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Not every relationship ends in a ‘happily ever after.’ And sometimes, your knight’s shining armor is just for show. So much so that these people end up being called out on the front page of the internet for how awfully they treat their partners. Lies, accusations, and manipulation... it's an emotional rollercoaster that's more powerful than a soap opera.

Bored Panda has collected some of Reddit's most infamous posts about toxic relationships where people clearly don’t respect their significant other. You’ll find the stories and screenshots as you scroll down.

When you’ve read through this list, you can look through our previous articles about 'nice guys' who only pretend to be kind right here and here.

#1

My Aunt’s Skeevy Boyfriend Went From Asking What My Husband And I Want For Christmas To This Garbage In 2 Minutes

My Aunt’s Skeevy Boyfriend Went From Asking What My Husband And I Want For Christmas To This Garbage In 2 Minutes

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    I Understand Coming Out Can Be Difficult, But Cheating On Your Wife Of 20+ Years Isn’t Okay

    I Understand Coming Out Can Be Difficult, But Cheating On Your Wife Of 20+ Years Isn’t Okay

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    Paulo Freitas
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I know a guy like this, but in his defence, dude was a Sallesman ( image is very important ) and this was almost 30 years ago, plus everyone knew, even his wife, i assume they had an " understanding ", but he had 2 or 3 kids with her though.

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    #3

    Please Show His Wife The Note And Money

    Please Show His Wife The Note And Money

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    There is an online community called r/niceguys that features some of the worst cases of people pretending to be nice, only to put down others when they don’t get their own way. ‘Nice guys,’ no matter their gender, tend to be jealous, controlling, and spiteful.

    ‘Nice guys,’ like the ones portrayed on the r/niceguys subreddit, as well as other online communities, are all about creating the appearance of being kind, wholesome, and supportive. The reality, unfortunately, is often very different.

    #4

    Husband Goes A-Wall Over Wife Giving A Man A Glass Of Water

    Husband Goes A-Wall Over Wife Giving A Man A Glass Of Water

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    Nathaniel
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Incel vibe from the person on the left. Anytime a woman acknowledges a man or is nice in anyway is flirting. Wow.

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    #5

    Going Your Whole Pregnancy Knowing Your Boyfriend/Husband May Not Be The Father, Yet Still Leading Him On Is One Of The Most Emotionally Abusive Things You Can Do To Someone

    Going Your Whole Pregnancy Knowing Your Boyfriend/Husband May Not Be The Father, Yet Still Leading Him On Is One Of The Most Emotionally Abusive Things You Can Do To Someone

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    Meeliasi
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What a decent guy. I don’t know how I would have reacted.

    Sonja
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hes amazing. A really great human being. She definitely messed up a great chance here. He is a keeper.

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    T'Mar of Vulcan
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Genetics is weird, though. Sometimes genes from generations back are expressed in a child. I'd get a DNA test before making any decisions.

    Lakota Wolf
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep. Skin and eye color are determined by melanin, and the amount or type of melanin is controlled by about a dozen different genes. It's entirely possible that each parent has mixed ancestry, and that ancestry was expressed in their child's skin color. There are documented cases of two dark-skinned parents having a lighter-skinned child, and of a dark-skinned parent and a light-skinned parent having twins where each child has a different skin tone. I do hope the man gets a paternity test, because it IS possible, but I imagine that his wife may have told him about her infidelity, which is why he seems very sure that he is not the baby's father. However, as you said, genetics are weird :)

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    rorschach-penguin
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Um, fact: pigmentation requires mature expression of melanin. It is very, very common for babies to not properly express melanin, so black babies can look several shades lighter (and potentially white) when born. Hope this idiot actually got a DNA test.

    Orangepanda39
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, as Lakota Wolf said, the wife may have told him of her infedelity and didn't have any need to take a DNA test. Although it is understandable that you think the baby may just look several shades lighter, you didn't have to call them an idiot.

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    Sh_alien
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How are you guys making this about skin color. Everyone knows most babies with dark skin come out looking pretty light, at first. Seems this guy has been raising the kid for a while, and something came up. I don’t think anybody is as stupid as you people think they are. Seriously.

    Ryan cole
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Processing this s**t online in public view is so unhealthy.and that fake a*s humble game is embarrassing as hell

    Jerrica Coyle
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I agree. This probably should have been handled privately instead of on blast on social media.

