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NoFunction_ , skytheanimalman/reddit Report

Large political flags on the wall. I don't care what your political affiliations are, if you are that obsessed with it that you feel the need to hang a huge flag in your living room to announce them, that's a no from me.

102points

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Smeghead Tribble Down Under 1 day ago

*Nervously eyes her United Federation Of Planets flag*

70points

House made of sweets and gingerbread. Boiling cauldron over chimney fire.

azinize , probablyA_cat/reddit Report

101points

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ucp 1 day ago

Oven large enough to fit two children? GTFO!

41points

I did some real estate photography on a home.

It was a Mass State Trooper. It was disturbing: A nice neighborhood, a nice home, clean and well maintained. Kids and wife photos decorating the walls and end tables. But I started noticing holes punched into walls (some of them plastered and repaired, some of them "fresh". Doors that had been splintered at the bottom from being kicked in. A couple doors that had padlocks on them that had been ripped out. There were just signs of rage everywhere I looked. It was disturbing and I felt bad for the family.

parkerjh , Lujia Zhang/unsplash Report

94points

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Schmebulock 22 hours ago

They need way better screening and treatment of police for mental health issues.

41points

Myctic_Darling , Daiga Ellaby/unsplash Report

No hand soap in the bathroom.

89points

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ucp 1 day ago

Or an absence of hand towels.

23points

rusty_trashcan_210 , Gláuber Sampaio/unsplash Report

This extreme beigeness. Especially if there are kids. I saw videos of parents painting colorful toys beige. It's just sad.

88points

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Child of the Stars 1 day ago

I don't understand this at all. It feels so impersonal. I dislike overly matched and perfectly decorated houses too. Being in someone's home should tell you who they are, but an overly-curated home always makes me feel like they're trying to hide themselves.

31points

When their pets water bowls are empty. Monsters.

LoJellythings , tps12/flickr Report

87points

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Shannimal 23 hours ago

Gah. Remi drinks her bowl down and doesn't let me know, so it might be dry for a bit until I notice. She also isn't running any marathons, so she's fine.

27points

slightlydramatic , Daiga Ellaby/unsplash Report

I change the bathroom towels in our guest bathroom every Friday. One Friday I told my son to go wipe up the urine he left on the seat & floor and then watched this imposter of my DNA, wipe the urine with a hand towel and hang it back up, in front of me. I've never wanted to disown a relative more in my life.

85points

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Debbie 1 day ago

As a parent, this made me smile, not because of what he did ofcourse. But sometimes we forget that we never taught them how to do something. It kinda depends on his age though. At a certain age you could expect them to figure out to use toilet paper for that. But at other ages I am unfortunately not surprised that they do not think about what to use to wipe something up. My kids had the habit of taking a clean dishtowel (theedoek) from the cupboard to clean up spills. Instead of a rag (doekje) or a towel that was in use/more ready for a round of laundry. On one hand, ok, you are cleaning it up, but aaargh!

21points

Dirty litter boxes if they have cats, and I mean filthy.

Ophede , B****Bussy/reddit Report

80points

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The Doom Song 1 day ago

No one wants to walk into a house that stinks of cat poop

13points

NaiveOpening7376 , Midnight Believe/flickr Report

#10

Crosses / jesus s**t everywhere.

80points

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Donkey boi 23 hours ago

For clarity, as this one seems to be dividing, I read this as; 'People with a LOT of religious iconography' I don't think they mean just a crucifix or two, but like, a cross in every room, or a shrine type setup.

20points

notcool_neverwas , Francesca Tosolini/unsplash Report

#11

I don’t know if I’d go as far as “red flag”, but people who have zero books in their home give me pause.

80points

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Alvia Vseobecna 1 day ago

ereader is easily concealable

40points

Alexandra Nara 17 hours ago

I read E reader or library books, but I buy my favorite books, so I can lend them to friends and family. I like them looking used,so I know they've told their story often and no E reader will make me feel like they are part of my life

3points

Robin DJW 11 hours ago

eReaders are great, but many of our books were acquired before everything was available in an eFormat.

