“People With Enormously Obese Pets”: 35 Things People Can’t Help But Judge Others For

We often form opinions about others based on the words they say, the actions they take, even the clothes that they wear, and since it's impossible to see the world through their eyes, we have to be extra careful with our perceptions.

At least, that's the theory, which in practice can be really hard. So when Reddit user DolphinsR4evr made a post on the platform, asking everyone "What is something you have a hard time not judging people about?", many had something to share.

From littering to neglecting pets, here are the submissions that received the most attention.

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"People With Enormously Obese Pets": 35 Things People Can't Help But Judge Others For Poor treatment of pets.

u/FirehawkLS1 added:

I see that often (I volunteer at our local shelter) and it really makes me angry seeing the people come in and just surrender the dog because they couldn't be bothered to put in the time and dedication. Dogs aren't a damn appliance. They are a living breathing being with feelings. There honestly should be a database that those people get added to that prevents them from ever having a dog in the future if that's the reason why they are surrendering a dog (or any other animal). And I get that there are legimate reasons for surrendering an animal (owner dies and surviving family cannot properly care for it, loss of housing and job, etc).

Willing-Survey7448 , sergio souza / pexels (not the actual photo) Report

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"People With Enormously Obese Pets": 35 Things People Can't Help But Judge Others For Leaving trash in nature or anywhere really. I don't get it.

AbsoluteEva , Ron Lach / pexels (not the actual photo) Report

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353points

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"People With Enormously Obese Pets": 35 Things People Can't Help But Judge Others For People who decline vaccinations for their children.

They just "know better" with zero real education on anything remotely related to science behind vaccinations.

thingsorfreedom , CDC / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

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302points

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"People With Enormously Obese Pets": 35 Things People Can't Help But Judge Others For Mistreating folks in the customer service industry.

randomNumber20 , Andrea Piacquadio / pexels (not the actual photo) Report

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"People With Enormously Obese Pets": 35 Things People Can't Help But Judge Others For People with enormously obese pets that can barely walk. It’s not cute, they are not a “chonker,” you just kind of suck.

PistolPetunia , Kat von Wood / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

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278points

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"People With Enormously Obese Pets": 35 Things People Can't Help But Judge Others For When they shove their religion in other peoples’ faces

anywherebutarizona , Noah Holm / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

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"People With Enormously Obese Pets": 35 Things People Can't Help But Judge Others For People who “declaw” their cats

attunedmuse , Arina Krasnikova / pexels (not the actual photo) Report

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"People With Enormously Obese Pets": 35 Things People Can't Help But Judge Others For I hate people who feel the need to constantly bring others down and make them feel bad about things they enjoy. It's so sad to watch someone's enthusiasm about their hobby deflate because another person decided to be a d**k about it.

ReporterOk4531 , Liza Summer / pexels (not the actual photo) Report

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246points

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"People With Enormously Obese Pets": 35 Things People Can't Help But Judge Others For People who don't use their turn signals.

cutiecakepiecookie , Krzysztof Hepner / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

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#10

"People With Enormously Obese Pets": 35 Things People Can't Help But Judge Others For Anyone who participates in that awful tradition of slamming someone’s face into their birthday cake.

Jkkramm , hotprime / envato (not the actual photo) Report

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240points

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HelluvaHedgehogAlien 11 months ago

This is rude AND dangerous

98points

TheDarkestRaven 11 months ago

Someone’s lost an eye over it once. The baker used dowels to stabilize the cake, and when the persons face was smashed into the cake, the dowel went into their eye. No joke.

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Not-a-Clue (she/her) 11 months ago

And a waste of perfectly yummy cake

16points

WindySwede 11 months ago

A reason to go NC. Utter disrespect for the person!

12points

Roger9er 11 months ago (edited)

That's stupid and to some extent narcissistic. My mother used to push my head into the dessert after she said it smelled funny and then laughed really hard. Innocent in her eyes perhaps, but I find it bullying.

23points

Danish Susanne 11 months ago

There is nothing innocent in doing so, and it is certainly bullying.

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Aqsa Azam 11 months ago

If someone did this to me, my day and mood would be instantly ruined

16points

Freya the Wanderer 11 months ago

And somebody would no longer be your friend

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Boots 11 months ago

And wedding cake smashing.

