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People Share 50 Things They Really Wish They Knew Before Getting Inked
Interview With ExpertGetting a tattoo is an exciting experience—it’s a way to express yourself, mark special moments, or just get something cool on your skin. But let’s be real, not everyone thinks it through completely, and some end up with regrets. Curious about what people wish they had known before getting inked, a man asked online, “What’s something you wish you knew about having tattoos BEFORE you started getting tattoos?” The responses came pouring in, with people sharing their biggest lessons, unexpected struggles, and hard-earned wisdom. Whether you’re planning your first tattoo, thinking about adding another, or just love hearing real-life tattoo stories, keep reading for some candid insights from those who’ve been there, done that, and (sometimes) wish they had done it differently!
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There will always be someone with better tattoos than you, and there will always be someone with worse tattoos. Don’t compare, just enjoy yours and stay true to your taste.
Go to a reputable artist and pay the extra $$. Quality > quantity.
Not always true. There are up-and-coming artists with incredible work - or people who are simply less-known, or live in another country (looking at you, Portugal). Really check out someone's book - get familiar with their work and their style. And of course, make sure the shop follows proper sterile technique and other safety measures.
Getting a tattoo is a big decision—one that stays with you forever (literally). Some people get inked to mark a special milestone, honor a loved one, or showcase their personality.
But let’s be honest, plenty of tattoos also happen on impulse. And while that spontaneous little design might seem like a great idea at the moment, regret can creep in fast.
1 thing to know above all else. Once you start getting visible tattoos like hands, neck, head. You will instantly be looked at differently, not usually in a good way.
Your taste in tattoos WILL change as you age. Sincerely, someone with a nature sleeve and an American trad sleeve.
And your body will change. That tattoo that looked great when you got it might not age well in multiple ways. https://youtu.be/vBmvfW7WOUc?t=39
To get a better understanding of what goes into a great tattoo (and how to avoid the dreaded regret), Bored Panda spoke with Harkesh Rajpoot, a seasoned tattoo artist with over a decade of experience.
With 33K followers on Instagram and a background in mehndi artistry, he’s seen it all—from beautifully thought-out designs to last-minute choices that didn’t age well.
DONT GET MATCHING TATTOOS WITH FRIENDS!!! Knew this girl for a year got a kinda matching tattoo with her. Now I wish to never see her again but then she is always reminded of me when she looks at her arm.
SkyeBlue:
Never get matching tattoos. Doesn't matter how long you were together too.
Don't be scared to say you don't like something about the design & want something changed just because you don't want to be a 'hassle' to the tattoo artist. Speak up! That's part of their job.
"There are so many people who come in without a clue about what they want. They’ll ask me to suggest a design, and while I try to help, a tattoo is personal. It should be something meaningful to them, not just something trendy," he explained.
While Pinterest boards and Instagram trends can be great for inspiration, they shouldn’t be the only reason someone gets a tattoo.
Don't let the tattoo artist convince you that something THEY want is better than what YOU want.
According to Harkesh, the details matter just as much as the design. "People rarely think about things like color, placement, or how their tattoo will look in five or ten years.
For example, red ink fades faster, and certain shades don’t sit well on all skin tones," he said. These small but crucial details can make a huge difference in how the tattoo looks down the road.
Set whatever you want as your lockscreen for a week or so and make sure you’re gonna like seeing it every day.
Well I wish I would've known I'm allergic to red ink before getting a red ink tattoo 😭😭
Don’t get quotes especially after a break up.
Placement is another key factor. "People love intricate designs on fingers, wrists, or behind the ear, but they don’t realize that these areas experience a lot of wear and tear. Over time, the fine details blur, and the tattoo can end up looking like a smudge," he pointed out. It’s something many people don’t think about until it’s too late.
If you want a really big piece, wait minimum 3 years and if you still want it after that time, then do it.
My largest tattoo took over 9 hours, broken up into sessions, and I love it. However, it's a commitment, so do not rush into a huge piece without thinking about the amount of skin you are covering, what it will look like as you age, and how visible it will be on a daily basis.
That brown ink tattoos age like fine wine😭🙏🏽
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That brown tattoos were a thing, I feel it’d look so much better with my skintone.
