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We all have some things about ourselves that might seem weird to others. Maybe we have peculiar eating habits, and we see or do some things differently. And these things might seem like a norm to us. But what if one day you realize that what you thought to be a regular thing is actually a pretty rare occurrence for others? Reddit user @u/ComfortableMess3145 was curious to know what were some things that people thought to be normal until they realized that they aren't. 

The question that received 1.3K answers got some interesting responses. A lot of people shared that for the longest time, they didn’t know they had a certain condition such as astigmatism, ADHD, or some kind of allergy. Other users revealed that their “not normal thing” usually came from their household. The examples included being expected to always ask for every little thing instead of just taking or doing it, or being used to big family fights. 

Do you have something to add to this list? Don’t forget to leave your thoughts in the comments down below!

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#1

30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Subconsciously adapting my speech patterns to whoever is around me. I'll start picking up their accent, words they use frequently, etc. Turns out, this is a common thing neurodiverse people, and it's more seen in women if I'm not mistaken. It could cause me issues, however. Thing is, I'm much more self conscious about this when I talk to black people, bc I'm white... And I swear I'm not trying to do a "blaccent" on purpose. It just... Kind of happens.

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online I have astigmatism so I see light in streaks. For the longest time I thought that was how everyone saw it.

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Not everyone struggles to concentrate on a task or have the mental energy to take care of things. Apparently I have ADD. I found out two years ago life didn’t have to be a daily struggle when I started taking a medication for a sleep problem and one of its off label uses is to treat ADD.

I was actually told repeatedly as a kid I had ADHD but they always told me it was my fault and treated it as if the issue was voluntary. So I grew up believing I was just a lazy day dreamer who gets overly stressed by having too many tasks. I’ve lived my life thinking everyone else was better than me because they can get things done. Nope, I’ve just need meds my entire life. Now I wonder how different my childhood would have been if I had been treated back then.

DeaddyRuxpin , fotologic Report

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Lisa H
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I need to get tested for this once and for all. My school failed me hard for this. They said that I'm "too smart to have a learning disability." How messed up is that? Not only are they implying that people with learning disabilities are dumb, but it's also like they wanted me to just tell them that I'm lazy even though I worked my a*s off and told them as much. Twenty years later and it still makes my blood boil.

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online having a good relationship with your own parents. wasn’t until i made good friends that i realised how lucky my relationship is with my parents bc so many of my friends did not like family life.

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Having to hide when you’re parents are fighting, I only found out this was not normal when I went to a friends house and their parents had a argument that I expected to turn into a screaming fit just like it does with my parents. I got up expecting to have to hide with my friend before they started full on fighting. I was then informed by his concerned parents that it’s not normal to have to do that.

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Dumpsterbaby
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I lived my life like that also. I had a friend who told his parents to stop yelling. I thought, omg heads are going to roll, but they didn't. His parents stopped and apologized to him. I was floored.

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Hearing music play even when you aren’t listening to anything. And no I’m not talking about when you have a song stuck in your head and it’s just your thoughts singing the lyrics, I mean actually hearing music when nothing is there.

I use to think my house was haunted by a ghost that loved to play music. Later on as I got older I thought it just happens to everyone. Until I read about “Musical Hallucinations” online and found out how rare it actually is.

And no it’s not fun.

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barn owls ️
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

wait that isn’t normal? i thought everyone had that. another thing to add to the list of “things i might have to get tested for”

Monday
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Depends, are you in control of the music or not. Most people can "play" a song in their head to listen to it, musical hallucinations is when you hear music that isn't there but you have no control, like you're listening to someone else's speaker.

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ItsJess
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have this and I've discussed it w/my Dr. It sounds like a radio is playing softly in another room

Collin Lyle
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh wow! I thought maybe I was losing it a little or it was related to my tinnitus. I hear a symphony playing very softly like it's quietly streaming in another room. I kind of wish I understood how to write music so I could copy what I hear.

Annnnd We’re Officially In Reverse
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes! Omg-I thought I was the only one! I swore it was my neighbor for the longest time. And you're so right, I always wish I knew how to write music so I could "record" it ...crazy

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Katy McMouse
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I sometimes hear murmured conversations, not just music. I was told that this can happen with tinnitus. It's freaky and I used to drive my husband crazy, trying to get him to tell me where the music or the voices were coming from.

