ADVERTISEMENT

Let’s face it—some people have no idea what our jobs are all about. Sometimes, we might enjoy explaining the basics with a few polite sentences but when they ask the same questions over and over again, it can start to feel slightly annoying. Luckily, there are plenty of people on the internet ready to enlighten the masses about the realities of what they do for a living.

One Reddit user posed a question on the r/AskReddit forum, "What is something that people in your profession understand, but the general public can’t seem to grasp?" From lifeguards to teachers, hundreds of people rushed to share insider knowledge and debunk the myths surrounding their jobs.

Take a look at some of the illuminating observations commenters revealed in this thread and make sure to upvote the ones that you might not have known about. And if you can relate to any of them, don’t be shy and share your insights in the comments below!

#1

People Share 40 Things The General Public Doesn’t Understand About Their Profession I work in healthcare. People are dumb and I’m just going to leave it at that.

toxinogen , Klaus Nielsen Report

#2

People Share 40 Things The General Public Doesn’t Understand About Their Profession Pencils are expensive. Prints are expensive. Proper paper is expensive. It takes a lot of time to do a painting. So, no, I can't give it to you for free or 'exposure.'

SidnyM , David Perkins Report

Add photo comments
POST
ZAPanda
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yep. Materials cost for an A3 painting is in the region of $50 for materials alone, never mind time. So your minimum cost for a painting is going to be, at minimum wage, about $100.

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
#3

Mental health is real health.

toomanyweirdoshere Report

Add photo comments
POST
Brandy Grote
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's all tied together. Your mental health WILL affect your physical health - and vice versa!! Pain management is mental health care too.

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu

We managed to get in touch with one of the Redditors who had enough of people misunderstanding their profession. User Substantially-Ranged left an illuminating comment under this thread, explaining the common misconceptions they face as a teacher. 

"Teaching children takes more than subject knowledge," they wrote. "Many people think that their experience as a student qualifies them to be teachers. It's called the apprenticeship of observation. There are strategies for both classroom management and teaching that you don't learn from being a student."

ADVERTISEMENT

Substantially-Ranged was kind enough to have a little chat and share some thoughts about the topic. They started by mentioning that, sadly, teachers in the US feel unappreciated. 

#4

People Share 40 Things The General Public Doesn’t Understand About Their Profession I work on super yachts. We understand that the rich and famous can get away with ordering drugs, hookers and whatever else they want to their yachts. I've been stopped by police with drugs, but when I tell them it's for the owner of the yacht I work on they let me go. Rules and laws do not apply to the rich and famous. Oh,....... And yacht owners are rich and rarely famous. The really rich don't want to be known.

Shug22389 , Furkan Tumer Report

#5

People Share 40 Things The General Public Doesn’t Understand About Their Profession Public libraries are not safe places to drop off your kids. It's not the books that are unsafe; it’s the other patrons, and the fact that librarians are not babysitters.

fauxbuous , Ranurte Report

Add photo comments
POST
Mistralok
Community Member
2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They are common refuges for the homeless, especially in the winter. Most of them are quite harmless.

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
ADVERTISEMENT
#6

People Share 40 Things The General Public Doesn’t Understand About Their Profession In most places, we don't set the prices for anything. Your surgeon is not making $50,000 on your grandma's hip because the hospital charged that much. He or she is probably getting $1,500, and the institution gets the rest. Insurances and institutions are the problem.

will0593 , Павел Сорокин Report

"When classes went online due to COVID-19, the public attacked teachers as being lazy and suggested that they should be paid less because they were not actually in the classroom," they told Bored Panda. "It starts to feel like your education, your commitment, and your effort aren't appreciated."

The user believes that the general public does not value and respect "the amount of education and experience it takes to be a skilled teacher." One of the reasons behind this could be that "the apprenticeship of observation makes people think that because they've seen teachers, that they can teach."

#7

People Share 40 Things The General Public Doesn’t Understand About Their Profession Your children are generally [jerks] and we don't find them nearly as charming as you find them

JonGilbony , Pixabay Report

Add photo comments
POST
Scagsy
Community Member
2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The thing with this is, you ALWAYS notice the naughty kids, running amok in the restaurant. I would hazard a guess that because the other kids are well-behaved you NEVER notice them. It's always a minority spoiling it for the majority. Note: You can apply this to adults too.

Id row
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This should be higher. No, your kid isn't so special and unique that they should get special treatment. Also, be a parent and stop letting them run around in businesses like a rabid badger.

Magenta Colour
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It also works the other way around. The "bad" kids are drawn to me. I don't know how many times I'll tell a parent I wish all my students were like their kid and they would be baffled. Makes me wonder how they treat their kids behind closed doors. Some times compassion is all thats needed.

Abeja Rio
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm a maid and the way the children in the house behave towards me is a reflection of the parents

Jessica D'Amico
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hate comments like this. Like, if that's your attitude, why did you choose a profession where you're working with children?

Jeffrey Bucchianeri
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And I hate comments like this. Working with children we can deal with, even when they're rough around the edges. The comment is focused on the parent(s), whom are insane enablers that make the job so much worse than it could be.

Load More Replies...
C W
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm always so self-conscious about this. I have a toddler, but prior to being a mom never understood how parents can let their children be disruptive to other people's lives. My husband and I rarely go to restaurants with her, but if we do we pick a time that the restaurant is slow and the second she gets loud or restless or disruptive in any way, one of us takes her outside and the other requests to-go boxes. Sometimes it's frustrating to have to do that but why the heck should other patrons have to listen to your kid? Same with stores, etc. Also, pics/videos/holding her is generally reserved for family and very close friends. I am fully aware that although I think she's adorable, I'm biased lol. Before having a baby, I didn't want to see baby pics or hold babies.

Alicia GriffonLady
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My daughter has always been well behaved and conscious of how her actions affected others (well, she went slightly rogue at 18, but only for a couple years of testing new freedoms. She's a lovely adult. ^_^) I started when she was a toddler. I would explain why what she was doing was wrong/dangerous/disruptive, start slowly and loudly counting to 3 in angry-mom voice, and spank her three times just hard enough to make my hand sting. It sounds awful, and it felt awful to hurt her little bottom, but I only had to do spank her a few times. I rarely got past 2 when counting. Getting her attention when counting was key. After that I'd ask her why she wasn't supposed to be doing what she was doing. She has never been in trouble at school, is smart enough to think of consequences (no drugs, alchohol, "bad boys/girls"... I mean, i was a boring kid, but she is a league ahead of me in avoiding trouble! )

Load More Replies...
Carlotta Müller
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I, working in afterschool care as an educator for over 20 years must say that this is not right. Most children are nice and every human has bad days. But no, they are not "jerks".

