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Being invited into a friend’s home can feel like a huge honor. They’re opening up their humble abode to you, and you have the opportunity to get an intimate peek into their life. They might have family photos on the walls, artwork from childhood on the fridge and dozens of books that mean the world to them lining the shelves.

But visiting someone else’s house can backfire when you start to notice things that terrify you. Redditors have recently been discussing some of the worst things that you could possibly find in someone else’s home, so we’ve gathered the biggest red flags below. Enjoy reading through, and be sure to upvote the things that would send you running for the hills!

#1

40 Unhinged Things One May See In A Home And Think, ‘Oh No, Not Today’ If they have children, but you see no sign of a child in the home outside of their bedroom.

Edit: I do not mean the home is trashed. I mean you see no photos, no coats, shoes, toys anything indicating a child lives there too. For example I tidy up every night, but you’ll still see my toddlers shoes by the door and his little paw patrol table in the living room. & photos around the house of him of course

Another edit: I am not going back and fourth with you sad beige parents that live for aesthetics. If you don’t get it I’m not explaining it.

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    40 Unhinged Things One May See In A Home And Think, ‘Oh No, Not Today’ House made of sweets and gingerbread. Boiling cauldron over chimney fire.

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    #3

    40 Unhinged Things One May See In A Home And Think, ‘Oh No, Not Today’ Large political flags on the wall. I don't care what your political affiliations are, if you are that obsessed with it that you feel the need to hang a huge flag in your living room to announce them, that's a no from me.

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    #4

    40 Unhinged Things One May See In A Home And Think, ‘Oh No, Not Today’ I did some real estate photography on a home.

    It was a Mass State Trooper. It was disturbing: A nice neighborhood, a nice home, clean and well maintained. Kids and wife photos decorating the walls and end tables. But I started noticing holes punched into walls (some of them plastered and repaired, some of them "fresh". Doors that had been splintered at the bottom from being kicked in. A couple doors that had padlocks on them that had been ripped out. There were just signs of rage everywhere I looked. It was disturbing and I felt bad for the family.

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    Schmebulock
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They need way better screening and treatment of police for mental health issues.

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    #6

    40 Unhinged Things One May See In A Home And Think, ‘Oh No, Not Today’ I change the bathroom towels in our guest bathroom every Friday. One Friday I told my son to go wipe up the urine he left on the seat & floor and then watched this imposter of my DNA, wipe the urine with a hand towel and hang it back up, in front of me. I've never wanted to disown a relative more in my life.

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    Debbie
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a parent, this made me smile, not because of what he did ofcourse. But sometimes we forget that we never taught them how to do something. It kinda depends on his age though. At a certain age you could expect them to figure out to use toilet paper for that. But at other ages I am unfortunately not surprised that they do not think about what to use to wipe something up. My kids had the habit of taking a clean dishtowel (theedoek) from the cupboard to clean up spills. Instead of a rag (doekje) or a towel that was in use/more ready for a round of laundry. On one hand, ok, you are cleaning it up, but aaargh!

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    #7

    40 Unhinged Things One May See In A Home And Think, ‘Oh No, Not Today’ When their pets water bowls are empty. Monsters.

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    Shannimal
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Gah. Remi drinks her bowl down and doesn't let me know, so it might be dry for a bit until I notice. She also isn't running any marathons, so she's fine.

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    #8

    40 Unhinged Things One May See In A Home And Think, ‘Oh No, Not Today’ This extreme beigeness. Especially if there are kids. I saw videos of parents painting colorful toys beige. It's just sad.

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    Child of the Stars
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't understand this at all. It feels so impersonal. I dislike overly matched and perfectly decorated houses too. Being in someone's home should tell you who they are, but an overly-curated home always makes me feel like they're trying to hide themselves.

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    #9

    40 Unhinged Things One May See In A Home And Think, ‘Oh No, Not Today’ I don’t know if I’d go as far as “red flag”, but people who have zero books in their home give me pause.