Izzy Curer
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This used to happen to me as a kid, but it stopped by the time I was an adult. The creepy thing is it still happens sometimes when I go home to visit my parents, so even though I just thought it was some sort of 'audio illusion' when I was younger, now I low key wonder if my parents' house is just haunted... I never hear it anywhere else.

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jenjie.newt
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This took me forever to figure out! I never realized other people had this. I literally used to creep around trying to find out who was playing music at random hours, sometimes the most amazing music ever. Also sometimes it's talk radio, less fun.

Angelynn Wichman
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hear an old-timey radio when I'm trying to go to sleep. The sound is always just a little too faint to make out what the song is.

Amanda Fuquay
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This might be a hypnogogic hallucination. They occur as you are falling asleep. If you are always tired during the day, you may want to talk to your doctor about it.

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Agent 8433599
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I might have this. I'll randomly hear music like someone is actually playing it. It's super weird and it randomly pops in

K W
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My mom had this issue almost the whole time she lived in the Seattle area. Turns out it had to do with using q-tips to clean her ears. I don't know if it's because the q-tips were stored in a moist area and grew things or if they were pushing things in and damaging the little ear hairs but when she found out they were bad for ears she quit and the music stopped but came back when she backslid and used them again. She used to ask us all the time if we could hear the music. I don't know why it happens to others but that's what it was connected to for my mom. Some people say it's the music of the spheres but in my mom's case it was music of the q-tip damage.

Philly Bob Squires
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've had that recently starting about 2 years ago. I hear, rather faintly, either what sounds like music or someone talking on the radio. But it usually happens when there is a background white noise like a fan running etc.. Over the noise I hear faint music. Shut everything off and dead silence. I always thought that my working in the entertainment biz that it was just something ingrained in my head.

lolliegag69
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Mine is the same. The fan has to be running for me to hear it. I thought for a while I was picking up a frequency through my fan. I read an article that it's a sign of schizophrenia. That really freaks me out.'m

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AspieGirl88
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I get “olfactory hallucinations”, where I’d completely out of the blue get a random smell of something that no one but me can smell & also has no explanation. A couple nights ago, I was lying in bed & suddenly got a whiff of buttery baked potato (my mum was in bed & no one had done potatoes that night). My older sister has a theory that I might be smelling things in relation to someone who has passed away & the smell is something that person liked. Kinda spooked me, because I smelled Parma Violet sweets a while back; & the only person that would’ve been is my sisters dad (we have the same mum but different biological fathers), as he used to eat them all the time. Maybe I’m just going nuts, though! 😂

CHRIS DOMRES
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Many musicians can hear music in their minds. As a composer, when I am working on a piece, I hear chords, melodies rhythms, the whole nine yards inside my head. Keith Emerson would write sheet music while traveling on a plane and hear in his mind what he wrote.

Agnes Jekyll
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oliver Sacks wrote a book called Musicology, and he discusses this at length. I heard him at McGill explain it. He said that auditory hallucinations become more common as people lose their hearing---that may not be your case. He said people would be woken up in the middle of the night by them.

alias D.
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Same here man but I might just be the house ghost dia messing with me again

Wonderful
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All the time especially when it's "quiet". Mostly instrumental style music. Sometimes world music sometimes, metal instrumental. Non stop. I sometimes wonder if the people who make world music are just repeating what they hear when it's quiet.

Desert Rose
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, it isn't fun. I developed the auditory hallucinations a couple of years ago and no one understands kust how annoying it is. I hear all kinds if music and once in a while I hear a baseball game being announced. So far, my doctors can't find out why I have them.

Waco Bayless
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hear music, but only when I'm lying in bed at night and it's quiet. It sounds like it's coming from another room as it is faint. I thought it was connected to my tinnitus.

Surfing Panda
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think it's pretty common to have "music playing in your head".

Xottel
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I sometimes hear (fictional) orchestra music when I'm dozing off. But it's quite rare. (I also heard familiar voices calling my name a few times)

Dizz2K7 Gaming
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had that happen once, but I'm sure it was due to over stimulation. I had just gotten a GBA and was playing Super Mario World A LOT. I could swear I could still hear the underground music after I'd stopped playing. I had to check the GameBoy several times. I eventually just ignored it and it went away. Can't imagine trying to explain that to my dad has it continued.

Bobby
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I used to have this upon waking and going to sleep. Hypnogogic hallucinations in my case. Got treated and my sleep patterns don't cause them anymore. I really miss the music now that it's gone

A Thousand Years Wide
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've heard this before as a child. Thought I heard a choir practicing at a strip mall. My Mom didn't know what I was talking about. I said that I heard angels singing.