Sara Attar
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've worked with kids for 17 years now and I find kids adorable! Even the ones that are kind of jerks. Because people are generally both jerks and charming. People are complex and interesting, even children. Kids parents are also generally adorable, jerks and charming and complex and interesting. All at once.

shuka shuka
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And NOBODY except relatives wants to see your baby photos. They are only even asking to be polite.

NsG
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not sure which profession this is coming from...? As a general rule, genetically and biologically you will find your own offspring to be prettier/smarter/better than anyone else's and everyone else will disagree with you. Doesn't make your kids A-holes, but it might make the parents A-holes.

Brenda Goodrich
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't believe kids are jerks, just the parents who don't prepare for a restaurant visit. It's not fair to blame the children for the parents not teaching them and understanding their age and maturity.

Mine Truly
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We also don't like the liability that if we look at your kids wrong or bump into a kid wrong, we'll go to prison as a sex offender. Just keep them in a different space from adult strangers, please.

Sue Lynn Chan
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Some of them can be sweet and polite,but it’s they way how parents discipline their children. Those parents shouldn’t have kids if they do not know how to train them properly

Becky Samuel
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Jeez. You make it sound like children are performing animals that need to be broken in, rather than human beings.

Load More Replies...
kim mccarthy
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I always found it sad to see people seemingly shocked at my children behaving properly/being polite... so much so that many times strangers have gone out of their way to be sure to compliment them and us. I always appreciated that kindness but felt sad that it's not the norm anymore. It should be the other way around. We'll behaved, polite kids should be the norm. Parents need to guide their children and expect more from more from them so they grow into the decent adults we need them to be. For their own sake and everyone elses.(And no, not pretending to be a perfect parent or that my kids are perfect) BUT yeah... we do our best to raise responsible, decent humans.

Becky Samuel
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Western society is sick to the core. What sort of society banishes mothers, babies, young children, and even the elderly as though they're a 'nuisance' and a 'burden'? Why is selfishness being held up as a virtue? It is no surprise to me that people are suffering from more and more mental illness when the very basis of humanity is being stripped away.

Frankenfrog
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I assure you I'd be suffering more if I had to be exposed to noisy children and their parents who've given up on even trying to raise them or correct their behaviour. Don't know why you drag elderly people into it, no one mentioned them. Maybe just get real and accept that most people don't like your crotch goblins

Load More Replies...
Kate Jones
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ugh yes. We get that you love your kids but they aren't as smart as you think they are. Most kids are about as smart as yours, I promise. So stop talking about how 'gifted' they are. And stop letting them order in restaurants and holding up the line. Ask them before you get in line. You aren't being a good parent by letting them order. Give them independence in other ways...not inconveniencing an entire room of people.

Randy Kitchens
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In the 50's and 60's one or two in every school were on a power trip concerning these young lives. The 80's came and Teachers lives started getting dangerous dealing with young thugs and it has gotten worse over time. Would I be a teacher? Not unless the State allows God back in the classroom.

Mel in Real Life
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

YES. was a preschool worker for over 10 years. I got so burned out now most children annoy me. lol I like them when I am not responsible for them and they don't scream, cry, run around and put their nasty hands on the food that is waiting to be eaten by everyone.

David Woollands
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Children are like farts - you can deal with your own, but you hate everyone else’s!!!

Cori Dock
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Then you shouldn't be in a profession that requires your contact with children. Children are NOT typically jerks, they are new humans who do not have the experience to follow all societal rules yet. There is a whole generation of people who dealt with and were patient with you. Pay if forward.

Helen Davies
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This from someone who was once a small jerk him or herself! Glass houses, people! Don't throw stones. That's why the world is so bad ... We're a bunch of judgy a-holes!

Frankenfrog
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So? Where does it say I'm required to like little brats, just because I was once one myself?

Load More Replies...
Paula Marowsky
Community Member
2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No other creature in the whole world disdain, despise and unlike their own offsprings than "humans". Maybe that is the reason why the world is so fuc**d up.

Noir
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A lot of animals hate their own offspring. Some even eat them. You need to watch some animal planet.

Load More Replies...
Mean Red B
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I find my kid highly annoying yet everyone around thinks she's the sweetest. The irony.

Awsomemom52
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Am I the only one who got constant compliments on her "oh so well behaved, polite and helpful (what??) sons? If they were visiting somewhere, they'd help clean up and cook, set the table and do the dishes... without being asked. At home, I had to bribe them to take the dirty dishes from their rooms to the kitchen every 4 weeks... and then they would leave them there, so I could "take care of it". My sons were jerks at home, and angles elsewhere. Not always... but well, puberty for sure, was annoying as hell.

Karin Larsson
Community Member
2 years ago

This comment has been deleted.

Hannah Young
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope the person who wrote this isn't in a child focused job, because I worked at daycares for years and loved every child. If you think kids are jerks, don't work with kids

Mxd Chx
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My kid is very well-behaved in and out of public. Adults and there dog children are jerks.

Sally Jones
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Listening to everyone comment on how stupid people are proved how stupid you are

Samantha Will
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a Nanny and past preschool teacher, I found that kids are usually much better behaved for people who aren't their parents. Of course it's the problem ones that stand out. When I am out and see kids doing a good job of being appropriate I generally tell them and the parents. People are So quick to complain but rarely remember that a positive comment can really be appreciated.

