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Occasionally people need a push in the right direction. And sometimes that advice can come from weird places such as TikTok. That doesn’t mean that this advice is bad – TikTok can produce something of acceptable worth too.
So, when this TikTok user posted a video of “tips for men”, a lot of women noted that men should be writing these tips down.
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Image credits: MandatoryFunDay
“For men: Just move one thing and look behind it in the pantry or the fridge and the thing you’re looking for is probably there”
“Don’t ask her where it is. They get really mad and they say ‘Look with your eyes you smelly [idiot].'”
Image credits: mandatoryfunday
“Also, make her a stocking”
“Go to Ulta or Sephora or whatever store that you know she goes to a lot and buy a couple little trinkets in there and put it in a, it can’t be normal sock, don’t use the normal sock, put it in an actual stocking. Make her a stocking, it’ll make her whole year.”
Image credits: Timur Weber (not the actual photo)
“Wear deodorant: I can’t believe I even have to say that one”
“If there’s things that she always asks you to do, try and like, foresee the future and look around for those things and then do them before she asks.”
Image credits: mandatoryfunday
“When you’re trying to help her in the house, don’t ask for a list”
“Having an itemized list on hand of things that they want us to do is very helpful for men but it infuriates women for some reason. Like, they just make them mad, I don’t know.”
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@mandatoryfunday I hope these tips help @Tyler Butterworth #military #veteran #milspouse ♬ original sound – MandatoryFunDay
The original video is a stitch video posted by TikTok user @mandatoryfunday. He is a military service member with a decade of experience. The creator says that he uses his platforms, such as TikTok, to spread positivity to the armed forces by making comedic content. His TikTok has over 500K followers and nearly 49M likes.
The video he stitched was Tyler Butterworth’s video of tips for men, only his tips were a little different from the video we are discussing. It seems that the market for TikTok videos of men exchanging advice is quite big. Maybe soon it’ll turn into some kind of new TikTok trend? Or maybe it already is? Well, we just hope that these videos land on men’s For You Pages and have any effect on them.
And that’s what a lot of women on TikTok think as well. Apparently, @mandatoryfunday’s video appeared on a lot of women’s FYP. That prompted the reaction that we can call, in the words of one commenter, “Put this on his FYP, not mine.”
Another kind of reaction was also from women (for real, why did so many women and not men get this video on their feed?), who extended the given advice. More specifically, they explained why women tend to react the way he describes to some things mentioned in the video and how applying his advice would stop them from reacting this way. So, men, if you ever find any of these videos on your FYP, take a look at the comments and maybe consider applying the given tips to your behavior.
Image credits: Alex Green (not the actual photo)
Tips for men to better themselves are not a new thing. After all, it’s just advice, and that, well, we guess has existed since the beginning of time in one way or another. For example, back in the first half of the 20th century, the Daily Mail featured “The Agony Aunt” column or simply an advice column based on readers’ questions.
And, of course, these advice columns did not shy away from giving tips for men as well. For example:
- There’s no need to be handsome;
- There’s no shame in being caught in the kitchen;
- Be sure to smarten up;
- Don’t be afraid to be a hands-on father;
- Make sure you’re reliable with money.
What we can say is that these tips offer an interesting insight into what things were considered worthwhile advice for men back in the day. Also, even though they are almost 100 years old, some of them could still be applied today. So, again, men, keep that in mind.
“Put this on his FYP, not mine”: women online note that men should listen to the given advice
What do you think ?
MrsFettesVette 12 months ago
Lists of household chores, as well as the question, "do you need help?" Are infuriating because we are equal residents of the home and users of the homes resources. I hate being asked if I "need help" with household chores because my husband can see that they need to be done. If your clothes need to be put away, do that. If there's a dish in the sink, just wash it. Asking if I need help comes across as just going through the motions because I'm usually halfway through doing that thing anyway and don't need help. I'd rather you say nothing than ask me helplessly if I need help. I probably dont- but I would love it if you noticed that the toilet needs scrubbing or the dusting needs to be done and just did it.
MrsFettesVette 12 months ago
I know I sound like kind of a jerk but this is probably my biggest pet peeve and clearly this article touched a nerve.
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Ace 12 months ago
This is not a Tips for Men article, but more a Tips for Morons. Most of them work both ways equally, and some of them are just ridiculous, hard to believe any man (or woman) could be that stupid. But, and I mean it's a big BUT, when we ask if you know where something is, we don't expect you to stop what you're doing and come look, all you need to do is say "No, I don't know". Don't get annoyed at me asking, or refuse to answer, just say no.
Hphizzle 11 months ago
Saying “I don’t know” is probably a lie, because she probably knows exactly where it is. Thus not making the situation any better. Break the habit of asking before actually looking. Give yourself a literal minute to actually search before asking.
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ConstantlyJon 12 months ago
Yikes. I think there are definitely men who need to hear these things, but also I don't think a lot of it applies to all men or even to all women and what they want. The best thing to do is to communicate with your partner to see how they best operate and what you can do to be co-exist with them in the same space. My wife, for one, loves making lists for me because she loves making lists for herself. And she loves when I make lists for myself. That's her. The idea of "well don't do that because women don't like that for some reason" is bad and he should feel bad.
Ace 11 months ago
If someone made me a list of chores I would subconsciously do everything in my power to avoid doing anything on the list. Don't make me any lists.
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MrsFettesVette 12 months ago
Lists of household chores, as well as the question, "do you need help?" Are infuriating because we are equal residents of the home and users of the homes resources. I hate being asked if I "need help" with household chores because my husband can see that they need to be done. If your clothes need to be put away, do that. If there's a dish in the sink, just wash it. Asking if I need help comes across as just going through the motions because I'm usually halfway through doing that thing anyway and don't need help. I'd rather you say nothing than ask me helplessly if I need help. I probably dont- but I would love it if you noticed that the toilet needs scrubbing or the dusting needs to be done and just did it.
MrsFettesVette 12 months ago
I know I sound like kind of a jerk but this is probably my biggest pet peeve and clearly this article touched a nerve.
Load More Replies... Ace 12 months ago
This is not a Tips for Men article, but more a Tips for Morons. Most of them work both ways equally, and some of them are just ridiculous, hard to believe any man (or woman) could be that stupid. But, and I mean it's a big BUT, when we ask if you know where something is, we don't expect you to stop what you're doing and come look, all you need to do is say "No, I don't know". Don't get annoyed at me asking, or refuse to answer, just say no.
Hphizzle 11 months ago
Saying “I don’t know” is probably a lie, because she probably knows exactly where it is. Thus not making the situation any better. Break the habit of asking before actually looking. Give yourself a literal minute to actually search before asking.
Load More Replies... ConstantlyJon 12 months ago
Yikes. I think there are definitely men who need to hear these things, but also I don't think a lot of it applies to all men or even to all women and what they want. The best thing to do is to communicate with your partner to see how they best operate and what you can do to be co-exist with them in the same space. My wife, for one, loves making lists for me because she loves making lists for herself. And she loves when I make lists for myself. That's her. The idea of "well don't do that because women don't like that for some reason" is bad and he should feel bad.
Ace 11 months ago
If someone made me a list of chores I would subconsciously do everything in my power to avoid doing anything on the list. Don't make me any lists.
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