“I’m With The Boomers On This One”: 30 Old-Fashioned Things People Still Enjoy Doing, As Shared On This Online Thread
Interview“Back in my day, we had to actually call each other on the phone if we wanted to talk!”
“Back in my day, we used to write each other letters on paper!”
“Back in my day, we used to meet each other in person, not on this gosh darn internet!”
If you’ve ever heard someone lamenting the way technology has changed society (perhaps you’ve even said these things yourself), know that you’re not alone. Reddit users have recently been sharing the things they stand by doing the old-fashioned way, regardless of technology, and they've raised some excellent points.
Down below, you’ll find a list of things proving that newer might not always mean better, as well as an interview we were lucky enough to receive from William A., the man who sparked this conversation in the first place. To celebrate all of the things that are best done the old-school way, be sure to upvote the responses you agree with, and feel free to share anything else you like doing the old-fashioned way in the comments section. Then if you’re interested in checking out another Bored Panda article highlighting what else was better in the past, look no further than right here.
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Physical menus at restaurants. I'm with the boomers on this one
I'm against the qr code menus because some people don't have smart phones. Whether by choice(can't afford it don't want the ability to be reached at all times) or court mandate(some people f**k up and a condition of probation can be no unmonitored access to internet ready devices)
not to mention someone could screw up the coding behind a QR code leading to order mistakes....or the system could go down for a plethora of reasons. Those issues aren't going to crop up with a good ol' physical menu.
Load More Replies...I'm boomer at the point I didn't even understand what you were saying! I thought you were pointing out about that waiters telling you quickly all the menu in a while. This happens in little taverns in the county. But menu orders on an app, no no no. It never happens here where food is a religion. I'm an old italian cat lady, please be kind to me. :))
I HATE having to get out my phone and click around their menus. They almost always have the menu item but you have to click for the description. I usually don't go back
And In big font. I’m getting older lol. Oh and please provide a flashlight. Oh boy I’m getting old.
Lol. I use the camera on my phone, then zoom in to read, while scanning over the menu
Load More Replies...Went to a restaurant in DC, they had QR code menus...except you were expected...after hunting around for the wifi-password...to DOWNLOAD a specific QR reader. Noped right out of there. They reached out, because I had booked online, asking me to leave a review...I suggested that they really didn't want me to do that.
your response got me to recall a review i left for an overpriced, over recommended italian restaraunt....we were not thrilled with any of it and i left a 2 star only review....nothing nasty,just truthful reasons why we werent happy...it never got posted!...when you ck their reviews ,only 5 star ones are listed!...is that normal? or am i wasting time trying to be honest??
Load More Replies...Went into taco bell the other day on a hurry. Instead of ordering with a human is had to do it on and ordering screen that was confusing. Took 5 min tonfind the mexican pizza. I wanted to TELL SOMEONE MY ORDER!!!!
There's a small chicken and biscuits chain store I went to last week. You can only order from the computer screen. I've been there several times, and even so, I was struggling with the ordering. Got it taken care of and stood to the side to wait for my order. In the next 10 minutes or so, two couples each took like 5 minutes each to put their orders in. It would have taken maybe a minute tops for an actual human to process the orders. I could see the frustration in these other customers.
Load More Replies...Hard Rock Cafe has recently begun using these QR readers. They wouldn't serve my friend or me because we couldn't install them into our phones at the time. So all the staff ignored us. (Yes, we were fully vaccinated.) I mean they wouldn't even look our way! We finally just left, which was a shame because we used to spend a lot of money there. Won't be back.
Nothing beats fresh, home-baked bread, and AI will never be able to create masterpieces that true artists can. As grateful as I am that cell phones exist, I have to admit there are certain things I prefer doing the old-fashioned way as well. For example, I love my simple, old school watch. It does have a digital screen, but all it tells me is the date and time. No frills, no internet access, no tracking my steps, and no charging required. I already feel too plugged into the world with my phone on hand at all times. The last thing I need is notifications on my watch as well.
I also find that I prefer listening to music through classic old earbuds with a cord on them. I never need to remember to charge bluetooth earbuds, I don’t have to worry about one falling out while I’m on the bus or rushing down the street, and they are so much more affordable when they occasionally need replaced. These are just my personal preferences, but I am definitely of the opinion that there’s no need to fix what isn’t broken. And if a newer way of doing something does not enhance your experience or costs you an arm and a leg, there is no need to transition to that method.
Read. Love to have a book where I can turn the pages.
I read my favourite books over and over again and I like the idea of them growing old and wrinkly with me
The smell of new books and the smell of old books you read once a year, that little stain of coffee or tea you made 20 years ago. Exept for the few you mistakenly borrowed to your best friend and returned home with big odd stains and wrinkles. I'm very jelous of my books. I could even broke a friendship about it.
Load More Replies...I agree! Absolutely nothing can replicate that fragrance!!
Load More Replies...I have kindle on my phone ONLY cause it's easier than lugging a book or books to work or when traveling. When you're on a bus for 23 hours, the kindle app can be a lifesaver. I have it linked to my library card.
Yeah I love physical books and will always choose them when I have the option, but I'm not about to dismiss the value e-books either.
Load More Replies...Books will live forever📚📚💕 I love the smell of fresh books, no matter what
I’ve a huge book addict, and I thought e-books might me a cheaper option but I love the individually unique typography, smell, and the way a physical book feels. E-books all feel the same, you’re limited to just sight whereas with a physical book there’s touch, smell, and if you want to be daring, taste.
I would agree until I became disabled and couldn’t physically hold a book but my kindle has been a lifesaver!
Absolutely! Thank goodness for the kindle app. Otherwise I would be unable to read, and reading is my life! (And cats...)
Load More Replies...I like old hand-me-down books y’know? I like the smell. Don’t ask
I completely understand about the smell. When my husband and I visited the Old Library at Trinity College in Dublin, I inhaled deeply several times while walking around that room. Talk about old book smell. I was in heaven!!!! Hubby even looked at me and asked if he would have to drag me out of there. HA!
Load More Replies...Nice! I have a library in my house too. I love nothing better than to curl up in there with a book, maybe take a nap.......
Load More Replies...This! Its not fun reading on a screen! Real books are so much better and its easier to concentrate while readin a book vs. On screen.
Some simpleton downvoted you. Here's an upvote for you.
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I don’t need alexa to turn on s**t for me and i don’t need to clap lights on
I can walk allllll the way over to the switch
Yes, but not everyone can walk all the way over to the switch. Alexa & Co are fantastic for people with handicaps, who cannot walk all the way over to the switch.
Yes, it's comments like this (the OP's, not yours) for gadgets for things like sock helpers, or things to help with chopping vegetables where people seem to forget that disabilities and age and arthritis are things that exist and not everyone is privileged enough to have perfect physical health
Load More Replies...I think this too but have just ordered the stuff to turn my lights on and off as I'm disabled and bed bound a lot of the time so this will make my life a lot easier. I'm glad the technology exists but I wouldn't be using it if I wasn't disabled
There are older technologies that don't have any of the privacy issues, such as X10. The communication protocol dates back to the 1970s and all the devices are interoperable with each other, no phone/computer required.
Load More Replies...Yeah, no. Good thing there was nobody around with that attitude when the invented the TV remote.
Not really. As a society we are moving about less and less. There is very strong evidence that sitting down too much is literally killing us. Unless there is a very strong reason to do so, then we should be encouraging ourselves to stand up and move about *more* frequently rather than less.
Load More Replies...Who's being pathetic and down voting any comment from a user saying that they enjoy the benefits of smart devices? None of these comments are saying that the original post is wrong, just that they have a different perspective or experience. Does the down vote mean that they aren't entitled to share their opinion, on this opinion piece?
There is a jerky person(s) who does this all the time...downvotes a bunch of comments...If I see this, I upvote them all.
Load More Replies...Alexa is a god send invention for people with disabilities and mobility issues. A deaf person is very thankful for it and so does someone who can't actually walk. I know this is talking about something different but to be so blasé about the fact you can just effing walk over to a switch kind of insults those that, well, don't even have use of their legs. Just saying.
Sorry meant to say blind not deaf! Very obvious mistake there
Load More Replies...Okay, I am not into all the fancy new gadgets and technology but this!! I never even thought about how useful it would be when you dont want to get out of your warn and snuggly bed!
Load More Replies...We've got a fully smart home. Lights on motion sensors in certain rooms, heating, multiroom speakers. I love it.
But ,what if you lose your electric? Will you get locked in/ out of your home.? How would that work?
Load More Replies...Whenever I stay at my son's overnight, I always unplug his google thing when everyone goes to bed...it seriously creeps me out.
To gain more insight on this topic, we reached out to William A., the man who posed the initial question on Reddit in the first place. When it comes to what inspired him to start this conversation, William told Bored Panda, “I cannot stand taking notes for work meetings or brainstorming while typing. It's not that I'm against typing or a computer--I have a medium blog after all. It's just that for spur of the moment, or any writing that needs thought, I prefer a notebook.”
“I realized that when I was at the grocery store, and I seemed to be the only one with a paper list,” William shared. “And while I'm not young, young, I'm not that old.” He noted that he’s only 40, an “upper millennial”. “Also I don't ‘get’ TikTok, which is scary as someone with a professional background in social media,” William added. To be fair, TikTok is hard to get. I’m Gen Z, and I don’t even fully understand that app…
Physical board games/card games. Most of the app versions of the games I like aren't that great. Plus, it's more fun to play with someone.