Miss Frankfurter
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow! It’s real? It was so unnerving to be hearing it, not loud, but it was there. I’m not alone!

Bookmaiden
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yep, growing up, I would get out of bed because I heard music playing downstairs. Nothing. But I swear it sounded like a party going on.

Kate Priestley
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My MIL had this after my FIL died. She swore her neighbour was playing the same Glen Miller music that they used to listen to.

Sami B
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This happens to me all the time. I've read that it's the brain "making sense" out of white noise from AC, fans, electricity... Sometimes it's talking, like a news program was left on in another room, and sometimes it's music; I can usually identify a genre, even, though not individual songs.

Courtney Christelle
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've occasionally heard music, like someone left a radio on but I just thought it was matrixing from background white noise.

Sprouted Tater
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow! That just recently started happening with me-thanks for ur contribution

UpQuarkDownQuark
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The times in which music is not playing in my head are so rare that it will stop me in my tracks as I listen to the world without the distraction of a radio seemingly implanted my skull, playing the same song or portion of song for sometimes days on end. If I really need to concentrate on reading something, I have to play innocuous instrumental music, because the lyrics of the song looping in my brain will interrupt my reading. “In a hole in the ground there lived a hobbit. Not a nasty, slimy wet hole with the ends of 🎵you don’t have to put on the red light!”🎵

Henry Russell
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i do remenber once on a bus heiring songs like arcade by duncan laurence and say so by doja cat but it only happened once

Ewa K
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I only hear music when it's extremely loud, like close to the train or when you hear some similar noise. When people say that you cannot hear your thoughts. Then I hear some music. Cannot tell the melody, but definitely music.

Yoli Lawrence
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I once asked my boss who had the radio on in the office. She gave me the strangest look. We had been having an ongoing conversation and all the time I had been ‘hearing’ the radio. It was onto it’s third song when I mentioned it…

Celtic Pirate Queen
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hear music or talking in the "white noise" We have a fan on at night in our bedroom & I swear there's a radio playing. We also have a white noise machine, which we have set to play rainfall. I still hear the radio voices. FML

Baali Venomax
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I get that occasionally but since Dad died, I've been having a lot of audio hallucinations. They dont scare me though. BPD sometimes gets hallucinations so maybe its just where the disorder is updating itself.

Bo Manson
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It happens to me when I was a teenager. I thought someone is listening to a radio/song. For the longest time, I think someone next door or neighbor across the road listen to a radio/music

Electra Smith
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Um, now I'm concerned for myself. Pretty much all of these are things that apply to me. sooo...

AnonymousApple
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This has been f*cking with me for a while and I've been trying to figure out if it's a real thing, and if so, if it's something I need to be concerned about.

Susan Stead
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I sometimes hear distant music in my head while I'm dozing off at night. I came to the conclusion that my brain is getting ready to do its usual nighttime "filing," and my "file clerks" enjoy listening to the radio while they're working. I'm glad I'm not the only one, so I'd like to thank everyone who has posted on here that it happens to them, too.

Bubs623
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have something similar- I hear music and sometimes muffled conversations, usually in Spanish - and at age 50, I finally learned it happens as a predictor of my migraine headaches. Like some people see 'little twinkling stars' at the edges of their vision. I get those too, but when I hear the music or voices, I know a whopper of a migraine is going to hit me soon. But it always me time to inject myself and take whatever else I need to then handle the headache.

Littlemiss
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I used to hear blood curdling screaming, people yelling for help, and people in pain. Makes for interesting bedtimes. I thought it was just me, I often wake to music playing in my head.

Jane Cortez
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have this!!! It seems to worsen when am under a lot of stress. The constant refrain can make it very difficult to concentrate! Fortunately, it isn’t as often nowadays- thankfully!!!

Lee Banks
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Constantly hearing jazz and classical, but it's just the air conditioning/neighbors. Didn't know that was odd.

Ephemeral Mochi
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't know if it's the same thing but sometimes I think I hear sound effects from a horror game I play whenever it's completely silent

Nicki
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Whoa... I have this!! I usually hear it in the shower or when I am trying to fall asleep. I actually turn on my "bedtime playlist" so I can focus on real music. Weird...I thought it was just my overactive brain.

