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The Most Uncomfortable Moments When A Family Member Has Said Something Inappropriate or Inconsiderate: 50 Stories Shared By Our Community

To have a loving and caring family is a great blessing. However, even the most amazing home can have flaws that might be hurting.

Having blood ties doesn't mean that one is the same or similar to another. In some cases, a friend might be a closer person than the rest of the family. It all comes to the values and the way one thinks. With that in mind, I asked our pandas about a time when they felt uncomfortable because of something their family member said. Sadly or not, a lot of people had something to share. Scroll down to read the answers!

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The Most Uncomfortable Moments When A Family Member Has Said Something Inappropriate or Inconsiderate: 50 Stories Shared By Our Community I wouldn't necessarily call it "uncomfortable" but here goes: It was at my father's 85th birthday party and his likewise elderly sister/my aunt -who I had not seen in many years- tells me, "I'm surprised you're not in jail". I didn't skip a beat. "I'm surprised you're not dead". She avoided me the rest of the day...

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Nice cuppa tea 3 years ago

Good one!

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The Most Uncomfortable Moments When A Family Member Has Said Something Inappropriate or Inconsiderate: 50 Stories Shared By Our Community It was more of a smaller gathering (bc of covid).
One of my family members told me I would never make it to heaven if I kept being gay. Me, being the idiot I am, stood up and yelled, "Praise Satan, then" and stormed off.
Everyone went SILENT

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Elizabeth Molloy 3 years ago

Good for you!

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The Most Uncomfortable Moments When A Family Member Has Said Something Inappropriate or Inconsiderate: 50 Stories Shared By Our Community I hadn't seen my brother for at least 15+ years due to his travel and spending time in Europe. He had returned to the states and lived a couple hours away but still no real contact. Then, mom got sick. So, I drove up to get him and then up to my mom's. Now, I had gone from being 15 to 30+ since I last saw him and I had pursued a career in which I needed to be in good shape, so I worked out a lot. Once mom got home from the hospital, we all got together and it was then that he announced to everyone that he thought I looked like Arnold Schwartzenegger in drag. My mom popped up and commented, 'yeah, and she rides a motorcycle, too'. He just glared at me and that was when I told him that I also rolled my own tampons and kickstarted my vibrator. I thought mom was going to pop her stitches and my dad, a very quiet man, choked on his tea. My brother never said another word about me.

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Viviane 3 years ago

Great response! "I roll my own tampons" ROTFLMAO

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The Most Uncomfortable Moments When A Family Member Has Said Something Inappropriate or Inconsiderate: 50 Stories Shared By Our Community I was told I needed to get tips on doing my makeup. I was at my husband's funeral.

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Lovin' Life

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Caro Caro 3 years ago

Bloody hell. I'm so sorry for your loss.

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The Most Uncomfortable Moments When A Family Member Has Said Something Inappropriate or Inconsiderate: 50 Stories Shared By Our Community Years ago I was starting to get gray hair. My youngest brother was going prematurely bald. At one family gathering he made some comment about my gray hair. I replied "Better gray than gone!" He looked stunned and everyone else laughed. He never commented again about my hair.

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Marco Conti 3 years ago

You can always die your hair. You'll need a sharpie to remediate a bald spot.

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The Most Uncomfortable Moments When A Family Member Has Said Something Inappropriate or Inconsiderate: 50 Stories Shared By Our Community My mom wanted me to take a succulent cutting from the garden of the airbnb where I was staying. I said no. She kept at at it. I said I'd ask the host. My mom said "what? why?? no!!!" and "I didn't raise you to ask permission!" I was slightly shocked and then thought for a second... it's true. She didn't, but somehow I know the difference between right and wrong anyway. Luckily, I don't do what my mom tells me to do.

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Mrs S 3 years ago

Can't choose your parents

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The Most Uncomfortable Moments When A Family Member Has Said Something Inappropriate or Inconsiderate: 50 Stories Shared By Our Community Thanksgiving. I was ten. First Thanksgiving with my step family. Walked into the kitchen to hear my dad say that my stepsister was the perfect child but I was a total disappointment. I started crying. He slapped me and said “what did you expect me to do, lie?” Everyone went off and started dinner as if nothing had happened. I was left standing by myself. I hate Thanksgiving. And my father.

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Caro Caro 3 years ago

You are not a disappointment, your dad is. You OK now?

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The Most Uncomfortable Moments When A Family Member Has Said Something Inappropriate or Inconsiderate: 50 Stories Shared By Our Community Saw my great uncle for the first time in years, first thing he says to me is "wow, you've grown! In many ways..." * Looks at my chest*.
Wtf Uncle Jeff, not cool bro

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Davis the Greatest 3 years ago

Omg I have a creepy Uncle Jeff too

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The Most Uncomfortable Moments When A Family Member Has Said Something Inappropriate or Inconsiderate: 50 Stories Shared By Our Community My grandmother: "Nice boys don't like fat girls, Mija," and then she got upset when I wouldn't eat the huge plate of food she served me. I was 9 or 10.

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RandomBeing 3 years ago

what the heck

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When I was 17, we were preparing to have a regular dinner, with my grandma coming over as an extra guest.
The table was set, main course needed more time to finish cooking, and I was in the living room watching Cartoon Network as it didn't require a lot of attention and besides I like cartoons of all kind.
My grandma arrived and passed through the living room where she saw me watching tv. She stittered, loooed at me shocked and said " You
..still watch kid stuff?". I didn't bother explaining that lots of cartoons nowadays have subtle queues to relate for a mature audience as well, so I just replied "Uh, yeah, what of it?".
Later during dinner, my grandma would address my father with a concerned face and would say " You should take your son to see a psychiatrist." ( my father froze mid-sip and gazed at her questioningly ) " I caught him watching children's stuff on TV. This isn't right I believe he might be memtally undeveloped. I still want to have great-grandchildren!".
I was right next to her, contemplating how not to explode right there and then.
35 years old now. With a 9 month old baby boy, engaged. Still watching Avatar, Family Guy and whatever the hell I want, probably will watch cartoons till I die.

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Pumpkin Spice 3 years ago

AVATAR!!!!!!!

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Ozacoter 3 years ago

Avatar is a masterpiece.

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Charlene Wilbur 3 years ago

I will be 40 in 14 days and I watch a s**t ton of cartoons. Ranging from my kids' shows to adult swim animation. I hate regular tv.

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Pumpkin Spice 3 years ago

Happy birthday!

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George Bernard 2 years ago

I'm 54 and I love Pixar and Disney movies. Eff that horrible woman.

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jade s 2 years ago

I am 34 and can happily say I still watch "kids tv" at times. It's light hearted and easy to watch. This month I've been watching baymax shorts.

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Whitefox 2 years ago

Have you watched Dug Days? Loved them!

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Katarzyna Drozd 2 years ago

I was shamed for the same stuff by my father. I also recall our talk 10 years ago, when I told him I'm gonna choose art college and he got angry and told me I'm gonna be homeless then, drawing people on streets and begging for change. I started career as an animator, i was making commercials, movie posproduction, events, now i make animations for mobile games. And I earn more than them both (dad and mom) together.

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Izzy 2 years ago

fkn good on you! i'm so proud of you. wishing you a lifetime of happiness, abundance, prosperity, and contentment surrounded by people who love and support you for who you are♥️

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Kathryn Baylis 2 years ago (edited)

Did your Dad stand up for you? Because it sounds like Granny was/is (if she’s still alive—-assholes always manage to live forever, for some reason) the one in need of psychiatric help.

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Samantha Melnychuk 2 years ago

I'm damn near 40, and let me tell you, even Disney movies have innuendo and themes that go over kids heads so that adults will enjoy them. Shrek is a perfect example of a kids movie catering specifically to adults. So is Spongebob. People who think adults who watch cartoons are 'mentally deficient' lack a soul and have no creativity or inner child.

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Pink kitty 2 years ago

I love Spongebob! I'm in my forties. Only started watching it last year and love it!

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Viviane 3 years ago

One of my colleagues watches cartoons with his kids. I'm in awe of Tex Avery cartoons.

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Mark Stewart 2 years ago

50 here and still watch cartoons. Half the fun of watching childhood favourites again is picking up the little jokes that passed you by as a kid, they become funny on a whole new level.

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Terry Tobias 3 years ago

If I could find the Bugs Bunny cartoons that I used to watch on Saturday mornings as a kid (and for years after I grew up), I'd still be watching them.

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Natasha 2 years ago (edited)

Me too, Saturday morning from 6am to 11am was where they had all the great cartoons. Not sure where you're from but we also had Jabba Jaws, Hong Kong Fewy (phewey ?) speed racer, scooby doo and lots of short cartoons. Great times, you had to get up to watch (parents still in bed and no option to record or "stream" anything ) and when it finished you got on your bike, trampoline or walked to your friends house (Born 1976 - 46yrs young)

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Moezzzz 2 years ago

I'm 44 and I watch cartoons. F**k that woman

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Id row 2 years ago

I'm 50 and still watch cartoons. Forget that old bat.

