbian Attraction”

“Breastfeeding Your Daughters Is Wrong As It Provokes Lesbian Attraction”

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#62

Yeah... Totally..

Yeah... Totally..

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Vorknkx
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Discriminated" in this case meaning - "not allowed to violently force their beliefs upon everyone else."

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#63

Yes Because Those Are Totally The Same

Yes Because Those Are Totally The Same

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Argle Bargle
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Um, I don't know if you're using that lipstick in the way it was intended, Stefan.

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#64

She's On The Beach Wtf

She's On The Beach Wtf

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#65

Ah Yes “Lesbianism”

Ah Yes “Lesbianism”

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#66

They Say *we* Get Triggered Easy Then Get Upset Over A Cartoon Purse

They Say *we* Get Triggered Easy Then Get Upset Over A Cartoon Purse

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K- THULU
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Funny thing is in UK and Australia, f***y means vagina! Remember that america....

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#67

Texas

Texas

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Monday
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Boys should be encouraged to grow their hair out, it will shield their necks from the lustful eyes of the girls.....I mean necks are sexy right? That was a point in a previous post after all!

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#69

"Probably Nothing Sexual"

"Probably Nothing Sexual"

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Nyx
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh please, tell her. She needs to know this, so she can get out before you get kids.

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#70

From A Friend On Tumblr… Poor Guy.

From A Friend On Tumblr… Poor Guy.

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#71

All Girls Are Part Of The Lgbt Now

All Girls Are Part Of The Lgbt Now

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Nikki Sevven
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Of course. It's not possible that you're being constantly rejected because of your shitty personality and regressive views of women, so there must be something wrong with women.

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#72

I Literally Have No Words

I Literally Have No Words

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RafCo
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a kid in the 1970s, this is b******t. I would have loved some support when I was getting bullied. Also, a bloody nose lasts 10 minutes and is seen by maybe 6 people. Social media bullying goes viral and can last a lifetime. So f*****g dumb. Kids these days have it SO much worse than we did. This pisses me off

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#75

I Now Identify As Logistically Difficult

I Now Identify As Logistically Difficult

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#76

That’s An Interesting Way To Say “I Don’t Understand Consent”

That’s An Interesting Way To Say “I Don’t Understand Consent”

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#77

The Straights Aren't Okay

The Straights Aren't Okay

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Nyx
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Good for you! Now let people who want or need abortions and/or like to rap about wet cats do what they want to do, too.

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#78

Haha Let's Justify Domestic Abuse

Haha Let's Justify Domestic Abuse

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#79

“Quit Slutting Up My Hero, The Child Eating Ancient Demon Clown” And Apparently You’re Only Allowed To Dress Up As Female Characters If You’re Female

“Quit Slutting Up My Hero, The Child Eating Ancient Demon Clown” And Apparently You’re Only Allowed To Dress Up As Female Characters If You’re Female

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#80

Don't Be Surprised If You Find His Body Behind A Burger King...

Don't Be Surprised If You Find His Body Behind A Burger King...

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#83

I Am Deeply Concerned For Their Future Children

I Am Deeply Concerned For Their Future Children

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#84

This Sub In A Nutshell

This Sub In A Nutshell

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#85

Haha Women Bad

Haha Women Bad

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Diana Lucas
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All of us women in liberal states cry for the women in those states who are being kept from making decisions about their own bodies by a bunch of old, white men.

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#86

It's Not Even Clark, It's His Son!

It's Not Even Clark, It's His Son!

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Nathaniel
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Is it part of the superhero creed that they have to be 100% heterosexual?

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#87

Just Let The Straights Have A Little Representation!!!

Just Let The Straights Have A Little Representation!!!

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#90

Ah Yes, How Can We Forget, The Least Okay Straight Of Them All

Ah Yes, How Can We Forget, The Least Okay Straight Of Them All

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#91

This Is A 24-Year-Old Christian Film Producer

This Is A 24-Year-Old Christian Film Producer

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Fenchurch
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Eeewwww so a 20 year old starting dating a child? Have the authorities been informed.

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#92

Probably The Most Passive Fragile Masculinity I Have Ever Seen

Probably The Most Passive Fragile Masculinity I Have Ever Seen

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Nyx
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well, at least he's honest. And if he does as he says, it's ok. We're allowed to have feelings, even if they're not PC. It's the acting on them that causes problems.

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#93

Why, He’s Creepy As F*ck Imo

Why, He’s Creepy As F*ck Imo

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#94

Kid Got Charged With 3 Crimes And He Got Kicked Off All Sports Teams, So I'd Guess That He's Not Doing So Ok Rn

Kid Got Charged With 3 Crimes And He Got Kicked Off All Sports Teams, So I'd Guess That He's Not Doing So Ok Rn

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Lulxby
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why do people do stuff like this? The kid with the flag was probably minding their own business! WHY DO PEOPLE FEEL THE NEED TO DO THIS?! If you don't like it, ignore it! You have no idea how much pain that could cause the student who had the flag thrown away! This is so frustrating! I really hope the kid with the pride flag is ok!

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#95

I Mean…….. What?

I Mean…….. What?

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Nathaniel
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So.... a woman's biology changes when they become lesbian? If this were true I'd bet the majority of women would turn lesbian given the problems periods can cause.

