People Remember That These 70 Things Weren’t As Shocking When They Were Kids As They Are Now
Those who knew life before the internet and today’s technology lived an entirely different existence. It was so starkly different that many practices during those years may confuse, shock, or even horrify people today.
This was a discussion in a recent Reddit thread. Older folks looked back on a time when it was acceptable to smoke cigarettes on airplanes, walk through airline gates without a ticket, and have a phonebook containing personal information for everyone to see.
Many consider this a “golden era” filled with glorious moments. If you’re one of them, feel free to share your insights in the comment boxes below!
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Free range kids with no tracking. I left home on Saturdays after the last good cartoon, and my family didn't see me again until dinner. I was in the woods fighting imaginary Russians or having bottle rocket wars with kids on the block.
sheburns17 replied:
This! My mom kicked us outside when we got rowdy and told us to come back when she whistled! We knew not to pass the stop sign at one end of the road and the mailbox on the other. We had treehouses made from random s**t we found in the woods and would battle each other. Man, my kids now could never.
We used to go out on our bikes way beyond where the last street lights were!
Load More Replies...This is how I grew up. (born in 1956). I walked by myself to school starting in the 2nd grade. On weekends (during the school session) and all summer, I'd be out of the house after breakfast and no one knew where I was until the street lights came on in the evening. I'd wander the "wilder" parts of the local parks, I'd drive the librarians crazy helping me find books. I'd hang with my friends.
Outside all day, with zero protection from UV rays, mosquitoes, or rusty playground equipment
Kids today have no concept of the number of scars we got back then.
Load More Replies...Summer holidays, off playing football until dusk. Think I lived off tap water.
I'm way over 50 and remember my parents warning against my generation getting square-eyed from watching TV and reminiscing how they'd always been out playing, etc. And in 20 years time, Gen Z will be saying the exact same thing to the next generation... It's part of getting old.
Context: This appears to refer to the 60s-80s, when the cold war was going on, so the USSR was seen as an enemy in what was known as the "Red Scare". Marvel even joined in
The amount of kids who could fit in the back of a station wagon.
HatFickle4904 replied:
My parents would drive all night from L.A to Sacramento, CA. We'd get in our pajamas, and my Dad would fold down the back seat of the 1984 Chevy station wagon so that we had a giant bed. He played out a huge sleeping bag unzipped, and my two brothers and I would curl up in that and drive all night. It used to feel like we were in a spaceship as the lights from big rigs would fan across that rear windshield. Some of my best memories as a kid.
When I was a teen we managed to 7 of us into a Ford Fiesta. One of us was a big guy as well. We were sitting at traffic lights and the police pulled up next to us. One of them looked at us, just shook his head and drove off.
We had a school strike over haircuts in about 1970, when I was in the 6th form; rather than be off all day we went in en masse about 10am. Most of us walked or bussed in as usual but my brother’s friend has inherited a very elderly Ford anglia and picked some of us up. Nine of us to be exact, no one sat on the driver’s knee though.
Load More Replies...We used to drive any long distances at night. Jammies and blankies and don't annoy your brother. I still find being a passenger pleasantly soporific.
To this day, when I hear "New Kid In Town" by The Eagles, I am in the back of my grandparent's station wagon with my brother and my aunt who is the the same age as my brother, and all the plants my mom and grandma, and the other aunts bought...back when that song was brand new.
I loved that rear facing seat in the back on the station wagon! There was just something special about sitting there. :)
My parents used to drive on semi-long road trips (maybe 40 or 50 miles) with me, my brother and sister in the bed of the Ford pickup we had at the time. No camper shell. I remember once my dad had to swerve to avoid something and I got thrown from one side of the truck bed to the other. Probably very lucky I didn't get thrown out.
Personal record is about 10. It was a 60s vintage full size Jeep Wagoneer though so it was roughly the size of a mountain.
When I was a kid, i and my two brothers would be in the back of a Volkswagen Beetle for tip. Dad let the back seat down and we were off...
My parents did this they would put us to sleep in the car the night before a long road trip so all they had to do is wake up and go .
Of course, this stopped for safety reasons. It's like having ten people drinking beer in the truck bed, they could get hurt due to lack of seat belts, among other things
The average blue collar worker could raise a happy and content family on a single income….can you imagine?
This! And now we have people who are literally fighting against unions. UNIONS!! The organization's that gave us the middle class and ended child labor.
Our grandparents & their parents fought for unions. People DIED for it. My grandfather ran moonshine after getting fired for trying to organize. And then their children & grandchildren got spoiled & didn't want to pay union dues & that we didn't need unions any more, BECAUSE WE HAD LAWS TO PROTECT US. Now we know that laws can be changed. The only way unions will survive is if the do not allow companies to give the same benefits/pay to people who aren't in unions. As usual, many want to take advantage of the benefits, but not pay the dues. Now they are getting lower pay, even if you included the price of dues. And forget safety regulations. Those are a joke in my town.
Load More Replies...These days the cost of existing, never mind living is so high that whether you have kids or not, it takes two incomes just to cover the basics.
In much of the world they still can, the USA seem to be the outlier here.
That's a VERY optimistic outlook. I live in Southern Europe. We're just as f****d as the US, but with universal healthcare. We're also leaders in prescription of benzodiazepines because people live paycheck to paycheck and can't afford any emergency, let alone support a whole family on a single salary. The ones who do are below poverty line, something unimaginable 40 years ago.
Load More Replies...Leaving out working LOTS of OT, as I did. In the 18 years I worked in mfg, fully 11-12 years was 6 day weeks, 5-6 years 7 day weeks. This does not count the 10 or 12 hr days.
My father left me at home alone for 2 weeks when he went on a trip. I was in high school and got myself up every morning and got to school on time and made my own meals. I think he called one time. This didn’t seem weird or wrong to me at all.
Happened to a lot of us in Gen-X. The pantry was stocked and I knew how to cook. I had an afterschool job at Pizza Hut. I knew how to do laundry and anything else. NBD.
Same. I even took home economics twice. I can cook fairly well and sew a button or a patch when needed.
Load More Replies...I was either 15 or 16 when my mum went on holiday for a couple of weeks without me. I didn't mind at all, I'd always been perfectly capable of getting myself up and out, and I'd been brought up expected to cook, so meals weren't a problem either.
My mom denies she did this to me, but I know I was left alone for days while she went off to her boyfriend's. I wouldn't always know when she came back. That was only for a few months until she got back with her husband. They just separated. I don't understand this mindset.
I liked it personally but I was a weird kid who got thrown around a lot to diff homes. When my dad got me, he was always drunk at the pub or work, so I just raised myself from yr9, I’m glad it was me and not my sister, she’s the opposite of me, she got to live with mum and her wife and never had security/stability problems at home, and I’m glad.
Load More Replies...I once left my 3 kids home alone overnight so my husband could have shoulder surgery in Philadelphia. One was in high school, one in middle school, and one in primary school, all 2 years apart. Everything went well, and we were back the next day.
Yeah, my parents went to France for a week and left me home alone when I was 15. Evidence that I was a boring kid with no rowdy mates to trash the place.
Ha I know what you mean. When I was in high school (I *think* I was 16) my parents went on a cruise for a little over a week and so it was just me and my six years younger brother. We made dinner, rode bikes a few times, watched movies, played N64, etc. My parents would call most nights, and they had one of our aunts check in on us once. Yep, no wild parties… Or any parties, ha.
Load More Replies...My mom left me at 16 with my 2 younger sisters, 13 & 9, for the weekend for the first time & called several times to keep up. I didn't sneak out, but did invite my friends to hang out by my window. I had to stop my youngest sister from going out the window. Many of my friends had working parents, but they weren't allowed outside until their parents got home. It's amazing that it's almost the same, some parents did, and some didn't.
My mother did this as soon as I was able to drive my younger sibs to school.
Visiting. Folks used to drop in on one another to chat.
I was still doing that into the 2000s. Just pop in with a six pack and a joint.
Thank god, the reason I stay home is to avoid people, why would I want people coming to my house (let alone unannounced)
No kidding! I don't wear a bra or pants when I'm alone. :)
Load More Replies...This is something I miss when you could just drop in. The door was always open, the kettle was always on, nobody was too busy to have a chat. These days everything is on social media and I feel like I'm an inconvenience if I just pop round to somebody’s house on a whim.
Because you are! People have lives to live. They like privacy. Text or call to ASK if it's a good time and wait for confirmation. Don't just shove yourself into someone's space like that. It's SO rude!
