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People around the world are suspicious about the information that reaches them. For example, the 32% of Americans who say they trust the mass media "a great deal" or "a fair amount" to cover the news fully and accurately ties Gallup's lowest historical reading, previously recorded in 2016.

Another 29% of American adults have "not very much" trust, while a record-high 39% register "none at all." The latest figure is the highest in Gallup's five-decade history of tracking these metrics by one percentage point and 12 points higher than the 2016 number, which came amid sharp criticism of the media from then-presidential candidate Donald Trump, making the current assessment the grimmest we've seen.

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However, many believe the situation isn't that much better even if we take a step away from reporting. Last week, Reddit user Stefan_Reevezsky asked others on the platform "What things are claimed to be 'stigmatized' in [the] media, but actually aren't in society?" and folks have thought of plenty.

#1

Media Myths: 30 Things People Believe Are Incorrectly Portrayed As Stigmatized Boomers, hands down

The vast majority of boomers are sweet elderly people who are nice to talk to. Not racist caricatures that spout nonsense all the time.

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In America, the boomers gave us civil rights. A lot of them were shipped off to war in Vietnam against their will. Every generation faces its own challenges. The boomers had their share.

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Media Myths: 30 Things People Believe Are Incorrectly Portrayed As Stigmatized Doing stuff by yourself. Some people here get almost hysterical when they describe eating at a restaurant or seeing a movie by yourself. I guarantee you that if you’re behaving normally, no one else gives the tiniest of s**ts if you went out by yourself.

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've met people like that and I don't get it. I do lots of things by myself.

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We got in touch with the author of the post, and they were kind enough to tell us more about it. "I had this question come to mind while I was developing the storyline for a detective novel I'm planning to write," Stefan_Reevezsky explained to Bored Panda. "The protagonist in my story faces trial based on allegations concocted by a third-party journalist investigator."

The Redditor elaborated on their thought process, saying, "As I was brainstorming, the word 'stigma' popped up frequently, leading me to realize that many things portrayed as 'unacceptable' in popular media are actually mundane in real society."

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#3

Media Myths: 30 Things People Believe Are Incorrectly Portrayed As Stigmatized Blue-collared jobs sometimes are looked down upon in media, but in reality, skilled trades are often in high demand and well-respected.

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I worked in IT for 16 years of struggle. It was bad for my body (ten hours a day in a chair hunched over a keyboard isn’t great on you) it was bad for my mental health mostly because the industry is always in flux. Layoffs are common, policy changes daily and when the company loses 10% stock value it’s do more with no resources and no days off. In 16 years I was with 6 different companies. I was only fired once (quite quit type of thing, I didn’t care anymore and was just calling out sick to interview other places because they wouldn’t approve pto anymore without a month of notice) the rest I was laid off, restructured. I work a pretty blue collar job now and I make more. Get to be outside all day and I could honestly make it through months never seeing my boss if I don’t want to ( my boss is cool tho too.) it took a few years to advance to the money I made in it but now I’m doing better and I’m on track for a good retirement because now I have not just a 401k but a pension too.

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"Take tattoos or piercings, for example. Despite articles claiming they're stigmatized, there's a mainstream culture around them, and most people outside of it simply don't care, except for certain workplace norms," the Reddit user said.

"The same goes for being gay, short, a single mother, a blue-collar worker, or dealing with depression or other mental health issues."

#5

Media Myths: 30 Things People Believe Are Incorrectly Portrayed As Stigmatized Maybe wanting to stay single. Media portrays it as a desperate cry for love, but in reality, it's pretty liberating!

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This one for sure. I was constantly seeking a relationship. It wasn’t until I spent a few years singing and being introspective about why my relationships failed that I was actually ready to be in a relationship. I’ve been married for 15 years now. I couldn’t make a relationship last 15 weeks prior. Do you and you might actually find someone who fits you.

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#6

Media Myths: 30 Things People Believe Are Incorrectly Portrayed As Stigmatized Slightly niche perhaps, but my kids always had trouble buying Fathers Day cards for me because I didn't spend my evenings down the pub, fish or play golf.

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The greetings card industry is determined to hold onto gender stereotypes for another century or so! That's why I always buy blank art cards (and I managed the card category for a major retail chain in my country for a while).

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Stefan_Reevezsky tried to find similar threads on Reddit but they couldn't, so they decided to just post the question themselves and see what everyone thinks.

The responses were diverse, but from that the author of the post has gathered, "Western media tends to portray many things as stigmatized because people, especially young ones, seek reassurance by finding 'dragons to slay.'"