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    Ben
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That kid could totally be the kids father. New born babies mostly look like an alien. I wouldn't be canceling the trust fund just yet. I have worked in labor and delivery in the past and seen these things happen a lot because nobody has any clue.

    Zachary Gillette
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "That kid could totally be the kids father." That made it sound like the baby is his own dad lol.

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    Biofish23
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    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Has he actually taken a paternity test, or is this just based on thinking the baby doesn't look enough like him? (Too pale perhaps?) Because if it's the first, yes she's aweful and he is handling it really well. If it's the second he is the biggest jerk in the world.

    Mistiekim
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow. Just wow. He’s a saint because I don’t forgive her and I’m not even involved!

    Cara G
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think the fact that he says he was "...there since day 1..." indicates that he's been raising the baby for quite some time and that this post was not written on the actual day of the birth. It appears that this has nothing to do with the baby's skin color and that he found out later, through a DNA test or because the mother told him.

    Dulcie Tolcher
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I hurt for him and for his family. They all love that baby. How cruel.

    Celtic Pirate Queen
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I honestly wish I'd had the guts to tell my BIL he's not my niece's father. Pretty sure he was somewhat aware, but he is a pro level reality denier. My sister cheated on him ON THEIR HONEYMOON. She outright told my the kid could be from one of THREE men other than her husband. One is the best friend of my stepfather, who is my bet based on my niece's eye color. Needless to say I don't speak to this sister anymore. She's a horrible & toxic human being.

    Caryle
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why would you post this? It’s a shame that this happened to you. It’s awful but to blast the mother and newborn on social media is pretty disgusting as well as what she did, which was utterly horrible.

    Amaranthim Talon
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What an awesome human being this real dad IS! He may not be the biological father and I understand if he steps aside, why shouldn't he? But what a beautiful person for such a loving note. I hope you find the right person, sir, and that you and your family live in happiness.

    Kristen Orr
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Airing out your dirty laundry on social media isn't strong or good. It's passive-aggressive covert narcissism in attempt to publicly shame another while bloviating his own superiority. Really, there wasn't enough substantiated information to support either side.

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    LynzCatastrophe
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Was this post done after a DNA test or did you jump the gun? It takes time for pigment to form.

    Rigor Moreno
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Bless his heart! He know the kid is innocent and how his reaction would affect the kids life in the future. Stories like this restores faith in humanity...

    Vasana Phong
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Sad that a father that is willing and able to take care of his, isn’t the biological

    Lakota Wolf
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's not sad, it's wonderful for the child. It's not quite the same thing as OP's situation, but I'm adopted. My adopted dad was the BEST dad. My parents had a biological child together before they adopted me, and my dad NEVER treated me any different from my older sister. I was 100% his daughter. Good dads are heroes to their kids, no matter their biological (or lack thereof) connection.

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    KieLeaHar
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    3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    No remorse or regret in her eyes at all.. she’s just wanting the baby to be in her area. Disgusting to do that: beyond. I don’t know how you can forgive someone for that.

    Jessica butts
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Just as bad as all the men who irresponsibly impregnate women and then F off to another state to work under the table so they don't have to pay child support.

    Tyler
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Is the guy holding the baby the person who thought he was the father?

    Margaret Weaver
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anyone that can look at that nose and think that is a caucasian baby needs to have their head checked. Unless this comes paired with a DNA test, this man is just whining for attention.

    Niki A
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I understand the fear. Sometimes you make idiotic mistakes. On the other hand, if you are honest this doesn't happen.

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    That dude is a desperate sad sorry doormat of a man. His middle name carries the weight of a clown.

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    #6

    It’s Been A Week Since I Kicked Him Out And Went N.c. This Morning, I Transferred My Anger Onto Paper

    It’s Been A Week Since I Kicked Him Out And Went N.c. This Morning, I Transferred My Anger Onto Paper

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    HelluvaHedgehogAlien
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    HE HIT THE DOGS?????? ONLY BIG FAT IDIOT A******S WITH DAMN F*****G A*****E ATTITUDES AND AN EMPTY BRAIN CAPACITY HITS DOGS 😡 HE WILL BURN IN HELL FOR ETERNITY

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    They usually have confidence issues that run very deep. They tend to be extremely jealous, and attempt to control who their significant others spend time with.

    Their personal insecurities lead to relationships that are very unhealthy because they’re built on a foundation of suspicion and paranoia.