Load More Replies...I hated that even then. My mum was disorganised at the best of times, but if someone dropped in, the whole day would be a wash. We might get nicer biscuits or something to snack on if there were some in the cupboard though.
You had to wait for a week to 10 days to see the pictures you took-after you dropped them off to be developed.
and you seldom took selfies and no one ever thought about making dxxxkpics,cause you didn't want this kind of pic developed by a dude that knows you or worse your mom
I remember when Polaroid camera came out. If you took a selfie you were considered very conceited. You would get made fun off. Now young people film themselves taking a dump. It is concerning
Load More Replies...Digital cameras are fantastic. I remember the days of film and having to be careful what you took photos of because you had limited exposures. These days you just take thousands of photos, you can instantly see if your settings are correct, and you're bound to get something good from the many you take.
I went to Greece, Turkey, Rome, and Bulgaria in the early aughts for 5 weeks. I packed what I thought would be enough camera film. I was so wrong. I had to keep a little notebook to track how many pics I could take at a historical sight. I didn't want to be in any pics because it meant seeing less of the area. I took a lot of panorama shots to get as much as I could in a shot. Now I take too many shots b/c I can and any of them could be messed up and I want pics of everything--all b/c of the film pics trauma.
Load More Replies...And not knowing if the photos were that good until then. Not taking a ton of photos because development wasn't cheap. That's one thing l don't miss
I remember photo developers started giving credit for any pictures in the roll that you didn't like. I thought that was so cool.
Load More Replies...I used to waste a lot of film too, not being able to see how my pics came out.
And came back with a sticker on the photo saying out of focus or underexposed…
Television stations going off the air around midnight along with a patriotic song, followed by a test pattern that remained until morning.
I remember some stations just went all staticky or had the coloured bars. No song or anything else. Then infomercials started filling in the overnight slots.
I was IN one of those infomercials for 1-900-DOCTORS and I didn't tell anyone but then my uncle saw it in another state and called and asked if that was me!
Load More Replies...When I was a kid I would watch the Ceefax pages scroll by, it had a nice chill out music playing in the background. Proper 8bit stuff Ceefax-680...15-png.jpg
I remember when they also said 'It's 10 pm. do you know where your children are?'
They went off the air and there wasn't even a test pattern, just "snow."
And it was all good until your daughter started talking to the TV people
Ours rolled over to a loud penetrating droning tone. It was how we knew to wake up and go to bed.
It was called tone and bars. It's still used as a test pattern for transmissions. In the US, the FCC mandated stations finish every day with the national anthem then tone and bars. This went away when cable TV provided more programs. Some stations went to 24/7 programming by the 1970s. Smaller stations didn't transition until 80s or 90s.
The rampant sexual harassment that occurred on a daily basis for most women in the workforce. Women were expected to accept it and not complain.
When I think of all the stuff said to me in the 70s when I was a young teen that we just brushed off. We learned to not complain and just accept it. If we did complain we were considered trouble makers who were over reacting. My neighbor regularly beat his wife and no one said or did anything. I am so glad women now are fighting to change that.
Yeah, at 13 I was getting hit on my grown men. Luckily, not my parents' friends.
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Or high school had a student smoking area. There wasn't an age requirement. Also restaurants did not have no smoking areas.
I just about remember smoking / non-smoking areas in restaurants, and it didn't matter which you chose, you'd still end up stinking of cigarettes.
Our "greasers" successfully lobbied for an outside smoking area based on the existence of the teachers' smoking lounge. I'm still impressed.
I can still remember a high school assembly when we were told "Smoking is forbidden on school grounds but if you must, please use the smokers' pedal bins provided".
Like on bicycles? I'd think it would be hard to ride a bike.
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I was babysitting an infant and a four-year-old when I was 11. These days, a lot of 11-year-olds have sitters or nannies.
My babysitting/petsitting business was fully up and running at age 12. I put flyers in all the mailboxes on my block. This is how I paid for most of my college tuition.
By the time I was 12, I was certified in First Aid and regularly babysitting, and a certified Lifeguard. I took my final exam in the Chesapeake Bay. I also cut our front and back lawns. This was fairly normal in the late 1960s.
Even in the late 90s I thought it was weird for 12 year olds to babysit people other than their siblings. I'm not sure how much it actually happened in Australia at the time, but it was all over American tv & movies. I might have looked after my (9 years younger) sister while my mum ran to the shops when I was about that age, but not for longer. I wasn't left alone to look after my little brother until I was 17+ because of his disability, and my sister usually liked to go anywhere he got to so it didn't happen often. I wasn't allowed to babysit other children until I was 16.
That you pulled into a gas station, and a guy in uniform came out, filled your tank, checked the oil, and washed your windshield. And you didn't tip him.
My mom had never pumped her own gas. So when my state got rid of all full-service gas stations I was the one who had to teach her how to do it. I was 17 at the time. :)
My mom never did learn to pump her own gas. Til the day she died one of her grandsons or my brother would go fill up the tank or the kind people at the station would come out.
Load More Replies...New Jersey still does this. It's actually a law there that you can't pump gas for yourself.
Into the 70s the guys at my local Texaco did this. If it wasn't busy, sometimes one would wash the windows while another checked the oil.
I worked in a Shell station in 73 and they hammered "we get every windshield and under every hood" into our heads.
Load More Replies...I moved from New Jersey to Indiana. Having learned to drive - at 31- I'd never pumped gas but once or twice when I visited my family in Kentucky. I'm still learning.
Homosexuality was illegal here in Ireland till 1993. In schools in the 70s & 80s we were taught it was wrong, a mortal sin and that it was perverted. To be gay was a horrendous existence and people were openly hostile to it. To be trans was off the chart completely. Hard to believe the amount of progress we have made since then.
So is the UK, recent Supreme Court decision regarding the definition of a woman has set back trans womens rights years
Load More Replies...I still remember the s e x education at my catholic school in the 70s. "Have you touched yourself?" the priest wrote on the blackboard. I had no idea what he was talking about, so I said "Yes, many times," thinking of when I touched my face, or when I showered. I dont remember if the priest fainted 😅
"Indeed, father, I touch myself hundreds of times per day... and sometimes at night." :D
Load More Replies...I remember vividly having a cousin in the early 70s that spent all his free time in his room alone. Reading, listening to music etc. My aunt's and Uncles made fun of him relentlessly. One of the insults was that he must be gay to stay in his room all the time. It was so common to say that about anyone who was an introvert or not what society deemed normal. I was 12 at the time and I remember how much it ticked me off listening to them talk. But 12 year olds in 1974 did not speak up.
There was a time when people would use the word gay as something lame. Like if you hated something you'd say "that's so gay". I'm glad that stopped - I hated it. ;)
Load More Replies...Ireland is doing better than Northern Ireland, where the regressive DUP have done their best to prevent any sort of social progress.
Bith parties are equally to blame. When the local government at Stormont refuse to sit for years on end, then they are all liable.
Load More Replies...I still remember when my mum left my dad in (aus)1997, she was allowed to keep us kids because one year before, a law was passed to legally allow gay parents to keep their kids in their gay relationships. (It made no sense to us small kids why this was even illegal or so frowned upon 😂). Previously we would have been removed and legal actions would proceed, like wtf, annnnd if mum happened to die manda/her wife now, wouldn’t of been allowed to keep me or my sister legally either despite my sister having manda in her life since she was a baby. Another so stupid thing - mum said it was worse again before cos the 70s you could be legally incarcerated in nut houses for being queer. Like wtf 😬 my mums a very delicate gentle mummy like d**e and I can’t even imagine her being locked up for that she would have died of sadness.
In Mexico it was made legal in 1871. One of the first countries to do so. However, many men were targeted under "public decency" laws until the late 1970's. There was even an especial wing for them at Lecumberri Prison, Building J, in Mexico City. Overtime came the slur "Jotos" or "The J's" for homosexual men, but instead the LGBT community took the name was a pride term.
We have had same-s*x marriage for years now, we have gay and trans rights enshrined in law. If you're referring to the Supreme Court judgement yesterday, then I would suggest you haven't understood the ruling.
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People being completely unreachable, even children, for multiple days. Not in a they aren't answering work emails on purpose, but are posting on Instagram kind of way-- but truly, no one knows where the hell this person is or how to get in touch with them... oh well, ok. Carry on.
nysflyboy replied:
God, I soooooo miss this. Not just for myself, because it's possible to still drop off the planet for a while, but what I miss is this being NORMAL for all people. Like in the before cell phone, before answering machine days. Call and leave a message with someone who answered. Or not. 'Where is Jake?' 'Oh, he went down South for a few days. Check back next week.'
