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Couples often have to take their time when picking their wedding guestlist. However, generally most people expect their attending friends and family to at least behave. But as experience shows, people often make questionable decisions.

We’ve gathered some examples of the worst, trashiest and most tacky wedding guests out there. We also got in touch with Jhona Yellin, Editor of Bespoke Bride to learn more. So get comfortable as you scroll through, prepare to get angry, upvote the most egregious offenders and be sure to comment your thoughts and experiences below.

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More For Attendees: Inappropriate Questions

More For Attendees: Inappropriate Questions

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Bride's Sister Made It All About Her

Bride's Sister Made It All About Her

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Glen Ellyn
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd divorce my sister if she pulled a stunt like this. Wow, how nasty.

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4 Weddings And A Cat Party

4 Weddings And A Cat Party

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StarCrossedFriday
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Tbf, a wedding full of cats does sound kind of amazing. But I wouldn’t force it on someone else 😅

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Bored Panda got in touch with Jhona Yellin, Editor of Bespoke Bride, and she was kind enough to answer some of our questions. Naturally, given their extensive experience organizing all sorts of weddings every year, we were curious to hear if they have had any crazy stories.

“Yes indeed! After 13 years of covering weddings all around the world, our team has a long list of some crazy stories. I once attended a wedding where a guest got into the couple's open bar a bit too early. By the time the cake was being cut, this person was on the dance floor, trying to reenact Dirty Dancing — solo.”

#4

Because Some People Can’t Have A Single Day That Is Not About Them

Because Some People Can’t Have A Single Day That Is Not About Them

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Mother-In-Law Hires Someone To Throw Red Paint On Bride's Dress

Mother-In-Law Hires Someone To Throw Red Paint On Bride's Dress

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Nimitz
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1 month ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Clipped from Reddit: I was having doubts about posting this, but now that it's turned into a Twitter thread and there's IG reels about it, I feel like it's fair game. This poor girl (I don't know her but she's from my mom's hometown and news has spread) was hated by her MIL, as well as SIL and BIL, since the beginning. They threatened her repeatedly, made multiple SM accounts to harass her, and when confronted by the husband, they denied everything. BIL offered her a blank check to leave her husband and the family for good (boyfriend at the time). Now, as I said I don't know her, but what I have heard is that she is a lovely person and wouldn't hurt anyone. All of this hate comes purely from her socioeconomic status. Apparently husband's family wanted him to marry someone rich. She was so graceful throughout the entire ordeal. When MIL heard that the couple got engaged, she faked a heart attack and had to be hospitalized. She blamed her son and told him he'd have to cover all of her medical costs. The day of the wedding, MIL, BIL, and SIL all refused to attend, which, fair enough, but apparently they hired someone to throw red paint on the bride's dress right before walking down the aisle. Three men ran up to her, two with cans of paint and another recording, and covered her dress in red. The photos are of the aftermath. At first, guests thought the red paint might be blood. I can't even imagine what that must've felt like. Bride said she initially felt as if it was water, but then saw everyone's shocked faces, and her friends were trying to reassure her that she still looked beautiful. She says the worst part of it was looking at her mother's face, because initially she thought she had been physically hurt. The bride gracefully changed into another dress. She had to go home for this but all of the guests waited for her at the church. She changed into a lovely gold floor length gown and continued with her beautiful wedding. The groom's family also found out where the photos would be taken and sent an anonymous tip to the police saying that they could find d***s there, and that the groom might be in possession of them. The police arrived and all of the guests present were searched. The groom was close to being taken away in handcuffs. There is suspicion that BIL bribed the police, but thankfully in the end that didn't happen. After that, the wedding went on without issues. MIL's house has since been egged. She is hated by the whole town. SIL and BIL have been questioned by their friends and have denied everything, but do not deny that they loved hearing about it. FIL seems to just do whatever his wife says. He fired groom from the family business, but he was then given a job by his uncles who love him and support him. Groom's family all claim to be super religious. Lastly, after the wedding and before the honeymoon, the groom's family stole his passport and visa. They also tried to bribe the travel agency to ruin the trip. Fortunately they didn't work and bride and groom went on their honeymoon successfully.

