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We all have some things about ourselves that might seem weird to others. Maybe we have peculiar eating habits, and we see or do some things differently. And these things might seem like a norm to us. But what if one day you realize that what you thought to be a regular thing is actually a pretty rare occurrence for others? Reddit user @u/ComfortableMess3145 was curious to know what were some things that people thought to be normal until they realized that they aren't. 

The question that received 1.3K answers got some interesting responses. A lot of people shared that for the longest time, they didn’t know they had a certain condition such as astigmatism, ADHD, or some kind of allergy. Other users revealed that their “not normal thing” usually came from their household. The examples included being expected to always ask for every little thing instead of just taking or doing it, or being used to big family fights. 

Do you have something to add to this list? Don’t forget to leave your thoughts in the comments down below!

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Subconsciously adapting my speech patterns to whoever is around me. I'll start picking up their accent, words they use frequently, etc. Turns out, this is a common thing neurodiverse people, and it's more seen in women if I'm not mistaken. It could cause me issues, however. Thing is, I'm much more self conscious about this when I talk to black people, bc I'm white... And I swear I'm not trying to do a "blaccent" on purpose. It just... Kind of happens.

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online I have astigmatism so I see light in streaks. For the longest time I thought that was how everyone saw it.

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Not everyone struggles to concentrate on a task or have the mental energy to take care of things. Apparently I have ADD. I found out two years ago life didn’t have to be a daily struggle when I started taking a medication for a sleep problem and one of its off label uses is to treat ADD.

I was actually told repeatedly as a kid I had ADHD but they always told me it was my fault and treated it as if the issue was voluntary. So I grew up believing I was just a lazy day dreamer who gets overly stressed by having too many tasks. I’ve lived my life thinking everyone else was better than me because they can get things done. Nope, I’ve just need meds my entire life. Now I wonder how different my childhood would have been if I had been treated back then.

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online having a good relationship with your own parents. wasn’t until i made good friends that i realised how lucky my relationship is with my parents bc so many of my friends did not like family life.

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Having to hide when you’re parents are fighting, I only found out this was not normal when I went to a friends house and their parents had a argument that I expected to turn into a screaming fit just like it does with my parents. I got up expecting to have to hide with my friend before they started full on fighting. I was then informed by his concerned parents that it’s not normal to have to do that.

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Hearing music play even when you aren’t listening to anything. And no I’m not talking about when you have a song stuck in your head and it’s just your thoughts singing the lyrics, I mean actually hearing music when nothing is there.

I use to think my house was haunted by a ghost that loved to play music. Later on as I got older I thought it just happens to everyone. Until I read about “Musical Hallucinations” online and found out how rare it actually is.

And no it’s not fun.

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online The ability to make a roaring noise in my ears by tensing a muscle.

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Picturing things in your head. I have a friend with aphantasia and she was flabbergasted when she realized people could visualize things in their brain.

Imperfect_Beluga , Andres Alvarado Report

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online I always thought when you try to talk to someone about something they do that bugs you or is just something that you feel the need to bring up because it effects you, that its normal for the person to get upset when you bring it up, and for them to disagree with you, resulting in yelling and fighting. I always thought this until I was talking with my friend about something they do that really pisses me off, and they just sat there, and thanked me for bringing it to there attention, and was completely chill about it, no yelling or argumenting. It was a weird feeling because I just kept waiting for the disagreeing and yelling to happen, and when it didn't I felt like something was missing? lol.

_yUkO_IDK , Jean and Fred Hort Report

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#10

30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Being able to blur and unblur your eyes on command 🙂

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#11

30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online I always thought the after effect for eating fresh cherries was a scratchy throat, with this weird tight feeling. Mild though but it would last about 30 minutes.

