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It seems like social norms change annually, nowadays. It can be exhausting and confusing trying to keep track of how we’re supposed to behave in various situations, but for young people who haven’t been around to see these societal shifts, what they’ve observed is completely normal. We all have cell phones, we all should have social media accounts, and we should all be available 24/7.

Older generations, however, have a harder time accepting some of the changes that have come along, and recently, Redditors have been sharing some of the things they wish would become normalized again. Below, you’ll find some of their most insightful responses, so enjoy reading through and be sure to upvote all of the thoughts you agree with.

#1

“Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal The art of conversation. Just because I disagree with you on something doesn’t mean I don’t respect you.

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#2

“Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal Not being accessible all the time. Just because I have a cellphone doesnt mean I want to answer it at the supermarket, or while cooking dinner. Or while driving. Thats cool that my boss checks emails in his tesla driving 20 mins to work but I would rather not. I need a break

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blixten1982
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Before cell phones, if someone didn't answer the phone we'd just say, "Oh, they're not home," and that was normal. Nowadays, I wish it was just as normal to say, "Oh, they're not answering their phone," and just leave it at that.

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#3

“Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal Classes in high school like wood shop, home economics, culinary, machine shop, etc and just trade school training in general for those who don’t want to go to college.

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sofacushionfort
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

US: standardized test scores are tied to funding, so no time for skill development (either manual or critical thinking). Kids learn that life is only about obedience to ham-fisted metrics analysis.

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We reached out to the Reddit user who posed the question, "What things are seen as weird by the younger generation that we need to normalize again?" and lucky for us, u/Kvassalskaren55 was happy to have a chat with Bored Panda.

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As far as what inspired him to start this conversation, he shared that he was just bored on a Saturday and decided to post something on Reddit. "I thought of a question to post in r/askreddit, but I had no idea that it would get this popular," the OP shared.

#4

“Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal Can we re-normalize using headphones while listening to music or watching videos in public? Please? I should be able to study on campus without having to listen to someone else's s**t. I can't even go to the campus library without someone blasting their s**t.

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El Dee
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Obviously not old enough to remember 'ghetto blasters' (yup, REALLY called that) These were extremely large radio cassettes with big speakers played at full volume everywhere from the 70s onwards until personal stereos became a thing. Before that it was 'portable wireless radios' These go back to the early 60s. Again, people have ALWAYS been a******s..

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#5

“Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal Being able to fix things yourself-sew hems and small holes, fix a toilet or garbage disposal, etc

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D20 Games
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We NEED to bring back home economics and wood shop as required classes in high school or middle school for ALL students. This would help so many young adults get their first steps in basic life skills.

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We were also curious what Kvassalskaren55 would answer to his own question. "I think we should normalize talking to each other more," he shared. "I think today’s generation is missing out on getting to know people face to face. You never know who is behind the screen, it could be anyone."

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On the other hand, the OP is appreciative that homophobia has become much less socially acceptable. "Everyone should be able to love whoever they want without facing backlash," he told Bored Panda.

#6

“Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal Not having everything you do in public recorded.

Two random people arguing? Gotta record it.

Bad car wreck? Don't help. record.

Natural disaster? Don't run, stay and document it until someone has to rescue you, then get the rescue for maximum likes.

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blixten1982
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Same with concerts. I don't understand how people can't just watch a concert and enjoy it. Does anyone ever go back and watch their phone footage anyway?

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#7

“Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal Affordable housing.

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keyboardtek
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wall Street investors have been buying up housing all over the country just to make money on excessive rents and the tight housing market, which they contributed to making.

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As far as his thoughts on the responses to his post, Kvassalskaren55 says he agreed with many of them. "There were a few that surprised me," he noted. "Those were the ones where people said that they were tired of people thinking that they are available at all times. That they need a break."

#8

“Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal Having the decency and manners to verbally cancel plans or say you’ll be late in a timely fashion that’s respectful of the other person’s time and effort, instead of framing ghosting people as some kind cute personality quirk.