Oh yesss... It was a black day for me when my small warhammer 40K gaming group fell apart because everyone else decided that sitting on their asses playing video games was more fun..... (Just when my fkn army was finally the way I wanted it )
*salutes the army and offers it a slightly pounced toy mousie*
Load More Replies...I like board games. Sadly I grew up as an only child lol but it's always so nice to play.
I love playing board games with my family. When we get together as a family me and all my cousins play board games and when my Nan stays over at my house (or vice Versa) - board games. Same with my grandad but we play chess more than any other games
An app will never be able to replicate the sheer joy of dropping an actual Uno reverse card in front of someone!
At least here in Italy this is not a boomer thing... For the older generations board games means Risiko and Monopoly, maybe Trivial Pursuit if they are daring. For us Millennials, Xers and so on? Follow me on the rabbit hole: https://boardgamegeek.com/
One game that is physical with an app we really enjoy is "descent" the 3rd Edition. The App leads you though the Story with a few variations, a little crafting System and has the rule book of course. Also how you build each campaigns maps (little like tabletop) and more
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I honestly prefer buying things completely instead of paying a monthly fee.
The way it's looking, everything's gonna be subscription-based soon. At the supermarket: Just £99.99 a month for our Poverty Package or you could upgrade to our Hint of Meat Package for £149.99 which includes a generous 5 grams of processed meat each week! This is the future.
It is a clever way to squeeze us every month and for them to have a more predictable income to appease their investors. Will someone PLEASE think of the shareholders (simpsons based sarcasm).
You still use CDs? And I thought I was old school with using an iTunes library!
Load More Replies...The bonus for companies with the subscription format is that often you forget you have it, don't use it, but keep making those monthly payments.
They still find a way to screw you. When Tivo was popular, I bought a 'lifetime' service plan for hundreds. Tivo died a couple months later. CS helpfully advised me that that lifetime service plan only pertained to that particular Tivo and could not be transferred to another one. Then they said I was lucky to get a few years out of it because they were designed to fail. So they sell lifetime service plans, but only for a specific unit and those units are designed to fail after a few years. Is there a business out there that isn't just one big scam?
Because of budgets,low income, not everyone qualifies for being able to pay in full. Many times we are forced to make payments, can't afford to buy necessary things outright. They claim the don't check your credit, then why do you need my ss#?
The way things are these days I'd like to be paid in gold or platinum.
Physical buttons for climate controls in a car. I refuse to buy a car that only uses a touch screen for everything. Much safer to not have to fiddle with a touch screen while driving.
How is a touchscreen in a car different from the touchscreen on a smartphone? One is legal to use, and the other one is illegal to use!
Exactly and my car disables many functions while driving. It drives me mad. How about a physical button so I don't have to look and can adjust what I need to adjust.
Load More Replies...THIS. Climate control is one, but who thought sound volume control would be great to place on touchscreen too? *my trying to mute that radio ad before my head explodes, while trying not to hit the street light pole*
And the radio ad just happens to be 5 times as loud as the music you were listening to.
Load More Replies...My wife and I just bought a new car and we got a Mazda. No touchscreen was a huge selling point. I can’t understand why anyone would think that removing all the haptic feedback in a large fast moving object would be a good thing.
This would be a plus for me as well; it's just one of the reasons why I'm hanging onto my Honda for as long as possible
Load More Replies...I only drive and deal in restored classic cars from late sixties, seventies to early eighties. All I need is reliable powertrain with good horsepower, aircon, stereo and comfy seats. If I ever decide to go electric, I will do an electric conversion on one of my cars. Modern cars just don't do it for me. Holden-GTS...561b00.jpg
I can also fix toggles and buttons much easier than a touch screen.
I feel you. I'm missing the physical buttons in my Golf 8 as well. However, that's on purpose so no one would push them while driving anymore. I'm forced to use the voice control. And the voice control is great. "I have cold feet" and the blower turns on. "The windshield is fogged up" and the fan turns on. All in all, it takes a little while getting used to, but it's less distracting in traffic.
Voice control is less distracting but not safer, if that's the only option available. Voice recognition software still struggles to get what people with accent say right and VC is not available in all languages. However I agree VC is a godsend when it works for you.
Load More Replies...There's downsides to both of these. I'm pretty sure if the button isn't working, you need to get that entire section replaced. But if the computer part isn't working, you need to replace that whole thing. Cars are just designed to fail after a certain time, just like anything else, because no company is for the people
But it turns out that William does prefer to do most things the modern way. “Memory retention is better with writing notes I find, and it seems to bring inspiration,” he told Bored Panda. “I like the tactile feedback of writing too. The reason I latch onto this as one of the old fashioned things I do, is because I'm all the way in on tech on other things.”
“For example, I'm all about ebooks. I'm all about reading comics on a tablet. I'm all about Uber and ridesharing,” William explained. “I'm all about texting--I try to avoid phone conversations, and if I'm on one for more than 10 minutes I start to get uncomfortable. I'm even okay with digital/mobile menus at restaurants that many complain about! I use apps/Google calendar for reminders, etc. It's just the note taking, brainstorming/goal planning and grocery lists that I like on paper.”
I print photos and keep them in photo albums. I like to keep the special moments of life as a book and go through it page by page.
So much nicer to sit with someone looking through a physical album rather than a phone screen
Well, there's an alternative that I do like. Make a digital album and show it on the TV to the whole family. My parenta use to go to India every year. When they returned it was really fun: they got the whole family together, we had a big dinner, and afterwards they'd connect the camera on the tv and tell us all their adventures. It was a lot of fun and really comfortable for all.
Load More Replies...I cannot stand looking at someone's pictures on their phone. I'll look at one or two and then nope, enough.
Plus you are more less likely to loose a photo album than your phone with all your pictures😳
A lot of my memories of my past are not accessible to me unless I have a photo or an item from the event or place to trigger that memory in my head. This is not something I will ever change, if I want to be able to remember things when I get older.
Printed photos are much smaller, you can watch them with no more that one additional person, if you are more people, you have to pass them, but then not everyone watches the same photo at the same time, so you cannot tell stories about them. And reflections... A window, or a lamp, or anything else. Watching photos in albums is so uncomfortable.
But the same can be said for looking at a phone or tablet. Not to mention, older people (like me) who touch the screen wrongly and the photo, graphic or whatever I'm supposed to be looking at, disappears. I do well to know how to work my smart (a*s) phone, I sure as he -double hockey sticks
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Buy music. Unfortunately buying cds just isn't as easy as it used to be. But I prefer physical media, and just convert it to digital. I hate streaming music. I don't trust the stuff I love to always be available. I like having ownership of what I listen to
I have an older car that still has a cd player so i buy cd's from thriftshops and fleamarkets and my SO and I go driving and listen to the albums, it's so great! I just bought 10 albums for €10,-! And good stuff too, I got SOAD, Jamiroqai, Tracy Chapman, Janis Joplin etc. It took me forever to find one of those multi cd sleeve thingeys though, those seem to have dissapeared completely :p
Where I live those multi cd sleeve cases are everywhere at the second hand stores, dollar each.
Load More Replies...I don't like that Spotify is as expensive as Netflix. But both of those services give me access to music and shows from my country, that were difficult at best to access before they existed. It's nice to hear my people's voices without having to travel 10,000 kilometers.
I do miss the sense of permanence that owning a thing could give. Subscriptions can all be yanked away for many reasons.
Guess that makes me the middle ground with buying music through iTunes still.
I still buy CDS where I can. Its nice to have a backup in case something happens to the digital copy but sadly since Paypal is playing silly buggers at the moment, I cannot buy CDS on bandcamp right now. Which is a shame because a lot of their artists, don't have their CDS anywhere else and most of your money goes to them direct, not just the label.
I prefer the universality of Spotify, but yeah it is extremely annoying when songs become unplayable because of licensing disagreements
Given the choice between phone and laptop, I'll use the laptop for everything.
Yeah, but I’d rather drop a phone on my face while scrolling in bed…imagine a laptop
I do it an even more old-fashioned way. I prefer doing computer work on a desktop computer.
I can ONLY work using a desktop and a huge a*s monitor, or even two sometimes!
Load More Replies...I'm 35 and at home I use only PC. A smartphone only when I'm on the way or at home in the toilet.
We don't mean to be cranky "Boomers", but after 40, close-up vision starts to fade away. Trying to read something on a 2"x2" screen is challenging in a moving car. You'll "see".
40 is when I started wearing glasses, like many people. I can read small print just fine with them. I had a few years in my 40s when I only needed reading glasses, and that was a bit annoying taking them on and off. Now, I just have progressives and they're on my face all the time. By 50 I couldn't read a darned thing on my phone or a laptop without them. Well, I can read text on my laptop but I'd have to zoom this page to 400%, which is pretty inconvenient. Considering how much I need to read to do basic things in life, going without glasses is just not an option for me. So since I can read as well as I did when I was young when I wear them, I'm fine with a phone. I know plenty of folks older than me that are way more glued to their smart phones than I am. Though if you have a 2" screen, I'm guessing that's not a smart phone. Those tend to have 6" screens or even larger these days.
