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Have you seen Midnight in Paris? The movie is not about the city per se, rather it's about our fascination with it. Woody Allen asks us why the dream of Paris seems more powerful than walking on its streets.

However, it's not just historical European landmarks that infatuate our minds. That cause us to look at the world through an unrealistic lens. No, no, there are many more culprits — we're too easily swayed.

Last week, Redditor u/Buttercuppy44 asked other users, "What's something we need to stop normalizing?" And it turned out to be a discussion we really needed. People straight away came through with plenty of specific and accurate examples.

#1

People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop Having to respect a damaging point of view because it's part of someone's religion.

No, I don't have to respect your belief that women are inferior or that LGTBQ+ people shouldn't have rights because your religion tells you to believe that. It's a bad point of view.

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Trixypix
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This should be higher up in the list AND it can be extended to every belief in general about 'we' are better then 'them' because of religion/ money/ education/ the place where you live/ the colour of your socks/ etc.etc.

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#2

People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop Canceling people for things they did 10+ years ago. If someone has shown growth in that time then let them grow.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Huzzah, huzzah! The only thing more ridiculous than cancelling someone for a trivial offense committed years ago, is someone digging through ten years of someone else's social media in search of something to use against them.

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#3

Kids beauty pageants.

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Otter
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not widely considered normal. Considered creepy, disturbing, and exploitative among sane people.

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#4

People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop Coming to work sick. People tend to get praised for that, but they are in fact just endangering others to get sick as well — and in the end, it costs the company more than if they would've just stayed home.

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#5

People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop Being rude to retail and food workers. We work hard all day, deal with some of the worst customers bar none, and really don't get paid enough to support families but we do it anyway. For way less than it's worth

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#6

People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop Ads on stuff you've paid for.

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#7

People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop Filters that change the shape of your face to fit a beauty standard. Kids are growing up with an even more distorted view of what they should look like than previous generations

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#8

People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop Taking pictures of strangers without their knowledge and posting it on the internet. It is toxic as hell and it wasn't that long ago it was seen as creepy.

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Foxxy (The Original)
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It should be illegal. The last thing I want is for someone to take a photo of me and end up becoming a meme or something.

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#9

People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop That anything is possible if you try hard enough. Don't get me wrong, a lot is possible, but not everything. There are factors beyond ourselves that determine our success. The best we can do is to give our best, and be happy that we've done so.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hardwork doesn't always lead to success. A lot of people that became successful through "hard work" don't usually include one thing in their success stories: the role of luck. Some of them were lucky to be born in the right place, to the right people, at the right time, happened to go to the right school, happened to make the right friends, etc. For every success story, there are thousands and millions that did the same amount of hardwork and got nowhere. The difference is, those hardworking but unsuccessful people were simply unlucky. No one knows a sure formula for success in life. It's easy to think you do when you've made it.

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#10

People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop People being bastards on the internet, because of anonymity.

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#11

People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop Using religion as a weapon.

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Kesam
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To me it's more using religion as an excuse (to discriminate, to question science, to explain away EVERYTHING...)

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#12

People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop The greed of the top 1% that fuels the pollution and decay of our planet.

Looking at you Jeff, Bill, and Mark

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NsG
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm going to get downvotes here, but you need to swap out Bill for Richard. Yes, Mr Gates has done some deplorable things while gaining his millions. But he has done philanthropic things that the others haven't even considered. Demonstrably tried to improve things for the rest of humanity. The others? No bathroom breaks and trains that barely run at all never mind on time. Oh, and I'm damn sure it wasn't his age that stopped him taking part in the Prick Space Race, so that's a point in his favour too. Dislike or full on loathe him all you want, but he is no longer in the same league of greed and evil as the others. (Mr Zuckerberg is in a league of his own, although he does look like he wants to be Bezos when he grows up, so...)

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#13

People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop The idea that being an as*hole is a sign of intelligence. Jerks are rarely intelligent. Sheldon Cooper, Rick Sanchez, Hannibal Lecter, and Dr. House do not exist.

In my experience, being rude and condescending turns out to be a sign of stupidity, not intelligence.

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Anne
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sheldon was actually very true to life for a lot of smart autistic people..but he would be what we would be without adapting skills. And most of us have adapted to our environment.. But he feels rather authentic. He isn't rude or condescending - he just doesn't understand most humans. That's why he follows the rules.. hot beverages for upset humans etc.

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#14

People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop Throwing cigarette butts on the floor.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Throwing cirarette butts WHILE protesting for for climate-change.

