“Spending An Hour At Blockbuster”: 80Things That Were Totally Normal Just A Few Decades Ago
Interview With ExpertIt’s easy to forget how drastically our world has changed over the past few decades. Watching films and TV shows from the ‘90s and early 2000s feels like observing a different planet, and it’s difficult to even recall how simple our lives were before smartphones had taken over.
But if you’re interested in taking a trip down memory lane, you’ve come to the right place, pandas. Redditors have recently been discussing things that were totally normal only two or three decades ago that seem to have gone extinct. From telephone books to smoking inside at fast food joints, enjoy scrolling through these nostalgic replies. Keep reading to find a conversation with Kathy Kenzora, host of the History of the '90s podcast, and be sure to upvote the things you had almost forgotten about!
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A congress willing to impeach a president for blatant illegal actions.
Well, the Supreme Court said that anything the president does is not illegal. Big a$$ can of worms opened there!
Told someone who is all about a 3rd Trump term.."Cool! That means the next Democrat that is elected can serve 3 terms too!" *crickets*
Load More Replies...Once upon a time if a president was facing impeachment and possible criminal charges, they resigned in shame.
And speaking of Nixon, fun fact. When he was sworn in, the flags were at half mast, in honor of Truman who had recently died. tRump threw a tantrum saying the flag should not be at half mast for his inauguration because it had never happened before. The man-baby got his way.
Load More Replies...While we are at it: Politicians stepping down when they did something extremely stupid, nowadays they are glued to their chairs (at least here in Germany)
If Trump didn't keep trying to break Constitutional law it wouldn't be a problem.
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The concept of a "Tomboy" with literally no inclination of gender identity or sexual orientation. The girls just like boys stuff and it was perfectly fine, if not awesome.
What I’ve never understood is why it’s ok for girls to like ‘boys’ things like sports (which is ridiculous to assume it’s a boys thing) trucks, climbing etc but it’s not ok for boys to like ‘girls’ things
None of that is happening, Dave, clean out your headgear.
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Spending an hour at Blockbuster or Hollywood Video searching for the perfect Friday night movie.
Now you spend an hour scrolling through Netflix or HBO for the perfect Friday movie
Only to end up heavy with decision fatigue and going straight to bed.
Load More Replies...Often the browsing turned out to be more entertaining than the movie you ended up choosing.
because you had to wait for the opportunity when no one was looking so you could venture in to the adult section and take a movie from there without the rest of the store knowing.
I can still "smell" Blockbuster and all the awesome nights that followed.
Probably the one childhood experience that I wish I could give my kids. Sure, we can check out DVDs from the library, but it doesn't have the same vibe.
To learn more about this topic, we reached out to Kathy Kenzora, host of the History of the '90s podcast. She was kind enough to have a chat with Bored Panda and remind us of some of the things that have gone extinct over the past few decades.
"VCRs - Watching TV was so much harder in the 90s!" Kathy says. "If you didn’t happen to be home for an episode of your favorite show, you wouldn’t get to see it until summer reruns. Unless, of course, you could figure out the totally complicated procedure of setting up your VCR to record the show. I can’t tell you how many times I sat down to watch a show that I thought I recorded only to find out that it didn’t work!"
Critical thinking.
Being given thoughts by social media and failing to do your own research
If you think critical thinking was a thing in the 2000's, think again.
Civility in politics. Even if you hated the other guy you were still polite and civil.
That, along with America as a whole, seems to have been tossed aside.
You can trace the decline back to one thing, Rupurt Murdoch starting Fox news.
True.. though it USED to be that most everyone agreed on the major issues. A Republican, though someone you disagreed with, was someone who gave you another viewpoint to make you critically assess an issue to come to an agreement.
this sounds like an american thing but the Idiot uneducated orange curmudgeon who probably have dementia and his fellow halunken lowered the bar and made people actually listen to their moronic blubbering and shouting.
Politics has always been a quagmire of contentiousness and ridiculousness. We're just more aware of it now that news comes at us 24/7 365.
I believe both sides have their pros and cons. I don't understand why we can't settle our differences peacefully in this modern world without starting a war. Let's face it: We're all stuck on this planet, so we might as well get along and stop hating people who aren't in your political party. It pays off to see things from different perspectives, even if that means realizing that your perspective could be wrong. I would appreciate it if BP would stop putting politically biased posts here.
are you talking american right-wing extremist or your other party that is right wing corporate, or is itthe rest of the democratic world against totalitarianism?