Load More Replies...We were also curious what William’s reactions were to the responses on his Reddit post. He noted that not very many resonated with him, as he is typically pro-tech, but he did find some of the replies interesting. “Someone mentioned buying things instead of a monthly fee which I found interesting,” William shared. “It's a philosophical question--if you are experiencing something and it's good, or something is adding value to your life, does it matter if you own it, if the enjoyment or utility is the same anyway?”
“Someone else said given a choice between phone and laptop, they'd use the laptop for everything,” he added. “I'm 40, and it's frightening how quickly computers/PCs have been superseded by phones. It's like you sound or look ancient if you are using a desktop computer or laptop now.”
Make notes on paper. I will typically use index cards because they are not as easy to "fly away" or get crumpled or lost. But hey.... that's just me!
The notebook is not just a type of computer. Pocket-size, letter/A4, etc are all great with a nice, smooth pen.
And when you write out something by hand your hand remembers the movements and what you’ve written better than when you type. Helpful when learning to spell certain words or remembering things for a test.
I proofread student essays often. I HATE using a tablet or my computer. Pen and paper are easily 2x faster. Although, marking up a PDF is easier to change corrections
At my work, I have to keep notes. For security reasons - customer data protection - not allowed to write anything on paper, even non sensitive information. So we have app for notes. Absolutely useless distracting POS.
Index cards are great for notes. I do lists, recipes, everything.
Fun finding old recipes my mum wrote down on index cards, stuck in old recipe books.
Load More Replies...I journal every day... I actually journal in cursive every day. Nothing can replace the feeling of a ultra fine tip pen and a piece of paper ❤️
I still write my grocery list on a note pad, I hate having to input on my phone.... It became a pain especially if you have security on your phone while you're out and about and you keep having to do facial ID.
Wear an analog watch. It's so easy just to glance at your wrist instead of fiddling around with your phone to get the time.
Uh oh, has anyone checked to see if the dolphins are still here?
Load More Replies...I found since having a kid time has become so much more important. Never had a watch before now I use it constantly
I don't know why you were down voted, here's an upvote .
Load More Replies...But it’s not fiddling. You just look at it, it turns on and there is the time! You don’t even have to press any buttons.
Let's see how many steps this takes. Let's say you just woke up in the dark. You have to: reach over to the nightstand, find your phone, grab your phone, bring your phone to your face, it's dark so it can't tell if you're in front of you so you DO have to push buttons(even in the light often times the feature doesn't work right), you push the power button, you wait for your eyes to adjust to the nuke you just launched on and then blammo you've checked the time.yourself,
Load More Replies...I have a Galaxy Watch 4 and with the right face, it's great. You can do an Always On Display too so it's always on. If I get a message, I can glance down to see if I need to respond quickly or not. And the most often used feature, since my short term memory is terrible, Find My Phone
This is me. And one with a second hand, please. (Pulse checking. I'm in medicine. It gets to be a habit.)
Analog watches and clocks show you time in context. Digital just gives you the current point. With an analog you can see how far past and how long until a particular point, so 11:50 becomes "almost noon". That actually fits how people think better.
I was on the hunt for a smart watch a while ago, I can't realistically carry my phone with me at all times at work so I started looking at smart watches. After rejecting one after another I realized the problem: I don't want to keep track if my health with numbers that some second or third party has access to, I have vision issues so I can't use the screen very well, and I don't want to text on a small screen, away at work I rarely have cell service and never Wi-Fi. I just wanted to tell time. And now I'm looking for a strong watch that handle my job.
I still use an old school calendar. I like looking at the entire month and being able to just “write” and not have to keyboard from my ipad or iphone. We do use the google calendar for family stuff so we are all on the same page for activities, work, babysitting etc. Each has its purpose
Agreed! You can see at a glance how soon you need to start faking illness so you don't have to go.
LOVE my planner and fridge calendar for this exact reason. I put in the calendar and can see at a glance when I have to start making excuses to cancel.
Load More Replies...I remember things better when they’re written on a physical calendar. My husband just uses his phone and he’s constantly forgetting appointments.
I love paper calendars (I'm sorry Environment!). I like taking notes and seeing the whole month in a glance. My parents too. I give them one big enough for them to write their medical appointments. It's a Christmas tradition now, and I always customize the calendar with family birthdays and national holidays.
I'm sceptical about "printed stuff bad, online stuff good" as far as sustainability goes - all the network infrastructure needed to maintain your online calendar is also pumping out CO2 into the atmosphere, etc.
Load More Replies...Plus you get lovely artwork or photography that changes every month (I like the JRR Tolkien calendars and waterfall ones)
Of late I reuse the calendars and make them into envelopes. They are really nice for small gifts.
Load More Replies...We put everything important on the paper calendar. If it’s something we might need to check in the car or something (my dad gets us to check) it’s on the calendar app
Don't know why you got a down vote, so have an upvote on me
Load More Replies...When I need note appointment, first I write it down in calendar, then make note on phone.
I love those big red and white calendars that you can scribble all over
When I switched to a digital calendar, I still found myself glancing up towards the bulletin board above my desk to know what date it was. So after a while, I printed a medium sized calendar, and stuck it up there. JUST for the “glancing” purpose! 💕
One response that actually did resonate with William is the love for driving manual cars. “Manual cars are a joy to drive, and GenZers and younger millennials have no idea what they're missing,” he told Bored Panda. “But that's if one actually enjoys driving and doesn't look at it as a chore to get from point A to point B. I learned as a teen on manual. I'm car-less now, have been for 5 years, but last car I had was a VW2014 CC-R Line, and it was one of the only consumer cars available as manual at the time, outside of the sports enthusiast cars.”
In-person checkouts.
I don't know why but I just hate those automated self-checkouts.
Every time I've tried an automated check out, something has gone wrong. Either an item needs a member of staff for age validation, or something doesn't scan, or it doesn't like the way I've put the basket on one side, or the way I've put the carrier bag on the other side. So every time the alarm goes off and a member of staff has to come over and fiddle with something. It's slower, more frustrating and the waiting time for a free machine is just the same as a manned checkout desk, so I've given up.
*UNEXPECTED ITEM* What were you expecting? This is a supermarket full of things that supermarkets sell. How can you not be expecting baked beans? Imagine if a cashier did that. 'Sorry sir, I wasn't expecting cornflakes. I thought you were gonna have muesli, see? You'll have to wait while I get a supervisor. She'll be here in a minute to coax me back to work. Confused me, that. '
I actually really like self checkouts, I don’t need check out clerks judging the amount of snacks I’m buying
I for one like self-service checkouts because they never open your shampoo, smell it, and approve of your choice. I was absolutely dumbstruck when she did that. I was very glad I didn't buy anything from the deli.
Load More Replies...We call them the 'put people out of work' lines. We refuse to use them.
I'll tell you the same things I tell my dad...refusing to use them is counterproductive and won't eliminate them; it's just the way the shopping experience is evolving. Did you also refuse to pump your own gas once it became self service? Have you ever ordered something online? Who's job do you think you eliminated? That's the same principle. Less than a hundred years ago shoppers weren't allowed to pick their own items off the shelf, shopping was a full service experience, but since customers prefer to shop for themselves, there was no longer a need for that job. Jobs are created at the same rate jobs are eliminated, it's just evolution, plain and simple, and as long as customers want convenience and to do things for themselves, automated services will never go away
Load More Replies...Personally, it's not that I can't stand talking to shop staff... it's that I'm a bit of a misanthrope and my social filters have degraded to a point where it's probably just better if I can avoid a conversation about anything, lest I say something stupid or ignorant.
Load More Replies...You ever ordered something online? Who's pay did you take away? Besides, imagine all the jobs created to maintain and service the self checkouts, or to develop the software, or to install them, or write the training manual...the point is, people still get paid, and boycotting them won't stop progress
Load More Replies...My bet is that self checkout doesn't make the groceries even one cent cheaper... If we are paying for service, give it to us. And don't forget to bag the stuff as well....
Savings aren't passed to the consumer. They're pocketed by the company.
Load More Replies...Wired headphones. I don't have to charge them and I can use them during flights.
As a person with shallow pockets, if my butt forces my phone out while I'm walking, the cord of my headphones usually prevents it from smashing to the ground.
How do you not break your phone if it's in your pocket when you sit down?
Load More Replies...But the cord always tears my headphones out when it catches on drawer knobs and my knees when I bend down and anything else that sticks out. I love my cordless, charging necessary or no.
Nothing will ruin my day faster than a door k**b ripping out my headphones! :(
Load More Replies...I personally prefer wireless headphones specially the ones that cover both ears like earmuffs because it stops my cat from destroying them, and I can walk 30 meters away from my phone without having the jolt of forgetting that I had wired headphones and sending my phone across the living room
Same for wired controllers (video games) I'd rather not spend a million on batteries, it's wasteful, and easier to just use a wired connection)
I think Xbox is the only console now that still requires batteries; PlayStation and Switch are all directly rechargable controlers and have been so for this gen and the last. But of course, a big solution to that is invest in some rechargable batteries.
Load More Replies...For years I had wired headphones that kept tangling me up and breaking every three months, so I finally saved up to get wireless headphones that don't trip me and never need replacing. It's been a great investment for my bank account, safety and sanity.
There are wireless headphones now that can be used with a cord as well. I have a set that provide really great active noise cancellation and excellent sound with 30 hours of battery life. They come with a cable you can plug in an use them wired. They even have an adapter to use with the old style airplane headphone jack. I use them wirelessly most of the time, but it's nice to have the option.