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Penny Hernandez 2 years ago

Prime example of differing understanding of cartoons: The Adventures of Rocky and Bullwinkle (from the early 1960s) My oldest son, after watching it with his own children, said to me 'Now I know why you laughed at different things from me'.

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Danniee Gyrl 2 years ago

I am 48 yo... I LOVE CARTOONS. My kid is 22, LOVES cartoons. Cartoons are amazingly awesome to watch. I love watching SCOOBY... wanna know why...Scooby teaches you that the real monsters in life are PEOPLE....

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Izzy 2 years ago

love scooby! so bummed that there's no more of the original format of the show. the most new series haven't been as enjoyable w the characters almost unrecognisable from what they used to be

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A. 2 years ago

I wonder what Granny would say if she knew that several branches of the Armed Forces use graphic novels as training manuals.

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Sherilynne DeMaio 2 years ago

You and about a billion other people. Watch what you like!

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Natasha 2 years ago

oh, futurama as well

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phil blanque 2 years ago

"You are still watching cartoons?"... "Oh yes, cartoons help me understand our family dynamics....well, cartoons and Grimm's fairy tales."

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Mark Kelly 3 years ago

Well, Family Guy isn't for kids.

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𝕔𝕙𝕒𝕠𝕤 2 years ago

ONCE THERE WERE FIVE NATIONS

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Kim Kermes 2 years ago

She'll never be a great grandmother.

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ShareMusic 2 years ago

I'm 67 and love animated movies, as long as they're made well. Just Avatar again last weekend. Love it!

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H M 2 years ago

Ren and Stimpy!

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Ralph Kretschmer 2 years ago

Must be the generation. My parents used to say this about cartoons and comics, that it was something for children and to be left behind after 10 or so.

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Lila Allen 9 months ago

Bluey is the best

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Zach Heimann 9 months ago

I said it once and I’ll say it again, “animated” does not mean “made for kids”.

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Zach Heimann 1 year ago

Anyone who says that cartoons and animations aren’t real movies are f*****g idiots

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CGDesign 2 years ago

I will watch cartoons on my deathbed! Same for video games!

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J 2 years ago

I'm 54 and still watch cartoons including Family Guy, it's not a problem!

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Tree P 2 years ago

I will be 56 this year and I watch more anime and cartoons than regular TV! There's nothing good on anyway!

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Himory TheDreamer 2 years ago

+18 cartoons are the solution for this sort of people, even if you don't really like it, showing them to people is sure to shut their mouth

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B. Dahl 2 years ago

Was Grandma a Boomer? They love popping off with crazy hateful stuff calling it "constructive criticism". My Uncle was a fountain of such verbal diarrhea. Cartoon Forever!

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BoredPanda 2 years ago

f her

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SageHare37 2 years ago

My friend, watch what you like. In defense of "young person" media, books and movies: media aimed at adults are usually adult situations, relationships (good and bad), drama, violence, gore and mystery. Most media aimed at young people is full of friendship, adventure, magic and excitement. Neither are wrong. Both are entertaining. Watch/read what you like.

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Kosnian 2 years ago

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Agata Fronia 2 years ago

still watching cartoons, my mum said once or you are watching cartoons, or movies with actors. Soon after there was Shrek, so I asked her same question 😹

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Jackie Nettleton 2 years ago

I hope you don’t take your son around to see her she is far too negative to have around him

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Contented potato. 2 years ago

That’s rough buddy

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Natasha 2 years ago

I own and purchased through my 20's/30's and now early 40s - 27 seasons of the Simpson's, 12 of family guy and 12 of American dad. I love cartoon animation. Keep doing what you're doing.

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Azure Adams 2 years ago

HOpe that grandma never met your son. She doesn't deserve to

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Enigma wrapped in a paradox 2 years ago

Baby boomers didn't grow up with the same entertainment gen X did. I look around and see grown adults doing "kid" stuff. Watching cartoons, gummy candy vitamins, using skate boards/scooters as actual transportation, wearing lounge/active wear out in public. All generations after the boomers were allowed to carry childhood habits into our adult lives.

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Christine Hoelle 2 years ago

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Christine Hoelle 2 years ago (edited)

BOB’S BURGERS, BOJACK HORSEMAN, THE GREAT NORTH, BIGMOUTH, the list goes on and on.. ☺️

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KING ILLEGAL FOREST 2 years ago

I'm 38 and my Sailor Moon dvd collection is still one of my most prized possessions.

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Bubbles and sparks 2 years ago

Grandma missed out on all the fun in her life and figured you shouldn't have fun either... Good for you you still watch all them shows that you like.... I enjoy to watch anything I like too and even refer some of the things I watch to my son, and he's 30 ;p

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Lara Verne 2 years ago

I first watched Avatar when I was around 26. I enjoyed it.

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Isolde Leeuwen 2 years ago

Um...who doesn't? Avatar the animation..way better than the movie. Family guy is iconic. She is not young of spirit, is she.

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Valisbourne Spiritforge 2 years ago

Cartoons nowadays? I'm guessing he never watched the old Looney Tunes.

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Biology muffin 3 years ago

That's rough, buddy...

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The Most Uncomfortable Moments When A Family Member Has Said Something Inappropriate or Inconsiderate: 50 Stories Shared By Our Community It was my very first art exhibition and I invited all of my family.. at the end of the show we all gathered outside to chat and in front of everyone, my dad walked up to me and handed me 5$ saying: here, have an allowance, because no one will buy these paintings!

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Caro Caro 3 years ago

That's cruel. Post your art here on BP! Let us have a look, please.

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The Most Uncomfortable Moments When A Family Member Has Said Something Inappropriate or Inconsiderate: 50 Stories Shared By Our Community My ex-MIL referring to the local shop owner who was an Asian man: "We don't like those sort of people here". This was on Walney Island, Barrow in Furness, Cumbria. Said ex-MIL was also probably one of the most boring people in existence in addition to being racist, having no interests, never read any books, just trashy magazines, never watched any films or listened to music, knew nothing about history or current affairs but full of negative opinions about others, while claiming to be a Christian and having the audacity to tell me I'll go to hell. The shop owner, btw, was always pleasant, friendly, helpful and courteous.

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PixxelDust 3 years ago

sounds like the shop owner would have been a better person to have as a relative than that b***

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The Most Uncomfortable Moments When A Family Member Has Said Something Inappropriate or Inconsiderate: 50 Stories Shared By Our Community My grandmas raised me saying things like "No man will ever love you if you don't..." (have long hair, dress like a lady, learn how to cook...). It hurt me a lot but especially subconsciously. I really grew up believing that the idea of me dating was ridiculous.

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Caro Caro 3 years ago (edited)

Ozacoter, You are loved.

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The Most Uncomfortable Moments When A Family Member Has Said Something Inappropriate or Inconsiderate: 50 Stories Shared By Our Community I was raised by my grandmother. She used to say that no one with a working brain will ever love me because I was so "rebellious". So when I got a partner, she always says what a blessing it is, him not being intelligent enough to realize the fact of me being the mess I am, and I should thank all heavens for him being "dumb enough to be with you".
I'm very very grateful for him being the amazing and loving partner he is, but I keep hearing my grandmother's voice inside my thoughts. Also she passed away like 20 or so years ago. I never went to the graveyard.

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Mobey Drunk 3 years ago

If I was treated like that, I'd do the same thing.

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#15

The Most Uncomfortable Moments When A Family Member Has Said Something Inappropriate or Inconsiderate: 50 Stories Shared By Our Community "If you don't want kids you just haven't found the right guy yet!" My boyfriend was right by my side

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Caro Caro 3 years ago

That is wrong in so many ways.

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The Most Uncomfortable Moments When A Family Member Has Said Something Inappropriate or Inconsiderate: 50 Stories Shared By Our Community Wow! You got fat! - my aunt on the day of my dad's funeral.

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SentimentAndBadJokes 3 years ago

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The Most Uncomfortable Moments When A Family Member Has Said Something Inappropriate or Inconsiderate: 50 Stories Shared By Our Community Every time I see my family, a few people comment on how I “need to eat more” or “you are too skinny”. I absolutely hate when people say that because I am very insecure about my body. (Also first post lol)

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HooowlAtTheMoon 3 years ago

I'm so sorry about that (yay congrats on first post!!)

