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Ozacoter 3 years ago (edited)

Alpha= I am a sexist pig.

8points

Susan Green 3 years ago

You bet it is

1point

Hans 3 years ago

If you state the obvious, it often isn't. If a newspaper article refers to the "world famous" person X, no one has probably ever heard of them.

5points

Haunting Spirit 3 years ago

Fun fact that is there mostly no such thing as an Alpha in the animal world. F.e. wolves don't have an alpha despite what the movies tell us.

4points

Lilith the Demon Panda 3 years ago

same goes for the new trend of "super straight"... if you claim that I automatically assume you are insecure about your sexuality and probably a latent homosexual

3points

Viviane 3 years ago

If they're basing themselves on wolves - the original research was based on captive wolves that didn't know each other. Wolves normally live in family groups.

3points

Grumble O'Pug 3 years ago

And the only alph is female and pertains to who is breeding

1point

EQXL 3 years ago (edited)

I loved to see this with one of my dogs, he was a true alpha. He never challenged another dog, never really acted dominant upon anyone or anything. Unless another dog tried to force dominance over him, he'd show them to then carry on with his business of being the sweetest dog ever.

2points

Grumble O'Pug 3 years ago

That has been debunked.

2points

Javiera Gotelli 3 years ago

This applies to almost everything. If you have to remind people you're the boss, you're just pathetic.

2points

Jamie 3 years ago

I wrote this comment on the original Reddit thread. What an honor to be quoted! I'd like to dedicate this to the ex who showed me what a true "alpha" wannabe is.

1point

Martha Meyer 3 years ago

No such thing as an alpha male exists. It's a term made up by idiots.

1point

Wolfowl 3 years ago

I'm a betta male! I like fish

1point

Dave Kool 3 years ago

(Ahem) ALPHA MALES DO NOT EXIST. Thank you.

0points

Łukasz Wydra 3 years ago

Also: if I remember correctly the idea of an "alpha" came from studying chickens and has nothing to do with wolves as many think. So saying you are an "alpha" is basically like saying you are a c**k.

0points

Znaya 3 years ago

I'm an alpha male - not!

0points

Richard Carlton 3 years ago

That's like the kids in high school bragging about how often they get laid. Tbe only girl they knew was Mary Palm. 😀

0points

Thorfin Wolfsbane 3 years ago

When they tell you, you know they’re an alfauxfa

0points

Sam Kunz 3 years ago

When did Bored Panda turn into Man Hate central. All these male bashing articles. If a man is insecure, it's his fault......if a woman is insecure it's a mans fault.....thats the belief of Bored Panda article writers. F Off

-2points

elStiJneriNO 3 years ago

But no worries, if i read the articles right, you don't have to be an Alpha to scare all the women when you pass them on the street and they are not as anonymous on BP

1point

35 People Respond To "What Is A Tell-Tale Sign That A Man Is Insecure About His Masculinity Or Himself In General?" Homophobia

Error-29 , Toni Reed Report

Final score:

155points

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Jonathan 3 years ago (edited)

I do believe that the most homphobic are only trying to fool themselves and their true feelings.

49points

35 People Respond To "What Is A Tell-Tale Sign That A Man Is Insecure About His Masculinity Or Himself In General?" When he doesn’t let his girlfriend/wife wear sexy outfits in public

Darth_Xenic Report

Final score:

128points

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EQXL 3 years ago

Wait what? Is this a thing?

20points

In daily life, we come across numerous examples of what we think is men’s anxiety about violating the male gender role. Like, a man hesitating to hug his male friends in public. Often, we jump up to conclusions and don’t give it a second thought.

But according to Jennifer Bosson, a social psychologist at the University of Texas at Austin, this may come down to how people think about manhood. She proposes that “manhood, relative to womanhood, has historically been viewed as both elusive and tenuous.”

By “elusive,” Jennifer means “that manhood is not considered a developmental certainty, but instead is seen as a status that must be earned via action.” And by “tenuous,” she is referring to the idea that “manhood status, once earned, can be lost with relative ease, via a wide range of social shortcomings.”

35 People Respond To "What Is A Tell-Tale Sign That A Man Is Insecure About His Masculinity Or Himself In General?" His view on what makes a man a man is narrow. In his mind, there are only 2-3 types of men and other types are wrong

w1987g , Karina Carvalho Report

Final score:

118points

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Javiera Gotelli 3 years ago

It's actually very sad

31points

35 People Respond To "What Is A Tell-Tale Sign That A Man Is Insecure About His Masculinity Or Himself In General?" Constant attempts to "one-up" anything and anyone at anytime.

The_Obi-Wan , bruce mars Report

Final score:

112points

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Falcon 3 years ago

I have a similar person at work. They are trying so hard to look important to the point where they just lie to your face.