After eating 2 cherries earlier this year I ended up having a severe allergic reaction and discovered that cherries aren't meant to do that and I've just been allergic to them this whole time. 😅

ComfortableMess3145 , Luke Jones Report

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online I was joking around with my friends in 8th grade History and we were trying to see how many pencils we could stick into my friend's afro (with his consent) and right as I was trying to lift my arm and put the pencil in his hair one of them cracked a joke that sent us into a fit of laughter. My arms went limp and when my friends started coaxing me to put it in I told them I couldn't.

They were noticably confused, so when I regained my composure I explained that everytime I laugh, my muscles go limp and I am not be able to move them. It ranges from droopy head and weak knees, to full body collapse.
Because of the term "roll over laughing" and portrayals of people in media falling over in laughter I thought this happened to everyone, and they were just better at controlling it. My friends all agreed that it in fact did not happen to them, and that I should get it checked with a doctor.

1 year later I was diagnosed Type 1 Narcolepsy: a sleep disorder characterized by excessive daytime sleepiness, and Cataplexy. Cataplexy happens when a trigger, such as strong emotions like laughter or fear, trigger a sudden loss of muscle tone, making it difficult to move, stand, or even breathe.

I was lucky to be diagnosed as early and quick as I was, since the condition is widely unknown outside of the context of Narcolepsy patients and specialists. The symptoms of Narcolepsy are so common, in both puberty where it starts to present more heavily, and other diagnoses such and depression and anxiety. Its estimated that around 1 in 2,000 people have this disorder, and the lucky few that actually get diagnosed usually only do so later in life after 5-10+ years of multiple tests and misdiagnoses.


The takeaway from this is that if you think that other people "deal with it better" or "suck it up" or "control it better" chances are that's not normal, and you should speak up about it.

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#13

30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Having to deliberately learn all your social skills. I assumed other people just got more practice, because I didn't have many friends growing up. Years of work did help me a lot, but I only recently realized most people learn these things without thinking much about it.
I'ts like the difference between glancing at a sentence and immediately getting its meaning, vs. figuring out each word letter by letter.

Sterna-hirundo , S.C. Axman Report

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A Thousand Years Wide
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have similar struggles and am not on the spectrum. Just wasn't socialized much as a child. People have thought I was on the spectrum though and it is disheartening. Just had a different childhood. Edit: it's disheartening to me because people just assume I have condition and not just because I am different or have a different experience, not that there is anything wrong with any conditions or being on the spectrum.

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SealOfDisapproval
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I more or less had to do this too. At the age of six I became aware that there were these rules that others seemed to know and I didn't, so I set out to learn them. Turns out, it's not really possible, because the rules are not really rules, more like flexible guidelines that change with the situation they are applied in. Socializing is exhausting, I need to pay constant attention to what is going on, and when I notice I got something wrong, it's already too late.

Reviewer UK01
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My school tried to cure my lack of skills by forcing me to work in groups all the time as this would automatically improve things. Don't actually TEACH me anything, just make me do it? Yeah, let's try piano lessons by just wheeling in a piano and demanding results.

Katie Lutesinger
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm autistic, and have had people tell me in all seriousness "but you write characters way too well! I think you were misdiagnosed!" I write characters as well as I do because I had to spend years carefully studying people in order to figure out how you're supposed to interact with them! It must have worked because I also have people telling me "really? You seem completely normal to me". Some autistic people find that offensive, but I don't because it means I'm successfully fitting in.

Phoney Account
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Really? I thought everyone had to learn how to do this. I’m still learning new things all the time and I’m 40.

tl gmc
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Same but 30, I see no problem with learning and revising social skills. But I need at least a day or 2 being alone

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sturmwesen
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The main difference for me is that some people can copy and adapt behaviour without realizing others have to make a concious decision and effort to do so.

Phobrek Taz
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This resonates. My sense is that for most people, they intuitively mimic social interaction. My early attempts were like a robot or alien clumsily replicating behavior without any understanding of it.

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Lisa H
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I....still have a lot of social skills to learn. It does not come natural to me and the result has always been embarrassing myself and/or the people around me. I ask people to teach me and I just get treated like a weirdo. So, it's normal for people to just know social etiquette and strange to not? Like, this isn't something that people are deliberately taught?