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The Most Uncomfortable Moments When A Family Member Has Said Something Inappropriate or Inconsiderate: 50 Stories Shared By Our Community Uncle asked me why my sweater was dirty. Said I should have dressed nicer. We had no way to wash clothes, had no food a lot of the time, and no new clothes. Everything was hand me downs. Parents spent clothing allotments from welfare on themselves. Rest of the family cared so little and/or were so oblivious to their black sheep son and his wife's children ... when we went into foster care, none of them, all well off, would take us in. Another uncle called us insects.

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over it already 3 years ago

I'm sorry...I hope you and your siblings are all doing better now.

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The Most Uncomfortable Moments When A Family Member Has Said Something Inappropriate or Inconsiderate: 50 Stories Shared By Our Community When I was six I had drawn a picture for my Auntie and when I gave it to her she said, "uh... ah..no." then threw it in the bin in front of me.

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Caro Caro 3 years ago

That's a rotten thing to do to a kid.

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The Most Uncomfortable Moments When A Family Member Has Said Something Inappropriate or Inconsiderate: 50 Stories Shared By Our Community You could never pass as a boy, darling.

Said by my mother to young trans me still trying to figure things out. Jokes on her I get "misgendered" every single day by people who don't even know me so I'm obviously doing something right.

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Pumpkin Spice 3 years ago

You go, person!

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The Most Uncomfortable Moments When A Family Member Has Said Something Inappropriate or Inconsiderate: 50 Stories Shared By Our Community When I was thirteen, my mother scolded me (in front of a table full of people) for “flirting” with an adult male. I was mortified, especially as I had just laughed at one of the man’s jokes.

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Devil's Advocate 3 years ago

Unfortunately she might have noticed the man flirting with you which you didn't notice yourself at only 13?

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The Most Uncomfortable Moments When A Family Member Has Said Something Inappropriate or Inconsiderate: 50 Stories Shared By Our Community Not at a family gathering, but I once had overheard my parents complaining about me and wishing that I was never born. It hurt a lot, and because I wasn’t supposed to hear their conversation I have to pretend to be oblivious and still act like I care for them.

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WillemPenn 3 years ago

IDK how old you are, but when you get out from under your parents' roof, remember you do not owe them anything. And there are lots of places where you can find support from others who come from abusiva and neglectful home. You are not alone. Your life matters. You matter.

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The Most Uncomfortable Moments When A Family Member Has Said Something Inappropriate or Inconsiderate: 50 Stories Shared By Our Community I hadn't seen my dad in a couple of years, due to distance. I went to my little brother's wedding. The very first thing dad said to me, loud enough for everyone to hear, was, "WOW! You got fat!" Of course, everyone had to turn around to see whom he was talking to.

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Charlene Wilbur 3 years ago

First thing it if my dads mouth every time he sees me is about my weight. So frustrating!

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The Most Uncomfortable Moments When A Family Member Has Said Something Inappropriate or Inconsiderate: 50 Stories Shared By Our Community At a family reunion on my mother's side, my father was repeatedly asked why I (younger daughter) didn't have any children, after all, my sister (3 years older) was already married and has two wonderful children. He got so annoyed about it that he announced that I was a lesbian. The family avoided me for the rest of the meeting.

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Agent 8433599 2 years ago

I don't understand why people just don't leave childless people alone!

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The Most Uncomfortable Moments When A Family Member Has Said Something Inappropriate or Inconsiderate: 50 Stories Shared By Our Community Had an in-law try to pick a physical fight with me at a funeral because I removed him from Facebook.

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John Juan 3 years ago

"Facebook is the Devil" - Bobby Boucher's mother

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The Most Uncomfortable Moments When A Family Member Has Said Something Inappropriate or Inconsiderate: 50 Stories Shared By Our Community TLDR version: I was told by my stepmother that I ruined our family Christmas, simply by being there.

Long version: I had a... troubled childhood, to say the least, too much to really go into, and honestly, I've blocked lots of it out and don't remember many details. I was extremely depressed, suicidal at times, and was violently acting out. My stepmother was the target of a lot of my distress, even though she wasn't necessarily the cause of it. My dad, and her, I guess, tried to help me as best as they could, but it got to the point where they didn't know what else to do, and sent me to a therapeutic boarding school. Part of the school's program involved home visits at specified times, and mine happened to line up with Christmas. When I got home, my stepmother was saying things along the lines of "it was so calm and quiet when you were gone, I was actually happy." I was trying to let things go, not make trouble, and repair the damage I'd done. Christmas morning, when we were all gathered around the tree, she looked me dead in the eyes and said "I hate that you're here. Just... you being here has ruined Christmas."

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over it already 3 years ago

She's a c u n t.

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The Most Uncomfortable Moments When A Family Member Has Said Something Inappropriate or Inconsiderate: 50 Stories Shared By Our Community Ohhh you're divorced, serves you right.

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SentimentAndBadJokes 3 years ago

Ouch. Who would say this?

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2 things, both said by in-laws. 1- at a restaurant to waitress, “that’s our last grandkid. No more bcuz we can’t afford them.” We’ve never asked them for anything for the kids. And made me want to get prego just to show her! 2- estate sale for great granny passing, diff ppl walking through the house to buy stuff. Lil old ladies coming through, saw 1 put a trinket in her purse w/o paying. I let it go, wasn’t worth it. A young black guy came in looking for angels for his mom. He was a hard working kid, I knew he was good and had a good heart. FIL followed him all around. FIL and MIL both said at diff times, “those are the ones you have to watch.” I was so disgusted! That’s when I saw their true selves. I stay away and keep my kids away from them as much as possible.

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Caro Caro 3 years ago

Oh Sh!t, you are right about keeping the kids away from them.

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After I admitted I'd been raped, my Mother stated "You deserved everything that happened to you. You're no daughter of mine, you're disgusting really".

Needless to say, I no longer have a family.

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over it already 3 years ago

Dammit! My heart breaks for anyone who has had a parent react like this to anything at all, but ESPECIALLY rape. What a sh*tty, cold-hearted response. They lost you because they didn't deserve you. I hope you find love, peace, and healing.

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The Most Uncomfortable Moments When A Family Member Has Said Something Inappropriate or Inconsiderate: 50 Stories Shared By Our Community My grandmother when I was maybe 11:
"Oh you've gained weight again, and why are you still dressed like a boy"? After that she forced me to try on my great grandmother's moldy fur coat and asked me why I didn't like boys...
Ah family, great memories.

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Caro Caro 3 years ago

An 11 year old should wear jeans, t-shirt and sneakers! Did she get out the fake "stick-on" beauty patch for you?

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My mom wouldn't let me get rainbow Vans.

Me: Mom, can I have those Vans?
Her: The rainbow ones? Ew, no.
Me: Why not?
Her, speaking quietly: I don't want people to think you are gay.
Me: But there's nothing wrong with it!
Her: Yes there is, I will not let you get them.
Me: Fine. *rolls eyes*

Since she doesn't know the pride flags, I got some blue-purple-pink ones instead. I'm bi-ace. Lol.

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Ozacoter 3 years ago

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After having had a car accident which left me crippled with back pain, I resumed swimming at 35. I started at my worst shape ever, my cardio was horrible and I was at pretty much double the weight my Dr would've liked me to be at.

At first, I couldn't 2 laps in a row without stopping to catch my breath and/or using my inhaler. After about 3 months, I could do 70 laps in a row, so I joined the local Triathlon club's swimming class to improve my technique.

Another 3 months later, I'm now swimming around 100-120 laps 3 times a week, and sharing at Christmas diner that my goal is to be able to swim a 3k race in a lake in an open water event the next summer.

My dad : yeah, but it's easy for you.
Me, looking at him quizzically
My dad, cracking up at his own joke : Well, just look at marine mammals!

So yeah, basically not dying, overcoming the trauma of the accident, transforming myself through sheer willpower into someone worthy of swimming alongside college students 15 years younger than myself DESPITE carrying the extra burden of my weight, that makes me a whale, manatee or beluga. And it's easy cause I "float".

Great. Thanks dad.

I looked away and spoke to my siblings the rest of the meal.

Kinda pisses me off that no one ever tells him off though. But whatever. People who see me swim call me a mermaid or a Valkyrie. I'm kind of both, and I love it.

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Elizabeth Molloy 3 years ago

My reply? "F**k off Dad."

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#33

The Most Uncomfortable Moments When A Family Member Has Said Something Inappropriate or Inconsiderate: 50 Stories Shared By Our Community "You are so pretty when you aren't heavy" - courtesy of my MIL, a few months after giving birth to her second grandchild from us in two years. (I gained about 35 pounds for the first and 2 pounds on top of that for the second). Meanwhile, her other son is a good 20 pounds underweight from switching to "healthier food intake". He was never overweight.

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Aliquid A 3 years ago

"And you are so nice when you aren't a bitch"

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#34

When I got the call that I have the job I wanted for years (after years of part time jobs and bad payment) I went to tell it my family their answer was “you’ll never know what might happen in the future so don’t be to happy about that”

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Caro Caro 3 years ago

I'm happy for you.