13points

Gardener of Weeden 11 months ago

I will repeat this here - Husband and I did the wedding cake feeding, then ( unplanned) we each put a small dab of icing on each others nose as a sign of our joy and playfulness. Still total respect for each other.Marriage lasted over 40 yrs

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Erick L. 11 months ago

We don't do this here. It's insulting.

12points

pebs 11 months ago

Agreed. If someone did this in my country the reaction would be very serious.

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Tabitha 11 months ago (edited)

What? I thought this b******t only happened at weddings. Now it’s spilled over to birthdays? If anyone tried to pull that one me at my birthday party, they would immediately leave my house—carried out feet first and in a body bag on a gurney. No jury would convict me, either.

12points

pebs 11 months ago

Fortunately it's not a "tradition" in my country.

9points

Gardener of Weeden 11 months ago

Only Birthday cake prank I found acceptable was the candles that would not go out. Yes there was a bit more wax to pick off - but to me that is an innocent prank.

4points

WonderWoman 11 months ago

Never heard of this. Why would you do that? Then no one gets cake and that is a crime.

4points

Fynne 11 months ago

Especially when kids are the victim

4points

Marcellus II 11 months ago

The root of the problem is people calling it a “tradition” when it’s a fad?

3points

Barbara Kelly 11 months ago

add: wedding cake!

3points

Jill Bussey 11 months ago

Or any cake. Weddings in particular.

3points

DrBronxx 11 months ago

That's one way to end a friendship.

2points

Roan The Demon Kitty 11 months ago

or wedding cake. or just any cake in general because wtf.

2points

Ali Sherlock 11 months ago

There was a women (don't know where from) who got a BB-8 cake for her b/day, family member or friend smashed he face into it and there was a wooden rod to support shape and it went into her eye. I'm sure she would of lost that eye.

2points

HarperTheCentaur (they/them) 11 months ago

To be honest I think I would just be amused if someone did this to me. However I don't eat cake so I have no stake in it being ruined 🤷‍♂️

1point

Danish Susanne 11 months ago

You wouldn't be amused if it was done with a cake containing something hard enough to ruin an eye or break a tooth.

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DarkViolet 11 months ago

Here's a simple solution: when some ogre slams the birthday person's face into their cake, take them outside and slam their face into a steaming pile of dog kaka, in front of the whole neighborhood. The kids will get a kick out of it.

1point

Danish Susanne 11 months ago

I kind of like the idea, but these days it is not easy to find dog kaka to use, cannot you make do with some mud?

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Randy Sanders 11 months ago

You do that to me, and you WILL eat the rest of that cake in one bite.

1point

Justme 11 months ago

My daughter in law’s family does this to everyone in their family.. it’s absolutely disgusting to watch as it always turns into a food fight.

1point

Missy Corron 11 months ago

Or wedding cake!! Insufferable ba$$$rd

1point

Ronnie Beaton 11 months ago

Anyone tries that nonsense with me, they get their teeth knocked down their throat.

0points

Fire Singer 11 months ago

As long as all parties agree to this I'm fine with it, but I would be LIVID if someone did this to me. I do not like it, I do not want it. We didn't even do this at our wedding because I think it's such a stupid tradition.

0points

Pickle (they/she) 11 months ago

Thank god I haven't seen anyone do this irl. Some cakes, especially tiered ones, have straws/sticks in them to secure the layers, and it would HURT to have one shoved in your face (understatement).

0points

Cat Chat 11 months ago

I didn't even know it was a thing.

0points

JayWantsACat 11 months ago

This one makes me irrationally angry. It's just the naked, rude aggression these people have to do it, like they're so desperate to slam the birthday person's face into the cake. It's like when you see people in mob mentality situations. It bothers me less on paper, but see all the videos or people lunging like animals pisses me off.

0points

Isaac Harvey 11 months ago

What about slamming someone’s birthday cake into their face?

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#11

"People With Enormously Obese Pets": 35 Things People Can't Help But Judge Others For People who use their phones on full volume in public. It’s one thing for kids, but I keep seeing adults doing it. I just cannot imagine being that self centered. I’m seeing it way too often.

