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Not every relationship ends in a ‘happily ever after.’ And sometimes, your knight’s shining armor is just for show. So much so that these people end up being called out on the front page of the internet for how awfully they treat their partners. Lies, accusations, and manipulation... it's an emotional rollercoaster that's more powerful than a soap opera.

Bored Panda has collected some of Reddit's most infamous posts about toxic relationships where people clearly don’t respect their significant other. You’ll find the stories and screenshots as you scroll down.

When you’ve read through this list, you can look through our previous articles about 'nice guys' who only pretend to be kind right here and here.

#1

My Aunt’s Skeevy Boyfriend Went From Asking What My Husband And I Want For Christmas To This Garbage In 2 Minutes

My Aunt’s Skeevy Boyfriend Went From Asking What My Husband And I Want For Christmas To This Garbage In 2 Minutes

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#2

I Understand Coming Out Can Be Difficult, But Cheating On Your Wife Of 20+ Years Isn’t Okay

I Understand Coming Out Can Be Difficult, But Cheating On Your Wife Of 20+ Years Isn’t Okay

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Paulo Freitas
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I know a guy like this, but in his defence, dude was a Sallesman ( image is very important ) and this was almost 30 years ago, plus everyone knew, even his wife, i assume they had an " understanding ", but he had 2 or 3 kids with her though.

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#3

Please Show His Wife The Note And Money

Please Show His Wife The Note And Money

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There is an online community called r/niceguys that features some of the worst cases of people pretending to be nice, only to put down others when they don’t get their own way. ‘Nice guys,’ no matter their gender, tend to be jealous, controlling, and spiteful.

‘Nice guys,’ like the ones portrayed on the r/niceguys subreddit, as well as other online communities, are all about creating the appearance of being kind, wholesome, and supportive. The reality, unfortunately, is often very different.

#4

Husband Goes A-Wall Over Wife Giving A Man A Glass Of Water

Husband Goes A-Wall Over Wife Giving A Man A Glass Of Water

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Nathaniel
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Incel vibe from the person on the left. Anytime a woman acknowledges a man or is nice in anyway is flirting. Wow.

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#5

Going Your Whole Pregnancy Knowing Your Boyfriend/Husband May Not Be The Father, Yet Still Leading Him On Is One Of The Most Emotionally Abusive Things You Can Do To Someone

Going Your Whole Pregnancy Knowing Your Boyfriend/Husband May Not Be The Father, Yet Still Leading Him On Is One Of The Most Emotionally Abusive Things You Can Do To Someone

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#6

It’s Been A Week Since I Kicked Him Out And Went N.c. This Morning, I Transferred My Anger Onto Paper

It’s Been A Week Since I Kicked Him Out And Went N.c. This Morning, I Transferred My Anger Onto Paper

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HelluvaHedgehogAlien
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

HE HIT THE DOGS?????? ONLY BIG FAT IDIOT A******S WITH DAMN F*****G A*****E ATTITUDES AND AN EMPTY BRAIN CAPACITY HITS DOGS 😡 HE WILL BURN IN HELL FOR ETERNITY

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They usually have confidence issues that run very deep. They tend to be extremely jealous, and attempt to control who their significant others spend time with.

Their personal insecurities lead to relationships that are very unhealthy because they’re built on a foundation of suspicion and paranoia.

#7

Trashy Husband

Trashy Husband

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#8

Who's That Pokémon!? It's Niceguy Cheating Boyfriend

Who's That Pokémon!? It's Niceguy Cheating Boyfriend

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Nathaniel
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"yeah I know.. I am a nice person really I swear" Cough cough BOLLOCKS cough.

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#9

I Can Hear The Wedding Bells

I Can Hear The Wedding Bells

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Jesse Setliffe
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Go to police. Give ex-wife everything she wants in the divorce settlement. Remain alone from now on; you deserve to be.

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Anyone can tell you that if you take trust out of the equation, you’ve got a relationship that’s pretty much doomed to fail. It’s not really a relationship if you’re always accusing your partner of lying to you or being unfaithful.

In some of the situations presented in this list, there are a few ways to tackle the problems at their source. The first is to have an open and honest conversation with your significant other about their behavior.