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The Most Uncomfortable Moments When A Family Member Has Said Something Inappropriate or Inconsiderate: 50 Stories Shared By Our Community Step-uncle-in-law gave me advice about giving birth

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Iapetos 3 years ago

Should've asked him how often he's given birth before.

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#36

My Aunt had a habit every time she saw me, she’d say “showing a bit too much cleavage there honey!” She would then grab the neckline of whatever I was wearing at the time and trying to tug it up…………I mentioned it to mum and informed her from then on I planned to wear my most low cut shirts/dresses………She approved!

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I am a robot 3 years ago

Great response! Your aunt's physical behaviour also makes one wonder whether SHE wasn't enjoying the cleavage a bit too much herself...

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The Most Uncomfortable Moments When A Family Member Has Said Something Inappropriate or Inconsiderate: 50 Stories Shared By Our Community “Are you gay or just dumb” -Grandma 2020

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HooowlAtTheMoon 3 years ago

Jokes on her im both

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#38

My 71yo Aunt's husband who looked at my 21yo nigerian girlfriend saying that her skin color give him so much butterfly "down there"... My aunt was present so has my GF's mom...

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ShriSha Kamboj 3 years ago

not only racist but gross too

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#39

Thirty years ago, my aunt (dad's sister) took me out to dinner to make sure I knew that the reason I was raped during a home intrusion a year earlier was because my mom was a whore when she was my age (she wasn't a virgin when she married my dad so... whore). "Sins of the father" type of bullshit.
She had only just found out about the assault because my dad made me keep it a secret from that side of the family or she would've informed me when it happened, I'm sure.

Cherry on top was becoming the "bad guy" in the family because I refused to be anywhere she was - I was supposed to put my feelings aside so as not to disrupt the family.

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Viviane 3 years ago

Horrible human being. She's also deluded if she thinks that nuns are immune to sexual assault, let alone victim-blaming old bitches. It can happen to boys and men, too. Sounds like your father knew his sister was a judgmental, punitive shithead.

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#40

"Stop crying all the time." My grandma told me the day afther my mom killed herself. I was nine years old.

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Bama Belle 3 years ago

Some people are ice cold.

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#41

Someone at a wedding came up next to me and literally slapped my leg, remarking "that's for having tattoos!". If it had been a stranger I think I'd have punched them.

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Theoretical Empiricist 3 years ago

Still should have.

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#42

10 years of my life: elderly parents got sick, quit my job, moved in to take care them. Mom died in 6, Dad 4 years later. My older bro and younger sis did not visit, rarely called. After the reading of the will, brother said, “Your free ride is over. Get out. We’re (sister & him) selling the house.” I did corner bro at Dad’s funeral and said: “Your daughter saw how treated your parents. She will do the same to you.” Rest of the family hasn’t spoken to me since. Good riddance.

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Caro Caro 3 years ago

Octavia, sorry for your loss and thanks for taking care of your parents. But happy for the loss of those sh!tty siblings.

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#43

Cousin told me at Christmas time 2016 that I wasn't liked by anyone in the family because of my severe anger issues and autism. I know it wasn't true and he was just annoyed at me for being sad that my other cousins got camcorders and gopros and stuff and I got cheap dresses, but it still made me uncomfortable and angry

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Bama Belle 3 years ago

Yeah, my sister pulled that s**t. 'Nobody likes you. We all talk about it. Even momma and daddy.'

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#44

Oh you're here, we thought you would be staying home again

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Caro Caro 3 years ago

Nice to see you too!

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#45

"Where's your "boyfriend"?" They used air quotes and everything! My reply was, "He's working." He always works weekends, still does and now he's my husband, I eventually had him take a Saturday off so they he could meet some of my more extended family.

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Joey Marlin 3 years ago

I started pretending my husband was working so he didn't have to put up with my relatives. They do know he exists though.

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#46

My mothers uncle telling me that my boos are just the perfect size when I was only 14.

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Kai Scadden 3 years ago

*barfing*

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Not uncomfortable for me per say because I agreed and appreciated the sentiment, but definitely not the time lol. A little back story . My fiance' and I bought our first home and after it closed we took a trip to his family home state across the country. I had spoken to his grandparents regularly on the phone so they "knew" me but never met me in person. (they are in their 70's / 80's so no technology to video chat). It was my Fiance, me, his brother, his wife, and father all going. Brother J and his wife are a bit famous in the family because wifey is a gold digger and lazy. She never works, and when she does doesn't hold a job for more than a month or so. Spends all his money and when he was deployed there were other questions in the family about her faithfulness, anyhow... Grandpa is in his late 70's and is an old Puerto Rican New Yorker, he gives ZERO f***s about couth. (one thing I adore about him actually) Once we physically met we were instant pals and I adore this man immensely. We all went out for supper the first night and everyone was chatting and catching up. Out of nowhere gramps turns to Wifey and says "So you got a job yet?" She said laughing "No grandpa I'm a stay at home mom" "Why???" He boomed. "Kids have school no? What you need to stay home for now? They aren't in diapers." He looked at me. I thought oh s**t, my turn. "What about you? You still working?" "Yes Grandpa I am." "Still doing 35 hour of overtime a week?" "Yes Grandpa" "Ohhh so you don't live off my Grandson huh? That's good, that's good. How long do you have now at you job?" (15 years grandpa... almost 16." (Turning to her) "Huh so you retire in a few years then? Weird, see (Wife) it's not that hard." I about fell over laughing but held it together. Although awkward, it was nice to know I am not on that man's bad side. I'd like to feel bad for (Wife) but I can't I wasn't raised to take advantage of people and it didn't even bother her. When we got home she had a job handed to her on a silver platter. Work from home, great benefits and great money courtesy of my fiance. She quit just over a month later.

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Caro Caro 3 years ago

Grandpa rocks. You're lucky to have him in your life.

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#48

I could take up this whole thread with my mother-in-law but one time she asked my husband what my bra size is.

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ShriSha Kamboj 3 years ago

a women objectifying a women!!

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#49

Made lots of jokes about mental disorders, and a good deal of homophobic comments.

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Samantha Lomb 3 years ago

People of color and people who don't speak English in my extended family. and my mom used to wonder why I never wanted to go for Thanksgiving. She no longer wonders

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#50

There's just always that one relative or a family member who has a lot of obnoxious stuff to say, nobody likes to hear it, but still has to. It seems like a magical ability to just share things that nobody wants to hear.

One relative of mine just talks non-stop about her ailments, it's depressing. The other just had some really unpleasant opinions.

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Guðrún Sveinsdóttir 3 years ago

I have two cousins my age ca 40 who both are mentally disabled whom I love dearly but while one of them is so funny and outgoing, the other one is not and talks about weird stuff like the colour on rocks or something extremely boring and the one outgoing who is more disabled, doesn't have the patience to talk to the other and afterwards she is worned out of her mind. But they are so sweet and precious and I'm blessed to have grown up with them🥰❤❤❤❤

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Me (age 23 F at the time) saw my maternal Grandfather who I hadn’t seen since I’d been on chemo and steroids, which obviously changed my appearance somewhat, specifically made my face very swollen and lost a lot of my hair.

We didn’t see him often (his choice)… his first words, “Huh, you certainly look different now you’re older, I wouldn’t even have recognised you - didn’t you used to be a model? Shame.”
Yep, cheers dude.

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Caro Caro 3 years ago

Did nobody in the family tell him? Are you OK now? How you doing?

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#52

I was at a family Thanksgiving,it was warm, we live in the south of the u.s. I was the new stepmom to a beautiful,and awesome, intelligent and incredible nine year old,who is now all of those things in a 40+ year old woman. She, being a kid, accidentally knocked out the screen to the sliding door, because she ran through it not seeing it was in place. My MIL lost it and screamed " *stepdaughter*, you are stupid and a loser and you always will be, just like your fat loser mother!!!" Death silence. Kid crying. I took her by the hand, announced we were leaving and anyone who wanted to be in the car better be ready in fifteen minutes. My husband was there. After he had a few words with his mom. My stepdaughter called me mom from then on. ( She calls her mother mommy. And ftr, her mom is very cool.)

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over it already 3 years ago

Kudos to you on so many levels - standing up for the child, loving & supporting her well into adulthood, giving her mommy props and support. If only the rest of the world would follow such values...

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#53

MIL-to-be said I was "ruining her son's life" by not having children. I was always open with him about my intentions.

When I said that if I did have a child, I would adopt because so many children need homes, she said "not healthy white babies."

FYI, my family has a ton of mental illness and breast cancer; both his parents and 3/4 grandparents were alcoholics. What kind of an a- hole would I be to pass those genes on?

