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NoFunction_ , skytheanimalman/reddit Report

Large political flags on the wall. I don't care what your political affiliations are, if you are that obsessed with it that you feel the need to hang a huge flag in your living room to announce them, that's a no from me.

102points

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Smeghead Tribble Down Under 2 days ago

*Nervously eyes her United Federation Of Planets flag*

70points

House made of sweets and gingerbread. Boiling cauldron over chimney fire.

azinize , probablyA_cat/reddit Report

100points

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ucp 2 days ago

Oven large enough to fit two children? GTFO!

42points

I did some real estate photography on a home.

It was a Mass State Trooper. It was disturbing: A nice neighborhood, a nice home, clean and well maintained. Kids and wife photos decorating the walls and end tables. But I started noticing holes punched into walls (some of them plastered and repaired, some of them "fresh". Doors that had been splintered at the bottom from being kicked in. A couple doors that had padlocks on them that had been ripped out. There were just signs of rage everywhere I looked. It was disturbing and I felt bad for the family.

parkerjh , Lujia Zhang/unsplash Report

93points

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Schmebulock 1 day ago

They need way better screening and treatment of police for mental health issues.

42points

Myctic_Darling , Daiga Ellaby/unsplash Report

No hand soap in the bathroom.

88points

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ucp 2 days ago

Or an absence of hand towels.

24points

rusty_trashcan_210 , Gláuber Sampaio/unsplash Report

This extreme beigeness. Especially if there are kids. I saw videos of parents painting colorful toys beige. It's just sad.

87points

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Child of the Stars 2 days ago

I don't understand this at all. It feels so impersonal. I dislike overly matched and perfectly decorated houses too. Being in someone's home should tell you who they are, but an overly-curated home always makes me feel like they're trying to hide themselves.

32points

When their pets water bowls are empty. Monsters.

LoJellythings , tps12/flickr Report

86points

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Shannimal 1 day ago

Gah. Remi drinks her bowl down and doesn't let me know, so it might be dry for a bit until I notice. She also isn't running any marathons, so she's fine.

29points

slightlydramatic , Daiga Ellaby/unsplash Report

I change the bathroom towels in our guest bathroom every Friday. One Friday I told my son to go wipe up the urine he left on the seat & floor and then watched this imposter of my DNA, wipe the urine with a hand towel and hang it back up, in front of me. I've never wanted to disown a relative more in my life.

84points

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Debbie 2 days ago

As a parent, this made me smile, not because of what he did ofcourse. But sometimes we forget that we never taught them how to do something. It kinda depends on his age though. At a certain age you could expect them to figure out to use toilet paper for that. But at other ages I am unfortunately not surprised that they do not think about what to use to wipe something up. My kids had the habit of taking a clean dishtowel (theedoek) from the cupboard to clean up spills. Instead of a rag (doekje) or a towel that was in use/more ready for a round of laundry. On one hand, ok, you are cleaning it up, but aaargh!

20points

notcool_neverwas , Francesca Tosolini/unsplash Report

I don’t know if I’d go as far as “red flag”, but people who have zero books in their home give me pause.

83points

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Alvia Vseobecna 2 days ago

ereader is easily concealable

41points

NaiveOpening7376 , Midnight Believe/flickr Report

#10

Crosses / jesus s**t everywhere.

80points

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Donkey boi 1 day ago

For clarity, as this one seems to be dividing, I read this as; 'People with a LOT of religious iconography' I don't think they mean just a crucifix or two, but like, a cross in every room, or a shrine type setup.

22points

#11

Dirty litter boxes if they have cats, and I mean filthy.

Ophede , B****Bussy/reddit Report

79points

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The Doom Song 2 days ago

No one wants to walk into a house that stinks of cat poop

12points

#12

My bicycle that I reported stolen 2 weeks ago. Big Red Flag.

ianmoone1102 Report

76points

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Tesla Sulu 1 day ago

omg. that happened to me too!

3points

NeitherWait5587 , Zealousideal_Event45/reddit Report

#13

Really gnarly aquarium. If you’re gonna trap fish in a box for your personal pleasure, keep that s**t pristine.

74points

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Papa 1 day ago

Pristine aquariums are not healthy environments for the fish. Much of that gunk is bacteria that takes the ammonia secreted by the fish and breaks it down into less toxic substances. One of the biggest mistakes new fish keepers make is to do regular deep cleaning. Regarding the picture here, that's just a buildup of algae on the glass. While it may be unsightly, it is not unhealthy for the fish.