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Making a call in a phone booth.
The Yellow Pages.
There are still public phones in some places in the US - especially in areas where there is a population of Amish and/or Old Order Mennonites. There is a pay phone about two miles from my house. I haven't tried to confirm this information, but I was told that the pay phones are privately owned. The owner pays a monthly fee for service and then keeps all the money that is used in the phones.
Superman took off his clothes in a phone both and was called the Man of Steel. I do the same thing and have to register as a s*x offender.
I had to explain to my very tech savvy youngest daughter the other day how we found people's phone numbers when I was her age.
Phone booths were pretty much gone in the 90s when I was a kid (at least in the States), but we still had payphones on every corner.
I remember walking for miles searching for one that hadn't been vandalised and there was no hope of finding one with phone books.
Kathy also noted that trashy TV talk shows are mostly a thing of the past. "The 90s was the era when trashy daytime talk shows dominated TV," the host shared. "Shows hosted by people like Jerry Springer, Jenny Jones and Maury Povich regularly devolved into wild physical fights between guests who were cheered on by riled up audience members. I have to admit I was not a fan and was happy when the fad died out. But it never really went away. Today, viewers get the same kind of voyeuristic entertainment from reality shows."
Privacy. You're filmed everywhere now.
Kids cannot get away with anything these days. They will never know the freedom we had.
its a + for the pedos and we all know the orange idiots on girl and women protection....
Load More Replies...no there is little evidence of that, in most cases it moves problem from one area to another and with the amount of cameras its harder to older type of evidence approved and recognized and evaluated , but put cameras everywhere your elected ones move and they will not be so keen on the idea.
Load More Replies...Funny, because Judas Priest did a song called Electric Eye about this. In 1982.
“It’s back oooooonnnnnnn” followed by the sound of galloping feet and a leap over the back of the couch.
If I had the energy, this still might happen, because I do still watch things on sites/tv that have ads. Instead I don't worry about missing part of the show and take my time.
Even live tv can be backed up to a certain point if you have a DVR!
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Memorizing phone numbers.
There are still a number I have memorised for emergencies, and to fill out on forms, like my work number which I have to put on incident reports.
'Are still a number'. You work and don't know correct grammar? Yeah ok.
Load More Replies...I used to be good at remembering everyone's phone numbers when we all had landlines but now we all have cellphones I can't even remember my own number.
I can still remember my best friends and boy friends from the 80s.
Load More Replies...You had to type it in so you would naturally memorize it. I didn't sit in my room practicing phone number memorization.
Muscle memory. Sometimes when I couldn't remember the number, I'd just mime dialing it. That usually worked.
Load More Replies...I still memorize them but by accident. If there is something in common with a fimilar number it happens quite easily.
My dad, my sister, and my ex-husband all have the exact same phone number woth the last 4 digits just in a different order. I know the numbers by heart, but I still have to look them up to remember which is whose!
Load More Replies...Finally, Kathy reminded us of ska and swing music. "Life was good in the 90s, and the music reflected it! Ska and swing music burst onto the scene with unexpected mainstream hits that infiltrated pop culture, including that famous Gap khaki swing commercial. Their fun upbeat sounds and retro clothing trends were a perfect fit for the times, and I miss them both!"
And if you'd like to hear even more about life during the 1990s, be sure to check out Kathy's podcast History of the '90s!
Calling out a president for lying.
This belief being treated as valid is a big part of the underlying problem of the country being so hopelessly divided. It's not that presidents or anyone in government aren't called out....it's the fact that the only ones calling them out are those on the opposite side....and the only people hearing it are those firmly rooted within that particular echo chamber. Why is it like this? Because if anyone should actually call out anyone within their own party.....they're immediately labeled the enemy, they're overreacting, or they're racist/sexist/phobic. Whatever label they can get to stick so that person and that topic can be safely ignored and easily dismissed. Everyone is so aggressively eager to point out the bias of the other side...but somehow never can even entertain the possibility that they just might be as equally, and shameless biased as those they seek to silence.
Having hope for the future. F**k, I miss that feeling of believing that we had all turned a coroner. That even though nothing was perfect, that we were on our way to seeing a future where we could be. The walls were coming down, Mandela was free, the Cold War ended, the u"internet highway" was going to lead us to the age of information and enlightenment. Just hope, everywhere you looked.