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#15

People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop Having an opinion on everything.

It’s okay to look at something on the internet and think to yourself “I don’t have to care about this.”

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#16

Kids doing animal abuse. Stop it with, "they are just kids they don't know any better"

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Luka Verheijen
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If it's too extreme, it's often a sign of a sadistic personality, so more reason to work on that early

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#17

The idea that a woman can slap a man if she's angry at him, but a man should never hit a woman regardless of the circumstances.

The former is assault - hitting people who aren't already involved in a physical altercation is never OK, regardless of the circumstances. The latter ties into that; if you are being attacked, the level of force you use in defence should be dependent on the danger you are in, which has almost nothing to do with the sex of your attacker.

Both of these rely on the tired and sexist trope that women are meek little does who have not the physical strength nor moral turpitude to commit violence against the big, strong, tough men. They normalize assault and abuse and accordingly belong in the dustbin of history.

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Luka Verheijen
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Finally someone who adresses this! This double standard bothers me fir a long time. Also, some women who try to be "feminists" still keep this in check. If you want equal rights for men and women, that includes the downsides too

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#18

People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop Bullying. It's absurd how society will frame it as a "stage of your life" rather than supporting individuals more so they know how to deal with it. Especially academically, still overlooked majorly.

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Kira Okah
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And massively overlooked or flat out ignored on social media. Ad in the workforce. It not just something kids do on the playground.

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#19

People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop Alcoholic moms. No, you don’t NEED to bring wine to your daughters soccer game. It’s not quirky. It’s awful. Wine mom stuff on social media only strengthens it and makes it more popular.

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Grumble O'Pug
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Instamom is the stuff if nightmares. Like the recent one where she jams on the brakes to teach her kid to buckle up. Full blown narcissism in action

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#20

People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop Using mental illness as an excuse. I suffer from several, and it's very hard on me.. But, i get professional help and deal with it head on. Reading constant posts everyday about people having this disorder and that disorder and that's why it's ok to act a certain way is demotivating. Awareness is important, but dozens of posts everyday about having borderline personality disorder or bipolar disorder and why it's acceptable for you to be an a-hole is not awareness... If you suffer from these so badly, please get help

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#21

People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop Married couples disliking one another. Normalizing abusive and toxic elements in marriage is lame, bro.

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Burs
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Like the jokes about men being “chained” when they decide to marry. Then don’t f*****g marry. If I was the girlfriend In would be furious

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#22

People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop Working while on vacation. You go on vacation to relax and enjoy yourself, not to try to fill out spreadsheets and deal with work stuff in your hotel room.

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KJ
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm guessing this is more a US issue from what I have read, most of us just don't work when on leave.

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#23

Using the phrase "it's my right" as a get out of jail free card to engage in whatever reckless behaviour that takes your fancy.

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#24

People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop The entire "game" involved in modern dating or even most social interactions. The playing hard to get, the "arriving fashionably late" like people can we please keep it simple?

Ya go on laugh at me.

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Scagsy
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've been married for just over a decade and would be absolutely terrified of being back in the dating game. I wouldn't know where to start.

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#25

People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop Unhealthy weight. I’m not talking about being fit and thin and making people feel bad about their bodies. Im not talking about having a few extra pounds and making people feel bad for that. I have a few extra pounds, I’m not super fit, but I’m relatively healthy. Everyone’s body is different. Healthy means a lot of different things.

I’m talking about normalizing morbidly obese people as beautiful and something to be celebrated. It’s dangerous especially if children see them as someone to look up to. Then they’ll think it’s ok for your body to carry around so much weight that your heart and lungs are working overtime to keep you alive. It will lead to devastating later years in life as you age and your body slows down. You’ll be at risk for cardiovascular issues, you’ll probably die before your time, and the last few years of your life will be bed ridden while you waste away.

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Otter
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

While I agree that there is such a thing as unhealthy weight, you still won't see me attacking the "body positivity movement". Because for people to change for the better, the first step has to be letting go of the self-hatred and shame that plagues the seriously overweight and drives them into a self-destructive spiral of self-harming and self-comforting behavior. If the body positivity movement helps anyone let go of the guilt and self-hatred that's poisoned their lives then more good than harm has been done, and it's not like body negativity ever did anyone any good. You can't shame people into being thinner or healthier, that's not how humans work.