Pugilist12 , Ketut Subiyanto / pexels (not the actual photo) Report

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#12

"People With Enormously Obese Pets": 35 Things People Can't Help But Judge Others For People with no sense of self awareness, so they stop in the middle of walkways/entrances/crosswalks for no reason.

progressiveanarchy , Willian Justen de Vasconcellos / pexels (not the actual photo) Report

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#13

"People With Enormously Obese Pets": 35 Things People Can't Help But Judge Others For When their kids are acting up and they’re ignoring it and/or doing nothing to try to stop it

anon , Keira Burton / pexels (not the actual photo) Report

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#14

"People With Enormously Obese Pets": 35 Things People Can't Help But Judge Others For Bragging about not reading books. Please stay away from me.

CellApprehensive7651 , Ricky Esquivel / pexels (not the actual photo) Report

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#15

"People With Enormously Obese Pets": 35 Things People Can't Help But Judge Others For Not cleaning up after their dog. Just get a doggy bag ppl

jfg1435 , Domino Report

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#16

"People With Enormously Obese Pets": 35 Things People Can't Help But Judge Others For People pressuring other people to do something after the other people have already said no

Orchid_wildflower , Liza Summer / pexels (not the actual photo) Report

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#17

"People With Enormously Obese Pets": 35 Things People Can't Help But Judge Others For People with loud cars or people that drive like they own the road

ShadowCobra479 , Vladyslav Lytvyshchenko / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

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#18

"People With Enormously Obese Pets": 35 Things People Can't Help But Judge Others For I find it hard to muster up sympathy for people who die doing exciting but dangerous activities. Free climbing? Scaling a building to dangle your feet for Instagram? Free diving? Cave diving? Motorcycle tricks on the highway?

I’m sorry to the family for the loss, but like… they died voluntarily doing something completely unnecessary and super risky.

FourWordComment , Steve Bruce / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

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#19

"People With Enormously Obese Pets": 35 Things People Can't Help But Judge Others For People smoking around their kids.

tinecuileog , Megan Forbes / pexels (not the actual photo) Report

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170points

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#20

"People With Enormously Obese Pets": 35 Things People Can't Help But Judge Others For being proud of being awful and absolute a**holes to their children

YamAnxious , Annie Spratt / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

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158points

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#21

"People With Enormously Obese Pets": 35 Things People Can't Help But Judge Others For When someone outgoing “adopts” a shy person. “I'm gonna make you more talkative!!” Stfu, and mind your own business, you weirdo.

Nervous-Plate-4409 , Gustavo Fring / pexels (not the actual photo) Report

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#22

"People With Enormously Obese Pets": 35 Things People Can't Help But Judge Others For people who do the whole 'competitive misery' thing. or similarly, people like the woman I work with constantly feel the need to act like my pain (and anyone else who mentions being in pain) couldn't possibly be as bad as hers and it's just very s***ty

ActuallyApathy , Ba Tik / pexels (not the actual photo) Report

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144points

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#23

"People With Enormously Obese Pets": 35 Things People Can't Help But Judge Others For Being extremely loud in public place or restaurants and bragging

anonnautilus , Priscilla Du Preez 🇨🇦 Report

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134points

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"People With Enormously Obese Pets": 35 Things People Can't Help But Judge Others For Overly "performative" people. Not just bragging, but... I know a guy for whom the act of reading is something you have to do in Starbucks in the hope someone will comment on the book he's reading, not actually about the act of reading.

Bisto_Boy , Lilly Rum / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

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#35

"People With Enormously Obese Pets": 35 Things People Can't Help But Judge Others For How well taken care of their pets are.

MissTifff , Chewy / unsplash (not the actual photo) Report

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50points

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What do you think ?

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Xenon 11 months ago

I'm surprised leaving a grocery cart where ever and not returning it didn't make this list.

24points

David Paterson 11 months ago

Torturers. I don't know anybody who likes torturers. Paedophiles, either.

11points

TheElementalGod️️ (He/him) 11 months ago

for the second one, not always. they CAN try to get help . however, if they are a child r@pist, then they are evil

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DB 11 months ago

People who always smell like booze or weed.