Not having a smartphone means I am unreachable by e-mail when I'm not at home or at work. Feels great :)
Had a moment when I was younger where my brother's friend texts him and after five seconds of sending a "hello" it jumps to "are you alive?"
You didn't have to worry about being kidnapped or being shot. There was crime around but it wasn't as prevalent as it is today.
Rotary Dialing a phone number; the idea of long distance toll charges on phone calls; dialing 0 for an operator (always a lady); 411 for information; white pages yellow pages even blue pages in a phone book sent out yearly by ATT, GTE ….
grejam replied:
Long-distance phone calls were a big thing. Rarely ever done. If you've got a long-distance call, it was something important. Probably bad news about family members.
Remember how long-distance was cheaper later in the evening? I don't miss this!
No, instead we pay a lot of money just to have a phone we can call anyone on anytime of day. A lot more than the cost of a long distance call.
Load More Replies...And when you called a business, you got a person not a robot menu.
I was just thinking about this the other day. Last Friday in fact because it was April 11th. 4-11. US date format at least.
Calling to a different country still might cost extra, depending on your service package and the country
Load More Replies...In the 90ies in Germany we had a long table of different prefixes that hang next to the phone, so you could look up which one to dial on a certain time of the day for local, regional or long distance calls in order to safe a few cents.
I remember getting in trouble as a kid because I was calling my friend that moved to the next town over. Her house was less than 10 minutes from our house, but it was a toll call because it was a different town.
In Germany, we had to pay by units, and each unit was 8 minutes, so we were supposed to keep our calls shorter than that. We still have the 8-minute egg timer we used. And I have some elderly relatives and friends who automatically keep their calls around 5 minutes, even though these days there are flatrates.
Walking to airline gates without a ticket or TSA. When I was a kid mom would take me to BWI airport and we would watch the planes from the pier.
ontrack replied:
Also, traveling by yourself at a young age. I flew from DC to south Texas and changed planes in Houston, entirely by myself, at 13. My parents just dropped me off in front of the terminal, and I did the rest. I was not escorted or monitored by any airport personnel.
I remember when I visited the pilot(s) in the cockpit and they showed us sh¡t
They will still do that with young children when the plane is on the ground and if you ask nicely.
Load More Replies...I took a plane on my own at a very young age. My mom dropped me off at the gates. My dad picked up me up in the other city at the gates. But those tunnels were still long and I felt lost and scared. Gotta admit, a 6 year old unaccompanied is not good idea.
Being able to greet people as they came off the plane. Then it was moved back to the small security section on the walkway to the terminal.
Yeah, I miss getting off the plane, looking around, and seeing my friends / relatives right away.
Load More Replies...I used to travel by myself, every spring break, to visit my sister in Tennessee. I started at age 12 to 17. I navigated O'Hare Airport all by myself. I had to fly standby (my Dad worked for American Airlines at O'Hare) and I would take really early morning flights. Only once, when I was very tired, did I get turned around in O'Hare. I don't ever remember having issues besides that.
My daughter had her first solo flight at 12, and that was only 7 years ago. Granted, it was specified in the ticket and I paid a little extra so a flight assistant accompanied her through the process, as there was a layover. Her next solo flight, at 15, was entirely on her own, as the airline only provides the service up to 14. I dropped her at security and her father picked her up at arrivals. She has been in the cockpit twice, in her first flight (with me) and her first flight alone. She LOVES flying.
My dad would take us to La Guardia and we'd watch the planes take off and land. No significant security at all.
Candy cigarettes.
Chocolate cigs. Loved them as a child, never transitioned into actual smoking. Forbidden now because ExAmPLeS. Yet high schoolers vape
I can't wrap my head around the vape thing really. It's like smoking but with even less knowledge on what it contains and usually it's all bad, but people keep going for it like it's a harmless hobby
Load More Replies...The ones we have in Australia had to change their name and remove the red tip so they didn't look like ciggies.
Load More Replies...You can still get them at those bulk candy places - https://www.candystore.com/ or public fairs for instance.
I remember them, but my parents wouldn’t allow me or my brother to have them. I guess they were ahead of their time that way.
The only people you saw who had tattoos were bikers or sailors.
My friends and I swore like crazy in college. Whenever I was home my mom complained that they were putting me through college - they hadn't sent me to the Navy. :) I have tattoos now too, but I didn't get the first one until I was in my 30's.
Load More Replies...My dad had two tattoos on his forearms from when he was in the Merchant Navy. My mum hit the roof when my sister had her first one done at 18 and scrubbed it with dettol. My mum now has two tattoos herself lol the first one she got at the age of 62.
Everyone I knew growing up had ink. In fact one of my middle school classmates got a professional tat right around spring break in 8th grade.
There was "Lydia, oh Lydia / Oh have you met Lydia? ? Lydia the tattooed lady / ..."
And the tattoos actually had some deep meaning to them. It was rare to see random meaningless scribbles across people's bodies as art.
I don't think tattoos have to be meaningful. You can just like something. Mine all have meaning and a lot of thought behind them. But I mean, if you just want a pretty flower because it's a pretty flower--why not? I was once sitting for a tattoo and the other artist's client walked in. He was a total laid back surfer looking guy. Tank top, shorts, flip-flops. He comes in covered in tattoos here and there. The artist says, "What are we doing?" The guy shrugs, looks around, holds up the 7-11 slupree he's holding and says, "This." He got a slurpee tattooed on his thigh. It was so weird to me at the time. But I think about it from time to time and admire his attitude. Why not? My grandpa--born in the 30s--had tattoos from when he was in the military. I asked him about the meaning and he said they didn't mean anything--they were just pictures on the wall at the shop where he got them done.
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Stores were closed on Sundays.
KimVG73 replied:
Closed for the holidays, too. Actually, fully closed for Thanksgiving through the week. Christmas is often the whole week. Lots of folks talk about 'great again,' but they gotta shop, shop, shop, or work, work, work through every holiday. And forget federal holidays. Slowing down, being closed, allowing for reset time. This is why people are difficult now. Everyone is exhausted.
Stores closed at 6:00 pm - it was very difficult for working folk to grocery shop. This is why there were so many "7-11's those were the hours they were open
For a little bit, I worked 9-5. I would have to scurry around during lunch because so many things closed at 5!
Load More Replies...In Australia it depends where you are. Regional/country tows, many places are closed on Sunday and have reduced hours on Saturday, the exception being supermarkets. In the suburbs and city few places close on Sunday, though some have reduced hours Saturday and Sunday.
Load More Replies...Closed half of Saturday too, open only 9 to 12. Depending which day Christmas fell on often closed for 4 days. I distinctly remember the stale bread.
Anyone remember the US "Blue laws" ,,, which were designed to restrict certain purchases on Sundays for religious reasons to observe a day of worship or rest.
Still are closed on Sunday and holidays in Switzerland. It's kinda annoying actually. They tend to close rather early during the week too, so, if you work full time, you have 1 day (Saturday) to do everything
I remember the Thanksgiving/Christmas holidays my family getting in the car to visit the grandparents, and there would be (practically) nobody else on the road, because all the businesses were closed so there was nothing for anyone to go out for, lol
Still quite common in more rural parts of the US, as well as Southern states.
Seeing people who had polio.
Measles has killed three in Texas so far. People are dying of a disease most of us only know from the Oregon Trail video game. Next up, say hello to Cholera and Dysentery! I can't wait to die of an old timey disease! Maybe I'll get Diphtheria!
Load More Replies...Not long before you see that again. And I can't believe where we have a literal miracle like science, people still don't believe in it. But miracles that were performed by the man in the sky so long ago that no living human has ever witnessed are believable to these people. I'm sorry, can you tell I'm a little worked up by the state of affairs right now.
My dad has a friend who had it, I love her dearly as she was a big part of my childhood, she’s a working girl my dad used to see, but she used to babysit me too sometimes, she was a victim of the Vietnam war and was adopted by a US family, somehow ended up in Australia, she could walk with a limp and had no calf muscle etc. gorgeous lady. This was around 1999-2000
Load More Replies...As a kid, I realized one of my dad's colleagues had a funny black boot with metal braces on either side and she limped when she walked. Being (barely) old enough to realize it was impolite to stare, I hightailed it into Dad's office to ask him what "wrong with that lady." Polio. She was probably born in the late 30s or early 40s.