14points

35 People Respond To "What Is A Tell-Tale Sign That A Man Is Insecure About His Masculinity Or Himself In General?" Worrying about face and honour and fighting over it.

I've never been in a fight. 99% of my friends have never been in a fight. None of my colleagues have ever been in a fight.

Yet... you come across these f**wits who seem to think that it's normal. Quite often they complain about it. "Aw I can barely leave my house without someone starting sh*t".

In every single scenario, it is them who is the problem

Tundur , Dollar Gill Report

Final score:

109points

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sylvantic 3 years ago

you're not a chimpanzee. humans have moved beyond stupid fights for dominance. and at least chimpanzees support one another sometimes, so really, you're worse than a chimp if you're like this.

3points

These may, of course, seem ancient today, but they do emerge in daily discourse, says Jennifer. According to the psychologist, “Men—even those who are perfectly 'secure in their masculinity'—are aware that their manhood is precarious and that they may, at any moment, lose manhood status in other people’s eyes.”

“Until widespread beliefs about the elusiveness and tenuousness of manhood change, it may be unrealistic to expect the average man to violate gender role norms with ease,” she concluded in her research.

35 People Respond To "What Is A Tell-Tale Sign That A Man Is Insecure About His Masculinity Or Himself In General?" Trying to dominate a conversation or activity for no reason/Being needlessly competitive

TheBookOfSeil , fran hogan Report

Final score:

107points

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Lauren Caswell 3 years ago

Wait guys do the arm block to each other too?! Oh woah I didn't realise that. I'm glad I'm learning

28points

35 People Respond To "What Is A Tell-Tale Sign That A Man Is Insecure About His Masculinity Or Himself In General?" My friend introduced me to a potential love interest of hers one evening. The conversation turned to what I look for in a guy and I said I like guys who own cats. The dude immediately cut me off and said ‘I’m sorry, there’s nothing wrong with a woman who owns a cat, but there’s something wrong with a guy who does.’ The next day my friend asked me what I thought of him and I told her he’s insecure

Mello-Knight , Elsa Donald Report

Final score:

106points

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Paul K. Johnson 3 years ago

I have two cats that I love and when I talk about them I call them kitties. One guy said, "kitiies?!?" like that was too effeminate of a term for my cats. So I said, 'Yeah, kitties.' He didn't know what to say after that.

23points

35 People Respond To "What Is A Tell-Tale Sign That A Man Is Insecure About His Masculinity Or Himself In General?" Always fighting to be right no matter what, even if someone obviously knows what they are talking about.

Beccaaaaaalolz , Ben White Report

Final score:

102points

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Kristof De Smet 3 years ago

I have a friend who does this all the time, but he is not insecure about his masculinity, but he thinks he is less intelligent. He isn't, he just happens to know other stuff.

15points

#10

35 People Respond To "What Is A Tell-Tale Sign That A Man Is Insecure About His Masculinity Or Himself In General?" Trying to crush your hand when they shake it. Usually accompanied by fixing you with what they think is an intimidating stare.

J8766557 , Massimo Sartirana Report

Final score:

99points

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Lauren Caswell 3 years ago

Or putting their other hand into the handshake, encapsulating your hand. There's a few handshake variants like this, i remember reading about them in that book "body language" by Allan pease

15points

#11

35 People Respond To "What Is A Tell-Tale Sign That A Man Is Insecure About His Masculinity Or Himself In General?" When he's not supportive of the other men in his life. A truly masculine man loves and supports his brothers and celebrates their achievement

An insecure man brings others down to prove he's on "top"

Vega3gx , Tyler Nix Report

Final score:

98points

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TexasPK 3 years ago

And doesn't "compete" with his teenage sons as they grow into their manhood.

37points

#12

35 People Respond To "What Is A Tell-Tale Sign That A Man Is Insecure About His Masculinity Or Himself In General?" Any guy who thinks the words alfa and beta mean anything in a social group

idc55342 , Ashkan Forouzani Report

Final score:

81points

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CrazedFalcon17 3 years ago

Our society is so bad that people look at wolf erotica fanfiction and think "Hey, I wanna be the 'Alpha' in the relationship" I seriously hate these people

9points

TurtleChickenFart , Giovanni Randisi Report

#13

35 People Respond To "What Is A Tell-Tale Sign That A Man Is Insecure About His Masculinity Or Himself In General?" When someone gets upset over something as silly as the way another man enjoys his comfortable clothing, takes care of their body, or the way they like their vehicles.

Final score:

77points

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Jonathan 3 years ago

Another sign is when they get almost angry and offended that some men don't really feel the need to stand when using urinating! Oh I'm sorry I prefer to leave a bathroom as clean as it was when I entered it!