6points

Panda-sized Potato 11 months ago

People who can't put half an effort to capitalize when typing, especially their names. How lazy can you be to not be able to move a finger for half a moment. And don't get me started on punctuations!

6points

WindySwede 11 months ago

i agree /s

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Shane S 11 months ago

Gender Reveals

6points

Say No to Downvoting 11 months ago

Oh, totally. I Do. Not. Understand. Them. I especially find them so weird in this world where we are getting so much more woke and resist acting to traditional gender roles and stereotypes, yet there is this weird subset of people insisting on having a whole party based on “Guns or Glitter?Touch Downs or Tutus?”. It’s so icky to me!

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Jo Firth 11 months ago

Celebrities who say, "If I can do it, anyone can do it". No, luck plays a large part in any success!! Don't put people down because they haven't been as lucky as you.

4points

Paulina 11 months ago (edited)

I have my own petty one: People who knock on the door even though there clearly is a doorbell. I can't hear your subltle knocking with TV on, not to mention when I'm somewhere deeper in the house, vacuuming or wearing headphones. What are you thinking??

3points

Shane S 11 months ago

I honestly think sometimes they don’t want you to answer. They are assigned to knock on so many doors and may have gps trackers monitored by their boss, but sometimes they just want to go home.

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Pittsburgh rare 11 months ago

Why does the question say "what is something you have A HARD TIME no judging"? I don't have a hard time at all 🤣. I full on judge with no remorse, as l'm sure someone will judge me. I'll rarely say something because it's probably not harmful, but l'm not gonna police my own beliefs.

3points

Bored Retsuko 11 months ago (edited)

Hmm? 🤔 But that's exactly what it means? "I could shut up and not judge but I have a hard time doing so." - Anyway they changed it to " can't help but judge", lol

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Rick Seiden 11 months ago

"TRUMP WON", "TRUMP 2024", "MISS ME YET", "I DID THIS" next to a picture of Joe Biden.

1point

Beck 11 months ago

Here's mine: I deliver packages USPS. Please put your address on your mailbox and your house if you want your package.

1point

Jared Robinson 11 months ago

The litter one is starting to bug me, You are part of the human race, just you existing causes there to be litter about the planet. The building you live and work in that's litter on nature, the road you drive on is garbage, the exhaust your car spews forth is garbage, you breathe out CO2 directly poisoning our atmosphere. To be a humans is to participate in a culture of taking over nature, get the f**k over yourself. I try not to litter, but what we have already done to the planet is not going to be made ANY F*****G WORSE because you threw plastic on top of concrete. Concrete is the litter.

0points

Elizabeth Wacker 11 months ago

Stop trolling and pick up after yourself.

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Smiley! 11 months ago

Do you want them to tell you the truth?

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Xenon 11 months ago

I'm surprised leaving a grocery cart where ever and not returning it didn't make this list.

24points

David Paterson 11 months ago

Torturers. I don't know anybody who likes torturers. Paedophiles, either.

11points

TheElementalGod️️ (He/him) 11 months ago

for the second one, not always. they CAN try to get help . however, if they are a child r@pist, then they are evil

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DB 11 months ago

People who always smell like booze or weed.

6points

Panda-sized Potato 11 months ago

People who can't put half an effort to capitalize when typing, especially their names. How lazy can you be to not be able to move a finger for half a moment. And don't get me started on punctuations!

6points

WindySwede 11 months ago

i agree /s

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Shane S 11 months ago

Gender Reveals

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Say No to Downvoting 11 months ago

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Jo Firth 11 months ago

Celebrities who say, "If I can do it, anyone can do it". No, luck plays a large part in any success!! Don't put people down because they haven't been as lucky as you.

4points

Paulina 11 months ago (edited)

3points

Shane S 11 months ago

I honestly think sometimes they don’t want you to answer. They are assigned to knock on so many doors and may have gps trackers monitored by their boss, but sometimes they just want to go home.

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Pittsburgh rare 11 months ago

3points

Bored Retsuko 11 months ago (edited)

Hmm? 🤔 But that's exactly what it means? "I could shut up and not judge but I have a hard time doing so." - Anyway they changed it to " can't help but judge", lol

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