I’m sure they’re talking about plugging the wired headphones into the planes entertainment system to watch the movies and not use the terrible airline provided headphones.
Load More Replies...i hate charging things, Mouse, book, cigarette, headphones. I don;t buy wireless if I can
Wired for computer/TV viewing, but wireless for travel. I've had my wired headphones pulled out getting caught on jammed mass transit, so I made the switch.
Physical buttons on most things.
I understand how touch screens and trackpads are more flexible, but I really enjoy the tactile sensation, the certainty that you definitely pressed the right button.
The extra sensation that allows you to more precisely press buttons, and the ability to press buttons with things besides your bare finger, like a gloved finger or your knuckle because you're holding something, and probably a few other things I can't think of right now.
The volume control in the car NEEDS to be a k**b. (WTF, k n o b is now offensive???)
It's British slang for a b*****d [b e l l end or more properly, the glans] (oh come ON! I KNOW a guy who has that as his last name!)
Load More Replies...Fun fact about those, they're just an armored shell on top of a completely standard telephone keypad. The satisfying click is the captive metal button pressing into the plastic button underneath.
Load More Replies...I used to have nightmares in which no phones anywhere worked because they had turned into toys instead. Maybe it's kind of coming true now...
Even those gloves that allow you to still use touch screens aren't the same.
I can never get them to work and end up taking the glove off anyway.
Load More Replies...The first car I bought new I wanted manual everything possible because things like electric locks and windows, when they break are more expensive to fix. Next car, not at all an option.
Yes! I hate electric windows, for the reasons you stated, and also because we used to arrive at our destination and forget about the windows and then have to put the key back in, turn it to the right position, roll 'em up ... blah, blah.
Load More Replies...I also loved that before touchscreens you could text message without being a nuisance (ie text without looking at the phone, keeping it below the table/desk) if you had something important to reply to during class, meetings, etc.
I can do that perfectly well, with my smartphone thanks?
Load More Replies...“Some of the ones that did NOT resonate with me at all are the huge number of responses that preferred physical books, though that's a common answer,” William shared. “I don't want to pile up books in my home, or have to carry a book around. An ebook is weight-less! Or paying with cash--why? Money to lose, money to have to put in your pocket, something extra to think about.”
Drawing. I never really got the hang of digital art. It's much easier and more satisfying for me to have all of the tactile input from my work. Also, I sew, and along the same lines I prefer to hand-draft patterns.
Using digital art can be fun to a point, but it’s so hard for it to mimic that feeling or texture with pencil, charcoal, brush on paper or canvas. Sure you can turn out more art and fix mistakes or “happy accidents” (if you know you know lol) on the screen buts it’s not the same in my opinion
As a digital artist I definitely agree w the texture thing, although many expensive drawing tablets or pads mimic it nowadays! I just really enjoy digital art due to there being essentially no limits of what i can create if i buy a program or use a free one. Definitely expensive but there are so many forms of digital art I can create like 3d models/renders, animations, and simple drawings. Of course i do enjoy my traditional though! Never leave home w/o pencils and a sketchbook.
Load More Replies...Yes, I know what you mean! I've always enjoyed drawing in permanent marker. The fragrance is quite moreish.
Load More Replies...I'm mostly learning digital art because I am broke, and supplies are expensive. I like being able to get any color I want
Not to mention the ease of sending digital art instantly to almost anywhere in the world!
Load More Replies...Agreed, i also love my watercolor sketch books. Oh, and nothing beats a kneaded erasure.
OMG I haven’t used one in years, but you just brought back the strongest sense memory of the smell and spongy/sticky texture of a freshly stretched eraser!😍
Load More Replies...I like to feel a painting's texture the way i'm used to petting an animal. It comes from instinct
I think that as a general rule, "hands on" provides a more satisfying experience. Even people who have "grown up with" electronic intermediaries may find an added pleasure in simply applying pencil to paper, hammer to nail, and the like. Dependence on intermediaries can diminish humanity and produce learned helplessness. Mine is the view of someone very old--81 years--but surely there are some 15-year-olds who also find it ridiculous to have Alexa turn off the lights instead of getting up themselves and throwing the switch with their own hands?
I'm not good at hand-drawing, and I'm more of an analytical thinker, so digital art works way better for me. I wouldn't say it's fair to compare the two though. Hand-drawn art is very much its own medium than something digital. It's like trying to compare sculpting and painting, honestly. You can do way different things with digital art.
What low key worries me is that digital art isn’t exactly guaranteed to last very long. We can still see art from the Stone Age, but computers from twenty years ago are basically useless. And if there’s just one heavy sun storm hitting us, the entirety of digital art is gone forever. Granted, we’ll initially have bigger problems on our hands in that scenario, but the art will still be gone. All of it. Without a trace. For good. And printing it out on paper won’t do much either, paper isn’t exactly famous for its durability nor does printer colours last long, no matter how advanced the printer. I hope there’s never any kind of crisis including technology, because it’d really suck if almost all the awesome art from our era disappears completely.
There’s something satisfying and nostalgic about seeing the physical photos. I have my favorites displayed in frames, so I can see them every day. Makes me happy.
this is why i love polariods i like to have something to keep and look back on
darkrooms are so relaxing aren't they? i don't miss the smell of the developer, but I miss being able to work in one.
Load More Replies...People take thousands of digital photos that no one is going to care about later in life. No one cares because its just too many and they can't connect themselves to the photo. Physical photos are special because they are singled out to be printed up, they are lovingly displayed or put into an album, and normally information is provided about who, what, where the subject is either verbally or written on the back. Yes info can be attached on a digital photo but when you have thousands it easier to deal with just a hundred.
Likewise, there is a special thrill to getting an actual postcard instead of an e-mail.
When you can get a handle on how the physical film works, your photos turn into the best works of art there is. Nothing compares, no matter how good digital will get.
Tap water is still pretty great; just keep some in the fridge and it's all you need. F**k your bottled water.
Not all tap water is created equally. Mine has a distinct odor and taste. I doubt it will kill me, but at least during summer, I want bottled wayer.
Have you tried filtering your tap water? For me it works great - the smell and funkiness are gone in a single flow
Load More Replies...It highly depends on where you live, as the quality/impurities in water vary drastically depending on your geological location.
Does tap water become bottled water when you fill a bottle with it? Or is it just tap water in a bottle? Shoulda put this in the shower thoughts thread the other day.
Considering that most bottled water is already just tap water from wherever it was bottled... I think the only distinction is how you personally received it.
Load More Replies...Bottled water is killing the planet. Not from the plastic, scientists are actually genetically modifying some creatures to be able to eat plastics now. It's taking way too much water from natural resources and keeping it stored in a degrading material that then gets those chemicals in your body through the container. You really wanna help, get a Brita filter.
This one, it really depends where you live, water treatment and how easy is to access water. I live in Portugal, Lisbon suburbia, and tap water is great. Unless you have a medical condition there's no reason to buy bottled water. However, in the Algarve tap water doesn't taste as good, so I just boil and make tea (herbal) and drink it instead. As for bottled water, it's important to know how to read the labels and find whether the water you're drinking is suitable for you.
I'm blessed with a mountain spring well. It does have a bit of high iron but a whole house filter system takes care of that and it's the coldest and best water I ever had. And I do have a re-usable bottle to fill up.
“I actually have not tried to do more things the old-fashioned way,” William shared. “I'm all in on the principle of minimalism and decluttering, both physical and mental. I don't like having ‘stuff’--especially unnecessary stuff--to have to see or think about. I'm so strict about this that even my color palette in my office is all neutrals plus one color. My clothes are all neutral, with some purple--but other than that, all neutral. I like to automate about 85% of everything I do or think about, and then be very deliberate and/or guilt-free and unapologetic about that 15%.”
Cooking. I prefer to make meals from scratch. Not all of these pre made powders and dressings.
I only use the pre made powders bc I’m still learning to cook. Once I get better a cooking I’ll do it from scratch!
Yes. I get that you don't wanna spoil or misuse or waste 'good stuff' and fresh herbs can be expensive. But fresh parsley or chives or garlic is quite cheap. Don't be afraid to use it and to make mistakes. You'll learn better.
Load More Replies...I have seen a lot of unnecessary downvote. Please don't. It's not like buttons on fb. Downvote can lead to suspension or ban. Don't downvote randomly.
Until Boredpanda takes responsibility for its own broken systems then this will continue to happen. I've been perma-banned multiple times for correcting blatantly false statements.
Load More Replies...100%! And (probably) more healthy... although my home made pies and cobblers eh... not so much! LOL!
For some things I like to buy at least some kind of pre made products, like mayo for salads. And I like to prepare something in advance, like we prepared a lot of mushrooms in breadcrumbs for winter.
Fun thing about recipes too is that you can flavor them to your liking. Recipe sounds like it has too much heat? Use less red pepper flake or add more lemon. Sounds like it might need a touch of something? Try wine! Your favorite herb isn't in there? If you know enough flavors, you know what you can put in that won't be askew with the rest! (For anything savory and not baking, use some paprika. Doesn't matter the type. Just use it.)
Agreed. I make my own version of Old Bay for about $0.25 rather than $4.00+ at the store. Plus adjusting spice blends to your personal taste. Custom spice blends for literally pennies!