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    #10

    40 Unhinged Things One May See In A Home And Think, ‘Oh No, Not Today’ Dirty litter boxes if they have cats, and I mean filthy.

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    #11

    40 Unhinged Things One May See In A Home And Think, ‘Oh No, Not Today’ Crosses / jesus s**t everywhere.

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    Donkey boi
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    For clarity, as this one seems to be dividing, I read this as; 'People with a LOT of religious iconography' I don't think they mean just a crucifix or two, but like, a cross in every room, or a shrine type setup.

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    #12

    My bicycle that I reported stolen 2 weeks ago. Big Red Flag.

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    #13

    40 Unhinged Things One May See In A Home And Think, ‘Oh No, Not Today’ Really gnarly aquarium. If you’re gonna trap fish in a box for your personal pleasure, keep that s**t pristine.

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    Papa
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Pristine aquariums are not healthy environments for the fish. Much of that gunk is bacteria that takes the ammonia secreted by the fish and breaks it down into less toxic substances. One of the biggest mistakes new fish keepers make is to do regular deep cleaning. Regarding the picture here, that's just a buildup of algae on the glass. While it may be unsightly, it is not unhealthy for the fish.

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    #14

    I was looking at an apartment to rent in a very liberal part of the USA. Place was great! I’d have a huge windowed area and lots of nice amenities like a fireplace. I went to the other part of the place where the landlord lived. Above *his* fireplace was a portrait. A portrait of Nathan Bedford Forrest. Founder of the KKK. I noped right the f**k out of there.

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    #15

    40 Unhinged Things One May See In A Home And Think, ‘Oh No, Not Today’ Trashy neighbor's dog died in a kennel, probably from starvation.

    They ignored the body until well after rigor set in, and then they couldn't get it out of the cage because the limbs wouldn't bend. So they just left it in there, in the house, surrounded by piles of garbage

    Their 10-year-old eventually asked other neighborhood adults for help because the parents wouldn't do anything about it.

    So... dead dog rotting in a cage is my red flag.

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    Smeghead Tribble Down Under
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    OMFG >.< I'd have had the cops, RSPCA, and anyone else I could think of on their fkn doorstep.

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    #16

    40 Unhinged Things One May See In A Home And Think, ‘Oh No, Not Today’ When they let their pets poop and pee in the house. Bonus if they let their kid sleep in a room that is essentially a massive litter box.

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    #17

    40 Unhinged Things One May See In A Home And Think, ‘Oh No, Not Today’ No sheets on their bed but clearly they sleep on it.

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    The Scout
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In a pinch, I have sometimes slept in a duvet cover without putting a sheet on. But directly on the mattress would be a big no for me.

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    #18

    40 Unhinged Things One May See In A Home And Think, ‘Oh No, Not Today’ When they don't do basic preparation for a preplanned guest coming over. For example, there's no toilet paper, they don't offer you anything to drink, house is really messy.

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    The Doom Song
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    First thing I do when I know I'm having people over is clean the toilet and make sure there's enough TP

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    #20

    Growing up my mom always told me if I saw a gun in someone's home to politely leave and call her and that she'd pick me up. How to tell in one quick story that someone was raised outside of the United States. I still get a jolt when I see a rifle in someone's house, I understand that there is responsible gun owners but I am not fond of being near weapons even when properly stored.

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    Fellfromthemoon
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you see it then it's probably not properly stored, in a closed cabinet.

    Donald
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm fairly comfortable around firearms and if I saw a rifle just propped up in the corner of someone's living room I'd be unsettled. You are a 100% right, they need to be stored away preferably in a gun safe. The only exception would be one kept in your bedside table for ease of access. No guests should be poking around in there anyway.