31points

#14

35 People Respond To "What Is A Tell-Tale Sign That A Man Is Insecure About His Masculinity Or Himself In General?" Aggression and violence. Many insecure men use tactics of intimidation or just plain old violence because they feel attacked by everything, cant discuss like a normal grown up, feel like it proves they are a "real man" etc.

DevilOuttaSpace , David Hinkle Report

Final score:

76points

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El Dee 3 years ago

This comes directly from fear. They are scared of the world and feel this is the only way they can 'control' it..

7points

#15

35 People Respond To "What Is A Tell-Tale Sign That A Man Is Insecure About His Masculinity Or Himself In General?" The worst are guys who use hashtags on instagram like #realman, #realmen, #realmenhavebeards, #manly, #man, #men, #alphamale, #intelligent, #smart, etc.

I'm like dude, I've never seen a confident masculine man ever once use [things[ like that. If you have to tell the world you're a "real man", or how "intelligent" or "alpha", you are... you aren't. hahaha

Nickolai808 , Dimitar Belchev Report

Final score:

75points

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Sky Render 3 years ago

If you are something, you don't need to brag about it. You just... are that thing. If others don't see it, who cares? That doesn't change the fact that it's true.

2points

#16

35 People Respond To "What Is A Tell-Tale Sign That A Man Is Insecure About His Masculinity Or Himself In General?" Pretending to know something about a subject they don’t understand.

bayswimmer23 , Tyler Nix Report

Final score:

72points

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Something 3 years ago

For some reason, many people are under the impression that everyone always has to know everything. There is more knowledge out there than any individual human being has time to learn, and it's okay not to know things.

24points

eleazar1997 , Scandinavian Backlash Report

#17

35 People Respond To "What Is A Tell-Tale Sign That A Man Is Insecure About His Masculinity Or Himself In General?" When i was in the army we would definitely see people who were bullied in high school and decided to be "billy badass" and join the military then they would be teased and hazed a little as privates. But as soon as they got their own little team and a taste of power they would be the ones that made everyone's lives much more miserable than they needed to be reveling in being the tormenter.

Final score:

69points

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elStiJneriNO 3 years ago

reap sow ...

12points

#18

35 People Respond To "What Is A Tell-Tale Sign That A Man Is Insecure About His Masculinity Or Himself In General?" won't let his girl have friends

littlegreenrock , Lauren Rader Report

Final score:

67points

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GirlFriday 3 years ago

Ladies, take note: if a man isolates from your friends and family, that man is an abuser. It may start off as "wanting you all to himself," but the more he isolates, the more abusive he will become. This is the first step towards making sure you have no support system so you won't have help when you need it and making it more difficult for you to eventually leave him when he starts hitting you.

55points

#19

35 People Respond To "What Is A Tell-Tale Sign That A Man Is Insecure About His Masculinity Or Himself In General?" Guys who brag about how much sex they have. Ok we get it, you have sex

vidrenz , Angelo Pantazis Report

Final score:

63points

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Javiera Gotelli 3 years ago

Actually, he probably doesn't

78points

#20

35 People Respond To "What Is A Tell-Tale Sign That A Man Is Insecure About His Masculinity Or Himself In General?" Constantly looking for the need to brag about your wealth and physical prowess, especially on social media. I know a few dudes who define themselves by the amount of money they've made or how they're better than everyone because they practice a certain martial art

Retro_Riven , Aylin Çobanoğlu Report

Final score:

62points

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Kristof De Smet 3 years ago

The most important part for me is having enough money to give my kids a happy life, and a kickstart to their adult life.

19points

#21

35 People Respond To "What Is A Tell-Tale Sign That A Man Is Insecure About His Masculinity Or Himself In General?" Insecure about himself: he’s middle age but constantly shares photos of himself in his “prime” such as football team, military uniform etc

weasel999 , Matt Seymour Report

Final score:

59points

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Javiera Gotelli 3 years ago

The sad mid 30s guy who still talks about when he was a quarterback in HS...

16points

#22

35 People Respond To "What Is A Tell-Tale Sign That A Man Is Insecure About His Masculinity Or Himself In General?" People online who post cringey graphics of a lion or the joker with an equally cringe quote next to it saying something along tbe lines of "followers work for other, the alpha works for themselves" with some dollar signs next to it. Or other similar "motivational woke" posts

dimdimthelesser , Alex Suprun Report

Final score:

56points

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Delgada 3 years ago

In Poland some have this idiotic phrase "The nobility do not work" (Szlachta nie pracuje) in ther occupation - and I always cringe so hard when I see that.

