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35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them, As Pointed Out In This Online Group

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We live in an inequal world and, sadly, some of us have more than others. And not necessarily material things, but just mondane things that we don't consider to be privileges, like decent health or loving parents. Maybe you wouldn't call these privileges, because they are normal to you, but there are people who can only wish to have that.

Reddit user vianneyal asked people "What is something people don't realize is a privilege?" to remind us all to be grateful for the simple things we have or the things that help us to live our lives more comfortably. The thread quickly grabbed the attention of Reddit users, being upvoted 55k times in less than two weeks. Folks were mentioning all sorts of things that they feel grateful for or, on the contrary, to have.

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#1

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them, As Pointed Out In This Online Group This might sound silly to some but the other night I decided to change my bedding randomly and realized how lucky I am to be able to swap to another clean set on a whim. Clean laundry, multiple blankets, a whole drawer of socks...those things make me feel rich. A lot of people don't have another set of clothes or a clean, safe bed to sleep in.

Anticrepuscular_Ray , Jennifer C. Report

Final score:

251points

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#2

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them, As Pointed Out In This Online Group Executive function.

Anyone in your life that you think is ‘lazy’, ‘messy’, etc. likely has some kind of executive function deficit. It’s common with depression, ADHD, ASD, and other mental illnesses. Imagine sitting somewhere, knowing you should do something, wanting to do it, but there is this weird mental block preventing you from getting up and doing it. That’s one of the many ways exec dysfunction manifests.

It is hell seeing normal people just be able to do s**t. And that goes for fun, happy things just as much as s****y, chore-type things. Even going to the bathroom when you feel the need to can be a struggle.

aliceroyal , MollySVH Report

Final score:

225points

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#3

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them, As Pointed Out In This Online Group Being able-bodied. Maybe it's cliche but seriously, all that can change in less than an instant. You never realize how much you take health for granted until it's screwed up.

DTownForever , Teo Romera Report

Final score:

218points

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#4

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them, As Pointed Out In This Online Group Buying groceries without having to carefully consider prices.

scooter-willie , Phillip Stewart Report

Final score:

217points

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#5

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them, As Pointed Out In This Online Group Running water 24/7 everyday

Zack4044 , Vuk Cosic Report

Final score:

211points

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#6

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them, As Pointed Out In This Online Group Having your parents to fall back onto for help or advice during adulthood.

I've been estranged since I've been 16, life ain't easy navigating the world alone.

NotMyCabbagesAgain , Muness Castle Report

Final score:

194points

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#7

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them, As Pointed Out In This Online Group Having the freedom to focus on things like hobbies or finding your passion instead of just basic human needs like keeping a roof over your head and food in your stomach.

Hrekires , Joe Shlabotnik Report

Final score:

187points

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#8

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them, As Pointed Out In This Online Group Toilets

Unisekaied-DemonLoli , EG Focus Report

Final score:

159points

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#9

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them, As Pointed Out In This Online Group Not having to pay bribes to survive

notveryoriginalname2 , Jeff Report

Final score:

154points

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#10

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them, As Pointed Out In This Online Group Privacy.

Not so much the whole big brother, everyone is watching/listening to everything thing, that’s a whole other can of worms. I’m talking about the simple pleasure of having a place which is just yours, with a door you can shut and be alone.

Mollinda , Nathan Wong Report

Final score:

145points

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#11

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them, As Pointed Out In This Online Group Having loving parents in a healthy marriage.

7c518c130a4c , Michael Stillwell Report

Final score:

143points

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#12

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them, As Pointed Out In This Online Group Being able to choose between Covid vaccines. Like there are many countries that are unable to get access to at least one vaccine, but in rich nations like the US, people can choose between which vaccine they want to get. And yet you have people who refuse to get the vaccine for non-legitimate reasons.

PumpkinSpiceBiscotti , Joint Base San Antonio Report

Final score:

139points

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#13

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them, As Pointed Out In This Online Group Having no gut or digestive issues.

I can tell you it's easier for people to accept when I say "I don't eat it because I don't like the taste" rather than saying "I can't eat it because it makes my stomach hurt"

For some reason, people think that because they can eat anything without any issues, the rest of the world can too. And if you say you can't, you're some sort of pretentious gluten-free hippie f******d who thinks they're better than everyone.

Some people just don't know how lucky they are yet they eat trash all the time.

Treat your bodies well people, especially if they work 100% correctly.

mainne1078 , Francisco Becerro Report

Final score:

136points

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#14

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them, As Pointed Out In This Online Group Being able to enjoy total silence.

(F**k tinnitus.)

