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Passionate, enduring love, forever and ever. An adventure through life with a partner you trust with your heart and soul. Someone who gets your quirks and loves you for your silly jokes. That’s the happily ever after that many of us Pandas dream of having. And whether or not you plan on getting married yourselves, you can’t deny that weddings are beautiful celebrations of love. Well… sometimes.

Other times, they’re more of a disaster than a fairytale. But there’s always humor to be found, even in the darkest of places. And that’s the silver lining we’ll be focusing on today. The ‘That’s it, I’m wedding shaming’ Facebook page documents the most “hilarious bridezilla and tacky wedding stories’ to amuse and entertain the net. We’re featuring some of their best of the worst posts to show you just how bad things can actually get.

Scroll down, upvote the posts that grabbed your attention the most, and be sure to send this list to all of your friends who are planning on getting married this year! If you enjoyed the content, be sure to give ‘That’s it, I’m wedding shaming’ a follow. Meanwhile, read on for Bored Panda’s interview with wedding experts Anna and Sarah, team leaders at The Wedding Society, about keeping things running smoothly.

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Props to the photographer, but damn imagine being this petty.

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Marette
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I confess I wore a white dress to my sisters wedding 25 years ago. I was 22yo & her Bridesmaid. I honestly did not know only the bride is supposed to wear white... I rarely wear dresses & this one happened to look nice so I bought it without a second thought. NOBODY said anything, ever. It only came up years later when I read about what a huge faux pax it is. I was mortified & called my sister to apologise but she said she didn't know about the white dress thing either! Now, everytime I see the photos I think, why didn't someone tell me? 🙄😅

Hiedi H
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Unless you showed the dress to someone first, while at the wedding, it's a bit too late 😳 If I saw the bridesmaids wearing white though, I'd figure the bride was okay with it or had arranged it. If the bride is fine with it, you're all good 🙂

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Eb
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She didn't just wear white, that's a wedding dress! Seems she doesn't care whether she gets to see her grandchildren.

Katinka Min
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What is it with these crazy mothers who deep down want to marry their sons??

Raq Ram
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This actually more common than people think. It's passive aggressive behavior and the MIL is making everything about "her" instead of the bride and groom. It's mortifying when it occurs because usually it's the kind of like a "mommy dearest" situation and it seriously makes the MIL appear mentally unstable 😐

Mrs. Jan Glass
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It is unbelievable that it has become such a thing for either the MOG or a stepmother to wear not just white, but a full-on wedding gown to their kid's wedding. It's not the "take that" you think it is, you tacky cows. Everyone is laughing at how insecure and pathetic you are.

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Vicky Zar
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would not have chosen red because now she matches the groom. But maybe that was their color scheme..?

Alexis minnix
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You can see in the background a lady sitting down who’s also in red so I guess it was the theme or something.

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Leena
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Can I say how disgusting it is that these kind of moms act like they want to marry thier sons?

Lynne Stankard
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Every mother who shows up in white should be bnned from the edding - it's just so CRASS.

v
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Too bad the photographer didn't change it to some hideous brown/yellow/orange plaid.

Chich
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is great. You could announce that anyone wearing white will be photosopped to chatreuse, infection yellow, prison stripe or some other horrible colour of your choosing and only for the photos to be posted online.

Fresh Big
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

C'mon, surely they could've photoshopped some devil horns on MIL as well.

GlamPilot
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hahahahahaha. She totally deserved that 😂🤣😂 Gosh. I had my daughter approve my MOB dress when she got married. No way am I trying for ANY attention. This is THEIR day. Not mine. I’ve had mine.

Jessica Cain
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's a horrible thing to do. You were completely in the right changing her dress to red.

Natasha
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Love it !!! You get what you pay for. Cudos to you photographer

Fresh Big
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They couldn't have made the dress with a Scooby Doo pattern or a party clown?

Hakitosama
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ultra props to the photographer! But.. Honestly... White or red.... Darling.... Honey..... WHAT SEAMSTRESS LET YOU WALK OUT OF HER SHOP WITH THIS? It doesn't suit you at all 😱 the frill on the bodice makes your chest look shorter which in turn propel your whole proportion into the uncanny valley and put all the attention to your belly (I'm not fat shaming here! Just saying this particular dress isn't flattering)

Kristen Tumlin
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What is up with her hands? They looked schorched, maybe from shooting fire out of them. Seriously tho, what is happening there?

Ciera Fedock
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I edit images for a living, this (sadly) isn't uncommon. I often have to change something or another because someone was being petty

Hazel Sage
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Bhahaha, this is awesome! Obviously not a perfect solution, but definitely a fun way to salvage an obnoxious situation!

Jo Garcia
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's a mean mother-in-law. I hope that this man can stand up to her and stick with his wife.

Crystal Ruiz
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Y'all know what's sadder, not only did she look tacky in the white, she would've looked great in red and red is a lot more attention seeking than white.

Terry Filkohazi
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What's with these women wanting to wear white or a bridal type dress?!

Fiona Harvey
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Or having that big a stomach and thinking a tight white dress would look good on her.

SkekVi
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's such an excellent way to deal with this problem.

Martha Howley
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The photo with the white dress is what she actually wore to her son’s wedding. The one with the red dress is the SAME PHOTO, just with the color of the dress changed by the photographer, because the mother of the groom shouldn’t be wearing a wedding dress at her son’s wedding.