    #7

    Trashy Husband

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    #8

    Who's That Pokémon!? It's Niceguy Cheating Boyfriend

    Who's That Pokémon!? It's Niceguy Cheating Boyfriend

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    Nathaniel
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "yeah I know.. I am a nice person really I swear" Cough cough BOLLOCKS cough.

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    #9

    I Can Hear The Wedding Bells

    I Can Hear The Wedding Bells

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    Jesse Setliffe
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Go to police. Give ex-wife everything she wants in the divorce settlement. Remain alone from now on; you deserve to be.

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    Anyone can tell you that if you take trust out of the equation, you’ve got a relationship that’s pretty much doomed to fail. It’s not really a relationship if you’re always accusing your partner of lying to you or being unfaithful.

    In some of the situations presented in this list, there are a few ways to tackle the problems at their source. The first is to have an open and honest conversation with your significant other about their behavior.

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    #10

    Podcaster Says He Would Leave Her Wife If She 'Lets Herself' Go After Childbirth

    Podcaster Says He Would Leave Her Wife If She 'Lets Herself' Go After Childbirth

    "If my wife lets herself go after I have kids with her, I’m going to tell her once. If you don’t get your sh*t together, because I still want to be sexually attracted to my wife, my spouse, but if you can’t do that, I’m out’".

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    Sonja
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    He should tell that louder and more often and put it on all his profiles everywhere so women know to avoid that shallow idiot who'll only date them for their bodies and ditch them as soon as things go tough or they might lose their looks for whatever reason. I mean, no one in their right minds would ever date this guy. What if she has an accident? What if she gets cancer? Or something else that'll disfigure her? Getting married is gor the good times AND the bad times. If your love for your spouse only goes skin deep, you're not relationship material. At best, you are a toy to have fun... if you're pretty enough. Or pay some coin. But otherwise, you're not worth the investment that having a relationship needs.

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    #11

    This Cb Demanding A More Expensive Bag From Her Boyfriend

    This Cb Demanding A More Expensive Bag From Her Boyfriend

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    This Guy Chose To Get His Wife Pregnant Rather Than Be Alone

    This Guy Chose To Get His Wife Pregnant Rather Than Be Alone

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    Explain your position. Tell them how you feel when they don’t trust you or talk down to you. Set some clear and healthy boundaries. Though, keep in mind, a single conversation won’t save your relationship—it’ll take time and effort for real change to happen.

    If that doesn’t work, you may want to consider couples counseling. Having a neutral third party give you a helping hand can work wonders. However, not all relationships can—or should—be saved.

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    #13

    My Facebook Friend Posted Her Boyfriends Debit Card Info Because He Wouldn’t Give Her $40 To Get Her Nails Done

    My Facebook Friend Posted Her Boyfriends Debit Card Info Because He Wouldn’t Give Her $40 To Get Her Nails Done

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    #14

    My Sisters Boyfriend Trying To Guilt Her By Saying He Helped Her With Problems

    My Sisters Boyfriend Trying To Guilt Her By Saying He Helped Her With Problems

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    #15

    Looking For Fun (Aka Sex) While Husband Is Deployed, But You Must Attractive Smart And Drug Free To Cheat With Her

    Looking For Fun (Aka Sex) While Husband Is Deployed, But You Must Attractive Smart And Drug Free To Cheat With Her

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    Libstak
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    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wonder if some of these type of posts are done by 3rd party frienemies as revenge for perceived wrongs?

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    If your partner is physically or emotionally abusing you, reach out to a counselor or an organization for advice specific to your situation. These professionals can support you as you consider what to do next. There is no excuse for abuse.

    #16

    Girl Accuses Boyfriend Of Leaving Her After He And His Family Discover She's Been Faking Her Pregnancy For 8 Months

    Girl Accuses Boyfriend Of Leaving Her After He And His Family Discover She's Been Faking Her Pregnancy For 8 Months

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    HardieBoysMama
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is the type of person that finds a needy pregnant woman, tricks her into meeting up by offering baby clothes, then tries to cut the baby out of her body.

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    Context: He Posted A Pic Of Himself And His Wife On R/Tinder And Then Commented This S**t - His Brother In Law Then Saw The Post And The Comment

    Context: He Posted A Pic Of Himself And His Wife On R/Tinder And Then Commented This S**t - His Brother In Law Then Saw The Post And The Comment

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    Husband Who Is Struggling To Make Ends Meet Gets Mad At Wife For"Lowering Herself" Because She Found Coupons In The Trash To Feed Her Kids

    Husband Who Is Struggling To Make Ends Meet Gets Mad At Wife For"Lowering Herself" Because She Found Coupons In The Trash To Feed Her Kids

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    What separates ‘nice guys’ from everyone else is the lack of genuine confidence. These ‘nice guys’ have a victim mentality and lash out at the people around them when things don’t go their way.

