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Woman Shares A Story How Her Boss Told Her That Tampons Were Dildos, And People Are Furious
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Woman Shares A Story How Her Boss Told Her That Tampons Were Dildos, And People Are Furious

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Everyone who experiences periods knows that they’re absolutely no fun. And if the bleeding, cramps, and mood changes weren’t bad on their own, this menstrual ghost haunts us every month and there’s no place to hide from it. Sure, pregnancy, menopause or hormone treatment can keep that boogie-man away, but other than that, one is left to fend for themselves. It is estimated that half of the world’s population needs to use feminine hygiene items a week each month, every month, for over 30 years. That, of course, can be pricey, considering that those products are subject to value-added tax and are not tax-exempt like other products regarded as basic necessities. One Tumblr user pointed this out, and it sparked quite a debate, with people sharing their own stories, speculating where it all stems from and even talking about the much needed change. Scroll down to read what people had to say below and tell us if you agree with them or have your own stories to tell! (Facebook cover image: shelley brunt)

One Tumblr user reminded everyone about the tampon tax and sparked a discussion

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Many started speculating that the problem (which is evident in the government) stems from lack of sex ed at schools

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They returned to the topic of taxes and how there was some change in the air with Australia setting to remove the tampon tax by January, 2019

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Giedrė Vaičiulaitytė

Giedrė Vaičiulaitytė

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As a writer and image editor for Bored Panda, Giedrė crafts posts on many different topics to push them to their potential. She's also glad that her Bachelor’s degree in English Philology didn’t go to waste (although collecting dust in the attic could also be considered an achievement of aesthetic value!) Giedrė is an avid fan of cats, photography, and mysteries, and a keen observer of the Internet culture which is what she is most excited to write about. Since she's embarked on her journalistic endeavor, Giedrė has over 600 articles under her belt and hopes for twice as much (fingers crossed - half of them are about cats).

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Melody Lanzatella
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Like...I just CANNOT!!! Wait...WAIT!!! The conversation would have ended with me when he asked me WHY I had to go to the restroom!!! WHO TF is THAT inappropriate??!! WHO TF, as an ADULT...must ASK FOR PERMISSION to go to the restroom???!!! Is it me?!?! I am 54 years old!! I have NEVER had a employer that required me to ASK PERMISSION to use the restroom!!! WT ACTUAL F??!!

Renny
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Unfortunately, this is all too believable. I have been married for seven years and just this spring I told my husband I didn't want to go on a long hike because I was on my period and one it's tiring but two I probably wouldn't find a bathroom on the trail. He just said... "well can't you wait until later?" I was flabbergasted because when I am on my period I am very vocal about how it all works. So for seven years he just wasn't listening.

John Smith
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a young man my mother and sister would send me out to buy all their self care products. I knew what this was when I was 10. I would even ask other women in the store for help finding the right brand for the ladies in my life, which was met “aweeees.” I would walk down the isles with them slung over my shoulders. Any man who grew up with women knows. You have to live under a rock or grow up with extremely ignorant men to believe any of that man’s nonsense. Stupid!

Debbie Andersson
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How do they even think a tampon is a sextoy? First of all, it's fabricy, won't feel slippery and nice, secondly, what exactly is a dildo that size gonna pleasure?

MBZ MetalsmithArtist
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Right? Maybe the guy had a comparable sized unit and was deluded into thinking he was a total stud? (Yes, the size of the boat matters if it's not connected to someone you love...) *bracing for downvotes *

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A Dyke From The Dreamworld
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If I could turn off my period any time I want, I wouldn't have a period. I don't want to pay lux prices to keep clean, I ain't Gucci McPrada!

Bumble
Community Member
6 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You can't turn it off when you want? Poor you! I choose to have mine when I am rollerblading with my dogs in a park whilst wearing a lycra one-piece. Oh and my period is like blue water which NEVER spills over the edge of my pad.

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Stacy
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow. And in even more appreciative of my boyfriend now. After only five months, he's already figured out when my cycle is and I dont even have one. I get the symptoms but no period. He can tell bc I'm starving to death, cranky, and sleepy. And anything I say during n the time is null and void. He said he just lets it roll off. That good man he is.

Daria B
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sounds like a nice guy. Best of luck to you two! My husband also knows and understands how the human body works, and only recently I found out how much I took his intelligence for granted.

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Isog Sargent
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't know how some guys can be so ignorant. My sister used to make me go to the store to buy her Kotex. 52% of the population is female. How have some guys never learned about menstruation?

Han
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm cursing him to get a blood nose at work. Then one of his female employees hands him a tampon ....

Alia G.
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope he apologized properly. What an ignorant a*****e.

diane a
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Taxes on femenine hygiene products is the Government profiting from our monthly misery - do they tax bandages?

Agnes Jekyll
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think we should have a month in which no woman uses protection and sends her dry cleaning bill to the government, not to mention all the public seats, buses, etc that would have to be replaced, and then tell me tampons are a luxury

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Sergio Bicerra Descalzi
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We guys don't know how it works, so many different ways period affects women, but we SHOULD know the basics of it and be supportive, helpful and thoughtful about it.