Ozzel , Bonnie Report

Final score:

132points

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#15

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them, As Pointed Out In This Online Group Sewers. A literal city of tunnels you never see, draining and moving water in and out of your town/city, completely hidden from view. It's a f****n luxury and you'd be surprised how much of the world doesn't have that while the rest of the world never even thinks about it.

Happy8Day , denisbin Report

Final score:

131points

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#16

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them, As Pointed Out In This Online Group Eating three meals a day

wilmeist3r , llee_wu Report

Final score:

128points

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#17

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them, As Pointed Out In This Online Group Getting as much sleep as you need.

Character_Comb_3439 , Simon Shek Report

Final score:

120points

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#18

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them, As Pointed Out In This Online Group Having access to dentists in childhood.

Fr8ndInm8-2 , Aine Report

Final score:

118points

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#19

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them, As Pointed Out In This Online Group Some people don’t seem to realize how much of a privilege travel is.

There are a lot of privileges within that broad category, too. Some passports allow holders to travel pretty much anywhere they wish. Men can sometimes travel alone to places that women might rightly feel unsafe visiting. LGBTQ+ people are sometimes at greater risk than others, depending on the destination. White people are sometimes treated better as tourists than people of color.

There are layers and layers of privilege in travel, and I think sometimes certain people forget that.

glitterlok , Adam Witwer Report

Final score:

118points

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#20

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them, As Pointed Out In This Online Group being able to work from home, especially during the pandemic

leechi_not_kimchi , Robert and Talbot Trudeau Report

Final score:

115points

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#21

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them, As Pointed Out In This Online Group 1. going to university

2. being able to just do university while you're at university

4oodler , Jesús Corrius Report

Final score:

114points

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#22

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them, As Pointed Out In This Online Group Being able to quit a job without fear of losing financial stability.

AMiniMinotaur , Andre Charland Report

Final score:

108points

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#23

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them, As Pointed Out In This Online Group Air conditioning

93yourcultleader93 , Ivan Radic Report

Final score:

106points

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#24

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them, As Pointed Out In This Online Group Having the freedom to marry who you want.

BluePersephone99 , freeflight046 Report

Final score:

106points

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#25

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them, As Pointed Out In This Online Group Living in a nation where police actually receive rigorous training and are taught to use lethal force as a last resort.

DarthContinent , MIKI Yoshihito Report

Final score:

101points

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#26

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them, As Pointed Out In This Online Group Having both your parents alive when your past the age of 30

bfields2 , Joe Hepburn Report

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#27

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them, As Pointed Out In This Online Group Weekends off work.

I think about this every Saturday when the gardener comes to mow. He brings his son to help him. My kids are sitting in their PJs working on coding projects, while his son is out helping mow lawns. That is his kid's Saturday off school vs. mine. The danger is that someday, if my kids become programmers or whatever white collar job, they will look back and say, "It's because I worked hard to gain these skills," taking for granted the privilege of the time to do it.

CJs2cents3456 , Tony Alter Report

Final score:

99points

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#28

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them, As Pointed Out In This Online Group Having both nostrils unclogged.

ImRetarded42069 , Maria Rantanen Report

Final score:

96points

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#29

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them, As Pointed Out In This Online Group Enjoying what you do for a living

GhostOfSamurai , Brad Flickinger Report

Final score:

94points

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#30

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them, As Pointed Out In This Online Group Being in the life of family members.

I have yeeted people from my life who have made big surprised pikachu faces for things like stealing from me, emotional abuse, hitting me “even though they didn’t mean it they were just drunk/upset/emotional” whatever.

I give zero f***s about blood. If you want a place in my life, you keep it by being a decent person and that goes triple for relationships with my kids.

Edit: I do not let people around my kids just because they are blood related. If they’re abusive or creepy, they don’t get a free pass to be near my children.

madpiratebippy , m01229 Report

Final score:

91points

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#31

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them, As Pointed Out In This Online Group Going years without cancer or sickness

ThePerfectionisttThePerfectionistt , matryosha Report

Final score:

88points

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#32

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them, As Pointed Out In This Online Group Growing up in a first world country.

Reimu64 , Kristina D.C. Hoeppner Report

Final score:

83points

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#33

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them, As Pointed Out In This Online Group Choosing your diet

Bloominghell7 , Marco Verch Professional Photographer Report

Final score:

76points

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#34

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them, As Pointed Out In This Online Group I noticed that i was privileged with eating to my taste- my dad told me how in mexico they ate what they had, it was rural farm life, i mean he continued to eat that way even living here in america, he would buy me and my sister whatever we wanted and make eggs and beans for himself.

i can eat mexican food, japanese food, chinese,burgers,italian whatever really.

maybe_secretlysatan , Igor Shatokhin Report

Final score:

68points

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#35

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them, As Pointed Out In This Online Group Going on vacation.