BTW, she was a Republican. Once again, "caring" about fetuses but not children.

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Mark Kelly 3 years ago

White babies need homes too.

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#54

We were staying at this inn for my sister in-law's wedding, and I had a horrible UTI. My husband inadvertently mentioned this to his mother, and when I came down for breakfast the next morning she said "Hey how's your crotch" in front of everyone. Aunts, uncles, EVERYONE. I was mortified. His family is very wealthy too; just goes to show you can't buy manners.

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Tee Witt 3 years ago

True, true.

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#55

My mum’s father at my brother’s 18th Birthday. “Your mother should have never married your father, biggest mistake of her life, she had so much potential, she could have done anything!”
They’ve been happily married for 40 years and if they hadn’t married, neither I nor my brother would exist, so…

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Caro Caro 3 years ago

Your maternal grandfather is an a$$hole.

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#56

My aunt from my step-side of the family was going on about “providing the first male grandchild” — my brother was standing right next to her and grandma.

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Mrs S 3 years ago

Effing B

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#57

This wasn't at a family gathering, but my dad says a lot of rude things. He's nice but he gets really passive aggressive towards anything he even vaguely disagrees with.

This one time I was having my friends over soon and was reminding my parents to use the right pronouns for my non-binary friend. My dad then said, in the most FREAKING CONDESCENDING TONE, "oH, sO tHeY'rE mUlTiPlE pEoPlE aRe ThEy?"

Same person who got very passive aggressive when I got out of a crowded place after having a panic attack due to the noise and went to put my earbuds in to listen to music. "are you SURE you want to put noise in your ears if you were SO WORRIED about loud noises?"

I was even brave enough to come out to him as lesbian, and he still asks me if I'm 'interested in any boys atm' and refers to my 'future boyfriend' despite being fully aware I don't like guys.

He's usually nice but it makes it really hard to love him when he acts like anyone with a different opinion to him is 1/2 a year old and needs to have it spelt out for them.

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blugeagua 3 years ago

Um no you're dad doesn't sound "nice" at all.

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#58

You know how crusty old men tell young women to "smile" when we don't appear insanely happy at all times? WELL...

A few years ago I got told to "smile"... by my own cousin... at our grandmother's funeral... Just me... not my older brother who was standing beside me, just me... I was on vlthe verge of tears of course and just wanted to slap him!

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Pryjmaty 3 years ago

I really HATE when people do that!!! A couple of years ago, I stopped to get gas. A random man told me that I'd be prettier if I smiled. I replied, in a very cold voice, "I'm on my way to my husband's funeral." (I really was.) The guy had the decency to look ashamed and apologize.

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#59

"So, you're marrying a "J*p?" Racist Uncle

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Caro Caro 3 years ago

I take it you won't be seeing uncle any more, jeeez.

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"Way you said that you are burn out and depressed because of your job? You are sitting in the office whole day! Your grand grand father worked in a coalmine since his was 16 and wasn’t depressed single day of his life! Your grandfather run the still mill and wasn’t depressed to. Depression is a modern word for the lazy and weak people". And the same evening: "Anyway, you are already passed the age to have children (I am male 35 years old). You will be too old and weak to support them through college and no child should have an old boring parent to whom he has to look after in his prime age."

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MellonCollie 3 years ago

Lovely family you got there ... :-/

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#61

Not my family but my "Uncle in law". We were at the christmas dinner and their parties are really long. I am a migrant and then I still struggled to understand them when they all speak at the same time in the parties and it was very tiring for me. I was five hours speaking and listening to flemish when I forgot how to say a word. My UIL got really upset and gave me a very angry speech about how "This is Flanders and you must speak Flemish" and kept rambling about "immigrants not integrating". Like I said not only I had been 5 hours in a flemish speaking room but also at the time I was going 4 days a week to language classes. But yeah, migrants don't want to integrate... Nobody in the table except my partner defended me. Probably because deep inside they are as xenophobic as him.

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MellonCollie 3 years ago

Xenophobia is such an ugly thing, and many flemish people seem to be secretly suffering from it. I feel bad for you, but please don't let it get to you, as it is just their own petty little narrow mind not being able to expand beyond their own little lives. All the loss is on them, you are much stronger than they will ever be.

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#62

Step-uncle-in-law told me if I had a C-section I would never be "skinny" again. Who are you?!

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ShriSha Kamboj 3 years ago

how again is it his business?

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#63

When they always talk about how skinny I am at family gathering, where in fact I'm quite normal (BMI 23, body fat 18%). I didn't hate my current look anyway... In Indonesia, some people believe that overweight person looks like a rich man, and those who have less fat looks like a beggar.

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Caro Caro 3 years ago

You are fine.

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#64

Overheard SIL say I got really fat. I am disabled and chronically ill, what's you excuse?

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Caro Caro 3 years ago

Your SIL is a b!tch.

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#65

My aunt told me that I should “stop being bisexual” and that it was wrong of me to be bi…On the day my grandma died

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Tee Witt 3 years ago

Silly women, she should stop being stupid.

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My mother's Aunt Jean was a woman who couldn't keep her opinions to herself, and rarely stopped talking. We don't have family reunions regularly, so the first one after Aunt Jean died was the first chance Uncle Harry, her husband, had had in years to speak without Aunt Jean interrupting him. He was chatting up a storm with far-flung relatives when my mother and I arrived and carried our food over to add to the lunch choices. Mom whispered to me, "The man talking without taking a breath is my Uncle Harry. He hasn't seen you since you were a toddler." I nodded, unsure what to do with that information.

Mom walked over and greeted Uncle Harry with a kiss on the cheek. His eyes lit up and he focused his unending rush of words on her. When I walked over to join mom, she told him who I was and I just smiled, unsure what to say to him. I certainly didn't remember him from my toddler days.

Uncle Harry turned his attention to me, gave me a quick once-over and smiled big. "The last time I saw you, you were still in training pants!" I nodded and smiled. "You sure got fat!"

...thanks, Uncle Harry. It became clear that during the decades of Aunt Jean shushing and over-talking him, he'd forgotten about basic manners, discretion, and tact. Harry died a few years later, long before the next reunion.

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Dwight k schrute. 3 years ago

There are too many problematic uncle Harrys

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#67

My step-grandfather hugged me (16 at the time), kissed my neck and then said "Mmm...so tender". I've never wanted to disappear so badly before.

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Theoretical Empiricist 3 years ago

Ewwwww...

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#68

We were invited to an aunt's sister's wedding.

The aunt in question is my dad's brother's wife and she's a real nasty woman. Got into fights with almost all the members of the family but since they stay at my grandma's we still used to talk.
Anyway she's always been jealous of the fact that my mum is a working lady and that since my dad's skin is fairer than my uncle, I turned fairer than her daughter. (I'm the eldest grand-daughter). My mum's skin is darker and my brother's too.

So at that wedding she was sitting with everyone and decided to say that there was another proposal for my dad before his wedding to my mum. And she chose to emphasize that said lady was also fair right in front of my mum and me and everyone else. As if this wasn't enough she told me, "Imagine if your dad married her, you'd be even fairer, like a foreigner."
My blood boiled then and there but mum said not to say anything. Thankfully i didn't have to, another auntie said that there's no need, I amalreadyfairer than her daughter and better looking alredy, anymore and they'd have to hire body guards. "Maybe we should have married 'my uncle' with her. then maybe your daughter would look same as 'me'."

My evil aunt got offended and left to see her sister. No need to say we never went to another wedding on her side of the family after.
She's current not on speaking terms with anyone in the family.

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Marvelor 2 years ago

At least your family stood up for you and your aunt :)

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#69

My brother launched into a diatribe about how my relationships from 16 to 25 were basically sex for money. Not even going to offer up my stance.

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Otter 3 years ago

When people say stuff like that, it's because nobody is enthused about having sex with them.

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At funeral for grandfather:
super religious (Irish Catholic) Aunt to my then girlfriend (now wife of almost 15 years): "so what religion are you"
Wife: "my family is evangelical free"
SRA: "oh, well, you know you are still going to hell, right?"

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g90814 3 years ago

"I'll save you a spot"

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#71

Partners father, at a family meal, said he thought Hitler had some good ideas… that was just one comment which seems to sum him up for me.

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Theoretical Empiricist 3 years ago

Nice of people to make it easy.

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#72

My aunt couldn't stop telling how special it was that - now her daughter was pregnant - they could spend their days doing precious mother/daughter-stuff. I lost my mother when I was 10. I never had a mother/daughter-thing, and will never get them either. But I didn't dare to say how much those words were hurting me.

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Tee Witt 3 years ago

Some people just do not deserve any relatives, silly women.