1point

Nikole 11 hours ago (edited)

My dad (who is 77) was telling me that when he would go over to his friends’ houses in high school, he always noticed there were no bookshelves. His parents had tons of books. When he got to college and met the parents of those friends, bookshelves and books. And they had actual literature, not just the pulp novel of the moment like people seem to read now (although I do like Valley of the Dolls, which I know isn’t of this moment).

0points

Kirsty Jackowski 1 day ago

This one is a bit judgemental. Buying books is expensive, libraries are free

18points

Lyoness 20 hours ago

But wouldn't library books be in evidence in that case?

4points

Amelia Jade 11 hours ago

Our local libraries all have an area where you can buy used books for sale. One branch has a huge used book store. We've gotten amazing books and they're all 50 cents to $1. Books that would usually cost like $25 are $1.

0points

Nikole 11 hours ago

You haven’t built up a comprehensive collection over the years? Also there are used book fairs.

0points

Jaya 1 day ago

"Oh no, somebody doesn't have the same hobby as me, how horrible." Also, how do you know somebody has zero books? Do you ask people where they keep books? Mine are all in a closed cupboard.

14points

pineapple87 13 hours ago

Exactly. I grew up with massive bookshelves that suck out all the light and space from the living room, and I don't like the aesthetic. So, I keep my books in mostly in a closed cupboard. They also collect less dust that way

0points

Ace 1 day ago

We got rid of hundreds of books a few years ago; these days 90% of my reading is done on my Kindle.

13points

Nikole 11 hours ago

I hate reading that way. I need pages to turn and that particular paper smell.

0points

The Scout 1 day ago

Actually someone tagged me as such in the past - only to stand corrected later that day. The reason I do not have books on display in most of my flat is that I have a separate library. I simply would not have room for anything except books otherwise.

11points

XanthippeⓐWulf🇨🇦️️🇬🇧 17 hours ago

I was going to say the same. We have a library, so you would not immediately "see books" when you entered our home

0points

Child of the Stars 1 day ago

I have minimal space, so I've downsized my book storage. My rule now is I borrow from the library, but if I borrow it 3 times, I buy it because I'm probably going to read it so many times, it'll be in 4 separate pieces before I finally give in and replace it.

8points

Upstaged75 1 day ago

I'm a bookworm and have been so for my entire life. But you won't many find books in my home. (Except for the ones that belonged to my mom when she was young, which I will always keep) I have hundreds of books on my Kindle - and they don't take up any space. E-readers are one of the best things that have ever been invented IMO. :)

6points

Michael Largey 1 day ago

You don't see books in the visitor areas of some homes because they have a room call "the library".

5points

Bat cat in a hat 1 day ago

99% of my books are in the closet to protect from dust and cat. Also ebooks exist.

5points

Donkey boi 23 hours ago

I have hundreds of books. I have zero visible books. The are kept in an enclosed bookcase so the covers don't get sun-bleached. So maybe, don't judge a book by the lack of covers.

3points

Alexis Pandas 18 hours ago

On the other hand, I find the obsession with displaying the amount of books one owns or dropping what an avid reader they are on every occasion quite annoying.

2points

Christopher Staley 20 hours ago

As i've gotten older, I have donated hundreds of my books in the realization that a book contains far too little data to take up that much space. There are other things i'd prefer to fill my house with than fire hazards.

2points

Shannimal 23 hours ago

A lot of audio book listeners out there. Also, there's a 99% chance I'm not going to read the same book again, so what's the point of keeping it?

2points

Vorion 1 day ago

Judgemental but you did say pause not red flag. I gave away most of mine for More storage and they make my asthma and allergies worse.