SlothyK8
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I felt that so hard. I'm always so afraid of embarrassing myself or others because I'm still learning. I grew up very isolated and it's taken years to even be able to hang around with others without staying stupid stuff.

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Basil Ignatov
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yup, same here: I've been diagnosed with autism and 20 years later was specifically un-diagnosed because I'm "too social and good at non-verbal communication". Thats some hard work!:D

Katie Lutesinger
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've had people tell me I can't be autistic because I figured out how to fit in too well. It's good to know all my hard work paid off. :p

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Phobrek Taz
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It was in the 2nd grade that I wondered if I had been absent from school on the day that my peers were taught how to talk to each other. I imagined that there might have been a little guidebook or manual they'd gotten that told them how to just interact with each other. This was in the 1970s. If we could send little me a psychotherapist via time travel I'd appreciate it.

Phoney Account
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Really? I thought this was normal. I just assumed I was stupid when it came to social ques. Like you should say good bye to everyone when you leave a party, or if you get up to get a drink, offer them something, ask them questions about what they like. I only learned this from watching my boyfriend’s action.

Brenda Spagnola-Wilson
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

ADD, ADHD & Autistic people can all have trouble with this. They don't pick up social cues like others. They can learn over time. Early behavioral therapy makes a big difference for them

Hime
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This also took me WAY too long to figure out that I wasn't learning/understanding social situations like my peers. Looking back it was so obvious, but I'm middle aged now and still struggle so much. I always feel like I'm years behind, a day late and a dollar short, all the time.

Micha Perez
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Masking is what this is called, common with neurodivergent people.

Stephanie Paich
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have Asperger's, I had to take social skills classes when I was diagnosed.

DetongLhamo
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’m 54 and I used to be very gregarious until Covid came along. Now I struggle to speak with friends and even extended family.

Baali Venomax
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm still learning my social skills. Having a Narcissist Dad and Narcs as people around you(not really friends) throughout your life means your social skills at best are warped and at worse, don't exist.

Lady Lava
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oof, this hits home... Two years ago I was diagnosed with autism, and that explains A LOT. I had a hard time fitting in when I was a kid. Eventually I learned most of my social skills by watching and imitating others. I can behave socially in an acceptable way, although sometimes I miss subtle social cues, and in that case people need to be explicit about it for me to understand. I do have friends now and I have a spouse and child, but socializing still takes a lot of my energy. And for people who will look well it might still be a bit "off" sometimes, I think. How great it must be when all of this is just going smooth and intuitive...!

Another Amy
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Some of us struggle with this because we just weren't parented well. If no one ever shows you how to introduce yourself, for example, then you simply don't know how to do it. Same with many many other things.

Rachknits
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes. I'm autistic and have learned to socialise by copying. The problem was is that I would watch characters on TV etc and think that it was a real representation so sometimes ran into issues because tv drama is called drama for a reason! It's also why I love reality shows (much more so in the early ones as now participants are often deliberately fake) and psychology

Whitefox
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I never knew I was neurodiverse growing up and tried to so hard to learn the things that seemed to come naturally for others. I had to study people a lot to figure out social cues and sometimes still get very confused if people mix them like laughing/ crying at the same time.

SobyKay
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Same, my friend. I had a traumatic childhood and always blamed my lack of social skills on ptsd. Turns out that I also have ASD. Ta-da!!

Diana Pahule
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I sincerely believe I lost crucial development in Jr. High while I was being bullied.

Courtney Christelle
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm not autistic but I am WAY awkward and clumsy with social interactions.

rodger coghlan
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am still unable to imagine how other people will react to something

GlamourGhoul
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My daughter is on the spectrum and has this sort of issue. Has a lot of trouble making friends with kids her age, but older kids and teenagers seem to get her, and treat her so kindly!!

Niki A
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had no idea how to make friends until I met my husband. I literally ended up just doing what he does.

Bad Mole
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Same, then was diagnosed as high-functioning autistic last year.