I knew three kids who’d suffered from polio when I was a kid. One was older than me and the other two younger, all born in the 50s. In 1975 a kid in the next street caught polio on holiday and a mass vaccination scheme was set up. I had a booster and my baby had her first dose of the vaccine early, “just in case”. I can’t understand people who won’t vaccinate their kids
Load More Replies...And long lines of people who waited for hours to get the vaccine while NO ONE claimed that Polio was a hoax or insisted their rights to live in an iron lung. I don't recall anyone scoffing at smallpox vaccines either.
or burn scars....you always knew at least one adult or kid with large burn scars...happy to see that go away...along with the polio...thank you salk, sabin, and bill gates!
I went to school with some of them. Everyone was so thankful to Dr. Salk! We lined up for the vaccine at school. If anyone's parents ever opted out, I never heard about it.
Being responsible for your girl scout cookie sales all by yourself, by door to door knocking.
My parents refused to sell my cookies at work. I was expected to sell them on my own. My daughter's still annoyed that I made her do the same thing.
My mom would only leave the order form on a table in the employee break room. But I was responsible for the rest, which included putting together people's orders and labeling them. Mom dropped the boxes off in the break room. I'm shocked nobody stole boxes from others. I had to sell the rest on my own or outside Walmart.
Load More Replies...I love seeing the Girl Scouts selling cookies. As a former GS myself, I always buy a ridiculous amount.
I've gotten really good at calculating how many boxes to buy to last us until the next season. This year, I had three Thin Mints left from 2024 when I bought my first boxes of 2025. Not three boxes of Thin Mints - three individual cookies.
Load More Replies...I think crime in general killed door to door cookie sales. One of my friends' daughters got mugged by some big kids that ran off with armloads of the cookies that she was selling from a wagon. The same friend told me about another girl who was mugged for both cookies and the cash she was carrying. People suck.
Load More Replies...Nope. Wasn't letting my daughter knock on strangers' doors. But we lived in a big city.
Me neither. So I did something really radical. I went with her to knock on doors.
Load More Replies...My sister was in the Camp Fire Girls and I used to help her sell candy door to door.
I wish the Girl Scouts still came door to door. To get them I have to go to a stand outside a grocery store.
I did that, taking orders door to door and then delivering cookies on my bicycle. The purpose was to teach us, not rope our parents into doing it.
We didn't have this as far as I'm aware in Australia, but we did (and still do) have people going door to door collecting money for charity. I remember doing it for the Heart Foundation and the Red Cross. My mum took a door to door sales job in the late 70s or early 80s where she had to go with an older male and knock on doors in another suburb. The door knocking was okay, but the pervy comments from the driver made her uncomfortable and she called her dad to get her before she sold much.
Items I have sold door to door as a child: magazines, gift wrap, candy bars, dried fruit nuts. It helps being a cute kid.
When you sat in the front seat, the only thing that kept you from flying into the dash, was your Mom's arm flying over when she hit the brakes.
I grew up with seatbelts, and raised my kiddos with airbags, car seats etc but I STILL put my arm over the empty front seat if I brake hard.
I (driver) was in my 30s and did that to my mother a few times. She complimented me on my reflexes. Right after I miscalculated and bopped her in the nose.
I still remember how seatbelts (only in the front) became mandatory in Germany. All the macho grandpas and uncles conceded that the wife and children needed to be buckled, but not them, because they were tough guys. A few years later, it was not even a discussion anymore. They all buckled up.
I'm 51 and we've had seatbelt laws my entire life in the UK. Admittedly, for the back seats, it took until the 80s to get them.
They were fitted to the front seats but using them wasn’t compulsory until about 83. I remember sometimes getting a lift to work from a colleague who just never bothered with his seatbelt until they became compulsory 🤦🏼♀️
Load More Replies...I still do that to my sons when they're riding with me and buckled up. They're 54, 42 and 40.
I never even had kids, but I’ve done the “mom arm” thing. Maybe because I saw my mom do it when I was a kid?
Daughter used to get out of her seat and explore the back, standing up. Until one day I calculated and hit the brakes, sending her into the front seat back. She never did that again.
No sunscreen when on the beach or out in the sun. Or worse -- using baby oil and laying out in the sun.
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Baby oil, a reflector, and iodine.
The only concession they used to make in the city I grew up in Australia (before all the Slip, Slop, Slap stuff) was that the radio station used to play a "Time to turn so you won't burn" jingle at periodic intervals during the summer months
I remember those ads 😂 I grew up on the Gold Coast, most people didn’t listen back then. I remember my aunts using those al foil looking things to reflect more sun with their oils, and the metallic bikinis
Load More Replies...When I was in middle school it was a thing to put Sun In in your hair during the summer. For natural blonds it worked great. For those of us with brown hair it came out looking orange. And if you spent a lot of time swimming in pools it could turn green. Ask me how I know....
And I'm now paying for it, with skin cancer and weird rough patches all over.
no uv sunglasses either so I'm on the cataracts train and that's making keeping suspicious eye on the moles a lot harder.
Load More Replies...I remember our first holiday abroad as the delicate fair skinned hold my parents bought the highest factor sunscreen they could find SPF 6. My sister having more olive skin got SPF 3…
When I smell sunscreen, I'm back on the beach in Italy in the 70s, building sandcastles.
Load More Replies...My folks were a big on sunscreen. They would reapply it on me throughout the day, which is good, but it must have been weak sunscreen. I still got sunburned.
I used copious amounts of sunscreen after using antibiotics and still burned. There can be a lot of factors into why you burn still wearing sunscreen. I gave myself sun poisoning once because I didn't wait 30 minutes after application. I'm near lily white. Also learned the hard way to put sunscreen on any parts of your hair. Now I just wear a hat that blocks UV.
Load More Replies...I’m fair-skinned by nature, and it only took one bad sunburn to convince me to stay out of the sun. Other kids thought I was weird for doing that, but I got the last laugh….my skin is holding up better than theirs, 40 years later.
Nivea cream with iodine to achieve that brown, crispy, rotisserie chicken shade. I never did it because I was hopelessly pale but I had friends with more melanin that'd slather that in the blazing sun
Human conversation, playing outside until the streetlights came on, drinking out of the hose.
Drinking out of a hose is not a fun memory 😂 I just pulled it off and used the tap part. Hot Aussie hose flavour is yuk
Or not waiting for the water to run enough to cool the hose!
Load More Replies...I drank out of the hose as long as I lived in a house, I didn't move to an apartment until I was almost 50.
Standing outside your friend's house and hollering for them to come outside. Having regular sleepovers.
Riding in the back of the pick up truck, sometimes sitting on the wheel well.
We hitched a ride to the state fair, all 7 of us college girls, in 1974, in the back of a pickup truck.
We're lucky we don't all have brain damage or broken skulls from doing that. At the time I thought it was awesome. Now I'd freak out if I saw kids sitting back there.
A man fell out of my BIL's truck on the beach and died. Yeah, not good.
I can remember riding on the wheel well in my grandpa's truck on a hot day as he'd drive around setting irrigation for his crops. He'd then let us swim in the irrigation ditches--which is probably not a great thing to do. But we did it, and survived.
My mother smoked and drank during 3 pregnancies. Women thought this helped delivery by making the baby smaller. I’m not kidding.
And eating no salt at all. So the babies would be small. My aunt did this and she had small babies. But my cousins have a lot of health issues...
This is the logic that got us RFK Jr. as leader of HHS.
Load More Replies...I learned in prenatal class, the size of the baby doesn't always matter in making a smooth delivery.
Definitely. My middle child was the easiest at 9lb, my youngest was the most difficult and the smallest at 7lb 9oz.
Load More Replies...My mom witnessed my dad fall off a ladder when she was six months pregnant with me and she was badly traumatized (dad was OK after surgery and long recovery). Her OB-GYN told her to have a couple of martinis every night without fail! Those, along with cigarettes, probably contributed to my birth weight of below six pounds.
Not really. My mom smoked & I was over 8 lbs. I smoked when pregnant with my daughter (I know), & she was over 9 lbs. The nicotine is going through their bloodstream, but it is not affecting their lungs because they aren't breathing yet.
Load More Replies...My mother told me that her Dr. told her to put me sister and I on our stomachs when we were babies sleeping. That way if we threw up we wouldn't stop breathing. SIDS was not a concern.
SIDS was a concern when I had my daughter in 1984. They had just stopped recommending they sleep on their stomachs (to prevent choking). My daughter was over 9 lbs & lifted her head up the third day in the hospital, so I put her on her stomach. It really scares me now with babies on their backs & swaddled tightly. It also seems it would hinder the development of arms muscles & control. It makes me claustrophobic to see it.