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#10

Podcaster Says He Would Leave Her Wife If She 'Lets Herself' Go After Childbirth

Podcaster Says He Would Leave Her Wife If She 'Lets Herself' Go After Childbirth

"If my wife lets herself go after I have kids with her, I’m going to tell her once. If you don’t get your sh*t together, because I still want to be sexually attracted to my wife, my spouse, but if you can’t do that, I’m out’".

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Sonja
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He should tell that louder and more often and put it on all his profiles everywhere so women know to avoid that shallow idiot who'll only date them for their bodies and ditch them as soon as things go tough or they might lose their looks for whatever reason. I mean, no one in their right minds would ever date this guy. What if she has an accident? What if she gets cancer? Or something else that'll disfigure her? Getting married is gor the good times AND the bad times. If your love for your spouse only goes skin deep, you're not relationship material. At best, you are a toy to have fun... if you're pretty enough. Or pay some coin. But otherwise, you're not worth the investment that having a relationship needs.

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#11

This Cb Demanding A More Expensive Bag From Her Boyfriend

This Cb Demanding A More Expensive Bag From Her Boyfriend

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Blackstone
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Unpopular opinion maybe, but I think it's all garbage. I could probably afford to splurge on some fancy brands, but don't care whose name is on it, I'm not paying more than $40 for a bag, and if I pay that, it'd better be durable AF and last for a decade. All these fancy brands can go jump in a lake. The only reason they cost so much is because they have good marketing. What tf am I going to do with a LV bag I can't do with the bag I have? If I needed to have fancy stuff to impress my friends, I'd just need less shallow friends.

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Vasana Phong
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If someone can please forward this rant to her boyfriend, and save him $500 a month

cadena kuhn
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My husband makes more then both of them and if he bought me a 700 wallet I would kick his a$$. You know how much actual useful stuff I could buy for that

Nadine Debard
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

'I really feel like a loser'... Sure you are, but not for the reasons you think. Poor boyfriend. Poor, poor boyfriend.

Peppy
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Must be hard, having such obstacles to overcome in life, poor dear😂

Mistiekim
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Your boyfriend gives you a monthly stipend AND buys you food and expensive gifts on top of that? Are you a girlfriend or some sort of sugar baby?

Historyharlot93
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

$5k a month is only $60k a year, which puts them in the middle class. Plus there’s about 22% taxes on that too. I’d like to know where on earth these people live if these boyfriends can just drop that much money on sugar babies. Doesn’t matter because it’s a troll.

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Jilltdcatlady
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Tell me you're a Gold digger without saying you're a Gold digger.

Vinita Talaulikar
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Start working young lady and pay for your own luxuries, comforts and necessities..

DuchessDegu
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd be beyond pissed if my bf gave me a $700 wallet! Give me a $10 wallet, and the rest in cash 😁 what a complete waste of money!

Bobert Robertson
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Neither brand is for the rich. Both brands are for the snobbish middle class who want to look rich. Real wealthy people don't advertise brands and dress rather plain

Lola Atkinson
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think this nice girl needs to experience complete destitution and homelessness for a year. Would make her a better person.

Not-a-Clue-What-to-Call-Myself
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

SHE feels like a loser?! The boyfriend is a loser dating such an entitled [insert uncomplimentary designation here]

Dirk Daring
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Having a $1000 wallet is a nice way of letting street criminals know you're a good target.

Pudgy Panda
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Nah, people like that usually have nothing but maxed out credit cards in their wallets.

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R Dennis
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If your bf is making $6ok and you are leeching off of him, YOU are poor... and a leech...

Cerise Hood
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I won't tell people how to spend their money, but the wealthiest people are the ones who usually don't flaunt it. The expensive purses are just for show.

MongoMarcia
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had to goggle cb. Oh, choosing beggar. I thought it was callous biatch from the context of this story.

Trillian
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Unpopular opinion: Most LV bags look like something my granny would carry around. Not that she or I could afford it lol.

Deta Rossiter
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i hope the BF reads rant, and drops this woman. I do feel sorry for who ever marries her though!

Ralph Kretschmer
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Maybe she should date a cashmachine - because that's obviously what she sees in a boyfriend.

BetterBitterButter
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't know how he's living with her? Let her live with her LV and Chanel.