Then it all turned to s**t when those planes hit the towers.
I feel like life really did go downhill after 9/11 for everyone. They got us and we were broken, and we can’t seem to get fixed.
FOFO..... did america learn something about bombing others after this?
Being able to sleep through the night without having to get up and go to the bathroom.
God, how l miss good, uninterrupted sleep. It's 5 am now, for reference 🙄
as a man, my tip is start sitting down when taking a p**s, this is the only relevant different I found among my male friends, as they come of age. I could stand a long drive and now laugh at them when they want to pee every 30h and tell them to man up and hold it in and there are only toilets and no available threes for them.
Kids playing outside. When I grew up kids were EVERYWHERE, couldn’t throw a rock without hitting one. Today, you just don’t see them.
When my youngest daughter was about 9, one day she asked me if I ever had play dates when I was her age. I replied, "no I jest went outside and played with whoever else was out playing. If nobody was out I would go to my friends' houses and ask if they were coming out." I think it's quite sad that these days parents literally have to make an appointment just so that their kids can play together.
I knock on my friends doors today if no ones out, but there aren't usually anyone out already. Used to be like that 4 years ago though when I moved to my house when I was 8. Now I'm 12, and all my friends are same age as me or older, so we don't play outside that much anymore
Load More Replies...My brother and his family live in a cute little US town where all the neighborhood kids are constantly outside together. It's very similar to how we grew up in the 80's. They have block parties and progressive dinners (each course at a different house) and include the kids in everything. They moved there after living in 2 big cities where it wasn't safe for my niece and nephew to be outside without parents.
Depends on where you live I guess. Here in the Netherlands kids still play outside (also, by themselves, without parental supervision)
is this a kid problem or a parent and society problem? and they will grow up dependent....
I wish I could go outside and hang out with my friends like the good old days...oh, wait. I don't have friends because nobody wants to be with a neurodivergent person like me. And recreational areas are slowly disappearing due to the population growing.😞
Third places. Malls, parks, places where we used to go and just hang out at.
These have all stuck around in Australia. Shopping centres are busier than ever (which is why I avoid them) and young people commonly hang out there for hours. Parks, beaches, walking tracks etc also well frequented. When the train lines are taken underground or become sky rail (to get rid of street level crossings) in my state, the space where they used to be is turned into more walking/bike tracks, seating areas, skate parks, outdoor gyms, basketball courts etc. This is really good, because school yards, even state schools, where the public often used to hang at outside of school hours to play sports and stuff, are almost all fenced and locked by 5pm.
We still have those here. Malls are impractical (not a lot of seating unless you're eating or drinking), but there are parks and the beach
The terror of calling your boyfriends landline...
Ring... (Please don't let his mum answer)
Ring... (Please don't let his mum answer)
Ring... (Please don't let his mum answer)
:click:
:gulp: is Kieran there please?
The embarrassment.
When I was 16 I went and got really high with my mate Brad. Came back home and my Mum says "someone named Susan called for you". This was good news as Susan was a girl I kind of fancied. So, I call back and Susan answers to tell me that there is this girl Jessica that wanted to date me. Not Susan. Total bummer. Being that I was astronomically high I was not prepared for all of this.
Oof, bummer indeed! How did you reply? Very curious :)
Load More Replies...Boys today will never know the struggle of calling a girls house and having to ask her DAD to speak to her
I still get this calling my partners dad, we are all grown ups and he just was old enough to slow down work..... but it still feels like i am 15 year old every time we speak. (he is super cute and not aggressive but he likes and cares for his youngest daughter) (Like: yes I am so glad we could borrow your bridge card, and I will drive safe and keep her well fed.... I know her diet and no scetchy places and se to that she is tucked in at night)
Load More Replies...The worst part though was that many mothers thought it was improper for a girl to call a boy. One of my old friend's moms told her she would get a bad reputation doing that. Just for a phone call!
Getting a cart full of groceries for less than 200 dollars.
this is still available in the rest of the world because we don't use dollars
1960s US: Getting a cart full of groceries for less than 20 dollars.🤷
Optimism.
Maps when driving. Like big a*s maps that you had to unfold and figure out where you were.
I love maps. I went out and bought a 50 state road atlas for long trips. But it is also great for simply browsing to see what things are just a day trip that I just don’t know about: parks, lakes, museums, etc.