23points

Comfortable_Storm_59 , Marisa Harris Report

#23

35 People Respond To "What Is A Tell-Tale Sign That A Man Is Insecure About His Masculinity Or Himself In General?" Judging people on their choice of shirt and vehicle

Final score:

54points

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Monic Krugell 3 years ago

this just counts for everyone

6points

#24

35 People Respond To "What Is A Tell-Tale Sign That A Man Is Insecure About His Masculinity Or Himself In General?" Constant need to demean or put others down

Duffy1978 , Cade Report

Final score:

52points

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Susan Green 3 years ago

Yes, this is truly a sign of insecurity.

6points

ArchangelDeltius , Shamim Nakhaei Report

#25

35 People Respond To "What Is A Tell-Tale Sign That A Man Is Insecure About His Masculinity Or Himself In General?" Definitely show offs. If you are easily insulted by things tied to lack of masculinity(secretly liking pink for example) then you have fragile masculinity. Normally the truly masculine people are those that a true people. They don't need reassurance, they show emotion and the idea of girly colours, smells etc do not exist.

Final score:

50points

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Ozacoter 3 years ago

There isn’t ‘true masculine people’ since masculinity or femininity are made up concepts.

16points

#26

35 People Respond To "What Is A Tell-Tale Sign That A Man Is Insecure About His Masculinity Or Himself In General?" Here are some that I’ve seen: 1. Constant need to be in a relationship or have a “girlfriend” no matter how he feels about her. 2. Guys who talk sh*t about women who speak up or needlessly call them names 3. Guys who are uncomfortable being CLOSE emotionally or physically around other men in fear of being gay or emasculated. Also just trust your gut around people. Everyone has insecurities but there’s a fine line as to when it’s a part of people verses when people are a part of them

riripaanda , NeONBRAND Report

Final score:

49points

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Blarrg 3 years ago

"Trust your gut" unless you repeatedly find yourself in relationships with guys like this. Then maybe you should trust your friends' and family's gut.

0points

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#27

35 People Respond To "What Is A Tell-Tale Sign That A Man Is Insecure About His Masculinity Or Himself In General?" creates a nickname for himself

FaberGrad , Samuel Raita Report

Final score:

48points

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Lunar Bicycle 3 years ago

I used to know.a guy, typical macho blowhard, whose last name was Coogan, and he called himself The Coog. Sad, really.

19points

trumpstinyd*ck666 , William Krause Report

#28

35 People Respond To "What Is A Tell-Tale Sign That A Man Is Insecure About His Masculinity Or Himself In General?" If they think a beard equals a personality.

Final score:

46points

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El muerto 3 years ago

I like this site...but sometimes, it's just a huge echo chamber...and yes not all is about gender, sometimes te same behaviour repeats between men and women...bear=make up and to fokus in only one trait is equally shallow...

3points

#29

35 People Respond To "What Is A Tell-Tale Sign That A Man Is Insecure About His Masculinity Or Himself In General?" Over the top displays, or almost caricatures, of masculinity. Making an effort to communicate dominance, like the sticker you described

ryanb450 , Brad Neathery Report

Final score:

45points

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BG 3 years ago

Ugh! I hate to see the guys who only wear black and gray, have a jacked up pickup trucks and "The Punisher" tee shirts and stickers on everything. Dude, that's a cartoon character, you'd be just as intimidating in your Spongebob PJ's.

1point

#30

35 People Respond To "What Is A Tell-Tale Sign That A Man Is Insecure About His Masculinity Or Himself In General?" The only sign I can think of is going out of your way to prove that you are not insecure about your masculinity and/or yourself in general. Secure people aren’t looking to be validated for being secure

Plebe-Uchiha , DESIGNECOLOGIST Report

Final score:

43points

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Javiera Gotelli 3 years ago

If you have to shout it out loud...

4points

#31

35 People Respond To "What Is A Tell-Tale Sign That A Man Is Insecure About His Masculinity Or Himself In General?" Thinking he can beat ANYONES ass, simply because he happens to be male

dodojotaro , Victor Freitas Report

Final score:

42points

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sylvantic 3 years ago

People who are like this would probably be beaten by a child.

1point

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#32

35 People Respond To "What Is A Tell-Tale Sign That A Man Is Insecure About His Masculinity Or Himself In General?" Just LOUD in general. Says he does't care what anyone says or thinks about him, but it reality seeks validation and attention from other people all the time

Makivivu , Colton Duke Report

Final score:

42points

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sylvantic 3 years ago

If you want validation, just ask! but expect that you might get constructive criticism, and you'll need a good relationship with people to get that.