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Callie Ge
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She didn’t just wear white she wore the exact same Wedding dress, crazy

Lisa Fitzgerald
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is strange bc it’s obviously the same woman (blonde hair, nails, jewelry,post, hand hold, etc., and the exact same photo by looking at folks in background. Looks like they made the tall girl white dress pic red and smaller. There’s no way this is a photographer edit!

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Oh hey...your racism is showing

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Over 21.5k Facebook users follow the ‘That’s it, I’m wedding shaming’ page, and they can’t wait for the latest updates and juicy gossip to pop up on their feeds. There’s tea being spilled by the gallon here, and it’s all anonymous to protect everyone’s feelings.

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If your new husband can’t be bothered enough to at least wear a button up shirt and slacks...then you may need to throw him back to the trailer park and go fishing for a better catch 

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One of the most talked about wedding shames we’ve had...redneck mud wedding

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Florida in a picture.

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If you have a weird wedding story or some fiery drama to share, you can join the community and get in touch with the founder of the page. You never know, it might be your post that’s amusing everyone next week. Tacky doesn't have to mean unfunny.

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The fact of the matter is that it’s far from just brides and grooms who cause drama and create situations that everyone will be gossiping about for years and years to come. There are some truly peculiar people out there who end up being invited to celebrations of love, only to try and ruin them. Some folks simply take pleasure in causing chaos wherever they go. Weddings are no exception.

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Great idea if you want your wedding to smell like pee.

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Anna and Sarah, team leaders at The Wedding Society spoke to Bored Panda about unruly and rude guests, and how to manage them. In short, it’s important to let go of the idea that weddings can be ‘perfect’: some things will go wrong no matter what. So it’s vital to be able to adapt and not take any minor flaws in the plan personally.

“Some people just want to watch the world burn, and as hosts to an event, it's just something that wedding couples will have to accept,” Anna and Sarah explained to us that the happy couple has to be realistic about the fact that not everyone will be well-behaved and polite on this happy occasion. No matter how much we might want them to.

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Herbalife as a wedding theme? If I were invited to this wedding, I would walk out

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“Not everyone is going to fall in line, especially your anarchist uncle Jerry with the overgrown beard. That said, try to fall back on your vendor support system as leverage,” the experts pointed out that the marrying couple shouldn’t have to do everything themselves. They can’t worry about every tiny detail or mishap. They should turn to the venue’s staff to help them handle all the issues.

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Oh baby.

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“Simply saying, ‘The venue has rules’ or, ‘Our caterers have agreed to only..’" is an easy way to take the blame off yourself but still enforce hard rules,” the wedding expert shared how couples can shut down some bad behavior among guests. It’s a way to misdirect some of the havoc-wreakers’ negative emotions elsewhere.

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According to the experts, they stressed that they would be “utilizing the professionals” around them for help if they were ever in a situation where disaster’s looming either during the ceremony or the reception afterward.

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You cannot convince me that a trampoline in someone’s backyard holds that much sentimental value to any couple getting married

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“By now you will have developed a relationship with them [the professionals] and they'll often be more than happy to put the foot down on your behalf—especially venue staff,” they pointed out that the people the wedding couples have hired are there to help in any way that they can.

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Giving D&D a whole new meaning! Denim and Diamonds, coming to a Brides magazine near you.

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“Have a quiet word with your coordinator or someone else more emotionally removed from the individuals involved and ask them to help you manage,” they shared what you can do if some of your guests start behaving in a way that’s over the line. It’s one thing to cause a bit of chaos accidentally, it’s something else entirely when you’re trying to derail everything because you want all the attention.

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Well that's unsettling.

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I would say what this looks like, but y'all probably already know.

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I don’t even know where to start...but y’all should probably get off those train tracks before an actual train wreck happens, instead of the metaphorical one happening with those outfits.

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Yes, this is a cake. No, they didn't drop it on the floor.

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Not sure if Uncle Jerry sh*t on the cake or it’s rejecting the ganache filling...either way this is a disaster

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Imagine a ball of lemons being thrown at you? I think about it and I cackle.

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Hell no.

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In the morning, I'm wearing waffles!

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Ah yes. The ol' make the bridesmaids wear comforters.

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This Would Take An Eye Out

This would take an eye out

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Like a rhinestone cowgirl...

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Oh no bb what is you doin

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Little Mermaid garbage pile chic.

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These folks did not have an eye for it.

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I don't think she wants the answer, because to me this looks like an AliExpress Halloween costume, but...hey.

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Favorite comment: "Oh look it's a trainwreckasaurous"

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Yes, that’s an alligator cake topper...yes, that’s a giant gummy snake...we don’t know why and we kinda don’t wanna know why

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I hope those knickers were new...

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Aaah ghosts!

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These folks did not have an eye for it.

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In case any of you are looking for some rustic #diwhy wedding decor, this gem posted on our Marketplace Monday thread

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Wait, Lydia Deetz is that you? 

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When the winter formal is Friday and you're getting married Saturday.

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John Deere cake topper. Yeehaw?

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Described as an eco-friendly wedding, they used the banana peels and weeds for compost to grow their dinner. Just kidding.

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Between the San Andrea's fault on the bodice and the one dress vomiting another, not too sure what's going on here.

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Because who doesn’t want to get dressed up for a wedding so you can sit on the ground

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At least they match?

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I would use these shoes for kindling in a fire.

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The suitcases just in case either party wants to book it is a nice touch.

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