Stacia
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ungrateful. She's lucky she's getting anything at all. He should dump her sorry a$$

Maltaros
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The guy makes $60,000 a year yet she thinks he should have money to throw away. That barely covers rent and necessities in a lot of places. She needs to get her priorities straight. And no way is the guy making $48,000 a year throwing that much money at her sister unless he is doing a lot of side-hustle stuff.

HighNMightyBigshot
Community Member
7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The REALLY good designer products don’t have their names plastered all over them.

Kevin Esson
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You don't deserve a boyfriend. I hope you end up a spinster. That way you might realise what a horrible little b*tch you are.

Kevin Esson
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You don't deserve any boyfriend! I hope you end up a spinster, you selfish b***

Kajira4evr
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Aside from everything else... Doesn't she have a job? What does she do with it? Also, if she's that interested in the dosh there's a career change she could do Money isn't the most important thing in a genuine loving relationship

Ashley Thompson
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Your bf is focusing on being wealthy while considering you, while your sister's bf is living poor with his decisions on spending money. Be grateful

Sean Simpson
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is how messed up her mindset is; even if we were to take her worldview of boyfriends giving girlfriends an allowance as acceptable, she says that her sister is physically more desirable than she is. Why would she think she could command the same price when she isn’t equally hot? Entitled^3 She deserves the shallow, unfulfilled life she will end up with.

Vicki Perizzolo
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

you're a selfish self-center b*atch... you need a serious reality check.. whiner

Dulcie Tolcher
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Empty headed, selfish, jealous and needs kicking to the kerb. Needs a job as well.

Sabrina
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

CB is circuit breaker aka lockdown in Covid-19 or "cheebye" in mandarin Hokkien.

Margaret Weaver
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This person needs to be shot. I could not finish reading the post because my supper came up. I wish I was joking.

Jackie Bacquié
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Trouve un job et paie toi-même ton sac Chanel, espèce d'assistée !

Judy Watson
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This one needs to lose everything and go live on the street for awhile!

Sandra Morison
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Get off you lazy backside and earn your own luxury items..........poor boyfriend hope he dumps her

Jag Yu
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

social mountaineering and mining at its best (or worst, whichever way you see it.)

Cara G
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am DYING to tell her that the likelihood of her LV wallet being authentic is literally 1%. The interlocking Vuitton logo was originally designed to avoid counterfeiting in the mid-19th century when the brand strictly made luxury luggage. Now 99% of all LV merchandise produced globally is fake because of how easy it is to replicate.

J
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

WTF, I'm happy having someone who loves me. He could afford to do all that but I doesn't impress me. I'd rather make my own money, than spend my husbands money.

Tyranamar Seuss
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How in the hell can people afford stuff like this on $4000 per month? And why?

LynzCatastrophe
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So a good bf is one who spends lots of money on you?! What have you done that has been worth a boyfriend at all?

Zephyr343
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wife asked for a new impact driver for Xmas. Guess life could be worse.

Donna Leslie
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This woman will never experience the bliss of feeling head over heels in love, she'll spend her life being judged by her friends, as she clearly judges everyone around her. My boyfriend earns very little, but I have never loved anyone more, I feel honoured to have the opportunity of sharing my life with him.

Private Caller
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Other bf isn't smart with his finances. Yall a whole bill. I could never.

h to da izzle
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

F**k off and i hope you get to live in the woods with just the clothes you have on your body. Oh how i despise these people.

Rigor Moreno
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope his bf read this and dump her immediately so she could lose everything. She'll know the difference for sure...

Jane Cortez
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh my God! I hope that all of the people like this are thrown to the curb and have to live by their own dimwits in hopefully deep, dejected poverty.

Niki A
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well, now that the manure spreader has stopped.... what an ungrateful heffalump!

Lara Verne
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

$700 for a wallet? Whoa. Well, I know it's not the main issue here, but WTF is that person thinking? Louis Vuitton is for poor people? Boyfriend give her "only" 500 just for her own spending? Boyfriend should find better girlfriend.

Just me
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow...with that obnoxious personality, your husband needs no enemies, he's got you to do the job.

MimSorensson
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can’t with this one. No, got nothing, except of course RUN DUDE!! RUN TO THE HILLS, RUN FOR YOUR *LIFE*!!!!