Rosie
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would have hated to let them win, but I would not have married him. His family will stop at nothing and I would fear for my life.

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Debbie
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

yup i've seen these pictures before. Although I can't remember the entire story. And how do you get all that paint off the stones without ruining them? The dress is probably ruined for sure.

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LSD
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope she didn’t go through with the wedding. Her MIL is going to make her life hell.

Yellow dot
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Its called No Contact. Geez, everyone is so quick to be rid of the husband too. No idea how he reacted, no point in makong assumptions.

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Simeon Nevel
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

depending on the cost/value of the dress, I guess that could be considered felony vandalisn/destruction of property. I'd call the cops.

JessieJ&LilyLovebug
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I actually read about this story and when I say this is not the worst of it, I am being sincere...yikes!

pineapple87
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would just have channelled my inner fashionista and called it a tribute to Alexander McQueen

April Pickett
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You married her son, not her so it's a no-go on that relationship. Explain this carefully to your husband.

DowntownStevieB
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So, maybe the venue can sue her and the bride can sue her. Take her for all she's got.

Taylor's Ferry
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

More information about this instance: https://www.unilad.com/community/life/mom-sons-wedding-red-paint-bride-dress-552114-20240229

Christine Didier
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would love to here what led up to this action. I'm willing to bet woman this woman would qualify as monster -in-law, instead of mother -in-law.

Christine M Quigley
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3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's unforgiveable- I hope she sued. Sometimes weddings bring out peoples' true colors.

Melinda Flick
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3 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I sure hope that groom stood up for his wife and a) helped her call the cops for assault, and b) cut off mom! There is no reason for such behavior.

Lyone Fein
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4 weeks ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

These people are nut jobs. Edit: actually they are evil.

Leg less In Minneapolis
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This one made the news a while back. Bride just change into reception dressed and refused to let the angry ex female ruin her day

Steal
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would be calling the police so fast. That's considered assault where I'm from.

Heather Menard
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If it were me I would own it. I would wear it proudly saying hey it looks better now.

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Telling My In-Laws It Was On Them To Explain To Their Guests Why There Weren't Any Places For Them At My Wedding Reception

Telling My In-Laws It Was On Them To Explain To Their Guests Why There Weren't Any Places For Them At My Wedding Reception

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“Trust me, no one was ready for a full-body interpretive version of "I’ve Had the Time of My Life." It was... unforgettable, but probably not in the way the couple wanted,” she shared. Even the most conscientious planner would probably not have a strategy in place for something like this and many people are not nearly as good at planning as they think.

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If I Had To See This You All Do Too

If I Had To See This You All Do Too

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Cerise Hood
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Probably gonna get downvoted, but I would just throw out the gift, and then sterilize the area. Fingernails can carry disease, imagine 8 years worth.

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Photographer Shaming A Guest

Photographer Shaming A Guest

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Nadine Debard
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We had a no phone/no photo rule during the ceremony because we had 2 photographers. Then we shared pictures on a website.

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#9

Wedding Guest Hires Their Own Photographer To Accompany Her To Friends Wedding

Wedding Guest Hires Their Own Photographer To Accompany Her To Friends Wedding

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“And then there was a wedding when one of the groomsmen — yes, a groomsman — managed to spill red wine on the bride's gown before the ceremony had even started. It was like a rom-com blooper reel, except it wasn’t funny in real life.” she shared with Bored Panda.

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#10

A Guy That We (The Bride And Groom) Had Never Met Before Proposed To His Girlfriend At Our Wedding

A Guy That We (The Bride And Groom) Had Never Met Before Proposed To His Girlfriend At Our Wedding

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Glen Ellyn
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This takes the cake, and I don't mean the wedding cake. I would hate to be proposed to in front of a group of total strangers!