Kristine Park
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Cute doesn’t cut it in my world! Can’t let it when you’re a dog/puppy trainer. What the owner (parent) thinks is cute or funny could literally mean life or death for that pup. EX: he got loose & ran all W***y-nilly right up to the guy walking his huge Chow (turned out it was muzzled due to “attitude” so big thanks to him for being responsible because it could have been ugly! The owner(parent) thought it was funny how the little guy had no fear (dachshund pup> 6lbs tops!) & ran right up into the bigger dog’s face… until the day he couldn’t get the German Shepard to “let go”!?! So no, not everything your child does (be they a fur baby or human) is “CUTE”… hell, most of the time it’s ugly!) my suggestion to new “parents” is always this: think like this, everything you’re “child” does will always be a reflection on YOU! Sometimes they care, sometimes they don’t, kinda depends on how they were raised… 🤷🏻‍♀️

SIX RINGS
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Teachers don't do a damn thing anymore anyway it's all on the computer!

MyOpinionHasBeenServed
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Children are people. They all have their own ideas, personalities and behaviours. Even the best ones have bad moments. You don't have to like every one of them, but you don't have to lump every Brayden, Jayden and Megan with the same brush.

AngelWingsYT
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Its 50/50 some kids are sweeties some not at all. Had one cute kid at the movies who ADMINTLY slammed down candy he wanted. When i (jokingly) told him how much he got a surpised look (likely didnt realize he had to pay for it XD) n just looked up at his dad for help xD who chuckled placed his order ontop of the candy n payed xD kid was veeery happy

Naomi
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

True. Your kids are annoying, but when it comes to your dog, I'm their #1 fan.

C R
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you see kids as jerks find a new job. The world needs less people that have no compassion or see kids as numbers. My mom was a teacher

Lynn
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Appears some of the "adults" responding are as "bad" as the kids they are commenting on. Where is the adult examples of tolerance, patience etc. And yes Some children could use stronger guidance but most can be amazing given the chance.

Tina Clark
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Children are different when they are not around their parents, some CHILDREN, are a duplicate copy of their parents.

Lilia Loewenberg
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We rarely tell you what horrible stuff your kids have been doing all day. We get aggravated and annoyed with them and their antics but when you pick them up at the end of the day.... We just smile and tell you we can't wait to see them again tomorrow.

kayla shelly
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This person should not be a teacher. As parents we can call them that and if this person is ever to be found singling a child out some one pull this post.

Patricia
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I didn't raise any jerks. A doctor who had a brief conversation with my son at a BBQ called him "an intelligent and articulate child."

Buren
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

THIS. I lost count of how many times children and parents look at me with big smile as if I should/would be charmed by them, and all I did was just glaring at them angrily. This is usually after inappropriate disruptive behaviors in public.

Andy Acceber
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Please let this one be from a charm school instructor. Thanks solely to television, I do assume that pretty much anyone who willingly attends charm school (aka finishing school) is, generally, an a*****e.

Jen&Tonic
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’m always shocked when people tell me they have been pleasant and well behaved. I know they can be turds!

Stoopham McFernybabes
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What profession is this? Cos if you’re a teacher or a childcare worker or something can you please leave that? Like, now.

Bryn
Community Member
2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Are you really telling teachers to leave during a teaching shortage just because they think some kids are jerks? Lol, no. I love teaching and, for the most part, I love the kids. But does that mean all of them are perfect angels who will never be rude? No. Especially in the upper grades, kids can be mean, rude and jerks. Expecting teachers to like all kids is just asinine. Look back at your own life in school? I can guarantee you were a jerk at some points.

Load More Replies...
View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
ADVERTISEMENT
#8

Military spending.

The U.S. spends the most by far, but it doesn't mean that money goes towards making sure Soldiers, Airmen, Sailors, and Marines have the best training, facilities, education, and equipment.

The vast majority of that money goes to private companies for programs that never produce anything or contribute in any way to the effectiveness of the fighting forces.

There is no concrete evidence that the U.S. has "The Best" military in the world.

potential_human0 Report

ADVERTISEMENT
#9

A lot of "tough" parenting stances don't work.

I work with teenagers who have committed minor offenses and are not required to do jail time, but seeing a youth worker and working on anger management/social skills/life skills is required of them. There is not one single teen that has been sent to me who has come from a background of "gentle parenting". Not one. Every singe one of them without fail as long as I have been doing this will tell stories of all the times they were hit as punishment, and it becomes their logic when faced with conflict, "He disrespected me so I bashed his face in", "He called me a wanker so a smashed his car with my baseball bat", "I didn't do anything wrong, he stole the girl I like so I kicked him and his knee just broke, it's not really my fault".

This whole "Back in my day we got hit and we grew up right!" is just silly. Back in "your day" hitting was more prevalent so it's safe to say that most, if not all, violent crimes were committed by those who were hit. Most of the more shocking serial killers and so on have very well documented back stories of abuse.

Not every child who is hit will resort to physical violence when things don't go their way, of course, but children who are taught proper coping mechanisms for anger other than hitting people or things are very less likely to resort to that themselves, because they've been given conflict resolution skills that they can carry on into young adulthood.

And yeah, here's the point that a lot do understand in regards to this- if you are saying that you were hit and you grew up okay and you are using that to defend physical violence against children who most of the time actually don't know any better (and it's even worse when it's "Oh well they're too young to understand why they shouldn't touch the stove, so I hit them so they understand"- if they can't understand why they can't touch the stove they won't understand why you hit them either), you didn't grow up okay, you grew up with violent tendencies.

General rule, don't hit people.
If you hit children, they will learn to hit.
When children grow up and hit other grown ups, that's a criminal offense and they will go to jail.

12ed11 Report

ADVERTISEMENT

It can be quite hard to figure out why the public has so many misconceptions about other professions. Whether it’s seeing librarians as babysitters or assuming that the IT guys can do it all, there seems to be a general lack of common sense when it comes to appreciating what others do for a living. "It can be difficult to have empathy for others and realize that they have to work hard," Substantially-Ranged added.

The user continued by saying that it’s necessary to talk about such issues. "The beauty of Reddit is that it creates an environment where positive and open discourse can occur. A simple subreddit like r/AskReddit has the power to educate people and enlighten them about things just by scrolling," they concluded.

#10

People Share 40 Things The General Public Doesn’t Understand About Their Profession 'Switching it off and on again' in I.T. usually resets the device to the state before you pissed about with it — this quite often solves the problem.

Jezbod , Lukas Report

#11

People Share 40 Things The General Public Doesn’t Understand About Their Profession Just because I "play" in a band, doesn't mean it isn't work! For every hour you see me on stage, I spent probably 100 hours practicing and rehearsing, so you would enjoy listening to me.