Load More Replies...I didn't smoke when I was pregnant and my 3rd son only weighted only 3lbs 7 ozs.
Not having a side hustle ; not trying to mix/max every aspect of your life.
I think this is a millennial thing. Nobody's trying to mix/max their lives, whatever the fvck that means. I think most people are trying to survive.
It's "Min/max". That's usually for games, and it essentially means minimizing the bad and maximizing the good. So in real life, minimizing your effort while maximizing your fun (or similar analogies).
Load More Replies...A lot of people NEED a second job. I don't think you should have to pay income tax on your lesser paying job, because you are working BECAUSE YOU CAN'T AFFORD TO LIVE ON ONE PAYCHECK.
Nobody should need more than one job. This p1sses me off to no end.
Load More Replies...Yep, my aunt made us all amazing knitted ponchos and slippers every single year. It was her hobby. Today people would wonder why she gave the stuff away for free. There are no longer any hobbies, everything needs to be a money maker.
I'm just waiting for my daughter to graduate to slow down, and by "slow down" l mean having only one job. As a genX, l miss simpler times more the older l get
Oh, how I miss this! I HATE how every-danm-thing is about money now. Pretty soon some azzhle is going to s u c k all the air out of the atmosphere and then make us pay if we want to breathe.
Still doing that. Things get much worse though and I may need to take a second job.
When i was a teenager I used to cycle around, and if i had to telephone someone, i would just knock on some (random) person's door, asking politely if i could make a call. Or even go to the toilet sometimes. Most people would be ok with it.
I remember doing that in the 80s. My hometown was only 1100 people.
All adults were allowed to hit kids… parents, teachers, coaches, principal, even friends and or neighbors.
Well, my mother never tolerated that. She once came to my school and smacked a teacher who smacked me.
As a kid from the 70s, teachers weren't allowed to hit us, but...no one said they couldn't throw the chalk at us or, for exceptional misbehaving, the wooden eraser. One of them had such a good aim he should've gone to the Olympics.
In the late 80's my Spanish teacher threw all my books out the 2nd floor window when he caught me doing math homework in his class. Everyone (including me) thought it was hilarious. He'd probably get fired for doing that today.
Load More Replies...Yep. At neighborhood get-togethers the closest adult to the chaos was automatically authorized to enact discipline.
I think you mean enact punishment. Discipline is simply teaching/learning. I doubt the closest adult was engaged in training all of them.
Load More Replies...Corporal punishment (paddling) is still legal in many states. However there's actually some regulation behind it, for those curious. The regulations state, in part, that a student can only be given one paddling per day, with a maximum of three hits on the buttocks. The hits must not be done with the full forces of the adult's swing, and paddles may not be more than 1/2 inch thick. They're also single use. No form of protrusion, or holes may be present on the paddles either.
In Mexico, a teacher hitting a child will land you in prison, let alone unemployment. And believe me, you don't want to be in a Mexican prison.
Load More Replies...I'm that old. But I'm just young enough to get a grade school principal fired for it.
Kids had respect though. Not condoning violence or anything but there weren't the feral kids (and Karen parents) that there are these days.
It wasn't respect. It was fear. And many of those children grew into adults with anxiety, anger and rejection issues that either are the disfunctional partners, tyrannical employers or abus¡ve parents of today, or required years of therapy to correct...
Load More Replies...In Korea it was legal until 2011 for teachers to hit children. What happened at home was nobodies business outside of the family and children were very often beat at home for bad grades or other things. Even when a teacher wanted to do something about it, it was not possible since there was no law against it, really. Since then many things changed, not allways for the better.
My grade school principal had a paddle-a piece of wood that he would spank you with if you misbehave. One time in the 7th grade, the honor student kids (the ones who got the best grades and were usually the best behaved) were allowed to leave before the rest of the class to get in the lunch line, and they made the mistake of running in the hall, and all of them had to go get paddled by the principal. It was a scandal to us kids, but totally acceptable.
We got smacked across the back of the hands with the pointer in class if we talked, or "talked back" or did anything untoward. Next was the yardstick. After that you were sent to the principal's office for the strap. Then you'd be sent home with a note telling your parents what you'd done and how you'd been punished. Many parents at that point would also strap their kid for disrespecting the school.
Smoking on airplanes.
emarkd replied:
I used to ride my bike to the corner market and 'buy' my mom cigarettes by the carton. I say 'buy' in quotes because she had a tab there, literally just a list in a little flip notebook by the register. I'd take home her cigarettes as needed, and she'd stop in on the weekends and settle up the tab. I was 9 or 10 when this started.
Smoking was not only everywhere, at least where I lived; nobody cared about age laws and s**t.
Yeah, and there were ashtrays everywhere--cars had built in ashtrays, McDonald's, doctors' offices, and even outside there were these weird bowls of sand on top of garbage cans for cigarette butts. It seems so bizarre now.
And at bars. And night clubs. And restaurants. And offices. And in front of children...
Most of the people I grew up with started smoking by grabbing the butts their parents threw on the ground.
The little store by my house would sell me cigarrettes for my mom as long as i had a note from her.
In 1990 I visited a Walmart in Kentucky and was shocked to find benches with ashtrays across an entire aisle in the back half of the store. Right in the middle of all of these new products that were no doubt sucking in that sickening odor.
But we were nose-blind to the smell because it was literally everywhere. We breathed it all day, every day. Even the movie theatres.
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Casual violence, sexism, racism, bigotry and bullying at a level that young people today would lose their minds.
Boys would regularly snap girls' bras in middle school, and we would have never thought to complain about it. The principal probably would have laughed at us.
Back then, ;leaders deplored such behavior instead of flaunting it.
How is that any different from now? (especially with the political leaders in the U.S. encouraging it)
Oh it still happens, it's just that these days kids are aware that it shouldn't , which makes it worse.
Yes as a young waitress, having to tolerate being literally backed up into a corner by the restaurant owner's father (in his 50's or 60's) and having him grind up against me on a fairly regular basis. If I tried to avoid him or duck out of his grasp he'd threaten me that I'd lose my job if I didn't cooperate. I was 17. There was NO LAW against it. I had to cooperate or lose my job and I lived on my own, so losing my job was simply not an option.
If I was fussy in the grocery store, Mom would make me go out and sit in the car by myself. (Age 5-8).
My mom would just leave me in the car. It got hot but I could roll down the windows.
And there was always the AM radio to keep you company.
Load More Replies...We learned early on not to misbehave in public. My mom would immediately drag us out of the store.
I chose to stay in the car- even when she was 'just getting milk' mum always took ages (still does!) and in the car I could read a book and listen to the radio.
Having to dress up for work every single day. Blazer, matching skirt or pants, pantyhose and pumps. Oh how I don’t miss those days.
For women, it was quite the hassle. Makeup had to get touched up. Women were fussing over nylon runs. Skirts were those pencil, restrictive skirts that made it a bit difficult to walk properly. Their feet were sore and each day getting more and more deformed from the high heels. The whole day was about trying to maintain a professional, pristine, aesthetic appearance. But women still managed to get their work done.
And it was partly really ingrained into them. My mum would not touch trainers before her 60s. And ever since she has one pair (still the same pair, in 10 years). She wears it when nobody will see. Even her lawn mowing/gardening shoes are loafers, cause they aren't as casual. Took me 20 years to get her to tolerate my shoes, and I live in trainers.
Load More Replies...Man I hated pantyhose!! At one place I worked (upscale hotel in the late 90's) women were not allowed to wear pants. We had to have on a dress or skirt every day. I haven't touched a pair of pantyhose in decades now. Ick!! And all my work clothes had to be dry-cleaned. Don't miss that at all.
Plenty of service and hospitality industry folk who still have to do this.
Latchkey kids. Kids finish school at 2:30, parents don't get home until 5:30, kids are home alone and have to entertain themselves. No internet, no cell phones, only landlines, their friends, and their homework. If they're lucky they have bicycles or a nearby playground to shoot hoops at.
My mom worked until about 11PM in town. We lived about 40 minutes by car outside of town. It was ultimate freedom, but I feel that the isolation might be part of the reason I am the way I am XD
This wasn't my experience because I went to family day care for my first two years of school and then my parents didn't both work at the same time, but many of my friends did this. Most of the time they were happy to come over to my place for the distraction.
Apparently this is normal in the US because they start at like 7.30am and then many kids do extra-curriculars until later.
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My mom had to get signed permission from my dad to get a hysterectomy after 9 live births and 7 miscarriages.
She was hemorrhaging 24/ 7 for 2 yrs.
