Cultural differences really make waves. For instance, while the United States and the majority of Europe belong to the Western world, the two are still an ocean apart.
Redditor Comfortable-Use6239 asked everyone on the platform to name the things they believe are normal on the Old Continent but horrifying in America.
In less than a week, they have received nearly seven thousand replies. From tipping to the size of parking spaces, continue scrolling to see which have gotten the most attention.
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Female nipples on TV and social media? We can’t grasp why the USA is so fixated on censoring them. Violence and death are shown without issue, yet the female nipple is taboo. It seems the influence of fear-mongering religious groups still holds sway. It’s absurd.
This is what too much censoring gets you BP. Those are moles, not nipples. You'd know if you ever looked at one. /J
I am 70 years old. As a teenager, we thought the repressive Catholic church was the end all of narrow minded prudishness. Then Evangelicals and Baptists come along and made Catholics look like amateurs. Now they have merged religion with government and Fascism. Just keeps getting better!
I post on a closed page on FB. Today, I posted a picture of a beautiful woman, who was obviously naked, but you couldn't see anything; it was a photo taken from the side, just bare skin, no nipples, no "full frontal", or anything, just a beautiful woman. I also post pictures of men (for the ladies on the page), you can show their nipples. FB flagged me for posting "porn", for the woman, but said absolutely nothing about the bare-chested man I posted. I think that amounts to double standards.
That’s a turnaround, as it used to be the opposite. I recall a friend of mine posting pictures of himself and his partner on holiday, just pictures of two topless men wearing shorts and trainers, but they were flagged as being ‘porn’.
Load More Replies...Yup, a relic of the many shiploads of over-marinated religious sects who were kicked out of Europe and moved to North America. We are still fighting against the same kind of people, who believe what they are told to believe, but now by sources that are controlled by the 1%: A guy named Lee Atwater realized that the easiest people to convince to believe things that have no proof are people who are already accustomed to believing things with no proof. Simply by telling them that Republican candidates will make the government a Christian nation, they just vote like they are told. When they noticed that their lives were considerably worse off than before, they were told it's the Democrats' fault and they believed it (Don't get me wrong, the Democratic party aren't innocent people either). Lee Atwater later admitted feeling guilty, because his idea worked far better than he expected. There is a documentary about him: [https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Boogie_Man:_The_Lee_Atwater_Story]
This even varies across Europe. I remember sitting in a place that showed three danish TV channels with a brit next to me. He nearly had a conniption when one channel showed a french movie with bare breasts, another a program rating dildos, and a third a childrens program about how babies are born, with a close up of the head breaching. It was at 16h on a Saturday on the main channel of the danish broadcasting corporation.
I remember a trip to Paris which at the time was showing a similar billboard advert to the UK - I think for perfume. It was a naked woman, save for a fairly broad red silk scarf; in the UK, it was round her midriff, in France it was round her chest. Nothing untoward was visible on either picture, but it struck me as an interesting contrast.
Load More Replies...Europe wished you a speedy recovery. In the meantime, go vote yall!
Load More Replies...I remember watching a show from the US about maximum security prisons: they interviewed an inmate about his experience at the facility. This guy described, in intricate and gruesome detail how he brutally murdered his cell mate and mutilated the corpse, including cannibalism. But they drew the line when he said the f word, and censored that. Hilarious
Being able to vote even if never registered to vote - you are registered automatically, so that's not even a term. Your voting rights cannot be removed ever. Even if convinced of crime.
Capital punishment is forbidden in the EU countries.
You cannot give up your right to trial, unlike in the US where you are easily forced to give up the right to sue the companies that provide you the services.
This is somehting that Americans look on with envy not with horror. This is how it should be here.
As an American who disagrees, often vehemently, with about 90% of the things Europhiles claim are better about Europe, I believe there should be massive reform of forcing people to agree not to sue companies and NDAs.
Load More Replies...In the Netherlands you can even vote if your passport/ID card has expired, unless it's been expired for over 5 years. I think that's a good system, voting is too important to let it depend on someone forgetting to renew their passport on time.
Up until quite recently, you could vote in the UK without showing any form of identification. The recently departed Tories introduced voter ID laws in an attempt to prevent younger people from voting. They specified forms of ID which younger people were less likely to have than older people, while excluding forms of ID often possessed by younger people. It backfired, with more older people being prevented from voting due to not presenting valid ID. Frankly, the law should be repealed: in person voter fraud was vanishingly rare in the UK and never changed the result of UK election that I know of.
Load More Replies...If enough people are being convicted of felonies that their votes will sway the election, that's indicative of a larger problem.
True, people vote for political parties, who decide new laws. If being left handed becomes illegal, suddenly none of the left handed people are allowed to vote, because they are all convicted criminals, and can never reverse the policy. It's why there's a huge issue with "liberal" becoming a bad thing. Because al advanced democracies are "liberal democracies". That's where all our freedoms come from.
Load More Replies...In Belgium, voting is required, My wife has lived with me in the US for many years now, but she still has to vote in every election. Fortunately, you can give your vote to someone else…my wife’s step mother always votes for her
In the last elections voting wasn't mandatory, if I recall correctly.
Load More Replies...Why do you have to be registered in order to vote? Isn't your birth date registered somewhere? And if you move, don't you have to notify the city council where you move to that you are now living in their area? So sending you your voting papers is just a matter of combining the two systems. Having to register in order to vote is just a means to discourage people not to vote and not voting is always to the advantage of the have's and not to the have-not's.
European registries are far more comprehensive (some might say intrusive) in comparison to those in North America. Even when it comes to having a census, Libertarian types often say, "but Sweden doesn't have a census" -- nope, they have a registry of where you live that's entirely up to date. [As a snapshot, people say the entire plot of Breaking Bad couldn't happen in Europe because of public health insurance, but that's equally true for the plot of the Girl with the Dragon Tattoo in North America.]
Load More Replies...That's not completely true. There are some crimes that in the EU can have -as an ACCESSORY punishment- the interdiction from voting for up to 10 years. The application of this punishment is regulated by specific State's laws, and has been confirmed to be legal by the European High Court in 2015 (case C‑650/13).
“Even if convicted if a crime”. We currently have running for president a man who cannot, in the US, vote because he is a convicted felon.
It doesn't take affect until his appeals are over. And then it depends on the state laws.
Load More Replies...a personal ID ... a Sunday walk around the corner to fill in our wish and throw it in the box... 10 min. later we can go for a beer and keep our fingers crossed
Having to provide an ID to vote in the US is asking the minimum in my opinion.... you have to provide an ID to buy alcohol or get on a plane or buying a house or getting medical care or buying a pew pew or getting a fishing license or to pick up medicine or get a marriage license .... I could go on and on... but proving your a citizen of the country you live in seems reasonable.
I suspect that on the other hand, people from Europe would find it incredibly weird that i) in the US, voting systems are run on a state-by-state, county-by-county basis and ii) that the governing officials are elected, partisan individuals -- as opposed to having a non-partisan, national organization.
Non-partisan national organization...? Are you new to this planet?
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Buildings that are over 300 years old being used instead of building new ones.
The U.S. hardly has any buildings that old, because the country is relatively young. The ones we do have are preserved now, though we did lose many along the way.
It's not young, it's just the inhabitants didn't build using stone until the Europeans came.
Load More Replies...We don't HAVE any 300-year-old buildings. How is it shocking that Europe uses the ones you have?
There are buildings older than 300 years. Just not many of them.
Load More Replies...Also buildings that are actually built with cement, iron and are not taken off by wind.
Some very beautiful, reusable buildings have been razed in little over 30 years of being built!
I wonder what level of skill the trades workers have to deal with the ancient plumbing and electrical wiring in old European buildings.
Not tipping.