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#26

having unsocial and aggressive dogs, and not leashing or otherwise controlling them

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#27

Degrees for office jobs that take almost no time to learn and usually have nothing to do with the degree anyways . So many people out there who can’t afford college but, are just as capable as anyone else.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ridiculous demands from the same companies that cry over the lack of qualified employees

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#28

People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop Diamond and gemstones as gifts. They're shiny rocks with artificially inflated value. They're only expensive because people are willing to pay so much for them. If everyone stopped buying them, the price would fall faster than the Hindenburg. Or faster than the employment rate this year.

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#29

Cheating. Sooo many "love stories" on netflix, or just any sort of romance movie released these days have cheating involved in them so much. It's always branded as this romantic thing to do. Oooo like at this dark and brooding handsome guy with no personality. Time to f him and forget about my 2 year relationship, or some s*** like that. It's not romantic, it's just wrong, and it should not be normalised.

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Luka Verheijen
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's all a little more complicated, some people seem to think cheating is about as bad as it can get. But that being said, romance movies are actually the most messed up when you think about it

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#30

People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop Unhealthily obese pets. You took a warrior and domesticated it! They aren't happy if they're fat! They just eat on instinct! Stop inadvertently hurting the beings that love us unconditionally!

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#31

People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop Bragging about getting less than 6 hours of sleep.

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#32

The grind. Not taking vacation. Working on vacation. Working through your lunch break. Working early and late all the time. Answering emails after hours.

We are completely dispensable to the companies we work for. Don’t lose your life grinding for a company who only thinks of you as a number.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I work at a university, and vacations are sacrosanct here. We have an unwritten rule that you never call someone who is on vacation, no matter how dire the need may be.

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#33

Over-consumption. This goes out to social media influencers who flaunt their hauls and influence people to buy things that they don't need. It will just add on to the landfills. Please, no one's benefitting from hoarding.

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Trixypix
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's too much credit for the influencers. Overconsumption entails much more than that. Sadly enough.

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#34

Hatred of someone who lives differently than they do.

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J. F.
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As long as it doesn't hurt anybody else it's none of my business

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#35

Toxic positivity. There’s a huge difference between being optimistic and having raised colored glasses on. We’re all people, and we all experience negative and positive emotions. The only way you can properly get over your emotions is by allowing yourself to feel them. Glossing over your emotions with an aura of “Everything’s fine” isn’t going to solve anything, and it’s just gonna make you feel bad.

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Otter
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had a supervisor who was a true believer in toxic positivity. Her attitude was "If we all believe in this stupid idea, it WILL work!", when the sensibly positive attitude is to say "We CAN come up with a solution that will work!".

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#36

Failures in political leadership. I feel more and more we are becoming less critical of failed character in our leaders.

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NsG
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We criticise. It's just water off a duck's back. Its not criticism that's lacking, it's accountability and consequence.

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#37

Student loans.

Education is getting more expensive by the day and the added burden on a student in paying back a student loan helps nobody.

Furthermore people encourage student loans as though the students are obligated to take them if they pursue higher studies. Pure nonsense.

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#38

Hating police. I've worked places that police don't go. You all don't know how good you have it.

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Kesam
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't hate police in general, but I've had my arm and nearly my skull broken during the 2001 Genoa protests (unprovoked attack on peaceful protesters) and I was in the Diaz school raid (but luckily wasn't hurt as I was hiding in a closet). Sooo... there's good apples and bad apples... but the bad apples do a lot of damage as they are put in a position of power.

DE Ray
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

People always talk about "bad apples" as if they're isolated and their corruption doesn't touch the others - but remember, the maxim is: "One bad apple spoils the barrel". If there's a single corrupt or brutal police officer, his co-workers and supervisors aren't blameless.

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Trixypix
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's an ignorant statement because this totally depends on someones experiences with the police. Unfortunately location (country), skin colour and gender are of more influence on this experience than they should have at all.

WilvanderHeijden
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't buy this "There are more good cops than bad cops" myth. If there are really more good cops than bad cops, the good cops would be able to clear the force of the bad cops. In reality good cops either shut up and look away or leave the force because they can't stand how other officers abuse their powers to bully people. And we all know about the stories of how superiors covered for bad cops overstepping their powers or being just racists or sexists.

Burs
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You said it perfectly. The “good cops” either ignore or hide the bad behaviours, they are obviously not good.

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Andy Acceber
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I dunno. It's a career that descended from punishment for drunkards, then slave patrols, then union busting. It's currently known for brutality, rampant bias, and prioritizing property over people. I don't hate police officers as humans. But I do definitely wonder about anyone drawn to that line of work.

