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“If They Like Crystals”: 50 Things That Make Men Lose Interest In A Woman

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Attraction can often be based on the most subtle of things. The way someone behaves. Their tone. Their attitude. How they carry themselves. The way they interact with other people and the world around them.
In some cases, one mistake is enough to snuff out any affection that might’ve been flowering there. Reddit user u/NumerousBeach1420 turned to the r/AskMen community to hear everyone’s thoughts about all the things that women do that make them lose interest. Scroll down to read their opinions. Meanwhile, feel free to share your thoughts on them in the comments, Pandas.
We got in touch with the author of the viral thread, and they shared their perspective on relationship red and green flags to look out for. Scroll down for Bored Panda's full interview with u/NumerousBeach1420.

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#1

“If They Like Crystals”: 50 Things That Make Men Lose Interest In A Woman Incessant social media posting about our "amazing" dates.

Me: "I thought we could have a nice evening just the two of us."

Her: "Absolutely, but first, let me post this on my story!"

Me: "Okay, but maybe we can put the phone away after?"

Her: "I need to update my followers on the night. They're like, waiting for it."

It's like I'm an accessory to her online persona rather than a partner. I want to be in a relationship, not a reality show.

CleoTurquoise2 , Plann Report

Final score:

141points

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#2

“If They Like Crystals”: 50 Things That Make Men Lose Interest In A Woman I recently had a girl tell me she was pregnant and then say “it was a prank to see how you’d react”. Needless to say I lost interest.

thinklucas135 , cottonbro studio Report

Final score:

125points

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#3

“If They Like Crystals”: 50 Things That Make Men Lose Interest In A Woman Rude to waiters is a total mood killer for me. If I see that it has to be a bad day or something or I'm out.

MartinLambert1 , Jessie McCall Report

Final score:

110points

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Some behaviors are subjectively unattractive—we all have our pet peeves. Others, on the other hand, are objectively more likely to push potential partners away. Business Insider reports that among the factors that make you appear less attractive are sleep deprivation, being mean, having contracted body language, and being stressed.

Other things that make someone objectively less attractive include looking stressed, looking too happy or proud (i.e. you may not want to be too ‘smiley’), not having a sense of humor, being lazy, being dishonest, and not being humble enough. People generally also don’t find heavy smoking and drinking attractive. Nor do they enjoy it when someone disagrees with their thoughts on politics.

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#4

“If They Like Crystals”: 50 Things That Make Men Lose Interest In A Woman Demand princess treatment but don’t reciprocate anything. Can’t treat you like a queen if you won’t let me be your king.

Edit: for those who can’t see past the metaphor. lol. Entitlement is the turn off. Someone acting entitled to your affection or time or money while offering up little to nothing in return.

help1500 , RDNE Stock project Report

Final score:

98points

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#5

“If They Like Crystals”: 50 Things That Make Men Lose Interest In A Woman Any cruelty towards someone for no reason is an instant turn off.

L8Confession , Liza Summer Report

Final score:

96points

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#6

“If They Like Crystals”: 50 Things That Make Men Lose Interest In A Woman Never wanting to do anything.

Me: Would you like to.....? Her: No, that sounds boring

Me: how about....? Her: Nah, I don't want to do that.

Me: Ok, what would you like to do? Her: IDK, whatever you want to do.

Beauvoir_R , Keira Burton Report

Final score:

79points

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On the flip side, BBC Future points out that it’s far from just our physical attractiveness that matters when it comes to romance and first impressions. In fact, someone’s agreeableness, extraversion, and intelligence are ranked higher than looks. Furthermore, a person’s material success ranks among the least important attractive qualities.

Someone who ranks high in agreeableness in the Big Five psychometric tests is generally more caring and compassionate. A person who’s agreeable and also physically attractive is more likely to be the target of someone’s desire for a serious relationship. It makes sense. It’s difficult to envision starting a long-term relationship with someone who is unkind.

#7

“If They Like Crystals”: 50 Things That Make Men Lose Interest In A Woman Duck lips.