#7

Media Myths: 30 Things People Believe Are Incorrectly Portrayed As Stigmatized I have to say wearing glasses and having braces. No one called me four eyes. No one called me tinsel teeth. Believe me, I was made fun of as a kid, but those weren’t the reasons.

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was in 6th grade (11-12 years old) when I got my first pair of glasses. I go to school the next day, fully expecting to be called 'four eyes' but the boy who sat in front of me told me the glasses made me look very sophisticated. Made my day. Made the whole year.

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Media Myths: 30 Things People Believe Are Incorrectly Portrayed As Stigmatized Not wearing makeup. The media and Internet are full of all the pressure to wear makeup but I work with HUNDREDS of women and maybe a third of us sometimes wear lipstick or eyeliner? I can count on one hand the ones who wear foundation. Nobody says anything. Even the college president was barefaced giving a plenary speech and at commencement. There's no stigma for me wearing some color when I feel like it either. It's just not relevant to anyone's interests.

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have better things to do with my time and money than waste it on make up. If you enjoy it, then fabulous, keep on with it. Do whatever makes you happy.

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"What better dragon than a stigma surrounding something you identify with or enjoy? It fits into our heavily labeled culture, where fighting for a label becomes a narrative akin to classic Hollywood underdog stories. People who lack substantial identity often cling to these labels, supporting media that reinforces their perceived battles," the Redditor added.

"It struck me as odd that no one had posed this question before, considering the multitude of responses I received. Perhaps it's because admitting that some stigmas don't exist is itself stigmatized."

#9

Media Myths: 30 Things People Believe Are Incorrectly Portrayed As Stigmatized Karens. Hear me out!! It went from being a thing of recording and judging actually rude and often racist women who complain just to complain. But as more videos popped up, people are recording and sensationalizing situations where if you were in her shoes, you'd be mad too! Karen isn't synonymous with "old lady you find annoying".

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have several friends named Karen who are lovely and this trope irritates me.

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#10

Media Myths: 30 Things People Believe Are Incorrectly Portrayed As Stigmatized Being Average looking, it seems like social media loves to see *supermodel like people* and forget that most of the public is average and or unattractive sometimes, and that's alright. I like that there are more people on social media that are vocalizing this issue and letting us know that normal is ok, Flawed is ok. ( No shade to attractive people, they're beautiful and everyone loves to look at them but my point is they are not the only ones that exist).

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have problems telling faces apart so I love people with unusual features.

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There was a study where researchers analyzed 41 movies that had been released between 1990 and 2010 for depictions of schizophrenia. Based on the findings of the analysis, they drew several conclusions, including:

  • Most of the characters displayed "positive" symptoms of schizophrenia, with delusions being featured most frequently, followed by auditory and visual hallucinations;
  • The majority of characters displayed violent behavior toward themselves or others;
  • Nearly one-third of violent characters engaged in homicidal behavior;
  • About one-fourth of the characters committed suicide;
  • The cause of schizophrenia was infrequently noted. However, in about one-fourth of the movies it was implied that a traumatic life event for the character had been a significant factor;
  • Of the movies that alluded to or showed mental illness treatment, psychotropic medications were most commonly portrayed.

Other studies have also discovered that 75% of depictions of mental illness in popular video games are negative or stereotyped.

#11

Media Myths: 30 Things People Believe Are Incorrectly Portrayed As Stigmatized Enjoying pineapple on pizza. It's the secret handshake of the culinary brave.

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I never understood this one. It's not like someone is forcing people to eat Hawaiian pizza, so what's the deal if someone likes it?

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#12

Media Myths: 30 Things People Believe Are Incorrectly Portrayed As Stigmatized Couples with very different attractiveness. Happens all the time irl and nobody actually says stuff.

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axle f
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

....that's not stigmatized, it's criticized as unrealistic in tv & movies because it's an over used trope.

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These portrayals are not only incorrect but damaging because they spread myths about mental Illness. Schizophrenia is often painted with symptoms such as visual hallucinations, bizarre delusions, and disorganized speech, and they're presented as if they're commonplace. In reality, however, symptoms like decreased motivation, poverty of speech, and flat affect are more common. And this is just one example of how media portrayals can threaten to (re)shape societal perceptions and contribute to harmful stereotypes.

#13

Media Myths: 30 Things People Believe Are Incorrectly Portrayed As Stigmatized Going to college when you're older..theres tins of adults over 35 trying to reinvent themselves..theres even an old guy who made school a lifelong career.

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My oldest classmate in uni was 88. She was lovely and just wanted to get a bachelor in Philosophy.