Any time we travel, we take our atlas with us, even though we know the way.
Load More Replies...We always keep a map in the car ready for when the sat-nav takes us somewhere stupid.
My boyfriend still regularly uses his road maps. Unless I actually text him an address and then he can just click on it. He doesn't use computers, barely uses his smart phone and he's awesome because he plays with chainsaws and stuff instead.
I love maps. And I never had trouble folding them up like some people do.
Having a phone cord so long that it can stretch between several rooms.
Sharing a phone line with 4 other people.
Picking up the phone and disconnecting someone's internet connection.
Why was this downvoted? Party lines existed in the US too that is what sharing a line with other people was called. You had to wait until no one was using the line to make or receive a call.
Load More Replies...Picking up a phone and really really bothering your sister by joining the convo.
I remember when cordless phones (not cell phones) were invented. So exciting.
Mom’s smoking a cigarette inside at the kitchen table talking on the house phone with a long cord.
Smoking in a house that kids are growing up in should be illegal. They'll easily get secondhand smoke.
My mom would infrequently smoke back in the 80's. Anytime I caught her I would dramatically cough and pretend to choke, and then fake passing out. She eventually stopped smoking. :)
Load More Replies...My mom had her kids in the early 60s and would quit when she was pregnant. She just finally didn't start up again after she had her third, me.
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Fireflies It was a normal sight after dark; I haven't seen a single one in decades in our backyard.
They need the dead leaves to lay eggs on. Rake up all the leaves or chop them up ... no fireflies
My yard looks likt the 80s in the summer because I let my creek bank get overgrown(suburban creek) and quite mowing at the start of autumn.
Load More Replies...And dragonflies. I used to see plenty of both but now l rarely see a dragonfly and I haven't seen a firefly in ages
They need open fields with tall vegetation that are not disturbed by regular mowing.
When I was growing up in the country in the 70s/80s, we had a pool. Beyond the pool was a big hill with an empty field at the bottom, and the creek past that. Going swimming at night, it looked like a million flash bulbs going off.
We have lots, surrounded by moutains and state forest in far, far, far northwest New Jersey. Like, as far as you can go.
We still have them where I live, but only because we got picky about insecticide. And we're allowed leaf litter under bushes.
Not being expected to be available and immediately reachable by employers during your free time.
Kids today will never take “computer lab” as a course. Literally a class where you f****d around on a computer and did whatever, maybe learned a few basic things or just played games the entire time. It was the only time of the day in class when you were on an electronic. Now, laptops are pretty much used for everything, from elementary to high school level. I’d guess the only class now where you don’t use a laptop is PE.
Which means there are young people today who don't know how to use a mouse. They've always only used touch-screens.
Load More Replies...Maybe we need them again. This is a generalisation but I deal with younger people in a very technical role for my work and find that the younger the person generally the less problem-solving and technical ability they have with actual computing. Give them an app and they’re absolutely fine but actually trying to work out why something isn’t working they’re just not wired the same - it seems to me that people who grew up in the late 90s/early 2000s onwards are have a lower technical level.
We had a computer class in high school. As l have never been tech savvy, l single handedly managed to screw one of the computers. It was the time of MS-DOS. My teacher was both impressed AND livid.
A computer lecture, where we were not allowed to turn on the computers and learned about bite and byte.
I miss playing old school Oregon Trail in my computer class in the late 90s.
from kindergarten to 4th grade we used tablets, and from 4th grade and onwards we used laptops. and we actually do use computers in PE, the freshman use them during positive prevention(s*x ed), and if we miss a day of our PE(like if we are absent and miss a day of PE), we can either make it up by sitting on the sidelines during PE and writing a essay on our laptop, or by running a mile on our free days.
It may not be called IT (that's what we called it in Australia in the 90s/00s) or one stand alone subject anymore, but kids do still learn about computers in their STEM classes where I live. In primary schools (except maybe private schools), you don't use the laptops in all your classes. They are only used when writing up the 'final copy' of some assignments or for specific programs like 'reading eggs' or 'Mathletics'. In high school, technology is used way more. Where my sister went to high school, years 7-10 all had to have ipads and year 11 & 12 had laptops. They were used for most subjects and all the text books were on them.
Being anonymous online. Today people on WhatsApp expect me to use my real name and picture, what the hell?
I use my real name for all my letters-to-the-editor, commenting on BP, etc. Keeps me honest, reasonable, and polite.