    Again, this isn’t gender-specific: anyone can be toxic, it’s not just guys who are jerks.

    #19

    Can’t Get Ahold Of Boyfriend, She Cheats, And He Is In The Hospital

    Can’t Get Ahold Of Boyfriend, She Cheats, And He Is In The Hospital

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    Wife's Time Of The Month

    Wife's Time Of The Month

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    Jessica Bertram
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    WHY SO YELLY? also, it IS that time of the month...that time where she educates this troglodyte about how easy it is to disappear a body.

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    Married Niceguy™ Looking To Cheat After He Acts Like A Husband For A Night And It Didn't Get Him Laid

    Married Niceguy™ Looking To Cheat After He Acts Like A Husband For A Night And It Didn't Get Him Laid

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    HelluvaHedgehogAlien
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Am I the only one who is also concerned about the EYES of the human in the picture underneath that disgusting text?

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    A while ago, Bored Panda touched on the topic of building a genuine sense of confidence. A fitness expert explained to us that it all comes down to proving that “you’re not a victim.” He suggested focusing on small tasks and small victories at first.

    According to the expert, helping others in need, taking care of your health, advancing in your career, and focusing on having a successful relationship are some of the things that will instill a sense of confidence. 

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    #22

    Trashy Girl Tried To Kill Her Boyfriend Instead Of Just Asking Questions

    Trashy Girl Tried To Kill Her Boyfriend Instead Of Just Asking Questions

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    I Can't For The Life Of Me Understand Why Her Boyfriend Has A Problem With This

    I Can't For The Life Of Me Understand Why Her Boyfriend Has A Problem With This

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    #24

    My Girlfriend's Ex's List From Circa 2009 For Getting Back Together

    My Girlfriend's Ex's List From Circa 2009 For Getting Back Together

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    “When you’re successful in one area you build confidence in yourself and that will translate to all of your life,” he said, earlier.

    However, positive changes aren’t instant. They take time. The fitness expert noted that “your brain needs proof around your new identity."

    "Confidence comes from repetition and mastery. The more you do ANYTHING, the more confident you become. The good news about this is everyone is capable of earning confidence," he explained.

    #25

    Just Nice Guy Alen, Looking To Cheat On His Wife And Have You Cheat On Your Husband

    Just Nice Guy Alen, Looking To Cheat On His Wife And Have You Cheat On Your Husband

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    #27

    "I'm Sorry" Says The Nice Guy Who Verbally Abused His Wife So Badly She Left Him In The Middle Of The Night

    "I'm Sorry" Says The Nice Guy Who Verbally Abused His Wife So Badly She Left Him In The Middle Of The Night

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    "Responding to failure is all about the story we tell ourselves. Do you tell yourself that you are a failure? Or do you tell yourself you failed, have now gotten feedback, and know how to get better? It’s all our perspective," he pointed out that we control how we respond to criticism and feedback. Some run away from uncomfortable truths. Others use them to grow and become better people, for the sake of their loved ones.

    Many men featured on the r/niceguys subreddit are prime examples of toxic masculinity: they have a misogynistic attitude that arises from distorted ideas of what they ‘should’ be like.

    A psychotherapist explained to us some time ago that people like that tend to think that men should “never be ‘weak’ or ‘soft’” or vulnerable. People who embody the traits of toxic masculinity feel that they always need to be winners and they tend to look down on women, as well as their rights.

    #28

    Police Officer Cheats On His Wife While On Duty And Gets The Other Girl Pregnant

    Police Officer Cheats On His Wife While On Duty And Gets The Other Girl Pregnant

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    rspanther
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How are you not to blame also? You knew he was married and slept with him. Vile people.

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    Ex Girlfriend Texts Me At Around 11:30 For A Hookup. Shes Married And Her Army Husband Is Deployed

    Ex Girlfriend Texts Me At Around 11:30 For A Hookup. Shes Married And Her Army Husband Is Deployed

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    “A man with healthy masculinity is the opposite to these traits: someone who is self-reflective, embraces their emotions including sadness, anxiety and crying, a man who isn't afraid of their own femininity and believes that women are equal, and therefore are very clear about respecting boundaries and consent with women,” the psychotherapist told Bored Panda during an earlier interview.