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#14

Media Myths: 30 Things People Believe Are Incorrectly Portrayed As Stigmatized Being short (as a man). Especially online, people have made such a mountain out of this particular molehill over the last few years. I've never met a woman who strictly dates men 6' and up, and my short mates get plenty of action.

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Polterbean
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The most important thing to me is to be just a cool person, I don't care about the height!

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#15

Media Myths: 30 Things People Believe Are Incorrectly Portrayed As Stigmatized Recent trend seems to be the “blue bubble/green bubble” debate with iPhones and Androids. People apparently HATE green bubbles and refuse to communicate with anyone if they have to send green bubble text messages.

Have not met a single soul in person or even online who gives a s**t.

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#16

Media Myths: 30 Things People Believe Are Incorrectly Portrayed As Stigmatized Inlaws, most people I know get on pretty well with their inlaws.

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Leila
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My mother in-law was a wonderful woman. She treated me like one of her own even after her son and I separated.

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#17

Media Myths: 30 Things People Believe Are Incorrectly Portrayed As Stigmatized Everything.

The media likes to blow things well out of proportion to get a good story for people to follow and talk about.

Most of the time, it's because of the media that many big problems are as "big" as they are.

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7 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've gotten completly off of TV news for this reason. I check the print headlines each day and read a couple articles on the main actual news events of the day and then move on with my life. I'm done mentally participating in the constant generated outrage.

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Media Myths: 30 Things People Believe Are Incorrectly Portrayed As Stigmatized Dads going to parks alone with their children.

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Since when has this been stigmatised? I used to do this all the time with my daughter, and there were often other dads with their kids. No one ever took the slightest bit of notice.

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Media Myths: 30 Things People Believe Are Incorrectly Portrayed As Stigmatized Avocado toast.

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you give up this and the lattes you can afford to buy a home in about 400 years time

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Media Myths: 30 Things People Believe Are Incorrectly Portrayed As Stigmatized High school stereotypes, they scared the s**t out of me until I got to high school.

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Marianne
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm German, but I participated in a school exchange with a school in Texas. I knew all the stereotypes from the movies, but the real thing was nothing like it. My pal had a diverse friend group that included "popular" types and nerds alike, just like peole with different ethnicities and backgrounds.

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#21

Media Myths: 30 Things People Believe Are Incorrectly Portrayed As Stigmatized There are a lot of posts here saying "Normalize eating out/getting coffee/seeing a movie alone."
Seriously, no one cares. Do those things, they are normal.

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#22

Media Myths: 30 Things People Believe Are Incorrectly Portrayed As Stigmatized Being a nerd. Yeah nerdiness might get you bullied in school depending, but a lot of nerd culture has just become part of...well, culture. I find this most annoying with elder millennials who still act like they're some sort of oppressed elite because the dare to like Mario.

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Media Myths: 30 Things People Believe Are Incorrectly Portrayed As Stigmatized Having freckles. When the fake freckles makeup trend was taking off, tons of people came out of the woodwork to complain about how “unfair” it was that they got teased for having freckles and now it’s a trend. I’m sorry, but unless you were physically and socially perfect in the eyes of your peers in elementary school, you probably got bullied for something arbitrary. For me, it was my big ears. I’m not going to sit here and whine about people stretching their ears and making them bigger. It’s such a fake problem.

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Media Myths: 30 Things People Believe Are Incorrectly Portrayed As Stigmatized Nuclear power has been stigmatized by the environmentalists and now guess what… it appears to be reliable, very cost effective and to date the safest form of energy.

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Anything that produces tons of radioactive waste that won't deteriorate for centuries is not safe.

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#25

Media Myths: 30 Things People Believe Are Incorrectly Portrayed As Stigmatized (Celebs) being gay (in western europe)

Most of us don't give a s**t.

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Media Myths: 30 Things People Believe Are Incorrectly Portrayed As Stigmatized Not wanting to have kids. Besides direct family members(which I mean, kinda makes sense why your parents and grandparents might want you to have kids of your own), it seems like the stigma of not wanting kids is extremely overblown. I tend to see WAY more posts and media about people feeling special/rebellious for not wanting kids than I ever see for others demanding that people have children outside of fringe alt-right types, and they tend to only want "certain people" to have more kids.

The "no kids forever" crowd seem to be like inverted vegans, they actually do bring it up all the time and act as if they are hated for their choice when in reality the vast majority of people don't care or see the benefits of said choice.

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Jason
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have kids, don't care if other people do or don't. It's their business not mine

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#27

Media Myths: 30 Things People Believe Are Incorrectly Portrayed As Stigmatized Discussing mental illness. "X illness is taboo to talk about. We need to talk more about X." It isn't taboo and in fact it's now trendy to wear your particular flair of mental illness with pride.