28points

#14

I was looking at an apartment to rent in a very liberal part of the USA. Place was great! I’d have a huge windowed area and lots of nice amenities like a fireplace. I went to the other part of the place where the landlord lived. Above *his* fireplace was a portrait. A portrait of Nathan Bedford Forrest. Founder of the KKK. I noped right the f**k out of there.

_CMDR_ Report

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Michael Largey 1 day ago

Forrest was also a war criminal during the Civil War.

14points

BeNice-ThisTime , Sarah Leo/flickr Report

#15

Trashy neighbor's dog died in a kennel, probably from starvation.

They ignored the body until well after rigor set in, and then they couldn't get it out of the cage because the limbs wouldn't bend. So they just left it in there, in the house, surrounded by piles of garbage

Their 10-year-old eventually asked other neighborhood adults for help because the parents wouldn't do anything about it.

So... dead dog rotting in a cage is my red flag.

63points

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Smeghead Tribble Down Under 2 days ago

OMFG >.< I'd have had the cops, RSPCA, and anyone else I could think of on their fkn doorstep.

43points

CamoWeddingDress , Sandra Seitamaa/unsplash Report

#16

When they let their pets poop and pee in the house. Bonus if they let their kid sleep in a room that is essentially a massive litter box.

61points

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The Doom Song 2 days ago

Oh dear God! No! Just no!

8points

badcatgarfield , jonathan fisher/flickr Report

#17

No sheets on their bed but clearly they sleep on it.

59points

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The Scout 2 days ago

In a pinch, I have sometimes slept in a duvet cover without putting a sheet on. But directly on the mattress would be a big no for me.

12points

Debbie 2 days ago

Excatly, when it's still not dry after laundry and it's the only one what fits. And if it IS dry but I'm to tired - I just use it as a "laken" sheet and put the duvet on top instead of in it.

5points

Farnzy 1 day ago

This is what bugs me about the mattress commercials! They always show people hanging out on beds with no sheets!

1point

CP 1 day ago

I use my sleeping bag in a pinch.

1point

Nikole 1 day ago

The ex of one of my exes didn’t have any sheets on her bed, ever. I do not understand.

0points

David 1 day ago

Gross. No top sheet is mildly cringe to me but no sheets at all is gross. And yes, I understand you can wash blankets. But using a top sheet means you don't have to wash the blankets nearly as often. My limited personal observation is 'no top sheet' also works out to 'doesn't wash blankets often either'.

3points

Sue User 1 day ago

I have blanket and duvet cover. No top sheet. Cover gets washed with fitted.

1point

neytjie 2 days ago

I don't even wanna know how dirty and smelly that matress is

3points

Irene 1 day ago

i just sleep in throw blankets, no making the bed, no feet trapped under covers, just coolness all over 😀

2points

Will Cable 2 days ago

Kind of related but drives me nuts...adverts for mattress or pillows and NOT a single cover or sheet to be seen in the advert. I know they have to show the product but......

1point

BenyA. 2 days ago

Just rawdogging the matress!!!??

1point

LtKernelPanic 8 hours ago

Directly on the mattress? Eww. Currently I only have a fitted sheet and a light blanket on my bed because my bedroom can get hotter than hades even with the ceiling fan on. Blanket gets washed with the fitted sheet and pillow cases.

0points

Jesse 1 day ago

I use a fitted sheet, mattress protectors during shark week, and I wash my mattress cover every three months. My duvet and blanket sheets are changed twice a month or depending on how smelly they are because I sweat something insane in summer.

0points

Robin DJW 1 day ago

I decided to end the Blanket Wars. So I bought to extra long twin down blankets. I made duvet-type covers out of bedsheets. I wash the covers when I do the bottom sheet. Hubby uses a down comforter, while a blanket is enough for me. We are so happy with this arrangement!

0points

Matthew Savestheworld 1 day ago

I have done this many times. Frankly. All I need is the pillow

0points

Breadcrumb. 1 day ago

No sheets or dirty sheets f*****g keep the bed clean mate

0points

BS Detector 1 day ago

This is a huge red flag and needs to be at the top of the list.

0points

rumple slunkskin 1 day ago

My son used to strip his bedsheets off because he said they made him too hot. I had to make sure he put them on if anyone was coming over so they didn't think I was neglectful or something. Drove me nuts.

0points

Heather Menard 1 day ago

I never understood this

0points

Mike F 1 day ago (edited)

Nope. I have friends who would be too lazy to put their clean sheets on the bed and sleep on the mattress. That gives me the willys.