Serrated_Bayonet1916 , Sam Lion Report

Final score:

75points

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#8

“If They Like Crystals”: 50 Things That Make Men Lose Interest In A Woman 1.Any of these …
“ a real man would ”
“ if he wanted too , he would”
“ princess treatment “
“ I don’t need a man”
“I’m the prize”
“My man had to pay for everything “

If they think I’m paying for everything and they don’t at least offer or help out

3. If they think a relationship is a sponsorship than a partnership.

TheLegionmma , Jacek Dylag Report

Final score:

74points

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#9

“If They Like Crystals”: 50 Things That Make Men Lose Interest In A Woman S**t talking other women. A little playful banter is ok but when their whole personality is just s**t bagging others... Neeeext.

Rip9150 , cottonbro studio Report

Final score:

72points

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How similar a person is to us is incredibly important for romance. In short, the basic principle of attraction is looking for potential partners who have some things in common with us, from personality traits and appearance to social groups and geography. When there are complementary traits in play, you make a stronger team that can weather whatever storm life throws at you.

However, it’s not all as simple as that. Some differences in personalities and backgrounds can spark some excitement in the relationship. So, there’s a need for both familiarity and novelty in relationships. Too many similarities can lead to boredom. Too many differences can lead to arguments.

#10

“If They Like Crystals”: 50 Things That Make Men Lose Interest In A Woman Spend too much time on their phone when they are out on a date or social engagement with other people.

Piper6728 , Teddy Yang Report

Final score:

71points

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#11

“If They Like Crystals”: 50 Things That Make Men Lose Interest In A Woman I'm big on accountability, whether male friends, female friends or dates.

Constantly blaming others / society / etc has become a huge turn off to me.

On the flipside, I was chatting with a girl who mentioned she got in a wreck because "she's a bad driver who wasn't paying attention" and this immediately made me want to ask her out.

djhazmatt503 , Priscilla Du Preez Report

Final score:

71points

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#12

“If They Like Crystals”: 50 Things That Make Men Lose Interest In A Woman Assume they understand my intentions or motivations because they "know how men think" or otherwise claim to be exceedingly perceptive or intuitive.

Even if that's true, by believing and acting on those things it takes away my agency as an individual to express my thoughts and feelings on a given matter, and that really grinds my gears I must say.

fatbunny23 , Thomas Benedetti Report

Final score:

66points

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Redditor u/NumerousBeach1420 opened up to Bored Panda that it was simple curiosity that drove them to start up the online discussion on r/AskMen.

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"Most of the answers were about being rude or having a bad personality. It’s nice to know that there are still guys out there who care more about a girl’s personality than her physical appearance,” the author of the thread told us.

We asked the author for their personal opinion on what relationship red flags are best to be avoided.

From their perspective, your alarm bells should be ringing if the person you're dating is unfaithful, rude, or irresponsible.

#13

“If They Like Crystals”: 50 Things That Make Men Lose Interest In A Woman My ex would talk about other guys in front of me. “I’m just saying, his arms are really hot!” I’ve seen other women do this to guys to try and see how insecure he is or isn’t. I can’t have any respect for someone who plays games like that.

GingerMarquis , Eduardo Simões Neto Junior Report

Final score:

64points

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#14

Treat those that they perceive as "lower" in status with disdain, disrespect, poor manners, while buttering up those with "higher" social status. We are all in this together, we all have our good and bad days. Be kind.

keylime84 Report

Final score:

63points

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#15

“If They Like Crystals”: 50 Things That Make Men Lose Interest In A Woman Unrestrained alcoholism.

The_Spyre , Jacalyn Beales Report

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59points

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They said that a huge red flag is that the person is "someone who doesn't have dreams and plans in life."

However, we were also curious about their thoughts on green flags to look for in romantic partners. They told Bored Panda that among the qualities they value the most in a partner are honesty, loyalty, and being a provider.

For them, a truly great partner is someone who has high emotional intelligence and is a responsible individual.

Meanwhile, the author shared some advice with anyone who struggles to keep other people's interest on dates.