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Thor Haugen
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's obviously OK to talk about mental illness in an appropriate context, but there should be the same boundaries as talking about physical illness. You don't go up to someone and say, "Hi, I have diabetes."

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Media Myths: 30 Things People Believe Are Incorrectly Portrayed As Stigmatized Voting for the other party.

I blame the news for the political divide.

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#29

Media Myths: 30 Things People Believe Are Incorrectly Portrayed As Stigmatized Wearing socks with sandals—media might mock it, but let's be real, comfort is always in style, even if it's not runway-ready!

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#30

Media Myths: 30 Things People Believe Are Incorrectly Portrayed As Stigmatized Media acts like the internet is just cyberbullying, predators, scams, and dangerous/illegal Tik Tok trends.

They also act like a 12yo playing GTA is suddenly gonna want to actually steal cars and shoot people.

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Jason
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Real issue is social media and the dopamine addiction. Algorithms are designed to keep you addicted.

Isa's left eye
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A lot of it IS cyberbullying, predators, scams, and dangerous/illegal Tik Tok trends. There's also misinformation, body shaming, and more. Not all of it, but enough that children should not have unlimited access. Yes, there is information. Yes, there is community. Still, it can be very dangerous, especially to young kids. A lot of websites are designed to make you addicted to them, and they lower people's attention spans. This has been PROVEN. And video games do not make you want to steal cars and shoot people, but they do increase violence. Again, this has been proven.

Ken Beattie
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just as a counter to the last comment about GTA. While they may not actually shoot people it can still promote bad behaviour. Friend let his (I think about) 11 year old son play an 18+ game (Name escapes me but you're a hacker/criminal fighting corrupt cops). The game features lots of violence, including luring police to a location to kill them, and a fair bit of swearing. His kid thought "murdering cops was awesome" and hadn't even picked up on the fact they were crooked, criminal cops. It also made him quite agitated and rough after he'd play it and he picked up the swearing. While he probably won't go out murdering police for fun, it definitely had an effect of his behaviour and attitude.

Dainty72
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As long as children are playing age appropriate games! How many mam and dad's buy these violent video games for children that are too young. I have a nephew who watched wrestling and was really violent with my three girls, he was 3, to 7 years old watching this and using those moves on my girls. He got violent video games at around 6 years old. Anyone who thinks this is ok are fools! He had games that were for 16/18 years

rmandevi831
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When the stress just gets too much for me, I run down city streets, avoid ghosts and eat dots!

Amy
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I personally enjoy throwing banana peels and turtle shells at other drivers.

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censorshipsucks
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The internet is precisely cyberbullying, predators, scams, and dangerous/illegal Tik Tok trends, plus also fat shaming (instagram), fake news (facebook), pathetic arguments (twitter), and conspiracy theories (youtube). In fact, the only thing on internet that doesn't suck that much is Bored Panda. Oh and wikipedia. Pretty much everything else sucks. Just my 2c.

M O'Connell
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The youtube algorithms are quite good at showing you what you like, so if it's showing you conspiracy nonsense that's because you keep clicking on it. My friend cannot understand that her news feed is wall-to-wall royal family junk precisely because she keeps engaging with that sort of content.

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Corvus
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

(gasp!) But don't you know that them video games make kids violent?!?!11

gilded panda
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ah yes, I played all the fallouts and doom games, as well as GTA 4, so I must be a psycho who wants to bomb the world

lawrence Andrew
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Everything will lead kids into a life of violence or depravity. Like television or rock and roll music. Internet is just a new way to get it.

Christina Hvurchilova
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They said the same for TV before we had the internet and computer... and the same for newspapers before that. There'll always be a reason for aggression and violence that's outside of people being people.

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#31

Media Myths: 30 Things People Believe Are Incorrectly Portrayed As Stigmatized Saying Merry Christmas.

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Corvus
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Some of the crazier conservatives came up with an imaginary "war on Christmas" and have been grasping at this long-debunked narrative for years. The truth is that other seasonal holidays are celebrated too, and that's what "triggers" them so much. They are basically angry that they cannot force Christmas as being the *only* holiday that's allowed to be celebrated.

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Media Myths: 30 Things People Believe Are Incorrectly Portrayed As Stigmatized I'm a dude. Grew up rather sheltered and had to follow all the rules.

Recently I questioned my entire existence and long story short my self esteem is getting fixed and I have purple hair, piercings and painted nails, usually with a cute little pattern like lightning or something.