I'm a Democrat living in MAGA country. I won't use my full name.
Load More Replies...its not the problem of anonymity it is that if you use your login they as a "convenience" hook you up to all other pages.... to sell your information and you don´t get a dime for your work. ,,,,,,, there should be a law about companies earning money from you if you not liking their commercial..... make it a gamble for them
"Get outside and don't come back until you hear me call you."
No concern for RR tracks nearby or the random transient, just gtfo of her house and sight.
There was concern, but parents believed (or liked to believe) that telling their kids not to go near train tracks or waterways etc would do. My mum told us not to go further than a certain part of the parkland we lived next to and not to go in the storm water drains or creek because of flash flooding. I did listen to her about the drain, but my brother didn't, though he only went down once that I'm aware of and survived. Given that she apparently did know we were lighting campfires in the park (we thought we hid it well) and didn't stop us, I'm guessing she just trusted that we were knowledgeable enough about safety and that we would look after each other.
Just showing up at someone's door to hang out without notice.
I miss this. Not everyone was allowed to do that. You just had a close circle of people allowed to pop over whenever. Made life more fun IMO.
Load More Replies...Yeah, I don't miss this one at all. If you show up at my door uninvited I don't answer.
Yeah, this was never cool. If you stop by unannounced you're probably going to find me braless and pantsless. :)
We do this with our neighbors and vice versa! Of course, I live in the mountains surrounded by state forest with a minimal population, so we all get to know each other. Neighbor regularly pops up on a Friday night with her big, plastic wine glass.
I do something a bit similar to this. if I'm near my best friends house, I like to slowly drive by with the windows down and "never gonna give you up" blasting out of the car. ultimate rick roll. it always makes him smile and laugh as he looks out his window and sees a rav4 slowly cruising by his apartment with me leaning out the window with a huge shít eating grin, waving as I go by, and a text appearing on his phone saying "gotcha". its one of my favorite things to do with him
Inside thoughts.
With social media taking over SO much of the internet, there are LOADS of people who just s**t out all their dumb thoughts directly into Facebook comment sections or TikTok videos.
It's one thing to be open about things, and share things that you may be experiencing that can help others that we used to see as something shameful to talk about, and there are things people share that should still be shameful, haha.
It's especially bad for politicians and celebrities because suddenly they don't have PR managers filtering their output
Trump at 3 AM posting random things in all caps. Then the next day the spin begins.😂
Load More Replies...As opposed to people only having thoughts outside I guess. I didn't know that's a thing. Oh. It's not cause no one says that. Weird.
Radio Shack.
I honestly wish there was a place where I could sort through components like the original Radio Shacks in the early 80s. By the late 90s/early 00s all they sold were crappy phones and little gizmos.
Fry's picked up that particular mantle and dialed it up to 1000. They sold not only consumer electronics, but all the teeny little electronic components you used to find at Radio shack. You could buy the latest computer components, consoles, TV's speakers....and 1000 ft rolls of ethernet cable, fiber optic cable, They had little buckets filled with Z80's, an entire aisle of ceramic resistors, capacitors, mosfets, potentiometers. A good 25% of the store was dedicated to those little random components that would only interest engineers or the most dedicated of nerds. My uncle was a microprocessor engineer, electrical engineer and all around big brain nerd, he was the one who introduced me to Fry's. Even though i hadn't been there since 2011 (when i left the US) i was absolutely heartbroken when they closed down in 2021, just a week before my uncle died.
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Being polite to others.
A lady called our medical office today looking for a doctor who does not work for us. She obviously had the wrong number and sounded so upset because she couldn't remember the name of the office the doctor worked at. She was obviously elderly. I asked for the name and location of the doctor and was able to find the number on Google. This lady was so grateful that someone had actually helped her! She said no one is willing to help each other anymore. She said goodbye and God Bless You. I won't forget her.
Something my Mother said once and it stayed with me: "If you want to see good manners, you have to look under the grey hair."
In my experience the older people are far more entitled and rude.
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The phrase “Oh, I wish I had a camera!”.
I still say this a lot! I am the only person I know has said it in the last 10+ years though. I have a s**t phone camera so try to take my DSLR everywhere but don't.
VHS.
I am old. I remember renting one from a video store until I could afford one.
Load More Replies...Writing letters and thank you cards. Calling friends. Blockbuster nights.