I (UK) only ever tip my barber. It's not expected here. But if a man has a razor around my throat, I want to stay on his good side.
Load More Replies...No *forced* tipping. We tip if we are happy with the service. That is what tipping is and should be: A small bonus to someone I give with free will.
Correction, we do tip. Or, a lot of us do. But we don't have to do it to stop feeling guilty because we know the staff is underpaid. We do it because we feel generous, because we feel respected and well served by an enthusiastic staff, whom we know does not get paid top-wages.
In other words, you didn't mind bringing an extra jug of water? Well, I don't mind not getting any change back.
Load More Replies...My cat Attila used the litter box yesterday and once finished, she stood there with her paw out until I gave her $5.00.
Tipping in the US is necessary, but it is a Catch-22 situation. If tipping were removed, companies would be expected to pay minimum wage. The companies have convinced the electorate that food costs will have to rise to cover the extra revenue needed. That it is untrue is beyond comprehension.
Walking to the store.
dyslexicassf**k: My mom traveled to the US for the first time recently, she was shocked at how unwalkable it was and how people went everywhere with the car
I know you mean where you live regionally, but I lived next to a supermarket. As in it was next door to my condo complex. I figured I'd just walk to the supermarket. It was a pain in the a*s. I ended up driving. .2 miles. And I'm not lazy when it comes to walking; before and after that I walked multiple miles to and from work, but that was not carrying groceries. Maybe if it had been only my own and not my family's?
Load More Replies...My dad was in the US, admittedly a good few years ago, and he wanted to cross a main road from his motel to a diner to eat. He asked which way to walk for a pedestrian crossing or bridge. The reaction was astonishment. Obviously you get in your car and drive. My dad assured the concierge that he really didn't mind a good walk, so even if it took half an hour he would like to walk to where he could cross the road and then back up the other side to eat. It took several exchanges to establish that there was literally no way to cross the road - from a motel to a diner directly opposite - in either direction at all. I wonder if the staff member actually thought about it afterwards how ridiculous that was. So, yes, my dad had to get in his car and drive a big loop to get to the diner directly opposite the motel. This is not normal in Europe!
Had the same experience in Miami a few years ago. Wanted to cross the road to the mall at the other side on foot. Was impossible.
Load More Replies...Majority of US just isn't walkable. Call us lazy if you want, but if your commute to work is 30 minutes by car, imagine what it is on foot. And that isn't even considered a long commute. Given our weather, it just isn't feasible for a lot.
Barely anyone walks to work. But to the store it should be inside the neighborhood and not half an hour away next to the freeway. The whole zoning in the US is already stupid AF.
Load More Replies...You'd be surprised how walkable many of the big cities in the U.S. are. It's the sprawling suburbs, that begin to spread in the 60's, that aren't walkable.
I'm 15 minutes by car to my nearest grocery store, but my in-laws live at least 30 minutes away from a well stocked grocery store. There's a "general store" closer by, but it only has the basics and may not even have that sometimes.
The German Foreign Ministry has a travel advisory that you should not photograph your own children naked when you are in the USA at the beach.
In Germany it is quite normal for small children to bathe naked on public beaches or in swimming pools.
The German Foreign Ministry is likely advising in an abundance of caution. As a generalized summary, photographing naked children in the US is legal or not based on intended purpose. As you'd guess, the line is whether it is intended to arouse or be child porn. Between the obvious ends of the spectrum can be a big gray zone. If something just isn't on your camera then you don't have to convince some authority person the intent was innocent. Basically it's laws that had good intent but have sometimes been abused. Seeing toddlers naked isn't that rare. Saw this summer. Not swimming pools though. Usually swim diapers required in case they poop.
Folks in US have been arrested for taking pictures of kids in swimsuits, even thought they were just in background. Rare, but happened. Especially in the 90’s and aughts
Load More Replies...Here's a great idea, DO NOT PUT YOUR CHILDREN ON THE INTERNET, EVER! It is very wrong for grown adults with a thinking mind to throw their children into any social media. Forget the b******t, let them just be kids.
Being naked is a crime here . See above comment on public breastfeeding. GASP! The horror, I saw a booby(rolling eyes and smh)
Drinking alcohol in public spaces. In many European cities, it’s perfectly acceptable to enjoy a drink in parks or on the streets, while in the U.S., it can lead to fines or legal issues.
Be careful. It differs from city to city. In Amsterdam you will get a warning if you're polite, a fine if you're not.
Many years ago, we attended the Fall carnival in the Centrum. As we left the grounds, I asked a police officer if I could leave with my beer. He gave me the go-ahead. This would have been in the 80's or 90's, so I guess things have changed.
Load More Replies...It depends on the municipality. I live in a coastal town that has walk-through daiquiri shops, and people pretty much drink where they want. As long as they're not obviously hammered or causing issues, no one cares.
Children walking or cycling to school and outside of school activities such as sport or theater, all by themselves.
nope this happens in US too. There are regional variances though
I agree with Matthew, it does happen in the US. Perhaps the OP means quite YOUNG children? That might be more true. Not Europe but as an example, more than once in the Philippines I saw pretty young girls (edit - I meant fairly young, not a critique of their beauty) in school uniforms walking, and traveling on the jeepneys (basically city bus) by themselves. Usually in a pair but no adults escorting them. Young enough it made me think of my youngest granddaughter and how I would not want her doing that.
This is relatively common in some places, but in many others, it's just not practical. The US infrastructure is built for cars, Europe is not.
As the youngest of 7, I clearly remember walking to school with or without my siblings my very first year of school (kindergarten) and we lived approximately 3/4 mile from the elementary school. Later, we sometimes rode our bicycles. My parents never accompanied us to or from school. This was the norm!
Same with us, except it was 3/4 mile just to the bus stop.
Load More Replies...We definitely have this. My children walk or bike to and from school every day.
I had this in the 70s when I grew up. Walk and biked to school by myself or with friends. No adults were around us.
Suggesting a medical visit for a mild injury.
It stings how much this hits close to home for us Americans. I'm a veteran, so my Healthcare is free, crappy because it's the VA, but free. I got commercial insurance once, good insurance too, my blood thinners cost $244 a month. That's insane for a pill that I absolutely have to take to stay alive. Went crawling back to the VA, lol
It's bad enough that people have to suffer for lack of money, but for someone who has served their country it's just disgusting. Andtheprices of medicines in theUS are shocking. Makes you wonder what "freedoms" you were fighting for. As a Brit, I'll always be grateful for the NHS, however imperfect it might be.
Load More Replies...Depends on whether you have health insurance through your employer, get it through Obama Care, or buy it on your own. Universal health coverage would be better in the US.
I have very fair skin and tend to keep out of the sun. I was however, very grateful to get a fast appointment on a Sunday morning to check out what looked to be an abnormal mole. False alarm thankfully. No cost and no waiting around. 👍🏻 U.K.
I'm in the US and knew a guy who went to the ER because he cut his finger opening a can. He got 3 stitches. Cost him $1,200. And this was in the 90's. Lost all respect for him, tbh. We don't go to the ER unless we're carrying a limb in a separate bag.
This is one that I, as an American, thankfully don't have to worry about, at least for my kids. We're low-income so my kids are on Medicaid, which in my state covers more or less everything for them.
Hopefully not a red state. Trump is gonna gut it
Load More Replies...Yeah if you get an appointment in the next 3 years.. at least in my country in Europe. "Free" healthcare = you wait for a hundred years or pay a private doctor, so basically you pay twice.
You're full of s**t, the VA is amazing, they've done everything for but wipe my butt. Sounds like you're in an area that needs more leadership than followers.
The VA is like any other large organization. Some places suck, others rock. I've mostly heard it is great, but there are some people who have had lousy experiences.
