You have probably seen a person change their mind about disliking something the second they hear their friend, for instance, say that they love it. Or witnessed someone push through what looks like torture to them, all the while trying to squeeze out a sincere (-looking) smile.
For one reason or another, some people choose to pretend to like something when they actually don’t. And similarly to said reasons, the things they pretend to like tend to differ from person to person. Members of the ‘Ask Reddit’ community recently discussed what things they believe others lie about liking, and there were quite a few things they pointed their fingers at. Scroll down to find them on the list below and feel free to upvote the ones you agree with the most.
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Staff team building and bonding.
For real. The forced positivity and "we're so happy to be part of the *random brand* family. The endless, pointless presentations and HR talk." Celebrating company values" while underpaying your employees and laying off people without replacing them. But please remind us how we can do more to fill your pockets faster in the future, boss.
Flat earth theory.
I'm entirely convinced no one is that stupid and theyre just acting to be a part of something.
Gender reveal parties.
they came to the Uk from USA and they are just unnecessary, sorry for being judgmental
I have mixed feelings about this. First, I think it's gross to have a celebration about your kids genitals. But on the other hand, cake
Load More Replies...We had gender reveal parties when I was a kid, too, but back then we just called it "birth".
People say they're going to reveal a gender, but it always turns out to be one of the two we already know about.
Not universally if people are still doing that dumb stuff...
Load More Replies...What happened to just telling people? Why does everything require a party?
I'm surprised these even happen these days. What if they identify as a cloud, or giraffe or pickup truck??!
I don't mind a low-key reveal but it seems like everyone is trying to do something even bigger and crazier than ever before (I blame internet culture) and it's gotten so out of hand. Cutting a cake or mixing drinks with family? Sure! Doing these massive balloon releases, or truck peelouts? Too much.
Just stop it already. And please tell us who actually started this. We want revenge.
It actually started in a positive way. This lady who had fertility issues was celebrating that her pregnancy got far enough along that they could tell what the sex would be. But unfortunately people ended up being dumb about it.
Load More Replies...So moronic, especially given how many people are questioning their gender identity. What I'd love to see are gender fluid, non-binary, and transgenders having a gender reveal party. But this emphasis on an infant's gender is creepy and it isn't focusing on the health and happiness of the child.
I guess I've been lucky, I've never known anyone who had one. Everybody jumps into a Baby Shower but gender isn't a big focus It is generally told to close family and spreads organically from there. These things rose with all the other trash like reality shows, and so many people are chasing internet fame with no talent visible, ie "Influencers". A certain family comes to mind, their last name starts with K.
Had a ball at my niece's gender reveal. We got together, played games, munched on great party snacks and finally, bit into a baby bootie shaped cupcake that was blue in the middle and found out we had a boy coming.
I say if you want to, go for it. There's nothing wrong with a party. Just don't overdo and accidentally light a whole asś forest on fire. Or contaminate an entire water supply.
Another way to spend money unnecessarily and party for party sake. Gee, some one in the USA started a huge forest fire some years back with fireworks. AAAAA.. the good ole American way....
I hate this practice. It's just another gift grab scam. My neighbour had a gender reveal and then lost the baby a week later. Just wait until the baby is out and healthy
The horrific accidents that come with a lot of them as they try to outdo any other one.... please make them stop
Some people probably have it in a non-stupid way like a baby shower, but I hate idiots who end up burning down a large part of their state or throwing a temper tantrum (and filming it and putting it on the internet) because their kid is going to be the "wrong" gender. A lot of dumba$$ parenting magazines act like that's ok behavior, but it isn't. If you're going to be that upset that your kid won't or will have dangly bits, you shouldn't be a parent. And how do you think the kid will feel when they grow up and see that?
they seem fun tbh? idk (as an nb gen z) not the destructive ones but like cutting a cake its kinda cute idk
It's ridiculous. Why do you care so much about your child's gender. Aren't you just setting them up for endless stereotypes and promoting them.
Just something else to add to FB that's all. no one cares, just tell everybody and get on with it, there I said it.
I could care less about the gender, as long as they are healthy and happy. That's all that really matters at the end of the day.
These people must lead empty lives to expect their friends to be a part of their pregnancy.
