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19 Y.O. Woman Allows Her Family To Live In A $3.3M House She Inherited, Later Decides To Sell It To Get Rid Of Them Because Of The Way They Abuse Her

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It is said that family is one of the most important things in a person’s life. But what if your family members are cruel and think less of you? Do you still keep close contact with them or ask them to pack their bags and leave? This is what Reddit user @Routine_Junket1040 had to think through when she was deciding whether to keep putting up with her family nonsense or put an end to it.

A 19-year-old woman decided to share her family situation with other people online to find out if she wasn’t wrong “for making her mom and brother homeless.”

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It is said that you have to love your family no matter what, but what if your family is a bunch of people who drive you crazy?

19 Y.O. Woman Allows Her Family To Live In A $3.3M House She Inherited, Later Decides To Sell It To Get Rid Of Them Because Of The Way They Abuse Her

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The young woman started her story by sharing that she lost her father to cancer and inherited 90% of what he owned, including their family home. He also left 10k for her mother and her brother. The narrator also added that she and her brother don’t share the same father.

A young woman asked people online if she’s wrong for deciding to sell the house she inherited because she can’t stand to live with her family any longer

19 Y.O. Woman Allows Her Family To Live In A $3.3M House She Inherited, Later Decides To Sell It To Get Rid Of Them Because Of The Way They Abuse Her

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The woman lived with her mom, who, she admitted, was still acting like she was the owner of the house, but the daughter didn’t mind. The situation got worse when her mom allowed her brother and his girlfriend to move in. They both were known to be “messy, entitled, and rude” and for this reason, the 19-year-old wanted them out.

19 Y.O. Woman Allows Her Family To Live In A $3.3M House She Inherited, Later Decides To Sell It To Get Rid Of Them Because Of The Way They Abuse Her

19 Y.O. Woman Allows Her Family To Live In A $3.3M House She Inherited, Later Decides To Sell It To Get Rid Of Them Because Of The Way They Abuse Her

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The woman revealed that since her dad died, she has lived with her mom, brother and his girlfriend

19 Y.O. Woman Allows Her Family To Live In A $3.3M House She Inherited, Later Decides To Sell It To Get Rid Of Them Because Of The Way They Abuse Her

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She revealed that both her brother and his girlfriend aren’t the easiest people and so there’s a lot of tension between them

19 Y.O. Woman Allows Her Family To Live In A $3.3M House She Inherited, Later Decides To Sell It To Get Rid Of Them Because Of The Way They Abuse Her

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After some time, they all found out that her brother’s girlfriend (that she calls SIL) was pregnant. This made the situation even harder because now they had to stay and this decision made the young woman’s life unbearable. The woman went through multiple situations where her SIL would eat her food or make her go for McDonald’s, taking total advantage of her situation.

19 Y.O. Woman Allows Her Family To Live In A $3.3M House She Inherited, Later Decides To Sell It To Get Rid Of Them Because Of The Way They Abuse Her

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Things got worse after the girlfriend announced that she was pregnant, so now they couldn’t be asked to move out

19 Y.O. Woman Allows Her Family To Live In A $3.3M House She Inherited, Later Decides To Sell It To Get Rid Of Them Because Of The Way They Abuse Her

19 Y.O. Woman Allows Her Family To Live In A $3.3M House She Inherited, Later Decides To Sell It To Get Rid Of Them Because Of The Way They Abuse Her

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The woman shared the situation that was the last straw and made her look for options on how to end this misery

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19 Y.O. Woman Allows Her Family To Live In A $3.3M House She Inherited, Later Decides To Sell It To Get Rid Of Them Because Of The Way They Abuse Her

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The breaking point was when the woman got home from a long day at her college and work, so she wanted to make her some dinner. After she was done, she left her food to cool of but after she came back for it, she saw that her SIL was already eating her food. This made her extremely mad to the point where she made her brother’s girlfriend cry. The situation escalated further by them all having a huge fight.