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#11

The Audacity Of This Wedding Guest And Their Mom! Plan Your Own Special Moment, Cheapskates

The Audacity Of This Wedding Guest And Their Mom! Plan Your Own Special Moment, Cheapskates

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Father Ambushed Me To Walk Me Down The Aisle

Father Ambushed Me To Walk Me Down The Aisle

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Renee Fiola-Homen
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm so sorry that this bride had her choice taken away from her. Some people have no sense!

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So we were curious to hear just how often the happy couple actually plans for the sort of things on display in this list. “Now, when planning a wedding, you'd think maybe couples would consider these disasters, but surprisingly, wedding crashers or misbehaving guests aren't always top of mind.”

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"I Just Thought Your Wedding Was The Perfect Place For My Child's Birthday Party"

"I Just Thought Your Wedding Was The Perfect Place For My Child's Birthday Party"

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Bridesmaid's Tale Of Her Wedding Date Trying To Bring A Date

Bridesmaid's Tale Of Her Wedding Date Trying To Bring A Date

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She Looks Absolutely Gorgeous, Except She’s Not The Bride

She Looks Absolutely Gorgeous, Except She’s Not The Bride

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“It’s more like an afterthought, you know, that moment of "Oh, maybe we should have a backup plan in case Uncle Frank brings that friend again." I’ve seen a few couples add "no crashers" security at some venues — smart move, by the way, especially if you’re having a high-profile event or if your family has a reputation for a little too much fun.”

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A Guest Filled 7 Tupperware Containers With Food From The Wedding Reception And Gave The Couple 5 USD As A Gift

A Guest Filled 7 Tupperware Containers With Food From The Wedding Reception And Gave The Couple 5 USD As A Gift

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You’re Probably Wondering Why This Is Shame Worthy. Well How Do You Feel Now That You Know She Was Not The Bride

You’re Probably Wondering Why This Is Shame Worthy. Well How Do You Feel Now That You Know She Was Not The Bride

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Glen Ellyn
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I will never understand why some people think this is appropriate! Oh, and they look pathetic too, don't they? I imagine other guests are shaking their heads...🤦🏻‍♀️ Oh, wait! They're attention seekers, but too stupid to realize the attention is negative.

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#18

My Dad’s Extremely Embarrassing Announcement At My Cousin's Wedding Celebration

My Dad’s Extremely Embarrassing Announcement At My Cousin's Wedding Celebration

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She was willing to provide some resources in case someone needed some extra help planning. “We always recommend couples to plan their wedding well, also for horrible events like the ones above. For example, they can read this bride's tips on how to throw a wedding your guests will love.”

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I Went To A Wedding And Found A Decent Seat With A Good View. This Lady Sat Down In Front Of Me And Did Not Care One Bit That Her Fan Blocked The View Of Every Person Sitting Behind Her

I Went To A Wedding And Found A Decent Seat With A Good View. This Lady Sat Down In Front Of Me And Did Not Care One Bit That Her Fan Blocked The View Of Every Person Sitting Behind Her

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Kid Wants To Dress Up As A Lion To Their Wedding. Also Told To Change Their Centerpieces As Kid Doesn’t Like Balloons. Kid Is Mother’s Best Friend’s Child

Kid Wants To Dress Up As A Lion To Their Wedding. Also Told To Change Their Centerpieces As Kid Doesn’t Like Balloons. Kid Is Mother’s Best Friend’s Child

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Wedding Guest Shaming - It’s Not Always Dealing With Bridezillas

Wedding Guest Shaming - It’s Not Always Dealing With Bridezillas

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ShyWahine
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Next time plan your 6000 mile travel accordingly…and arrive 20 minutes earlier!