Arianna
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes sometimes I trick myself into 'theres actually a song playing'

Gabi
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Waitaminute. I have this. Same for my father. So, this is not normal?

Mika N
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I do get songs playing in my head all the time (even while I sleep sometimes) but it sounds like for the people in this thread/the post it seems audible outside their head, like it sounds to them like they're hearing it with their physical ears.

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Mental Liberals
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yup, me too...I've heard that people who hear this often could have a tumor...It's Not a tumor! Who knows...

Book Worm Panda
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Does it count if I'm going through something emotional and a sad classical peace starts playing and I can't stop it?

R. H.
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

First time I realized this was with the air compressor at work. After it ran a while I I was hearing music along with the noise. The Stones I believe. I still notice this occasionally. Thing is I now have annoying tinnitus so I have become accustomed to ignoring auditory input . That or go madder.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's called 'Auditory Hallucinations'. I have it. It started about two years ago. It goes from music to a sort of chanting of male voices. I can usually ignore it, but sometimes it drives me up the wall.

Nicole Tomme
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would hear what I call "phantom cries" when my son was a baby. Baby was sound asleep. Anticipating nighttime feedings made me actually hear my baby crying ehen he wasn't and it would even wake me up.

Molly Mitchell
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

wait i thought everyone had that because currently in a place with no music i can hear we dont talk about bruno

kath morgan
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’ve had it once or twice when I was very fatigued, definitely mention it to a dr if it’s happening a lot/without obvious cause.

Moomin from Denmark
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My big brother has that, ... symphonies. He´s also on the autistic spectrum and has add - and is very musical and can play any instrument. Must be very disturbing to never have peace!

V Noe
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was in my teens before I realized that other people do not have a constant soundtrack playing in the background of their mind. And I immediately felt sad for those people.

Cat Palmer
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have this, and also learn new songs really quickly, I think because after hearing a song I can listen to it in my head over and over again. It might even be a useful skill if I could sing!

Lisa B
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I sometimes hear music in my bedroom with the fan on, if I move it goes away. My house is haunted. Or so I'm told, I haven't seen the ghosts, but others have!

Hypoxia Smurf
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm an old amateur musician (mostly guitars etc) and former street busker, now experiencing severe tinnitus, which sometimes sounds melodic. Normal, sure.

CakeandNintendo
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Holy crud that's not normal?! That keeps me up at night I have insomnia due to the constant music in my head.

Wesley Humphreys
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Moment when you try to sleep but can’t stop hearing Catastrophic Fabrications by PinPinNeon

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online The ability to make a roaring noise in my ears by tensing a muscle.

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BubbaLouie
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can do this, and I can also do a really high pitched beep. (EDIT: I forgot, I can also click.) (Edit 2: I do the beep by... tensing up my jaw/chin? I don't know how it works.)

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Picturing things in your head. I have a friend with aphantasia and she was flabbergasted when she realized people could visualize things in their brain.

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olx
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

same i was like??? so u can just see what u want when u want?? it makes me wonder how phantasic people dont instantly have a great memory

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online I always thought when you try to talk to someone about something they do that bugs you or is just something that you feel the need to bring up because it effects you, that its normal for the person to get upset when you bring it up, and for them to disagree with you, resulting in yelling and fighting. I always thought this until I was talking with my friend about something they do that really pisses me off, and they just sat there, and thanked me for bringing it to there attention, and was completely chill about it, no yelling or argumenting. It was a weird feeling because I just kept waiting for the disagreeing and yelling to happen, and when it didn't I felt like something was missing? lol.

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Being able to blur and unblur your eyes on command 🙂

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online I always thought the after effect for eating fresh cherries was a scratchy throat, with this weird tight feeling. Mild though but it would last about 30 minutes.

After eating 2 cherries earlier this year I ended up having a severe allergic reaction and discovered that cherries aren't meant to do that and I've just been allergic to them this whole time. 😅

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Michelle Reynolds
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Pineapple, kiwi, cantaloupe, walnuts, pecans, bananas-they all do that to me but cherries are OK luckily,

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online I was joking around with my friends in 8th grade History and we were trying to see how many pencils we could stick into my friend's afro (with his consent) and right as I was trying to lift my arm and put the pencil in his hair one of them cracked a joke that sent us into a fit of laughter. My arms went limp and when my friends started coaxing me to put it in I told them I couldn't.

