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Someone Asks “What Are You Convinced People Are Pretending To Enjoy?” And 35 People Answer
Trends come and go, and most people want to feel included in them, which probably results in a lot of them pretending to like something just to fit in. It seems that whenever you don't like something that's very popular you're met with "what?!" or just get labeled as a hipster. So this Redditor decided to ask an important and fun question: "What are you convinced people are pretending to enjoy?"
People were quick to jump in and give their honest answers. Some named some really popular things that a lot of people seem to like, while some named some more peculiar and specific ones. If you have an answer yourself, feel free to share it in the comment section below! And if you liked this post, click here for a similar one.
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#1
Nothing. People legitimately have different tastes. Just let people enjoy their IPAs/gin/pickles/spicy food/whatever. If that's not your thing, have something else.
#2
The Kardashians.
The Idaho Potato 1 year ago
I'd rather watch paint dry. At least you can see the texture of the paint change, and the little drippy bulbs run down the wall.
We asked Patrice Oppliger, Ph.D., some questions about this topic, and she gave some amazing insights: "I agree there are significant social pressures. One of the theories we teach is the theory of reasoned action - that it appears someone's attitude does not match their behaviors; however, there is a social norm element.
I think people often 'fake it until they make it' or are simply giving something a try. I recall not caring for Schitt's Creek initially. Everyone kept telling me to stick with it. It's one of my all-time favorite shows."
#3
Bars and restaurants with loud music and terrible acoustics. What’s the point in being social in a place where they’re trying to make it hard for you to socialize?
General Anaesthesia 1 year ago
Somehow I have a hard time thinking a packed club/bar/restaurant is full of people pretending to enjoy themselves. It's not for me, but as they say, "different strokes for different folks".
"There is also cognitive dissonance at play. When one invests time and energy into a hobby, for example, they may convince themselves they enjoy it because if not, they are inconsistent and have wasted time."
#5
Reality TV. How is watching garbage people complain about their lives entertainment?
#6
Those big spider-leg eyelashes they pay for and put on.
April Caron 1 year ago
There’s a part in a Christopher Moore book where he refers to one of his characters batting her eyelashes like “a convulsing wolf spider” and this is why I love his work. 😂
"It's generally benign to pretend to like something. The individual may not want to offend others who genuinely like it, or it is something that connects them to others. We all have the desire to fit in. It's a survival tactic. Where there may be some harm is if the activity is hurting others - something that includes racism or sexism, for example.
In my study of humor (The Dark Side of Stand-Up Comedy: Oppliger & Shouse, 2020, Palgrave), I find that laughing at a joke may appear to signal enjoyment - but it could also be politeness, discomfort, or peer pressure. For example, Will Smith's facial expression appeared to signal his enjoyment of Chris Rock's joke about Smith's wife."
#7
3 hour long church services. Jesus gave the sermon on the mound in like 5 minutes. Get over your ego pastor!
#8
The Happy Birthday song. Everyone feels awkward singing it, and awkward having it sung at them. Can we please just not?
The Idaho Potato 1 year ago
I refuse to allow people to sing me happy birthday. It's one of the reasons why I gave up birthdays (a bit overkill, sure).
#9
Long-a*s, boring videos of their friends' kids.
Andy James 1 year ago
Holiday videos... ,"And here's my big toe on the beach in Malta", looks at you in excited expectation of your glowing appraisal.. boring as F.
#10
Reaction videos. Why would anyone care how a stranger reacts to something? Most of the time, the reaction isn't even real and just played up for the camera.
#11
Live action remakes
Katherine Mulholland 1 year ago
The first Jungle Book film was live action in 1942 starring Sabu. The cartoon was the remake.
#12
Open relationships. I'm sure there's some genuine believers but I wonder how many partners are opening up their relationship to keep their partner and just are afraid to be alone and date again. When I see couples talk about it it always looks like one person is way more into it than the other.
#13
Having constant drama at work, in friend groups, and elsewhere really can't be all that exciting... can it? If I have one friend causing me too much drama I usually avoid it like it's the plague.
#14
Podcasts where the hosts just laugh at everything they/other hosts/guests say. Nothing is that funny for that long, dude.
#15
Clubbing. It's loud, there's 50 people all up in your space constantly, the music sucks half the time, the alcohol is watered down, there's so many drunk people that have to be either carried out or they puke all over the sidewalk outside, everything is overpriced. Literally nothing about it is good enough to warrant doing it repeatedly.
Susie Elle 1 year ago
Same, it's weird how that changes. I used to love going out to clubs, but now you would have to force me.
#16
LinkedIn.
censorshipsucks 1 year ago
I'm honoured and humbled to have had this great new opportunity to comment on this post! It has really made my career trajectory worthwhile!
#17
Twitter.
I can't comprehend why anyone would WANT to "tweet"
VonBlade 1 year ago
I love shouting into the void (aka tweeting). It's a great way of getting stuff nobody cares about off your chest without boring my SO. In the case of this particular example, someone bemoaning twitter who is posting on reddit is like moaning about fast food when in McDonalds.
#18
Trying to make everything Instagram ready.
I've fallen in that trap before, deleted everything but Reddit.
I'm much happier now living in the moment, watching my kids play instead of taking photos of them, eating my food instead of standing above it trying to take a picture in a crowded restaurant.
Once you stop feeding your ego, a lot of worry stops with it.