Danielle Holder
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Unlike every other generation that has ever been, we LITERALLY have the worlds knowledge at our fingertips!! There is absolutely NO excuse for men not to know how the female body works!

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Candice Ravel
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What fuckery is this? If some bloated old wrinkled nutsack said this to me, I would literally open my faucet and f*****g bleed on him and all he holds dear after stapling the biggest maxi pad I can find on his forehead. I propose two things 1) an IQ test to be in politics at ANY level and 2) a stupidity tax - number 2 alone would wipe out the national debt in about a week. I may have some anger issues ;)

Magpie
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This Australian is sitting here, with her mouth open. How on earth - in an industrialized country- can an adult be so ignorant?

Night Owl
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I...I'm speechless. I probably wouldn't have known what to say. Sadly, this way of thinking and false assumptions seem to be nothing unusual for men who never learned about the female reproductive system and how it works and about female hygiene.

diane a
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Many years ago when I was married and suffering hellish periods, somehow during tampon change I had accidentally caught one against the underside of the front of the toilet seat without realising. Half an hour later my husband came rushing in a mad painc - "OMG I'm bleeding down there" -from a microscopic speck of blood on his bits. I'm like "welcome to my world"

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Parmeisan
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've got this sinking feeling that there are guys out there who are reading this thinking it's all lies or at least hyperbole. I promise you it is not: menstruation happens suddenly, with no warning, cannot be paused or delayed in any way, and just plain sucks.

diane a
Community Member
6 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

my period was so irregular I was wearing tampons days in advance of it occurring - just in case - didnt want to be caught out blood everywhere - there is no bigger shame for a teenage girl than to be leaving bloodstains wherever she sits

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La Petite Morte
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you work in a very small office, even today, you can run into tin pot Napoleans who rule the office according to their whims because employee protection only kicks in over a certain number of employees. I worked at a non profit that usually only had 3-5 people, including me, and was run by a board of directors comprised of our 'clients'. The boss had massive anger issues and because I was a female in a position he didn't think women should be in (embalmer, and he firmly believed women should be front office only) I was his favorite target. He threw full coffee cups at me, chairs, glass ashtrays, etc. Let male employees call me a c*nt, treat me like c**p, ignore me when I tried to teach them protocol. Walked through my prep room with a lit cigarette while I was embalming (phenol is flammable, kids), etc. When I complained to the board (3x in 7 years, once after going to the hospital because he had injured me) I was told 'there was no proof' and 'my word agaisnt his'. Never mind that he and I were the only employees that were there for longer than a year. So yeah, since my ex-boss exists in 2018, men like him existed whenever this happened.

La Petite Morte
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Point #2: My ex boss, my step father, and a few rapidly ex bfs believed things close to this jerk. That women made up periods, cramps, etc. just to mess with men. At the same time, I was supposed to be ashamed that it happened and take every precaution possible to hide its existence. I have debilitating cramps and menses onset migraines every month. That means for several days a month I am a quivering ball of pain hiding in the darkest quietest room possible. Of course I was just making it up so I could get out of work/school. Because bleeding like a stuck pig, feeling like my abdomen was trying to rip itself out of my body and like my head was being repeatedly hit by a wrecking ball was so much more fun than going to work. Feh.

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Nirity
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why the fak you go to school for? What you study there? Bioligy - Human anathomy, 8th grade, 13y olds - country Bulgaria. Human anathomy is important, bc thats us ffs. There were lots if exams and tests on the subject. Most importantly we were all questioned cross gender - boys on female anathomy, girls on male one. It is made this way bc it is easy to figure out own anathomy, harder to understand opposite gender. As far as I remember, pleasure centres were explained too. We have no other sex ed, I think is important to have, in order to explain more - relationships, human interactions, consent etc.

Nirity
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think 'muricans must revolt! Education sux, health care sux, credit system sux etc. Muricans are enslaved by their government. The most important thing - your country has the power to fak up all the rest of the world and is doing it. So ffs pls revolt!

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Coco
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's not surprising. I have a VERY educated friend that asked me if we need to remove the tampon to pee. Something is seriously wrong with the education in this world.

Laugh Fan
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I read a post on another forum where someone claimed they did that. She was worried about peeing on the string!

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Nostalgic Hyena
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've heard of females who don't even know this sh*t - yes, really! My dad's girlfriend once decided that we should go on a hike, but it was that time of the month and I was in real bad pain after walking for a while, and she said I was just "faking" it.

Laugh Fan
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Some people seem to need to experience something themselves before believing it. Not a very intelligent way to go about things really - as if everyone in the world only works the way they do.

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Adam Francis
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I was in 5th grade or whenever it was that we had sex ed class, they separated the boys and girls to teach us. The boys all argued that we wanted to know what the girls were being taught because there was clearly something different they were learning. We definitely should have learned what they were being taught. I didn't know about this stuff until after high school. Most guys don't.