LusciousLennyStone , Eneida Nieves Report

Add photo comments
POST
Yugan Talovich
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In Chinese there's an expression, One minute on stage comes from ten years' practice.

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
ADVERTISEMENT
#12

People Share 40 Things The General Public Doesn’t Understand About Their Profession Veterinary- just because you can’t afford care for your pet, doesn’t mean I have to give said care for free. Nor does it it mean I’m heartless and cruel and killing your pet. It just means you can’t afford it.

I have bills to pay too. I have a right to make a living wage. I need to get paid. We get no government funding, we exist solely because people they their bills.

Crazyboutdogs , FLOUFFY Report

Add photo comments
POST
Slinkman
Community Member
2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well this goes for healthcare as a whole. I don't think it's the fact people have to pay that is the problem, it's the ammount of money that needs to be payed that is the issue. Sometimes a vet just looks at my cat, gives a short diagnose 'give it some rest' and I walk out fo the door with a € 80,- Bill. I know they deserve a good salary (studied long, have a big responsibility), but this I find ridiculous. I take care of kids in my profession, a big responsibility, but the pay is lousy. Just to compare.

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
#13

People Share 40 Things The General Public Doesn’t Understand About Their Profession Emergency Rooms are NOT first-come, first-serve businesses! We triage you for a reason, and you CANNOT cut the line in front of somebody with a more serious complaint just because you got here first!

SwingGirlAtHeart , Mat Napo Report

Add photo comments
POST
Brandy Grote
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sorry, Jenny's non-Covid sniffles have to wait behind that guy's bone sticking out of his arm.

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
#14

As a teacher, No! Your "babies" are not babies. They are delinquent teens with sociopathic behaviors that you allowed to go unchecked, and now we have to deal with it when they disrupt learning environments and harm others, while you throw a fit when we call home about it, even though we have video evidence of them brutally hitting others, including staff, and behaving like out of control animals. But your little "baby" would "never do that."

Enlightened_Ghost_ Report

Add photo comments
POST
Mimi whatev
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A teacher was killed in my country because of 14 year old "babies"

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
ADVERTISEMENT
#15

People Share 40 Things The General Public Doesn’t Understand About Their Profession I am not a babysitter. It is your job as a parent to watch your kid when swimming and if they can't swim, you have to be in the water within five feet of them at all times.

Ceiling_Fan_Lady , z pm Report

#16

YOU NEED TO SLOW DOWN IN BAD WEATHER!!!!!

MetalMikeJr Report

Add photo comments
POST
DUN DUN (she/her)
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

(Two wheelers)If you ride faster in rain, the rain will pelt you like bullets. Driving slower makes it a bit bearable.

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
#17

That the eighty thousand pound truck I’m driving can’t stop in a dime

blakjak66 Report

Add photo comments
POST
Brandy Grote
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Thiiiiiiissss! That extra car length in front of them isn't for your beemer to slide into! And if you can't see the driver's face, the driver can't see your CAR.

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
#18

People Share 40 Things The General Public Doesn’t Understand About Their Profession You actually don't want an exotic animal as a pet.

feivelgoeswest , Worldspectrum Report

Add photo comments
POST
Chucky Cheezburger
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not very exotic, but we(my wife) just "adopted" a mouse. Not a lil white mouse from a pet store, but a field mouse that we found almost dead in the toilet. I didnt want to put it out in the cold while half dead and wet, so I had it in a box to recover. Showed it to my wife...she deemed it🤩 "precious, with its little ears and feet"...so now we have a house for a mouse in our house. So far, it doesn't seem to have any diseases, but its still under observations. Hoo boy...

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
#19

People Share 40 Things The General Public Doesn’t Understand About Their Profession Marriage and Family Therapist

Your partner only wants your advice if they ask for it. They want you to listen and emphasize. Tell them what they're going through must (fill in appropriate adjective here- examples: suck, feel amazing, feel overwhelming, etc)

No, you haven't found your soulmate. You're brain is giving you a super boost in brain chemicals so you screw like bunnies and have babies. Tell me in 1.5-2 years if they're still your soulmate. That's how long it takes for that chemical boost to return to their "normal for you" state. And not feeling fireworks at the first kiss doesn't mean anything. Plenty of amazing long-term relationships started from friendship (which by the way is what you'll need to have a long-term, fulfilling relationship).

Also... be kind to each other. You will each f*** things up in your relationship. All is not lost because one of you talked to an ex, forgot a birthday, etc. Relationships go through seasons and I promise if you can work though the winter you'll have an amazing summer! Every relationship sucks sometimes (screw you social media and your highlight reels).

Lastly, though there are so many more- I can't stress this one enough, there is no such thing as my problem or yours. Though the work to get through it will look different for each of you, once you decide to become partners, everything becomes ours to work through together. Yes, even that thing that happened before you met but is getting in the way of your healthy relationship. And especially that thing you never want to talk about that is getting in the way of your relationship.

GlamtasticGlitter , Alex Green Report

Add photo comments
POST
Emily M
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Me and my spouse make a point of saying thank you when the other does things. Works wonders

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
ADVERTISEMENT
#20

Your kids lie to you. If we said they didn’t do the homework and they said they did, it’s a 99.985% chance they are lying. If they say they weren’t doing xyz behavior in class and we say they were, it’s a 99.985% chance they were doing it. I have so many more demands on my time than to make up random c**p about your kid.

skybluedreams Report

Add photo comments
POST
Emily M
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Had a mother of a 7 year old in a meeting tell the principal her child was probably being more truthful than the teachers because "children don't lie" ????

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
#22

People Share 40 Things The General Public Doesn’t Understand About Their Profession You can lie all you want about falling on or accidentally sitting on the stuff that gets lodged in your [butt], none of us HCWs believe you though!

Smudgeandarrogant44 , Karolina Grabowska Report

Add photo comments
POST
Debbie Barnes
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Dear lord.. I'd probably die of embarrassment if I 'fell' onto anything.. But I'm pretty sure people make up stories to cover their own embarrassment in these situations,rather then think they'll ever be believed....

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
#23

Teachers don't "give grades" - students earn them. The teachers just calculate them.

Sure, some teachers can be d**ks, and actually give grades, but that's not how it's supposed to work.