Nicole Tomme
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This could be in rare cases a severe social disorder (sociopathy), difficulty caused by being on the spectrum for autism, or a learning disorder. Or it could be that no one simply bothered being a good example of social behavioral norms for you. Good news is even if you have to consciously learn it, you can. At the end of the day that is all that matters. With autism, though, you may learn what you do but not fully understand why certain behaviors are acceptable of unacceptable. Also okay. It is always okay to ask. I am saying this as someone who was worked in mental health, been the one seated on the couch, and someone who knows people with aspergers, learning disabilities, syndromes, etc. Don't feel bad that it "isn't normal." Everyone's normal is different. This article is proof.

El Dee
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is definitely a wide spectrum, even as old as I am I feel I am still learning about how to deal with people now..

BonnyDK
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My husband is like that. Social cues are right over his understanding.

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Apparently most people can't reach their entire back with their hands. I never knew backscratchers had an actual purpose.

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Not being able to watch Movies/Shows without Close Captions or subtitles. Also never understanding what they are sayin on the radio. Turns out, I have an Auditory Processing Disorder. If I don't see peoples lips moving my brain doesn't recognize they are words more than half the time

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online That most people aren't constantly aware of their heart beating, and dont get numb legs just from walking a few metres uphill, and don't lie in bed at night wondering whether they'll die in their sleep because their heart does funky things when they lay down.

Turns out I have a heart condition lol. I feel so at peace now that I'm on medication for it

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online I thought it was normal for every friend group to have one person that everyone picked on for no reason. I don't mean light roasting, I mean legitimately bullying them and putting them down. My brother's friend group had one, with my brother being a primary instigator. I was the punching bag in my middle school friend group. It took until the end of high school/the beginning of college for me to actually be treated like a person and realize that friends aren't supposed to make you feel like s**t about yourself.

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online I’ve played violin since I was 3 years old. So, I learned the letter names of each string and the finger numbers. And, whenever I heard a song, I always thought of a letter or number with each note. To me, it was plainly obvious what each letter and number was, and my brain even expanded the letter/number system to work with cello and the entire piano range.

Turns out, not every violinist has this, let alone absolute pitch (frequency in Western countries: 1 in 10 000). When I was 20, I discovered it was synesthesia, a harmless linking of senses/concepts in the brain.

That seemed to check out since people’s faces often have smells/tastes associated with them. Mine tastes like white sugar out of the packet. My brother’s is hard boiled egg. And whenever someone mentions a particular date on a particular year, I envision a giant number line.

Also, letters have emotions. E is happy, but lowercase e is even happier. Capital N is happy but lower case n is sad. And the months of the year go in a giant counter-clockwise circle, with my birthday in October being at the bottom. 2 is sad. 3 is happy.

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Having a whole complex of rooms in your head and about 16 people in there chilling and having convos with them

It’s all positive, they’re kinda my way of getting things out and processing thoughts and emotions

I do all sorts in my subconscious mind palace and it’s very entertaining but everyone else finds it kinda wierd.

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online When I’m on my period, I can numb my lower half of my body so I can’t feel cramps. After talking to my friend I realized she couldn’t do it and I was just confused as I have been doing it for years.

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Not everyone hears their own thoughts audibly. I only learned that last year after describing to my husband that when I’m thinking I literally hear my thoughts as if they’re being spoken outside of my body.

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Being able to give myself goosebumps on command.

I only realised last year (I’m in my 30s) when watching Taskmaster and one of the tasks was “Give yourself goosebumps, fastest wins”, and I wondered why they didn’t all just induce them like I do.

Turns out it’s a rare ability that only 1 in 1500 people have.

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online "Man, I am having so much trouble finding out which colors to use for these letters!"

"Just... use the colors from your head."

"The what?"

"That's what I did! The head colors? Y'know?"

"N..o."

Anyways I have color-grapheme synesthesia and somehow, no one thought much of me saying that the days and months and letters and numbers all had colors.