They were noticably confused, so when I regained my composure I explained that everytime I laugh, my muscles go limp and I am not be able to move them. It ranges from droopy head and weak knees, to full body collapse.
Because of the term "roll over laughing" and portrayals of people in media falling over in laughter I thought this happened to everyone, and they were just better at controlling it. My friends all agreed that it in fact did not happen to them, and that I should get it checked with a doctor.

1 year later I was diagnosed Type 1 Narcolepsy: a sleep disorder characterized by excessive daytime sleepiness, and Cataplexy. Cataplexy happens when a trigger, such as strong emotions like laughter or fear, trigger a sudden loss of muscle tone, making it difficult to move, stand, or even breathe.

I was lucky to be diagnosed as early and quick as I was, since the condition is widely unknown outside of the context of Narcolepsy patients and specialists. The symptoms of Narcolepsy are so common, in both puberty where it starts to present more heavily, and other diagnoses such and depression and anxiety. Its estimated that around 1 in 2,000 people have this disorder, and the lucky few that actually get diagnosed usually only do so later in life after 5-10+ years of multiple tests and misdiagnoses.


The takeaway from this is that if you think that other people "deal with it better" or "suck it up" or "control it better" chances are that's not normal, and you should speak up about it.

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Having to deliberately learn all your social skills. I assumed other people just got more practice, because I didn't have many friends growing up. Years of work did help me a lot, but I only recently realized most people learn these things without thinking much about it.
I'ts like the difference between glancing at a sentence and immediately getting its meaning, vs. figuring out each word letter by letter.

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Apparently most people can't reach their entire back with their hands. I never knew backscratchers had an actual purpose.

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Chucky Cheezburger
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can do this too. Apparently I'm a bit more flexible than most other folks. I can turn my feet around almost all the way backwards,put my feet behind my head and contort in a few odd ways. I thought everyone could do this.

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Not being able to watch Movies/Shows without Close Captions or subtitles. Also never understanding what they are sayin on the radio. Turns out, I have an Auditory Processing Disorder. If I don't see peoples lips moving my brain doesn't recognize they are words more than half the time

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CelticElff
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sensory Processing Disorder (avoider) here. If two people talk to me at the same time (classical scenario: I'm on the phone but my toddler demands my attention) the voices overlap and become nonsensical noise. Drives. Me. Crazy.

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online That most people aren't constantly aware of their heart beating, and dont get numb legs just from walking a few metres uphill, and don't lie in bed at night wondering whether they'll die in their sleep because their heart does funky things when they lay down.

Turns out I have a heart condition lol. I feel so at peace now that I'm on medication for it

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online I thought it was normal for every friend group to have one person that everyone picked on for no reason. I don't mean light roasting, I mean legitimately bullying them and putting them down. My brother's friend group had one, with my brother being a primary instigator. I was the punching bag in my middle school friend group. It took until the end of high school/the beginning of college for me to actually be treated like a person and realize that friends aren't supposed to make you feel like s**t about yourself.

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Stardust she/her
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I feel this. I was constantly shunned and yelled at growing up untill recently when I made actual friends who treated me nicely

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online I’ve played violin since I was 3 years old. So, I learned the letter names of each string and the finger numbers. And, whenever I heard a song, I always thought of a letter or number with each note. To me, it was plainly obvious what each letter and number was, and my brain even expanded the letter/number system to work with cello and the entire piano range.

Turns out, not every violinist has this, let alone absolute pitch (frequency in Western countries: 1 in 10 000). When I was 20, I discovered it was synesthesia, a harmless linking of senses/concepts in the brain.

That seemed to check out since people’s faces often have smells/tastes associated with them. Mine tastes like white sugar out of the packet. My brother’s is hard boiled egg. And whenever someone mentions a particular date on a particular year, I envision a giant number line.

Also, letters have emotions. E is happy, but lowercase e is even happier. Capital N is happy but lower case n is sad. And the months of the year go in a giant counter-clockwise circle, with my birthday in October being at the bottom. 2 is sad. 3 is happy.

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Bird Mom
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

For as long as I can remember, every time i think of a date or month, this giant circular calendar pops into my head

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#19

30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Having a whole complex of rooms in your head and about 16 people in there chilling and having convos with them

It’s all positive, they’re kinda my way of getting things out and processing thoughts and emotions

I do all sorts in my subconscious mind palace and it’s very entertaining but everyone else finds it kinda wierd.