LotusPrince Report

Add photo comments
POST
Beeps
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yep, had someone in my family who, every single time one of their three kids got a bad grade, they explained it with: “the teacher doesn’t like her/him.”

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
ADVERTISEMENT
#24

That office work is more than just making excel spreadsheets and chatting at the water cooler. A busy day in an office can be exhausting.

ShutterBug1988 Report

Add photo comments
POST
Peej Maybe
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This. Mental exhaustion still counts as exhaustion. Just because I'm not in the middle of a forest chopping down trees all day it does not mean my job is less taxing than yours

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
#25

People Share 40 Things The General Public Doesn’t Understand About Their Profession My god, your chocolate will last the two weeks until Christmas. Buy it now and give it next Christmas. It has a shelf life measured in years. And stop putting it in the fridge. I made it three months ago and it's been sitting at room temperature in a box since then. If you put it in the fridge for a week it'll get condensation on it and turn sticky, or the cold will ruin the tempering.

JvckiWaifu , Pixabay Report

Add photo comments
POST
Becky Moore
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I like my chocolate from the fridge. It's never in there for more than a day cos I'm a pig :P

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
#26

People Share 40 Things The General Public Doesn’t Understand About Their Profession Yes, the animal is in the exhibit. Sometimes you have to look for longer than eight seconds.

rue842 , Daiga Ellaby Report

Add photo comments
POST
kristina law
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would try to stay hidden too if I was forced to be stared at all day by hundreds of strange looking beings.

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
#27

People Share 40 Things The General Public Doesn’t Understand About Their Profession Bathroom renovations — things take time. Drying times are a factor. If I ask your budget, it’s not because I’m trying to empty your account. I just need to know your expectations so I can meet them.

EasyOutside4 , Steven Ungermann Report

ADVERTISEMENT
#28

People Share 40 Things The General Public Doesn’t Understand About Their Profession Teaching children takes more than subject knowledge. Many people think that their experience as a student qualifies them to be teachers. It's called the apprenticeship of observation. There are strategies for both classroom management and teaching that you don't learn from being a student.

Substantially-Ranged , Tra Nguyen Report

Add photo comments
POST
DUN DUN (she/her)
Community Member
2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Absolutely! I had two kinds of science (phy) teachers- one who came in, stood like a robot, and puked out everything written in the textbook. And one who made us learn through real-life experiences, telling us topic related jokes, bringing all types of teaching aids, etc. The thing is, we still talk about the second teacher and miss him so damn much, whereas almost everyone has forgotten about the first.

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
#29

Correlation is not causation.

RegMonkey4Life Report

Add photo comments
POST
Foxxy (The Original)
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had 4 vaccines today, and one of them was the MMR. I wonder how long till I get Autism. lol

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
#30

The Cloud is just someone else's computer.

EnigmaCA Report

Add photo comments
POST
Peej Maybe
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

See also: "Microsoft are reading all my emails, accessing all my files and examining all my data" - Trust me, no one's interested in your furry porn collection son...

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
#31

People Share 40 Things The General Public Doesn’t Understand About Their Profession Just because I'm an electrical engineer doesn't mean I can rewire your house. At least not legally.

CrumpledPopCan , Sami Abdullah Report

Add photo comments
POST
Brandy Grote
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well, you CAN, but it will cost 5 figures, a few permits, and a couple of inspections, plus a crew.

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
#32

People Share 40 Things The General Public Doesn’t Understand About Their Profession I work in long term mental health care with special need adults.

I see al kinds of s**t, trust me. Most people get that. I get the 'ah you are such a hero for doing what you do, I could never do that' quite often.

What most people don't grasp is that the good moments are equally amazing as the bad things are horrible.
My residents are capable of such great things. Or they become so happy in our care it's just amazing to witness.
I could tell amazing or terrible things about my job, depending on the mood you're in to hear about.

VloekenenVentileren , Pixabay Report

Add photo comments
POST
Scagsy
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Having spent some significant time as a patient on Psych Wards (not special needs, just adults) I feel quite well placed to comment on my experience. The ward staff were always ready to offer an ear, a hug or to nip to the shops. If it was in their power, they would do it for you in a heartbeat. Whilst the modesty of this chap is admirable, I have to disagree, these doctors and nurses ARE heroes, do a wonderful job and deserve praise.

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
ADVERTISEMENT
#33

People Share 40 Things The General Public Doesn’t Understand About Their Profession No, I can't grab your iPhone and take a picture to match my best studio works, even if it's the most recent model of an iPhone. Also, yes, I do charge money 'just to take a picture.

le_wild_ahole , PhotoMIX Company Report

Add photo comments
POST
Chloe Patt
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Lots of ppl are willing to pay lawyers $$$ per hour for advice on the law "because they had to study long and hard" but somehow think artists just somehow "know" how to paint/take photos etc. beautifully and therefore don't deserve to charge much. Like..it's just drawing sth with a pencil, or "push a button" etc. Sure, you also know how to read but you still pay lawyers so what gives?

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
#34

People Share 40 Things The General Public Doesn’t Understand About Their Profession Unpleasant feelings are healthy and needed for us to function properly

bananaritual , RF._.studio Report

Add photo comments
POST
Brandy Grote
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes, but if I feel my depression signs building on top of grief and stress, I should be able to get requested relief from my MH team during a time of additional mental stress.

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
#35

People Share 40 Things The General Public Doesn’t Understand About Their Profession That everyone is entitled to due process and to be presumed innocent until proven guilty no matter how sleazy or guilty they are.

bobby4orr70 , EKATERINA BOLOVTS Report

Add photo comments
POST
Scagsy
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Like most people, I strongly suspect that Jimmy Savile was guilty of multiple child sex offences, however, he was never brought to trial. So innocent? It's a hard pill to swallow.

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
#36

Complaining to my manager isn't going to get me fired. If anything he's going to be even more blunt with you about how much of a power tripping c**t you're being because he knows for a fact that you can't get him fired either. Retail workers, especially during a labor shortage and especially when they've got a few years experience, aren't so replacable that you can get one axed just by complaining to management. Most of the time your complaints won't even reach anyone with the authority to fire someone. Even if they do, they get so many complaints from unreasonable people that the management is far more likely to side with an employee that's in good standing with the store than with some random weirdo that didn't get what they wanted.