Aika Akira 1 year ago
As someone who doesn’t have baby pictures, or pictures of myself younger. I take a lot of pictures of my kids, however I don’t post it on Instagram. I think it’s kinda dangerous to really put pictures out of your kids and they’re too young to consent having their photos everywhere.
#19
Abstract modern art. You know, the orange square on a blank canvas type thing. “It really speaks to me.” 🤨
#20
American talent shows like quite literally “America’s got talent”, and “American Idol”. Who the f**k are these shows catered to? The dialogue is cheesy, idiotic, and fake as f**k and the structure doesn’t make sense. Back then it had categories and the contestants would compete against their own groups which at least made it somewhat interesting. Now? Anything f*****g goes, and you could have a wanna-be jabawacky dance group of about 20 people Vs little Timmy playing a harmonica with his a*****e. It makes no god damn sense.
#21
Anything that requires an insane amount of waiting in line. Amusement parks, brunches at fancy places, night clubs, etc.
Like, you're engaging in an a barrier to make the "thing" you want seem worthwhile.
I dunno, I despise lines.
Ches Yamada 1 year ago
I'm not sure this person understands how lines work. They're not there to be a barrier between you to make something worthwhile, they're there because the venue isn't ready yet/there's not enough room for hundreds of people to get on a ride at the same time. Right?
#23
Kombucha. Every, single one I've tried. Just undrinkable!
#24
Getting black out drunk
#25
A lot of popular modern rap music. There’s a lot of good stuff but there’s some where I’m like “seriously?”
#27
Insanely spicy food.... stop it. You're crying and there is no way you are enjoying that for any other reason except to brag about how hot your food is.
#28
Being forced to keep the economy going in spite of rising costs and lower incomes.
#29
Surströmming. There is absolutely no way people in Sweden actually enjoy this can of puke.
Edit: As people are telling stories about their experiences with Surströmming I want to tell one of my own.
Once upon a time in Sweden, a mild summer in august, my family decided to host a dinner at our house for our friends. We had a lot of food of different kinds on the table and our friends brought some food with them as well. The weather was with us so we decided to eat on the porch outside. As we were getting ready to eat we decided it was time to open the cans…oh god! What occurred after have been stuck in my head for ages.
First came the smell, some of us almost puked, others kept their stoic faces on. But the craziest ones of us took a deep breath and said: “delicious”.
Shortly after, the invasion started. Hundreds upon hundreds of flies. There was chaos, crying, despair and my father screaming: “we have to get away from here.” We all grabbed what we could take and ran inside. Watched trough the windows as a cloud of flies descended upon the rest.
*heavy sigh*! aah yes, Sweden!
Philly Bob 1 year ago
Open it outside... the can pops and it smells like the alien death of a thousand crabs on a hot summers day. I'd rather eat rusty nails with vinegar.
#30
Small talk.
Thorsten Massow 1 year ago
I'm happy to live in Northern-Germany. Smalltalk is not a thing Here. Even a greeting using more than one word ist Seen as being too talkative.
#31
Nespresso coffee, no clue why people are willing to pay such a premium for burnt tasting coffee
#32
Running.
ETA: Exercise of any kind really. I have ADHD and struggle with eating healthy and exercising. I’ve just never been able to find any consistency with it and part of it is I just don’t enjoy exercise no matter what I do, and I’ve tried a lot of things to make it better. I’m a therapist but we obviously have our struggles too, and this is one of my greatest challenges, especially after the past three years. I’ve appreciated all the comments and insights and am thinking about ways to get moving again!
Headless Roach 1 year ago
Once my friend said to me "Let's go for a rum!". Obviously I got excited and said YES, but we ended up running for some reason. We never found any rum that day, but we're still running together and looking.
#33
Other people
#34
Going to a children's performance, especially if their own kids aren't currently on stage
#35
Having a job
What do you think ?
Ches Yamada 1 year ago
Ugh. All of these can be boiled down to "*I* personally don't like this (or that), so no one else possibly can"! It's fine to have opinions, but remember: other people are not you. They like different things and don't think & experience the world the same way you do.
General Anaesthesia 1 year ago
Exactly, different strokes for different folks.
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XenoMurph 1 year ago
What a sad life people must lead. Looking at everything with disdain and lethargy. This just sounds like depression in word form.
steaky 1 year ago
... this is exactly how i felt after reading all this. Sure some things I like and some I don't like. But this sounds like a depression
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Loki’s Lil Butter Knife 1 year ago
Same here! I honestly don’t know what has happened to this site from the constant censorship, banning users, and rise of reposted content from Reddit. It used to be a site that posted quirky articles an artwork and now I’m scared to comment on anything that goes against the majority for fear of getting banned.
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Ches Yamada 1 year ago
Ugh. All of these can be boiled down to "*I* personally don't like this (or that), so no one else possibly can"! It's fine to have opinions, but remember: other people are not you. They like different things and don't think & experience the world the same way you do.
General Anaesthesia 1 year ago
Exactly, different strokes for different folks.
Load More Replies... XenoMurph 1 year ago
What a sad life people must lead. Looking at everything with disdain and lethargy. This just sounds like depression in word form.
steaky 1 year ago
... this is exactly how i felt after reading all this. Sure some things I like and some I don't like. But this sounds like a depression
Load More Replies... Loki’s Lil Butter Knife 1 year ago
Same here! I honestly don’t know what has happened to this site from the constant censorship, banning users, and rise of reposted content from Reddit. It used to be a site that posted quirky articles an artwork and now I’m scared to comment on anything that goes against the majority for fear of getting banned.
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