I don't mind being the little spoon to my wife.

I do this and I'm a girl

This isn't normal and is called suicided and should be treated as such. Its stupid to place it here as something that annoys women when its a serious thing be it a male or female announcing such.

That's mental illness not being a man

Repeating what others have said, this isn't unique to men and it's certainly not common to all men. If you experience suicidal ideation on a regular basis, please seek help from a mental health professional.

Yeah, been thinking about it since I was in high school.

This might sound controversial but I find this tends to be worse in some ways for guys. There's less support because of toxic masculinity issues that are still not talked about nearly enough. It's probably different based on where in the world you live though. But ever since I've met my boyfriend I've realized how lucky I am to be a girl in many scenarios. People tend to treat me a lot kinder than him even though we both treat everyone around us with the same kindness and respect we'd want ourselves. I could list endless examples... not trying to put down womens issues either, but just to any guys specifically going through this, just want you to know, I see you.

I think people of all genders do this

This is really sad, it is OK for men to have emotions. I promise no matter what relationship you are in, emotions are important.

Holy sh#t? Really?

I feel this one. I love the people around me too much to cause them this kind of hurt.

So sad

No - that will never happen

have done this... fortunately I'm in better mental health now...men ,if you feel this way please go talk to someone.... asking for help is a sign of strength not weakness

....And it's too dangerous.

Sometimes, morbid curiosity about what else would have ended you is enough to keep you going.

I don't so much have this, as much as i do tje morbid curiosity of what it'd be like to be completely on mu own. Leaving everything behind and living off of scrounged items like a rogue if That makes sense, its a weird fantasy i don't have anymore but when i was stressed as heck it came to me alot

edit : I still go through this

I was so glad to read about not doing it because how it affects those around you, because it takes years to get over a suicide among your acquaintances. You keep going back to what you should/could have done to avert it, even though you don't really believe there was anything you could have done.

And it does. That person unlives themselves once. The "survivors" get to relive that person's unliving again and again until they unalive too. (It's ridiculous we have to use certain words BP)

In Aotearoa/NZ we have terrible suicide stats for suicide in young men. I lost one friend to it. It's heartbreaking.

Too bxxxxy true

Also If I ever unalive myself, then all my haters win. I just can't have that man so I'm existing out of spite.

Nope, not even once. And it's been tough.

Exactly. Perfectly said.

"Balls stuck to thigh" is legitimately one of the most uncomfortable situations ever.

I've done this since I was a little girl, I absolutely have a savior complex. Why would anyone be afraid to admit they'd like to be a hero?

it's a useful tool!

Same here! And I'm a woman!

Happy to know other people do this too.

Do or do not. There is no try.

The nose picking is no secret. The secret is what some men do with the buggers afterwards.

Ya know, it's funny. I've had a bunch of straight guy friends be like "I know you're gay and all, but that girl is HOT". I always try to explain- dude, I can recognize a beautiful woman when I see her, even if I don't find her sexually attractive. A landscape painting can be beautiful to me, doesn't mean I wanna put my d*ck inside of it. Beauty is both subjective and universal at the same time. Anyone who can't appreciate beauty due to societal norms is lying to themselves.

Can I just say that "like a ...girl" drives me insane.

I think it's more a hormone thing than anything else...

Hehehe I'm gay as the day is long, and even I find it hard not to notice cleavage when it's like... really out there. I don't get any sort of charge out of it, but c'mon, it's like... right friggin' there. Hard not to see when it literally jumps out like that. I've heard lesbians say the same thing about guys wearing speedos- like "woah! you're uhh... well, there you are" lmao

My advice would be to just use 2 different deodorants. But then again that’s just my two scents

To me it sounds like it’s just water under the fridge

Could be religious thing. Most religious people don't really know about sexual stuff until they're married. It's possible he doesn't even know what masturbation is, just knows it's something sexual. It's really easy to keep away from things that you're not taught about or see as taboo.

Honestly, if I'm half asleep (or drank enough beers), I'm sitting down. F*ck what anyone says.

I have a bat'leth!

My doctor asks if I ever considered suicide and I tell him, doesn't everyone?

I once saw a beautiful woman heading for a door, so to be nice I opened it for her. Instead of thanking me, she, and everyone else on the plane starting screaming at me.

My BIL crys and he is literally compared to Sasquatch and probably the most stereotypically masculine looking guy I know. It made me think more of him for it honestly.

That all of us honey