Load More Replies...I think it depends on what you call a 'minor' injury. There are people who waste the time of medical services by going to the emergency department with a broken nail, but if you've had a fall and aren't sure if you've broken something or just very badly bruised it, it's good to be able to go and see a medical professional to check. (It was just very badly bruised, thankfully: hurt like a female dog, though).
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Calling an ambulance.
NiceGuysFinishLast: I drove myself to the emergency room for a coral snake bite. They didn't have the antivenin, I had to go to the hospital. They called me an ambulance despite the fact that I had already driven there and I said I didn't want one. Total hospital bill was 94K and the ambulance was a separate 3K that dropped to like 1K after I gave them my insurance.
It's horrific to all of us except republicans. They think universal healthcare makes them communists. It's depressing how straight up stupid half this country is. And it's only getting worse.
Load More Replies...Makes me realise just how lucky we are with our NHS. Husband woke this morning with a pain in his chest and coughing up small amounts of blood. Looked on the NHS website and they advised him to call an ambulance, which arrived within 10 minutes (no blues and twos), the paramedics checked him, heart, blood sugars, chest etc and decided he probably had a chest infection and he could attend the emergency walk-in at the local hospital if he so wished. Cost? Nothing. Well, we do pay our National Insurance contributions from the day we start work, so we do pay, but nothing like the horror stories from the US.
The NHS is the most beautiful and amazing thing Britain ever did. I just wish more of our taxes went there, instead of to bail out failing water companies that shouldn't have been privatised to begin with.
Load More Replies...Personal story: while we were in Western Australia looking at the amazing wildflowers, my wife became ill (she had been dealing with cancer for 5 years). She was airlifted to Perth by the Royal Flying Doctor Service, and when stable a few days later, she and an accompanying nurse were flown back to Sydney NSW in business class on a QANTAS flight. The cost was $0.00. She passed away 3 weeks later.
I'm really sorry to hear of your wife's passing. Not having a huge medical bill was one less thing to worry about at such a terrible time, I'm sure.
Load More Replies...So your choices are to go into horrifying, possibly life destroying debt or die? This is 2024, how do insurance companies and health insurance providers in the US get away with this?
Because no one stands up and says no. And that goes with all the thing the US are behind in. They all just allow it.
Load More Replies...Canada no Hosital bill, $50 for the ambulance. Your senators and congressmen get free health care. why not everybody. Is it because they would have to tax the wealthy their fair share?
If our senators and congressmen got the same health care as us peasants, health care would improve dramatically in just a week. They also get regular raises while refusing to raise minimum wage and only work half the time the rest of us have to work to keep a roof over our heads. And then they wonder why the American public thinks they're all crooks and a******s. Which they are.
Load More Replies...I woke up to my house on fire and I had to jump out a 2nd story window and was covered in soot and in shock. By the time I came to my senses, they had me on a gurney getting ready to put me in an ambulance. I freaked out and jumped off, then crumpled to the ground as my ankle was badly sprained. There was no way I was getting in that ambulance. I'd rather lose the foot than pay five grand for a ride to the hospital. They were pissed and made me sign a waiver. They were mad that they couldn't make the worst night of my life any worse.
I hear you. I was having chest pains one night and my British husband had his finger poised to call an ambulance, I said no. It wasn't a heart attack, just gallbladder trouble, but if I had taken that ambulance, between that and the emergency room, I'd now be many thousands of dollars in debt for nothing.
Load More Replies...Here an ambulance ride costs alreast €750 but its fully covered by health insurance. Also having health insurance is mandatory.
Here they cost 0 - $40 depending on which region you live in. Without the need to worry about insurance.
Load More Replies...Even with insurance, the cost is shocking and without insurance every ailment, operations giving birth is treble the cost of anywhere else in the world. It's sometimes more than treble. You could have the best job in the world but you're one serious illness/accident from financial ruin! It's disgusting! American dream? I think not.
The American system is so much more expensive too, you lot are allowing the d**g and insurance companies to shaft you.
We aren't "allowing" it, we can't do anything about it. The insurance companies and private equity firms that buy up hospitals and run them into the ground for profit are killing people for profit
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Minimal air conditioning.. Europeans tend to rely less on air conditioning even in warmer weather.. many Americans, used to blasting AC, might find it uncomfortable or surprising.
Here in the UK, during our four days of sunshine per year, we would love AC, but for the rest of the year it wouldn’t be needed so would be a waste of money to instal it
Our back room can get very hot as the sun comes down that way from early afternoon until it sets. I bought a portable unit in the summer. It was worth it as it cooled the room nicely. But a full on ac system would be a waste of money.
Load More Replies...Once I visited Florida in August and it was hot! AC absolutely necessary! But I had to carry a sweater around because while it was 40 C outdoors as soon as you went inside somewhere it was keep at a tooth chattering 18 C! Why the huge temp difference which is also a waste of energy. Why not keep it at balmy 25 C?
The coldest winter I lived through was in July in LA... in American AC. My Italian friend and I both came back home with colds and sore throats. You guys really go overboard with that.
You didn't get colds and sort throats from the A/C, you got them from being around lots of people while traveling. People in the US tend not to isolate when sick, for a variety of reasons, which leads to mild illnesses spreading widely. Coming from a different part of the world you likely didn't have the antibodies for the viruses circulating where you went. That happens the other direction too.
Load More Replies...Some cities in the US are in a climate that isn't naturally habitable without AC.
Where I live in Phoenix is one. We have hundreds of people die here every year from heatstroke.
Load More Replies...We use fans in our naturally uninsulated homes in NZ, AC is fantastic during perimenopausal moments though.
When I lived in the pilbara, we turned the air con on in November, and it stayed on until March. Only ever turned off for maintenance. If it stays of for three our so days in the wet season, your house will get to 50C+ and go mouldy. We even turn off the hot water system because the water that comes out of the cold tap is a higher temperature than the water from the heater.
Load More Replies...Here in Texas, It is almost November and it is still 90F (32C) during the day. In mid summer, it is 105F (40.5C). We regularly have people die from heat stroke in the summer. So AD is a necessity, not a luxury.
Walking for ten minutes ina city instead of getting a taxi.
This also depends on where you are in the US.. the big cities that got established before cars were ubiquitous are still pretty walkable. In NYC I never bothered to own a car and most days I never needed the train. New Orleans, San Francisco, Boston, Chicago.. a few other places that at least have city center that you can do this too.
Chicago is one of the best cities anywhere to walk around! Went on a walking architectural tour which was amazing!
Load More Replies...Many American cities are making a concerted effort to become much much more bike and pedestrian friendly. I live in a large Midwestern city that has built hundreds of miles of bicycle trails and the downtown corridor, Which is roughly one square mile, has been completely redeveloped so that a person could easily live there without a car, even in the worst winter weather.
Yeah I'm a 15 min walk from Edinburgh Castle, Dean Village etc. Completely car free because people park in our street to walk into town so there's no point. Got all the grocery shops and amenities within 5 mins too. Wouldn't swap it for anywhere else in the world.
I remember being in Miami for work, and staying in a hotel 200m from work, the security guard at the hotel wouldn't let me walk there and drove me in his golf cart; this is the story of how I met Jesus, he was a very nice guy, and on the third night I was working he even brought me food.
In my city things are too far apart to walk. I live "close" to the city center, but it still takes 10 minutes to drive there without traffic. The closest grocery store is 15 minute drive without traffic. ETA: we also have no public transportation in my neighborhood, so owning a car is pretty much a necessity.
Not just Europe. I was in Australia recently, I was walking in a city going shopping but I ended up hurting my hip (pre existing injury) and had to hobble to the nearest train station to get a taxi back to my hotel. The taxi driver said 'It's just a few minutes from here! Can't you walk it?' I had to explain my situation and he took me back to my hotel. Made him feel like s**t for being iffy with me at the beginning by giving him a big tip. I always kill people with kindness
Cops without guns.
