This is probably the number 1 insecurity, and should be number 1 on this list. Incels and the idiots who get rejected on Tinder are the ones who call out women for their weight, but most mature men don't really care. Be yourselves and love yourselves, ladies.

The number of ads I get on Youtube about cosmetics that cover up 'facial impurities' is staggering and all of them are dumb because why are you not allowed to have a mole or something along the line?

So true, my guy get pads and tampons for me, without me asking

I love the part that says "anyone in a position to see it is just going to be glad they're in that position" - it gave me a chuckle.

Well, I'm a total dork, so it's a perfect fit! ❤

Oh yes, that's a big one for me. Sex in itself is not a skill. If you're good with your partner, you're good at sex.

Please, pleeease don't throw out clothes after wearing them once. Producing new clothes does a lot of environmental damage and is often done in sweatshops.

This made me laugh way too hard!

Yup, honestly those long fake eyelashes can kinda be odd looking

This actually sums it up quite nicely imho.

Brains should be a point of attraction regardless if you are a man or a woman. I am a man, but I find it very condescending to conclude that smart women are "sexy", as if they are some rare, extravagant breed, while it is supposed to be some kind of a natural state of men, who are actually proven to be, throughout history, the supreme idiots of humanity.

Hmm I wonder if he is single.... LOL

They come in all shapes and sizes, and they're all beautiful! 😄

Grey suits lots of people.

Yes. Love my wife's (and my) wrinkles. 😊

Yes! Better out than in! 👍

i love it when women make the first move

Amen!

This is absolutely normal and very easy to understand.

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Love yourself, love the world, and the world will love you.

We know it isn't worth the extra breath....

Oh yeah.This! Ladies, if the guy you like inexplicably won't ask you out, it could be they like you, but are afraid it would ruin your friendship if you say no. Also, obvious hints aren't as obvious as you think, especially for guys who haven't had a girlfriend yet.

We have a saying in finnish that could roughly translate to "You can't dry/wear out a lake by rowing"

it makes me feel more confident because the last time i didnt wear ppl called me out and called me ugly. But i realised i looked ok without it, now i just prefer to wear it because i personally like it, not bc others do.

I've heard women say "I look weird without make-up" and honey it's all a matter of habit. After a while without make-up you'll start to feel like you look weird WITH make-up on.

I don't wear makeup to look pretty, I like the way I look without makeup just as much as the way I look with makeup but I do it because I enjoy it. It's fun and exciting.

People always ask me if I'm not feeling well when I don't wear makeup. The older I get, the less I care. But it has come in handy when I need a sick day from work. Skip the makeup and no one second guesses me.

Makeup = false advertising! LOL! I wanna see my gem when she first crawls outta bed in the morning! She's actually kinda hot then!

If someone doesn't like and accept you without your makeup, they certainly don't deserve you with your makeup.

Less is more with most guys. I know I’m going to get we do it for ourselves but honestly we prefer the hour long daily makeup times could be better spent like going for a walk together

Please stop calling women "girls". Once a female is over the age of 18, she is a woman. Not a girl.

I think we should add that its okay to wear or to not wear it. I love wearing makeup and some people can make you feel bad for wearing it or wearing their idea of too much of it. I'm going to do whatever makes me happy and comfortable and so should everyone else

How many women have gone into work without makeup only to have everyone in the office ask them if they are ill?

100% true. Most women who obsess over makeup end up looking like clowns. We want to see the REAL you. Freckles, blemishes, and all. Get your mother out of your head ladies!! "Put on some lipstick and you'll feel better." is such crap. Feeling better is loving everything about who you really are and what you really look like. When someone says something negative about your lack of makeup, they are simply projecting their own triggered insecurities upon you. They are hating it that you have the confidence to walk around loving yourself for who you are. Nothing but jealous hatin' is going on. LOL. Own it and pity them.

I get this. So many ladies I see without make up are so beautiful. But so many of these same ladies will tell you they don't feel attractive or good without it? Society sucks for that!

I've found the only people who care about a woman wearing make up is other woman. Only my female coworkers have asked if I was tired when I didn't wear it, and "Are you going anywhere special?" when I was wearing it. Normally I don't wear make up, so I don't know why they questioned if I was tired or why they cared. Super insulting and offensive.

I think I look fine without makeup, but if I don't wear it, people either tell me I look tired or ask me if I'm feeling well....

Literally every time I don’t wear makeup people ask if I’m sick. And then are like “wHy dO yOu aLwAyS wEaR mAkEuP??”

I married a girl from high school in 1996 and I loved the fact she never wears make-up, I thought it was phoney and gross actually to wear make-up. if you pick-up a woman at a bar and bring them home trying to make out and tasting make-up and getting it smeared everywhere, no thanks I'll pass

I live in a hot climate and makeup is a waste of money when you sweat it off by noon. At the most I'll use a bit of powder or sunscreen and maybe don't look as put together but I'm not constantly checking a mirror to see if I've melted. Nobody has ever commented on my lack of makeup or complimented me when I happen to wear it.

Especially these days! If u look like a different person without ur makeup on, u r doing it wrong!

My husband and all got guys I know say the same. Makeup industry is a scam. Brainwashing these kids these days to wear 10 layers of makeup. it’s CRAZY!!!!

Hallelujah.

Wife never wears makeup and I love it. She looks beautiful without it, and it is one less thing for her to have to do.

I think most women have a skewed view on what men find attractive, and hence they aim for some wrong ideals (which has most likely been installed by people trying to sell certain product). In my opinion makeup should be used for minor corrections and small enhancements, and not to paint an entirely different face that makes you completely unreconiseable. I prefer the discrete and natural looking makeup, that you would not nessesarily notice if you weren't actively looking for it, e.i. no inch long blue lashes, green eyelids, purple libs, or eyebrow that are completely removed and painted on instead. But that is only my opinion. Use it as guide if you like to, but all in all do what makes you feel comfortable - that is far more important than what attracts me, (unless that is what you aim for).

I wear it when I'm feeling down in the morning it does help bring me up some days, but 98% I don't it just makes my skin horrible to deal with after and I look great without it so y ruin my skin

Blame Photoshop and all the media that sets the standards and expectations for what women should look like. Throw in pron magazines and we're up against impossible images. I realise many, many men can tell the difference between the false images and reality, but a lot of the damage to our self worth happens in our teen and pre-teen years from boys who *haven't yet* worked out the difference and make us feel less worthy. (And pre-teen magazines aimed at girls)

My wife said it's weird that body hair on women doesn't bother me in the slightest, but on men I find it disgusting. I couldn't care if my wife grew her hair like Cousin It, but I'm shaving my armpits, I'm waxing my chest, I'm trimming my pubes!

They really try to shame teenagers into getting any number of products to combat a normal effect that comes from hormonal or other biochemical changes.

Again not true in this society. It should be true but it isnt. People judge women (and men) for rheir weight and attractiveness all the time. Specially doctors, they never take you seriously if you are not skinny.