    He added that healthy masculinity allows men to feel comfortable with having their opinions challenged. They’re open-minded and willing to have debates because they’re not scared of being proven wrong.

    #31

    When Your Maid Of Honor Sleeps With Your Husband

    When Your Maid Of Honor Sleeps With Your Husband

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    Sonja
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is a horrible person, but for cheating it needs two people. If the husband doesn't say no to her, he's no better.

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    #32

    "Good News, My Wife Died. Suh, Ladies."

    "Good News, My Wife Died. Suh, Ladies."

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    Katie Andrews
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Speaking as a widow, this s**t is all too common. Men don't take the time to grieve, to do the hard internal work, to re-create a new life without their spouse. Nope, he wants to replace one NPC with another NPC. He wants an intelligent pack mule who will cook, clean, have sex, etc. My insistence on living apart together, and keeping all finances separate works wonders to weed out all bums. Like me for me as a person, not for what I can do for you. And yes, was married twice, 25 years, happy the second time for 17 years. Just don't want to live with any man again. Love my space, peace, and quiet, would just like fun companionship. And I prefer a grown-a*s man who can take care of himself like a real adult.

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    My Ex Wifes Response To Why She Could Be Trusted Not To Have Another Affair

    My Ex Wifes Response To Why She Could Be Trusted Not To Have Another Affair

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    #34

    Husband’s Gift To His Wife This Morning. Hopefully She Gives Him A Divorce

    Husband’s Gift To His Wife This Morning. Hopefully She Gives Him A Divorce

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    #36

    Husband Cheating On Wife With Maid. Posted On A Community Yard Sale Site

    Husband Cheating On Wife With Maid. Posted On A Community Yard Sale Site

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    This Is The 'Ex' Husband Of My Girlfriend's Best Friend. She's Been Trying To Get A Divorce From Him For Almost A Year, He Won't Sign The Papers But Will Message Her Friends And Coworkers, Constantly Lying About Her Cheating And Making Himself Out To Be The Victim

    This Is The 'Ex' Husband Of My Girlfriend's Best Friend. She's Been Trying To Get A Divorce From Him For Almost A Year, He Won't Sign The Papers But Will Message Her Friends And Coworkers, Constantly Lying About Her Cheating And Making Himself Out To Be The Victim

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    #38

    My Ex Asking Me To Take Her To Pick Up Her Boyfriend From Jail And Her Response When I Said No

    My Ex Asking Me To Take Her To Pick Up Her Boyfriend From Jail And Her Response When I Said No

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    #39

    His Wife May Have Just Posted Her Husbands Last Facebook Update

    His Wife May Have Just Posted Her Husbands Last Facebook Update

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    #40

    What My Neighbors (Ex?) Boyfriend Did To Her Apartment Door

    What My Neighbors (Ex?) Boyfriend Did To Her Apartment Door

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    #41

    Nice Guy Husband Turning Bitter Because Wife Had Male Friends Before Marriage

    Nice Guy Husband Turning Bitter Because Wife Had Male Friends Before Marriage

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    HelluvaHedgehogAlien
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ‘Plus I was nice guy’ huh, if you say you’re ‘nice’ on first encounters on the internet, there’s a high chance you’re not

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    #42

    My Friends Boyfriend Sent Her This… For Saying She Needs Space To Spend Time With Her Dad On Father’s Day

    My Friends Boyfriend Sent Her This… For Saying She Needs Space To Spend Time With Her Dad On Father’s Day

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    Ches Yamada
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Why don't you enjoy the fact that there's a guy out there that cares about you and ... loves you with his whole heart". Yeah, her DAD, f#ck off it's Father's Day.

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    #43

    Posting On Fb About Abusing Your Boyfriend

    Posting On Fb About Abusing Your Boyfriend

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    HelluvaHedgehogAlien
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A towel? I threw a towel at my rude roommate who tried to feed chocolate to my dog :( and THEN I slapped her

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    #44

    Advertising The Passing Of Your Husband

    Advertising The Passing Of Your Husband

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    Three Years Ago, My Ex-Wife Was Concerned About Losing Her Alimony If She Remarried. At The Time Said I’d Pay It For At Least Another Year. That Was Forgotten Until This Morning:

    Three Years Ago, My Ex-Wife Was Concerned About Losing Her Alimony If She Remarried. At The Time Said I’d Pay It For At Least Another Year. That Was Forgotten Until This Morning:

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    #46

    When You Are Selling Nudes Of Your Wife On Facebook

    When You Are Selling Nudes Of Your Wife On Facebook

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    Anne
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    She kinda looks drugged.. But she may be into this.. I know girls that are.