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#73

"It is so much nicer when you are not here, please don't come home for the summer." Just before summer break in college. Twice, once a day before the dorms closed. The other, hours before we were evicted. Her actions, followed by my family denying it, even in the midst of her publicly humiliating me, have given me PTSD. At two she told me my birth ruined her life, I knew nobody would believe me and she would deny it at 2. They believe her lies -- without question. Most recently she gave me 6 months to leave her apartment. My PTSD was intensified due to a horrible rape. She owned the apt I lived in. Where did she think I would live? My father came to my rescue. She denies anything happened and says it was a good financial move for my father. He never corrects her. Her new husband went through my apartment and took what he wanted. Everything was dumped on the floor. It was impossible to get past the entry three weeks before the moving trucks arrived. There was a class in self harm and suicide prevention. After at least one hospitalization a year for 9 years, she made sure I couldn't attend. I developed serious physical health problems, she insisted I switch doctors from the best in Boston to local doctors. When I moved out of Boston, she couldn't understand why I refused to talk to her. Within six months, all the serious problems went away or. drastically improved. I always believed the entire family didn't want me to return, recently I discoved it was just her. Mothers have the power to destroy lives and she knows it.

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Bettie-Jean Neal 3 years ago

Mothers DO have that power. Unfortunately. Some people shouldn't have children,

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#74

"you shouldn't have cut your hair so short. people might think you're gay."

WAIT PEOPLE MIGHT THINK IM GAY IF I HAVE SHORT HAIR?! hold on, lemme shave it all off, NANA, cause maybe i wanna look gay!

(we're on fine terms, i still love her, but she doesn't know im non binary so... awkward)

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#75

Helping senile family move. Wrapping an ancient candy with great care. "I guess you are going to steal that too", popped out of her distant memory bank. I said nothing. What good would it have done.

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BananaAnna

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BananaAnna (Submission author) 3 years ago

Also should have typed "family member". My brain is obviously not awake.

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#76

Not family, but when I was about 50, my Father told a group of people (at church, in front of me) he was glad he put me on birth control as a teenager so I wouldn't get pregnant. I was on hormones but it was due to a problem regulating my cycle and he had NOTHING to do with it.

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Martha Burgess

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Caro Caro 3 years ago (edited)

Why the hell would you chuck this topic in a group at church? Lots of women use birth controle to keep their hormonal balance in check.

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#77

Someone asked "How is your sister?" when I haven't seen her or heard from her since she left her child with me and my mom and my niece was standing right next to me!

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Tee Witt 3 years ago

Perhaps she did not realise?

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#78

My great Aunt told me one Christmas,as I got a beer, that "only whores drank from the bottle in her day.

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nicole veltri (Submission author) 3 years ago

We got a lot of whores on BP I think

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#79

Biological father on his deathbed, the first time I saw him since my parent divorced when I was 4 years old.

“your mother was a cheapskate, she didn't share me the money from the house sale”

That's it, the only thing he said to his only daughter after 22 years, before his death.

I asked ny grandma permission to went home and she said “yes my darling, you're free to do anything you want, and this is your last duty as his daughter, you don't have to come again” she knew how hard it was and hugged me, and we cry together (she was awesome, miss her much)

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FYI my mother bought the house with her own money and raised 3 children on her own.

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Whimsy 3 years ago

What a horrible person, calling him dad is too generous.

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#80

“Hey Sis! Is the reason your gay because Mom dropped you on your head as a baby?”

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KatFinZim

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Agent 8433599 2 years ago

"No, sis! She dropped YOU on your head, not me! That's why you're so stupid!"

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#81

Years ago and it was to my ex and not me. We were young and expecting our son. We were at a large family function and I had left her alone for a bit, probably off to say hello to someone. Came back and several middle aged+ biddies had surrounded her and were telling her horror stories of births gone wrong which was plainly freaking her out. I came over sat beside her, smiled at them and told them they could all just f**k right off. Think I even got a "well I never" or two :)

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Chich

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Agent 8433599 2 years ago

Thank you for standing up for her!

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#82

My great aunt, no joke, asked me when I was going stop being "childish" and act "properly". I was ten.

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TheReader19 3 years ago

When she stops, you stop

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#83

“Bats will intentionally fly into your hair to give you rabies” said my sister in law. I was astonished at the depth of ignorance.
This woman is now a national celebrity (no longer my SIL.)

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CV Vir

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Tee Witt 3 years ago

Not surprised, TV seems to prefer brain dead people these days.

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#84

I (F) was 13 yrs old at the time, and my dad asked me at a family gathering if I realized my face was broken out...

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Madam Puddyfoot

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Agent 8433599 2 years ago

Dude, that is not ok. My family will do that, (I'm 13) and it is horrible for self-esteem

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#85

I was sitting next to my sister at my grandfather’s funeral when we heard our semi-senile great aunt talking about us from behind. She said, “Those girls sure have fat necks.”

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Bama Belle 3 years ago (edited)

My grandmother told me I had a short neck and no ass. I became instantly aware that she was right! As self-conscious as I was I had never noticed before. I know she wasn't trying to be cruel. She quickly pointed out that she too was short-necked and ass-less. That was 30 years ago and it's funny to me now. She died last year and I would give anything to hear another one of her 'helpful' comments.

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#86

About 25 years ago, my favorite aunt, whom I adored as a child, said, "You know, I couldn't stand you when you were a kid. But I kind of like you now. I understand you now. Do you like yourself?" She was drunk. After that, whenever she would see me, she'd have to tell me how much she hated me as a kid. I was devastated. To me, this woman hung the moon. It's still hurtful. Since I lived 750 miles away from my family, I didn't see my mother often; therefore, I didn't see my aunt, either. I would go only as a favor to my mother. Eventually, I stopped doing that. I had no desire to see someone that felt the need to say hurtful things to me to make herself feel better. I don't understand what motivates people to be so cruel.

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Teresa Taylor

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Agent 8433599 2 years ago

That's horrible. I'm sorry that someone so important to you felt like that.

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#87

(note that pretty much everybody is drunk except me, my mom, and my dad)

So it’s a casual dinner with 27 people. Everyone is drinking, then someone drives a car into the wall. Who is it you ask? It’s my cousin Lexus, who appears to be unconscious at the wheel. My uncle is asking me (a girlflux) “wHerE is YOur HusBaND” IM SIX GET IT TOGETHER BOB!

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Happi doggi (all pronouns)

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Happi doggi (Submission author) 3 years ago

He also kept referring to me as Barack Obama. He died because of his drinking problem.

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#88

Sister’s 21st. I don’t get on with my parents cos they hate my wife. Brother tells my wife it’s her fault, so I break his jaw after he refused to apologise. Now none of the family understand why I don’t talk to any of them!

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Bama Belle 3 years ago

So she's done absolutely nothing at all to warrant the ire of at least 3 people? My uncle used to give us the freeze over his wife too, until she beat his ass with a baseball bat...while he was in bed asleep. Not saying your wife is that mean, or even guilty of anything, but why does your family dislike her?

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#89

I was at Christmas dinner and my grandpa said "That's a lot of food, are you sure you can eat all that" then I proceeded to leave the table and go to my room and cry.

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Kai Scadden 3 years ago

...he was obviously worried about you overeating he doesn't want you to get a stomach ache??

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#90

After my Dad's funeral, my mother in law comes up to me, points to my father in law and says, "he's your Dad now". I was so dumbfounded by her comment and it still baffles me.

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Ally R

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Minime 3 years ago

Let's not overreact. As misplaced as that comment was, and it's very misplaced.. it could have also come from a place of wanting you not to feel fatherless and alone. A supportive way, in their own misguided way.

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#91

not at a gathering.. but my stepdad told me he almost grabed my ass because allegedly i look like my mom from behind... and we would wear similar pants.. that's some what rigt because we both wear jeans but she is 13cm/5 inc smaller then i am.. soo yeah

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Nami Tantrum

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Paula Marowsky 3 years ago

OMG what a freak!

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#92

At my wedding reception, greeting two cousins I had met a total of four times in my life; “Oh, so you finally got around bothering to speak to us then.” (I got on with my Aunt but don’t know why they even came.)

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Theoretical Empiricist 3 years ago

And how long will it be before you make that mistake of speaking with them again?

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#93

At my cousin’s wedding my grandma motioned to the very pregnant bride and whispered to me, “I thought you’d be my first grandchild that ‘had’ to get married.” I think I was 12 or so.

Many years later at my first wedding, I was 7 months pregnant. Grandma came thru the line, hugged me and again whispered to me, “I knew you’d get married pregnant.” The woman was awesome :D

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#94

Grandma died so grandpa remarried. The first thing she said when she met me was, "I thought you'd be skinner!"

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Sunchaser

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Agent 8433599 2 years ago (edited)

"i thought you'd be less witchy!"