Most European Police forces are routinely armed, and a reasonably large proportion of UK Police are - they just aren't armed automatically. Certainly Police at transit terminals or other high-value locations are likely to be armed, in any European country.
Armed police are relatively rare in the UK. Just 4% of the 142,526 officers in England and Wales are armed (compared to all 708,000 in the US). In England and Wales only 6,677 officers are authorised to carry firearms.
Load More Replies...They've got guns in Northern Ireland and sometimes trout about with machine guns
Norwegian police is also unarmed (or rather, ungunned) except for in special cirkumstances. A big part of the years of police school is given to learning deescalations
That is changing though. Big events like Eurovision bring out armed cops in public. I saw three armed cops in a mall this spring in Malmö. I have to admit that it shook me.
Ever since 9/11, cops in Europe have always been armed at big events where there’s the potential for terrorist attacks.
Load More Replies...I find it interesting that the USA has lots of police forces at a town level compared with Australia where they are all state police. A population of 355.5M compared to 26.5M might have something to do with it?
Nudity in TV and print media.
FUN FACT, at least until the early 70s, they could not show a woman in a bra on TV. Lived near the Canadian border in the days of broadcast TV. Only got a few channels and about half of them were from BC Canada. The Playtex "cross your heart" bra commercial was on several stations. You could tell whose country you were watching because the Canada ads had a woman modeling the bra and on the US channel the fully clothed woman was pointing to the bra on a mannequin. LOL (And yet we had bikinis and Marianne and Ginger could wear skimpy swimsuits on Gilligan's Island. Mixed signals. )
I remember the woman in the “cross your heart” bra wearing a full turtleneck sweater under neither her very pointy brassiere lol
Load More Replies...We have something called the watershed in the UK, which means that TV programmes with 'adult content' shouldn't be broadcast before 9pm. Swearing seems to be more acceptable on UK TV than US TV I find. It's always fun to see American guests on Graham Norton and Jonathan Ross be suprised at how much more they can get away with saying.
I grew up with page 3 we nearly always had The Sun (and other papers) in our house, and you know what it didn't warp me at all. I grew up (relatively) normal.
Load More Replies...You wouldn't see men in briefs underwear either. This was before the at least the 80's. Maybe even early 80's.
Directness in communication.. Europeans specially in places like Germany or Netherlands are often more straightforward in conversation which might come off as blunt or rude to Americans used to more indirect communication.
This varies greatly from country to country within Europe. Sure, directness is common in the Netherlands and Germany, but not in the UK.
I always find it funny how many words americans invented to not say toilet. Restroom, powder room etc etc. Everybody knows you need to pee, why not say "I need to visit a toilet".
I've seen highway signs advising the weary traveler that a "comfort station" is available at the next exit.
Load More Replies...When the USA stops affecting the rest of the world immensly with their politics, europeans will stop telling people from the USA what to do. In other words... probably never.
Load More Replies...Well that's just it. To you it may sound rude but I appreciate the honesty without all the frilly nonsense
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I know this one.
The size of parking spaces. Parking spaces in the US are 1.5x bigger than those of Europe, almost double at Costco. European vehicles are on average very very small and their parking spaces reflect that. I rented as Mazda 3 and it was a pretty tight squeeze in 99% of parkades.
Consider that before you decide to rent an SUV or bigger.
Yeah, nah. "European vehicles are on average very very small "? European cars used to be a sensible size on average, but have grown ridiculously huge in recent years. Compare a modern "Mini" with a proper Austin Mini from the 1960s-80s, or any of those old small Citroens (2CV, Dyane, Ami) with almost anything on the roads these days. Or an original Fiat 500 with what passes for a Fiat 500 these says. And that's before I get on to those ridiculous "SUV" things. They're daftly huge here in the UK, while American SUV and pickup trucks are bigger than WWII tanks. https://www.motorbiscuit.com/american-trucks-suvs-almost-bigger-world-war-ii-tanks/
But this is not comparing older European cars with modern cars, it's comparing modern European cars with American cars, and the European cars (while bigger than they used to be) are STILL smaller than American cars.
Load More Replies...I don't think European vehicles are small, I think US - vehicles are partly absurdly big. Waiting for German capitals to do it like Paris and ban SUVs from the inner cities except professionals like builders etc
They are. There is a Dodge in our neighborhood and it's a huge beast. He can't park it at the street, because it's too wide and needs two spots at the lot. And he can't drive to Kindergarten, which is in a curve in a narrow road🤣
Load More Replies...Can concur for the countries I've been to. And if it's Italy I'd advise you to just not drive. Unsure about their parking but saw a lot of crazy driving.
From my experience of Italy, the rules of the road are essentialy a free for all.
Load More Replies...Mazda 3 is mid size family car in Europe. I laugh when Yanks call Ford Ranger mid size pick up. That thing is massive on European roads.
US parking spaces need to be wider due to the size of the people in the cars.
I'm in the US with a Fiat 500. I can park ANYWERE. I once 'shared' a metered spot with a SmartCar.
Because of large cars becoming more common in Australia (I hate it!) parking spots are set to become larger in the new future. Takes a lot of juggling to work out exactly how to increase them in the current carparks though.
the size of parking spaces in certain parts of Europe doesn't catch up with the growing sizes of cars, even "regular" passenger cars have grown in size over the years - you don't have to drive an SUV to have a problem squeezing your vehicle into a space set for car sizes from years back; but also - greed, parking spaces around markets and shopping centers are managed by specialised agencies and are paid after a period of time, so smaller slots means more money for them
The parking lots in Berlin are widened because all the f*ckn SUVS don’t fit anymore
Letting kids play outside by themselves, or going to the local playground.
Well you've got to give them freedom at some point in their lives.
Load More Replies...Same. Papaw had 20 acres in the foothills of the smokies. I was in those woods all the time.
Load More Replies...I live in the US and the kids that live on my road are always biking and playing outside without supervision. They're probably 4-8 yrs old. My siblings and I also did this growing up.
My kids play outside by themselves every day. (After walking home from school.)
My kid (11) plays outside all the time, even when it's raining. It's hard to get him to come inside sometimes. And he is allowed to go certain places away from our apartments to but he has to check in, which he has a cell phone for with a tracker app on. I did see an article that a lady (I think in Texas) was arrested for letting her 10yr old walk half a mile to the dollar store recently though. So stupid.
kids play outside in the u.s. by themselves...but less so than in year's past...but hey, adult supervision is a good thing sometimes.
Mass gathering without x-ray and bag checks.
Eh, that may change in some countries here in Europe in the future - knives, axes and other blades became quite a problem in the last 10 years
funnily enough, perpetrators of knife or gun crime at such events or those who ram into the public with their cars or vans seem to have special protected status - online articles on the subject in mainstream media outlets have their comment sections disabled, complaints to the police cannot be effectively filed because "racism"..
Load More Replies...The US is a gun crazy country. I'm thankful for metal detectors and bag checks.
I would rather be in a less gun crazy country but that's just me....
Load More Replies...That is changing. I live near Indianapolis. So I see on the TV about the Indianapolis 500. They are implementing more safety measures for the people who attend the race.
Having a bidet.
Ironically; wide spread is the best way to use one ;)
Load More Replies...I love my bidet, they are however not common in the north of Europe, I never had one, or saw one, growing up in Danmark.
Never saw one in my whole life. But never been to southern Europe.
Load More Replies...Grew up with the European variety. Use the toilet, then move over to the bidet. The new types are so much more sensible!!!
In Finland, we have this in every homes basically, it is part of the basic wc furniture. I don't know anyone who uses it instead of toilet paper tho, it's there for washing your private parts if you don't feel like showering every day.
A bidet is for washing everything below the waist. Makes washing feet a lot easier, for example.