I have no words to explain how absolutely horrendous this is. I feel bad for people in US who had their abortion rights taken away and this still is happening today. Edit: not the permission thing, even though I wouldn't be surprised if that was coming, but women going through multiple pregnancies even if it could fatal for them.
Not yet but there are people here who would consider a hysterectomy a form of birth control and those same people want to outlaw birth control They got away with a limited ban on abortion and they just keep wanting more. It really is gross.
Load More Replies...My mother too. She also had to have his permission to obtain birth control in the mid 70s. I tried to get my tubes tied after 1 child in the late 80s and no doctor would do it. My husband got a vasectomy no questions asked.
That is absolutely brutal, & the permission slip is ridiculous. I hope life got better for her afterward.
Thankfully my doctor was smart enough and kind enough to offer a hysterectomy for my issues without my husband having to provide his permission.
My wife lost her Health Insurance Card. They gave her a form for me to fill out because she didn't work. The insurance was in my name. I didn't fill it out and she tore a strip off of the clerk. She was issued a new card without my signature. This was for government issued ''free health care". Its paid for by payroll deduction and she wasn't working at the time.
Only three channels on the TV, no remote and you had to sit through commercials. If you missed the game, you missed the game.
Everyone excited that the next episode was coming out and it being the topic on everyone's lips the next day. I miss that so much. It created a sense of community
And they showed The Sound of Music & Wizard of Oz once a year, so they were special.
Load More Replies...Or the rabbit ears wouldn't pick up the UHF channel - missed out on American Bandstand...
We got 9 stations. 3 network from Richmond and DC, 2 independents from DC snd PBS.
39 episodes per season. A different replacement show for the 13 summer weeks. No reruns.
No remote? All our TVs had remotes back in the day. There were multiple in our house. If Dad called you, chances were it was to change the TV channel. (Us kids were the remote.)
PBS was the only reliable channel until I was 10 or so. It affects my speech patterns and spelling to this day.
Walking to and from school, alone, for over a half-mile. I was about four blocks from my middle school bus distance (the school was about a mile and a half away & bus routes started two miles from school), so while my mom would drive me to school, I would either take the public transit bus or walk home. It was about a 30 minute walk home.
It's still very commin in many european countries. The clue is: good and safe public transport.
Part of the reason we chose the primary school we did, was so we could walk. I wasn't allowed to walk on my own (actually with y younger brother) until I was in grade 4, but it was only three streets away. For high school, I caught the bus, though my brother rode his bike. I did walk home when I was in year 12, when we had study sessions during the school holidays just before exams, because my family were away for a week and it was two public busses, compared to the school one. It took about 45 minutes.
As far as I know 3km is still the limit at which you get a free bus ticket to school in Finland. Under that, kids walk or use bikes
My school district would only bus if you were 2 miles or more away and I lived 1.9 miles from my middle school. 1980's.
10-11 has always been the unofficial age to go to school alone here (earlier if you live in rural areas, a bit later perhaps in the capital)
Layaway ….this was a big thing!
No_Gold3131 replied:
K-Mart had an active layaway program! Our neighbor worked at the layaway desk for years.
Lay-by it was called where I grew up. I remember going to the counter with my mum so she could make a payment or pick something up.
Yep. That's how I afforded my first piece of "good jewelry" when I was a teen. Paid $50/month. Learned later the store didn't actually offer layaway, but the owner knew how much I adored that ring. I'll be forever pissed someone stole it from me.
Got my first Gameboy (the original ones) using layaway at a Bradlees. Took me a few months, but was totally worth it when I was playing tetris on that crappy little screen
blue light specials...I loved those! It was so exciting when you were 8-years-old.
Kmart Australia still has layby, less people use it now because of after paying
No credit, no debit, no electronic cash. If you didn’t have enough cash, and you didn’t have checks, then you could not buy it. End of story.
This needs to happen again. If you needed it that bad, you had to plan.
It could not happen again. Many things that were/are necessary cost significantly more then years ago. Buying tires for your car is often the equivalent of a house payment but in the 70s or early 80s you could score a set of bias belted tires for under $100.
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Not being able to access an ATM any time you need money.
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Banks on Fridays were a madhouse because everyone showed up to deposit their paychecks.
Where I grew up in Ireland, the bank came in once a week in a van.
My grandparents never even had a bank card to use an ATM. When they were older, my mum would go to the bank and withdraw a month's worth of money at a time for them from their account, even though most people had transitioned to debit card accounts.
Or cashing them. Local party store had a line from the front to the back coolers of folks waiting at 3:15 on a Friday.
'King of the Mountain'
I told a gen-z'er about this and she was horrified. 'You just push each other off boulders?!'
'Oh, yeah. Push, kick, claw, grab, fling, whatever. And it could be a boulder, or low roof, hill...'.
Not this gen z. Farm kids are resilient
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Privacy and people minding their own business. The adults acted as adults.
People acted like mature adults in their mid 20ties. Not overgrown teens
People minded their own business because they didn't have social media to hide behind.
They still had the back fence & neighbors. Sometimes faster than the internet.
Load More Replies... Pre-internet and computer, essays and such were hand-written or typed on a typewriter, probably with some noticeable corrections. Liquid paper (typing correction fluid) was a game changer.
Research was done at the public library. Maybe we took out a couple books, if they were on the shelf, and used those. The card catalog (index of books, etc) was a long line of stacked, tiny drawers.
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Eavesdropping on the party line.
I remember doing research in elementary school and pulling out those looooong drawers so I could see them.
Load More Replies...My grandma had a party line when I was in highschool, mid 80's. My cousins and I would listen in phone calls. Until someone would say loudly; get off the line!
I was an early adopter of personal computers and would use mine to write my college assignments. I was a good student but was still proud that I totally aced all of my psychology assignments. At the end of the course, my professor informed me that she simply gave me A's because my work must have been correct because it was written on a computer and printed on my little Epson dot-matrix printer 🤣 In my defense, I also aced the classroom tests. Incidentally, I also took a typing course at the same college. Eventually, they offered a microcomputing course, which was based on CP/M.
And if you needed to have a copy of a document, you went to the library, paid a per sheet fee.
I don't miss that! We hand wrote almost everything in high school. I remember how sore my writer's bump used to get by the end of the day. And I love being able to instantly look up anything I want to know. I've learned so much!
I loved the card catalog. The big innovation (before ubiquitous computers) were hard copy printed catalogs (reprinted every month or so).
My grandparents had a party line--and I even remember picking up the phone and being greeted by "Number, please?"
I amazed some kids by using white out (not the liquid paper but the roll on tape) recently
Sonic booms. I lived south of Dallas in the late 60s and early 70s, and I probably heard two or three sonic booms a day.
They were testing the F-22 at Arnold when I was in HS. There were times that it would make the pictures on the wall rattle XD
My sister wasn’t allowed to get credit in her own name. She had to apply for a credit card as “Mrs (husband’s first name, last name)”.
One of the many things that people who complain constantly about "Boomers" don't realize they have those same Boomers to thank for getting this changed.
Load More Replies...My grandparents still use this term for my mom. It's not "Mrs. {her name}" but "Mrs. {dad's name}"
Travel in the old days. First of all, people dressed nicely to fly. There was really no security at all, at least not that I can remember. You could walk right to the gate with your relatives to see them off. All flights included food and drinks. There seemed to be more room between the rows of airlines seats. Flying was something to look forward to. Then again, Imagine being in the non-smoking section of the plane, one row in front of the smoking section. That sucked.
I remember as a little girl having to put on a dress and shoes when we were going to town. I hated it!
Load More Replies...Or being stuck in the smoking row of seats. People would come to sit and smoke, then leave. An endless stream of smoke. I sat in the outside seat and refused to get up so people without a ticket for that seat couldn't sit and smoke. The flight attendants told me to do this. I was a teenager.
I recall going onto the plane to see people off. I'm not sure if it was a regular thing, however. It could have been due to the fact that we had family who worked for the airline.
We always flew standby (thanks to Dad's job at American Airlines). He told us we always had to dress nicely and we always did. I flew a lot when I was younger. I haven't flown in years, so I don't know if that's changed or not.
They started paying less (thanks, Frank Borman) & making the planes smaller & with fewer amenities. I refuse to fly now. The last time I flew I was claustrophobic as h-ll & some stupid woman started painting her nails while there was no AC on yet. Jet fumes & nail polish do not make a good combination.
Also in coaches. The rear rows were for smokers, so if you sat right in front of them tough luck
Phone calls with your friends...from the house phone.
Spam calls ended up killing the landline phone, at least in my country.