Folks wanting to have a bit fun it seems and this Gender Reveal thing is one of the newer things people do or want to do. My opinion is go for it BUT stop starting fires, spreading trash around and disrespecting the freakin' environment.
Why can't people just put it on the invite for the baby shower is they want people to know ahead of time if it's a boy or girl.
Honestly I don't know why they do these if they're just going to let the kid decide what gender it is after seeing that c**p on the internet and even in their own class!
Who besides the child should decide what gender they are?
Load More Replies... Ridiculously loud cars even when they are driving slow.
I know it's always going to be easier on the person making the sound but they got to find it annoying when other cars are loud to a corny level.
Keeping Up With the Kardashians. Watched it with my college roommates a couple of times and I was just like “I don’t get it” the entire time. I am really big into makeup and I found two of Kylie’s lip kits very discounted (ten dollars a piece when they were normally going for thirty dollars a piece) and I really didn’t get the appeal. I saw a conspiracy theory on a different subreddit saying that Kylie’s makeup line is a money laundering scheme at this point and that is something that I could actually get behind!
You know I have never watched a single episode of that show and I seem to be living my life just the same without it. Must not be a big loss
Stanley cups. The design is literally so stupid. It’s annoying to have to hold the weight of a full water bottle with your wrist. I would rather have a water bottle that has a handle on top so I can carry it comfortably.
High heels. I’ve never been able to wear with without crazy pain - no matter which ones I’ve tried!
My daughter's being wearing them for years, even while prégnant. She walks over 15 000 steps everyday at work, and she tells me that it's flat shoes that make her feet hurt. OK, if you say so....
Freestyle jazz music. To me, it sounds like a bunch of guys with instruments, each doing their own warmup routine while standing on the stage together. Doesn’t feel like a tune as much as it does noise.
Clowns. Just, clowns.
Showering with your partner. Like I have things to do here and you’re in my way.
Their "glamorous " Instagram life.
Every time I open any social media I'm just shaking my head at all these people pretending to be something they're not. Not to be pretentious, but all of it is for aesthetics. Everything.
NASCAR. I'm convinced people only watch for the chance of crashes, there's no way watching cars go in the same loop for 2 hours is actually entertaining.
My brother, a racing fan: "NASCAR is the pro wrestling of motorsports"
Summer... the heat is unbearable!
I've heard somewhere that "we're conditioned to love summer because it was our only time of freedom for ~13 years" and honestly... makes sense.
Poly relationships.
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I have several friends who all tried poly relationships at some point in their life and every single one ended in disaster, and whenever they were all together in the same room at least one person looked like they were miserable and pretending to be ok with what was going on.
Someone always got jealous or someone cheated. Or it was an excuse for 3-4 people to fuck each other for a few months until someone got bored and the people that were actually into it got hurt.
I’m not saying it can’t work, but I have seen zero evidence that it does. I also feel like long-term monogamous relationships are hard, why would adding another person into that relationship make things better or easier?
I hung out with red hot pie people back when that was a thing in 2007-10 - I wasn’t a swinger my bff was their poster girl and she wanted me there to look out for her etc, I went to party and look after her. NONE of the swingers or poly people are together now, none of them and I’m pretty sure the red hot pie owners are divorced AF, which what do you expect and how do you think a 17 girl was going to make your married relationship stronger? They are deluded at the time and will validate as much as they can, but fast forward a decade or so and it’s evident
Going to night clubs.
Influencer lifestyles.. especially things like van life. You see them all smiles in their pics, but you know they are hating every minute of it.
I admit I lived on a 23ft boat for 5 years, and I would still be there if it wasn't for the year 2020. I love living small, but a boat isn't like a van, you have legal places to park and live in a boat, not so much in a van.
Pregnancy.
THAT!!!! I hated every minute of it and so many friends I've talked to felt the exact same. And while you feel like c**p everyone around you's cooing "oooh you gotta be so happy!" NO.
Super hot stuff. A little hot sauce from time to time adds a fun kick to some foods. But at a certain point you stop tasting 90% of what you're eating and are just trying to withstand the ridiculous ghost reaper of death evil wing sauce that you put on your wings to look manlier I guess.