But fine wine ages well, doesn’t it? I don’t understand what’s being said, here.
And then, of course, there are the clients who completely ignore advice. "I had a client once who got a tattoo just for fun, without much thought. A year later, they came back asking if I could fix it. Unfortunately, not everything can be ‘fixed’—sometimes, the only option is laser removal, which is painful and expensive," he shared.
YOU choose the placement and direction of the tattoo. I have a couple in my forearms "upside down" because I like to look at them, but other people see it upside down.
A good friend of mine is a tattoo artist, very very skilled, decades of experience. Like a lot of people, ol' Nicky boy is known to get a little bit thirsty sometimes, so he's headed out in search of a refreshing beverage to ease his parched mouth.. you can see where this is going but let's face it, nothing interesting starts with "we all ate some cucumber slices, read the bible, then went to bed at 7 o'clock"? He's gone out and got himself what we call in England "absolutely blind leaping shitfaced drunk, pissed out of his brain". Somehow he makes it home, and like any reasonable person in that situation decides it'd be a really good idea to give himself a f*****g tattoo... Now to be fair to him, it's a beautiful piece, it's a wolf walking through long grass under a full moon on the front of his thigh. Incredible detail, really well done. Only problem is the moon's next to his kneecap and the wolf's paws are up by his bollocks somewhere, but other than that it's really good.
That people will never stop saying to me “you know it’s forever, you can’t take them off” ohh thank you Karen, I didn’t know that 🤡
Normally say " you can with a cheese grater and whiskey " then walk off while the process the visuals....lol
It's not that deep! I love my tattoos but I genuinely forget about them and then just get happy when I see them.
I love when older women come up and love my tattoos and ask how old were you when you got that and I say 50 you are never to old to get a tattoo
Another common mistake? Going for tattoos that are way too small. "Tiny tattoos might look cute at first, but as the ink settles into the skin, they can spread out and become unreadable. Fine lines blur, small text becomes illegible—it’s not always a good long-term choice," he added.
I wish I had a fully developed frontal lobe and no people pleasing qualities, I got bullied into designs I didn’t want and I was too scared to say no
Wait til you’re over 21 to get started. Sincerely, a 26 year old who started at 16 and regrets 50% of my tattoos.
When my son was 17 he kept insisting he was going to get a specific tattoo. I told him to think very hard about it because what is seriously cool at 17 is very likely to be a source of embarrassment at 27. For once he listened to me, and now that he’s 47 he is very thankful he didn’t get that tattoo.
That a few years later they can just suddenly become completely raised ?? was very unexpected but all of my tattoos are like raised and they feel like braille💀
If you’re considering getting a tattoo, Harkesh recommends doing some proper research first. "Find an artist whose style you love, ask them for advice, and think about your tattoo beyond just the next few months. This is something that’s going to be on your body forever," he emphasized.
Healing in Australian summer actually sucks, get tattoos in cold months.
Make sure to eat before getting tatted! My first sleeve appointment I hadn't eaten properly before and my leg and arm kept moving involuntarily and I kept getting faint.
No matter how tatted you are, you’ll never feel tatted enough. It’s a slippery slope.
Im running out of landscape so now I have to really think about what I want.
For those who are worried about regretting their choice, he has one simple piece of advice: "If you’re unsure, don’t rush it. Wait a few months, see if you still love the idea, and then go for it. A tattoo should be something you’re excited about for years, not just in the moment."
At the end of the day, tattoos are an amazing way to express yourself—but only if you take the time to do it right. A little planning goes a long way in ensuring that your ink is something you’ll always love.
So, which of these tattoo tips did you find the most helpful? Let us know in the comments!
That the healing process is so much worse than actually getting the tattoo.
This is a yes and no answer. The healing is painful for a couple of days, especially the changing of the clingfilm and putting ointment on etc However, the 12hr session piece, done over 2 consecutive days was far more painful, especially that 2nd day, than the healing time for it. The pain on day 2 was excruciating. The aftercare felt like a breeze in comparison. It was well worth it though. I love my sleeve, but it didnt half hurt.
If you don’t wear sunscreen you WILL regret it, even if you don’t get a burn.
Is this especially true with tattoos? I usually regret not using sunscreen, even without.