"Just be yourself. Work on yourself. Keep the good things about you and change the bad ones," u/NumerousBeach1420 said.

#16

“If They Like Crystals”: 50 Things That Make Men Lose Interest In A Woman Getting their relationship expectations from social media.

omnipresent29 , mikoto.raw Photographer Report

Final score:

57points

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#17

When they bend over backwards to interpret anything and everything you say in a negative light. I'm not here to mess with you. And I'm certainly not interested in fighting every time I try to talk to you.

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57points

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#18

“If They Like Crystals”: 50 Things That Make Men Lose Interest In A Woman She kept insisting she was "weird".

"Oh, I don't really like popular music I must be really weird, ahah"

"Oh, I don't like girly things I guess I'm just weird like that, haha"

Get stuffed.

BadVixen13 , Austin Barber Report

Final score:

55points

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What behaviors and qualities do you find to be the most unattractive in a potential partner, dear Pandas? What do people do on dates that really irks you and gets under your skin? On the flip side, what do you find the most attractive in a partner?

If you have a moment, we’d love to hear your thoughts on all of this. Grab your digital quill, scroll down to the bottom of this list, and feel free to pen a comment or two.

#19

Play mind games and talk about past relationships, I get it Becky that your last boyfriend cheated on you, but I'm not him, please stop talking about him.

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Final score:

54points

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#20

“If They Like Crystals”: 50 Things That Make Men Lose Interest In A Woman Gas lighting to think youre only wrong in every conversation.

phat_ass666 , Vera Arsic Report

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52points

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#21

Endless complaining.

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51points

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#22

Religious. Especially if it involves referencing Bible/Torah/Quran quotes.

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50points

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#23

I think if their existence makes other people uncomfortable and they may not be aware or don't care if they bother others. It comes off like they own the place and can do whatever they want even if it bothers others. Like being loud, rude, and demanding to draw attention from everybody and not respecting other people.

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45points

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#24

Ghost me until they want something, then become my best buddy. :-/.

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41points

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#25

“If They Like Crystals”: 50 Things That Make Men Lose Interest In A Woman Bad communicator, bad personality, hot and cold personality and mood, someone that lacks affection and is a bit cold physically, people that date someone based on their astrological sign, someone that is judgmental, someone that does not initiate texts or phone calls (I don't want to be the one doing all the work in the relationship, that is only one sided and not fair).

Also someone that never offers to pay her half of the bill, or never pays at all when we go out. Again, I am not a walking ATM or a weak doormat, I refuse to be used as I know my self worth.

Century22nd , Alex Green Report

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40points

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#26

If they like crystals , if they scream and talk loud for no reason , if they think it’s cute to act dumb or immature , if they litter , if they talk s**t about any of their close friends that they hangout with and plenty more things.

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Final score:

39points

Blue Bunny of Happiness 3 months ago

But crystals are fascinating! Got to love a bit of geology.

46points

CanadianDimes 3 months ago

Exactly! Plus they are cool to look at. I recently went on a tour of a cave famous for its crystals. Enjoyed seeing them.

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L. Murphy 3 months ago

Loving geology is awesome, but believing crystals have magical healing powers is batshit crazy.

10points

Nicole Weymann 3 months ago

I doubt it's the science aspect of crystals that turned OP off. I think it's the "put rose quarts in your water carafe to improve your aura" stuff. Geology is cool, healing crystals are mostly BS (they can protect you from unwholesome characters if thrown with enough force and accuracy)

7points

The wee giant 3 months ago

They are so pretty!

5points

Aroace tiger (she/they/he) 3 months ago

Crystals shiny tho :(

16points

Justin Smith 3 months ago

Think its different if you have them for their beauty.

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justagirl 3 months ago

i like crystals! to look at, that is. i enjoy looking at sparkly things.

12points

Subaru645 3 months ago

Don’t forget, they identify as crazy as well…

10points

Guy Bare 3 months ago

And the famous "I'm not like other girls !"

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René Sauer 3 months ago

Eh, it´s not bad if they like crystal as a decorative element. But if they start claiming that they have healing powers or something, then it get´s weird...