Disagree with this one. Different types of chili peppers and sauces have completly different flavors. My partner loves ultra hot stuff and over the years my heat tolerance has improved where i can handle pretty darn hot too and there is a flavor in there that is more than just burning heat but I think you have to eat spicy frequently to really get your taste buds there.
Getting black out drunk. I understand getting fun drunk, because it's actually fun. But black out drunk? Why? What's the point?
Small talk.
Small talk is awesome I enjoy it immensely it is the building block of civility
Meet&Greets with celebrities.
"This was so life changing?"
You just met another human being. NOTHING changed.
Matcha. might as well just dump some lawn clippings in a blender and drink that.
"Passion" for any corporate money-driven job. It's just not human nature to get longterm and worthwhile fulfilment from ephemeral sh*t like sales numbers.
Having BUSY Social Lives with always having s**t to do/attend to, etc...etc...
What's wrong with that. As long as it's not forced on you, like people guilting you to go out.
Long beards.
A few years ago I was curious how long mine would get, since apparently some (maybe most) men have a terminal length, where their beard just stops growing at a certain point. I let it go until it was in the middle of my chest, and couldn't stand it any more. I wasn't a fan of it blowing up into my face when it was windy.
Working out. The results are rewarding, but not the actual process of working out.
Honestly I love it. I like pushing myself, feeling the strain. I know it sounds insane and 20 year old me would have laughed. Now, mom of 33, it's just me-time.
Listening to people at work describing their weekends, especially on a Monday.
It helps to really be interested and invested. Ask further and further untill you have a real conversation. Great conversations are often just a couple of questions away. And I say this as a total awkward introvert. Probably one of the best things I learned to do.
Running marathons.
Did it ones, it was a great achievement. I'm very proud that I did it and I might even try to do it once more but I did die a thousand times during that 41.195 meters!
Raising children. Nothing about it looks enjoyable.
Well, it's like everything else that's worth something: a lot of hard work, a lot of doubts and permanent fear. There are moments of exhaustion, even despair. But there's also fun, laughter, awe, pride and a lot of love. Raised four of them never regretted it. And now I get to enjoy my grandkids.
Black licorice. It's hard for me to believe there are humans that find the taste enjoyable. The smell alone makes me gag. It's gotta be a genetic thing like how cilantro tastes terrible to some people. For the record, I like cilantro.
The Dutch and Finnish people will riot against this!! 😉 ( sorry English people, you're not invited, your licorice tastes like leather(
Mr. Beast videos.
I get the appeal. Like super off the wall game shows. Not my thing, but if the kids are watching it I'll tune in. Definitely worse things online. Better too, but eh... it's fine.
First dates. I'm sorry. 9 times out of 10 they're awkward and boring.
That's why relationships should start off as friendships and gradually evolve.
Children’s birthday parties.
What a ridiculous article. It is just full of people saying that just because they don't enjoy "xyz" nobody else can enjoy it either and just pretend to. There are several things in this list that I genuinely enjoy and wouldn't do them if I really didn't.
So you came here, read every post and put your opinion here. Gratulations! That´s the purpose.
Load More Replies...So, différent people enjoy or despise different things. "Il faut de tout pour faire un monde" (takes all kinds to make a world) as we say here.
I do wonder why people come to Bored Panda expecting everything to be 'relevant'. It's just some silly wasting-time fun - go with the flow!
For the most part, I agree with these. However, I certainly don't think "everyone" feels this way about anything here.
"Love" how so many people here think that just because they don't enjoy something, nobody else possibly can >_>
What a ridiculous article. It is just full of people saying that just because they don't enjoy "xyz" nobody else can enjoy it either and just pretend to. There are several things in this list that I genuinely enjoy and wouldn't do them if I really didn't.
So you came here, read every post and put your opinion here. Gratulations! That´s the purpose.
Load More Replies...So, différent people enjoy or despise different things. "Il faut de tout pour faire un monde" (takes all kinds to make a world) as we say here.
I do wonder why people come to Bored Panda expecting everything to be 'relevant'. It's just some silly wasting-time fun - go with the flow!
For the most part, I agree with these. However, I certainly don't think "everyone" feels this way about anything here.
"Love" how so many people here think that just because they don't enjoy something, nobody else possibly can >_>