Stradoverius Report

ADVERTISEMENT
#37

Teaching English in Japan does not elevate you to godlike status among the locals and Japanese kids can be as ill mannered and unruly as kids in the West.

welshegg Report

#38

The only certainty in medicine is that everyone dies eventually.

Tapestry-of-Life Report

Add photo comments
POST
Mistralok
Community Member
2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Hi Jennie." "Hi doc, how did my tests come out?" "Great! Everything is as it should be." "Thanks doc!" "You know you're going to die though."

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
#39

People Share 40 Things The General Public Doesn’t Understand About Their Profession I am a material scientist.

America will never go to war with Russia. We buy too much Titanium and Helium from them.

Cassandra_Canmore , RF._.studio Report

Add photo comments
POST
Daniel Marsh
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes, this is a weirdly false assertion. We produce many times more Helium than Russia and we could easily skimp if we needed to. (How about stop wasting it in balloons?)

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
#40

People Share 40 Things The General Public Doesn’t Understand About Their Profession If you want to fit a portrait image into a landscape canvas, you either have to crop it, leave a black or white border or empty space left and right, or distort it (which is almost always a bad idea). On a regular occurrence, clients are unhappy with either of these options, they just want me to somehow make it fit.

aleqqqs , Alex Azabache Report

Add photo comments
POST
Madison Feehan
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Please turn your phone sideways when taking pictures of scenery or large groups!

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
Continue reading with Bored Panda Premium
Unlimited content
Ad-free browsing
Dark mode
ADVERTISEMENT
See Also on Bored Panda
#41

People Share 40 Things The General Public Doesn’t Understand About Their Profession Yes, your flight is in fact delayed due to weather. Yes, I also understand it’s a gorgeous day here AND at our destination airport. What you don’t understand is the airplane is coming from New York and THEY had weather.

poser765 , Kevin Woblick Report

#42

People Share 40 Things The General Public Doesn’t Understand About Their Profession We can't keep a copy of every book ever published on hand in our store. Some things we will have to order for you.

BatmansKhaleesi , Element5 Digital Report

Add photo comments
POST
Daria B
Community Member
2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Let's be thankful that nowadays we live in an era when you can actually have one single book printed only for you. You may have to wait for it slightly longer, though. But at least you can have it.

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
#43

People Share 40 Things The General Public Doesn’t Understand About Their Profession Just because I'm an IT guy doesn't mean I know how to fix everything. Just like every other profession, there are specialties. Want me to build out a server? Im in. Want me to remove a virus on your Windows 7 machine? Ummm... No thanks, not really my gig.

Kaertos , Aryan Dhiman Report

Add photo comments
POST
James016
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As someone in IT, the most common misconception is that I know every function of every piece of software that has ever been written. 😡

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
#44

People Share 40 Things The General Public Doesn’t Understand About Their Profession Horses are less fragile than people think. They are also more fragile than people think. Also, it probably won’t kick you if you walk behind it, but insurance is expensive, so please don’t.

Affectionate-Whole93 , Helena Lopes Report

Add photo comments
POST
Canary
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They won't kick, they will kick. They're fragile and they're not fragile... helpful.

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
ADVERTISEMENT
See Also on Bored Panda
#45

Anecdotes and personal experience aren’t good (they’re terrible) barometers of how a policy can work. You know what is? Peer-reviewed studies. You saw a homeless person using drugs and breaking windows outside your neighborhood? That doesn’t negate the fact that property crime in the city is down and homeless people and housed people use drugs and commit crimes at roughly the same rate.

cracksilog Report

Add photo comments
POST
Luther von Wolfen
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I work with homeless people. They no "better" or "worse" than anyone else - they just don't have anyplace to live at the moment.

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
#46

You cannot use the terms "concrete" and "cement" interchangeably.

j_grouchy Report

Add photo comments
POST
Daniel Marsh
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Some concrete examples might help cement this in people's minds. Cement binds things together. Concrete is made out of rocky chunks cemented together.

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
#47

Tv anchors were way ahead of the zoom game (blazer, shirt, tie, boxers)

BigBadBootyDaddy10 Report

Add photo comments
POST
Vorknkx
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Seen it with my own eyes during an internship. I thought it was so funny.

#48

That every person is going to die. And it is better to accept it and plan for it. Better for you and your loved ones. I work at a hospital, and the majority of people do not fully understand/accept this reality. One of the most heartbreaking things is watching a 60-70 year old person realize they only have hours left on this earth and they wasted so much time.

Live your life to the fullest. See the world, try that new hobby, explore, and take care of the ones you love.

baker128 Report

Add photo comments
POST
Mistralok
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That would be nice, but income and health issues can severely limit this.

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
ADVERTISEMENT
See Also on Bored Panda
#49

Was a preschool teacher before I was a mom. PSA: your child is in GROUP CARE. You did not hire a one-on-one nanny. No, I cannot spend 45 of the 60 minutes I have to get children to sleep for nap time coddling your one child who refuses to sleep. If he refuses to nap within a reasonable time, you're s**t out of luck. It's not your fault, but it isn't mine either. You need to work, so you put him in daycare; I get it. But I'M at work here, and I can't ignore 8 other kids because your little Johnny doesn't want to nap. You don't like that he doesn't nap? Arrange for someone to pick him up before nap time so he can sleep at home where he's comfortable, or deal with the fact that he's not going to sleep at school.

Ashley9225 Report

Add photo comments
POST
MyOpinionHasBeenServed
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Daycare staff used to berate me for my daughter not wanting to nap. I told them she doesn't really nap because if she did she'd be too difficult to get to sleep on time and be up half the night fighting to stay up. We all gotta pick our battles. Eventually the staff learned how to cope with her by letting her have a quiet time reading. It worked out for all of us.

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
#50

Engineering. There is no "right answer.". There are a long string of tradeoffs that reduce the number of solutions. But, no matter what you do, one or more of those tradeoffs are going to come back and bite you in the ass.

yogfthagen Report

Add photo comments
POST
M O'Connell
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You can have it 'Fast', you can have it 'Cheap', or you can have it 'Good.' Rarely you can have two of those things, but never all three.