19 Y.O. Woman Allows Her Family To Live In A $3.3M House She Inherited, Later Decides To Sell It To Get Rid Of Them Because Of The Way They Abuse Her

19 Y.O. Woman Allows Her Family To Live In A $3.3M House She Inherited, Later Decides To Sell It To Get Rid Of Them Because Of The Way They Abuse Her

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The woman had an offer from her uncle, who wanted to buy the house from her and evict her family

19 Y.O. Woman Allows Her Family To Live In A $3.3M House She Inherited, Later Decides To Sell It To Get Rid Of Them Because Of The Way They Abuse Her

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19 Y.O. Woman Allows Her Family To Live In A $3.3M House She Inherited, Later Decides To Sell It To Get Rid Of Them Because Of The Way They Abuse Her

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The user revealed that she’s been thinking about this option and now wants to know if she’s doing the right thing

19 Y.O. Woman Allows Her Family To Live In A $3.3M House She Inherited, Later Decides To Sell It To Get Rid Of Them Because Of The Way They Abuse Her

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The woman then revealed that her uncle offered to buy the house from her and evict her family. So this situation got her thinking that maybe this is the way out of having her family around, who is using her and not taking her opinion into consideration. A lot of people online expressed their support for this young woman who is brave enough to stand up for herself.

What is your opinion in this case? Don’t forget to leave your thoughts in the comments down below!

19 Y.O. Woman Allows Her Family To Live In A $3.3M House She Inherited, Later Decides To Sell It To Get Rid Of Them Because Of The Way They Abuse Her

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People online were quick to assure the woman that what she is right for sticking up for her

19 Y.O. Woman Allows Her Family To Live In A $3.3M House She Inherited, Later Decides To Sell It To Get Rid Of Them Because Of The Way They Abuse Her

19 Y.O. Woman Allows Her Family To Live In A $3.3M House She Inherited, Later Decides To Sell It To Get Rid Of Them Because Of The Way They Abuse Her

Some users also shared some pieces of advice on how the narrator should proceed in this situation

19 Y.O. Woman Allows Her Family To Live In A $3.3M House She Inherited, Later Decides To Sell It To Get Rid Of Them Because Of The Way They Abuse Her

19 Y.O. Woman Allows Her Family To Live In A $3.3M House She Inherited, Later Decides To Sell It To Get Rid Of Them Because Of The Way They Abuse Her

19 Y.O. Woman Allows Her Family To Live In A $3.3M House She Inherited, Later Decides To Sell It To Get Rid Of Them Because Of The Way They Abuse Her

19 Y.O. Woman Allows Her Family To Live In A $3.3M House She Inherited, Later Decides To Sell It To Get Rid Of Them Because Of The Way They Abuse Her

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Konstancija is a Content Creator at Bored Panda. She has a bachelor’s degree in Translation and Interpreting and a master’s degree in Future Media and Journalism. She is very interested in sustainable fashion and is a perfect companion to go to second-hand shops and antiques for nearly anything: clothes, books or furniture. Her interests also include photography, literature and hiking.

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Tracy 2 years ago

Your sister-in-law didn't eat those things because she's pregnant. She ate them because she's a jerk. Yes, pregnancy can come with major hormone fluctuations but it doesn't completely override someone's judgment and ability to behave responsibly and civilly. She was clearly behaving that way just because she wanted to, and she enjoyed being able to blame it on the pregnancy.

141points

Zedrapazia 2 years ago

I already feel sorry for the poor baby that will be forced to have her as a mother.

89points

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WildHoneyPie 2 years ago

Exactly! And once the baby is born they'll have a whole new set of reasons to abuse the OP. Get rid of them all now.

9points

Gerard Neaux 2 years ago

Yep, dominance behavior

5points

Lance d'Boyle 2 years ago

This is another BP manufactured ethical crisis. She's going to 'collage' and writes like a 3rd grader? Property tax for London is up to 12% for property valued over 1.5 million so how is she paying that kind of dough? Paying the bills (gas, electricity, water, garbage.....). These posts are so over the top-- there are designed to get people so angry they leave comments: comments mean interaction: interaction means more ad dollars: cah-ching!