2points

Debbie 1 day ago

How often do you see every room? Do they have an e-reader? A bland house is my disappoinment. Like a page out of a decoration magazine: where is the personal touch. Books are a personal touch. But nowadays lots is electronic. No music collection to see, no books or movies on a shelf - it could all be digital.

2points

mandy the capibara 1 day ago

While I love books, in this age ( and especially with the housing crisis and many of my friends living in pretty small appartments) I can easily see while people who like reading go for the option of e-readers, library subscriptions, audio books or buying second hand books and donating them after reading.

2points

Floeckchen 14 hours ago

It is a common misconception that everyone keeps their books once they were read. I've read hundreds of books throughout my live but I only still own a handful of them.

1point

Toni Ahlgren 16 hours ago

Using books just for home decor is silly and unpractical. I have friends who have giant piles of books just for display, placed piled on top of each other horizontally. That is just really bothering, doesn't make me happy for them having books.

1point

Linda Riebel 18 hours ago

Agreed. We have literally hundreds in every room. First things (after the cats) I would save in a fire.

1point

JD 22 hours ago

They're all digital. The format doesn't matter, what matters is the story/content.

1point

The Doom Song 1 day ago

Come to my place. I have a whole room full of books!

1point

Learner Panda 2 hours ago

I have both physical books and an ereader.

0points

Chich 10 hours ago

Had a GF who had no books, no magazines. Asked her about it and to make a long story short, when she read it was a monotonous string of words in her mind. She did not form any mental images and drift away into the stories. Was amazed when I said this is what happened when I read things.

0points

Amelia Jade 11 hours ago

You'd love my house then. I'm a clean freak and we don't have clutter, except for books. Three out of the five of us are avid readers and book hoarders. We have stacks books around the house.

0points

HarriMissesScotland 12 hours ago

My former boss had a white house. no magazines, np photos, Nothing! But she does have an Elvis scarf, in a drawer...

0points

Deborah B 14 hours ago

I have zero visible books. I have approximately 4,500 ebooks.

0points

Heather Menard 15 hours ago

There's this thing called a library

0points

David 17 hours ago (edited)

Check their eyesight. It may be eyesight not hatred of books or illiteracy. My grandmother was a librarian, I grew up loving to read, hundreds of books. But now me can't see the print as well so most of what I read is online or on a tablet or audiobooks. Stuff where I can control the print size or it doesn't matter. - Full disclosure - I do still have a couple of bookcases full of books but they are not on display in the public areas of my house. Don't assume lack of books on display means hates knowledge / imagination / books in general.

0points

Petra Schaap 18 hours ago

snob

0points

Cthulhu Kitty 19 hours ago

We don't have room for ours. .they are in boxes in one of the closets we don't use. Last place has one wall of built ins, new place had none and we can't really figure out where to put bookcases But I've been way more into audio or library books

0points

Sam Lombardo 19 hours ago

Or zero computers and doing everything just with their phone (and call it 'work')

0points

pineapple87 13 hours ago

Laptops are pretty easy to clear out of sight, it doesn't mean they're not used

0points

BarfyCat 19 hours ago

Our book collection is in the basement due to lack of space, but the "to read" pile is currently threatening to consume the living room because I have been naughty buying books instead of getting them at the library lately.

0points

tracy black 21 hours ago

i can relate to this my eyesight has gotten so bad that it gives me a splitting headache to read so its audio books

0points

ucp 1 day ago

I believe it was Lee Mack who said that you know you’re working class when your TV is bigger than your bookcase. Looking at my family seems to bear this out.

0points

And i was like WTF!! 1 day ago

To be honest my books are not in living room, they are in bedroom and in my activity room. I dont want people touching my books or wanting to borrow them and then damage them

7points

LISA BARRERO 20 hours ago

That’s a bit mean and judgmental.

-1point

NeitherWait5587 , Zealousideal_Event45/reddit Report

#12

Really gnarly aquarium. If you’re gonna trap fish in a box for your personal pleasure, keep that s**t pristine.