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#96

Straight Pride Day Was Created Here, I'm So Fucking Ashamed Of My Country

Straight Pride Day Was Created Here, I'm So Fucking Ashamed Of My Country

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#97

A Totally Logical Comparison

A Totally Logical Comparison

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#99

Unnatural Hair Color

Unnatural Hair Color

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#100

Look Out It's Raining Queer Again! Shelter!

Look Out It's Raining Queer Again! Shelter!

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Stardust she/her
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Then they will scroll through the internet as teens realizing why they felt something that wasn’t taught or exposed to them

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#101

Apperantly Lgbtqai+ Is Now A Franchise

Apperantly Lgbtqai+ Is Now A Franchise

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#102

The Straights Are Back On Their Bs

The Straights Are Back On Their Bs

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Nyx
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Or you could make six women. Or six Hitlers. Or six average people who will not accomplish anything great, like the majority of people. Better be that smart scientist if you can, because you'll never know what kind of kids you'll get.

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#103

The Straights Are Triggered!

The Straights Are Triggered!

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Lewis Fisher Wells
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

mate he walks around in speedos, a cape and a skintight lycra shirt like you can't get more obvious than that

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#105

Gatekeeping Attention Hog Thinks People Care She Had A Biological Kid Rather Than Adopting A Kid Needing A Loving Home & Parents

Gatekeeping Attention Hog Thinks People Care She Had A Biological Kid Rather Than Adopting A Kid Needing A Loving Home & Parents

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Kathi Schäffer
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm sorry you had a rough birth experience. But why do you need to put other people down??

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#108

You Just Can’t Win

You Just Can’t Win

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Nathaniel
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It is almost as if the girlfriend is her own person and not a Stepford wife....

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#109

Ah Yes The Famous Combination Hair And Being Gender Neutral

Ah Yes The Famous Combination Hair And Being Gender Neutral

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#110

Equality Is When Rainbow Pfp /S

Equality Is When Rainbow Pfp /S

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Jayne Kyra
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

For one month a year corporations cash in on Pride Month, then it is back to regularly scheduled programme.

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#111

Teach Your Boys To Be Men Before Our Enemies Teach Them To Be Women

Teach Your Boys To Be Men Before Our Enemies Teach Them To Be Women

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#112

What Does Pegging Have To Do With Being Liberal Uhh

What Does Pegging Have To Do With Being Liberal Uhh

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#113

They Made It Weird

They Made It Weird

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Nathaniel
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Imagine having to go to another country just see some boobs. Pathetic.

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#114

I Remember Seeing This "Meme" Back In My 9gag Days...

I Remember Seeing This "Meme" Back In My 9gag Days...

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#116

Wow, This Is So Clever Oh My God, The Straights Are Owning Us

Wow, This Is So Clever Oh My God, The Straights Are Owning Us

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Nathaniel
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If is hard to sex skeletons actually, as body types of all sizes and shapes exist with skeletons too, even the experts have to look at clothing and accessories etc to the body. A biologically female skeleton can be larger than a male skeleton. Relative size of skeletons is not 100% accurate.

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#117

Who The In Their Right Minds Would Make This???

Who The In Their Right Minds Would Make This???

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#118

Makeup = Only For Women

Makeup = Only For Women

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Diana Lucas
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've seen some men apply and wear their makeup much better than I have ever done for myself in my entire life. This is utter horse manure.

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#121

Albert Einstein's Rules For His Wife

Albert Einstein's Rules For His Wife

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Argle Bargle
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You will make sure to never refer to 'our' work or 'our' theory, thereby giving me full credit into posterity.

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#123

Haha Woman Cheats From R/Blursedimages

Haha Woman Cheats From R/Blursedimages

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Nyx
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So you should date a scary a*****e and then turn him into a loving husband who's colorblind?

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#124

Found On Facebook

Found On Facebook

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Nyx
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What? All his kids were raised by him and his wife (except the one with his housekeeper, obviously). They split in 2011, when Christopher (the one on the right) was already 14 and they shared custody on both these boys.

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#125

Whats With The Virgin Obsession? I Didn’t Understand It As A Kid And I Still Don’t Understand It Now.

Whats With The Virgin Obsession? I Didn’t Understand It As A Kid And I Still Don’t Understand It Now.

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Nathaniel
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Does she not own her p*ssy? Does it belong to whoever got there first? Is that how incels think?

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#127

They Are Not. Not Even Close

They Are Not. Not Even Close

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#128

That’s A Lot Of Words For Someone Who Doesn’t Know How To Play Chess

That’s A Lot Of Words For Someone Who Doesn’t Know How To Play Chess

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APL
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The queen is the most powerful piece in chess and the king is f*****g useless, so this is an interesting metaphor

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#129

Never Take Dating Advice From Classically Abby

Never Take Dating Advice From Classically Abby

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#130

Yeah Feminists Always Do That Haha

Yeah Feminists Always Do That Haha

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#131

Neither? They're Both Equally As Valid

Neither? They're Both Equally As Valid

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Ozacoter
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is just another sad example of how a part of the queer community is extremely sexist. There is nothing inherently femenine or masculine.

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#132

“I Will Not Explain”

“I Will Not Explain”

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#134

I-

I-

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dee dee
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Isn't it beautiful when women decide what to do with time and their own bodies? If they stream games, great! If they do onlyfans or whatever, great! Their bodies, choices, and freedom to do with them as they will. What the problem is, is having a problem with it. You're not into it, great! Don't bash anyone for not being like you.

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#135

What?

What?

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Nathaniel
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Was Sauron ever described as white cis het? What would it matter what colour skin he might have?

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