-1point

NsG 2 years ago (edited)

The mum... uses a spare key... to unlock OPs PRIVATE ROOM.... just to allow SIL access to the mini fridge? WHY THE EVER LOVING F DOES MUM HAVE A SPARE KEY?!!! Evict. Evict and restraining order. OP is an adult - she should be free to completely cut these leeches from her life. All of them. They aren't family, they just happen to have some shared DNA. And if she feels guilt, remember, we also share DNA with bananas.

86points

Space whale 2 years ago

Bananas are a better influence than this woman

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DC 2 years ago

That would bother me, too. Privacy cannot be valued lower than the craving of a feasting machine that, as it seems, still doesn't get her brain fueled up sufficiently by anybody in anything close to anyone, even someone else's, right mind. What if your hiding something? What if you rightfully hide it? What if it is embarassing? Like, incontinence and the according equipment, drugs (medication), drugs (those for fun of use), presents for people they will inform right after finding them, ... so many things, so many things to not even hide, but to just keep to oneself no matter what. There doesn't seem to be any kind of emergency that might justify this behaviour. Kick them out. Hire someone to make your point clear and inevadable. Evict those bloodsucking kocksuckers, all three of them. Now. ASAP. You're being generous, and nothing is wrong about that, but they aren't acting like it is worth any, so maybe they don't really want you to...

1point

Rijkærd 2 years ago

Id rather live with bananas than go bananas .

0points

Micah<3 2 years ago

I have never wanted to slap a pregnant woman before. This post has changed that. I cannot stand people like her.

53points

Karis Ravenhill 2 years ago

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Tracy 2 years ago

Your sister-in-law didn't eat those things because she's pregnant. She ate them because she's a jerk. Yes, pregnancy can come with major hormone fluctuations but it doesn't completely override someone's judgment and ability to behave responsibly and civilly. She was clearly behaving that way just because she wanted to, and she enjoyed being able to blame it on the pregnancy.

141points

Zedrapazia 2 years ago

I already feel sorry for the poor baby that will be forced to have her as a mother.

89points

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WildHoneyPie 2 years ago

Exactly! And once the baby is born they'll have a whole new set of reasons to abuse the OP. Get rid of them all now.

9points

Gerard Neaux 2 years ago

Yep, dominance behavior

5points

Lance d'Boyle 2 years ago

This is another BP manufactured ethical crisis. She's going to 'collage' and writes like a 3rd grader? Property tax for London is up to 12% for property valued over 1.5 million so how is she paying that kind of dough? Paying the bills (gas, electricity, water, garbage.....). These posts are so over the top-- there are designed to get people so angry they leave comments: comments mean interaction: interaction means more ad dollars: cah-ching!

-1point

NsG 2 years ago (edited)

The mum... uses a spare key... to unlock OPs PRIVATE ROOM.... just to allow SIL access to the mini fridge? WHY THE EVER LOVING F DOES MUM HAVE A SPARE KEY?!!! Evict. Evict and restraining order. OP is an adult - she should be free to completely cut these leeches from her life. All of them. They aren't family, they just happen to have some shared DNA. And if she feels guilt, remember, we also share DNA with bananas.

86points

Space whale 2 years ago

Bananas are a better influence than this woman

30points

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DC 2 years ago

That would bother me, too. Privacy cannot be valued lower than the craving of a feasting machine that, as it seems, still doesn't get her brain fueled up sufficiently by anybody in anything close to anyone, even someone else's, right mind. What if your hiding something? What if you rightfully hide it? What if it is embarassing? Like, incontinence and the according equipment, drugs (medication), drugs (those for fun of use), presents for people they will inform right after finding them, ... so many things, so many things to not even hide, but to just keep to oneself no matter what. There doesn't seem to be any kind of emergency that might justify this behaviour. Kick them out. Hire someone to make your point clear and inevadable. Evict those bloodsucking kocksuckers, all three of them. Now. ASAP. You're being generous, and nothing is wrong about that, but they aren't acting like it is worth any, so maybe they don't really want you to...

1point

Rijkærd 2 years ago

Id rather live with bananas than go bananas .

0points

Micah<3 2 years ago

I have never wanted to slap a pregnant woman before. This post has changed that. I cannot stand people like her.

53points

Karis Ravenhill 2 years ago

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