9points

⨺⃝ ~Just-A-Black-Cat-Lover~ ⨺⃝ 3 months ago

uh guys i need help i have crystals in my room right and apparently they were listed as like calming gems or whatevs and my mom believes in those... AM I WEIRD XD

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Jessica Shookhoff 3 months ago

You forgot if they believe essential oils can cure cancer...

8points

CanadianDimes 3 months ago

Oh god this reminds me of some whack job on a community group I was on at the start of Covid, claiming violet light would save and heal us all. Got her banned.

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Hodge Elmwood 3 months ago

I like shiny rocks, ohh deal breaker!

7points

LakotaWolf (she/her) 3 months ago

But... my NAME is Crystal XD and I like myself! So I apparently would automatically make men lose interest in me, just by existing XD

7points

Smilodon, a Bad Cat 3 months ago

Man, LW, that's rough! But this Bad Cat likes you anyway, as long as you don't think your name cures cancer or predicts the future!😸

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Zoe's Mom 3 months ago

Can you excuse us Puerto Ricans; we are just loud in general. 😉

4points

Wysteria_Rose 3 months ago

Whatever. I'm going to sit with my pretty and sparkly rocks and enjoy life. They don't give me a headache like people do.

3points

Carlotta Müller 3 months ago

But crystals are beautiful! What is wrong with liking shiny things that are not that expensive?

3points

Sebastián Rodríguez 3 months ago

It's not about the shiny cheap thing. It's about believing that the shiny rock has magical healing powers / affects your personality in some way.

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AMaureen Dance 1 month ago

I like crystals, but only as decor. They're pretty, and I enjoy looking at things that sparkle

2points

Sarah Matsoukis 3 months ago

Crystals are pretty...

2points

Michael Largey 3 months ago

If they like crystal gems, eh. Crystal meth, nope.

2points

G A 3 months ago

So tiring to deal with bad acting

1point

Savahax 3 months ago

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#27

Always vent about every tiny little thing (and that’s fine) but as soon as you are going through something rough they respond with a one-liner cliché sentence or somehow start venting back making it their issue.

People wonder why I struggle immensely to open up, well, here you go.

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#28

Lying about small things - because it means they'll also lie about big things, inevitably.

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#29

Having a unidirectional personality.

Dated a “gym girl”. All she did was talk about her gym.

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#30

“If They Like Crystals”: 50 Things That Make Men Lose Interest In A Woman When you're talking to them and they reply, "OMG that's so funny" while they're occupied with their phones, not laughing or even smiling.

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37points

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#31

Too concerned about their social media presence. Also not being punctual but I think that more a personal preference cuz it’s disrespectful to not keep your word when you say you’re gonna do something.

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#32

“If They Like Crystals”: 50 Things That Make Men Lose Interest In A Woman Flirt and give their attention to other men, and when caught try to pretend like it was harmless and we’re overreacting which will sometimes cause us to really ponder on if we’re really overreacting or not.

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#33

Get jealous over little things.

Show up at my house uninvited.

Get mad when I don’t text back right away.

Expect me to yell at them, otherwise I don’t care about them.

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35points

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#34

Was on a date with a gorgeous redhead. Found out real quick she didn’t need a bf, she needed a therapist. She literally made me think of eyore from Winnie the Pooh, all she needed was her own personal rain cloud. She was pitying herself the whole damn time.

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35points

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#35

Entitlement, boss babe personality, lack of appreciation, bad listening, no empathy, lack of reciprocation, playing hard to get.

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#36

“If They Like Crystals”: 50 Things That Make Men Lose Interest In A Woman Dating more than one dude at a time. Choose the other guy I don't have time for that c**p.

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#37

“If They Like Crystals”: 50 Things That Make Men Lose Interest In A Woman Talk about all their past lovers.

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#38

“If They Like Crystals”: 50 Things That Make Men Lose Interest In A Woman Take zero initiative.

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#39

Express contempt, hatred or distaste for men in general

You know it's only a matter of time before they turn that on you

Stuff like that is often how abusive people vet potential partners, to find the ones who will put up with it

After a while, you're just over it, and don't want to hear that s**t anymore.