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    David
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    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I find this one an interesting red flag. To me, a gun is not at all a red flag. I grew up on a farm in a rural community. Rifle in the milk house and another in the mud room of the house. Just used rarely to scare off the odd coyote that might be bothering the cows. My step dad had a long neck 12 gauge he rarely went pheasant hunting with - used to belong to his dad, who cleared the farm land with draft horses. When I went to high school it was literally no big deal to see a pickup in the parking lot with a gun rack across the back window and a rifle in it. But none of us were shooting people with them.

    john doe
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Only crazies leave guns lying around, I own 3 safes for mine, one big safe at home a small one at my hunting cabin and a biometric safe for one handgun under my bed, it's incrediblely unsafe to have unlocked firearms, the fact it's never going to be a law in the US makes me so mad, gun culture used to be hunters and shooting enthusiastists, now it's a cesspool of deranged low lifes over compensating for their terrible lives, you can't even go into a gun store now a days, trump stuff everywhere and idiots thinking they are super cool for buying a weapon that have no idea how to use or store safely.

    CP
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    2 days ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think you are the actual crazy one because it feels as if most gun owners in the USA don't take gun ownership as seriously as you do. You don't need to pass any competency test to buy a gun in my state.

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    CP
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In my anecdotal experience growing up around guns, there are less responsible gun owners than people that don't take them seriously, they just get lucky nothing bad happens.

    Riley Quinn
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    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was raised on a farm deep in a wooden swamp, so our rifles were loaded and ready for any situation. Very typical on all the farms, and all us kids were taught as toddlers to never go near them. We were all taught how to use firearms by 2nd/3rd grade. There are reasons why some people need to keep guns, and those people shouldn't be lumped in with the irresponsible nitwits who happen to own a gun.

    Nikole
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    2 days ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Completely agree. I never had a need to have a gun, but I was raised by responsible gun owners. There’s actually a really funny picture of little Nikole (still very blond… my hair got a bit darker later) at about 8 years old shooting a 22 at an outdoor range wearing ear mufflers that look huge. Although, I’ve been thinking of getting a FOID card, so my dad will give me one of my old rifles (he won’t before that, because he’s a responsible gun owner… I have asked). Chicago is getting shady.

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    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have guns. You’ll never know that I have them. Sorry if that sounds ominous just making a point of I would never leave them just laying around in the open. Idiotic gun ownership.

    Katherine Richardson
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    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    they won't do you any good if you can't easily access them in an emergency that being said any that we aren't carrying or keeping track of are stored in a safe

    Millie Brown
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    2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What about if it's in a locked safe in a closet/cabinet that you don't see?

    deletemyaccount
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm a gun owner and I wouldn't be comfortable in a house that doesn't store their guns properly.

    Upstaged75
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm American and don't know anyone who keeps guns in their house. And I'd leave too if they did! (Well, I had one friend whose dad was an FBI agent. But he was either wearing the gun or it was in a safe) I hate when people outside the US assume that everywhere in the country is the Wild West.

    BarfyCat
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm sure it varies according to where you live. Where I live it's unavoidable.

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    Sven Grammersdorf
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    3 days ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I keep a rifle propped up against the wall in my living room next to the couch in case of intruders. There are no minor children in my home.

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    #21

    40 Unhinged Things One May See In A Home And Think, ‘Oh No, Not Today’ Dish rack was in the sink and had black mold on it, they put clean dishes on it to dry i was horrified they also just put water in the baby bottles and let them soak and used them. Never actually washing the bottles HORRIFIED.

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    Lyoness
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's frightening, especially for the baby. I really, really hope OP was able to say something.

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    40 Unhinged Things One May See In A Home And Think, ‘Oh No, Not Today’ One major red flag is if their home feels too sterile or empty—like they don’t actually live there. Also, lots of signs of anger, like holes in the walls, can be concerning!

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    Jay Scales
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Homes that are SO tidy & sterile that I feel I'm making a mess just by breathing!

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    #23

    We were looking at a litter of German Shepherd puppies. Very large house, lots of land. Looked rather posh.

    The mum and pups were in the kitchen. Dog poo, puddles of urine everywhere.

    I managed to step in 💩

    Owner said ‘oh sorry! Give me your boot and I’ll clean it’.