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Lastly, we wanted to hear if she believed weddings bring out drama in both the guests and couples alike. “Definitely! weddings do seem to have this strange effect on people. It’s like the heightened emotions, the romantic energy, the pressure to look perfect... it all simmers together, and for some people, it brings out their inner drama queen (or king).”

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Guest Invited Their Parents, Who We Haven't Met, To Our Destination Wedding

Guest Invited Their Parents, Who We Haven't Met, To Our Destination Wedding

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A Wedding Guest Outdressed The Bride In The Philippines. A Little Too Revealing, And The Color Is A Bit Off For My Taste. What Do You Think?

A Wedding Guest Outdressed The Bride In The Philippines. A Little Too Revealing, And The Color Is A Bit Off For My Taste. What Do You Think?

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ShyWahine
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1 month ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There’s always one who has to outshine the bride -no matter the country, culture, ethnicity, etc

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#24

I Can’t Believe How Entitled People Can Be

I Can’t Believe How Entitled People Can Be

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Iridian
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I enjoyed seeing how the engaged person handled that nonsense from the 'guest' deftly with each blow. I learned from that. Thanks for posting.

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“Think about it: You’ve got family tensions, old exes, bitter bridesmaids, and so much more happening in one place. It’s not surprising that some people snap under all that. The wedding scene is almost like a pressure cooker for drama, and all it takes is one person to tip it over the edge.”

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#25

Inviting 20 Extra People To A Wedding

Inviting 20 Extra People To A Wedding

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YakFactory
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How presumptuous is that? The bride and groom really want to pay for 20 extra meals for people they don't know.

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My God. This Poor Couple. Not Even A Clueless Close Friend. Maybe A Child Wrote It. One Can Hope

My God. This Poor Couple. Not Even A Clueless Close Friend. Maybe A Child Wrote It. One Can Hope

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The Best Way To Make Your Ex Realize They Made The Best Decision Of Their Life

The Best Way To Make Your Ex Realize They Made The Best Decision Of Their Life

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“And honestly? A bit of drama makes for a way better story afterward. Who wants to remember a perfectly calm and uneventful wedding, anyway? For brides (or grooms) that really get stressed in the days before, we recommend reading our post about how to manage pre-wedding stress.”

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"Thank You Sooooo Much For Sharing Your Special Day With Us"

"Thank You Sooooo Much For Sharing Your Special Day With Us"

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Someone Crashed My Wedding And Ruined It

Someone Crashed My Wedding And Ruined It

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Anna Losonczy
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It was the DJ's fault too, YOU paid for him to play whaterver you like, not that cringe guy. He could've asked you about it at least.

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A Perfect Time To Propose. Bridesmaid's Friend's Wedding

A Perfect Time To Propose. Bridesmaid's Friend's Wedding

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Ellinor
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don't do this unless you asked the bride and groom first (and if they said no, then don't do it either)

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#32

Guest At My Cousin's Reception Changed Into This Outfit Halfway Through The Night

Guest At My Cousin's Reception Changed Into This Outfit Halfway Through The Night

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Stealing The Top Layer Of A Wedding Cake

Stealing The Top Layer Of A Wedding Cake

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Kristal
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had petit fours for guests at my wedding as our wedding cake was a single layer and I explicitly said that the cake is not to be eaten. Came back from the honeymoon to find out that the cake was eaten. The intent was the cake was for us (wasn't big, like a normal, round birthday cake size) and the pieces we didn't cut at the reception was to be packed up and the petit fours were for the guests. It was a very low budget wedding, but I think the solution was good, until we didn't have any wedding cake to eat :( We divorced but it was still a nice wedding ... despite the cake. This post just reminded me of that. Who freaking does that? Taking the top tier?