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Not refrigerating eggs.
Yes, but they have to be unwashed (bloom must stay intact) and not refrigerated at any time. They're good for a few weeks on the counter.
Americans won't buy eggs with chickensh*t and feathers on them from farm stands even.
Load More Replies...It’s crazy how so many people think we’re stupid for refrigerating eggs yet they have no idea there’s a difference between eggs that can stay on the counter and eggs they require refrigeration. Unwashed eggs stay on the counter. Washed eggs require refrigeration
We don't think your stupid for refrigerating the eggs, we think you're stupid for washing off the bloom which then forces you to have to refrigerate them.
Load More Replies...So much hate for the way Americans store eggs! Calm down. To each their own.
Yea, it's not our fault we have to store them in the fridge, blame the big market farms and stores that wash the eggs before shipping requiring us to store them in the fridge.
Load More Replies...We have our own chickens in the US and we only refrigerate hard boiled eggs we keep fresh eggs on the counter and only wash them before we use them
I can't wait to have property that I can do this myself. fresh eggs are so much better.
Load More Replies...I have a question. If eggs aren't washed in Europe, I assume they're still cleaned somehow, but how? I've been around chickens my while life, so I'm aware of the fact that it's common for freshly laid eggs to have fecal matter on them. Surely that's not still on them when they're for sale in stores?
One of the reasons they stopped washing eggs in Europe is to ensure that the chickens are kept in cleaner conditions. In the US you can leave them living in their own sh!t, because once you wash it off no-one will know.
Load More Replies...Also eating raw eggs (some countries). Raw egg consumption used to be more common in the US as well. Orange Julius used to use raw eggs. Years ago they switched to powdered eggs. But in the 60s / 70s we used to make them at home with the same basic recipe. Orange juice, milk, ice, vanilla, sugar, raw egg - in blender. It's pretty dang good actually, but back then I never thought twice about the egg.
Yeah. The U.S. chicken industry has a big salmonella problem.
Load More Replies...It’s to do with some sort of enzyme reaction to cold. Makes them go off more quickly.
The Socialist Party winning a national election.
A coronation.
A restaurant that served fries smothered in mayonnaise.
A public restroom with squat toilets.
Seeing people under 21 drink alcohol in public. Legally.
Going into McDonald's and looking at the menu and seeing McFalafel, Croque McDo, and even beer.
Especially European mayo. Hellmann's doesn't do fries justice.
Load More Replies...Where does this person think Europe is? I'm European and have visited many European countries other than my own and never seen a squad toilet.
Some parts of southern france in particular have them, I've also seen them in Greece, as well as Romania and the Balkan countries, but moreso in rural areas, otherwise it's "modern" sitting toilets. I think in more rural parts of places like Russia they might also exist, but I'm not sure. Not really a thing in Northern Europe for sure, though.
Load More Replies...I've never seen one in Europe myself, but I haven't been everywhere.
Load More Replies...I went to France once and when I asked for tomato sauce on my chips the vendor looked absolutely disgusted. He informed me that he didn't have any. Mayo only. To my surprise it turned out to be delicious. Fast forward about ten years, and now every café and restaurant in my country serves aioli with their chips. Thanks, France! We finally took the hint.
You have to be 18 to drink alcohol, yet we drink at a much younger age. But I haven't seen a squat toilet in Europe, I haven't visited all country though. :D
I recall them being moderately common in France in the early 1980s. I avoided them. Now, about those German loos with the little shelf to catch the poo for examination before you flush...
Load More Replies...Having to pay a fairly significant sum of money to become a licensed driver. Getting a regular license in Europe is way more expensive than in the US.
Yes, because we teach people to drive, we don't just show them the car and wish them luck. Many countries include all sorts of weather conditions, vehicle maintenance, first aid training and other useful skills as part of the driving test.
Road deaths in Europe are about one third of US, per capita, so, yes.
Load More Replies...Yeah because drivers in Europe have to demonstrate that they can drive safely on actual roads, rather than around some cones in a private car park. That sort of teaching can only come from a qualified instructor who has dual control of the car, rather than your parents. We also tend to learn in manual cars over here, which are harder to learn than automatic.
U.S. here and we take driver’s ed in high school, on actual roads, with an instructor in the passenger seat who has their own brake pedal.
Load More Replies...I doubt anyone in United States takes a driving course. You have no idea how bad the drivers are!
As an American who spent almost nine total years in Germany (where they take driving seriously) I can say from experience that a whole lot of Americans are terrible drivers.
Shutting down markets at sundays are perfectly normal in europe
it may cause public outrage at US.
Probably would not cause public outrage, but would make some corporate overloards angry
Which would be stupid, because the stores are open for just as long as in the US, just split up so workers have a chance to be human beings. Customers wouldn't suffer at all.
Load More Replies...I recall a lot of stores weren't open on Sundays in Canada. It was like a law, or bylaw in some regions, that unless it was a vital service, or something like a convenient store. Either not open on Sundays or not open in the mornings. Then the laws loosened up when immigrant store owners complained about potential loss in sales and complaints from customers. Now, it's the business owner's choice.
Most states had Blue laws here in the US for decades. No stores open on Sunday, because it was the sabbath. Virginia ended theirs in the 90s, they were some of the last.
Load More Replies...Which is so ironic considering the amount of religious zealots in the us. Isn’t it supposed to be the Lord’s Day? Blasphemy!
It varies. Sunday opening became legal in the UK back in the 1980s (edit: for some sorts of shops, like furniture and DIY stores, supermarkets were later), whereas some parts of France/Germany and Switzerland even close earlier on Saturdays than the rest of the week. Exceptions are allowed in tourist areas.
It is not that long ago that we used to have half-day closing in some places in the UK. Was usually a Tuesday or Wednesday. Even when supermarkets started opening on a Sunday, they still had different licencing hours, so the alcohol aisle was closed off for part of the time. At least it is fairly consistent now.
Load More Replies...Here is my thought. Shut down 24 hour convenient stores. They are a magnet for crime after dark anyways. AND 24 hour super stores. As for the f*****g big box stores, a complete revamp on the store hours, hear me out . No one needs to be buying 2 x 4's at 9 PM on a week night. Calm down Paul. Lowe's, Depot, Menard's should operate at hours of 6 AM to 8PM, Monday to Friday. Saturday hours would be 8 AM to 5 PM. Sunday, and man this will p**s off the corporate types, 10 AM til 2PM.
And they're going to do this how? The politicians who write the laws have removed the Blue laws because the voters wanted them removed.
Load More Replies...I live is Western NC, and we have been under curfew since Hurricane Helene...you should see the way some people react when they learn we have to close earlier, so our staff can get home...absolutely obnoxious, despicable behavior.
That is appalling, considering what you folks have been through and are still dealing with.
Load More Replies...This is why we need four-day work weeks. Saturdays and Sundays are currently the only time I'm not chained to my work desk and can go get groceries or run any kind of errand. If I had Fridays off I could do it then, and everyone could rest on Sunday. Let's make this happen.
England and Wales only open supermarket type shops between 10am and 4pm on a Sunday, but you can buy anything. Scotland's stores are open anytime on Sunday, but you cannot buy alcohol, so there's a lot of variation.
OOOHHHH the drama, family run grocer sold out to another family run grocer that refuses to operate on Sunday. Yes.. until you remember that, it is inconvenient, but I kinda like it. Workers KNOW they have 1 solid day they can plan on and don't have to wait on a work schedule.
I would say is more a mediterranean thing but eat your lunch with a glass of wine or beer. When I do this in the US, I look almost as an alcoholic. Same about smoke on the workplace (not inside the office but on the terrace or outside the office with the colleagues).
When I was a partner in an accounting firm in NYC in the late Eighties, we went to lunch together, and a drink was the norm. That changed over time. I don't know what the norm is now, as I only had experience at the one place.