74points

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Papa 21 hours ago

Pristine aquariums are not healthy environments for the fish. Much of that gunk is bacteria that takes the ammonia secreted by the fish and breaks it down into less toxic substances. One of the biggest mistakes new fish keepers make is to do regular deep cleaning. Regarding the picture here, that's just a buildup of algae on the glass. While it may be unsightly, it is not unhealthy for the fish.

27points

#13

My bicycle that I reported stolen 2 weeks ago. Big Red Flag.

ianmoone1102 Report

74points

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Tesla Sulu 22 hours ago

omg. that happened to me too!

3points

#14

I was looking at an apartment to rent in a very liberal part of the USA. Place was great! I’d have a huge windowed area and lots of nice amenities like a fireplace. I went to the other part of the place where the landlord lived. Above *his* fireplace was a portrait. A portrait of Nathan Bedford Forrest. Founder of the KKK. I noped right the f**k out of there.

_CMDR_ Report

69points

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Michael Largey 1 day ago

Forrest was also a war criminal during the Civil War.

15points

BeNice-ThisTime , Sarah Leo/flickr Report

#15

Trashy neighbor's dog died in a kennel, probably from starvation.

They ignored the body until well after rigor set in, and then they couldn't get it out of the cage because the limbs wouldn't bend. So they just left it in there, in the house, surrounded by piles of garbage

Their 10-year-old eventually asked other neighborhood adults for help because the parents wouldn't do anything about it.

So... dead dog rotting in a cage is my red flag.

61points

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Smeghead Tribble Down Under 1 day ago

OMFG >.< I'd have had the cops, RSPCA, and anyone else I could think of on their fkn doorstep.

44points

CamoWeddingDress , Sandra Seitamaa/unsplash Report

#16

When they let their pets poop and pee in the house. Bonus if they let their kid sleep in a room that is essentially a massive litter box.

60points

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The Doom Song 1 day ago

Oh dear God! No! Just no!

8points

badcatgarfield , jonathan fisher/flickr Report

#17

No sheets on their bed but clearly they sleep on it.

59points

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The Scout 1 day ago

In a pinch, I have sometimes slept in a duvet cover without putting a sheet on. But directly on the mattress would be a big no for me.

13points

#18

When they don't do basic preparation for a preplanned guest coming over. For example, there's no toilet paper, they don't offer you anything to drink, house is really messy.

AriasK , Ivan Radic/flickr Report

56points

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The Doom Song 1 day ago

First thing I do when I know I'm having people over is clean the toilet and make sure there's enough TP

25points

#19

Growing up my mom always told me if I saw a gun in someone's home to politely leave and call her and that she'd pick me up. How to tell in one quick story that someone was raised outside of the United States. I still get a jolt when I see a rifle in someone's house, I understand that there is responsible gun owners but I am not fond of being near weapons even when properly stored.

teachmeyourstory Report

50points

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Fellfromthemoon 1 day ago

If you see it then it's probably not properly stored, in a closed cabinet.

46points

#20

Dish rack was in the sink and had black mold on it, they put clean dishes on it to dry i was horrified they also just put water in the baby bottles and let them soak and used them. Never actually washing the bottles HORRIFIED.

sorrytooffnd , Simon Job/flickr Report

49points

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Lyoness 20 hours ago

That's frightening, especially for the baby. I really, really hope OP was able to say something.

7points

dewdropcat , albertpullinger/reddit Report

#21

Live laugh love.

49points

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ucp 1 day ago

More writing on the walls than in books? Massive red flag.

21points

FatFuckinPieceOfShit , Victoria Romulo/unsplash Report

#22

A collection of young women's ID cards.

45points

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Smeghead Tribble Down Under 1 day ago

O_o

19points

#23

We were looking at a litter of German Shepherd puppies. Very large house, lots of land. Looked rather posh.