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Creepy Aunt

Creepy Aunt

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ॐBoyGanesh
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

MLMs are pyramid schemes and they’re cults. Their members are fully brainwashed. To lack such class & decorum along with an inflated self-importance & misplaced value on the crappy product, to the point of sacrificing someone’s big moment, highjacking the program for a sales pitch and forcing the cheap makeup onto the couple is downright crazy. I feel just as bad for delusional & brainwashed aunt, too.

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#35

Maid Of Honor Too Busy Texting To Watch The Ceremony

Maid Of Honor Too Busy Texting To Watch The Ceremony

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Oh God. I Found It On Facebook. Even Matching Pearls

Oh God. I Found It On Facebook. Even Matching Pearls

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The Scout
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The image is not 100% conclusive, though. The outfit would be totally appropriate if they married each other.

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Brother’s Best Female Friend Pledged Her Love For Him At My Wedding Reception. He Was Already Engaged To Someone Else

Brother’s Best Female Friend Pledged Her Love For Him At My Wedding Reception. He Was Already Engaged To Someone Else

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ॐBoyGanesh
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Brothers poor best friend didn’t realize life isn’t a Disney fairy tale or a Lifetime rom-com.

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The Random Couple Who Crashed My Sister's Wedding Left A Card With $11.54 Inside

The Random Couple Who Crashed My Sister's Wedding Left A Card With $11.54 Inside

Halfway through a great wedding, I see my dad's best friend hauling a drunk couple out of the reception. We thought it was hilarious and thought nothing more of it until today when they opened their gifts and found a card from "Uncle David and Aunt Nancy". There's no David or Nancy in either family and the underlined bits are just in-your-face trolling.

"Cheers to a life filled with many special memories. We feel so blessed to have been witness to your beautiful wedding. We wish you all the best in life!"

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#39

"This Is Why Guys And Girls Can’t Be Friends"

"This Is Why Guys And Girls Can’t Be Friends"

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StarCrossedFriday
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1 month ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

‘Men and girls’ can absolutely be friends, but ironically ‘girls’ who are getting married are (I sincerely hope) ‘women’, and this is very much the reaction of a ‘boy’, not a ‘man’. Especially she he wasn’t invited in the first place, and I totally understand why.

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I Look Good In White, And That’s What Matters At Someone Else’s Wedding

I Look Good In White, And That’s What Matters At Someone Else’s Wedding

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Glen Ellyn
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The only way other guests would not notice is if they are also blind. Sheesh!

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#41

Someone Stole A $300 Gift Card From Our Card Table At The End Of Our Reception

Someone Stole A $300 Gift Card From Our Card Table At The End Of Our Reception

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BewilderedBanana
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Or... maybe the bridesmaid is secretly an evil genius :) She just placed an empty envelope in the box, already torn open, and let everyone know what was supposed to be inside. When the envelope is found, it will look like someone stole the gift, which was never there in the first place. Not only does bridesmaid save money, she also gets sympathy from everyone else muahahahaha!

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Groom's Mother: "I'm More Important Than You"

Groom's Mother: "I'm More Important Than You"

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ॐBoyGanesh
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1 month ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Boot Barn???? Ann Taylor???? No, Boot Barn!!!! How I would have loved to have been perched on a hay bale atop the rafters of the barn with a bucket of popcorn to watch the other “BS” unfold. YEEHAW!

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A Guest Asked If They Could Bring Their Pets To My Wedding

A Guest Asked If They Could Bring Their Pets To My Wedding

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ॐBoyGanesh
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To be clear, she’s absolutely right about service dogs in training. I live between two states, one (there are 4) which has zero state recognition of service dogs in training (Hawaii) and another that codifies into law service dogs in training to have similar access as trained service dogs (California). For the latter, the training service dog must be visibly marked as being in training as a service dog, whereas in all states the the superseding federal law requires zero markings for trained service dogs. For many of us with legitimate service dogs (as opposed to emotional support animals or personally trained pets) , we welcome identification markings. That way there are no qualms about how (tirelessly & costly) well-trained our service dogs are.