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sofacushionfort
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Being stood up or ditched on a date are as old as dating itself, but the RSVP was a contract that could only be violated at the peril of never receiving any future invitations

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#10

Actually owning the things you buy. Having the right to tinker with your devices.

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Mike Fitzpatrick
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Too damned many companies jumping on the product as a service bandwagon and it needs to stop. For instance, you pay (typically dearly) for a option on your new car, but you then need to pay a fee/subscription to use it? Not in this world, that's absurd.

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#11

“Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal Not having social media. Apparently now not being on whatever sites is a red flag.

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#12

“Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal Repairing and looking after clothes and shoes!

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Maggie
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And stop the piles of clothes going to landfill. Throwaway culture needs to cease.

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#13

“Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal Being able to handle the slightest bit of social interaction. I’ve met some Gen Z who damn near have panic attacks when making a call for delivery, let alone speaking to people they don’t know in public. Some seem to think every interaction with a stranger is potentially life threatening. The anxiety levels in that generation are off the charts.

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Sunshine Lady
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I find the introvert memes tendency horrifying and relatable at the same time. Being an introvert myself I understand the struggle, but it seems to me it's getting worse and worse, triggering anxiety if you just let it be your lifestyle.

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#14

“Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal Knowing how to cook, even if that knowledge exists so you don't starve.

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“Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal I feel like u can't just talk to random people anymore. No one seems approachable. My mum talks to anyone wether she knows them or not. I notice alotnof the older generations are much more open to random chit chat

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hwatinternation
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Some people just don't want to be bothered when they're trying to go about their day.

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#16

“Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal The hustle culture needs to go. We need to normalize working while keeling in touch with family and friends, not working yourself to death. Also, how about lowering house price, eh? It’s a dwelling, not a money making machine.

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Rose the Cook
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A house used to be a home not an investment for profit. It annoys me when real estate agents talk about selling a home, it is the house not the home being sold.

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#17

“Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal Pensions. The ability for current and future generations to retire.

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Geoffrey Scott
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All that has happened is the companies have shifted the risk from them to you. If you can get such good returns, they can too. Of course in most plans you do not contribute. Just more evidence of poor money management on their part, and how criminal underfunding is.

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#18

“Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal Talking to people in-person, and asking people out, and not being a f*****g weirdo if they say no.

Apps and social media have caused so much headrot.

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El Dee
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If anything this was worse years ago. Social media is doing us all a service by letting people know this is not acceptable. Imagine a world where no one told these a******s they were out of order. I grew up in it..

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#19

“Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal Holding your phone to your ear when talking.

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#21

“Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal Just working out in a gym without the need to record yourself

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hwatinternation
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Again, it's not an abnormal thing to go and not record. Going to the gym without recording is normalised.

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#22

“Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal **Getting to know your neighbours and connecting with the local community.**

How many of us actually know or have talked to the people next door?? It used to be so common to introduce yourself at least, nowadays it’s just weird and considered off-putting, making it much harder to build a strong sense of community.

This generation tends to be very isolated generally, and considering how actively hostile modern urban design is, it tends to discourage people from going outside and meeting people. This is also coupled with the rise of social media and a general sense of paranoia about feeling constantly watched, since everyone basically has a miniature recording device in their pocket. It decentivizes people from striking up more friendly conversations, due to fear of being recorded being cringe or whatever and going viral. Honestly the pandemic has f****d social skills beyond belief, but let’s get real here, the loneliness epidemic predates Covid by a long shot, quarantine just put it into hyperdrive.

I think knowing your neighbours should make a comeback. Along with neighbourhood block parties and potlucks. And for gods sake, can we please make less suburbs and anti-homelessness benches, and more free/affordable public infrastructure while we’re at it??? It’s been said already, but look at the outside we built, no wonder kids don’t want to go outside anymore.

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censorshipsucks
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Again depends on country and background. Low income areas in my country have good social networks and high income areas have neighbours who barely interact and mostly hate each other.