We finally moved on as a species, in ways that will echo into a bright future, when we quit sending thank you cards. Hated writing them and refused to do so at my eighth grade graduation, and hated receiving them even more. "You wasted your time on sending me a sentiment you already gave me in person?"
I think thank you cards are proof that we have evolved as a species. Spending 5 minutes writing a thank you note to someone who thought enough about you to purchase a gift, wrap it, and give it to you is simple courtesy.
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East Germany probably would be the better example ^^
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Low rise jeans, Jeans that were too long so got wet and frayed, Jean-shorts... denim has become very standardised .
I miss low rise jeans. Because I'm so short waisted that they were the only ones that fit me correctly. :) Having my jeans ride all the way up to my bra is not cool.
Súcks being short, finding jeans that fit and having them be six inches too long.
Load More Replies...I miss my Levis from the 80s/90s. They would get perfectly faded with the natural rip starting right above the knee. I hear they are s**t now.
Landlines. They are practically nonexistent. Even if you happen to have one because of your cable provider, they just aren’t used.
I just keep my landline so that I can call my cellphone so I can find it in my house.
My parents still have and use their landline due to poor cell reception at their house.
Only six people know my cell phone number, and two of them are dead.
Mine still exists for ADSL. Ringer's been off for years. Thanks to an airtag I don't even need it to find my mobile anymore.
I think it's still very common here in Germany, it's rather rare that somebody doesn't have a phone at home and only relying on a mobile phone
Leaning more towards the 90s: Common sense and trust in news (and news being trustworthy).
You can still find that. Am routinely harassed for citing NPR/PBS as my source. Do they lean left? Sometimes, and I have given them pushback on it. But they pride themselves, rightfully, on both sides of a story to allow you to decide.
Coming from a move from a conservative viewpoint when I was younger, to a leftist viewpoint now, I have seen that facts tend to "lean left."
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Neighborhoods going hard for Halloween and Christmas.
I remember as a young kid, from like 2004-2011, the decorations went crazy. There was one year I remember in lots of detail where, on Halloween, multiple houses had created haunted houses/mazes, and one house had a doorbell that bit your finger. And for Christmas my parents would drive us around to look at all the intricate Christmas decorations throughout the neighborhoods.
I hardly see people getting into any kind of festive spirit and decorations for Halloween and Christmas are few and far between. The lack of trick or treaters these days, more people keeping their porch light off, houses doing the bare minimum for Christmas.
It makes me really sad. I hope that once I'm able to get a house and especially when I have kids, that I'll be able to go hard for those holidays. They're my favorite.
It's too expensive for most average families. They just cant afford to drop hundreds of dollars on decorations for the house, plus costumes for the kids and candy for the neighbors.
And to pay the electric bill for all of those xmas lights, insane!
Load More Replies...Nowadays you see houses that the only decorations they have are the giant inflatable ones. That's where their decorating budget and creativity goes.
Our neighborhood's had to cut down because, as an upscale area, people were bussing their kids in for candy. I dropped over $150 one Halloween and enough was enough.
It's the opposite in Australia. No one really did Halloween when I was a kid but now many local communities will get together to do something and houses will be decorated for trick or treaters. I still ignore it though, which my sister is disappointed by, especially when we were living together.
Watching movie on a Saturday with the whole village together because not everyone had a tv or the power (literally electric power) to do so.
My dad grew up in country Australia, so they had tv service about 10 years later than Melbourne so even if people could afford a tv in his town, it wouldn't have helped! The movie theatre in town was very popular though, and they would see a lot of newsreel footage, cartoon shorts and some tv specials as well as the movies.
Um. Melbourne is in, Australia not outside of it.
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Smoking section.
You want to try being as old as me - every-where was a smoking section when I was growing up, no distinction at all, anywhere.
Load More Replies...We had smoking lounges in the dorms at college. Then they stopped allowing it and turned them in to TV rooms. Which never lost the smell of smoke.
Load More Replies...Man I'm so glad those are gone. Lived through them and never want them again.
Floppy disks.
Aka the save icon in software that kids these days can't identify. .
Good music videos.
There's an awesome variety of creative music videos being made today, the prevalence of less expensive recording equipment and venues like YouTube mean artists don't have to rely on the support of a label to create cool visual art.
The pop in. It was completely normal to show up at a friend's house unannounced.
I miss this. Now that most people live their entire lives through social media, I feel like I'm intruding when I go to someone's house, even if I've been invited.