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#44

Almost One Year After Our Wedding And It Is Official None Of My (Groom) Friends Gave Us Gifts

Almost One Year After Our Wedding And It Is Official None Of My (Groom) Friends Gave Us Gifts

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Marianne
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

While you can't demand gifts from your wedding guests, it's not only common, but kind of expected in most parts of the western world that you bring a present to a wedding. Not bringing anything is rude and I also wouldn't forget about it.

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#45

Trashy Reverend's Wife, Not Even A Guest

Trashy Reverend's Wife, Not Even A Guest

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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There's that guy who does photoshop requests, but takes them very literally, so be careful what you ask for...

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#46

My Mom Was Going Through Her Old Wedding Mementos And Found This Response Card From A Relative. How Tacky Can You Get?

My Mom Was Going Through Her Old Wedding Mementos And Found This Response Card From A Relative. How Tacky Can You Get?

"Sorry, i'm strapped for cash trying to start my own business - if you're interested in feeling better through natural nutrition in 30 days money back guarantee, let me know... I'll ship you info or products postage free!
Thanks for the invite!"

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#47

The Groomsmen’s Wife Wore White And Caused Drama The Whole Wedding

The Groomsmen’s Wife Wore White And Caused Drama The Whole Wedding

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Friends Of Ours Get Married Saturday. They Posted This Message On Facebook That They Received From A (Now Ex) Guest Yesterday

Friends Of Ours Get Married Saturday. They Posted This Message On Facebook That They Received From A (Now Ex) Guest Yesterday

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Glen Ellyn
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No great loss. Actually, I'd call this a win since you now know just what kind of person they are.

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#49

Disney Adults Make Everything About Them At His Brother’s Wedding

Disney Adults Make Everything About Them At His Brother’s Wedding

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ॐBoyGanesh
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Absolute lack of awareness. Also, Disney musical? I swear The Mouse is responsible for the vast majority of idealized relationships and overall delusion.

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Groom Party Had An Interesting Take On Attire

Groom Party Had An Interesting Take On Attire

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Wedding Guest I’ve Never Met, Insulted We Won’t Let Her Stay In The "Honey Moon Suite" With Us (The Bride And Groom)

Wedding Guest I’ve Never Met, Insulted We Won’t Let Her Stay In The "Honey Moon Suite" With Us (The Bride And Groom)

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#52

Friend Gifted His Bride Professional Pictures Of Only Himself

Friend Gifted His Bride Professional Pictures Of Only Himself

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StarCrossedFriday
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope he told the photographer what the purpose of the shoot was. I can only imagine their facial expression.

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#53

Wait, What? The Crossed Out Name Is Her Husband

Wait, What? The Crossed Out Name Is Her Husband

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ॐBoyGanesh
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1 month ago

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#54

From A Wedding Shaming Group I'm In. Bride And Groom Requested A Childfree Wedding. Entitled Guest Writes This Message On Their Invitation

From A Wedding Shaming Group I'm In. Bride And Groom Requested A Childfree Wedding. Entitled Guest Writes This Message On Their Invitation

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ShyWahine
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It’s not about respect. Simply put, If you can’t abide by the bride and groom’s wishes - don’t attend the wedding

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#55

Found This Gem

Found This Gem

The woman is doubling down because she was seeking validation and will not listen to anyone, and all of the comments are pegging her as the jerk in the scenario.

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YakFactory
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1 month ago

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I have a feeling that you did the right thing, ensuring your sister didn't have a permanent loan of your necklace. NTA

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#56

Screw John Legend, All Of Me Is "Our" Song Only

Screw John Legend, All Of Me Is "Our" Song Only

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#57

The Old Guy Who Stole The Wedding Cake

The Old Guy Who Stole The Wedding Cake

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Cas P
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My mother took the top layer of my wedding cake home. I never got any of it and as we stopped speaking shortly afterwards, I never got any at all. I would still love to have a piece of wedding cake.