2points

#33

35 People Respond To "What Is A Tell-Tale Sign That A Man Is Insecure About His Masculinity Or Himself In General?" Has to make any situation about them, has the be the "alpha", compensates not just with a truck but constant overt "look at me" actions, disregards your opinion immediately if they disagree, dismissive towards anyone who doesn't act like them, loud on purpose because they think everyone like the sound of their voice as much as they do, "act like a man bro", constant put downs, refuses to drink any non "manly" drink, mentions how big their d**k is (it isn't), thinks sport knowledge is a personality trait

roovy60 , Jacob Bentzinger Report

Final score:

41points

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am_c0m0 3 years ago

I know a man who's like this. His dad died when he was 9. I wonder if that contributes to his insecurity?

6points

UselessAccounts2020 , Dollar Gill Report

#34

35 People Respond To "What Is A Tell-Tale Sign That A Man Is Insecure About His Masculinity Or Himself In General?" Emotionally abusive in relationships

erika513 , Matias Tapia Report

Final score:

41points

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Oleander 3 years ago

I'm sorry what? This isn't a red flag, its the whole alarm system.

18points

#35

35 People Respond To "What Is A Tell-Tale Sign That A Man Is Insecure About His Masculinity Or Himself In General?" I go to the gym a lot, I've seen guys ripped af yet don't show it off. Then I see the guys who think they need to show off every muscle in their body and have close to no actual muscle.

Or simply people on any online game with the name "alpha"

If you are alpha you don't need to show it off like its a big deal lol

Final score:

39points

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Jaclyn Levy 3 years ago

Let people wear what they want and be happy at the gym.

7points

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#36

35 People Respond To "What Is A Tell-Tale Sign That A Man Is Insecure About His Masculinity Or Himself In General?" Responds to any TRULY constructive criticism negatively, and has to defend themselves from it

13FEAR , Antonino Visalli Report

Final score:

20points

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MRSS 3 years ago

The classic Narcissist behavior, low self esteem. Can you imagine a man like that actually looking in the Mirror and admitting his faults and see himself for what he truly is. First step in fixing your behavior is to look in the mirror and see you for who you really are and it's the hardest thing I've ever had to do to start my journey to a better me and man it was a wake up call. Hard to see a man like all these mentioned in this post doing that and actually working on their horrific behaviors.

1point

#37

35 People Respond To "What Is A Tell-Tale Sign That A Man Is Insecure About His Masculinity Or Himself In General?" The "one upper." We had one at a job I worked years ago and I started lying to him to see what he would say. My favorite was when a new Taco Bell opened and I asked if he knew about the secret menu, specifically the "Quattro Macho Guapo Nachos." Apparently, yes, he had ordered them before

TheDangler , Damir Kopezhanov Report

Final score:

20points

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Ian Koch 3 years ago

idiot.

5points

#38

35 People Respond To "What Is A Tell-Tale Sign That A Man Is Insecure About His Masculinity Or Himself In General?" AlphaMaleChad has entered the chat

JonBoah , Daniel Korpai Report

Final score:

18points

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#39

35 People Respond To "What Is A Tell-Tale Sign That A Man Is Insecure About His Masculinity Or Himself In General?" Makes gay jokes.

SupaDawk , Matheus Ferrero Report

Final score:

17points

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James Buchanan 3 years ago

I'm gay and I'm fine with some gay jokes. Just don't actually be homophobic, and ask permission.

10points

#40

35 People Respond To "What Is A Tell-Tale Sign That A Man Is Insecure About His Masculinity Or Himself In General?" How violent he gets if you call him gay

Raemnant , Brian Kndeneh Report

Final score:

16points

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EQXL 3 years ago

Are you randomly going around calling men gay into their face to see how they respond? Sounds rather insecure to me

9points

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#41

35 People Respond To "What Is A Tell-Tale Sign That A Man Is Insecure About His Masculinity Or Himself In General?" Putting nuts on their trucks probably

Marquetan , Tekton Report

Final score:

15points

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wyatt hollingsworth 3 years ago (edited)

dont mind it, its just a fetish thing

1point

#42

35 People Respond To "What Is A Tell-Tale Sign That A Man Is Insecure About His Masculinity Or Himself In General?" Whenever the dude constantly asks for validation from other people

psychowolf00 , Kaleidico Report

Final score:

15points

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sylvantic 3 years ago

validation is fine, just dont' be pushy and mean about it, and accept constructive criticism.