NsG
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This starts with distrust of the police because of bad experiences. The police needs to keep improving. There have been too many high profile cases recently of officers abusing their position of authority to commit truly heinous crimes. Part of the problem may be with recruitment - we can't get decent folk so we'll lower the bar, or be less vigilant vetting past behaviour because we need the numbers. Sadly, as with everything else, this comes down to money and government and corruption and power.

Monday
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's still pretty unfair though. That's like saying "it's okay for me to hate all men because I've had bad experiences with a few men in the past". Yes there are members of the police force that are awful, yes the system is awful and it protects those awful members, but that still doesn't give us free reign to hate on everyone that's part of it.

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Otter
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I agree. Ever go into a bad neighborhood and see all the bars on the windows and gates on all the shops? They aren't there to keep the police out!

littlesaresare
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Maybe if we stopped normalising police incompetence, brutality, and corruption, people wouldn't *need* to normalise hating the police? Just a crazy thought. This mentality is essentially victim blaming, criticising people for being the victims of bad cops. When you have an industry that allows its employees to literally murder people without consequences, the problem is not with those who hate the murderers.

Sabrina Bowen
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The hate of police comes from a real place though. I never hated police, until they busted my door down, put a gun to my husband's head and forced me to wake and strip my children naked so they could look for "signs of abuse" 4 1/2 hours after my toddler hit the 911 button on my phone (this was when phones had an emergency button that everyone pocket dialed). Now, I fear police. And since getting into the mental health and drug rehab fields, I learned to fear them more. Fear absolutely overlaps with hate. So, the hate, was earned!

Aeon Flux
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Thank you for sharing your story, Sabrina. You're right: People who have never seen the dark side of law enforcement tend to wear rose-colored glasses.

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Libstak
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There is no career where everybody is good, none. Be it priests, doctors, engineers cops or anyone else, bad people will find their way into every walk of life. The upside is so will a lot of very good people.

Kurtis Wethington
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, but a bad shoe salesman isn't going to kill you on the job, have a union of other shoe salesman protect them from consequences and outright *punish* any good shoe salesman from trying to stop the bad ones and a general culture that'll blame the victim for having the wrong feet in the first place. while putting shoe salesmen on a ridiculously high pedestal.

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Rens
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've lost all faith in the police in general 😔 I had an issue with my neighbour, which they dealt with well; now I'm being slandered and bullied online with dreadful racial slurs... And even though I gave them all his details, they won't do anything and victim-blamed and victim-shamed me.

Tee Witt
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My treatment b the British police when I was mugged displayed how they truely were. I totally disrespect them now and would not help them under any condition.

lara
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The police are a function of the government. Literally. Bad government, bad police. Indifferent government, indifferent police.

survivalrhino
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don't want problems with police? Stay on the right side of the law-- "protests" are people trying to provoke fights-- then they wanna cry when they succeed.

Sandra Gomez
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There are more good the bad cops. If your angry at this its because the truth does hurt. These good cops wonder every day if they will get to come home to their families at the end of their shift

De Gueb
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's hard when you know so many corrupt ones. Not just cop's that take bribes etc, the ones that abuse there power. I've done 10byears working as a doorman/bouncer and seen to much.

Luis F
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Aww how sweet must it be to say “you don’t know how good you have it” from someone who doesn’t know how good they have it. Want to know why some places are copless it’s because once upon a time bad cops came bullied the community and the department as a whole either acted to late or did nothing at all Now what happens next is now your afraid of encountering the bad cop, paranoia spreads suddenly you lack the desire to want to call on a potential abuser. Then comes a d**k head who sees what’s happening and decides this is his new home to do what he wants. Some people join because they’re also d**k heads other join to prevent themselves from being a target In conclusion you can’t say “you’ll miss it when it’s gone” if they were never with you

Max
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The vast majority of crimes are not handled by police, are not prevented by police, and are in some cases exacerbated by police. The police and current 'justice' system are not a solution to the social problems that cause most crimes.

Christoph
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How come so many people get "I don;t hate the sinner...I hate the sin." but cannot wrap their frikkin heads around that HATING POLICE VIOLENCE is NOT hating police. Y'all are being willfully ignorant!!!!

abby smink
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think you can acknowledge that the system is broken, and that officers should be held accountable, while at the same time realizing that hating someone simply because they're police doesn't solve anything either.

Kumoa
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

it's not the hating police thats really the deep down issue. it's that "thin blue line" that the cops who know there is being wrong done and still back up the cops who are doing it instead of stepping up and helping to stop it. And the courts and govt are just as guilty!