Fiendhunter
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I always hated feeling embarrassed when buying pads at the store. I had to almost look away from the vendor while paying, sneak into my house without my father noticing, like...... I couldn't understand the secrecy, as if it was something immoral and unnatural.

Carrie de Luka
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Who was imposing the secrecy - just your father? If they are in a bag - why would he notice? The people selling the pads at the store are doing selling these and other embarrassing items all the time so don't let that matter. Or use an online pharmacy perhaps? Tesco brings mine!!

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Elizabeth
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm truly afraid to believe any of this is true, even though it explains so very much that is wrong with how men treat women

Darryl Kerrigan
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It was still happening in the 90's at my school. All the girls got taken out of class to learn about periods and pads and things and all the boys got taught chivalrous things to do, general etiquette and manners. Had to learn by asking folk.

Agnes Jekyll
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Doug Ford, premier of Ontario and asshat has removed the current sex-ed program and replaced it with the one from the 90s--nothing about consent, respecting others' boundaries or keeping yourself safe online. Back to "girls, you will get your period" while the boys sit in a classroom playing thumbs up heads down

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Hilzillah
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wanted to reply with 'b******t story'. But after Reading the reply's, I'm not so sure anymore. Men can be that dumb apparently

Hawk
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That one person that said “and this is why we need sex Ed that isn’t divided gender” well.... at our school it isn’t -.-

Little Menace
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The comment by 'coolfaybunny' [almost bottom] had me in stitches. They tried to be so understanding that they said "women [or those that identify as...] should get personal hygiene free". LOL I am quite sure that those who are not biological women but identify only as such will not actually menstruate...[forehead slap]

Rafaella Bueno
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, I think if they wanted to be inclusive, it should be the other way around... people that menstruate, or people with an uterus. Since there are trans men that still have periods, but a trans woman will not.

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Azure Adams
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That is a lawsuit and a direct discussion with HR against that "boss"

Vonskippy
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Proving once again that Public Education is the States are by design making America dumber and dumber.

SirWriteALot
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had to explain to TWO of my girlfriends (not simultaneously) that pee and blood come out of two different holes. No I do not live in a third world country or the US. Some people just don't pay attention in biology class, even if it concerns their own bodies. A friend of mine had no idea that testicles only contain sperm and the rest of the fluid is provided by the prostate.

Wibbi
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is just stupid.... I live in Germany and we had comprehensive (age appropriate) and fact based sex ed when I was 9 years old. Then again later in secondary school in a more scientific way. It didn't even occur to me that religious motives could play a part in educating students about their own body and sexuality or, to be more precise, that they could be used as a reason to teach any other things as actual fact-based information. We had religious studies but that was it. We talked about religion during that class and all the other classes were fact-based, as they should be! Sex ed in elementary school was taught in a subject that rouhgly translates to "General Studies". There we learned all the stuff you actually need to know: basic geography, economics, and stuff you actually need to know about like f****ing sex ed!

Teresa Vasquez
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Mr.Boss, tampons are not dildos. You are just using them wrong...

Mary McConnell
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not just men. My SIL JUST found out we have 3 holes "down there". She's NEVER used a tampon because what if she has to pee? We are 55 years old. My new favorite expression is someone is REALLY dumb if they're "3 hole dumb".

Kjorn
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

this is what happen in a country where so many people are religious freak and consider sex as a sin, and think, as well the earth is flat!

K. LNU
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well... this explains a lot about the state of our Nation. Old men who don't understand. lol

Jewels
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What the hell? This article made me register here after months of silent reading. I mean: Is this true? Or is this satire? Can´t believe it...

Someone Somewhere
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So, why did the OP not spread this moron’s shame to every media outlet at the time? You don’t let scum of the earth like this go unchallenged and secure in their offices.

Night Owl
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Maybe it looks like it was genuine ignorance, no need to publicly shame someone if he's willing to learn and change. Or maybe because she was an intern and could have lost her job

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Katie and Jared Coates
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If any guy asks me this I'm going to ask them if they can hold in a bloody nose.

Sandi
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was never told anything about puberty or sex. When my aunt was carrying my cousin, I assumed she just became pregnant. Didn't know about hair growing on me or anything! Even girls need to be educated, not just boys.

Marion Friedl
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

WTF??? This woman should´ve let the blood run out to show her f*****g boss or collegue WHAT happens when you get your period & don´t use tampons, sanitary napkins or the modern menstruation cups, at the beginning, when I got my first period at the age of 12, I had to use sanitary napkins because my mum thought the blood might get stuck with tampons, but my 3 1/2 years older sister already used tampons, so I asked her to give me some of them to try at the 3rd or 4th period, which worked & made it possible to go swimming with them, then I told this to our mum, but she said if I wanted to use them there wouldn´t be enough household money there for them, so I´d have to buy them from my "pocket money", which I did (I only got 5 DM/week then, so I had to save it for 2 weeks to be able to buy a pack with 64 in them for 10 DM for one period)!!! Due to the Lupus I`m probably already through the climacterium now, had several "guest periods" now and then, last year I had them every 15-16 days for

Laugh Fan
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That is awful. I feel for you - I'm so grateful that my mother at least allowed us to choose what we preferred. In the UK it's the lower rate at 5% and some supermarkets effectively scrapped that by covering the tax themselves. Still schoolgirls miss school because of their periods - these things should be free for anyone still in school at the very least.