Jesse Corder
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Running the numbers on the cost of gifts is grade-A trash behavior.

LooseSeal's $10 Banana
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

These folks are living in an entirely different reality from the one I inhabit.

Rune Hamme
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

seriously, you better get out of here with your nasty, disgusting, scummy, ungrateful s**t unless you want to be terminated by brutal people on the internet XD

The Veil of Fire
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And I got excited when I found a cool, no name, leather shoulder drop purse with fringe (rodeo season, cowboy fringe is "in"), for just $10.00. Still got it and it comes out during rodeo time. would not know what to do with just a wallet for $700. Just hand me the $700. I'll buy myself a $5.00 wallet put the rest in the bank and be thrilled with the gift.

Zachary Gillette
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Um, I make over 4K a month too and I'd never buy any of that garbage. Also, who gives their GF an allowance?

The Other Other White Meat
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

M'lady, tis called getting a job and buying your own s**t. Thanks for coming to my TED talk.

Lory
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sorry she's a selfish donkey. I thought I would splurge and bought myself a Coach bag and I thought I spent a lot of money.

Melissa
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not necessarily. The sister might just have a really generous man who loves her and she appreciates him...unlike this brat.

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Neuropotathy
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

U don't have to ask me twice to lament about women being greedy. But this is a blatant troll.

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#12

This Guy Chose To Get His Wife Pregnant Rather Than Be Alone

This Guy Chose To Get His Wife Pregnant Rather Than Be Alone

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Explain your position. Tell them how you feel when they don’t trust you or talk down to you. Set some clear and healthy boundaries. Though, keep in mind, a single conversation won’t save your relationship—it’ll take time and effort for real change to happen.

If that doesn’t work, you may want to consider couples counseling. Having a neutral third party give you a helping hand can work wonders. However, not all relationships can—or should—be saved.

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#13

My Facebook Friend Posted Her Boyfriends Debit Card Info Because He Wouldn’t Give Her $40 To Get Her Nails Done

My Facebook Friend Posted Her Boyfriends Debit Card Info Because He Wouldn’t Give Her $40 To Get Her Nails Done

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My Sisters Boyfriend Trying To Guilt Her By Saying He Helped Her With Problems

My Sisters Boyfriend Trying To Guilt Her By Saying He Helped Her With Problems

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#15

Looking For Fun (Aka Sex) While Husband Is Deployed, But You Must Attractive Smart And Drug Free To Cheat With Her

Looking For Fun (Aka Sex) While Husband Is Deployed, But You Must Attractive Smart And Drug Free To Cheat With Her

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Libstak
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wonder if some of these type of posts are done by 3rd party frienemies as revenge for perceived wrongs?

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If your partner is physically or emotionally abusing you, reach out to a counselor or an organization for advice specific to your situation. These professionals can support you as you consider what to do next. There is no excuse for abuse.

#16

Girl Accuses Boyfriend Of Leaving Her After He And His Family Discover She's Been Faking Her Pregnancy For 8 Months

Girl Accuses Boyfriend Of Leaving Her After He And His Family Discover She's Been Faking Her Pregnancy For 8 Months

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HardieBoysMama
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is the type of person that finds a needy pregnant woman, tricks her into meeting up by offering baby clothes, then tries to cut the baby out of her body.

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Context: He Posted A Pic Of Himself And His Wife On R/Tinder And Then Commented This S**t - His Brother In Law Then Saw The Post And The Comment

Context: He Posted A Pic Of Himself And His Wife On R/Tinder And Then Commented This S**t - His Brother In Law Then Saw The Post And The Comment

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#18

Husband Who Is Struggling To Make Ends Meet Gets Mad At Wife For"Lowering Herself" Because She Found Coupons In The Trash To Feed Her Kids

Husband Who Is Struggling To Make Ends Meet Gets Mad At Wife For"Lowering Herself" Because She Found Coupons In The Trash To Feed Her Kids

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What separates ‘nice guys’ from everyone else is the lack of genuine confidence. These ‘nice guys’ have a victim mentality and lash out at the people around them when things don’t go their way.

Again, this isn’t gender-specific: anyone can be toxic, it’s not just guys who are jerks.