0points

Riley Quinn 1 day ago

No sheets and dirty sheets, one and the same. Was planning to crash at a friend's house, but the disgusting sheets sobered me up enough to call a cab, an expense I gladly paid to get out of there.

0points

bbgorilla 2 days ago

So nasty

0points

Lyoness 1 day ago

Why did this comment get downvoted? It is nasty to sleep on a bare mattress!

0points

Ace 2 days ago

I've had, perhaps twice I think, guests in our apartments who haven't bothered to put sheets or quilt covers on. Thankfully the mattress covers can be easily washed but the quilts take much more effort. Why do they do that? (Men both times I can remember).

0points

Greenmantle 2 days ago

Perhaps they expected you to put them on

4points

#18

When they don't do basic preparation for a preplanned guest coming over. For example, there's no toilet paper, they don't offer you anything to drink, house is really messy.

AriasK , Ivan Radic/flickr Report

56points

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The Doom Song 2 days ago

First thing I do when I know I'm having people over is clean the toilet and make sure there's enough TP

26points

dewdropcat , albertpullinger/reddit Report

#19

Live laugh love.

52points

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ucp 2 days ago

More writing on the walls than in books? Massive red flag.

22points

#20

Growing up my mom always told me if I saw a gun in someone's home to politely leave and call her and that she'd pick me up. How to tell in one quick story that someone was raised outside of the United States. I still get a jolt when I see a rifle in someone's house, I understand that there is responsible gun owners but I am not fond of being near weapons even when properly stored.

teachmeyourstory Report

51points

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Fellfromthemoon 2 days ago

If you see it then it's probably not properly stored, in a closed cabinet.

45points

#21

Dish rack was in the sink and had black mold on it, they put clean dishes on it to dry i was horrified they also just put water in the baby bottles and let them soak and used them. Never actually washing the bottles HORRIFIED.

sorrytooffnd , Simon Job/flickr Report

47points

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Lyoness 1 day ago

That's frightening, especially for the baby. I really, really hope OP was able to say something.

6points

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#22

We were looking at a litter of German Shepherd puppies. Very large house, lots of land. Looked rather posh.

The mum and pups were in the kitchen. Dog poo, puddles of urine everywhere.

I managed to step in 💩

Owner said ‘oh sorry! Give me your boot and I’ll clean it’.

I assumed she had an outside tap? Oh no…she took it to the kitchen sink and washed it there.

We declined a cup of tea.

GingerbreadMary Report

46points

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Will Cable 2 days ago

Well that put me off my dinner

9points

#23

Books on Dianetics

My phone kept changing that to diabetics.

eatmeat2016 Report

46points

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Ellie Vanille 1 day ago

Agreed. Scientology is no joke.

9points

FatFuckinPieceOfShit , Victoria Romulo/unsplash Report

#24

A collection of young women's ID cards.

45points

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Smeghead Tribble Down Under 2 days ago

O_o

20points

Hangrycouchpotato , Getty Images/unsplash Report

#25

When they use the sofa as a changing table with no blanket or anything on it. I went to someone's house and the kid had a blow out. The mom just put the baby with poopy diaper on the sofa to change her and looked at me when my jaw hit the floor and said "What's the big deal? It's just poop!" I never went there again.

It also explains why they purchased a brown sofa. 🤢.

45points

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HF 2 days ago

maybe the sofa was white when they bought it?

27points

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#26

One major red flag is if their home feels too sterile or empty—like they don’t actually live there. Also, lots of signs of anger, like holes in the walls, can be concerning!

RosyRiddle86 , Steven Ungermann/unsplash Report

44points

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Jay Scales 1 day ago

Homes that are SO tidy & sterile that I feel I'm making a mess just by breathing!

11points

Successful_Ranger_19 , Faruk Tokluoğlu/unsplash Report

#27

They had only one kitchen cloth. Just that ONE. Used for wiping hands, wiping the counter, wiping the dishes, and wiping the microwave/stove after cooking.

38points

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Bat cat in a hat 2 days ago

I still have to colour code the kitchen cloths or my partner would use the same one for drying hands and face, the dishes, wiping floors, cleaning the cat litter box, alternative currency and summoning spirits

13points

#28

Roaches and people who smoke cigarettes inside. Heretics.

No_buddy_cares Report

36points

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The Scout 2 days ago

Only topped by roaches who smoke cigarettes inside...

32points

#29

A thousand bottles of baby oil.

TrionCube Report

36points

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Ava Lemar 2 days ago

Looks like someone went to an R Kelly or P Diddy soiree

11points

#30

There was a guy who posted on r/malelivingspace who has 3 ‘obey’ prints above his bed.

lizabeth478 , highlife_/reddit Report

33points

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Ava Lemar 2 days ago

Well, at least you know what you are in for early on in the relationship.