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Jo Choto
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How is it possible in this day and age, with the internet, the media, the TV, a world full of information, for a grown, married man not to know how periods work. I don't care when he was born. I don't care about his access to sex ed. How can you live with a woman for presumably decades and not even know the basics? That's not an oversight. That's wilful and malicious ignorance based on misogyny.

Id row
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That is just insane. There needs to be a 30 minute mandatory instructional video of how the female body works, specifically geared towards men. There's men out there making laws that effect us and our bodies and their entire knowledge is based on what he's heard from his buddies, which is basically nothing. Our educational system is shameful at best and our politicians are an embarrassment.

Callie Ge
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My ex husband used to think that pms was a made up thing women used to get out of having sex.. The first time we went shopping together after we started living together. I put in my monthly essentials. When we got to the check out he got all squirmy, & said, why do you have to buy those when I'm here you should get them when you are alone, I shouldn't have to help pay for those. With my usual tact I said, you're f*****g kidding right? Why would I make a separate trip to the supermarket just to buy pads & tampons? His reply That stuff is private, they shouldn't even be sold here, no one wants to see that s**t. Me, What, 50% of the population shouldnt be able to buy them cheap & conveniently, where exactly should they be sold if not between the condoms & toilet paper in aisle 15? He had no answer for that.

Amy Loskota
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not to market the products - but as a general FYI - women around the world can buy reusable menstrual cups and pads, as well as underwear you can wear and reuse for periods. There are also DIY articles to make your own pads, like women have for generations before us. You don't have to pay a tax if you don't participate in the commercialization of periods. Most of the disposable ones don't ever work 75% of the time. The people who make them and sell them to women are capitalizing on the shame put on having periods and the general disgust people show for that kind of blood BY our less educated parents and role models but telling us we are not clean w/o disposables (which are just as bad as throwing a diaper into a landfill). We don't have to participate or use their badly made, overtaxed products.

Danielle Holder
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hundreds of millions of females around the world have NO access to any kind of feminine products. Even here in the US there are millions who have access but can't afford them. Reusable products also need to be sterilized, which again many have no access to do it, or places to rinse them out and put it back in. So NO, women around the world do NOT have access to those products.

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Lynn Noyes
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just curious, but why was this boss so familiar with what items were in the women's bathrooms. Did he hang out there a lot?

Honesty Olishia
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well he sees how much the company is paying for those things because he's the boss.

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Suzi Gauthier
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And this is not the first time I've heard of a man who thinks that, although I've heard some real ignorance among young women too about their own reproductive system. It's just sad.

Keuthonymos
Community Member
6 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Beside the relentless stupidity of her manager, which I agree he should be re-educated on the matter,. I am getting off topic with this next bit; what gets me is this argument of men not paying tax, at least in the UK, for their razors is ridiculous. Razors are taxed at 20% whereas tampons are taxed at 5%, the minimum tax the EU set out, not the UK. The ironic thing being, most of the people who voted stay in the EU are the one's who want this tax abolished. There are other options; the reusable 'moon cup' as disgusting an idea it is, is pretty much the equivalent to a mans electric razor. So, pay tax and be quiet until they abolish the tax for it (which I wholeheartedly agree with) or go the reusable route. but yes this girl should have ignored her manager and did her thing.

Random Panda
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In my country we learn that (and everything sex-related) in biology class. My teacher wanted us to know all the phases of the female monthly cycle by heart.

IWishIWasBob
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A dildo? Seriously?? Yes we choose to turn on our period so we can experience utter pain and a horrible mood to be “lazy”. Why tf would someone think that?? Gosh, if I had the choice I’d choose to NEVER start. Also, you shouldn’t have to have permission to go to the bathroom as a GROWN WOMAN. If he said no, I’d end the conversation and go to the restroom. If I get fired then I don’t think that’s to bad if I had a boss like that. Because 1) I do not want to stain my clothes 2) I do not want to smell and 3) I just don’t want people to know I’m on it at all

Time Itself
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Do they not teach sex ed or f*****g biology in school or something? Why are men going around getting married or just living in general without knowing this s**t?

Juta Isate
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Aren't you studying anatomy at school? The state of education in the USA is even worse than I thought.

Wreathy
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A long ago ex was confused that my period went on longer than a day. 'Um, how much blood do you actually think is involved?' 'Er, a teaspoon?' Oh, if only.

Misterscooter
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

These men are stupid. And likely, someone that raised them or taught them was stupid, too. It isn't that complicated to understand.

Nomadus Aureus
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And I thought I had it bad, when I had to explain STDs to my 36 year old, university lecturer ex........

Ruth Beaty
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I really cannot believe a grown a*s man thought this s**t! did his wife not educate him? Or was she too embarrassed to say anything? My dad knew 50 years ago! My husband sure as hell knew 40 years ago, and my boys know now. I just cannot believe this, and find it hysterically funny that there are some that still need education on this subject! Go to ladies and embarrass the hell out of them until they all get the idea.

