Women Are Sharing Examples Of Men Being Creepy, Here Are The 50 Worst Examples

Why do (some) people with penises think that the solution to every problem is more penises? The reality is the solution to so many problems is fewer penises.

"she just needs you to stop being such a f**king pushover and to leave her alone"

They have d***s no one needs.

Nice sentiment, but I find it strange that the most voted answer for the question "Girls of Reddit" is from "I'm a guy"...

Women fear rape. It’s a terrible word for a terrible act but it’s a word nonetheless. Stop censoring what we go through. Stop lessening and hiding. It’s rape.

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Not all women think this way. I never go out thinking omg this guy is talking to me he is going to rape me.

This one is complex. Part of the problem may be that some men take rejection badly, and even violently. This makes women afraid to be direct, and so they err on the side of being demure. Which can come off as non-committal. As men we can't both complain that women are sending us mixed signals, while also freaking out when they don't.

If you dig too much into a "polite rejection" you might end up forcing her to reveal the real feeling behind the rejection. ie "Even the very sight of you makes me want to vomit". Accept "you're just not my kind" every time.

and yet every rom-com movie and TV show undermines this simple premise. According to them a rejection, and a second rejection, and a third rejection absolutely means "you have to put more effort into it before I say yes'.

Yes!!! (I mean, exactly right)

"Hi, ma'am. Let me compliment you by giving you all the details of my low opinion of women."

"You're not like other girls."

OTOH, psssst, don't let them know. They so wonderfully reveal all their red flags through this. They tell you that they are bigots who want to sleep with women, but not women to sleep with men etc. - it really makes it easy to filter out the shytes. ;)

Once on a trip some dude did this and I shouted in my LOUDEST teacher voice, "DO! NOT! TOUCH!" He had the audacity to look all offended and hurt. I glared daggers at him. I noticed other women smiling. Zero regrets, would recommend 10/10, will do again, esp in public in a shop. One very light tap on the shoulder, and an 'excuse me" works fine, if the first verbal "excuse me" isn't heard. This is the rule for everyone.

I had a male colleague do that to me. We were both adults but he was significantly older. I was new to the job. Then one day my mother, brother, and niece come in. Colleague still doesn't know they're my family. I serve them, and then I chat with my brother a bit more. The colleague comes to tell me that while I should be friendly with customers, I shouldn't be too friendly, for example I still need to call them "sir" etc (to be fair that's reasonable and was part of his job to train me). I tell him it's okay cause they're my family, in fact the man I was just talking to is my brother. His eyes widened "Your brother???" Never touched me again. My brother pointed that out. I mean yeah it was good that he stopped and I'm thankful for my brother and all, but I shouldn't have to have a male relative present to avoid being touched without consent.

I'm a not small man and get the ick when random people touch me or even get weirdly close in my personal bubble. Don't touch people you don't know. I used to deal with customers and its wild how many people think it's OK to touch you as part of a conversation. That and close talkers that can't read the most basic version of body language. If I step away from you getting to close that isn't an invitation for you to step forward.

Don't touch me unless you want to be maced.

Oooooh I hate this. What gives you the right to touch what isn't yours (nor for sale)? I feel dirty afterwards, in a bad I'd like a shower way. I'm not a fruit in the farmer's market dude

Especially when it's someone who fixed your car etc

If they don't have the guts to ask me themselves, they're not worthy to even think about. Too weak/cowardly... to be my partner, and to deal with my family. Another thing: it's also weak to ask me to ask my father for something. You're a strong, self-respecting independent adult person, get your balls together and talk to him yourself! It's a good opportunity to build some sort of relationship too (or not, but try)!

Oh gooood.. This bring back a memory from like 15 years ago. I asked a mutual "friend" if he has this girl number. He did, so I asked him could he ask her if he can give it to me. And he was like "nooo, I will just give it to you." No matter what, I could not make him to asked her for permission.

Thank you for being aware and apologising. Not everyone would see the problem and fewer would acknowledge their part in it.

I was shopping and a guy saw me coming and pushed his cart in my way, then made me wait while he picked bacon, then got pissy when I didn't kiss his a*s. Weird freaking power play. I thought that being almost 60 would have mitigated stupid s**t from men. Guess not.

Why in the world would accidentally blocking someone's way and apologizing for it make you feel like a creep? If the apology isn't accepted, that's not your problem, it's theirs. Unless there was an ulterior motive in play, all you owe anyone in that situation is to acknowledge the mistake and correct it.

I'm a middle-aged man, and women call me "sweetheart" or "honey" all the time. I live in the South of the U.S. and it's normal.

Middle-aged guy here. I don't call anybody honey or sweetheart unless they are my children. But there is a regional thing here more than a generational one. When I lived in the south, older women would often call me honey or just hun.

I'm 70, and have found over the years that a lot of this is just a regional thing, some people just grew up this way and It's pretty evident from context whether such a term is used as a casual salutation.

I work with someone whose first name is "Darling." I grew up in the US South in the 1960s. There's no way I can call her by her first name. Fortunately, she understands.

Most aren't even trying to be respectful or nice, it's just the way they speak depending on where they come from and may not even notice they've said it. You're overthinking it

Fair, but here's a duck pick for you. And it even has 5 naked chicks in it. duck_pick-...04d2c0.jpg

And huge is often not good. Painful and often they rely on size to impress rather than other more enjoyable techniques.

The only time anyone wants to see a d**k is when they're already in the bedroom with you about to hook up. Keep it under wraps otherwise. It's not nearly as impressive as you think it is.