The mum and pups were in the kitchen. Dog poo, puddles of urine everywhere.

I managed to step in 💩

Owner said ‘oh sorry! Give me your boot and I’ll clean it’.

I assumed she had an outside tap? Oh no…she took it to the kitchen sink and washed it there.

We declined a cup of tea.

GingerbreadMary Report

45points

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Will Cable 1 day ago

Well that put me off my dinner

9points

#24

Books on Dianetics

My phone kept changing that to diabetics.

eatmeat2016 Report

45points

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Ellie Vanille 1 day ago

Agreed. Scientology is no joke.

8points

Dutch Swimmer Goes Viral For Super Revealing Trunks During 2024 Olympics: “Is This Legal?”

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#25

When they use the sofa as a changing table with no blanket or anything on it. I went to someone's house and the kid had a blow out. The mom just put the baby with poopy diaper on the sofa to change her and looked at me when my jaw hit the floor and said "What's the big deal? It's just poop!" I never went there again.

It also explains why they purchased a brown sofa. 🤢.

Hangrycouchpotato , Getty Images/unsplash Report

44points

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HF 1 day ago

maybe the sofa was white when they bought it?

27points

RosyRiddle86 , Steven Ungermann/unsplash Report

#26

One major red flag is if their home feels too sterile or empty—like they don’t actually live there. Also, lots of signs of anger, like holes in the walls, can be concerning!

41points

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Jay Scales 1 day ago

Homes that are SO tidy & sterile that I feel I'm making a mess just by breathing!

10points

Successful_Ranger_19 , Faruk Tokluoğlu/unsplash Report

#27

They had only one kitchen cloth. Just that ONE. Used for wiping hands, wiping the counter, wiping the dishes, and wiping the microwave/stove after cooking.

39points

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Bat cat in a hat 1 day ago

I still have to colour code the kitchen cloths or my partner would use the same one for drying hands and face, the dishes, wiping floors, cleaning the cat litter box, alternative currency and summoning spirits

13points

Woman Put A Water Fountain With A Camera In Her Yard, Here Are 24 Photos Of Regular Visitors (New Pics)

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#28

Roaches and people who smoke cigarettes inside. Heretics.

No_buddy_cares Report

36points

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The Scout 1 day ago

Only topped by roaches who smoke cigarettes inside...

32points

#29

A thousand bottles of baby oil.

TrionCube Report

35points

POST

Ava Lemar 1 day ago

Looks like someone went to an R Kelly or P Diddy soiree

11points

#30

There was a guy who posted on r/malelivingspace who has 3 ‘obey’ prints above his bed.

lizabeth478 , highlife_/reddit Report

34points

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Ava Lemar 1 day ago

Well, at least you know what you are in for early on in the relationship.

14points

Minute_Marzipan4597 , Christian Lue/unsplash Report

#31

Cr*ck pipe, cats but no litter box, liquor bottles are the only decoration you can find, barely any furniture.

34points

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Schmebulock 21 hours ago

Stay out of crack shacks - problem solved.

10points

Ill-Profession8600 , Shonduras/youtube Report

#32

No furniture, black garbage bags as window curtains, and a box spring with no sheets just a dirty blanket..

29points

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Kylie 1 day ago

Was it a crack house?

19points

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#33

Carpet in the bathroom..

DrunkRespondent Report

29points

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Lyoness 20 hours ago

Unfortunately this is a thing in some older houses and the people living there either can't afford or don't know how to remove it. Agreed it's gross but I don't know I'd call it a red flag. Just MO.

11points

#34

A dog with a shock collar.

Razorback_Ryan Report

29points

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Schmebulock 21 hours ago

Those should only be used on kids!

28points

buoyant_nomad , Domas Mituzas/flickr Report

#35

Roaches. My in laws place is full of roaches and they act like it's no big deal.