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
ADVERTISEMENT
See Also on Bored Panda
#51

People Share 40 Things The General Public Doesn’t Understand About Their Profession I paint the lines on roads (white edge lines and yellow center lines) and SOMEHOW when the signs and flashing lights on the truck say "DO NOT PASS" and "WET PAINT" people still pass us and get paint slung up onto their car... then feel the need to call our office and insurance company to get a free trip to the body shop.... or they pull in front of the paint truck to stop us and cuss us out..

why_worry69 , Andrea Piacquadio Report

Add photo comments
POST
#52

Therapy doesn’t fix you. Therapists aren’t super Hero’s. It gives you the tools to manage the issue and self support yourself

Cannanda Report

#53

Don’t watch a welder when they are welding.

Suspiciousone01 Report

#54

People Share 40 Things The General Public Doesn’t Understand About Their Profession Not every problem with audio is feedback. Feedback is when the sound goes out the speakers and back through the mic and loops around and around. Ground hum is not feedback, noise is not feedback, echo off the wall is not feedback. And speak up, people, the mic isn't magic, you need to be heard!

srcarruth , Bogomil Mihaylov Report

Add photo comments
POST
ZAPanda
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How many sound engineers does it take to change a lightbulb? ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... "One two, One two".

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
ADVERTISEMENT
See Also on Bored Panda
#55

Teaching is exhausting. A thousand little decisions. Every day.

TeacherLady3 Report

Add photo comments
POST
Ace Girl
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I believe this 100%. The first week of school my son's teacher said that she was "teacher tired." A special kind of tired from being a teacher. I totally get it.

View more commentsArrow down menu
#56

You can allocate more taxes to schools or whatever, but that doesn't mean the money is spent wisely or that the tax code has much say in how those funds are spent.

MtManz Report

Add photo comments
POST
Daniel Marsh
Community Member
2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In Northern Virginia, they've managed to spend hundreds of millions of dollars PER SCHOOL in rebuilding the schools... but then still poor-mouth for money for books. We can't spend 200 dollars per student for books for 2000 students ($400,000 total), but somehow the motion-detecting lights in the bathroom cost untold millions?

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
#57

RVs are not built like cars. They are slapped together as fast as humanly possible by people on piece rate that just want to go home. There is no regard for quality or quality control. They are literally junk stuffed with pretty furniture to distract you.

Lethal-Odor Report

Add photo comments
POST
ZAPanda
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

For those who don't speak american, an RV is a combination of a caravan and a lorry.

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
#58

If you think your server is being rude because they’re not all “customer service-y”

You’re more than likely a prick.

We go out of our way to make nice experiences for lovely customers, even to the extent of I’ve given discounts (I’m a manager) just because of how they’ve treated us. But if you are rude and disrespectful and generally s**tty towards us, we will do what we have to do, with the least effort forced smile, and nothing else

AffectionatePut5166 Report

Add photo comments
POST
Kate Jones
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've been in CS my whole life and I will never ever understand the logic that if someone is yelling and screaming (and it isn't for a valid reason, something really at the fault of the merchant), why we shouldn't be allowed to yell right back at them. We're human and we shouldnt have to pretend to be some kind of robot when someone is behaving like a child. People wouldn't behave the way they do if they knew there were reprecussions. Especially these days where people are doing things on purpose to evoke a response so they can then claim they've been abused and get money off things. I was a manager of a major retail chain and I have to say the most annoying thing was when someone treated the staff horribly and the manager would just give in and give them what they wanted. It was rewarding their bad behavior. I understand not wanting to cause a scene and just fixing it but to reward that is so infuriating.

View more commentsArrow down menu
ADVERTISEMENT
See Also on Bored Panda
#60

Legal - 9 out of 10 times I don't want your case.

Discard86 Report

#61

As somebody in the travel industry... most chain hotels are not actually owned by the company whose name is over the front door.

People kind of get the franchise model for fast food restaurants, but they have no idea it applies to hotels as well.

Hysterical_Realist Report

Add photo comments
POST
#62

Building a building is ridiculously more expensive than you would think.

Spectre1919 Report

Add photo comments
POST
boredkoala
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Even just the design fees for an entire design team - architects, structural engineers, MEP engineers, civil engineers, Geotechnical engineers, landscape architects, and then the specialists like acoustic engineers, Soil scientists, traffic consultants, permit specialists, public process consultants, sustainability consultants, environmental modeling (wind load etc), etc etc etc...

View more commentsArrow down menu
#63

Peer-reviewed scientific articles are not tablets from god illuminating the transcendent, unquestionable truth.

They frequently:

-fail to take into account lurking variables

-have findings that are not reproducible

-are published by people with conflicts of interest that they fail to disclose (although yes, you are supposed to)

-are published in journals that are less-than-reputable

-Or, don't make claims as strong or conclusive as the journalists reading them and regurgitating their interpretations to the public do.

Reading scientific articles to figure things out takes work, time investment, and past experience doing it, and often requires experience in that field, too.

Scientists are not priests. It's okay to question the word of "experts," although yes, it should be done with a dose of humility because they probably do know more than you on the topic they've devoted their life to researching. But that isn't an excuse to delegate all of your critical thinking to an authority figure with some credentials by their name, and the temptation to do so is the exact opposite of scientific thinking. Science is about questioning anything and everything and trying to poke holes in it and often succeeding, and then hopefully ending up a little bit less wrong in the future as a result.

I have worked in the medical field for five years and have been doing scientific research for a decade- specifically in viral research. So when Dr. Fauci lied to the nation and the world, telling us "masks don't work," and I questioned it because it flew in the face of everything we've known about upper respiratory viruses for decades, I was told numerous times to shut up and "listen to the experts." F**k off, I am an expert. Yes, not as much of an expert as Fauci, who has spent many more decades doing this than I have, but I'm more than qualified to ask questions and form an opinion of my own.

I feel the need to clarify that I want you to get vaccinated here, because I know how this type of person (of which there are no doubt some reading this) think, and the first thing they do is lump you into a category of "Pro-x pet covid topic" or "anti-x pet covid topic" But just because I want you to get vaccinated doesn't mean I don't want you to be able to ask questions. Those questions serve a valuable purpose and they should receive answers that are better than "because I said so." Those kinds of answers sow so much distrust and actually create anti-vaxxers. Look, I get that you're also tired of getting disingenuous questions from people who have already made up their minds to follow other authority figures, like Trump or whoever the f**k they're listening to. Sure, don't waste your time talking to a brick wall... but if somebody is genuinely trying to learn and has questions and concerns, we have a responsibility to answer them.