1point

#43

35 People Respond To "What Is A Tell-Tale Sign That A Man Is Insecure About His Masculinity Or Himself In General?" Whenever he insults himself a lot, doesn't like to be complimented, when he acts very negative,

These are some of the things that I do when I'm insecure.

waifutabae , Steve Halama Report

Final score:

10points

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Lauren Caswell 3 years ago

That's a total insecurity, about more than masculinity that's a difficulty in loving yourself and being happy with who you are (not criticising at all btw I feel like this too, I think maybe more of us do than we realise)

9points

RiMiBe , LinkedIn Sales Navigator Report

#44

35 People Respond To "What Is A Tell-Tale Sign That A Man Is Insecure About His Masculinity Or Himself In General?" The best indication of insecurity I’ve seen in this thread is the guy who saw someone in real life who seemed hyper masculine and decided to post about him online with a leading question hoping the echo chamber would make him feel better

Final score:

10points

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#45

35 People Respond To "What Is A Tell-Tale Sign That A Man Is Insecure About His Masculinity Or Himself In General?" Procrastinates on difficult tasks. Often this is a sign that this man is insecure about their ability to produce good work and self sabotages in order to give themselves an out when the final result does not meet their standards or someone else’s standards.

I’m guilty of this and many other behaviors that are deep down rooted in insecurities.

13ass13ass , Shane Rounce Report

Final score:

8points

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kasa alex 3 years ago

Some of these apply equally to women who are insecure about their own abilities

6points

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What do you think ?

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Mrs_ Possum 3 years ago (edited)

From personal experience, a lot of these are not just male things. I've experienced quite a bit of this from women, too. Especially the competitive, one-upmanship thing.

21points

Chris 3 years ago (edited)

100% this. Should be titled "What Is A Tell-Tale Sign That A dickhead Is Insecure About themselves". The gender is irrelevant.

10points

SykesDaMan 3 years ago

THANK YOU!!!

6points

Computernaut 3 years ago

Agreed.

2points

Hugo Raible 3 years ago

Yes, BP just thinks it's cool nowadays to take a dump on men.

-2points

Bill 3 years ago

If you drive a pick up plastered in Trump stickers and a Trump flag in the bed.

16points

BG 3 years ago

They're now referred to as "participation trophies".

6points

Steve Barnett 3 years ago

I’m a man and I couldn’t give a flying f-word about masculinity. The so-called ‘alpha males’ that I’ve ever met have been complete fools. Just be a useful person, care for people, not everything's a competition.

15points

Martin Kaine 3 years ago

Absolutely. Take care of those around you, help those in need, listen when people speak and hear what they say, find your passion and work at it, and if you have children, be a dad (not just a father).

5points

Ozacoter 3 years ago

That reminds me of my ex. He wouldn’t let me spoon him ‘because it’s not masculine’. My partner now might have a lot of defects (like not cleaning) but he is awesome in that sense.

7points

EQXL 3 years ago

How is this about insecure masculinity when most posts are about insecurity because they're just not reserved to men only?

6points

Lauren Caswell 3 years ago (edited)

(Repeat comment) the article seemed to shift since it popped up from originally being just about insecurities that belie toxic masculinity, to also being about general insecurities, which really is an entirely different thing

1point

Nicholas Yu 3 years ago

Voted for Trump, refuses to take the vaccine...owns an AR-15.

5points

Nevits Yibble 3 years ago

Believes the virus is a hoax fabricated by democrats, attacks Asians for a virus he doesn't believe exists. (That would be all Asians. Doesn't know the difference.)

3points

Lilith the Demon Panda 3 years ago (edited)

downvote me all you want, you know I am right - bored panda is just turning into toxic femininity propaganda, ever other post is just "all men bad and if not all then enough of them"... you all toxic bitches are exactly the reason why we still don't have equality in this world and why men don't take you seriously... you are just whiny insecure princesses demanding special treatment and all the advantages but refuse to fight for yourselves and take responsibility in your own hands... you are the exact opposite of feminists, opposite of strong responsible women who deserve their right to be treated equally... all bad men in the history of humankind were raised by women - women just like you!

5points

Aliquid A 3 years ago

it is NEVER "all men", or even "most men". These are articles about describing men who ARE toxic. i.e. "these are the characteristics of a toxic man"... which by default implies that other men don't exhibit those characteristics. Many men respond in the comments with "yup, I hate men like that too". Bored Panda certainly seems to have a feminist slant lately, but to call it "toxic" is overly dramatic and embarrassing.

5points

Carlota 3 years ago

Just go at any bored panda post about women, lgbtq+ or anything remotely genderless/fluid and check out the comments at the very bottom, you'll see so many fragile masculinities acting up it's sad

4points

Sri Nath 3 years ago

Nah. This entire website is slowly turning into a generalisation echo chamber. I agree with the alpha male thing but a lot of this is common to both sexes and they want to generalise it only for men.