James Grey
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow! Ignorance is no excuse for being stupid. People need to educate themselves. I'm so sorry for that guy's wife.

Little Menace
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To show the government that these aren't luxury items, women should choose a day where they just don't wear any hygiene products but still go about their lives on buses, in restaurants, at work etc. That would be a very gross but effective way to show that these things are essentials.

RockBottom
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This whole website is blatant social engineering. Are you all bind, are you bereft of reason?

Sheanna Caban
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I once had a boss ask if I could "just hold it." Like, it's not p**s, man. And, if I could, don't you think I would probably hold it, like, indefinitely? Jackass.

Taryn Wallace
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love my bf so much we have been together for almost 10 years and he grew up with 4 sisters yet he STILL asked me (about a month and a half ago) why I needed a tampon when we went swimming. Apparently he thought that when we got in the water it just stopped. He seemed genuinely confused when I explained that there was no way to stop the flow of blood and that even if I fully submerge my body in water I can still bleed. He was super sweet about it but it was baffling that a 32 year old man didn't know we couldn't control it.

Carmen Elena
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6 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

whaaaaat?! Many many men will never understand how our period is. That´s the truth. NO matter how many times someone explains this to them.

Brad Hill
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a man, I find this story amazing, and appalling at the same time. Just goes to show our best and brightest are not in our government, but what does that say about us who keep voting them in. On the point people make about sex ed, I agree it should be taught, but the issue many people have with sex ed today is the schools are teaching not just the basics, but a**l sex, homosexuality, and transgenderism that many Americans don't believe is necessary for a proper education about the sexes. Maybe if the cut out the unnecessary they would have time to properly explain the reproductive systems of both sexes.

Martha Meyer
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But there ARE homosexuals and transgenders sitting in these sex ed classes! You can't just choose to be heterosexual any more than women can choose when to have their period. So this information isn't unnecessary. It's helpful.

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Victor Manteca Hierro
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Honestly, this looks like some US "Bible Belt" issue. I cannot imagine any man I know being so ignorant about the matter, and I know some pretty thick minded guys. Damn, I grew in a catholic family and went to a catholic school, and still I know what period is and how it works since I was 8-y-o or so.

First Name
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't know anyone who is that uninformed nor have I ever been shamed for having my period.

Scott White
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What's with all the topics on BP about Lucifers waterfall recently?

John Smith
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6 years ago

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Your mom said tampons are dildos for the lonely.

William Teach
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6 years ago

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Quite frankly, this sounds like yet another story by someone who cannot prove it. In this day and age, any boss that is that stupid to say that stuff would have been fired long, long before. People just want to make themselves into Victims and get likes and have people telling them how great they are.

Nawww
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6 years ago

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What do I think? I think her story is b.s. Come ON; that is a prank story. And those who commented "oh yes, my [fill in the blank other person] said the same thing to me." I think they are full of b.s. too. People, don't be so trusting and willing to believe what total strangers attest to.

James Smith
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6 years ago

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This is almost as bad as women who think they can change their sex down at the doctors office.

Bob 2.0
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why did you bring that into this? I'll just assume you're trying to p**s people off and not make an actual point.

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Nevaeh Nicholas
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6 years ago

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Only then does the small 12 year old girl relize that she is dating a girl....and she is going to go through her period in a few days with out chocolate and has no pads or tampons....and her girlfriend will be there in the store, trying to get Tampons and pad, possibly some chocolate until she relizes that she dont have the money...then dad steps in and buys the sruff forgetting everything other then the chocolate and eats it infront of his daughter. Happens everytime

Bob 2.0
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Um, wow, nice story. What did that have to do with any of this? Pretty specific to happen "every time".

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Naomi Armitage
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6 years ago

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Please STOP blaming religion for everything. I don't know much about other religions, but I know the Bible mentions lady functions more than once, so if people are hung up on it, it's not the Bible's fault.

John Smith
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6 years ago

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Mommy, why are all women so weak? PMS darling, PMS.

Joseph Stewart
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6 years ago

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Funny when feminists post about how men are raping them with tampons because a man invented it.

Kiahna
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have NEVER seen anything like that on the internet. Where did you get that from?

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Trixster Million
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6 years ago

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Women CAN turn off their period at will, if they take birth control pills - skip the placebo pills. There has to be a downside to this, but no one has explained what it is yet. I have been period-free for years.

Biorysunki (Natalia)
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not all women can/want to use birth control pills. In the case of some health issues/diseases/beliefs it is impossible. Besides, hormonal contraception has many cons. For example, it increases the risk of thrombosis, which may eventually lead to pulmonary embolism or a stroke.

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Melody Lanzatella
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Like...I just CANNOT!!! Wait...WAIT!!! The conversation would have ended with me when he asked me WHY I had to go to the restroom!!! WHO TF is THAT inappropriate??!! WHO TF, as an ADULT...must ASK FOR PERMISSION to go to the restroom???!!! Is it me?!?! I am 54 years old!! I have NEVER had a employer that required me to ASK PERMISSION to use the restroom!!! WT ACTUAL F??!!