My abs.
Oh... mine are still there, but are well protected. Yes, I stay in shape and yes, round is a shape.
Houses having colour. You would go in and there would be terracotta walls, Aztec pattern sofas, sun moon curtains. Now it’s whitewash or grey.
Sitting here, having my coffee in my royal blue living room....so not all of us live the "sad, beige life".
I bought blue couches and drapes and fun sheer panels just to bring color in. Love the idea of a whole royal blue room!
Load More Replies...My experience is the opposite. I grew up in that white and beige house in the 90s. Wasn't allowed to paint my walls a color as a kid. When I grew up and got my own house I painted every room a different color. Green living room, red kitchen, blue bedroom and many others. I love the color!
My living room's Emerald green walls reflect the Caribbean blue carpet well. You like color, use it.
The reason nothing was white was because everything was covered in tar and nicotine from all of the cigarette smoke. that's why a lot of things were yellow and brown before the 80s.
Night games! All the neighborhood kids would meet at the manhole in the middle of the cul-de-sac at night and play hide and seek. We knew which yards to stay out of and which ones were cool with it. We made up rules on the fly and it was a different game every week. Kids would leave based on when their parents said they had to be home by.
The oldest kid in charge of all the younger kids at home while our parents went out and lived their lives.
this has not disappeared in the slightest. i see this more and more now than ever. especially with how expensive everything is. both parents working multiple jobs and elder kids either also working or looking after the younger ones. especially in lower income and immigrant communities. the parents aren't out "living their lives" but they are out.
Calling a movie theater to get the showtimes and listening to the whole recording.
Striking up a conversation with a stranger in a public place because you're both bored. That doesn't happen today because the instant boredom approaches, everybody pulls out their phone.
Maybe under 75? Ever senoir I see in public is always on that phone.
Load More Replies...Burning CD's.
This is the song that Doesn’t End…
Yes, it goes on and on my Friends
Some people STARTED singing it, not knowing what it was
And they’ll continue singing it forever just because….
I heard kids singing this at the school I work at last month. They were surprised I knew it. The other one we sang is 'I know a song that'll get on your nerves, get on your nerves, get on your nerves, I know a song that'll get on your nerves and it goes like this...' and the original version of baby shark, which was much more violent.
Downloading a song (that was 50% likely to not even be the song you think you're downloading) for like 5 hrs,. Lol.
Ah, good ol' ShareBear.... or whatever the software was called 😅
White dog p*o.
"Bone meal was a common dog food filler. It would start looking like normal p00p but after some weeks it would be all white." -Reddit user
Load More Replies...Getting girls s*******d drunk to sleep with them. Consent was hardly an afterthought then, so that was considered a valid strategy. The world's a better place today in that regard.
It was done the other way too - when I was in uni I was party to a memorable conversation about it being difficult to get the “right amount” into a guy as you risked “brewers droop”. Consent is definitely something that’s a positive in todays society!
Jimmy Saville being someone kids looked up to and aspired to meet.
Jesus H Christ.
I hear sleep-overs aren't really a thing anymore, due to overprotective parents. Trick-or-treating pretty much entirely died out where I live as far back as the mid-00s (rural place). And suburban neighbourhoods used to crawl with kids on Halloween, now it's far fewer. Maybe 15-25% of what it was. I guess they do that lame trunk thing. Bah.
Trunk-r-treat. It's like where a school or neighborhood shows up to a parking lot and everyone decorates their trunks in a Halloween theme. The kids then go car to car instead of door to door. People feel it is a safer alternative than knocking on doors, especially if it is an organizaton like a school or your place of employment.
Load More Replies...To be honest, we used to see a lot of kids on Halloween in my neighborhood, but everyone stopped during Covid. The porch lights(including mine) never came back on. It's not the parents, really, it's the neighborhoods.
The supermarket nearby does a trick-or-treat in the afternoon so children'll have a safe place to go. The sidewalks aren't meant for walking, especially not for children in the dark.
I live in a huge city and I'm having trouble wrapping my head round "The sidewalks aren't meant for walking, especially not for children in the dark". Wtf does that even mean? Do you live somewhere where the only people near you are paedos, sociopaths, psychopaths etc? Man, I feel bad for the kids out there.
Load More Replies... That feeling of being completely disconnected from your school friends over Summer vacation. I had my neighborhood friends and my school friends (went to a private school).