#19

Can’t Get Ahold Of Boyfriend, She Cheats, And He Is In The Hospital

Can’t Get Ahold Of Boyfriend, She Cheats, And He Is In The Hospital

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Wife's Time Of The Month

Wife's Time Of The Month

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Jessica Bertram
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

WHY SO YELLY? also, it IS that time of the month...that time where she educates this troglodyte about how easy it is to disappear a body.

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#21

Married Niceguy™ Looking To Cheat After He Acts Like A Husband For A Night And It Didn't Get Him Laid

Married Niceguy™ Looking To Cheat After He Acts Like A Husband For A Night And It Didn't Get Him Laid

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HelluvaHedgehogAlien
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Am I the only one who is also concerned about the EYES of the human in the picture underneath that disgusting text?

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A while ago, Bored Panda touched on the topic of building a genuine sense of confidence. A fitness expert explained to us that it all comes down to proving that “you’re not a victim.” He suggested focusing on small tasks and small victories at first.

According to the expert, helping others in need, taking care of your health, advancing in your career, and focusing on having a successful relationship are some of the things that will instill a sense of confidence. 

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#22

Trashy Girl Tried To Kill Her Boyfriend Instead Of Just Asking Questions

Trashy Girl Tried To Kill Her Boyfriend Instead Of Just Asking Questions

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#23

I Can't For The Life Of Me Understand Why Her Boyfriend Has A Problem With This

I Can't For The Life Of Me Understand Why Her Boyfriend Has A Problem With This

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#24

My Girlfriend's Ex's List From Circa 2009 For Getting Back Together

My Girlfriend's Ex's List From Circa 2009 For Getting Back Together

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“When you’re successful in one area you build confidence in yourself and that will translate to all of your life,” he said, earlier.

However, positive changes aren’t instant. They take time. The fitness expert noted that “your brain needs proof around your new identity."

"Confidence comes from repetition and mastery. The more you do ANYTHING, the more confident you become. The good news about this is everyone is capable of earning confidence," he explained.

#25

Just Nice Guy Alen, Looking To Cheat On His Wife And Have You Cheat On Your Husband

Just Nice Guy Alen, Looking To Cheat On His Wife And Have You Cheat On Your Husband

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#27

"I'm Sorry" Says The Nice Guy Who Verbally Abused His Wife So Badly She Left Him In The Middle Of The Night

"I'm Sorry" Says The Nice Guy Who Verbally Abused His Wife So Badly She Left Him In The Middle Of The Night

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"Responding to failure is all about the story we tell ourselves. Do you tell yourself that you are a failure? Or do you tell yourself you failed, have now gotten feedback, and know how to get better? It’s all our perspective," he pointed out that we control how we respond to criticism and feedback. Some run away from uncomfortable truths. Others use them to grow and become better people, for the sake of their loved ones.

Many men featured on the r/niceguys subreddit are prime examples of toxic masculinity: they have a misogynistic attitude that arises from distorted ideas of what they ‘should’ be like.

A psychotherapist explained to us some time ago that people like that tend to think that men should “never be ‘weak’ or ‘soft’” or vulnerable. People who embody the traits of toxic masculinity feel that they always need to be winners and they tend to look down on women, as well as their rights.

#28

Police Officer Cheats On His Wife While On Duty And Gets The Other Girl Pregnant

Police Officer Cheats On His Wife While On Duty And Gets The Other Girl Pregnant

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rspanther
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How are you not to blame also? You knew he was married and slept with him. Vile people.

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#30

Ex Girlfriend Texts Me At Around 11:30 For A Hookup. Shes Married And Her Army Husband Is Deployed

Ex Girlfriend Texts Me At Around 11:30 For A Hookup. Shes Married And Her Army Husband Is Deployed

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“A man with healthy masculinity is the opposite to these traits: someone who is self-reflective, embraces their emotions including sadness, anxiety and crying, a man who isn't afraid of their own femininity and believes that women are equal, and therefore are very clear about respecting boundaries and consent with women,” the psychotherapist told Bored Panda during an earlier interview.

He added that healthy masculinity allows men to feel comfortable with having their opinions challenged. They’re open-minded and willing to have debates because they’re not scared of being proven wrong.