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    A Visual Representation Of My Rage When So Aggressively Took Back His Very First Heartfelt Apology Because He Did "Nothing Wrong" And Was "Forced" To Say Sorry

    A Visual Representation Of My Rage When So Aggressively Took Back His Very First Heartfelt Apology Because He Did "Nothing Wrong" And Was "Forced" To Say Sorry

    SO has not once in 3 years stuck an an agreement. Every promise broken. Many times, he has lied to my face about it. Every time denies he was wrong or minimizes the issue. Then he attacks me (I am controlling, constantly berate him, I'm selfish, "on a high horse" etc). He didn't do anything wrong! This is my fault, my problem. He is the victim of my inflexibility!
     
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    We have been to counseling specifically because he breaks agreements. We've also talked A LOT about how inappropriately he responds when confronted with a wrong doing and have been working on helping him learn alternative ways to react.
     
    This weekend was his second chance to actually stick to an agreement and apply everything we worked on (he blew the first chance, shockingly). But guess who didn't stick to the agreement?! I chewed him out and that's when the "forced apology" came. Not long after he stormed into the bedroom, took it back, and then DARVOed me.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "DARVO (an acronym for "deny, attack, and reverse victim and offender") is a reaction that perpetrators of wrongdoing, particularly sexual offenders, may display in response to being held accountable for their behavior."

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    #48

    My Ex Girlfriend. Self Explanatory To Get A Cheaper Cutting Board

    My Ex Girlfriend. Self Explanatory To Get A Cheaper Cutting Board

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    Nice Little Text Exchange I Found On My Boyfriend’s Phone Today To His Girl Best Friend. 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼😃😃💕💕what A Sweet Man🫠

    Nice Little Text Exchange I Found On My Boyfriend’s Phone Today To His Girl Best Friend. 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼😃😃💕💕what A Sweet Man🫠

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    Genericist
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Ehh, this one's borderline without context. Why was she going through his phone anyway?

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    #50

    Husband Just Doing A Little Jail Time

    Husband Just Doing A Little Jail Time

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    Lakota Wolf
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "hwp"? "d/d free"? I'm 40 and I grew up with the internet and this made me feel old and out of touch XD

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    #51

    Wife Gets Stabbed By “Dope Pipe” By Husband. He Posts On Facebook. Tags Her Then The Comments Start

    Wife Gets Stabbed By “Dope Pipe” By Husband. He Posts On Facebook. Tags Her Then The Comments Start

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    Sonja
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The problem wit NiceGuys™ is not that they're insecure or whatever. The problem is that they don't see women as equals or even humans. It their minds 'females' are subhuman, less worthy than males. They truly believe, for what reason ever, that a woman is generally less intelligent, less able and their emotions less real than their own. That is why for them spending time with any woman is just a hassle they have to go through to get sex. So they think completely normal human interaction is already being nice when done to a woman. Because they don't believe that a woman deserves the same respect and consideration than a man. So if they behave normal and decent against a woman they only do so to get something. And that's also why they believe a woman just being nice is leading them on. Because that's what they do. Their whole existence is transactional. While normal people go on dates to have a good time and get to know each other they only go on dates to prepay for sex later.

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    #52

    She Was Looking For A New Boyfriend Not Even A Week After Her Last One Died Of A Drug Overdose

    She Was Looking For A New Boyfriend Not Even A Week After Her Last One Died Of A Drug Overdose

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    #53

    He Is "The Most Respecting Guy" While Explicitly Disrespecting My Request For Him To Refrain From Responding. This Is My Now Ex Husband Who Touched Me While He Thought I Was Sleeping, Knowing My History Of Sa While Sleeping. His Begging For Another Chance Was Triggering So I Tried To Tell Him

    He Is "The Most Respecting Guy" While Explicitly Disrespecting My Request For Him To Refrain From Responding. This Is My Now Ex Husband Who Touched Me While He Thought I Was Sleeping, Knowing My History Of Sa While Sleeping. His Begging For Another Chance Was Triggering So I Tried To Tell Him

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    Belynda Young
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hmm I am wondering if she had a paralyzed dream. I have had a few, I have dreamt that I was yelling at my husband to help me .This happened several times. The ptsd she has from the trauma may cause very realistic dreams.

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