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hate to reveal this secret but when I am under stress, to relax myself I make up all sorts of cringe stories in my mind but I dont write them down. But ik I will never get the most number of upvotes so my comment will be the last one in order so no one will know my secret hehe 😁

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online When I’m on my period, I can numb my lower half of my body so I can’t feel cramps. After talking to my friend I realized she couldn’t do it and I was just confused as I have been doing it for years.

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#21

30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Not everyone hears their own thoughts audibly. I only learned that last year after describing to my husband that when I’m thinking I literally hear my thoughts as if they’re being spoken outside of my body.

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Rod McCabe
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I routinely talk to myself. When you're alone for 54 years with not one at all in life talking to yourself is almost inevitable. No family, friends, work associates, no social media contacts... no one. well I've been talking to myself ever since I could talk. And yes, I answer myself as well. Its fun.

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#22

30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Being able to give myself goosebumps on command.

I only realised last year (I’m in my 30s) when watching Taskmaster and one of the tasks was “Give yourself goosebumps, fastest wins”, and I wondered why they didn’t all just induce them like I do.

Turns out it’s a rare ability that only 1 in 1500 people have.

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TheAquarius1978
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's easy, listen to a song from Eluveitie, that works everytime lol ( for those of you not in to folk metal, try " 2SFH " ( 2 steps from hell ) its Impossible to hear their músic and not getting goosebumps )

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online "Man, I am having so much trouble finding out which colors to use for these letters!"

"Just... use the colors from your head."

"The what?"

"That's what I did! The head colors? Y'know?"

"N..o."

Anyways I have color-grapheme synesthesia and somehow, no one thought much of me saying that the days and months and letters and numbers all had colors.

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olx
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

synesthesia is so cool to me. i dont have it i think, altho my friend thinks i do cuz i feel music but i think that's probably 50/50 normal cuz one of my other friends has it. i *associate* days, weeks, months with colours but i dont see it when its said or anything you know?

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Normal is just the running average of weird.

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3 Owls In A Coat
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I like this. We’re all weird, “normal” is just whatever weird thing most of us are doing.

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#25

30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Ringing in the ears. I dont have a conscious memory of not having it. When i was about 5 years old I asked my grandma " what song does your head play?"

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Sky Render
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've had tinnitus my entire life. Most of the time I just wilfully ignore it.

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online I have a few medications I need to take for my mental health, some I need to take at night some in the morning. I've gotten into the habit of rather than reading the label for which ones I need, I will shake the bottle and know which ones to take based off of the sounds the pills make when they rattle.

Let me say I was shocked when I was informed this is not normal.

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Rod McCabe
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Thats definitely what t I do, I can just hear my pharmaceutical savior, xanax, as a beautiful music in the mornings. Panic attacks SUCK for 30 minutes and without a benzodiazapine I get attacks a couple of times a day. They're particularly insidious because you have to stop what you're doing and give your entire life (existence) to the attack. Work or home. You don't have a choice. I call anxiety and panic "cancer of the mind". Panic attacks are horrendous and completely debilitating. Not fun. Hearing that rattle in the morning is like all of the beautiful music or nature thrown into a couple of seconds of shaking.

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#27

30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Visual snow. My whole life, my field of vision has always been covered by shifting multicolored dots of light. Similar to light snow on an old TV transmission, hence the name. I see it all of the time, I never don't see it, though it is worse in the dark, or if staring at the sky. In the dark or when I close my eyes, it is all I see. I thought everyone had this until my early 20s.

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#28

30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online for YEARS i thought everyone got sick at the feeling of certain textures, kinda like seeing big bugs and stuff, like the same feeling that gives you, later learned i have a psychiatrist and therapist trying to figure out if i have adhd, or if im on the autism spectrum

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Natalie H
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There are some clothing textures I absolutely can’t stand. They make shudder & my teeth feel funny for some reason 🤷🏻‍♀️

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#29

30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Two OREO limit. That was always the serving size in our house growing up. My first binge in college was a whole sleeve of OREOs.

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Bouche Clay
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wish I could do that. Although I often say it as a joke, for me, it's pretty much true that whatever is in the wrapper is one serving.

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Lice. Growing up I had lice almost every summer, I thought everyone got lice growing up. I thought lice was just a summer bug that we kids got! When I got with my ex and talked to him about my childhood and how we always got lice, he was SHOOK. It was apparently not normal for children to get lice on a regular basis.

Kovong , Michael Wunderli Report

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#31

30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Asking for permission.