4points

Nevits Yibble 3 years ago

Honestly, a lot of these remind me of some women I know

3points

Johnny Rodriguez 3 years ago

As a man, I have a question for the women here: Is the image those men have of themselfes attractive to anyone of you? In my opinon, with most of these behaviors, it's just men trying to attract other men..

2points

Elio X 3 years ago

Do youtube dudes who scream at everything count? (That's why I don't care for most popular video game streamers.) Strongly agree about the homophobia and being controlling to a romantic partner too.

1point

jknbt jknbt 3 years ago

you people missed the $45,000 badge of male insecurity: a giant pick-up truck with large diameter wheels... this is common in Texas where I live & all the US south... these men do not feel like they are big men unless they are driving an intimidating pickup truck. They are always driving inconsiderately and rudely, which is a way of saying "I am bigger than you, get out of my way"... The Dodge Ram is their favorite... Will somebody that owns a bumper sticker publishing company make up a bumper sticker that says, "Yep, I am COMPENSATING"... These men are compensating for being short-changed behind the zipper. Pathetic, not impressive.

1point

M O'Connell 3 years ago

I just wish there were some variety, every lifted truck with swampers looks exactly like every other lifted truck with swampers. Show me a lifted Mercury Topaz with swampers, then I'll be impressed.

1point

El muerto 3 years ago

sexism is to apply traits and behaviours to individual base on gender. sometimes it feels like you are measure by the gender you are born with, more than what you do...I'm a bit of a hairy guy, that's enough to label me as "macho", even before i open my mouth...have female friends with exakt the same problem. the fact that you constantly have fight the prejudice from both gender, and even från feminist and anti feminist that can see pass their stereotypes, including sexuality. makes you damn defensive, and a little hostile to people that try to put you in a box.

1point

Trista Weidenborner 2 years ago

Used to work with an older guy that one day decided to trade in his old car for big red brand-spanking new F350. This thing was gorgeous... and it was obvious he couldn't handle that much truck with how terrified he looked when driving and the way he hit every curb he passed and couldn't go two days without hitting another car in the parking lot. However, anytime anyone questioned his choice of vehicle he got red in the face and blew up at them because "Real men drive trucks!!"

0points

Sue Prewitt 3 years ago

I see Trump in so many of those

0points

Mimi777 3 years ago

The ones who think it’s cool to be mean or hate small animals especially small dogs. They feel the need to announce to anyone who will listen that they hate them.

0points

Serbob 3 years ago

I re-read this replacing the he with she and it still rang true for the most part. A lot of people are insecure regardless of sex.

0points

Aliquid A 3 years ago

Yes, this should be genderless and sexless.

0points

Abhainn 3 years ago

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0points

T Simmons 3 years ago

Why all the hate for men at the moment

0points

Becca Gizmo the Squirrel 3 years ago

One word to run from: Controlling. First sign of a control freak, run the other way. It only gets worse.

0points

jknbt jknbt 3 years ago

Another sign of male insecurity is that they dare not have a close male friend, lest they be accused of homosexuality. They have to go off on a weekend hunting or fishing trip to get some "Bro-time" with a close male friend.

0points

Thenatural 3 years ago

What absolute nonsense! You think maybe the go hunting or fishing as a shared interest?

1point

Manu 3 years ago

Can we all just accept everyone is insecure sometimes and move on?

-1point

Aliquid A 3 years ago

An article saying "here are early warnings about insecure people" is handy, so you can avoid people like that.

1point

Sky Render 3 years ago

No entry for "has a stupidly overpowered car stereo and blasts hardcore gangster rap everywhere they go" or "deliberately detunes their car to sound like a dying lawnmower"? I'm shocked.

-1point

Nevits Yibble 3 years ago

Different category. The Strutting Peacock who craves attention. Please please notice meeeeee

1point

Lilith the Demon Panda 3 years ago

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Thenatural 3 years ago

Becoming a bit of a common theme now isn't it...

5points

Javiera Gotelli 3 years ago (edited)

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Lauren Caswell 3 years ago

Wouldnt it be just as rude to tell a woman they're bad in bed? True feminism isn't about punishing men or females before males, it's about gender equality.

2points

Thenatural 3 years ago

Have you had to tell many men they're bad in bed then?

1point

elStiJneriNO 3 years ago

So you feel like you should insult people based on no knowledge about them whatsoever and they should like that?

-1point

David Cartwright 3 years ago

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Sky Render 3 years ago

Because it's more important to stick to a social concept of "manly" than to just be yourself? That's a curious mindset. How's that working for you?

5points

Vanta Black 3 years ago

David... buddy... your fragile masculinity is showing. There is nothing "innately manly". There never has been. Things that people have said were "manly" in the past were only labelled as such because nobody would let women do them. These days, women play football, are fighters, can hunt, smoke cigars, wear trousers, have short hair, fart, swear... and anything else that used to be considered "unladylike".