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#58

That One Friend

That One Friend

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The Other Guest
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd ask the photographer to remove the "friend" from the photos. Oh, wait no I've got a better idea - crop everyone else out, enlarge the "friend," and send it to her so she's always got a reminder of what a classy woman she is.

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#59

My Aunt Texted Us To Say That The Children Were Invited To My Cousin’s Destination Wedding After All, And Today My Cousin Called Everyone To Tell Us That Was Not The Case

My Aunt Texted Us To Say That The Children Were Invited To My Cousin’s Destination Wedding After All, And Today My Cousin Called Everyone To Tell Us That Was Not The Case

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#60

My Friend Got A Late Diagnosis Of ADHD And Has Become Super Entitled To It, Wanting Everything To Be Inclusive

My Friend Got A Late Diagnosis Of ADHD And Has Become Super Entitled To It, Wanting Everything To Be Inclusive

I am ok with this bit. I feel his demands are too excessive and demanding. For reference, I haven't seen him in 5 years. I got these messages out of the blue, and the wedding is in a week.

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#61

Worst Maid Of Honor Ever, And I Have Been To Plenty Of Weddings

Worst Maid Of Honor Ever, And I Have Been To Plenty Of Weddings

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Jenny Mason
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4 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If my partner and I ever get married there will be no speeches! The wedding will probably take place with just our kids present and then we'll have a small party for extended family at a later date.

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#63

All Jokes Aside, Please Don't Do This To Your Daughter

All Jokes Aside, Please Don't Do This To Your Daughter

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#64

This Is What Can Happen When A Wedding Guest Takes It As A Personal Offense When Their Friend's Wedding DJ Doesn't Play Their Song Request

This Is What Can Happen When A Wedding Guest Takes It As A Personal Offense When Their Friend's Wedding DJ Doesn't Play Their Song Request

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#65

Can I Just Shame My Own Toxic Maid Of Honor For A Minute

Can I Just Shame My Own Toxic Maid Of Honor For A Minute

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ॐBoyGanesh
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1 month ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Jesus, set some boundaries & have a little self-respect by casting this nasty person off. She’s pleading with you to do so.

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#66

My Sister Is Getting Married. This Is The Dress One Of Her Bridesmaids Bought

My Sister Is Getting Married. This Is The Dress One Of Her Bridesmaids Bought

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The Starsong Princess
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Fine if the bride wants a Pippi Middleton thing. Also fine if this is just a try on and the actual dress is ordered in a different color.

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#67

Getting Married. Mother Isn't Invited

Getting Married. Mother Isn't Invited

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whodunnitfan2013
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Anger and hatred will make you sick" Gives off "They're still your family!" vibes

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#68

Groomsmen Don’t Show Up On The Day Of The Wedding

Groomsmen Don’t Show Up On The Day Of The Wedding

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Kalikima
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The title was confusing, I was expecting that all his groomsmen didn't show up. They should have said "groomsman".

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#69

Guests Brought Their Dog To Our Wedding

Guests Brought Their Dog To Our Wedding

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bbfa
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I get married, I think instead of family I'll just invite their dogs.

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#70

Wedding Guests, Please Don't Do This. It's Not Funny, And Putting "Just Kidding" Doesn't Make It Better

Wedding Guests, Please Don't Do This. It's Not Funny, And Putting "Just Kidding" Doesn't Make It Better

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#71

Advice: Revoke Invitation. Optional, But Encouraged: Let Everyone Under The Sun Know Why

Advice: Revoke Invitation. Optional, But Encouraged: Let Everyone Under The Sun Know Why

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Libstak
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I always believe people like this should be allowed to humiliate themselves as much as they want. If the invitation clearly says no white and all accepted etiquette says no white then they show up in white...there will be comments, snickers, nasty gossip, possible red wine spills and who knows what other shenanigans from at least the brides family.