They're killing the mobile lines in my country
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When my grandfather was a patient on the stroke ward in 1985 (England), the nurses used to facilitate the patients to smoke, by putting a fireproof bib on them so they could smoke in the hospital bed.
The nurses knew that some patients would smoke no matter what. Then fall asleep and set the ward on fire.
Plotting your trip with pencil, paper and a map.
I'm terrible with directions. Back before GPS I got lost SO much! Even with printed Map Quest directions. :)
I kind of hybrid Google maps/regular maps. Plot out the trip and write down the trickier spots.
My partner plots the trip on Google Earth. It confuses me, but he's a bit dyslexic, so it helps him to have landmarks.
Load More Replies...Getting lost and having to use a map to try and work out where you are, or having to stop people on the street and ask directions. I miss getting lost walking around a city. I used to find all sorts of hidden places. I try to do it today but it's so tempting to look at Google maps it never works the same
I still have a Melways and country roads directory in my car. They have been useful when the GPS conks out.
The phone book listing your name, phone number, address, who you’re married to, your job title, and where you work.
I've never seen a US phone book show marriage and job info. Is that somewhere in Europe? US phone books had the name of the person who had the line, address and phone #. Any of that was removed if you requested it.
Yes! In their early iterations they did indeed. I worked in a gas station that was very old and found an old phone book. It was hardbound and I found my grandparents listing with both their names AND their occupations!
Load More Replies...Not like what we expect today. When I divorced my first husband and got my own house and phone, it was suggested that my name be listed with only my first initial to protect myself so nobody could tell if I was a woman or man, especially since my address was also listed.
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In the 50s having milk and bread delivery men. A man who was a tailor picked up clothes at house to sew. Getting your shoes fixed rather than getting a new pair. Wearing hats to church until late 60s…then having to wear a little lace doily on your head till early 70s. No ac or color tv till mid 60s and only having 1 tv and 1 room air conditioner.
The delivery person has made a huge comeback. Anything and everything gets delivered now if you want it.
I still get my shoes fixed. I have a pair of boots older than my college student daughter. They get soles and heels when they wear off
I found one of those inside of a drawer! you lift up the top of what looks like a dresser, and it is one of those sewing machines
I remember as a kid the junk man coming thry the neighborhood with his horse and wagon. Would ring a big brass bell to let everyone know he was there.
We had milk, bread (and cupcakes!) and meat delivered in the 50s, and milk into the 60s. I'd love to find a place where I can get my shoes reheeled, that was common into the 90s around here.
Shoe repairmen still exist. I had a pair of boots re-heeled in the last few years.
Load More Replies...After gym class, we all had to strip down naked and shower together.
We did that when I was at school (left in '98). I'm not sure, but from what they said, I think the girls had curtains in their showers. We didn't.
Yup! My kids were in disbelief when I told them. I'm actually in disbelief when I think about it now. How did parents tolerate that?! It was truly cruel--and creepy.
I'm glad we didn't have to do that at my school. They must have at one point, but there were just three shower stalls.
The **deference given to smokers.** Even nonsmokers kept ashtrays and lighters around to accommodate them. Anyone who complained about cigarette smoke was just considered a jerk. In the late 1960’s, two friends and I smoked cigars on a flight to visit a college, and none of us had yet reached the age of 18. The passengers seemed to think we were cute.
Also **resistance to seat belts.** Some people kept their seat belts connected and sat on them, so they could bypass the alarm system. It took a long time for people to get adjusted to using them.
And the **indifference to drunk driving.** We regularly passed around a bottle of cheap wine while driving aimlessly for fun. One time a police officer pulled us over, saw the empty containers, and gave us a very stern talking-to.
The seatbelt thing is still going - you can even buy fake buckles to clip in and stop the warning beep.
Those were designed for if you put bags on the seat, etc. not their fault dumbasses use them
Load More Replies...I was stationed in Fla., you were allowed to have open intox so long as you weren't OUI. Blew my Michigan mind.
Growing up in the 70s, Indiana had a town that was split by the county line, one of which was dry. So you could drink while driving (but not drunk) while cruising one direction but had to hide the beers when you cruised back on the dry side of the road.
Load More Replies...After my mastectomy l'd buckle the seat belt and pass the front band behind, so l was tied only by the legs. Even without a major surgery recovery going on, seat belts need to be redesigned for women. There, I said it
Jupp, it's communism to force people to use seat belts, I seen be said on YT clip 🤯🙈
On e I had a half bottle of whisky in the back floor board of my car. A cop pulled me and said "as long as it stays back there".
Believe it or not, driving while intoxicated, didn't become illegal in all 50 states in the US... until 1967.
Corporal punishment. It was very much fading out by my time, but strapping/paddling kids at school did happen.
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This absolutely still went on in my public elementary school through the '70s. By the time I was in 3rd grade, it was reserved for the principal, but it still happened occasionally. And it happened at home for virtually every kid I knew (including me) until at least the early '80s or after.
My mom would wash our mouths out with soap but she left the spanking to my father. The worst part of it was the "wait until your father gets home". He barely even hit us - it was more about the anticipation/waiting. And yeah, everyone I knew back in the 80's also got spanked at home.
It was the threat of corporal punishment that was a deterrent to bad behaviour.
It was going on all through my school years, just parents had to sign a slip. I knew of no parents that didn't sign it
Coach used to have 'the paddle' ...holes drilled into it by the shop teacher to cut wind resistance.
Smoking at the nurses station.
No car seats for babies or small kids.
Myself and my late little sister, back in the day. 1957-Me-an...b13b50.jpg
Girls were required to wear dresses to school and then sent out on the playground with bare legs in freezing weather. I'll never forget the pain of that cold. It wasn't until I was in 7th grade that girls could wear pants.
My high school tried (with mixed success) to regulate skirt lengths. One or two designated days during the school year, girls were allowed to wear pants.
I went all through my school years before girls were allowed to wear pants to school, and we had to walk all the way up the street to catch the bus no matter how much snow and ice. Now that bus comes down the deadend street to pick the kids up.
In Kindergarten, girls wore dresses, no shorts & weren't allowed on the merry-go-round or anything you could hang from. We moved to Miami in the first grade & my mom put pants on me when it got into the 40's. The principal called my mom & said "young ladies don't wear pants to school." My mom said when it's in the 40's they do. She said they even wore snow pants to school in the winter. By high school, in a school with no A/C, girls wore tube tops, hot pants (that were actually cooler), spaghetti strap shirts, mini skirts & quite a few even wore weed t-shirts. I think it was a reaction to how strict it was before. The 80's was the 50's rebooted & reinstated dress codes.
The backs of my legs were all chapped from my rubber boots. To this day, I wear shorts all year round because I grew up with dresses.
I was in high school before our school system let the girls wear pants. And they they had to be dressy pants, no jeans. But the boys could wear jeans-any kind or condition. I got called into the principal's office because I wore jeans one day. Funny thing though, nobody said a word until later in the afternoon one of my teachers RAN to the principal's office and ratted me out, lol.
I would get spanked with a wooden spoon. My dad would use the belt. My sister and I would break all of the wooden utensils and the yard sticks, so that we couldn’t be spanked with them. My mom would tape them with masking tape, every spoon was taped.
That sounds horrible, but every kid was spanked back then.
Trauma warps your thinking. Also, Stolkholm syndrome.
Load More Replies...My mom never actually spanked me. She used other forms of a*****e punishments, such as coercive and mental abuse. My step-mom did take a plastic mixing spoon to my 2 year old half brother's hand. She left a welt.
You sound bitter and unable to move past your childhood trauma. Have you tried speaking to a therapist
Load More Replies...When I was in middle school our bus driver had her toddler riding with her every day. When he annoyed her she would whack him with a wooden spoon. None of us thought anything of it. We did feel bad for him having to spend so much time on the bus though.
My dad would use his hand, then say, "look what you've done, you've made me hurt my hand." And then the belt.
My mum used whatever she had to hand. I distinctly remember being hit with a hairbrush. Sometimes she would take her slipper off and slipper me.
My mom used a 'martinet' on us - grandpa got mad at mom when she was young and so cut his belt into strips attached to a broom handle. When I left for college, I took the martinet with me and 'lost' it
My brother and I cut the martinets's strips into tiny bits and buried them in the garden along with the handle. My dad must have thought he lost it, never bought another one, but his hands were hard enough.
Load More Replies...The "phone" room in college to call home. Since we all had to wait our turn, great way to meet new friends and girls. Be a good experience for today's cell phone non social kids.
At my college we had to live on campus all 4 years. I loved it. Some of the best years of my life.