2points

Fred L. 3 years ago

Oh, seems we just found one.

-2points

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Mrs_ Possum 3 years ago (edited)

From personal experience, a lot of these are not just male things. I've experienced quite a bit of this from women, too. Especially the competitive, one-upmanship thing.

21points

Chris 3 years ago (edited)

100% this. Should be titled "What Is A Tell-Tale Sign That A dickhead Is Insecure About themselves". The gender is irrelevant.

10points

SykesDaMan 3 years ago

THANK YOU!!!

6points

Computernaut 3 years ago

Agreed.

2points

Hugo Raible 3 years ago

Yes, BP just thinks it's cool nowadays to take a dump on men.

-2points

Bill 3 years ago

If you drive a pick up plastered in Trump stickers and a Trump flag in the bed.

16points

BG 3 years ago

They're now referred to as "participation trophies".

6points

Steve Barnett 3 years ago

15points

Martin Kaine 3 years ago

5points

Ozacoter 3 years ago

That reminds me of my ex. He wouldn’t let me spoon him ‘because it’s not masculine’. My partner now might have a lot of defects (like not cleaning) but he is awesome in that sense.

7points

EQXL 3 years ago

How is this about insecure masculinity when most posts are about insecurity because they're just not reserved to men only?

6points

Lauren Caswell 3 years ago (edited)

1point

Nicholas Yu 3 years ago

Voted for Trump, refuses to take the vaccine...owns an AR-15.

5points

Nevits Yibble 3 years ago

Believes the virus is a hoax fabricated by democrats, attacks Asians for a virus he doesn't believe exists. (That would be all Asians. Doesn't know the difference.)

3points

Lilith the Demon Panda 3 years ago (edited)

5points

Aliquid A 3 years ago

5points

Carlota 3 years ago

Just go at any bored panda post about women, lgbtq+ or anything remotely genderless/fluid and check out the comments at the very bottom, you'll see so many fragile masculinities acting up it's sad

4points

Sri Nath 3 years ago

Nah. This entire website is slowly turning into a generalisation echo chamber. I agree with the alpha male thing but a lot of this is common to both sexes and they want to generalise it only for men.

4points

Nevits Yibble 3 years ago

Honestly, a lot of these remind me of some women I know

3points

Johnny Rodriguez 3 years ago

2points

Elio X 3 years ago

Do youtube dudes who scream at everything count? (That's why I don't care for most popular video game streamers.) Strongly agree about the homophobia and being controlling to a romantic partner too.

1point

jknbt jknbt 3 years ago

1point

M O'Connell 3 years ago

I just wish there were some variety, every lifted truck with swampers looks exactly like every other lifted truck with swampers. Show me a lifted Mercury Topaz with swampers, then I'll be impressed.

1point

El muerto 3 years ago

1point

Trista Weidenborner 2 years ago

0points

Sue Prewitt 3 years ago

I see Trump in so many of those

0points

Mimi777 3 years ago

The ones who think it’s cool to be mean or hate small animals especially small dogs. They feel the need to announce to anyone who will listen that they hate them.

0points

Serbob 3 years ago

I re-read this replacing the he with she and it still rang true for the most part. A lot of people are insecure regardless of sex.

0points

Aliquid A 3 years ago

Yes, this should be genderless and sexless.

0points

Abhainn 3 years ago

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0points

T Simmons 3 years ago

Why all the hate for men at the moment

0points

Becca Gizmo the Squirrel 3 years ago

One word to run from: Controlling. First sign of a control freak, run the other way. It only gets worse.

0points

jknbt jknbt 3 years ago

0points

Thenatural 3 years ago

What absolute nonsense! You think maybe the go hunting or fishing as a shared interest?

1point

Manu 3 years ago

Can we all just accept everyone is insecure sometimes and move on?

-1point

Aliquid A 3 years ago

An article saying "here are early warnings about insecure people" is handy, so you can avoid people like that.

1point

Sky Render 3 years ago

No entry for "has a stupidly overpowered car stereo and blasts hardcore gangster rap everywhere they go" or "deliberately detunes their car to sound like a dying lawnmower"? I'm shocked.

-1point

Nevits Yibble 3 years ago

Different category. The Strutting Peacock who craves attention. Please please notice meeeeee

1point

Lilith the Demon Panda 3 years ago

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Thenatural 3 years ago

Becoming a bit of a common theme now isn't it...

5points

Javiera Gotelli 3 years ago (edited)

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Lauren Caswell 3 years ago

Wouldnt it be just as rude to tell a woman they're bad in bed? True feminism isn't about punishing men or females before males, it's about gender equality.

2points