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30points

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#40

Smoking.

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#41

Playing hard to get.

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#42

When she talks to me about other guys she’s into especially if she’s trying to make me jeleous it makes me feel like you’re not interested in me instant turn off for me like why even talk to me in the first place.

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#43

Never being physically intimate and treating sex just as a chore.

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#44

Cancelling date plans with a terrible excuse and asking to reschedule. Why'd you agree to a date you were never intending on actually going on?

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#45

Being clingy and needy all the time and testing you by asking your thoughts on other women.

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#46

Being rude to the other women as they leave my house.

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#47

Agree to go on a date and just be boring or not intrested in conversation. Like why did you say yes in the first place.

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#48

Not having goals or a sense of direction in life can be a turn-off for those who value ambition and drive.

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#49

Short texts, infrequent texts. Okay okay I get it, I’ll f**k off then. I’m not going to carry the relationship and you’re clearly not head over heels.

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#50

I was on a date with a girl, we were having lunch., At one point she was talking to me, her mouth was moving but her eyes were tracking another guy who was walking across the room.

(a) What a rude thing to do

(b) She didn't even notice that I noticed...how obtuse.

(c) no more date for you.

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Jonas Grinevičius

Storytelling, journalism, and art are a core part of who I am. I've been writing and drawing ever since I could walk—there is nothing else I'd rather do. My formal education, however, is focused on politics, philosophy, and economics because I've always been curious about the gap between the ideal and the real. At work, I'm a Senior Writer and I cover a broad range of topics that I'm passionate about: from psychology and changes in work culture to healthy living, relationships, and design. In my spare time, I'm an avid hiker and reader, enjoy writing short stories, and love to doodle. I thrive when I'm outdoors, going on small adventures in nature. However, you can also find me enjoying a big mug of coffee with a good book (or ten) and entertaining friends with fantasy tabletop games and sci-fi movies.

Storytelling, journalism, and art are a core part of who I am. I've been writing and drawing ever since I could walk—there is nothing else I'd rather do. My formal education, however, is focused on politics, philosophy, and economics because I've always been curious about the gap between the ideal and the real. At work, I'm a Senior Writer and I cover a broad range of topics that I'm passionate about: from psychology and changes in work culture to healthy living, relationships, and design. In my spare time, I'm an avid hiker and reader, enjoy writing short stories, and love to doodle. I thrive when I'm outdoors, going on small adventures in nature. However, you can also find me enjoying a big mug of coffee with a good book (or ten) and entertaining friends with fantasy tabletop games and sci-fi movies.

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What do you think ?

René Sauer 3 months ago

All these comments going " MeN dO iT, tOo." Yeah, maybe. But the question that started this thread was was men think about women. Just go find a thread asking women instead and there you go.

17points

Savahax 3 months ago

I've got a whole new love for BP for showing both sides. As a man I've also went through a LOT of shít with women, including groping etc. Nice to be acknowledged

11points

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J Adams 3 months ago

With this article coming on the back of one yesterday from the opposite side we now have what women do wrong and what men do wrong, what have we learned? That both genders do exactly the same things!

9points

Rocky 3 months ago

Righto!! It's a human species syndrome. Who friggin knew /s

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Steve Hall 3 months ago

Most of these items seemed to me to be a signal that she just isn't into you that much.

4points

FROGLET 3 months ago

Ok, if a woman likes astrology, crystals, likes burning sage, etc., WHATEVER. If they actually don't date Capricorns THEN you should be worried. But doing the above as a hobby is completely fine.

4points

Pamelot 3 months ago

IMO most of the opinions were from very young people. Give it time. Even if you find someone who fits your do's & dont's their best friend or family member might not. Where does it stop?

4points

Helena 3 months ago

Were half of these written by the alpha incel crowd?