Many people take it for granted and behave like you couldn't live without goin on vacation twice a year. At least in middle Europe.

Well yeah you can! I've been on real vacation like twice in my life. And I'm 23 years old.

EveryVoice , sean hill Report

Final score:

68points

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#36

Having no duty to join the army.

AARONJIN1 Report

Final score:

38points

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#37

The internet. Having an answer for every question.

Catatafish Report

Final score:

34points

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#38

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them, As Pointed Out In This Online Group Having access to technology. EDIT: referring to electronics

mythirdcommentingacc , John December Report

Final score:

31points

#39

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them, As Pointed Out In This Online Group Drivers License.

Volikand , Kelsey Jo Harrison Report

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#40

35 “Invisible” Privileges That Most People Don’t Notice Because They Have Them, As Pointed Out In This Online Group Living in a country with access to not only basic needs, but conveniences and luxuries as well.

fuelthefire121 , Tim Bartel Report

Final score:

24points

#41

Never having had to work a cleaning job

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Final score:

22points

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Having started as a content creator that made articles for Bored Panda from scratch I climbed my way up to being and editor and then had team lead responsibilities added as well. So it was a pretty natural transition from writing articles and titles as well as preparing the visual part for the articles to making sure others are doing those same tasks as I did before well, answering their questions and guiding them when needed. Eventually I realized editing gives me the most enjoyment and I'm focusing only on that right now.

Having started as a content creator that made articles for Bored Panda from scratch I climbed my way up to being and editor and then had team lead responsibilities added as well. So it was a pretty natural transition from writing articles and titles as well as preparing the visual part for the articles to making sure others are doing those same tasks as I did before well, answering their questions and guiding them when needed. Eventually I realized editing gives me the most enjoyment and I'm focusing only on that right now.

What do you think ?

Francesca Annoni 3 years ago

Free healtcare..

15points

Seabeast 3 years ago

Well, it's never actually free, it's paid for by taxes - but the cost is far, far less than it would be if you had to buy private health insurance.

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WildHoneyPie 3 years ago

I know this falls under being healthy but being able to breathe freely. My mother had rotten lungs from when she was 16 and for the rest of her life. Every time she'd see a new doctor they would invariably say "how long did you smoke?" Not even one single damn cigarette!

13points

John C 3 years ago

While most of these are a healthy reminder to be thankful for what we have (and that's always a good thing!), there's an undercurrent here that I think it wholly unhealthy. Shaming people for the good position they were born into makes just as much sense as shaming people for the bad position they were born into.

7points

Irina Deneva-Slav 3 years ago

Also, none of these are privileges. Some are luck, like having your parents live long enough, others are things we can afford by working, yet others are genetic. "Privileged" and "underprivileged" are antonyms yet regrettably they have come be interpreted as such. I do not have running water and money for food at the expense of anyone who can't afford these, there is no causal relationship between the two. I'm simply self-employed and lucky to live in a place with enough water, that's all. And I don't consider myself undeprivileged because both my parents were dead by the time I had my own child. Enough with the shaming.

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Cheri Aline Sydney 3 years ago

John, you expressed this well.... Part of enjoying life is wishing well for others!

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Ranch Dressing 3 years ago

Yeah... it's subtle but it's there

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Grace 3 years ago

Yes!

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Francesca Annoni 3 years ago

Free healtcare..

15points

Seabeast 3 years ago

Well, it's never actually free, it's paid for by taxes - but the cost is far, far less than it would be if you had to buy private health insurance.

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WildHoneyPie 3 years ago

I know this falls under being healthy but being able to breathe freely. My mother had rotten lungs from when she was 16 and for the rest of her life. Every time she'd see a new doctor they would invariably say "how long did you smoke?" Not even one single damn cigarette!

13points

John C 3 years ago

While most of these are a healthy reminder to be thankful for what we have (and that's always a good thing!), there's an undercurrent here that I think it wholly unhealthy. Shaming people for the good position they were born into makes just as much sense as shaming people for the bad position they were born into.

7points

Irina Deneva-Slav 3 years ago

Also, none of these are privileges. Some are luck, like having your parents live long enough, others are things we can afford by working, yet others are genetic. "Privileged" and "underprivileged" are antonyms yet regrettably they have come be interpreted as such. I do not have running water and money for food at the expense of anyone who can't afford these, there is no causal relationship between the two. I'm simply self-employed and lucky to live in a place with enough water, that's all. And I don't consider myself undeprivileged because both my parents were dead by the time I had my own child. Enough with the shaming.

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Cheri Aline Sydney 3 years ago

John, you expressed this well.... Part of enjoying life is wishing well for others!

0points

Ranch Dressing 3 years ago

Yeah... it's subtle but it's there

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Grace 3 years ago

Yes!

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