After I did a food sensitivity test, found out I was lactose intolerant and had gluten issues. Went back to making everything from scratch. I can't even tolerate preservatives!!
Going out to eat without our phones. Leave them in the car or in a purse or something. There's very little reason to have a phone attached to you at all times. Put down the phone and pick up a conversation.
I have my phone with me always because you actually don’t know what could happen while out. It just makes me feel safer but I’m not checking it constantly and always on it
A lot of people feel that way, but I think that's part of the problem. Anxiety is at an all time high, and phones enable it (although the world causes it rn for sure)
Load More Replies...With restaurants going digital for menus your phone is kind of a necessity now when dining out
Easy peasy. I walk in and the restaurant has digital-only menus - I turn around and walk out. Same with any restaurant that has tablets on the table that ask for "feedback on your experience" aka. we want to find an excuse to give your server less hours. As consumers we have power over these things if we choose to use it.
Load More Replies...I went to an expensive restaurant to celebrate my friend's birthday, and there was a table of 5 young women (about 17 to 21) on their phones the entire time. My questions why would you go to an Expensive meal with your friends and not talk to your friends? It means you were essentially not in the restaurant and not with your friends.
Maybe they were talking about whatever was on their phones? They could have been adding up the bill with the calculator, or looking up movie reviews/times for their next activity or anything where the phone usage added to the evening.
Load More Replies...So sad to see a group of people at a table and all of them are on their phone. "Hey, let's get together some time and not pay attention to each other!"
I like to take a single picture of my food so that I remember what to get again and where if I really love it (or for bragging to a friend later) but then immediately stash it face down under my wallet and keys so that I don't pick it up. It makes enough noise unearthing it that reminds me I shouldn't be touching it.
I can only Vote once... but this need to be much higher! Eat and Communicate and stop making Pictures of your food
some friends I know take their phones but when they reach the restaurant they stack them in the middle of the table. If any of them answer a call or use their phone at all, they have to pay the bill for the whole table.
Writing letters. And I still love the feeling of reading a physical book, although I do also use audiobooks/psfs/ect now too.
But the smell of an old book and the crinkly pages and when it's a well loved story? Asdfdaa
The smell and the crinkly pages…. ahhhhhhh. And writing physical letters is real helpful especially when a friend moves away when you don’t have a number or email. My mate moved several hours up north and she didn’t have messages or email so physical letters
Why do so many people like the smell of OLD books? NEW book smell is SO much better.
I think it's about old books of your own self. They talk deeply to your soul when you open their pages.
Load More Replies...Got a wax seal as a creative way not to mail saliva along with greeting cards. It's actually a nice, meditative process, and feels like being in a candlelit fantasy movie.
What about how nice it is to receive a letter?. A REAL letter from a friend?.
My university classmate had a hobby of writing traditional letters. He was that kind of self-absorbed dude who loves the sound of his own voice. I'd never have guessed there is a person who can talk for literal HOURS about ink pens xD
I recently celebrated my 70th birthday. As a gift, one relative and two friends from grade school (without collaboration) used the reasoning that they were decluttering their homes to send me letters I wrote them back in the 70s-90s. I didn't even remember writing most of them, but I recognized my handwriting and the life events I shared. From mundane foolishness to a recounting of my love story with my boyfriend, then husband, then the father of my children. I shared them with my daughters. It was a look at me the way I used to be and think. I was so young and crazy. It was a gift. I only wish I had kept their letters to send back in return.
“Life changes so much, and I have a high tolerance for uncertainty and change,” William told Bored Panda. “Yet I like to keep an anchor to being old-fashioned. Another version of this is how in every area in the local DC area that I've lived in, I try to keep a connection. I kept my dentist in the area where I grew up, I have a barber in a different neighborhood that I lived in. I keep those links, but then I change everything else."
"I see the principle of being all in with technology to simplify our lives as being along the lines of how Obama famously limits his daily decisions because his daily cognitive budget is limited. We can all suffer from decision fatigue having to think of all these little things. Being all in on tech can help remove many many other smaller decisions,” William noted. “But then, that wistful, romantic, sentimental part of me will hang on to just that one old-fashioned thing. Hello shopping list, and note taking with good old pen and paper. You cannot call me a robot now,” he added with a smile.
shopping in person. I usually read reviews of an item online and buy it in person. The problem is, here in Canada you can't find anything decent in person anymore, everything but the most basic stuff is only online
That's also a great way of supporting local shop owners, invaluable during difficult times.
Unfortunately I’ve noticed local places are always pricier, at least here where I live. I can’t afford to pay more all the time, especially with costs rising, I’ve gotta save every little bit I can. If the prices were the same I’d definitely shop and support local places, I just can’t afford to.
Load More Replies...I hate online shopping. I only do it when the bookstore a family got a gift card from for me is an hour away. Online shopping takes too long as well. Shipping - costs more money AND you have to wait
I'm a Canadian and I have no idea what this person is talking about. I find stuff I research online all of the time. You just have to look for it. Make a better effort before disparaging the country!
As a fellow Canadian: I'd be interested to know what anything "decent" is. This may also be geographically dependent (I know some areas were hit harder by the pandemic and saw lots of local business close so it might be majority online shopping in some areas). I personally haven't noticed this issue, but maybe we're shopping for different things.
Hate shopping with a passion. Spending a day in a mall is my idea of hell on earth. But I do like to physically touch or see the thing I’m buying. Sometimes the colour is different to the online photo. Or it feels flimsy and plasticky when it looked solid. Unfortunately online retailers are usually cheaper so it’s a complicated process of researching online, going to the store and trying it, then ordering it online again 🙄
Canada does not have the wide array of options that Americans have in terms of purchasing items, but in no way is everything fabulous online. There's a whole movement of locally-made goods and shops, not to mention some great stores.
The only thing I don't care about buying online is stuff like computer parts. You see the reviews, you know the components you need, you can see the quality...it's all basically the same. Everything else though I need to see for myself
Recently spent a whole day of driving to 2 different malls and countless stores looking for comfortable, affordable, stylish shoes for women that aren’t heels or sneaker. Turns out that’s a much harder ask these days. Didn’t find anything so I came home and ordered 5 pairs of shoes off Amazon. Each between $25-45 and they came directly to my house. Tried on, returned the three that didn’t work. I would have preferred to buy local but it’s harder if you need something specific and are on a budget.
I try to raise, grow, hunt, and forage as much as my own food as possible. It's expensive and time consuming but the result for my mental health is priceless. I know my scale isn't possible for everyone but i highly recommend atleast growing something from seed to plate, the sence of pride and accomplishment you'll feel is hard to describe.
I'm a bit of a raiser, grower, hunter, forager myself. So far I have raised a puppy (we couldn't eat him when it came down to it), grown a collection of thistles, hunted for my keys and foraged for loose change down the sofa. My mental health is sh!t. What am I doing wrong? I must be doing something wrong.
tomatoes that ripen in the sun in your garden /balcony are sooo tasty, also pumpkins are so easy to grow -low maintenance
If you have neither and need to do some "stealth gardening" potatoes grow great in a tire full of potting mix.
Load More Replies...I’m remembering my COVID “victory garden” where I forgot to add any fertilizer, and my entire carrot crop fit into the palm of my hand 😆
I had that happen with potatoes one year. Realized that I had heavy soil and needed to till in some sand the next year. Had beautiful looking plants but itty bitty potatoes. LOL!
Load More Replies...I have managed to grow tomatoes and even found baby potatoes in my little patch. They tasted awesome.
Kinda can't where I am. Soil has nearly no nutrients for food plants and it gets too damn hot.
Aww MushroomFrog, it is hard when that happens. Only the hardiest of houseplants have been able to survive in my home (mostly spider plants, aloe and philodendrons). I stopped bringing ivy home a long time ago after several failed attempts.
Load More Replies...All that time and effort and months of waiting and nurturing a plant to yield a few tomatoes or whatever, when I can just go to the store and buy a box full is much better for my mental health. I also don't have the money to live like the above, it's far too expensive and takes over your whole life just so you could eat? No thanks!
There are additional benefits. The food tastes better due to the way large scale farming grows and ships, you know what goes into your body (systemic pesticides free), it can replace the gym in some instances, etc
Load More Replies...Its fairly easy to grow your own herbs. Getting an aeroponics garden is great but small pots, soils and some sun are great. Some many wonderful ways to grow herbs. Tomatoes in larger pots are easy as well. And according to the squirrels in my backyard you can grow corn in a large pot as well. They are great with planting corn all over my yard. 😉
Shifting gears. I know automatics have taken over and stickshift is going the way of the dodo, but I'll always prefer a stick any day of the week. If you know when to shift and what gears you can cruise in for each road condition, you'll always get better mileage than an auto. That's why I can get up to 34mpg in my brother's challenger. Also, a clutch swap is cheaper and easier than a full auto rebuild. Sure manual trans failures do happen, but it's far less common than automatic failures.
I am a dedicated manual shift driver. I feel like I have more control than with an automatic. I have been driving for decades and can now make a super-smooth shift almost every time. People who have been a passenger in my car say there are surprised that they can’t tell when I am shifting unless they see my hand move. And there isn't as much shifting as you might think. I skip gears all the time depending on the situation. I have done this so many times that it is a habit now and I don't even have to think about it. Also, if you get stuck in snow, it is often possible to use the clutch pedal and gas pedal to rock the car back and forth until you get out of the stuck spot.