I'm sick of science being treated like a religion. That attitude is the opposite of everything science stands for. All of my colleagues know this, maybe because every single one of them has seen somebody smarter and more educated than them be wrong before, or just flat-out lie.

So why don't the members of the public who consider themselves "pro-science" know it too?

absurd_alligator Report

Add photo comments
POST
Brandy Grote
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Published in a peer reviewed journal is still far better than "saw it on Facebook"!

View more commentsArrow down menu
ADVERTISEMENT
See Also on Bored Panda
#64

How exhausted I am after a day of teaching elementary school

aht320 Report

Add photo comments
POST
Foxxy (The Original)
Community Member
2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm exhausted after a couple of hours teaching my son during home-schooling lol. BTW, I am being deadly serious.

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
#65

How to interact with autistic children/adults.

Graves660 Report

Add photo comments
POST
jammer
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The overly social office extroverts have always been the most difficult people to work with.

View more commentsArrow down menu
#66

That you don't hit children. I'm a nanny

Imakegoatnoises Report

Add photo comments
POST
Kimi Tomminello
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wait- are you saying nannies are hitting children or that the parents hit the kids and you know because you're the nanny? I'm so confused.

View more commentsArrow down menu
#67

In my time working in a cemetery, which involved record keeping and burials, it always astounded me how the general public doesn't understand spatial physics. Bluntly put the bigger you are, the more problems you present for burial or cremation.

A single grave plot/space is only so big. If you let yourself go the last 20 years of your life and you are 600 lbs then you may not get buried in the spot you want due to lack of room. The poor funeral director has to now explain to the grieving family that because you couldn't do portion control when you were alive that you now have to be buried in a different area of the cemetery, likely away from your desired spot. One lady was so big that no company made a large enough vault or coffin for her very large size. The solution was to use a concrete septic tank with a lid for the vault and place her inside of it.

Above ground vaults pose a similar problem. One man bought a above ground vault (cost over 10K) and was so large that his casket literally had an inch of clearance on each side and he almost didn't fit.

Cremation furnaces access doors are only so large. Extremely large people may not fit through the door or even inside of the furnace itself. There is no good solution. They can't just chop you to size.

Medical-System6281 Report

ADVERTISEMENT
#68

Asking for a manager when phoning customer support wastes your own time as they will just tell you what the frontline agents tell you. There’s no difference between what a manager can offer and frontline can. Often times the “managers” are just skilled frontline.

Edit: also I’d like to say that shouting and screaming will get you nowhere agents are not paid to listen to abuse over problems that are outside of their control, we’re more likely to do everything we can to help if you remain calm. Also threatening to sue the company has the opposite effect and you end up looking like a clown as we’re told to tell you to go ahead with that and we’ll support you.

AidenIscoolm8 Report

Add photo comments
POST
OctoPaige
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I usually pre-apologize then calmly explain like a Vulcan that I'm actually filled with white hot rage about whatever issue. It's much more effective than yelling, or pretending it's fine. Like I'm not gonna harm you, but I'm not gonna be harmed either.

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
#69

That when you special order an appliance, we have zero control over when it will be here. Stop expecting a discount because your fridge arrives 3 months after your kitchen remodel and it doesn’t fit so you have to pay to alter it. Poor planning on your behalf does not make it an emergency on our behalf.

El-ChuPugcabra Report

Add photo comments
POST
Brandy Grote
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We took what there was when we needed a fridge last year, but ALL the US factories were closed.

View more commentsArrow down menu
ADVERTISEMENT
#70

ELECTRONICS AND WATER DON'T MIX! you would think professionals in various fields who work with electronic equipment/machinery would know this by now.. oh well i charge by the hour

'The last idiot has not been born yet'

mrgrinchOC Report

#71

Cooking can be difficult.

Runnyknots Report

Add photo comments
POST
Gladys Hayes Southerland
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Everyone is not a natural cook & don't have the flare for seasoning, etc. They have to use a straight recipe & even then, it probably won't be inspired, just decent.

View more commentsArrow down menu
#72

5ghz wifi and 5G cellular are different technologies.

privategerbils Report

#73

As an electrical engineer in the construction design industry: No, you can't just put in a larger breaker if one keeps tripping. You bought a smart switch that requires a neutral, so you can't install that in place of your current switch that just has 2 wires in the box. You can't just buy an espresso machine from Italy and expect it to work with your kitchen counter receptacles.

eaglescout1984 Report

Add photo comments
POST
ZAPanda
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

if one keeps tripping it means your wires are too thin for the load or you are overloading, putting a switch in with a higher tolerance will make the building burn down.

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
ADVERTISEMENT
#74

The bank doesn’t have the money you received from a check as soon as you deposit it. For all we know it could bounce.

HiNaughtyGirlImDad Report

Add photo comments
POST
ZAPanda
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not entirely true in my country. (a) we've stopped using cheques because we're in the 21st century, but (b) if you do deposit one, some of us with better credit scores would get instant clearance on our cheques because the bank knows that we're not idiots and won't deal with idiots. So it depends on which bank and your credit score, in our country.

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
#75

That we can't pay your invoice immediately whenever we receive it. There is a ton of administration behind it (especially in a huge company) so it can take a couple of days/weeks to be paid

Ok-World-4822 Report

Add photo comments
POST
Scagsy
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Then there's the businesses that you do work for and put in the invoice who take months and months to pay up. They're hoping you - small fish - go out of business so they don't have to pay you at all. The worst part is that it works a lot.

View More Replies...
View more commentsArrow down menu
#76

The Tax code

COVID_19_Lockdown Report

Add photo comments
POST
#77

a 2x4 is 2" by 4" when it is first cut from the tree. It gets milled down from there, so it is smooth and doesn't give splinters to you every time you look at it funny. You can get true 2"x4" 2x4's but you probably won't like them.

todaysgnus Report

ADVERTISEMENT
#78

How to read the instructions on your amazon return.

dynnk Report

Add photo comments
POST