13points

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#31

Cr*ck pipe, cats but no litter box, liquor bottles are the only decoration you can find, barely any furniture.

Minute_Marzipan4597 , Christian Lue/unsplash Report

32points

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Schmebulock 1 day ago

Stay out of crack shacks - problem solved.

11points

Ill-Profession8600 , Shonduras/youtube Report

#32

No furniture, black garbage bags as window curtains, and a box spring with no sheets just a dirty blanket..

30points

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Kylie 2 days ago

Was it a crack house?

19points

#33

Carpet in the bathroom..

DrunkRespondent Report

28points

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Lyoness 1 day ago

Unfortunately this is a thing in some older houses and the people living there either can't afford or don't know how to remove it. Agreed it's gross but I don't know I'd call it a red flag. Just MO.

10points

#34

A dog with a shock collar.

Razorback_Ryan Report

28points

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Schmebulock 1 day ago

Those should only be used on kids!

29points

ABluntForcedDisTrama , slothliketendencies/reddit Report

#35

One of my best friends from middle school invited me to spend the night one weekend and their house was so unbelievably *nasty*. It was more than just trash and dirty clothes all over the place. My friend’s older sister had a baby and they even had dirty diapers and food scraps throughout their apartment. Aside from some odd behavior from their mom who was gone pretty much the whole time we were there. We went swimming in their apartment pool that same weekend and my friend told me that her mom actually had a d**g problem and she sometimes just wouldn’t see her for days at a time. So now I think any unusual amount of trash could indicate a serious issue someone there must really be going through something in order for their house to be looking like *that*.

27points

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Debbie 2 days ago

I think that is a correct assumption.

9points

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#36

Roaches. My in laws place is full of roaches and they act like it's no big deal.

buoyant_nomad , Domas Mituzas/flickr Report

26points

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JD 1 day ago

It depends. You can do everything right and still have roaches. Especially if you live in an apartment building or close to others with a roach infestation. My dorm in college had roaches the second semester because they were building a sports complex 30 feet away. All the roaches living in the field came to the dorms.

16points

#37

Hoarders.

Strange-Catch6862 Report

26points

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CP 1 day ago

That is a mental disorder. In reality every one of these problems in this list is mental.

8points

#38

Toilet paper roll facing in the wrong direction.

txlady100 Report

26points

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Upstaged75 1 day ago

Any time my dad argues that there is no "right" way to hang toilet paper I show him a picture of the original patent for it. He's a patent attorney. :)

20points

#39

Bare mattress on the floor. No duvet cover or pillow cases. Crusty hand towels that haven’t been changed in days or weeks.

TartGoji Report

23points

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"Disembodied voice" 1 day ago

Duvet cover is too much of a pain, I have a sheet between me and the blanket anyway

4points

Woman Refuses To Chip In For Babysitting Because She Doesn’t Even Have Kids, Asks If She’s A Jerk

#40

Crushed prescription pills lying all over the living room coffee table.

Slingblade1170 Report

21points

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Schmebulock 1 day ago

Why are so many of these people hanging out in crack houses?

37points

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What do you think ?

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EmAdoresHerKats🇮🇪🇩🇿🇵🇸 2 days ago

Some on this list are just really funny but some are just really snobby. No evidence of hobbies or books! That's not a red flag some people don't like reading and don't have hobbies.

16points

Donald 1 day ago

I'm dyslexic, the books are just a decoration lol. I don't feel like struggling for a week to finish a few chapters, audiobooks all day.

2points

Novel Idesa 1 day ago (edited)

This! And the ones that are decor related. Beige furniture and Live Laugh Love signs don't belong on a list that includes crack pipes and child neglect. It's just judgey. I think people have forgotten what a red flag is ...

2points

Happy_Pandalover 1 day ago (edited)

Agreed. Also i actually own many books, but they are not openly visible.

0points

The Doom Song 2 days ago

For me it's a dirty kitchen. I can't deal with it. I'm talking like piles of dirty dishes in the sink, food scraps, nothing has been wiped down. Even down to the cloth used.

11points

All profits to charity 2 days ago

Don’t judge the bath towels! I don’t know where my kids haul them off to but I’m TRYINg!!! 😩

9points

deletemyaccount 1 day ago

I guess being in object poverty is a red flag now.

4points

Mike F 1 day ago

To some folks apparently it is.