Same. Most people don’t know I have a 6 speed. Especially being a woman. I had my last car special ordered to be manual. My sis is the same. I’ll be driving stick until my knees stop working , lol
Load More Replies...This is very US centric. Automatics are only really driven by the disabled or long distance sales reps in Europe. I read somewhere that over 90% of cars in the US are automatics, whereas 90% are manual in Europe. Having driven both I have to say manual is much better. More fun. More responsive. Better economy. But automatics are easier. Which is why in the UK you can drive an automatic and only an automatic if you take your driving test in one, but if you take it in a manual car you’re licensed to drive both.
You're right. I learned to drive on a manual. I miss them, you have more control. But they are hard to find especially if You are buying used
Load More Replies...Manual cars are the norm in the UK, it seems that the US has a thing about automatic cars!
They are rare in most countries of the world. And they aren't really predominant everywhere except in the USA
Load More Replies...Using the clutch pedal keeps the muscles around my kneecap strong, preventing the knee from dislocating so often - totally worth it.
Not in my country. 90% of people still drive manual here. You can't get a normal driving license if you can't drive a manual.
For winter driving manual makes a huge difference. For going up and down hills covered in ice rain, sleet or snow gearing down is much more controllable than even gently trying to brake. Credentials: driving to work 200 km a day in Ontario winters, with seldom a day off because of snowstorms. Yeah also I love manual.
How are you feeling about technology now? Is this list inspiring you to start trying more things the old-fashioned way, or has it reminded you how happy you are that technology and innovations exist to make your life simpler? There is nothing wrong with adapting to changing times, but if the newest way of doing something just does not suit you, feel free to fall back on your old-school ways. Keep upvoting the responses that resonate with you or that raised points you had not previously considered, and feel free to share your own thoughts in the comments. Then if you want to check out another Bored Panda article highlighting what might have been even better in the past, look no further than right here.
Cooking using firewoods. It gives more aromatic flavor to your food
It also introduces more aromatic cancerogenic potential to your food. Everything in moderation 🙃
Years ago, they found mother's milk sometimes carries carcinogens. Where ya gonna stick the label on that? Seriously, everything causes cancer; I'll take my succulent charcoal-laden beast flesh, thank you very much.
Load More Replies...I do a lot of (involuntary) cooking on my wood-fired stove because every time the wind blows a bit harder we lose power here on the island.
No quick meals that’s for sure. But it does provide that “special something “ that can make an okay meal into a much better one.
Load More Replies...I've never been able to taste the difference. Charcoal versus baking or even broiling I can. But the wood I've always been lost on and thought a waste of money.
If you get aromatic wood chips/planks like hickory/cedar it really makes a huge difference. Try those if you haven't. With regular wood I just taste smoky flavor like with charcoal.
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Crafty stuff in general, but in particular, sewing. Hand sewing is peaceful, quiet, portable, and just overall more satisfying. Plus I get better bragging rights on the finished product.
I feel the same about making chainmail (or maille for the purists/pendants). Sure, you can buy it factory made and, though not necessarily cheap, the comparitive price when you count how many hours it takes to make a full suit might make it literally 1 in 100-1000 times cheaper, there's nothing like being able to say, "Yes, I hand coiled and connected every single one of these rings."
Both of my sons used to make maille. I have several coifs still. I understand the process, but never could make it, but I made the quilted arming caps to wear under so your hair wouldn't be ripped out.
Load More Replies...Yeah, hand sewing for me. I've lost every fight with a bobbin that I've ever been in.
When I was in high school I joined Pep Club. Back then (60s) there weren't uniforms supplied to you from some company. You had to sew it. The school told you where to go and what fabric and pattern to buy. My Mom said "you want a Pep Club uniform, you have to make it." She taught me how to sew. Since I've made suits, dresses, bridesmaid dresses, pants, curtains, covers...just everything. I have a whole room just for sewing.
I love crochet! I can easily store it in my pocket or bag and just do it in the car. I did it once when we were in the car for an hour and at a market my mum had a stall at
I just finished darning some socks. Was not about to throw them out when they can be easily repaired all the while watching another riveting Taskmaster.
That so depends on the project and the time on your hands! I did hand-sew fabric face masks in 2020, but I sure as heck won't hand-sew (the biggest part of) the dresses for my twin girls! If I had loads of time, I'd rather stitch something nice on the finished piece, but I won't hem a skirt by hand if I can do it in 10min by machine. But I do have an overlock and a "normal" machine, both together make for great results in clothing.
Hard disagree. I've worn out and ripped spots in the crotch of several pairs of jeans, and hand-stiches would just rip again on the next wear. It's likely a matter of skill, yeah, but why learn something new when I have a machine that can do a much better job for me?
Making most of my quilts by hand. Takes longer, but I enjoy the process.
Dating.
I feel online dating robs us of the best things of meeting new people, the thrill you get when you catch someone eyeing you a couple of times and the excitement of approaching, the fun of rejection, because it can be funny to be rejected, and the hotness of seducing each other escalating towards pleasure and the joy of meeting someone you can build a future with
None of that can be provided by dating apps, it's like cheap porn, you see an image that shakes your loins and swipe.
That's boring.
"The fun of rejection"...my anxiety disagrees lol but I get the point.
I'm having trouble coming up with a memory of when I found rejection fun.
Load More Replies...Some of us are ugly. Nobody has ever eyed me across a room. I don't get any thrill from being rejected either. I would love to live in this person's universe.
Not true my friend - everyone's idea of beauty is different and I'll bet you have been eyed up across a room but you didn't know it. There is a lid for every pen as the saying goes 😊
Load More Replies...You still meet new people in online dating, you still get rejection and there's absolutely still excitement. The only difference is that you might already know some of your dates interests, values etc. If you use online dating for actual dating (as opposed to just hooking up) , I think it's every bit as good as real dating and certainly not comparable to cheap porn (wtf of a comparison).
I met my wife through online dating. I was on a date with someone I met online when we saw each other and neither of us could stop looking at the other
Load More Replies...Most women don't want a man "eyeing" or "approaching" them. With online dating, you know up front that someone is receptive to you. I lety husband online, we've been together for over 10 years and still going strong.
I would be rejected 9 out of 10 times but, now with the internet I can get rejected 99 out of 100 times. Oh technology you’ve done it again.
It's true, but now you can be passively rejected. There are millions of women out there viewing your profile and swiping left without you ever knowing about it. And for women, it's even better. In real life, they can get followed down the street, but on the internet, they can get unsolicited dickpics from thousands of creeps per day.
Load More Replies...People also lie lie lie about themselves online, and dating becomes a kind of bait and switch where you expect to see someone who looks like their profile picture, and when they show up they look totally different—-usually disappointingly different, as reality is not photoshopped. When you meet people in person from the get-go, you immediately know what you see is what you get, and can make a better informed decision whether you’d want to go on a date with them or not.
Met my husband on an app. Been together almost 9 years, married for 7.
Hope you guys have many more years together!
Load More Replies...Still listen to radio in the car. No podcasts, playlists, etc. I have a decent commute in a heavily populated area so I listen for the local traffic report every fifteen minutes, and their general talk radio in between.
I listen to NPR for the news. My personal favorite is BBC World Service. Razia Iqbal doesn't take s**t during interviews.
Try no commercial TV for over 20 years. The evil mindf**k that wrenches grey cells out without you even knowing. If an animal is trying to sell you something the ad is dishonest. Why? Animals can't talk and the Truth in Advertising people won't let people lie. Let the animals do it! Commercials can't be louder than the show. So, the show has one brief LOUD spot that the commercials match for their whole spot, while the rest of the programming is quiet in comparison. The IQ level of TV programming is much worse than it used to be. If you MUST watch TV, please mute the commercials so as to save your sanity.
I like to hear entire rock operas or musicals uninterrupted. With the original BBC broadcast of The Hitchhiker's Guide To The Galaxy -- at night, when I drive on empty roads, makes me feel I'm going to take off! No commercials, always funny.
lots of love--------------------just hearing random stuff from strangers has pleasure of its own.
Radio for me, unless there is nothing good on, then I switch to cds
Not sure if this counts, but I grind my coffee by hand and use a simple brewing method (either chemex or french press) to make it.
I think having full control over the process leads to better tasting coffee than I get with any automatic machine. Also, having a ritual that I do every morning and takes a little elbow grease helps kickstart my day.
Doesn't matter if it's an electric grinder or a manual one, the fact you're grinding the beans at home, instead of them being ground months earlier and losing their potency, will make better coffee
it kind of matters. a good electric grinder is well out of most people's budget, but a good manual grinder is in the affordable realm.
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They're in design museums for a reason. Iconic, elegant design, been around for 80 years, and they make a beautiful clean cup.
Load More Replies...Hario makes a couple that won't break the bank. If you want to spend a few hundred bucks, the Comandante is pretty.
Load More Replies...Manual driving is real driving🙌. I' m appalled that more and more driving instructors use authomatic cars. That is a fraud. What if at some critical point in your life you have to drive an old fashioned car?
It's almost impossible in the US to find a manual car now.
Load More Replies...I think this is why I don't like American coffees. in Italy I loved watching them make cappuccino from grinding to finished product in cup. Loved it! Hate the crappuccino we have here. Need to find a fresh grind coffee place.