If you can function at work after drinking alcohol, I do not see the problem. Hopefully you are not a surgeon. But even one beer puts me under the table.
There's a lot of hypocrisy on how Americans deal with alcohol and sex. I guess it's rooted in religion.
Many businesses don't allow their employees to work with "alcohol breath". We used to have drinks with lunch until the bank I worked at didn't allow it anymore.
Leaving your baby in the stroller while you have dinner.
Normal in denmark(and a few other european countries), gets you arrested for child endangerment in USA
It's common in Nordic countries, but not at all common in most other European countries, and would probably get you in trouble in many of those too.
Jaya, I've only been to five European countries (not nordic) and I never saw any babies left out. That's a limited, anecdotal sample but it concurs with what you said. It's not like babies everywhere when you go to Europe.
Load More Replies...You can leave your baby in a stroller while you're eating dinner in North America, lol!! There's no stroller-police! Do you mean leaving babies in a stroller, outside the restaurant, unattended? That's different!
Yeah, it's about leaving them outside to sleep in the fresh cold air while you're inside eating.
Load More Replies...Not a thing in the UK. One reason is Jamie Bulger. Don't read this. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Murder_of_James_Bulger
That's because crime is so rampant in United States. I would not want to raise a child here now. We were free to be outside all day in summer- ride our ponies all over, swim in the lakes, roam our little city without our parents fear for us. Not in today's world.
Where else are you supposed to put a sleeping baby? He’s safer and quieter left in a buggy. Never seen it be a problem in any European country including the U.K..
Times they are a changing, and leaving your child unattended is no longer safe
Not true. We took our daughter into restaurants and left her in the stroller next to our table often.
Did somebody leave their baby outside while they were inside eating? Stupid and dangerous, somebody could very easily just take off with the baby.
Just because you live in a crappy country doesn't mean that it is the same everywhere.
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Charging for water at a restaurant. Charging to use the restrooms.
We have toilet stalls with proper doors, so no one can see you. Take that! 😈
Load More Replies...In the UK, tap water is available for free by law in restaurants, and I've never heard of any European restaurant anywhere charging for people to use the loos.
In the UK it is illegal to serve food or drink without having a toilet available free for patrons. You can charge non-customers but almost nobody does.
Load More Replies...I live in southwest France and have never seen anyone charge for water or for restrooms. And even the smallest village has at least one free restroom (WC) in each town for anyone to use.
I've never been charged for tap water anywhere in the UK (bottled water yes). And the only places that charged for the toilets were train/coach/bus stations..but even they are free now. Some places do require you to purchase something for the code, but that tends to be coffee shops that you are frequenting anyway.
Paying 8$ for a gallon of gasoline.
$2.77, in Western NC, after a major catastrophic weather event...perhaps you all should move.
It's close to $5 in Washington state in the area I live in.
Load More Replies...Not sure where it's that expensive. A US gallon is just under four litres. On recent trips through France,Germany, , Italy and Greece only one or two of the otorway service stations in Italy were more than 2 Euros per litre (and even then you get it ten cents cheaper at the self-service pumps). Filled up a couple of days ago for around $US7 per US gallon.
It may have been an expensive statistical outlier - but the 1.70 € per litre (~7 $ per gallon) that I pay at present is not that far away. The consensus in the comments is at about $ 3 to $ 5 per gallon in the States.
Load More Replies...Those tiny streets.
I'm sure though that horse drawn carriages where of comparable (or even larger) size. So it's more reasonable to say they weren't made for "vehicles" of any kind rather than cars specifically.
Load More Replies...There are still areas like that here in the US. Our neighborhood was started at the turn of the 20th century, barely enough room to park cars on both sides of the street. Many houses have no garages so...
The size of a european cup of coffee.
Wrong! The Americans use half the amount. But they compensate it by roasting it twice as long. Hence the need to ad half a gallon of cråp, just to make it somewhat palpable
Load More Replies...its just less diluted ... ...feel free to mix an espresso with 1 liter of water and cream and pour this in a Stanley
2 different experiences on a recent trip to the USA. A Starbucks coffee in Silverthorne CO was so hot it scalded my mouth, and a cafe in Frisco CO where my flat white was at a perfect temperature and so delicious that I had a second.
Even if it's at the proper temperature, Starbucks coffee just tastes bad. To my palate.
Load More Replies...In Europe, they mainly drink espresso coffee. That is much stronger and much more concentrated. In America, they drink drip coffee, which has a far higher water content. They aren't the same product at all - think of it like a jalapeno pepper and a bell pepper. You wouldn't think the bell was 'better' just because it was larger.
No we don't. Italy maybe. We drink filter coffee or from bean machines.
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Not owning a car.
Lots of people in the US do not own cars, have u seen how much cars cost!!! All kidding aside there are lots and lots of areas in the states that u don't need a car, in fact I think there is a very large percentage of NYC residents who have never even had a license. Grew up in SF, summers in NYC I do not miss factoring in time to find parking to go to a movie or paying 10 bucks to park for an hour (in mid 1980s).
I would disagree that there are lots of places. You don't need one in big cities, though some do have them anyway, but outside of big cities forget it. If you don't have a car you'll be riding very limited bus service, with a lot of walking in-between.
Load More Replies...Let me correct this. A lot of people in the US don't have a license, car insurance, or glasses for decent vision. But they still own a car and drive anyway.
I love in one of the poorer new England states, where not everyone has a car and our public transportation is an absolute joke!!! Just because we need a car or a ride, doesn't mean it's feasible to own and maintain one....technically, if you have medicaid, youre supposed to be able to get a ride to doctors appointments and surgeries, etc but only with 48 hours notice, and the bus only goes to some areas....forget getting a ride to go grocery shopping or to go to a show,, or museum, or anything extra...I'd love to see our country actually follow through with not having cities oriented around cars, so those of us who care about the planet can have our needs met too....
Everyone I know owns a car. Only the folks in the big cities like New York or Chicago don't really need cars. For me, a car is freedom. Doesn't matter if it's a beater or brand new. As long as the damn thing runs, that's all that matters.
Well, just so long as it runs and the lights and the brakes work, I'd've thought...
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Going out on "THE SESH!", Americans dont comprehend how much we actually drink as Europeans, and we dont drink water down swill, its proper beer, larger and ale... we go big and then have no idea how we got home, and i think in america they would call that alcoholism but in the UK we call it Saturday night.
Blackout drunk being the norm is not a flex. Not calling it alcoholism is denial.
Getting blackout drunk is clearly too much. Going out and getting properly pissed up on a Saturday night is a very different matter. Unhealthy for sure, but not alcoholism if you're only doing it once a week at most. There's less of it than there used to be, and that's probably a good thing.
Load More Replies...Lol, the UK drinks more Fosters than anywhere else in the world (Australians do not drink it). That stuff is carbonated cat pee. So yeah, they do drink swill.
One thing a lot of UK and Irish patrons would tell me, was some smaller bars, if you pass out or need a nap, will let you do so at the bar or wherever they sit. And when they wake up, a magic bacon and egg sandwich appears. I thought it was nice, as it would cut down on a lot of drink drivers who don’t think they are that drunk.
Never heard of such a thing, and I think it would be a very bad idea, given that someone that drunk would probably need at least five or six hours to get their blood-alcohol level down below the drink drive limit. So allowing them to sleep off the worst of it is just going to make them think they're OK to drive now, when they're almost certain;y not.
Load More Replies...The Germans and the Irish give us Brits a run for our money as well.
Load More Replies...Bring your a*s to Madison, WI and you'll leave the "sesh" horizontal.
Salaries. At least in my field, they appear to be 1/3 to 1/2 what an equivalent job would pay in the US.