Renny
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Unfortunately, this is all too believable. I have been married for seven years and just this spring I told my husband I didn't want to go on a long hike because I was on my period and one it's tiring but two I probably wouldn't find a bathroom on the trail. He just said... "well can't you wait until later?" I was flabbergasted because when I am on my period I am very vocal about how it all works. So for seven years he just wasn't listening.

John Smith
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a young man my mother and sister would send me out to buy all their self care products. I knew what this was when I was 10. I would even ask other women in the store for help finding the right brand for the ladies in my life, which was met “aweeees.” I would walk down the isles with them slung over my shoulders. Any man who grew up with women knows. You have to live under a rock or grow up with extremely ignorant men to believe any of that man’s nonsense. Stupid!

Debbie Andersson
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How do they even think a tampon is a sextoy? First of all, it's fabricy, won't feel slippery and nice, secondly, what exactly is a dildo that size gonna pleasure?

MBZ MetalsmithArtist
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Right? Maybe the guy had a comparable sized unit and was deluded into thinking he was a total stud? (Yes, the size of the boat matters if it's not connected to someone you love...) *bracing for downvotes *

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A Dyke From The Dreamworld
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If I could turn off my period any time I want, I wouldn't have a period. I don't want to pay lux prices to keep clean, I ain't Gucci McPrada!

Bumble
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6 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You can't turn it off when you want? Poor you! I choose to have mine when I am rollerblading with my dogs in a park whilst wearing a lycra one-piece. Oh and my period is like blue water which NEVER spills over the edge of my pad.

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Stacy
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow. And in even more appreciative of my boyfriend now. After only five months, he's already figured out when my cycle is and I dont even have one. I get the symptoms but no period. He can tell bc I'm starving to death, cranky, and sleepy. And anything I say during n the time is null and void. He said he just lets it roll off. That good man he is.

Daria B
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sounds like a nice guy. Best of luck to you two! My husband also knows and understands how the human body works, and only recently I found out how much I took his intelligence for granted.

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Isog Sargent
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't know how some guys can be so ignorant. My sister used to make me go to the store to buy her Kotex. 52% of the population is female. How have some guys never learned about menstruation?

Han
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm cursing him to get a blood nose at work. Then one of his female employees hands him a tampon ....

Alia G.
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope he apologized properly. What an ignorant a*****e.

diane a
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Taxes on femenine hygiene products is the Government profiting from our monthly misery - do they tax bandages?

Agnes Jekyll
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think we should have a month in which no woman uses protection and sends her dry cleaning bill to the government, not to mention all the public seats, buses, etc that would have to be replaced, and then tell me tampons are a luxury

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Sergio Bicerra Descalzi
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We guys don't know how it works, so many different ways period affects women, but we SHOULD know the basics of it and be supportive, helpful and thoughtful about it.

Danielle Holder
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Unlike every other generation that has ever been, we LITERALLY have the worlds knowledge at our fingertips!! There is absolutely NO excuse for men not to know how the female body works!

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Candice Ravel
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What fuckery is this? If some bloated old wrinkled nutsack said this to me, I would literally open my faucet and f*****g bleed on him and all he holds dear after stapling the biggest maxi pad I can find on his forehead. I propose two things 1) an IQ test to be in politics at ANY level and 2) a stupidity tax - number 2 alone would wipe out the national debt in about a week. I may have some anger issues ;)

Magpie
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This Australian is sitting here, with her mouth open. How on earth - in an industrialized country- can an adult be so ignorant?

Night Owl
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I...I'm speechless. I probably wouldn't have known what to say. Sadly, this way of thinking and false assumptions seem to be nothing unusual for men who never learned about the female reproductive system and how it works and about female hygiene.

diane a
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Many years ago when I was married and suffering hellish periods, somehow during tampon change I had accidentally caught one against the underside of the front of the toilet seat without realising. Half an hour later my husband came rushing in a mad painc - "OMG I'm bleeding down there" -from a microscopic speck of blood on his bits. I'm like "welcome to my world"

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Parmeisan
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've got this sinking feeling that there are guys out there who are reading this thinking it's all lies or at least hyperbole. I promise you it is not: menstruation happens suddenly, with no warning, cannot be paused or delayed in any way, and just plain sucks.

diane a
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6 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

my period was so irregular I was wearing tampons days in advance of it occurring - just in case - didnt want to be caught out blood everywhere - there is no bigger shame for a teenage girl than to be leaving bloodstains wherever she sits

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La Petite Morte
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you work in a very small office, even today, you can run into tin pot Napoleans who rule the office according to their whims because employee protection only kicks in over a certain number of employees. I worked at a non profit that usually only had 3-5 people, including me, and was run by a board of directors comprised of our 'clients'. The boss had massive anger issues and because I was a female in a position he didn't think women should be in (embalmer, and he firmly believed women should be front office only) I was his favorite target. He threw full coffee cups at me, chairs, glass ashtrays, etc. Let male employees call me a c*nt, treat me like c**p, ignore me when I tried to teach them protocol. Walked through my prep room with a lit cigarette while I was embalming (phenol is flammable, kids), etc. When I complained to the board (3x in 7 years, once after going to the hospital because he had injured me) I was told 'there was no proof' and 'my word agaisnt his'. Never mind that he and I were the only employees that were there for longer than a year. So yeah, since my ex-boss exists in 2018, men like him existed whenever this happened.