Load More Replies...Hitchhiking. My girlfriend and I( F) used to hitchhike all over the city for something to do on a Friday night!
Hitched a ride on the back of an MG convertible, hooking my feet on the back of the seat, sitting on the trunk outside the car. Thank heavens I never told my parents.
I was horrified when my mum picked up a hitchhiker in the late 90s, they were coming home from the footy and clearly drunk. My mum used to hitchhike in the 70s a lot.
Two parents smoking in the car with windows closed and baby and little kids in the back seat.
Smoking everywhere..
Kids worked in family businesses
Kid especially boys kick out at 16
No seatbelts used ever.
Drinking on lunch breaks at work.
Women walking around with smashed up faces and bruises all over and no one saying a word to help them. Most ppl actually victim blaming.
College undergrads dating their professors while they were enrolled (sometimes even when they were taking their class!).
It's never been "normal". It happened, but the rest of us would look down on them because their grades weren't exactly objective. Not to mention the creepy-a*s, power imbalance age gap.
Fireplaces in living rooms with just a huge open flame, with embers rolling out into the carpet. Sticking wood logs into the fire to keep it going and poking it with a poker pushing more embers out into the carpet. Going to bed with the fire still blazing and letting it die out overnight.
Open wood fires are still very much alive and well. Your "embers on the carpet" was not normal, mostly there would be a two-foot or so fireproof (normally ceramic tiles) surround, and a steel mesh fireguard.
This is why our fireplace has never been used. Brick surround - my grandparents had one too - that never was used as for as I knew.
Load More Replies...There was a wood-burning fireplace in the house where I grew up, with a brick hearth and a steel mesh screen. OPs situation sounds nasty.
I think most people did. Not sure what was up at OP's house, but metal fireguards aren't exactly new technology!
Load More Replies... We had a shoeshine guy who walked around buildings on campus (big-a*s company), ducking into people's offices to shine their shoes. $5 IIRC. Nobody had badges, all the receptionists knew him. Hell, everybody knew him. He wasn't an employee though. Swell guy ;-)
Harold, I hope you made a bundle!
Running behind the mosquito control guy.
You guys had mosquito control? (You'll have to imagine the quizzical faced meme lad)
My mom told me she and her little friends would do that in the 40s. My dad said "Oh, that's why you're that way??" (totally kidding--they adored each other).
I didn't know there were mosquito control people and we need one here desperately in the summer and early fall.
Midwest (SoDak) it was normal to hunt before or after school. Most pickups had rifles and/or shotguns on a gun rack in the back window. Kids and adults parked their vehicles wherever. Streets, school parking lots, wherever. When George HW Bush was campaigning for the '88 election it drove the secret service advance teams nuts with the general populace coming and going with weapons in full view.
One town near Owensboro Kentucky let kids out of school for opening day of deer hunting. Fahters took off work, too.
Seeing pickup trucks with gun racks in them. people would lose their minds over that today.
Still very common where I live now (largest city in a Rocky Mountain state).
Give the milkman a key to your home.
Lol someone needs to tell these kids running up and down my block that playing outside isn’t “normal” anymore. Look, I get it. People are worried kids spend too much time in front of screens, and that’s valid. But some of these people are making blanket statements when I can look out my front door and see kids playing.
Kids having paper rounds, weekend jobs and holiday jobs. When I asked my mum for more pocket money she told me that if I wanted more money then I had to go and earn it myself. I did dog walking, housework, grocery shopping, car washing and gardening for neighbours and relatives and had a holiday job in the office where my mum worked. It gave us a good work ethic and gave us experience in the workplace. These days there are so many rules and regulations in the workplace that it is often too much hassle for companies to employ teenagers. And then they wonder why when youngsters do eventually start working after leaving school/college they are absolutely clueless in the workplace.
I remember if mum and dad wanted to go out to the pub for a drink and they couldn't get a babysitter, they used to leave us in the car outside the pub with a bottle of coke and a packet of crisps. Children weren't allowed in pubs in the 1980's and we had to stay outside on our own. We couldn't even go in to use the toilets.
Companies not employing married couples. This is a decade earlier but it was very annoying at the time. My wife & I met in 1965 when I started work as a junior clerk with BP Australia. She'd been working there for a year. We became engaged in 1967 & set our wedding date for a year later & both left a week before our wedding, though BP assumed that she would be the one to leave & had engaged someone to replace her a few weeks prior to that
We would go to a friend's house and knock on their door then ask the parent who answered if they could come out to play. I think a lot of kids today would benefit from normalizing that again.
That would be ridiculously difficult given most people dont live in the same neighbourhoods as their friends anymore. And they really wouldnt benefit that much anyway
Load More Replies...When I was 10, I overheard my mother and aunt talking about going to Hawaii. I asked if I could go, and my mom said if I paid I could. I asked about just paying for my airfare, and she agreed. So I got a paper route, and earned enough money to pay for the ~$250 ticket, and got to spend a couple of weeks in Hawaii! This would be circa 1977 or 1978. Moral #1: Be careful what you promise your kids. Moral #2: Life isn't always fair. My brothers got to go for free the following years. (I still haven't let this go).
One of the things that I've never seen mentioned on lists like this is washing garbage cans. I think it was the late '60s before plastic garbage bags started to become a thing. Before that we just dumped the slop into a large galvanized garbage can. If you lived in the city the garbage men would come around and dump you can into the hopper on the truck and all that garbage and juice would slop around in the back. There's a reason garbage man was a horrible job! Meanwhile someone had to clean the cans. Garden hose, scrub brush, and strong soap. My dad managed a church camp, kids who got in trouble ended up on garbage can detail. Probably a dozen or more cans to wash twice a week there. Love plastic garbage bags!
There's a law in New Jersey. No driver can pump their own gas.It has to be done by a station employee.
Lol someone needs to tell these kids running up and down my block that playing outside isn’t “normal” anymore. Look, I get it. People are worried kids spend too much time in front of screens, and that’s valid. But some of these people are making blanket statements when I can look out my front door and see kids playing.
Kids having paper rounds, weekend jobs and holiday jobs. When I asked my mum for more pocket money she told me that if I wanted more money then I had to go and earn it myself. I did dog walking, housework, grocery shopping, car washing and gardening for neighbours and relatives and had a holiday job in the office where my mum worked. It gave us a good work ethic and gave us experience in the workplace. These days there are so many rules and regulations in the workplace that it is often too much hassle for companies to employ teenagers. And then they wonder why when youngsters do eventually start working after leaving school/college they are absolutely clueless in the workplace.
I remember if mum and dad wanted to go out to the pub for a drink and they couldn't get a babysitter, they used to leave us in the car outside the pub with a bottle of coke and a packet of crisps. Children weren't allowed in pubs in the 1980's and we had to stay outside on our own. We couldn't even go in to use the toilets.
Companies not employing married couples. This is a decade earlier but it was very annoying at the time. My wife & I met in 1965 when I started work as a junior clerk with BP Australia. She'd been working there for a year. We became engaged in 1967 & set our wedding date for a year later & both left a week before our wedding, though BP assumed that she would be the one to leave & had engaged someone to replace her a few weeks prior to that
We would go to a friend's house and knock on their door then ask the parent who answered if they could come out to play. I think a lot of kids today would benefit from normalizing that again.
That would be ridiculously difficult given most people dont live in the same neighbourhoods as their friends anymore. And they really wouldnt benefit that much anyway
Load More Replies...When I was 10, I overheard my mother and aunt talking about going to Hawaii. I asked if I could go, and my mom said if I paid I could. I asked about just paying for my airfare, and she agreed. So I got a paper route, and earned enough money to pay for the ~$250 ticket, and got to spend a couple of weeks in Hawaii! This would be circa 1977 or 1978. Moral #1: Be careful what you promise your kids. Moral #2: Life isn't always fair. My brothers got to go for free the following years. (I still haven't let this go).
One of the things that I've never seen mentioned on lists like this is washing garbage cans. I think it was the late '60s before plastic garbage bags started to become a thing. Before that we just dumped the slop into a large galvanized garbage can. If you lived in the city the garbage men would come around and dump you can into the hopper on the truck and all that garbage and juice would slop around in the back. There's a reason garbage man was a horrible job! Meanwhile someone had to clean the cans. Garden hose, scrub brush, and strong soap. My dad managed a church camp, kids who got in trouble ended up on garbage can detail. Probably a dozen or more cans to wash twice a week there. Love plastic garbage bags!
There's a law in New Jersey. No driver can pump their own gas.It has to be done by a station employee.