But you have to add the citizenship benefits, such as healthcare and a someone liveable pension. *somewhat
Paid several weeks and months of sick leave, paid several months of maternity leave, several weeks of paid holidays, paid additional training, often free education/child care. ... And the full equipment you need for your work, including double for home office.
Load More Replies...Yes, but you don't go homeless after an accident and a surgery. Of your employer cannot fire you just because they wanted to or you'd not work overtime all the time.
Buying power more important than raw number of "money". Cost of living, taxes, what the government does/doesn't provide and so on.
This. That makes it already better than the US. And then we add all the benefits and rights they don't have...
Load More Replies...You have to pay your tax, insurance, pension plan, and we have it covered by salary. Oh, and we do not need to pay for other people salaries by tipping...
yes, BUT you have a lot more holidays, vacation, sick leave, maternity leave....so, count your blessings
Healthcare rips us up in the U.S. Minimum wages and tipping finishes the job.
Yeah because the cost of everything else is so high! It would only take one serious accident/illness to leave you in financial ruin. Only 1% of Americans are rich!
Speedos in a non-sporting context.
In France that's "moule-boules", b*alls snugglers.
Load More Replies...Why? And does that mean women can only wear a one piece?
Load More Replies...Depends on the dude wearing it. Dad bods can look quite delicious in a speedo.
Eating dinner at 10 PM! In Europe, it’s just a normal night out but in the U.S., you’d be met with confused looks and a few “Are you planning to party with the vampires?”.
Really depends on which part of Europe though, in the Netherlands for instance this is completely uncommon.
We went to Amsterdam last year and we always eat late here in the UK. So we get back to our hotel, get settled and decide to order food via Uber eats ect. All the takeaways shut at 10pm. I was actually blown away by this, now I don't smoke satans salad as it makes me super paranoid but I had to think how other people coped having the munchies when smoking in various cafes. We did not eat that first night as it was almost 10pm so would not have the time to order then get it delivered. Loved Amsterdam though, I really wanted to explore more of the area but others that I was with wanted to get stoned and go to the red light district. I'm planning another trip next year as it had so much to offer and I did not get to see any of it. Kings day was fun though.
Load More Replies...This is only in Spain. You would not be able to find many open kitchens at 22h in this northern Europe.
It's only really Spain where 10pm might be considered normal. Most of the rest of Southern Europe tends towards somewhere between 8 and 9, with 7-8 normal in more Northern parts - the further north the earlier it tends to be. Conversely I was astonished on work visits to the US that a team or department celebration dinner would be planned as early as six o'clock. . No way could I eat at that time, would always need to get something else later on in the evening as well.
Exactly. Norwagians tend to have dinner arpund 3-4. Then a bread meal for the evening around 6-7. Weekends dinner can be much later, though sunday dinner with extended family can be earlier. 😆
Load More Replies...From North to South dinner time is later. In the North 17h is pretty much normal, in the South 21h is absolutely ok. No, these are not "military times", in Europe a day has 24 hours. It avoids confusion, like my cousin assumed her flight back home was at 8am, it was at 8pm (20h) actually.
I don’t understand this one. Don’t people ever want to be asleep at a decent time? Don’t people have to wake up early? 8 is the latest I ever want to eat. I want to be in bed by 10
Beans on toast.
I only know this from the UK, which other countries do this too? Here in the Netherlands, people would either ask you if you're British or if you're crazy.
"Are you British or crazy"? What, you Dutch types think us Brits *aren"t* crazy? I mean, we voted to leave the EU...
Load More Replies...In my part of France we smile because it means that someone is British.
Plenty of protein in the beans and bread, carbs, the sauce even throws in a few vitamins. It's a near perfectly balanced meal.
Load More Replies...Better still if you spread marmite on the toast before adding the beans... damn, now I'm hungry!
Toast, fried bacon, baked beans and then a fried egg on top. The ultimate in comfort food.
I wonder what kinda beans these would be in the US, like pork n beans or baked beans. ?
Haricot beans in tomato sauce - and this is where Heinz makes them: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G6O2zTuGOVQ
Load More Replies...I love beans and toast!! That was a "treat" dinner for us as kids. Btw I'm from Michigan.
Kids being left alone in homes for more than 15 minutes.
That is not different. I think a run of stories about overprotective priviledged parents gave the world in inaccurate idea that we are all paranoid helicopter parents.
It also may have something to do with a higher percentage of kids getting diagnosed with learning disabilities. It is not a safe idea to leave a kid with ADHD alone at home with access to matches and maybe even guns.
Load More Replies...I was at 10, responsible for accounting for brother (5) as well after school. Could cook him something to eat and get him out the door to play. Or homework if it was raining, blah blah blah. Never thought anything about it as odd.
Load More Replies...We have "latchkey kids". They usually have single moms and are home alone most of the day
I was alone after school and had to take care of my 3 younger siblings at age 11. Make them some food, take care they do their homework and clean some things before our parents came home about 4 hours later. Normal for most of my friends, too. It was not ideal, i would have prefered to have some more time with my friends, but the fridge did not fill itself for free. Anyway, i think it teaches you a lot to do that, you learn to manage your time, prepare food, keep the house clean and social skills because as the oldest you would not take any bs from your siblings. They had to do what i say. I would not raise my own children like that if i had any but this hystery about not leaving your children alone for 5 seconds or they burn down the house is just stupid. How are they going to learn to be independent adults if you not trust them a little bit?
It's illegal here. They can't be left home alone until age 11 and it can't be longer than 2 hours or it's considered atonement. Crazy.
If you are talking about the US, it is different per state. Where I live, Nevada, there is not specific age. They just have different factors to go by. Like if a kid can call 911, knows there address, and a few other things. But I would hope it would be common sense to know when your kid is mature enough. When mine was 7, I would run to the store real quick without him, but he also had a phone and we had a neighbor that knew he was there when I would go out and had my phone number. Now he is 11 and he is home alone for a few hours school, but again, he has a phone and we know a lot of the neighbors in our apartments.
Load More Replies...Depends on the age. Babies up to 12 years old, no. 13 to 16 questionable depends on their maturity. 17 and up yes, but I still would say on their maturity.
You wouldn't leave a 11 YO alone at home for more than *15 minutes*? And at 15 YO it's questionable? Unless they're very special needs that seems a bit excessive to me.
Load More Replies...When I was 14, I stayed by myself for two whole weeks when my family went on vacation since I had a summer job at the time. Today the cops would have arrested my parents and thrown me to CPS. All I can think of is if we had today's kids in WWII, we'd have lost the war. Today's kids can't do jack for themselves anymore and it's mostly because they're not allowed to.
Well, we DID employ kids and still lost (I'm German). /S I don't think children's prowess at the front line is a good meter for judging their maturity. But I do agree that in the long run overprotectiveness hinders kids more than it helps them.
Load More Replies...My sister and I were left home alone when our mom and brother would go grocery shopping.
I'm always reading articles about infants, toddlers, young children, being left alone and something bad happens...like fire or severe neglect...in my state, the minimum age is 13 to be left alone
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Having to pay to pee.
I've seen this twice here, but actually this is pretty rare. Almost all toilets, at least in the UK, are free. I can't remember when I last had to pay.
It's pretty normal in the Netherlands and i think also in Germany. I know for certain you have to pay when you use a bathroom at an Autobahn gasstation. To be fair, the sanifair bathrooms are excellent.
Load More Replies...When I was in China, the restaurant did not have a public restroom. The server led me down the street to an alley where there was a hole in the ground. The only privacy was a swinging bar room type door. Freaked this westerner out.
In the UK you pay to use some publicly provided toilets. It depends on the council. As more and more councils are going broke, they're just closing the toilets anyway, as they can't afford to clean/maintain them.