La Petite Morte
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Point #2: My ex boss, my step father, and a few rapidly ex bfs believed things close to this jerk. That women made up periods, cramps, etc. just to mess with men. At the same time, I was supposed to be ashamed that it happened and take every precaution possible to hide its existence. I have debilitating cramps and menses onset migraines every month. That means for several days a month I am a quivering ball of pain hiding in the darkest quietest room possible. Of course I was just making it up so I could get out of work/school. Because bleeding like a stuck pig, feeling like my abdomen was trying to rip itself out of my body and like my head was being repeatedly hit by a wrecking ball was so much more fun than going to work. Feh.

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Nirity
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why the fak you go to school for? What you study there? Bioligy - Human anathomy, 8th grade, 13y olds - country Bulgaria. Human anathomy is important, bc thats us ffs. There were lots if exams and tests on the subject. Most importantly we were all questioned cross gender - boys on female anathomy, girls on male one. It is made this way bc it is easy to figure out own anathomy, harder to understand opposite gender. As far as I remember, pleasure centres were explained too. We have no other sex ed, I think is important to have, in order to explain more - relationships, human interactions, consent etc.

Nirity
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think 'muricans must revolt! Education sux, health care sux, credit system sux etc. Muricans are enslaved by their government. The most important thing - your country has the power to fak up all the rest of the world and is doing it. So ffs pls revolt!

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Coco
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's not surprising. I have a VERY educated friend that asked me if we need to remove the tampon to pee. Something is seriously wrong with the education in this world.

Laugh Fan
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I read a post on another forum where someone claimed they did that. She was worried about peeing on the string!

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Nostalgic Hyena
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've heard of females who don't even know this sh*t - yes, really! My dad's girlfriend once decided that we should go on a hike, but it was that time of the month and I was in real bad pain after walking for a while, and she said I was just "faking" it.

Laugh Fan
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Some people seem to need to experience something themselves before believing it. Not a very intelligent way to go about things really - as if everyone in the world only works the way they do.

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Adam Francis
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I was in 5th grade or whenever it was that we had sex ed class, they separated the boys and girls to teach us. The boys all argued that we wanted to know what the girls were being taught because there was clearly something different they were learning. We definitely should have learned what they were being taught. I didn't know about this stuff until after high school. Most guys don't.

Fiendhunter
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I always hated feeling embarrassed when buying pads at the store. I had to almost look away from the vendor while paying, sneak into my house without my father noticing, like...... I couldn't understand the secrecy, as if it was something immoral and unnatural.

Carrie de Luka
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Who was imposing the secrecy - just your father? If they are in a bag - why would he notice? The people selling the pads at the store are doing selling these and other embarrassing items all the time so don't let that matter. Or use an online pharmacy perhaps? Tesco brings mine!!

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Elizabeth
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm truly afraid to believe any of this is true, even though it explains so very much that is wrong with how men treat women

Darryl Kerrigan
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It was still happening in the 90's at my school. All the girls got taken out of class to learn about periods and pads and things and all the boys got taught chivalrous things to do, general etiquette and manners. Had to learn by asking folk.

Agnes Jekyll
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Doug Ford, premier of Ontario and asshat has removed the current sex-ed program and replaced it with the one from the 90s--nothing about consent, respecting others' boundaries or keeping yourself safe online. Back to "girls, you will get your period" while the boys sit in a classroom playing thumbs up heads down

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Hilzillah
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wanted to reply with 'b******t story'. But after Reading the reply's, I'm not so sure anymore. Men can be that dumb apparently

Hawk
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That one person that said “and this is why we need sex Ed that isn’t divided gender” well.... at our school it isn’t -.-

Little Menace
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The comment by 'coolfaybunny' [almost bottom] had me in stitches. They tried to be so understanding that they said "women [or those that identify as...] should get personal hygiene free". LOL I am quite sure that those who are not biological women but identify only as such will not actually menstruate...[forehead slap]

Rafaella Bueno
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, I think if they wanted to be inclusive, it should be the other way around... people that menstruate, or people with an uterus. Since there are trans men that still have periods, but a trans woman will not.

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Azure Adams
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That is a lawsuit and a direct discussion with HR against that "boss"

Vonskippy
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Proving once again that Public Education is the States are by design making America dumber and dumber.

SirWriteALot
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had to explain to TWO of my girlfriends (not simultaneously) that pee and blood come out of two different holes. No I do not live in a third world country or the US. Some people just don't pay attention in biology class, even if it concerns their own bodies. A friend of mine had no idea that testicles only contain sperm and the rest of the fluid is provided by the prostate.