Whether you're talking about herbs or coffee beans, grinding them yourself will always lead to a better experience with all other things being equal. When grinding coffee beans, the important thing is to use a Burr grinder, manuel or electric does not matter. At all. A burr grinder ensures that you get a uniform grind, so extraction is consistent across every bit. After that, temperature and pressure come into play. For an espresso, you want 9.5 barrs of pressure and 205F water for an ideal extraction, which cannot be achieved by a manual process. Turkish coffee on the other hand is something that is in your control every step of the way, and requires constant supervision (i spend 20 minutes every morning making it for my wife) different cups require different tools.
Not related but old singer cabinets for sewing. We have one and I’ve always wanted to use it. We don’t use it though - it doesn’t work as good as it used to. It used to be my great aunts but she passed away sometime ago
Math.
I tried to improve it with a class a couple of years back, and I had to answer it in a word file, using some addon to make the formulas.
It takes forever. On paper it's just scribble scribble, calculator, answer.
I’m good at math but sometimes I want it to just no longer exist. I’ve always been good at math so I enjoy the class more than others but sometimes I truly hate maths. My family is filled with math whizzes and we all kind of want math to just go away.
math with scratch paper is definitely easier for me. I had to take a stats class and the prof would only let us use specific calculator inputs instead of actually teaching us how to calculate with the formulas and such. None of us understood anything until we had a sub who actually gave us the steps rather than hitting a few buttons on a calculator. I don't miss that class.
I can safely say that I have never had to use algebra or logarithms since I left school. Things like area, volumes and percentages however, often.
Despite spammers trying to ruin it, I still prefer email for communicating. It's universal, doesn't lock you into a particular platform, you control the history, and it's 100% on your own terms. It bothers me how many people are using social media _instead_ of email for all of the above reasons and because it harshly excludes those who prefer not to use that particular platform.
I still dont understand the purpose of tik tok , instagram etc. i also dont like all of the judgements and negativity that are associated with them. I prefer Facebook and Bored Panda as there can be more thought provoking posts as opposed to liking a photo. As a social worker i am also very protective of my private life (to clients) for a number of reasons.
Personally, I enjoy Instagram: I read the news, local events, watch funny reels. If there's a piece of news more provocative I read the comments, and sometimes it helps. I find my Facebook account has more ads than Instagram.
Load More Replies...The big problem with email is there folks that don't check it very often. Thanks to spammers, you can't really have a single email account. You need 1 for bills, 1 for people, and 1 for everything else. Sadly, even then, eventually someone slips up and before you know it that account is dead.
In instances where it's used instead of email, fair enough. But social media is often used in addition to or for a completely different purpose to email - administrating mailing list with countless people is a lot more work than just tweeting something. In that case it's just as much a choice to install Twitter than it is to have a TV rather than buying a newspaper.
Hate to disagree but I hate email. I rarely check mine. If you want my attention, DM me. Do not call me either, unless you've DMed me first!!
Talk. The moment I'm with anyone I put my phone away and simply enjoy our experience. Seems like people just can't go without looking at their phone every 30 f*****g seconds.
There's time for screen and there's time for people, mixing the two does not work well.
Always see two people at a restaurant, not talking to each other, just on their phones. What was the point of going together?
I still dont have a cell phone. It drives me nuts seeing people texting all of the time. I talk to people for a living (social work) and prefer 1:1 contact. Ps i use my tablet for games all of the time though
I don’t understand why you’ve been downvoted so I gave you an upvote
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Buy physical games. I don't mind digital copies but there's something very satisfying about putting their box/cart on my gaming shelf to admire it. I also love to go digging for rare games at fleamarkets
Same here. I collect collectors editions of games I like if I can.
Read books. I have read a few on a mobile device, but I prefer physical books.
I’m all about physical books too. If anyone is interested there’s a great site called thriftbooks that has a ton of used and new books for super cheap. I’ve paid $3-$4 for every single one I’ve bought so far. Shipping is free when u spend $15 if not It’s only $1.15 I believe.
If you want used books (or have a bunch to give away) you should check out Paperbackswap.com. You send books you don't want anymore to people who do, which earns swap credits you can use to request someone else's books.
Load More Replies...I hate reading online. I’ve done it once or twice and only do it if I can’t get a physical copy of the book. The feel of paper between your fingers as your turn the page, the sound of the paper, the smell of old books, the feel of that old cover under you hands that you know that it hides a book that’s been loved and adored and read so many time just waiting to read and adored once again…
I've got a kindle for travel, that's far more convenient than holidaying with a pile of books in your suitcase, but I always go for paper books at home. It's easier on your eyes too.
Weirdly enough doing dishes by hand instead of a dishwasher. If all my dishes are clean and i make a meal for myself it’s like 4 dishes, they clean up super easy while stuff is cooking.
No a million times! Washing the dishes used to be a scourge of my life before I got a dishwasher.
I quickly clean some things I use to cook but I had to go without a dishwasher a few years back barely made it
Load More Replies...And you can be sure pieces of food aren’t left behind and stuck on it. The dishwasher does a pretty shotty job sometimes but it does save water and time when you’ve got something else to do. Just make sure you wash the sink regularly and change that sponge! Sponges are hotspots for germs
Dishes you eat off of that can be rinsed in 10 seconds is one thing, stuff that you've cooked in that has stuff stuck to the surface and requires scrubbing is different. A dishwasher uses like 1.5 gallons of water, total, where you'll use twice that in the span of a couple minutes trying to scrub something challenging.
Pay with cash when I have some on hand. Using cash when I can helps prevent me from impulse buying.
Cash is expensive. Either in money (ATM fees) or time (going to the bank, stand in line).
I’m so going to be that person that has like $10 on their card and the rest in my pocket bc cards are so complicated
I don't mind paying with my card either, I regulate my spending a lot.
Crank style pencil sharpener over the battery/electric ones
I have one of those old ones that we had in schools in the 80s. But i broke the cover that captures the shavings during my last move. So i keep a little trash can under it. Still love it
The detail of having a trash can underneath instead of the cover makes it more like a school pencil sharpener, I believe.
Load More Replies...Are the electric ones really common? Because in my whole life I've never seen one, except in movies or tv show (and I have worked in multiple offices)
We have one somewhere in our office. I have one at home, I love those adult coloring books and the electric one just works faster and I think better.
Load More Replies...I'm partial to mechanical pencils. Kept the same pink one through most of high school. Like to mix in softer leads (2B).
I used the same mechanical pencil for almost 20 years. I had to buy a new one last year because the insides had worn away in the old pencil and the lead would just fall out. As a lefty, I often avoid using a pen because I get ink all over my hand and sometimes my face.
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Chop veggies and fruit, even though I'm slow and it hurts to stand. I just like to Guage the size of the chunks, and the homey feel of chopping. Plus electric choppers can mush things up, and then you have way more to clean than a knife and cutting board.
Making bread for similar reasons, but especially for the feel of it.
Reminds me of chopping vs blending garlic. Sure it's a pain but the results are soo much better.
Hand write letters. It tells somebody you care, because you took the time out of your busy day.
I love writing in general, the process of putting words on paper is enchanting to me.
Write and read with tangible paper.
Writing a loved one a handheld letter means so much more than a quick text or a print of something.
I considered early on in my relationship that me and my boyfriend don’t even know each other’s writing styles, so I’ve made it a goal to always write him something special for an event or just because.
I also prefer reading personal books by physically turning the page.
I still like to get CDs so I have physical media so some service can't just revoke it.
I agree. I have many cds and DVDs all the ones I love that I can watch, listen to whenever I feel like it.
I have too. And I 'm proud of it, Robert. (Robert is my older smarter brother :-D)
Load More Replies...I prefer paper maps to GPS. There's nothing like folding a map correctly when you're done with it. Plus while I know paper maps can quickly become out of date, they still are mostly accurate and I can see the entire picture, unlike with GPS
You can see everything on a paper map and weren’t GPS and Google Maps supposed to make finding your destination and arriving there easier? Because I do not have any idea whatsoever on how to use Google Maps. It’s just like what?? And apparently my generation is supposed to be tech savvy and use tech for everything… I’m an old soul
and how does that work while you are driving alone? or are you gonna look at the map at every intersection to know where to go?
Maps always carry me to places unknown, doesn't matter whether they are paper or electronic. I'd be reading a book, look for/find a place name mentioned therein on a map, and next thing it's two hours later and I'd be exploring the north woods of Maine.
I live in Tokyo, I carry a pocket-size atlas of the place in my rucksack as you never know when you may need to walk all the way home because an earthquake has knocked out all the trains and maybe a lot of the bandwidth which is suddenly in high demand. I speak from experience (2011).
I enjoy maps for small areas, but on a road trip? My mom would want me to navigate and it would not go well…
I LOVE paper maps -- usually, just off the direct routes, are all sorts of places to see marked for historical content or landmarks. And it's easy to take one way going, a different way coming back. Expand your world!
Camp. A tent and a fire is so much more peaceful to me than having most of life's conveniences in your trailer
Had to do mandatory military service in Austria, and they have made sleeping in a tent odious. I am so done with tents.
I agree, loved camping in a tent and having a fire. I've gotten to the point now where it's just not possible and I miss it. We are looking for a trailer, but not a huge one.