27points

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JD 21 hours ago

It depends. You can do everything right and still have roaches. Especially if you live in an apartment building or close to others with a roach infestation. My dorm in college had roaches the second semester because they were building a sports complex 30 feet away. All the roaches living in the field came to the dorms.

14points

ABluntForcedDisTrama , slothliketendencies/reddit Report

#36

One of my best friends from middle school invited me to spend the night one weekend and their house was so unbelievably *nasty*. It was more than just trash and dirty clothes all over the place. My friend’s older sister had a baby and they even had dirty diapers and food scraps throughout their apartment. Aside from some odd behavior from their mom who was gone pretty much the whole time we were there. We went swimming in their apartment pool that same weekend and my friend told me that her mom actually had a d**g problem and she sometimes just wouldn’t see her for days at a time. So now I think any unusual amount of trash could indicate a serious issue someone there must really be going through something in order for their house to be looking like *that*.

26points

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Debbie 1 day ago

I think that is a correct assumption.

9points

Woman Moves Out Of Parents' Home After They Asked Her To Give Her Space To Brother, They Freak Out

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#37

Toilet paper roll facing in the wrong direction.

txlady100 Report

26points

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Upstaged75 23 hours ago

Any time my dad argues that there is no "right" way to hang toilet paper I show him a picture of the original patent for it. He's a patent attorney. :)

19points

#38

Hoarders.

Strange-Catch6862 Report

25points

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CP 21 hours ago

That is a mental disorder. In reality every one of these problems in this list is mental.

9points

#39

Bare mattress on the floor. No duvet cover or pillow cases. Crusty hand towels that haven’t been changed in days or weeks.

TartGoji Report

24points

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"Disembodied voice" 22 hours ago

Duvet cover is too much of a pain, I have a sheet between me and the blanket anyway

4points

#40

Crushed prescription pills lying all over the living room coffee table.

Slingblade1170 Report

22points

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Schmebulock 21 hours ago

Why are so many of these people hanging out in crack houses?

34points

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What do you think ?

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EmAdoresHerKats🇮🇪🇩🇿🇵🇸 1 day ago

Some on this list are just really funny but some are just really snobby. No evidence of hobbies or books! That's not a red flag some people don't like reading and don't have hobbies.

16points

Donald 1 day ago

I'm dyslexic, the books are just a decoration lol. I don't feel like struggling for a week to finish a few chapters, audiobooks all day.

2points

Novel Idesa 1 day ago (edited)

This! And the ones that are decor related. Beige furniture and Live Laugh Love signs don't belong on a list that includes crack pipes and child neglect. It's just judgey. I think people have forgotten what a red flag is ...

2points

Happy_Pandalover 18 hours ago (edited)

Agreed. Also i actually own many books, but they are not openly visible.

0points

The Doom Song 1 day ago

For me it's a dirty kitchen. I can't deal with it. I'm talking like piles of dirty dishes in the sink, food scraps, nothing has been wiped down. Even down to the cloth used.

11points

All profits to charity 1 day ago

Don’t judge the bath towels! I don’t know where my kids haul them off to but I’m TRYINg!!! 😩

9points

deletemyaccount 18 hours ago

I guess being in object poverty is a red flag now.

4points

Mike F 15 hours ago

To some folks apparently it is.

0points

UncleJohn3000 22 hours ago

A lot of these look like depression.

4points

Marissa Voleta 21 hours ago

This is on the more superficial side, but I don't enjoy going to people's homes when they don't know how to use chill, entertainment lighting...like no warm lamps or even some candles or string lights. They just have on all the overheads with bright/flourescent lights...AND when it's cold in their house. Both of those things don't make me feel comfy or welcome..it makes me feel like I'm in my office, where I spend 40 hrs a week already. How bout no music?! Like how do you entertain and it's cold, brightly lit, and nothing in the background?

3points

Linda Lee 11 hours ago

Thank you for sharing your point of view. I needed to read it.