VERY rare that this happens, in fact the only place I have had to pay (20p which is roughly 25 US Cents) was at London Euston station and to be frank, Travel For London should pay us to be brave enough to use them
And having gender neutral toilets. My first trip to Europe, I had a layover in Zurich, Switzerland. They did have separate toilets. But I exited the stall and there was a woman cleaning. I thought I had gone in the wrong toilet, but then saw the urinals. No one in there gave her a second glance. But places like Poland, in smaller businesses, toilets are gender neutral and all stall based, and people share the sinks. It seems fairly common, depending on the country.
Th US made it illegal to charge to use a restroom in the 70's, but it's not illegal to close the bathroom whenever you want. So no public restrooms unless you pay for something in the location is a real thing.
I've seen this in Blackpool, specifically at the coach station, and I understand why...... Me (after having been in): Mam, use tissues when you go in there, you can't use the toilet roll. And don't even put your bag on the little bench bit Mam: Why? Me: They've been using the bench to snort stuff, and there's blood spots on the toilet roll Given that all that has to be cleaned up, I don't mind the charge
Some places like train stations charge in order to keep out the homeless sleepers, d**g users and potential vandals.
Yeah... this does horrify me. I have been abroad in places where this was the norm and learned a whole new form of anxiety
Throwing dirty toilet paper in the trash can instead of flushing it down the toilet....
I am soooooo happy I live in a country where you can just throw it in the toilet itself. I've had to throw it in the trash can during some holidays, and I absolutely couldn't stand that, horrible. I get why it's necessary in some places, but I feel so grateful that we have bigger plumbing pipes here and don't need to do that.
The only country I have been to in Europe that doesn't let you just flush it is Greece. There may be others, but it's not commonplace.
Load More Replies...Only experience that in Greece and in non-european countries, e.g. Indonesia.
Plenty of places here is the US where tp isn't flushed. The plumbing wasn't designed to properly handle it, so it has to go into a bin.
The only country I have ever experienced this was in Turkey and that was in the 90s, never in Europe or somewhere else.
Letting your cat out to enjoy the garden.
Mostly still the norm in the US, but the damage to native bird populations prompted a trend towards keeping cats entirely indoors
I can’t let my cat out here in the uk as I can almost guarantee he will get stolen also he is a moron who will get lost and just cry, for example, he got into a kitchen cupboard that I left open, he made the most god awful screams of help and pity… the door was still open, he just hadn’t worked out that he is also able to climb out the same way he got in
My cat used to go outside, run around, eat grass then come inside and sleep for 27 hrs a day. MIss you forever, Taco.
In the US outdoor cats have a life expectancy of 2 years (due to getting hit by cars/fighting or getting eaten by other animals) but indoor cats have an expectancy of 16+ years. Some outdoor cats may live longer but that is the exception not the norm. My guess is my 18 year old cat who is incredibly healthy has at least 5+ years left in her.
The North American coyote’s range has dramatically expanded in the last century. They’re even in Central Park NYC. Feline AIDS is also a new worry. Every wooded area has avian predators. All this above and beyond increased numbers of cars on the roads. Just keep the cat inside.
Lord knows I've exterminated enough of them, but they're rabbits basically
Load More Replies...An interesting survey from Australia https://www.abc.net.au/news/2024-05-19/banning-pet-cats-roaming-native-animals-billions-dollars-council/103856000
I am definitely on the side of keeping them all indoors. Many places in Victoria have a curfew already but some have actually banned all cats from outside.
Load More Replies...My cats have their own little cat door and enjoy their fenced in yard whenever they want in the US, I close it before it gets dark though because I have a lot of coons, owls, and coyotes
I once had an outdoor cat that got hit by a car. I never let another cat go outside again. Especially where I live now. I’m in the country so there are coyotes everywhere and neighbors think it’s ok to let their aggressive dogs be free range. The outdoors are not always safe
….and it goes to neighbours backyard to torture all small animals to death - squirrels, birds, snakes, lizards and taking craps in the sandbox
I might be showing my age, but drowning unwanted pups was pretty common in Ireland back in the 80s. Horrible when you think about it.
Ireland was still a pretty poor country back then and you have to imagine a rural family on the poverty line. No one wants or needs the puppies, they can't afford to feed them, there's no institution to take them, there is literally no other option. It was kinder.
Load More Replies...Might be my age, but mass shooting in schools are pretty common in US nowadays. Horrible when you think about it.. and it can be easily stopped, but you seem to like your rights more that children lives...
Who's "you"? The majority of Americans are in favor of some level of gun control.
Load More Replies...How can anybody drown poor little puppies or kittens or just dump the whole litter on the side of the road somewhere?
My grandparents did this too, it was a common thing (90s) and still horrifies me. I don't want to think about that it's maybe still a thing in rural areas.
drowning or otherwise killing "unwanted" pups or kitties is still not so uncommon in a certain other European country, but a mention of spaying or neutering a pet to pet owner causes outrage as something immoral - yeah, contraception, especially surgical contraception, is immoral for some deranged religious folks even for animals
Blowing your nose at the dinner table, especially when it's really snotty, and then putting the handkerchief or better yet paper tissue back in your pocket.
I am not leaving the table multiple times in a meal to blow my nose, and if you think blowing it is a problem then feel free to listen to me sniff. And where the heck else do you keep a tissue? Do you ball it up on the table?
Better than sniffing, if you sniff I offer you a tissue, because it's so irritating.
Miss Manners states that it is acceptable to blow your nose at the table as long as it's done quietly and discreetly. Which is why I never do so, because I'm a noisy nose blower.
And if you have a permanent sinus condition? Just lock yourself in and never go out?
Load More Replies...According to Bored Panda staff, there are only three locations in the world; Japan, Europe, and America.
And on the Tipping-post they said they leaves religious notes instead of tips, that say "you are going to hell"... Just like Jesus would have wished for...?
Load More Replies...This post ist bonkers, sorry. Europe is a whole continent. There even is the European Union and not all european countries are part of it. Also with some countries people aren‘t even sure if they belong to europe or asia. Not all of these are true with all european countries… big cultural differences and laws everywhere. Even the USA is not all the same…
I recently had a little chat about the differences between the USA and Central and Western Europe. In the end we came to the conclusion that a lot of it boils down to the fact that in the USA there is probably a view that it's your own fault if you get ripped off. Whereas in the parts of Europe that we know (Central Europe and Western Europe), the view is that anyone can get ripped off if it's done right and therefore it's the fault of the profiteers if any damage is done. Accordingly, the laws are different. Of course, I would also be interested to hear what others have to say about this.
I like learning about other countries but why does it always have to be a competition. All countries have good points all countries have bad points.
That sounds like something that someone from -insert name of your country- would say! -s
Load More Replies...According to Bored Panda staff, there are only three locations in the world; Japan, Europe, and America.
And on the Tipping-post they said they leaves religious notes instead of tips, that say "you are going to hell"... Just like Jesus would have wished for...?
Load More Replies...This post ist bonkers, sorry. Europe is a whole continent. There even is the European Union and not all european countries are part of it. Also with some countries people aren‘t even sure if they belong to europe or asia. Not all of these are true with all european countries… big cultural differences and laws everywhere. Even the USA is not all the same…
I recently had a little chat about the differences between the USA and Central and Western Europe. In the end we came to the conclusion that a lot of it boils down to the fact that in the USA there is probably a view that it's your own fault if you get ripped off. Whereas in the parts of Europe that we know (Central Europe and Western Europe), the view is that anyone can get ripped off if it's done right and therefore it's the fault of the profiteers if any damage is done. Accordingly, the laws are different. Of course, I would also be interested to hear what others have to say about this.
I like learning about other countries but why does it always have to be a competition. All countries have good points all countries have bad points.
That sounds like something that someone from -insert name of your country- would say! -s
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