    I assumed she had an outside tap? Oh no…she took it to the kitchen sink and washed it there.

    We declined a cup of tea.

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    #24

    Books on Dianetics

    My phone kept changing that to diabetics.

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    40 Unhinged Things One May See In A Home And Think, ‘Oh No, Not Today’ When they use the sofa as a changing table with no blanket or anything on it. I went to someone's house and the kid had a blow out. The mom just put the baby with poopy diaper on the sofa to change her and looked at me when my jaw hit the floor and said "What's the big deal? It's just poop!" I never went there again.

    It also explains why they purchased a brown sofa. 🤢.

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    #27

    40 Unhinged Things One May See In A Home And Think, ‘Oh No, Not Today’ They had only one kitchen cloth. Just that ONE. Used for wiping hands, wiping the counter, wiping the dishes, and wiping the microwave/stove after cooking.

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    Bat cat in a hat
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I still have to colour code the kitchen cloths or my partner would use the same one for drying hands and face, the dishes, wiping floors, cleaning the cat litter box, alternative currency and summoning spirits

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    #28

    Roaches and people who smoke cigarettes inside. Heretics.

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    #29

    A thousand bottles of baby oil.

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    #30

    40 Unhinged Things One May See In A Home And Think, ‘Oh No, Not Today’ There was a guy who posted on r/malelivingspace who has 3 ‘obey’ prints above his bed.

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    Ava Lemar
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Well, at least you know what you are in for early on in the relationship.

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    #31

    40 Unhinged Things One May See In A Home And Think, ‘Oh No, Not Today’ Cr*ck pipe, cats but no litter box, liquor bottles are the only decoration you can find, barely any furniture.

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    #32

    40 Unhinged Things One May See In A Home And Think, ‘Oh No, Not Today’ No furniture, black garbage bags as window curtains, and a box spring with no sheets just a dirty blanket..

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    #33

    40 Unhinged Things One May See In A Home And Think, ‘Oh No, Not Today’ One of my best friends from middle school invited me to spend the night one weekend and their house was so unbelievably *nasty*. It was more than just trash and dirty clothes all over the place. My friend’s older sister had a baby and they even had dirty diapers and food scraps throughout their apartment. Aside from some odd behavior from their mom who was gone pretty much the whole time we were there. We went swimming in their apartment pool that same weekend and my friend told me that her mom actually had a d**g problem and she sometimes just wouldn’t see her for days at a time. So now I think any unusual amount of trash could indicate a serious issue someone there must really be going through something in order for their house to be looking like *that*.

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    #34

    Carpet in the bathroom..

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    Lyoness
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unfortunately this is a thing in some older houses and the people living there either can't afford or don't know how to remove it. Agreed it's gross but I don't know I'd call it a red flag. Just MO.

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    #36

    Toilet paper roll facing in the wrong direction.

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    Upstaged75
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Any time my dad argues that there is no "right" way to hang toilet paper I show him a picture of the original patent for it. He's a patent attorney. :)

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    #37

    40 Unhinged Things One May See In A Home And Think, ‘Oh No, Not Today’ Roaches. My in laws place is full of roaches and they act like it's no big deal.

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    JD
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It depends. You can do everything right and still have roaches. Especially if you live in an apartment building or close to others with a roach infestation. My dorm in college had roaches the second semester because they were building a sports complex 30 feet away. All the roaches living in the field came to the dorms.

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    #38

    Hoarders.

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    CP
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That is a mental disorder. In reality every one of these problems in this list is mental.

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    #39

    Bare mattress on the floor. No duvet cover or pillow cases. Crusty hand towels that haven’t been changed in days or weeks.

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    "Disembodied voice"
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Duvet cover is too much of a pain, I have a sheet between me and the blanket anyway

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    #40

    Crushed prescription pills lying all over the living room coffee table.

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    Schmebulock
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    3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Why are so many of these people hanging out in crack houses?

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