Plan your tattoo placement for your whole arm, leg, whatever. ruined the flow of my entire arm by not planning ahead & seeing the bigger picture.
I don’t regret a single tattoo I just regret not having a larger scheme plan of layout, placement and style.
☝️This!! I don't regret my tatts, only that I didn't plan them out better.
That you gotta stand up for yourself or you'll end up with an oddly placed tattoo that looks out of place.
I have 3 that I now wish I could move the placement just a little bit.
You can't have laser hair removal where you have tattoos so maybe jump onto that first.
Wish I knew about tattoo flu!!
Tattoo flu refers to the temporary flu-like symptoms—such as mild fever, chills, fatigue, and muscle aches—that some people experience as their immune system reacts to the trauma of tattooing. These symptoms generally appear within a day after getting inked and usually resolve within one to two days with proper aftercare, though persistent or severe symptoms should be evaluated by a healthcare professional.
Approach tattoos as a testimony of who you were, not who you are: ink doesn’t define you so have fun with it.
Know prime real estate!!!! Do not get a flash tattoo in prime real estate!!!
Wait till you’re in your 20s, your ideas WILL CHANGE 😂!
To do better research on the artists. I wanted a cover-up but ended up with a blast over.
That your first tattoo doesn’t NEED to be somewhere obvious like your arm, you will regret it.
Lowkey you will have a few days of regret immediately after you get them but i always end up loving them again after that initial panic stage.
You can lowkey have reactions to the ink, I get acne and and skin irritation in the area mine are in.
Dont get color tattoo unless, UNLESS YOU ARE LIKE RICH RICH 😭 they don't age well yall. You need to get a very expensive one.
I have color tattoos that are more than 10 years old and still very beautiful colors.....The key is sunscreen!
1. never tatto on a bad day (u will remember 4ever) 2. u will change and you will grow out of some designs or color choices. they were once a representation of your artistic expression.. embrace it. 3. do your research on the tatto artist first, don't just go to the local shop and get it done
don't get a tattoo to remember bad/depressing thoughts. no "the world is s**t" or "life is unfair" quotes. you want to be lifted up, not put down. mine generally center around perspective and change, even if I got them in dark situations.
After you actually get the tattoo that you have been obsessed with for X years, you won’t care about it as much – it’ll feel like it’s always been there.
That musician you love and tatooed his band logo might be a complete d**k, racist, rapeist, etc some years after and ruin their music to you.
Ted Nugent has made some very good music, but I wish I hadn't paid for one of his albums way back in high school. If I'd liked him enough to get a tattoo he wouldn't have gotten a penny in royalties, but it would be a cost I paid.
Load More Replies...Never had one, never will. Sailors used to get tattoos as mementos of ports they visited; now we have fridge magnets.
The idea of getting a tattoo always puzzled me because I couldn’t stand the idea of wearing the same clothes or jewelry every single day, so why would I want the same body artwork every single day? I change, I evolve. Tattoos are permanent. Mostly. A person’s body changes and shifts. A body at 50 can be a whole lot different than a body at 25. So no, I’ll stick to an ever changing wardrobe and set of jewelry.
I am always changing my ideas and style, I know a tattoo will be a bad idea . I even changed my wedding ring after 10 years, I didn't like the first one anymore (but I kept the same husband)
Load More Replies...That musician you love and tatooed his band logo might be a complete d**k, racist, rapeist, etc some years after and ruin their music to you.
Ted Nugent has made some very good music, but I wish I hadn't paid for one of his albums way back in high school. If I'd liked him enough to get a tattoo he wouldn't have gotten a penny in royalties, but it would be a cost I paid.
Load More Replies...Never had one, never will. Sailors used to get tattoos as mementos of ports they visited; now we have fridge magnets.
The idea of getting a tattoo always puzzled me because I couldn’t stand the idea of wearing the same clothes or jewelry every single day, so why would I want the same body artwork every single day? I change, I evolve. Tattoos are permanent. Mostly. A person’s body changes and shifts. A body at 50 can be a whole lot different than a body at 25. So no, I’ll stick to an ever changing wardrobe and set of jewelry.
I am always changing my ideas and style, I know a tattoo will be a bad idea . I even changed my wedding ring after 10 years, I didn't like the first one anymore (but I kept the same husband)
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