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#95

My brother and his wife came to visit us in our new home. SIL says it will look nice once you’ve had a chance to paint. The house was purchased freshly painted. I have no intention of painting over the fresh paint. Guess she didn’t like my house. Jokes on her because no one in the family likes her, but we are polite and won’t tell her that.

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SillyPandaBunny

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Kathryn Baylis 2 years ago

Well hell, SIL!! Did you bring your brushes and overalls?

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#96

My Mom called me a pervert for being Omnisexual. Also I came out to her as Ace before that so :]

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Enby.Minecraft.Bee.

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VeninTheNonBinaryRogue 3 years ago

I’m Omni too :)

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#97

My preschool cousin telling me, in front of everyone, that I should marry her older sisters (also my cousins, also two of them).

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SumoNinja

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Devil's Advocate 3 years ago

You're going to bitch at a preschool kid for not understanding marriage??

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#98

A conversation at Thanksgiving one year

"so like polygamy"
me: "No grandma, polyamory. I'm dating him and her."
grandma: "oh" ... "..." ... "her too?"
me: "yes, her too."
grandma: "ok"

I have a lot of Mormon (all monogamous) relatives, so she probably thought I was wading deeper into that pool.

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#99

nothing incredibly "terrible" so to say, but it still was very uncomfortable for me when i was a child....

My dad is atom physicist in a research institute... Everyone in my family, even friends and acquaintances kept on saying how much i look like my mother and how my dad for sure must have "experimented on clones" or something like that...
How i could be a clone of my mother because i just look exactly like her. To me, it was hurtful because
1. i have an other eye color and nose shape - people seemed to not notice, i thought people didn't see properly or their observation skills were just really bad...
2. i felt like my dad (who did at least half of the NATURAL creation work) was left out, felt uncomfortable too ...but since i am the only girl in the family they never had someone of the same gender of that part of the family (besides my grandmother) to compare me with.
3. i do not like to be a "copy" of someone (i just rather preferred to be compared to my dad, because, i guess intelligence is more important than looks to me)
4. being exactly like someone who you are having constantly arguments and disputes with is not a nice comparison.
5. it wasn't an unique comment, i kept on hearing it every time i met some family friends or family members

But looking back I think they were all just trying to be nice and
if someone tells me now how much i look like my mother, i take it as a compliment, because she is 56 years old and still look super young and beautiful and i hope i take after her genetically speaking. - i still value education more than looks tho and i see how sad my mother is to see how her beauty is slowly fading.

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Devil's Advocate 3 years ago

On point number 4, it is often the case that you clash with those you are most similar to, especially if you're both stubborn.

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Mrs. Jan Glass 2 years ago

I visited my uncle, after having not seen him in a couple years. A bunch of family was over, and I walked in the door, excited to see everyone. Before I could start to give Uncle a hug, he hit me with this furious look and demanded, "Are you actually going to vote for that f*****g b***h?" He then proceeded to throw every possible pearl-clutching FOX News propaganda at me. He didn't even say hi, how are you, how was the drive, do you want something to drink, nothing. Just shouting about how much he hated Hillary and "feminazis." It broke my heart that someone who I'd known and loved for 45 years now only saw me as a "librul" and his enemy. That was the beginning of me cutting off my entire family of Trump worshipping religious nutjobs and racist , -phobic assholes.

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SCP-3998 2 years ago

I'm sorry you lost your family to a cult, that s**t is terrible

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Notyomama 2 years ago

I deleted my FB because of those people.

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Pj Mac 2 years ago

I'm right there with you, my friend

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Kady LaHaie 2 years ago (edited)

I had a similar experience with my entire in law family bullying me on FB for being a libtard and I blocked them all and they can't understand why.

2points

Tree P 2 years ago

I live with my Mom , otherwise she'd be alone.(take care of her,too.) She, and my brothers, are pro-trump. I am NOT. Have to hear this kind of s**t all the time, but I tell 'em back.

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Leo Domitrix 2 years ago

Given my dad's family, too many to choose, so I'll go with hubby. Annoyed by his family quesitoning yet again when we'd have kids when they knew I'd been told I can' have 'em... and having had a shot of hard lqiuor.. Hubby stood up in an elegant marina-side restaurant and said far too loudly, "We're not having kids I GOT MY BALLS CUT". And that, folks, ended that. :-) (This is why Hubby doesn't do liquor. He's *very* honest.)

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Aunt Riarch 2 years ago (edited)

Your hubby is platinum . Tell him from me

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Judy Steelman 3 years ago

Can't think of anything nice but there must have been something other than "Judy you should be a model. Afterall they all look like boys these days". Tall skinny and flatchested. Love that aunt but not best at complenting

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Lolly 3 years ago (edited)

"wow you look really old" brother the day my dad died who I and my 3 other brothers had been caring for round the clock for 3 weeks and watched him die while that brother had been in Spain getting a tan. "your legs are so white they are blinding me" same brother the day of my dad's funeral. Both times in front of big groups of family. I no longer speak to that brother as he has never been able to be polite in front of people

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Tree P 2 years ago

He sounds like a selfish d**k. Good riddence.

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perkio 2 years ago

I hope what many of us are able to take away from this is that there are so many damaged adults passing down their own hurt, trauma and frustrations onto others. It's them, it's not you. It's not about you.

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Pj Mac 2 years ago

I know that's true. My mom used to say, "sticks & stones will break my bones but words will never harm me." I'd rather poke my eyes out with a stick rather than have to live with those words from someone who supposedly cares about you.

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J Adams 3 years ago

Meeting a distant relative at a family wedding, stood next to my Aunt who introduced me, conversation went on to talk about my mother. When the distant relative asked “which one Jean or Catherine”? My aunt went white as a sheet and that was the moment I found out I was adopted by my birth mothers aunt and was brought up to believe she was my cousin (for context I was 30 at the time)

7points

MellonCollie 3 years ago

Wow, so many nasty, nasty, hurtful, jealous people around. What is wrong with all these people treating others like crap.

6points

Steffen Rehm 3 years ago

My Wife got a Parship coupon and got told, to get a proper husband. We are married now, but still hurts.

6points

Needmorecowbell 2 years ago (edited)

My a*****e evangelical brother told my other brother that his son, who had just died by suicide, “lost his battle with Satan.” All from his cozy vineyard tour in Italy.

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Mrs. Jan Glass 2 years ago

Ah, yes, there's no hate like Christian love! I hope your family's had comfort since then.

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Wysteria_Rose 2 years ago

My uncle passed from covid a year ago. He was my dad's only sibling/brother. Their mother is mentally gone in a nursing facility, so my dad was doing everything to plan the funeral/expenses/etc. I wasn't close with my uncle but knew it hurt my dad deeply with so much of his family gone. At the funeral, one of my dad's cousins came up, teary-eyed. He then proceeded to say "well, we had to put our dog down yesterday." It took all of my self-control not to snap at him to suck it up while my dad was burying his brother. Yes, I love my pets, but I would not be comparing grief at a freaking funeral. I was also feeling very protective of my dad that day as he was trying to keep it together. Plus, the funeral home dug up the wrong grave (my uncle was cremated to be buried with his late wife, they accidentally dug up their father's grave instead, whoops).

5points

Well-Dressed Wolf 2 years ago

How did a random “Author” on BP necro-repost this 11-month-old post as if it were new?

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Jiminy 2 years ago

Was about to comment the same...

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Omi bub 2 years ago

As a cocktail teenager who felt he had the right to comment on women's bodies my brother noticed my Aunt's unshaven legs - loudly proclaimed how disgusting they were to tye entire family. Laughing she said "if you think that's bad you should see my m*nge". And this was the day his feminist education really kicked up a notch.

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Needmorecowbell 2 years ago

I struggled with infertility, anxiety, and an eating disorder for many years. My EX mother-in-law told me it was clear God didn’t want me to pass on my genes. Jokes on her—I have two gorgeous kids, an amazing husband (not her son), and a law degree. All after the age of 35.

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Bubbles and sparks 2 years ago

My dad: Those gay people, can't they act normal? Me: I think I'm pretty normal, I love both men and women 😁 Dad: ohh

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Ansi 2 years ago

Saying goodbye to my grandmother (Momma) at the hospital my mum said: My god your bum has gotten big. That was not what I needed to hear at that heartbreaking moment. (But true because Momma collapsed while I was on my honeymoom, and probably ate a little bit to much. But still.) My grandmother was more of a mother to me for years and years when I had almost no contact with my real mum. (Just because the ordinary divorce and busy with the new family) I miss her almost everyday and pester our children whit anecdotes about things she used to say. It makes me feel more connected to her in day to day life and not only in my memories. ❤️ All my love to you if you read this and missing a loved one.