#31

When Your Maid Of Honor Sleeps With Your Husband

When Your Maid Of Honor Sleeps With Your Husband

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Sonja
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is a horrible person, but for cheating it needs two people. If the husband doesn't say no to her, he's no better.

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#32

"Good News, My Wife Died. Suh, Ladies."

"Good News, My Wife Died. Suh, Ladies."

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Katie Andrews
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Speaking as a widow, this s**t is all too common. Men don't take the time to grieve, to do the hard internal work, to re-create a new life without their spouse. Nope, he wants to replace one NPC with another NPC. He wants an intelligent pack mule who will cook, clean, have sex, etc. My insistence on living apart together, and keeping all finances separate works wonders to weed out all bums. Like me for me as a person, not for what I can do for you. And yes, was married twice, 25 years, happy the second time for 17 years. Just don't want to live with any man again. Love my space, peace, and quiet, would just like fun companionship. And I prefer a grown-a*s man who can take care of himself like a real adult.

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#33

My Ex Wifes Response To Why She Could Be Trusted Not To Have Another Affair

My Ex Wifes Response To Why She Could Be Trusted Not To Have Another Affair

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#34

Husband’s Gift To His Wife This Morning. Hopefully She Gives Him A Divorce

Husband’s Gift To His Wife This Morning. Hopefully She Gives Him A Divorce

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#36

Husband Cheating On Wife With Maid. Posted On A Community Yard Sale Site

Husband Cheating On Wife With Maid. Posted On A Community Yard Sale Site

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#37

This Is The 'Ex' Husband Of My Girlfriend's Best Friend. She's Been Trying To Get A Divorce From Him For Almost A Year, He Won't Sign The Papers But Will Message Her Friends And Coworkers, Constantly Lying About Her Cheating And Making Himself Out To Be The Victim

This Is The 'Ex' Husband Of My Girlfriend's Best Friend. She's Been Trying To Get A Divorce From Him For Almost A Year, He Won't Sign The Papers But Will Message Her Friends And Coworkers, Constantly Lying About Her Cheating And Making Himself Out To Be The Victim

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#38

My Ex Asking Me To Take Her To Pick Up Her Boyfriend From Jail And Her Response When I Said No

My Ex Asking Me To Take Her To Pick Up Her Boyfriend From Jail And Her Response When I Said No

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#39

His Wife May Have Just Posted Her Husbands Last Facebook Update

His Wife May Have Just Posted Her Husbands Last Facebook Update

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#40

What My Neighbors (Ex?) Boyfriend Did To Her Apartment Door

What My Neighbors (Ex?) Boyfriend Did To Her Apartment Door

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#41

Nice Guy Husband Turning Bitter Because Wife Had Male Friends Before Marriage

Nice Guy Husband Turning Bitter Because Wife Had Male Friends Before Marriage

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HelluvaHedgehogAlien
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

‘Plus I was nice guy’ huh, if you say you’re ‘nice’ on first encounters on the internet, there’s a high chance you’re not

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#42

My Friends Boyfriend Sent Her This… For Saying She Needs Space To Spend Time With Her Dad On Father’s Day

My Friends Boyfriend Sent Her This… For Saying She Needs Space To Spend Time With Her Dad On Father’s Day

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Ches Yamada
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Why don't you enjoy the fact that there's a guy out there that cares about you and ... loves you with his whole heart". Yeah, her DAD, f#ck off it's Father's Day.

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#43

Posting On Fb About Abusing Your Boyfriend

Posting On Fb About Abusing Your Boyfriend

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HelluvaHedgehogAlien
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A towel? I threw a towel at my rude roommate who tried to feed chocolate to my dog :( and THEN I slapped her

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#44

Advertising The Passing Of Your Husband

Advertising The Passing Of Your Husband

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Three Years Ago, My Ex-Wife Was Concerned About Losing Her Alimony If She Remarried. At The Time Said I’d Pay It For At Least Another Year. That Was Forgotten Until This Morning:

Three Years Ago, My Ex-Wife Was Concerned About Losing Her Alimony If She Remarried. At The Time Said I’d Pay It For At Least Another Year. That Was Forgotten Until This Morning:

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#46

When You Are Selling Nudes Of Your Wife On Facebook

When You Are Selling Nudes Of Your Wife On Facebook

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Anne
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She kinda looks drugged.. But she may be into this.. I know girls that are.