I was raised to always ask permission to have water, a snack, turn on the TV, or go to the bathroom any time I am in someone else's home. My best friend's mom thought it was weird that I would ask permission for small things. Like "May I grab a knife and fork for my pizza?" instead of "Where can I find a knife and fork?" was super weird to her.

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olx
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

this is just politeness isnt it? maybe ive been raised goofy too :/

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#32

Abdominal pain. Turns out I have a gastrointestinal issue. But when everyone tells you as a kid to "suck it up", "be tough", "it's just a tummy ache", you get the idea that everyone deals with it and you're just being a whiny kid. Now when I get really bad flare ups, I end up in the ER on morphine.

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#33

30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online I'm from Pennsylvania. Growing up, when we went to a restaurant and I ordered my favorite eggs, I would say, "2 dippy eggs, please". It wasn't until I got married and moved out to the western part of the country that I realized most people don't call them that.

I can still see the look on the waitress's face when I asked for dippy eggs. Apparently, most people call them "sunny side up".

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Deborah Harris2
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In the UK Dippy eggs are soft hard boiled eggs that we cut the top off and use to dip soldiers into the yolk. The soldiers being buttered toast.

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#34

30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Having OCD. The thoughts that come with it I thought were normal for YEARSSS

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

same. apparently having intense paranoia and having to do specific things to “protect” yourself so the people won’t get you isn’t normal

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#35

My parents are African and rice was a huge staple growing up. So when I went grocery shopping with my American college roommates for the first time they were surprised that I went to grab a 20 lb bag of rice.

They were white and were weirded out when they saw my lotion. They assumed it was for other reason besides moisturizing my skin and not being ashy.

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Natalie H
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love rice! I even eat white rice for breakfast sometimes, with a bit of sugar and milk. Why were they weirded out over your lotion?? That’s what lotion is for! It sounds like your roommates are the weird ones, not you.

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#36

30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online My dad used to leave us in the car while he went in the bar to "see a man about a dog". We always thought he was in talks about getting us a puppy. I was an adult when it dawned on me he was in there drinking and see a man about dog was just an expression.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I spent a good majority of my young life in bars (because my dad dragged me there) rubbing my eyes from all of the smoke - because in those days, you could pollute someone else's air and somehow that was legal, let alone moral. And I have asthma. I don't need to express how bad all of that intrusive smoke messed me up that way. You know, BEING ABLE TO BREATHE. One day I told my dad where to jump, he was pissed, but I spent the next 5+ hours sitting in the car wondering if I was going to be able to do my homework. I'm so glad my joke of a "father" is dead. Good riddance.

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#37

That I thought the human race existed only in my country (Denmark) when I was 9

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#38

allergies that cause anxiety.

basically a while back i got tested for a bunch of allergies, strawberries came up pretty high but i love strawberries and have never had a rash or anything from them so the doctor person said it probably just gave me extra anxiety
accepted it as normal and moved on.
the subject came up with my old biology teacher relatively recently and he was surprised and said that's very rare

i still eat strawberries. what's a little extra anxiety anyway?

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K W
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

People who have seasonal allergies and anxiety will often note an uptick in anxiety during the worst parts of allergy season so this isn't surprising. I'd never heard food allergies causing it but that makes sense too.

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#39

30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Only ever eating frozen food. I thought actually cooking was for professionals only. My first 20 years were only frozen food except for special occasions

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#40

30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online The ability to make dolphin sort of clicks with my mouth (I don’t know how you’d call it)

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#41

I can blow snot off of my eye, when I was younger it just started happening. So whenever I blow my nose, I covered my left eye (one that snot comes out of) so snot wouldn’t shoot out. Found out not everyone does this a few years back!

Edit: to be more specific, it comes out the little tube in your eye that connects to your nose (to drain tears)

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Jihana
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I close my mouth and hold my nose closed and sprt of try to exhale the pressure is released by that canal in my left eye (only works with my left eye) It even makes a noise.

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30 Random Things Folks Thought Were Normal But Later Realized Weren’t, As Shared Online Brushing my teeth before eating

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Orange Is Aging
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

BEFORE? oh honey, what about the flavors? Did you just not know that things actually tasted good?? I NEED ANSWERS! 😭😭

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#43

This reminds me of the person who said the hated getting into the shower straight away because it was cold

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Natalie H
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I stand back & wait for the water to get warm. No cold showers for me! 🚿

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