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Normal is just the running average of weird.

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Ringing in the ears. I dont have a conscious memory of not having it. When i was about 5 years old I asked my grandma " what song does your head play?"

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online I have a few medications I need to take for my mental health, some I need to take at night some in the morning. I've gotten into the habit of rather than reading the label for which ones I need, I will shake the bottle and know which ones to take based off of the sounds the pills make when they rattle.

Let me say I was shocked when I was informed this is not normal.

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Visual snow. My whole life, my field of vision has always been covered by shifting multicolored dots of light. Similar to light snow on an old TV transmission, hence the name. I see it all of the time, I never don't see it, though it is worse in the dark, or if staring at the sky. In the dark or when I close my eyes, it is all I see. I thought everyone had this until my early 20s.

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online for YEARS i thought everyone got sick at the feeling of certain textures, kinda like seeing big bugs and stuff, like the same feeling that gives you, later learned i have a psychiatrist and therapist trying to figure out if i have adhd, or if im on the autism spectrum

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Two OREO limit. That was always the serving size in our house growing up. My first binge in college was a whole sleeve of OREOs.

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Lice. Growing up I had lice almost every summer, I thought everyone got lice growing up. I thought lice was just a summer bug that we kids got! When I got with my ex and talked to him about my childhood and how we always got lice, he was SHOOK. It was apparently not normal for children to get lice on a regular basis.

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Asking for permission.

I was raised to always ask permission to have water, a snack, turn on the TV, or go to the bathroom any time I am in someone else's home. My best friend's mom thought it was weird that I would ask permission for small things. Like "May I grab a knife and fork for my pizza?" instead of "Where can I find a knife and fork?" was super weird to her.

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Abdominal pain. Turns out I have a gastrointestinal issue. But when everyone tells you as a kid to "suck it up", "be tough", "it's just a tummy ache", you get the idea that everyone deals with it and you're just being a whiny kid. Now when I get really bad flare ups, I end up in the ER on morphine.

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online I'm from Pennsylvania. Growing up, when we went to a restaurant and I ordered my favorite eggs, I would say, "2 dippy eggs, please". It wasn't until I got married and moved out to the western part of the country that I realized most people don't call them that.

I can still see the look on the waitress's face when I asked for dippy eggs. Apparently, most people call them "sunny side up".

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Having OCD. The thoughts that come with it I thought were normal for YEARSSS

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My parents are African and rice was a huge staple growing up. So when I went grocery shopping with my American college roommates for the first time they were surprised that I went to grab a 20 lb bag of rice.

They were white and were weirded out when they saw my lotion. They assumed it was for other reason besides moisturizing my skin and not being ashy.

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online My dad used to leave us in the car while he went in the bar to "see a man about a dog". We always thought he was in talks about getting us a puppy. I was an adult when it dawned on me he was in there drinking and see a man about dog was just an expression.

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That I thought the human race existed only in my country (Denmark) when I was 9

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allergies that cause anxiety.

basically a while back i got tested for a bunch of allergies, strawberries came up pretty high but i love strawberries and have never had a rash or anything from them so the doctor person said it probably just gave me extra anxiety
accepted it as normal and moved on.
the subject came up with my old biology teacher relatively recently and he was surprised and said that's very rare

i still eat strawberries. what's a little extra anxiety anyway?

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#39

30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Only ever eating frozen food. I thought actually cooking was for professionals only. My first 20 years were only frozen food except for special occasions

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#40

30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online The ability to make dolphin sort of clicks with my mouth (I don’t know how you’d call it)

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I can blow snot off of my eye, when I was younger it just started happening. So whenever I blow my nose, I covered my left eye (one that snot comes out of) so snot wouldn’t shoot out. Found out not everyone does this a few years back!

Edit: to be more specific, it comes out the little tube in your eye that connects to your nose (to drain tears)

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Brushing my teeth before eating

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#43

This reminds me of the person who said the hated getting into the shower straight away because it was cold

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