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#47

A Visual Representation Of My Rage When So Aggressively Took Back His Very First Heartfelt Apology Because He Did "Nothing Wrong" And Was "Forced" To Say Sorry

A Visual Representation Of My Rage When So Aggressively Took Back His Very First Heartfelt Apology Because He Did "Nothing Wrong" And Was "Forced" To Say Sorry

SO has not once in 3 years stuck an an agreement. Every promise broken. Many times, he has lied to my face about it. Every time denies he was wrong or minimizes the issue. Then he attacks me (I am controlling, constantly berate him, I'm selfish, "on a high horse" etc). He didn't do anything wrong! This is my fault, my problem. He is the victim of my inflexibility!
 
🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
 
We have been to counseling specifically because he breaks agreements. We've also talked A LOT about how inappropriately he responds when confronted with a wrong doing and have been working on helping him learn alternative ways to react.
 
This weekend was his second chance to actually stick to an agreement and apply everything we worked on (he blew the first chance, shockingly). But guess who didn't stick to the agreement?! I chewed him out and that's when the "forced apology" came. Not long after he stormed into the bedroom, took it back, and then DARVOed me.

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Lakota Wolf
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"DARVO (an acronym for "deny, attack, and reverse victim and offender") is a reaction that perpetrators of wrongdoing, particularly sexual offenders, may display in response to being held accountable for their behavior."

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#48

My Ex Girlfriend. Self Explanatory To Get A Cheaper Cutting Board

My Ex Girlfriend. Self Explanatory To Get A Cheaper Cutting Board

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Nice Little Text Exchange I Found On My Boyfriend’s Phone Today To His Girl Best Friend. 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼😃😃💕💕what A Sweet Man🫠

Nice Little Text Exchange I Found On My Boyfriend’s Phone Today To His Girl Best Friend. 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼😃😃💕💕what A Sweet Man🫠

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Genericist
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ehh, this one's borderline without context. Why was she going through his phone anyway?

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#50

Husband Just Doing A Little Jail Time

Husband Just Doing A Little Jail Time

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Lakota Wolf
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"hwp"? "d/d free"? I'm 40 and I grew up with the internet and this made me feel old and out of touch XD

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#51

Wife Gets Stabbed By “Dope Pipe” By Husband. He Posts On Facebook. Tags Her Then The Comments Start

Wife Gets Stabbed By “Dope Pipe” By Husband. He Posts On Facebook. Tags Her Then The Comments Start

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Sonja
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The problem wit NiceGuys™ is not that they're insecure or whatever. The problem is that they don't see women as equals or even humans. It their minds 'females' are subhuman, less worthy than males. They truly believe, for what reason ever, that a woman is generally less intelligent, less able and their emotions less real than their own. That is why for them spending time with any woman is just a hassle they have to go through to get sex. So they think completely normal human interaction is already being nice when done to a woman. Because they don't believe that a woman deserves the same respect and consideration than a man. So if they behave normal and decent against a woman they only do so to get something. And that's also why they believe a woman just being nice is leading them on. Because that's what they do. Their whole existence is transactional. While normal people go on dates to have a good time and get to know each other they only go on dates to prepay for sex later.

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#52

She Was Looking For A New Boyfriend Not Even A Week After Her Last One Died Of A Drug Overdose

She Was Looking For A New Boyfriend Not Even A Week After Her Last One Died Of A Drug Overdose

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He Is "The Most Respecting Guy" While Explicitly Disrespecting My Request For Him To Refrain From Responding. This Is My Now Ex Husband Who Touched Me While He Thought I Was Sleeping, Knowing My History Of Sa While Sleeping. His Begging For Another Chance Was Triggering So I Tried To Tell Him

He Is "The Most Respecting Guy" While Explicitly Disrespecting My Request For Him To Refrain From Responding. This Is My Now Ex Husband Who Touched Me While He Thought I Was Sleeping, Knowing My History Of Sa While Sleeping. His Begging For Another Chance Was Triggering So I Tried To Tell Him

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Belynda Young
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hmm I am wondering if she had a paralyzed dream. I have had a few, I have dreamt that I was yelling at my husband to help me .This happened several times. The ptsd she has from the trauma may cause very realistic dreams.

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