0points

talliloo 14 hours ago

nice guy lived in the building that i was in. eventually, he asked me to come by for dinner. so, sure - why not? knocked on his door and when he opened it the first thing i saw was that pretty much every place on the walls were cut outs of women from men's magazines. i mean they were everywhere. so, i quickly came up with an excuse as to why i couldn't stay for dinner and left. it was just so creepy. he still asked me over a few more times until i told him that i had entered into a relationship with someone and i was very happy with the situation. the new love of my life: a doberman puppy.

2points

T'Mar of Vulcan 1 day ago

Went to visit some family friends who live in England. Their entire house was covered in stuff. All over every table, counter, seat, couch. They had two young kids who had to snake their way through a tiny path in the back yard because the grass was taller than they were. It's not that the house was dirty, there was just stuff everywhere. When we ate supper, I couldn't even fit my plate on the table because of everything piled up. Friend moved the stuff when he saw I didn't have space. But who doesn't neaten up their house for guests?

2points

Hassel Davidhoff 19 hours ago

Hoarder by the sounds of it.

1point

Daya Meyer 1 day ago

After reading this, I am so glad that I've cleaned my bathroom this morning. Including changing the towels and the bathmat like every week.

2points

CP 21 hours ago

I have lived the mattress on the floor with lawn chairs as furniture lifestyle in my early 20s, nothing wrong with that. You still have to be clean though.

1point

Breadcrumb. 13 hours ago

I love a clean house. It's easy to get motivated now if I have a podcast or audio book to listen to awhile I work on it.

0points

Ron Man 13 hours ago

I think a lot of people who posted on here have friends who live in d**g houses

0points

Russell Rieckenberg 19 hours ago

Bagpipes

0points

Kelly Scott 19 hours ago

I can't stand people who can't keep their pets clean. You go over to their house and petting their dogs is like petting a greasy Towel. Plus in those kids of houses, there's pet hair stacked up in the corners of the room and so thick on the furniture you don't want to sit on it.

0points

Binny Tutera 20 hours ago

Went to pick up a coworker and they had an engine block on the floor in the kitchen. AND a hole in the floor big enough to fall into the basement.

0points

Debbie 1 day ago

I commented on these posts way too seriously. Red flags is often a culmination of things. And somethings shouldn't be called red flags if they are THAT obvious or if they're criminal/abuse. Abuse is not a red flag, it's abuse. A red flag to me is an indication of someone possible being bad/not sane. If there is clear evidence... skip the flags and leave.

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EmAdoresHerKats🇮🇪🇩🇿🇵🇸 1 day ago

Some on this list are just really funny but some are just really snobby. No evidence of hobbies or books! That's not a red flag some people don't like reading and don't have hobbies.

16points

Donald 1 day ago

I'm dyslexic, the books are just a decoration lol. I don't feel like struggling for a week to finish a few chapters, audiobooks all day.

2points

Novel Idesa 1 day ago (edited)

2points

Happy_Pandalover 18 hours ago (edited)

Agreed. Also i actually own many books, but they are not openly visible.

0points

The Doom Song 1 day ago

For me it's a dirty kitchen. I can't deal with it. I'm talking like piles of dirty dishes in the sink, food scraps, nothing has been wiped down. Even down to the cloth used.

11points

All profits to charity 1 day ago

Don’t judge the bath towels! I don’t know where my kids haul them off to but I’m TRYINg!!! 😩

9points

deletemyaccount 18 hours ago

I guess being in object poverty is a red flag now.

4points

Mike F 15 hours ago

To some folks apparently it is.

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UncleJohn3000 22 hours ago

A lot of these look like depression.

4points

Marissa Voleta 21 hours ago

3points

Linda Lee 11 hours ago

Thank you for sharing your point of view. I needed to read it.

0points

talliloo 14 hours ago

2points

T'Mar of Vulcan 1 day ago

2points

Hassel Davidhoff 19 hours ago

Hoarder by the sounds of it.

1point