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#23

“Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal Taking your clothes to a tailor instead of getting new clothes

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#24

“Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal That individuals matter, not what groups people can be pegged as belonging to.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is only true of individualist (ie western) culture. In Africa our community is the most important thing.

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#25

“Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal Vulnerability. Sincerity. These things seem to get lumped in with "cringe" when they shouldn't be.

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El Dee
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yet again - NO! This generation are far more accepting of people's struggles with mental health, sexuality, bullying and so on..

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#26

“Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal Texting back too quickly is apparently a thing to younger folk? Whereas I see it as the ultimate sign of respect and interest when you're having an engaging conversation. There's so much second guessing about presentation and interest levels that many forget that it's cool, fine, and normal to just be honest with feelings and pursue them as long as they're reciprocal.

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MichelleDonut
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What kills me is "punctuation is aggressive" and "ok means you're mad." WTF kids?!?

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#27

“Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal Telephone skills, not fearing making phone calls

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Daniel Atkins
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Emails and texts are too easy to ignore. I feel it takes twice as long to communicate via email.

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#28

“Being Able To Fix Things Yourself”: 30 Things Young People Find Odd That Used To Be Normal Go to the park and join a bunch of strangers in playing a game whether it be touch football, throwing the Frisbee, even a game of TAG.

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FatKid Games
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So of you never talk to strangers how the hell can you function...they dont mean just jump in and start playing...you ask if you may join....its called actual socialization....

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Janos Schumacher
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's completely normal to join in with others in play. As long as it's not something organized, everyone is always welcome. Just follow playground rules that you remember from being a kid and you'll do fine. If people are kicking around a soccer ball, just walk up and silently raise your hand to indicate that you want the ball. Someone will kick it to you. Pass it to someone else. Run around for a bit. Get warmed up. Teams will get picked eventually and you'll be in a game. No words need to be exchanged. You're all just playing.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I was a teen(47m) I would ask folks playing soccer if they needed 1 more. If they did, I’d join. If not, wait for another so the teams could be even. On the basketball court, I’d call next and pick 2/3/4 from the team that just lost and play. If people were playing catch, I’d ask if i could join. Most would say yes. The only sport the older folks would be playing was soccer. Believe it or not, playing with them made me a much better athlete and ran circles around the kids my age with how I was learning to play. I don’t understand how today people are more enclosed to be a******s behind a computer and not have a positive interaction in the real world.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why not? When I was in college I was camping on the Gudalupe River with a friend of mine and I took her out for a nice dinner and then she wanted to see what was going on in the area. We found a group of locals playing beach volleyball in the park by the river....and one happened to be the park Ranfer we had spoken too at the camp. I said let's go play and she said bit I'm in a slinky dress....I said take off the heals and let's play. A couple hours later having a drink by the campfire she told me that was the most fun she'd had in ages and that I was so fun and random beef anke to walk up to complete strangers and immediately becoming part of the grouo.....but this was 35 years ago when people were actually human and not robots dumbed down by the internet and electronics.

Full Name
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What??? I might make a friend if I did that. NoooooooOOOOOOoooooo.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This happens a lot as a little kid, then becomes weird at around 9/10

LuLuBelle
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That sounds horrifying. Never in a million years would I do that and I'm old. I don't think adults have ever done that. It seems rude to barge in on a group of people playing a game. Who does that? This one is just weird.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have seen adults join an adult basketball game multiple times at public park basketball courts. I think it depends on the area you are living in.

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El Dee
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Yeh, you did this as a KID. Do it now and someone will call the cops. Kids are discouraged from doing so because this is where predators were hanging out and doing things to OUR generation. They're safer at home, believe me..

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Contrary to the "stranger danger" stuff my (our?) generation was taught, the vast majority of predators target children that they already have access to. Staying at home is primarily "safer" because the child isn't going in the street or risking injury playing physically; in terms of physical & mental health, going out to play is a healthier option.

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