My parents are old world Indian, they aren't able to process that I can get high level corporate jobs looking slightly punk. I have a tattoo full sleeve but apart from classy earrings and nail polish and purple hair you don't see anything even remotely non corporate. Except maybe backpack instead of briefcase. Because duh.

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Jennik
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

" I have a tattoo full sleeve but apart from classy earrings and nail polish and purple hair you don't see anything even remotely non corporate." Hmm - I'm not sure the nail polish and purple hair are giving off corporate vibes either! I'm not judging - I'm an older female with a scarlet and blue mullet (the colour changes every few months) and have had corporate(ish) jobs until just recently.

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#33

Being from Ireland, use of the word "c**t" in everyday parlance.

It's like kryptonite to Americans...

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

LOL. I can see a bunch of people turning like a meerkats to the OP in disbelief of what did they just hear

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#34

Media Myths: 30 Things People Believe Are Incorrectly Portrayed As Stigmatized The "bad guy" in a lot of relationship movies is often the one everyone goes for in real life whereas the protagonist is often who people avoid



the villain is often the stiff, responsible, high power job guy




the hero is often some free spirit, quirky type, no life plan, extremely expressive, etc.

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axle f
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

....maybe someone shud have explained the meaning of the word stigmatized? this is ridiculous...

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#35

Older women dating younger men.

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think it depends on the age difference. There is 7 years between me and my partner (he's younger) I think it's weird if the other person is old enough to be your kid or grandkid but hey that's just me.

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#37

It’s a mixed bag. Everything has varying levels of stigma. For example, mental health, we are now at a place in society where we can talk about it and some people will call you a fruit loop, as I was called once, and some people will shower you in empathy and support, as I once received.


So is mental illness stigmatized? Eye of the beholder.

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Corvus
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Imagine being asked what illness you have, and you grimly reply "Eye of the Beholder."

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#39

Speaking 2 languages. Maybe it was 50 years ago but now bilingual speakers just adopt that oppression. I’ve never heard it not been praised.

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Corvus
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Learning foreign languages is always a useful thing, especially in today's connected world... and yes, actually knowing a language always trumps using machine translation, no matter how good (or AI-powered) it may be.

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#40

“Plain” girls.

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

...*mountainous* girls. *seaside* girls. *forest* girls. *desert* girls. Hm.

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#41

Media Myths: 30 Things People Believe Are Incorrectly Portrayed As Stigmatized I would say it's having tattoos, piercings, etc. If people around are split 50/50 - those who just glance and those who don't care - it doesn't mean that there is a stigma.

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SadieCat17 (she/her)
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This comment was definitely made by someone who doesn't have bold tattoos/piercings lmao

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#42

Bullying, unfortunately. Despite all the negative coverage, anti-bullying campaigns, and other efforts to tamp it down, bullying will always occur in some form with the perpetrators tending to be among the more popular persons within social groups.

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Rachel Pelz
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wait a minute, are saying that bullying is stigmatized by the media but is OK irl?

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#44

Owning a firearm

Everyone with a gun isn’t a racist militia redneck or a black inner city gangbanger.

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Nadine Debard
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And being a 'good person' doesn't prevent you from being shot because you pulled out a gun, and it doesn't prevent your kids to accidently kill someone, including themselves, if not correctly secured.

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#45

Being conservative or voting Republican.

Turn on any streaming tv show or movie and you'd think nobody in America is right of center.

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BoredPossum
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Watching from Europe, you have no middle. Your two major parties are far right or right.

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#47

Diversity in general (sexuality, ethnicity, gender). When I see some articles and videos about this it sometimes feels like a parody. I've never seen discrimination in real life being that much of a problem on a scale that media shows. Of course, there are some cases when it's a problem and I don't try to marginalize it, but society nowadays isn't really that racist/homophobic/sexist like the media portrays it (I'm not talking about countries where it's a big issue still, but USA or Europe for example where this problem is really not that common).

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Poppy
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just because you've never seen it, doesn't mean it doesn't exist. LGBTQIA+ people are still at higher risk of physical harm than straight people. Racism is still a huge deal especially in the US and in the UK.

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#49

African American representation in media. .

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#50

I do not think promiscuous women are judged that much.

At a certain age, people start thinking you are odd if you never smoked pot, been drunk, or had sex with more than one person.

People talk down to you like a child if you are sexually inexperienced.

American culture is not prudish at all.

I do not even think people are all that judgmental of people's sexual behavior.

Then again, I live in a liberal part of the country.

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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In some places women are stigmatized both ways. Haven't had sex with more than two people? Prude. Had sex with anyone? S**t. Had sex with one or two people? Prudish s**t.

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