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#72

Guest Texts Bride Day Off For Address & Ride 2 Hours Before The Wedding

Guest Texts Bride Day Off For Address & Ride 2 Hours Before The Wedding

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Papa
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Asking that is not unreasonable in general, but asking the bride that question the day of the wedding is out of line.

#73

Poor Photographer. That Said I'd Be Interested To See The Pictures That They Had To Capture While This All Went Down

Poor Photographer. That Said I'd Be Interested To See The Pictures That They Had To Capture While This All Went Down

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#74

Just Got Married, And Apparently A Couple Of Wedding Guests Were Badgering Other Guests For “Embarrassing Stories” About Me And The Groom

Just Got Married, And Apparently A Couple Of Wedding Guests Were Badgering Other Guests For “Embarrassing Stories” About Me And The Groom

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#75

Never Thought It Would Happen To Me

Never Thought It Would Happen To Me

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LonelyLittleLeafSheep
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Respond with "there is no plus one and we have decided to trim back the wedding, so you are no longer invited".

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#76

Bride Has To Have A Child Free Wedding, Especially With New Restrictions On Guest Count. Guest Demands To Bring Their Son (18) Daughter (23), 3 Grandchildren, And A Dog To The Wedding

Bride Has To Have A Child Free Wedding, Especially With New Restrictions On Guest Count. Guest Demands To Bring Their Son (18) Daughter (23), 3 Grandchildren, And A Dog To The Wedding

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#77

Wasn’t Invited But You Meant To Invite Me So I’ll Be There Anyway For Sure

Wasn’t Invited But You Meant To Invite Me So I’ll Be There Anyway For Sure

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#78

Not Shaming The Bride But She Had Such Terrible Luck On Her Special Day And Her Bridal Party, Chapel Director And Guests Were Awful

Not Shaming The Bride But She Had Such Terrible Luck On Her Special Day And Her Bridal Party, Chapel Director And Guests Were Awful

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Marykay Klim
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think the final statement is the most important thing. You might ask if any of the relatives took photographs. Maybe you could get some that way.

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#79

Bride Trusts The Wrong Friend And Is Robbed On Her Wedding

Bride Trusts The Wrong Friend And Is Robbed On Her Wedding

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#80

What Was The Tought Process Behind This

What Was The Tought Process Behind This

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#81

Just Invite Yourselves And Completely Disregard The Bride

Just Invite Yourselves And Completely Disregard The Bride

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#82

Uninvited Guest RSVPs Under His Dad's Name

Uninvited Guest RSVPs Under His Dad's Name

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Libstak
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Some people believe at least a member of the family should represent them if they can't attend, especially if they want a gift from their family to be given from them. It's very old school but I can see how it could happen in old traditional european families.

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#83

Friend Gave Me Permission To Post This Letter They Received A Few Weeks After Their Wedding

Friend Gave Me Permission To Post This Letter They Received A Few Weeks After Their Wedding

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Papa
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you get upset over not getting a thank you for a present, it may be time to consider the possibility that you gave the present for the wrong reason.

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#84

Wedding Photographers: What’s The Worst Thing That’s Happened To You At A Wedding?

Wedding Photographers: What’s The Worst Thing That’s Happened To You At A Wedding?

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#85

When It’s All About You And Being Invited

When It’s All About You And Being Invited

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#86

What An Awful Thing To Do A Day Before The Wedding

What An Awful Thing To Do A Day Before The Wedding

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#87

Copy Cat Friend

Copy Cat Friend

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SweetCheesySpaghetti
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd start gushing over the ugliest things to see if she was being vindictive, or we just had the same taste.

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#88

Rude Guest Insults Bride Because He Doesn’t Know How To Use The Online RSVP System And She Didn’t Respond To His Message Instantly

Rude Guest Insults Bride Because He Doesn’t Know How To Use The Online RSVP System And She Didn’t Respond To His Message Instantly

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