4points

DC 3 months ago (edited)

A few, I don't really understand. "Want to be treated feminine but act masculine.", for example, currently #59. What's that even meant to mean? How does one act, in this sense, masculine? Rip a tree out the ground and lay it down, because there was no free bench at the riverside? Generally, all that aren't single points, and debatable as such, but lists, seem to be not what's asked here, yet it's full thereof. And I want to remain single anyway, so, basically ... it doesn't really matter in regard to dating and mating, but ... is this article even meant to be read by me? I don't really want to be part of a couple. The only time I just got up and left was ... a blind date set up by a friend, against my objection that setting up people to become couples is kinda wrong in itself, and also, after the usual bit of introduction, she issued a ten minute long rant about cats, and how her sister's cat ruined her homework, peed in her bed (yes, always was the cat, the dog, but not her), and how her "stupid sister" kicked out a grade-A dude, vastly exceeding me, because he hated her "stupid cat". I should have asked for sister's number, but didn't think of it then.

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Strachan Coutinho 3 months ago

Looks like the post has struck a nerve!

1point

similarly 3 months ago

So ... let me get this straight: we want men to talk about their feelings, or talk about what bothers them, but when they do, instead of maybe, I don't know, talking about what they don't understand, we're just going to label and belittle and ridicule and scorn them. And then, tomorrow, we're going to have BP post talking about why men won't talk about what's bothering them. Yes, I don't agree with some of these, but maybe just let them get it out of their system.

-1point

sofacushionfort 3 months ago

I’m a middle aged white guy who voted for Hilary in 2016, and the next week at a party every woman and person under 40 gave me hate stares because I’d obviously voted for Trump. I’m a servant to my own conscience, not anyone else’s perceptions.

3points

Aerial (Any pronouns/Canadian/Jewish) 3 months ago

Hmm, this is interesting. The post from yesterday, which was very similar to this but women talking about men, currently has around 50 post votes. This one's currently at around 20. Judging by these comments, I'm getting a double standard kind of vibe from all of you.

2points

DC and S 3 months ago (edited)

Well, I don't do any of these things. Must just be my personality then. 🤔

1point

Fabulous chocolate cookie 3 months ago

For me one of the biggest things to make me lose interest in a women are smoking/d***s, having tattoos or piercings and unnecessary drama. Another thing which makes me reconsider interest is when a woman has zero ambitions, plans or hobbies. I had this recently with a ex-coworker I hanged out with a lot. It was impossible to initiate a conversation with her as the only thing she did besides work was being inside reading books all day long.

0points

Flo 3 months ago

Playing hard to get/games in general, not "knowing" how to use a razor, being rude to animals, having no goals, constantly on the phone, just trying to live off of others etc. The more red flags you encounter, the more you ask yourself if you REALLY want to put up with those - and the answer should be no. There are enough great girls out there, don't settle if you got a bad feeling from the start.

-2points

Carl Roberts 3 months ago

Hmmm...the one about "all men bad" got a ton of upvotes, while this one is getting downvoted. Gee what a surprise.

-2points

Sergio Bicerra 3 months ago

Not as bad as some of these, but happened with many women (different movies). Imagine Thanos realizing henno longer has the infinity stones, Tony Stark saying And I... "Ok gonna go pee" or catching her browsing instagram. Damn, thats the best part of the movie!!!

-2points

Dekker451 3 months ago

To be fair, crossover media can be very boring for people aren't familiar with the source material. Even as someone who likes superheroes, I got sick of their movies when they were almost the only kind of movie being released for a while.

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René Sauer 3 months ago

All these comments going " MeN dO iT, tOo." Yeah, maybe. But the question that started this thread was was men think about women. Just go find a thread asking women instead and there you go.

17points

Savahax 3 months ago

I've got a whole new love for BP for showing both sides. As a man I've also went through a LOT of shít with women, including groping etc. Nice to be acknowledged

11points

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J Adams 3 months ago

With this article coming on the back of one yesterday from the opposite side we now have what women do wrong and what men do wrong, what have we learned? That both genders do exactly the same things!

9points

Rocky 3 months ago

Righto!! It's a human species syndrome. Who friggin knew /s

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Steve Hall 3 months ago

Most of these items seemed to me to be a signal that she just isn't into you that much.