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Bored Retsuko 2 years ago

Sorry for your loss! And it sounds as if your mum was envious of the special connection you had with your grandma, so she just had to find something negative to say. Give yourself time to grieve and do pester your kids to your heart's content. 😉 (Also, I'll take this opportunity to say, I'm glad to read you as I haven't seen you around, and apologies in case I answered you weirdly a while back, my ability to read comments properly may have temporarily suffered, lol)

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Shay Tracy 2 years ago

my mother is a desperately religious piece of work, but one of my favorites was right after she outed me to the world and was trying to convince me that I was just confused. After maybe the hundredth conversation over a very exhausting weekend visit, she was explaining that women naturally have special bonds with other women because we can relate to each other in ways that we just can't with men. I was tired and went for the nuclear option, so I smiled and said, "I know, right? That's why the s3x is so incredible!" last time we talked about it :D

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censorshipsucks 2 years ago

so much toxic POS family members, fortunately I disowned all the ones like this. Just do not speak, contact, email, phone, acknowledge, or even go into the same space-time locale with.

2points

April Smith 3 years ago

One Thanksgiving, I was breastfeeding my daughter, when my cousin’s husband very loudly commented, “Geeze! I haven’t seen another woman’s breast since I married your cousin!” :-/

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SarahGrey1810 3 years ago

Was at Christmas and I turned 18 that year, legal adult in my country. My Godparent aunt who I really looked up to said to me in front of my parents. 'Thank god you are finally 18. Now I don't have to give stupid presents for your Birthday anymore. Till this day she can't understand and frowns when I adress her by her name instead of aunty.

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Bunzilla 3 years ago

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Diphylleia Grayi 2 years ago

I thought that what I heart say about my parents and me by our family members was really nasty and bad but this was way worse 🤦

1point

SupernaturalPanda 2 years ago

Family can be toxic as hell . Just because their blood doesn’t mean you have to put up with their b******t . Shut them down hard, cut them out of your life and live in peace .

1point

Pat Shaw 2 years ago

I love my Mom but she never thinks before she speaks. We were Christmas shopping at the mall and were commenting on how busy it was when she said that it was a good thing that we didn't have any "kids" to buy for because the toy departments were crazy. This happened 7 months after the death of my infant son.

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Bubbles and sparks 2 years ago

You've got a point there... But to say that all men think that certain kind of behaviour is okay, that's not fair to all those men who are just as disgusted by those perverts action as we are. I know for af fact that if ever someone would pull a stunt like that with me, my SO wouldn't even blink twice, that man would be down within a few seconds. Is it the correct way of handling things? I don't know, but I would not stop him.

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NatalieC 2 years ago

Ooof. Reading these accounts makes me feel like I'm back home again. We can start with the entire family looking at my baby pics and laughing because I was so "ugly" (and such an obnoxious screaming baby). Then, one time as a teen I was changing clothes with my mother in the same room and she told me the unforgettable, "God, you have ugly boobs." Those are just the bookends of a very unhappy childhood and a lifetime of low self-esteem.

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Rachel Reynolds 2 years ago

All these parents are awful and everyone one of you are invited to come over and bake cookies with me. Also to Thanksgiving and Christmas. I hope you all realize how wonderful and worthy you are.

1point

Got Myself 4 Pandas 2 years ago

Suddenly very grateful to have my bunch of blunt best friends who just happen to be my mother and sibling - we all genuinely see each other as friends first - my sister in law is my best friend in the world - I just wish my dad were still with us. But, yeah, I consider myself very lucky to have found myself in a family who love spending time together

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Aunt Riarch 2 years ago

Lucky aren't we? And I've only found out in the last few years how rare it is

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Felice Coles 2 years ago

How do some people procreate? Are their personalities not disgusting enough?

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TheDivineMsM 2 years ago

At a family gathering, my husbands aunt asked one of his friends "what is it like being black?".... in a gathering full of white people, with my husbands friend being the only black guy there.

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alloutbikes@yahoo.com 2 years ago

Not a family member but a neighbor at my grandmother's wake cornered several people to let them know her kids wouldn't support her. They didn't give her money and they had jobs. Her kids didn't live with her. Great wake people left quickly.

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Bubbles and sparks 2 years ago

Thanks you, you are the partner your family needs, I wish there were so much more like you.

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Faramir10 2 years ago

I couldn't finish reading this. I quit about 1/3 of the way down. People make these nasty comments then they wonder what your problem is.

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sin ead 2 years ago

Scarred for life!

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Full Name 3 years ago

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Viviane 3 years ago (edited)

Scroll to the top of the page, go to the upper left corner, and click on "Add post". You'll be taken to https://www.boredpanda.com/add-new-post/ and you can then choose one of 3 items: "Add A Post", "Ask a Question" and "Create a Challenge".

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Mrs. Jan Glass 2 years ago

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SCP-3998 2 years ago

I'm sorry you lost your family to a cult, that s**t is terrible

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Notyomama 2 years ago

I deleted my FB because of those people.

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Pj Mac 2 years ago

I'm right there with you, my friend

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Kady LaHaie 2 years ago (edited)

I had a similar experience with my entire in law family bullying me on FB for being a libtard and I blocked them all and they can't understand why.

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Tree P 2 years ago

I live with my Mom , otherwise she'd be alone.(take care of her,too.) She, and my brothers, are pro-trump. I am NOT. Have to hear this kind of s**t all the time, but I tell 'em back.

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Leo Domitrix 2 years ago

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Aunt Riarch 2 years ago (edited)

Your hubby is platinum . Tell him from me

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Judy Steelman 3 years ago

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Lolly 3 years ago (edited)

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Tree P 2 years ago

He sounds like a selfish d**k. Good riddence.

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perkio 2 years ago

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Pj Mac 2 years ago

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J Adams 3 years ago

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MellonCollie 3 years ago

Wow, so many nasty, nasty, hurtful, jealous people around. What is wrong with all these people treating others like crap.

6points

Steffen Rehm 3 years ago

My Wife got a Parship coupon and got told, to get a proper husband. We are married now, but still hurts.

6points

Needmorecowbell 2 years ago (edited)

My a*****e evangelical brother told my other brother that his son, who had just died by suicide, “lost his battle with Satan.” All from his cozy vineyard tour in Italy.

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Mrs. Jan Glass 2 years ago

Ah, yes, there's no hate like Christian love! I hope your family's had comfort since then.

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Wysteria_Rose 2 years ago

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Well-Dressed Wolf 2 years ago

How did a random “Author” on BP necro-repost this 11-month-old post as if it were new?

5points

Jiminy 2 years ago

Was about to comment the same...

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Omi bub 2 years ago

4points

Needmorecowbell 2 years ago

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Bubbles and sparks 2 years ago

My dad: Those gay people, can't they act normal? Me: I think I'm pretty normal, I love both men and women 😁 Dad: ohh

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Ansi 2 years ago

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Bored Retsuko 2 years ago

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Shay Tracy 2 years ago

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censorshipsucks 2 years ago

so much toxic POS family members, fortunately I disowned all the ones like this. Just do not speak, contact, email, phone, acknowledge, or even go into the same space-time locale with.

2points

April Smith 3 years ago

One Thanksgiving, I was breastfeeding my daughter, when my cousin’s husband very loudly commented, “Geeze! I haven’t seen another woman’s breast since I married your cousin!” :-/

2points

SarahGrey1810 3 years ago

2points

Bunzilla 3 years ago

2points

Diphylleia Grayi 2 years ago

I thought that what I heart say about my parents and me by our family members was really nasty and bad but this was way worse 🤦

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SupernaturalPanda 2 years ago

Family can be toxic as hell . Just because their blood doesn’t mean you have to put up with their b******t . Shut them down hard, cut them out of your life and live in peace .

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Pat Shaw 2 years ago

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Bubbles and sparks 2 years ago

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NatalieC 2 years ago

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Rachel Reynolds 2 years ago

All these parents are awful and everyone one of you are invited to come over and bake cookies with me. Also to Thanksgiving and Christmas. I hope you all realize how wonderful and worthy you are.

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Got Myself 4 Pandas 2 years ago

1point

Aunt Riarch 2 years ago

Lucky aren't we? And I've only found out in the last few years how rare it is

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Felice Coles 2 years ago

How do some people procreate? Are their personalities not disgusting enough?

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TheDivineMsM 2 years ago

At a family gathering, my husbands aunt asked one of his friends "what is it like being black?".... in a gathering full of white people, with my husbands friend being the only black guy there.

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alloutbikes@yahoo.com 2 years ago

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Bubbles and sparks 2 years ago

Thanks you, you are the partner your family needs, I wish there were so much more like you.

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Faramir10 2 years ago

I couldn't finish reading this. I quit about 1/3 of the way down. People make these nasty comments then they wonder what your problem is.

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sin ead 2 years ago

Scarred for life!

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Full Name 3 years ago

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Viviane 3 years ago (edited)

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