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have four relatives that are cops, I don't hate them or their profession, but I wish there was more accountability among law enforcement.

Celtic Pirate Queen
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The police force is like any other organization with many members, some of them are going to be lousy human beings and that's a shame. But, in my experience, the people who claim to hate the police are usually the ones in trouble with them. I have nothing but heartfelt thanks and appreciation for the King County WA officers who did their utmost to catch my ex husband who was stalking & harassing my kids & I.

Riley Quinn
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No, no, no! This is a sensitive topic that doesn't need to be generalized. We hate bad cops, racist, sexist cops. We also hate the "good" cops who protect the bad cops. But what we really hate are police unions that insist on qualified immunity and who buy politicians to go easy on them. We hate cops who think they are above the law.

Amanda Hunter
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Police are people too, they're sons daughters, girlfriends, wives, fathers' mothers. They have to follow protocol or they're out.

Cydney Golden
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I only have a problem with the police who are bullies and abuse the privilege of the badge.

D. Pitbull
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don't hate "police" as a generality. That's nonsense. What any of us really hate is the normalization of violent or extreme bias within any institution. "Police" are good. Having an attitude within the force of "ha ha, they just brutalized a non-white individual because of a shiny cellphone... that person probably deserved it" is NOT good. THAT is what needs to be cleaned out.

Csaba Horvath
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Live in a dictatorship for some years, and learn how bad the police can be. (Or a simply shitty country, where there are some advantage of police, but they can punish you for anything and government does not care.) A well working state and a well working police is a good thing, i agree.

Karl Baxter
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My interactions with police (& those who joined up) have been less than positive. Their job seems less about protecting and serving the public and more about protecting the powerful and a system of social inequality. Everyday you can seen the unequal way laws are applied depending on who you are, I don’t hate them but I don’t trust them in any way shape or form either.

thebridget
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They need an associate's degree and actual education on working with people in the community, not 12 weeks of firearm training.

Jackie Porter
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think most people don't hate police, they just hate corrupt police officers.

Curry on...
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't hate police. I don't hate anyone. I don't like anyone, police included, who abuse their power.

Chloe *Leah* Pheonix
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The only policemen I hate are the people that think they can do anything they want because they are police officer and they only become an officer because they "get to hurt people" but the ones I've talked to are actually really nice

L.A. Trefry
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't think many people hate GOOD police. And it's crazy not to hate BAD ones. (And for the record, cops who don't stop bad cops or turn them in are also bad comes.)

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Jjiinnee
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There a whole thread on here from yesterday with a bunch of really nasty vile spouted about police and military. No, people do not know how good they have it until some warlord takes it away and offs you and your entire family. Go ahead though, say they are all evil and want power for protecting you.

Laura Watts
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Few bad apples gave them all a bad name again so many police officers are good hard working people who go out of there way to help you

Aeon Flux
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Who go out of their way to help YOU, Laura. It's not like that for all of us.

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Hollysmom
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Far too many people hate police for catching them breaking laws. Take responsibility for your actions. Not all police are good or bad, they are humans. As much as some people say they hate police that is exactly who they call when there's trouble.

Eric Johansen
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah the next time you cry "Defund the Police" think about that the next time you need someone to run into an active shooting situation!!!

WhatEvenIsLife
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't hate police, but I do hate systemic racism and racial bias, and sorry not sorry, the numbers are right there in black and white (no pun intended). POC are disproportionately stopped, arrested, killed, etc. Add to that the fact that domestic abuse is 2 to 4 times more common among police, and, yeah... I know there are good cops, but there are enormous problems in law enforcement in general.

Andy Acceber
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yep. In the U.S., the stats are that Black men face a 1 in 1,000 risk of being killed (not just shot, killed) by a police officer. The risk for white men is 2.5 times that. Both are bad. All police brutality is bad. But Black people definitely bear the worst of it.

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Rachael Sampson
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well then tell American cops to stop randomly murdering people of color for no reason.

Julie C Rose
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

…please don’t tell black Americans that being shot by the police is some kind of privilege.