I always preferred tent camping, with pit toilets and pump water as the only amenities. I used to love camping in state forests, because I was so happy being surrounded by nature instead of idiots. Rheumatoid arthritis and two spinal surgeries have put an end to those days. Now, my husband and I own a modest travel trailer. I refuse to book a campsite that doesn't have a lot of trees, and we avoid camping on weekends if possible. It's not ideal, but it's better than nothing for disabled me. My sister refers to it as "campering."
Load More Replies...We always use to camp in a tent and make a fire and we used to drive into the middle of nowhere and collect sticks me and my sisters and my mum would make all sorts of things on the fire. We made cookies from scratch once while cooking and I have to say they were pretty dang good
painting. nothing gives control like the good old brush wetting on glazed paper.
Pop corn. I still make it in a pot on the stove. And it’s 100% better that way. I also prefer knots and rope to compression straps when lashing things.
Meeting people and having all of the fun activities outside of the Internet.
I heard some rumours… it’s this place called nature and outside and the environment… hmmm 🤔 I’ll have to investigate for myself
Load More Replies...I am not on social networks. In this little community you can meet someone who tells you about an event occurred few minutes earlier and they have read on fb page :"you are .name of little town. If..." Really? It happened out of our window, it was impossible not have consciousness of it. The drums are still sounding in my head!
i prefer watching movies at cinemas rather than watching them on my laptop
I like going to the flicks still, as long as it's not too crowded and doesn't cost too much :) I finally went to the local after living here 12 months and it was a nice small theatre, though I don't know how much it cost because my dad had a voucher
If you can catch the right movie at a drive in theatre it'll take your breath away! At the campground below Devil's Tower Wyoming, they show Close Encounters under the stars -- you become part of the story. And if you can catch ANY of the original Star Wars under the night sky, you feel like you're battling the empire. It's worth searching out a drive in!
I love the cinema. But it takes real self restraint to not eat all that popcorn before you even get half an hour in
But then you can start on the Twizzlers, and then the Good ' n' Plenty!
Load More Replies...Write my assignments in a planner than on a computer or phone.
Agreed, I absolutely need to use a physical planner/calendar where I can write stuff by hand
I like washing my car by hand. I really try to avoid going to an automatic car wash (except in the winter to get rid of the road grime/salt)
I'm too stingy to pay for it when I can do it myself :) Doesn't get done as often as it should though!
Washing the car is fun! I like to get all the grub of the windows. Bothers me so much looking out the windows only for some spots to look all foggy
writing in journals ! It feels so relieving for me way better than typing in notes app or smth
I used to write in a diary because I loved writing on paper. Typing is just so hard
My journal is cheap A5 notepads. I write whatever I need to, and then onto the recycling bin or compost heap. But it has to be the cheaper notepads, slightly scratchy paper make the pen work better. And I enjoy the thought process of writing the words, thinking about spelling, will the word fit on that line or start another. Told my family when I die, and they find any with writing, just chuck them away...private thought and notes....endless lists
Balancing a checkbook.
It means making certain the money you think you spent matches with what you actually spent according to what you recorded
Load More Replies...My OCD gets the best of me if my checkbook register isn't balanced!!!😳😨
Making rice in a standard pot instead of a rice cooker.
Idk if anyone’s tested it but to me the rice is fluffier and less dry in the pot.
I’ll have to say i disagree but to each their own. My rice cooker is a steamer too and it still takes a lot of time to make the rice but I know I won’t screw up, with a rice cooker.
Yup! Pop in the ninja foodie for 2 minutes on high and let release for like 15 and gives me more time to cook the main meal
Load More Replies...From my experience, it really depends on how you like your rice and the type of rice. I like loose grains, basmati or the likes, to eat with my curry. I do not enjoy glutinous rice, sticky rice. But I'll enjoy as well a risotto (not sure if it works in a cooker) and rice with some rich sauce. What's more, I'm just the one, so I don't need to cook great amounts of rice.
Shaving with a straight razor, soap and a brush. Smoother shave, the disposable/replaceable heads don't last long and are a waste of money. I just buy new soap discs evert few months and a new brush once a year.
Hand-pumped organs are sometimes preferable to organ blowers that get turned on with the push of a button at the console. The "unsteady" wind of hand-pumped organs lends a subtly different sound and quality to the musical speech of the pipes.
Ok. I lost my train of thought a bit there. The previous entry was regarding male sex toys. So to read a post about 'organs' straight after, well, my mind made the wrong connection. I thought I had stumbled into a secret part of BP intended for the dark web.
I was right there with you. It took me a minute to make sense of what I was reading. 🙃
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I don’t like technology for (male) sexual pleasure, because I don’t want it to diminish the pleasure when I’m with my wife.
I wonder what people will be saying 20 or 50 yrs from now. 🤔 I like seeing and touching the phone screen instead of information directly beamed to my eyeballs.😄
Okay, so I'm a bit older. I used a calculator for the first time after graduating from high school (and a computer for the first time after completing my first college degree). I do own a calculator, but I like doing math in my mind or on paper. I do math tutoring for high school and college students. I think it is ridiculous that there are students who can't do even simple addition or subtraction without using a calculator.
Agreed. Basic stuff should be do-able in my head, or on paper.
Load More Replies...A physical chart for patients. Please. As an MD, no, I may not read your handwriting well, but I also don't have to wait for something to download, upload, re-load, or just generally waste time I could spend reading the chart. Also, many digital files don't allow you to flag known illnesses right at the top, whereas the old physical charts did. E.g., epilepsy, congestive heart failure, CKD (Chronic Kidney Disease). At a glane, I knew the underlying ailments. Now I have to scroll down, go to a different tab, wait for it to load... And many now skip doing that to save time. Or it's stoerd undre "Notes". Um, a frigging tap of a finger for "PreExisting Conditions" please? Rant over. (MD.)
I am a dental hygienist (17+ years) and I infinitely prefer a paper chart over a digital one. I can always access it- no surprises in the morning when I come in and suddenly the computer won't boot up. I can write down what the doctor wants more quickly than I can type in a diagnosis and a procedure code. I can write a note more quickly than using a macro that I'm just going to have to edit to apply to my patient anyway.
Load More Replies...Calling. I miss times when people could be unreachable and everyone understands. Now if you don't answer after third call in the row you are assumend to be dead. I don't have phone glued to my hand and i don't want to :D
Paying bills with a check using the mall. I know people complain about the Postal system but I've never had a problem. I have had problems paying on line for something. I'm leery about having my card information out there more than absolutely necessary and I damn sure don't like "automatic" withdrawing .
I prefer physical menus. I like to take time off my phone and don't want to be staring at it just to get food
I prefer physical records of any kind. I don't trust technology enough to be able to hold all my information. And if you literally have all your eggs in one basket (all your info on one flash drive), and something happens to it, well, sucks to be you. People oughta learn a lesson from Pixar with Toy Story 2 for that one before it happens to them.
Gioof Greiff!!! Baby Boomers?? Post WWII. You are talking about the baby-boomers babies!!
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I wonder what people will be saying 20 or 50 yrs from now. 🤔 I like seeing and touching the phone screen instead of information directly beamed to my eyeballs.😄
Okay, so I'm a bit older. I used a calculator for the first time after graduating from high school (and a computer for the first time after completing my first college degree). I do own a calculator, but I like doing math in my mind or on paper. I do math tutoring for high school and college students. I think it is ridiculous that there are students who can't do even simple addition or subtraction without using a calculator.
Agreed. Basic stuff should be do-able in my head, or on paper.
Load More Replies...A physical chart for patients. Please. As an MD, no, I may not read your handwriting well, but I also don't have to wait for something to download, upload, re-load, or just generally waste time I could spend reading the chart. Also, many digital files don't allow you to flag known illnesses right at the top, whereas the old physical charts did. E.g., epilepsy, congestive heart failure, CKD (Chronic Kidney Disease). At a glane, I knew the underlying ailments. Now I have to scroll down, go to a different tab, wait for it to load... And many now skip doing that to save time. Or it's stoerd undre "Notes". Um, a frigging tap of a finger for "PreExisting Conditions" please? Rant over. (MD.)
I am a dental hygienist (17+ years) and I infinitely prefer a paper chart over a digital one. I can always access it- no surprises in the morning when I come in and suddenly the computer won't boot up. I can write down what the doctor wants more quickly than I can type in a diagnosis and a procedure code. I can write a note more quickly than using a macro that I'm just going to have to edit to apply to my patient anyway.
Load More Replies...Calling. I miss times when people could be unreachable and everyone understands. Now if you don't answer after third call in the row you are assumend to be dead. I don't have phone glued to my hand and i don't want to :D
Paying bills with a check using the mall. I know people complain about the Postal system but I've never had a problem. I have had problems paying on line for something. I'm leery about having my card information out there more than absolutely necessary and I damn sure don't like "automatic" withdrawing .
I prefer physical menus. I like to take time off my phone and don't want to be staring at it just to get food
I prefer physical records of any kind. I don't trust technology enough to be able to hold all my information. And if you literally have all your eggs in one basket (all your info on one flash drive), and something happens to it, well, sucks to be you. People oughta learn a lesson from Pixar with Toy Story 2 for that one before it happens to them.
Gioof Greiff!!! Baby Boomers?? Post WWII. You are talking about the baby-boomers babies!!
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