0points

UncleJohn3000 1 day ago

A lot of these look like depression.

4points

Marissa Voleta 1 day ago

This is on the more superficial side, but I don't enjoy going to people's homes when they don't know how to use chill, entertainment lighting...like no warm lamps or even some candles or string lights. They just have on all the overheads with bright/flourescent lights...AND when it's cold in their house. Both of those things don't make me feel comfy or welcome..it makes me feel like I'm in my office, where I spend 40 hrs a week already. How bout no music?! Like how do you entertain and it's cold, brightly lit, and nothing in the background?

3points

Linda Lee 1 day ago

Thank you for sharing your point of view. I needed to read it.

0points

talliloo 1 day ago

nice guy lived in the building that i was in. eventually, he asked me to come by for dinner. so, sure - why not? knocked on his door and when he opened it the first thing i saw was that pretty much every place on the walls were cut outs of women from men's magazines. i mean they were everywhere. so, i quickly came up with an excuse as to why i couldn't stay for dinner and left. it was just so creepy. he still asked me over a few more times until i told him that i had entered into a relationship with someone and i was very happy with the situation. the new love of my life: a doberman puppy.

2points

T'Mar of Vulcan 2 days ago

Went to visit some family friends who live in England. Their entire house was covered in stuff. All over every table, counter, seat, couch. They had two young kids who had to snake their way through a tiny path in the back yard because the grass was taller than they were. It's not that the house was dirty, there was just stuff everywhere. When we ate supper, I couldn't even fit my plate on the table because of everything piled up. Friend moved the stuff when he saw I didn't have space. But who doesn't neaten up their house for guests?

2points

Hassel Davidhoff 1 day ago

Hoarder by the sounds of it.

1point

Daya Meyer 2 days ago

After reading this, I am so glad that I've cleaned my bathroom this morning. Including changing the towels and the bathmat like every week.

2points

CP 1 day ago

I have lived the mattress on the floor with lawn chairs as furniture lifestyle in my early 20s, nothing wrong with that. You still have to be clean though.

1point

Breadcrumb. 1 day ago

I love a clean house. It's easy to get motivated now if I have a podcast or audio book to listen to awhile I work on it.

0points

Ron Man 1 day ago

I think a lot of people who posted on here have friends who live in d**g houses

0points

Russell Rieckenberg 1 day ago

Bagpipes

0points

Kelly Scott 1 day ago

I can't stand people who can't keep their pets clean. You go over to their house and petting their dogs is like petting a greasy Towel. Plus in those kids of houses, there's pet hair stacked up in the corners of the room and so thick on the furniture you don't want to sit on it.

0points

Binny Tutera 1 day ago

Went to pick up a coworker and they had an engine block on the floor in the kitchen. AND a hole in the floor big enough to fall into the basement.

0points

Debbie 2 days ago

I commented on these posts way too seriously. Red flags is often a culmination of things. And somethings shouldn't be called red flags if they are THAT obvious or if they're criminal/abuse. Abuse is not a red flag, it's abuse. A red flag to me is an indication of someone possible being bad/not sane. If there is clear evidence... skip the flags and leave.

0points

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EmAdoresHerKats🇮🇪🇩🇿🇵🇸 2 days ago

Some on this list are just really funny but some are just really snobby. No evidence of hobbies or books! That's not a red flag some people don't like reading and don't have hobbies.

16points

Donald 1 day ago

I'm dyslexic, the books are just a decoration lol. I don't feel like struggling for a week to finish a few chapters, audiobooks all day.

2points

Novel Idesa 1 day ago (edited)

2points

Happy_Pandalover 1 day ago (edited)

Agreed. Also i actually own many books, but they are not openly visible.

0points

The Doom Song 2 days ago

For me it's a dirty kitchen. I can't deal with it. I'm talking like piles of dirty dishes in the sink, food scraps, nothing has been wiped down. Even down to the cloth used.

11points

All profits to charity 2 days ago

Don’t judge the bath towels! I don’t know where my kids haul them off to but I’m TRYINg!!! 😩

9points

deletemyaccount 1 day ago

I guess being in object poverty is a red flag now.

4points

Mike F 1 day ago

To some folks apparently it is.

0points

UncleJohn3000 1 day ago

A lot of these look like depression.

4points

Marissa Voleta 1 day ago

3points

Linda Lee 1 day ago

Thank you for sharing your point of view. I needed to read it.

0points

talliloo 1 day ago

2points

T'Mar of Vulcan 2 days ago

2points

Hassel Davidhoff 1 day ago

Hoarder by the sounds of it.

1point