You came back the following school year, eager to catch up.
If not completely, you probably communicated seldomly over AIM (or another messenger), but for the most part, you didn’t see/hear them.
The way we listen to music when we're on the go. All streaming apps nowadays such as Spotify but back then it would have been MP3 players, iPods etc. Even back then listening to music at home would have meant listening to music on the radio or using the likes of discs.
In some ways I miss cassettes and CDs but I enjoy the convenience of Spotify.
I listen to the radio, especially in the morning, in my kitchen. One day, I wanted to start a discussion topic in my class (high school), saying, "This morning, I heard on the radio..." One of my students looked at me in that belittling, pitiful look and said "You still use a radio?"
I don't stream music. For whatever reason folks don't believe me when I say this but it is true. I used to use Pandora, long ago, back in the early days. I found it repetitive & thought there were too many (also very repetitive) ads. This reminded me of what I've always hated about commercial radio so I deleted the app. Tried Spotify for a bit, was much the same. Then all of this was made worse when my friend (who is a professional musician in a band in Australia) informed me of just how little he gets in return for his music being played on Spotify. Sure, the death of the old music industry was great in that now anyone can post their tunes to Bandcamp or whatever, removing the need for the A&R guy & all that, however another result is that artists aren't pad fairly for their work. So, taking all of that into account, I decided not to support these music apps. Been over a decade now. I listen to the local college radio station (no ads and great, diverse music), and my cd's and vinyl.
Gameboy/Gameboy Color 😃.
I've still go my Gameboy Advance SP and bunch of games. The peak of handheld tech imo
Pagers.
They were never considered normal in my part of Australia. If you had one you were a doctor, lawyer or rich, from what I could tell. I never saw one in real life, only on US tv.
The little black book.
It was a small address book that guys carried around, to write down girls' phone numbers before cell phones. It was a plot device for a lot of 80's and 90's sitcoms, since it was a big deal if you lost it.
I made a reference to a "little black book" recently and no one knew what the hell I was talking about.
Paying by cash. It hasn't entirely disappeared in the UK but you get some funny looks from retailers when you attempt it.
I use cash whenever I can. I don’t think that retailers should be allowed to refuse it as it is still legal tender.
It's still commonplace in Spain and I practise it intentionally. The disappearance of cash is not the good news some think.
I hate how some people now a days react when people pay with cash. Many look like the believe you arrived at the store in a UFO.
I always carry some cash. Not much though. Ya just never know when you'll need it
Workers in break rooms talking to each other or reading the paper.
I hate it when someone interrupts the peace of my d**n break. I spend 8+ hours a day with these motherfückers, I get ONE hour to rest and eat a sandwich and you want to talk to me? Get the fück outta here!
Talking to people. Normal communication. Dealing with life issues without a life coach. Want a girl? You better get your balls together and make a move, no hiding behind apps and filters.
Never experienced the 90’s but from what I’ve learned from this period (may be biased towards what books I’ve read show, please tell me in this case):
- Practically no security in airports
- Things coming from the US being something extraordinary, like some kind of seal of quality (for european kids)
- Physical PC games
-OS-less game consoles.
Yeah, You really didn't an onscreen OS when the games were on cartridges, since all the interaction between the the game and the system was done through the console's board. But once the Playstation came out, that changed with games being on discs.
Prior to cell phones, I had to buy a calling card for payphones when traveling for business.
This is what I was given when I started high school in 2003 because I wasn't allowed a mobile until I turned 15, two years later. I think I only used it once.
Send chains of Emails or SMS because “if you don't you will have bad luck for 10 years”.
Free ticket to Disneyland or Disney World buy spamming your friends or Bill gates will donate a certain amount per email to a charity.
My in laws gave us a couple of audio books on CD for Christmas as we're about to have a major road trip across Canada
They were STUNNED to find out we had no CD player in the car ....
Neopets.
My email (which I embarrassingly still use) is made up from the names of my neopets
Answering machines.
Boredom.
Real gold jewelry instead of everything being plated.
Yeah, and there was a lot of junk jewelry back in the day, too.
Load More Replies...Yeah we've never had that in the US. Open a history book.
Load More Replies...Loyalty. Saying the truth Not discarding people after manipulating them for self convenience
Yeah we've never had that in the US. Open a history book.
Load More Replies...Loyalty. Saying the truth Not discarding people after manipulating them for self convenience