4points

FROGLET 3 months ago

Ok, if a woman likes astrology, crystals, likes burning sage, etc., WHATEVER. If they actually don't date Capricorns THEN you should be worried. But doing the above as a hobby is completely fine.

4points

Pamelot 3 months ago

IMO most of the opinions were from very young people. Give it time. Even if you find someone who fits your do's & dont's their best friend or family member might not. Where does it stop?

4points

Helena 3 months ago

Were half of these written by the alpha incel crowd?

4points

DC 3 months ago (edited)

A few, I don't really understand. "Want to be treated feminine but act masculine.", for example, currently #59. What's that even meant to mean? How does one act, in this sense, masculine? Rip a tree out the ground and lay it down, because there was no free bench at the riverside? Generally, all that aren't single points, and debatable as such, but lists, seem to be not what's asked here, yet it's full thereof. And I want to remain single anyway, so, basically ... it doesn't really matter in regard to dating and mating, but ... is this article even meant to be read by me? I don't really want to be part of a couple. The only time I just got up and left was ... a blind date set up by a friend, against my objection that setting up people to become couples is kinda wrong in itself, and also, after the usual bit of introduction, she issued a ten minute long rant about cats, and how her sister's cat ruined her homework, peed in her bed (yes, always was the cat, the dog, but not her), and how her "stupid sister" kicked out a grade-A dude, vastly exceeding me, because he hated her "stupid cat". I should have asked for sister's number, but didn't think of it then.

8points

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Strachan Coutinho 3 months ago

Looks like the post has struck a nerve!

1point

similarly 3 months ago

So ... let me get this straight: we want men to talk about their feelings, or talk about what bothers them, but when they do, instead of maybe, I don't know, talking about what they don't understand, we're just going to label and belittle and ridicule and scorn them. And then, tomorrow, we're going to have BP post talking about why men won't talk about what's bothering them. Yes, I don't agree with some of these, but maybe just let them get it out of their system.

-1point

sofacushionfort 3 months ago

I’m a middle aged white guy who voted for Hilary in 2016, and the next week at a party every woman and person under 40 gave me hate stares because I’d obviously voted for Trump. I’m a servant to my own conscience, not anyone else’s perceptions.

3points

Aerial (Any pronouns/Canadian/Jewish) 3 months ago

Hmm, this is interesting. The post from yesterday, which was very similar to this but women talking about men, currently has around 50 post votes. This one's currently at around 20. Judging by these comments, I'm getting a double standard kind of vibe from all of you.

2points

DC and S 3 months ago (edited)

Well, I don't do any of these things. Must just be my personality then. 🤔

1point

Fabulous chocolate cookie 3 months ago

For me one of the biggest things to make me lose interest in a women are smoking/d***s, having tattoos or piercings and unnecessary drama. Another thing which makes me reconsider interest is when a woman has zero ambitions, plans or hobbies. I had this recently with a ex-coworker I hanged out with a lot. It was impossible to initiate a conversation with her as the only thing she did besides work was being inside reading books all day long.

0points

Flo 3 months ago

Playing hard to get/games in general, not "knowing" how to use a razor, being rude to animals, having no goals, constantly on the phone, just trying to live off of others etc. The more red flags you encounter, the more you ask yourself if you REALLY want to put up with those - and the answer should be no. There are enough great girls out there, don't settle if you got a bad feeling from the start.

-2points

Carl Roberts 3 months ago

Hmmm...the one about "all men bad" got a ton of upvotes, while this one is getting downvoted. Gee what a surprise.

-2points

Sergio Bicerra 3 months ago

Not as bad as some of these, but happened with many women (different movies). Imagine Thanos realizing henno longer has the infinity stones, Tony Stark saying And I... "Ok gonna go pee" or catching her browsing instagram. Damn, thats the best part of the movie!!!

-2points

Dekker451 3 months ago

To be fair, crossover media can be very boring for people aren't familiar with the source material. Even as someone who likes superheroes, I got sick of their movies when they were almost the only kind of movie being released for a while.

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