J. F.
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Also projecting problems from another continent to the own police force - after the whole George Floyd thing we in Germany heavily cut the police of Berlin from doing their job, and the left side of the government used it as reason to bash on the officers even more

Mazer
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Most people have no idea how hard the job is, they don’t care to know. Police officers save lives more than they take them. I am proud of the lives I saved and hate that most people who get involved in the system just don’t have the tools to deal with their overwhelming stressors. Law Enforcement has a history of abuse and disregard for the lives of others, that’s changing. It’s a slow change but badly needed. Of one were to research the history of law enforcement I think you would be shocked at what it once entailed

Allen Lavine
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You know what else is hard going to war but even soldiers can't just kill someone with out a good reason and think about this how worse things was before everyone had a camera it took a news paper to show how blacks was getting beat by police in the 60s getting sprayed with fire hoses

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v
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't hate the police. I hate that the police have let an honorable profession become so dishonorable. There's always been a Blue Line. The problem, at least in the U.S., is that more and more the various departments across the country purposely choose to hide the worst of their lot behind the Blue Line rather that expel them. They choose to let the cancer grow.

Nikki Sevven
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

People often hate the police because the good ones turn a blind eye to the bad ones and their behavior. Clean out your ranks and rebrand yourselves back to the "protect and serve" type of community service.

Steve Wilson
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I know every society needs police. But personally I’ve never needed them & I’ve made it 71 years so far.

LaGitanaTriste
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

“Y’all don’t know how good you have it” Sounds like a cop. When police start policing each other and showing some basic integrity AS A WHOLE, then they might start to earn the public’s trust and respect. (In the USA anyway) A 2 year degree and six months training to have license to kill for the next 25 years. Police in the US carry multiple weapons at all times.

Sendé Vin
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Because law enforcement as a organization has NEVER done anything to deserve that right. Tell that to all the countless people who died because of police brutality

Something
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Law enforcement is important, but that doesn't mean there aren't a lot of cops who are bad people. People hate lawyers too, because the profession really does attract a certain type, and lawyers don't even kill people (at least not directly).

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3 years ago

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In my experience, the only people who hate the police are the ones breaking the law.

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People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop Students overwhelmed by homework when it isn’t necessary. I’m excluding situations like when the workloads from classes are reasonable and happen to pile on one day or students who aren’t organized, etc. This whole thing is a grey area, but sleep, burnout, mental health exists.

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WilvanderHeijden
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A little coordination between teachers could solve this problem. I can remember the times where we had to do an assignment for English and an hour later our French teacher came up with a similar time consuming assignment. When we explained that that meant we had to choose which one we could do, he postponed the assignment for 2 weeks. But other teachers just said "Deal with it." It's education, teacher, we're not operating a multibillion dollar business with deadlines and targets here.

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People Are Sharing 40 Things We Are Still Normalizing But Need To Stop Not caring about education. So many people obviously didn't pay attention in elementary school and don't care about it.

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Luka Verheijen
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Over here, the government doesn't see education as a "top priority" while I think it's one of THE most important things

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#41

How alcohol is so casual in today's world.

Lots of people misuse alcohol and don't even know it. Anytime you're seriously getting inebriated, you're hurting your body so much.

I see way too many people coming into the liquor store I work at and buying WAAAY too much. And that's normal.

Kids should be raised on the realities of alcohol consumption.

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Mazer
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Alcohol is literally poison to your body, but it’s a social norm and has the added benefit of reducing stress and inhibitions. It’s use and abuse is not going away anytime soon

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I think people, specifically parents, should stop normalizing that it's a given that their child will grow up to have a family. Instead, parents should emphasize that it's difficult to find the right partner, and that it's possible that it might not even happen at all, and that it would be okay as well.

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It’s not about not finding the right partner. It’s about accepting that people can be happy in a committed relation, single, open relation, with or without children, sharing or not the house…

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#43

Obsessing over celebrities/people you do not know irl. So basically stan culture. People will say they 'stan' someone as a point of pride. If it's gotten to that stage then you really really need to take a step back. No hate to those who keep it amongst themselves but yeah not healthy at all imo

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm not getting useful Google results. Can someone explain 'stan' please?

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#44

The American dream, that your politicians give a damn about you and that there’s any hope for this planet, there’s not, we are just free falling before we hit the pavement right now.

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Burs
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In general the idea that politicians in any country give a damn about us. We Europeans often sin of thinking that we have it much better just because other countries are worse, but it doesn’t mean that our governments care at all.

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#45

Overworking yourself.

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WilvanderHeijden
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In some countries it's a choice that people make. In other countries it's a necessity to keep a roof above your head and feed your family.

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#46

Throwing tantrums in public. Time to openly admit that the person flipping out is usually in the wrong.

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Mazer
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not so. Some people have a hard time dealing with emotions, it’s too easy to sit back and judge. Each fight is different and sometimes the loudest most animated person is the one being victimized the most and they have just reached a breaking point. You never know until the people fighting are split up and interviewed

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