Wibbi
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is just stupid.... I live in Germany and we had comprehensive (age appropriate) and fact based sex ed when I was 9 years old. Then again later in secondary school in a more scientific way. It didn't even occur to me that religious motives could play a part in educating students about their own body and sexuality or, to be more precise, that they could be used as a reason to teach any other things as actual fact-based information. We had religious studies but that was it. We talked about religion during that class and all the other classes were fact-based, as they should be! Sex ed in elementary school was taught in a subject that rouhgly translates to "General Studies". There we learned all the stuff you actually need to know: basic geography, economics, and stuff you actually need to know about like f****ing sex ed!

Teresa Vasquez
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Mr.Boss, tampons are not dildos. You are just using them wrong...

Mary McConnell
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not just men. My SIL JUST found out we have 3 holes "down there". She's NEVER used a tampon because what if she has to pee? We are 55 years old. My new favorite expression is someone is REALLY dumb if they're "3 hole dumb".

Kjorn
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

this is what happen in a country where so many people are religious freak and consider sex as a sin, and think, as well the earth is flat!

K. LNU
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well... this explains a lot about the state of our Nation. Old men who don't understand. lol

Jewels
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What the hell? This article made me register here after months of silent reading. I mean: Is this true? Or is this satire? Can´t believe it...

Someone Somewhere
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So, why did the OP not spread this moron’s shame to every media outlet at the time? You don’t let scum of the earth like this go unchallenged and secure in their offices.

Night Owl
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Maybe it looks like it was genuine ignorance, no need to publicly shame someone if he's willing to learn and change. Or maybe because she was an intern and could have lost her job

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Katie and Jared Coates
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If any guy asks me this I'm going to ask them if they can hold in a bloody nose.

Sandi
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was never told anything about puberty or sex. When my aunt was carrying my cousin, I assumed she just became pregnant. Didn't know about hair growing on me or anything! Even girls need to be educated, not just boys.

Marion Friedl
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

WTF??? This woman should´ve let the blood run out to show her f*****g boss or collegue WHAT happens when you get your period & don´t use tampons, sanitary napkins or the modern menstruation cups, at the beginning, when I got my first period at the age of 12, I had to use sanitary napkins because my mum thought the blood might get stuck with tampons, but my 3 1/2 years older sister already used tampons, so I asked her to give me some of them to try at the 3rd or 4th period, which worked & made it possible to go swimming with them, then I told this to our mum, but she said if I wanted to use them there wouldn´t be enough household money there for them, so I´d have to buy them from my "pocket money", which I did (I only got 5 DM/week then, so I had to save it for 2 weeks to be able to buy a pack with 64 in them for 10 DM for one period)!!! Due to the Lupus I`m probably already through the climacterium now, had several "guest periods" now and then, last year I had them every 15-16 days for

Laugh Fan
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That is awful. I feel for you - I'm so grateful that my mother at least allowed us to choose what we preferred. In the UK it's the lower rate at 5% and some supermarkets effectively scrapped that by covering the tax themselves. Still schoolgirls miss school because of their periods - these things should be free for anyone still in school at the very least.

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Jo Choto
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How is it possible in this day and age, with the internet, the media, the TV, a world full of information, for a grown, married man not to know how periods work. I don't care when he was born. I don't care about his access to sex ed. How can you live with a woman for presumably decades and not even know the basics? That's not an oversight. That's wilful and malicious ignorance based on misogyny.

Id row
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That is just insane. There needs to be a 30 minute mandatory instructional video of how the female body works, specifically geared towards men. There's men out there making laws that effect us and our bodies and their entire knowledge is based on what he's heard from his buddies, which is basically nothing. Our educational system is shameful at best and our politicians are an embarrassment.

Callie Ge
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My ex husband used to think that pms was a made up thing women used to get out of having sex.. The first time we went shopping together after we started living together. I put in my monthly essentials. When we got to the check out he got all squirmy, & said, why do you have to buy those when I'm here you should get them when you are alone, I shouldn't have to help pay for those. With my usual tact I said, you're f*****g kidding right? Why would I make a separate trip to the supermarket just to buy pads & tampons? His reply That stuff is private, they shouldn't even be sold here, no one wants to see that s**t. Me, What, 50% of the population shouldnt be able to buy them cheap & conveniently, where exactly should they be sold if not between the condoms & toilet paper in aisle 15? He had no answer for that.

Amy Loskota
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not to market the products - but as a general FYI - women around the world can buy reusable menstrual cups and pads, as well as underwear you can wear and reuse for periods. There are also DIY articles to make your own pads, like women have for generations before us. You don't have to pay a tax if you don't participate in the commercialization of periods. Most of the disposable ones don't ever work 75% of the time. The people who make them and sell them to women are capitalizing on the shame put on having periods and the general disgust people show for that kind of blood BY our less educated parents and role models but telling us we are not clean w/o disposables (which are just as bad as throwing a diaper into a landfill). We don't have to participate or use their badly made, overtaxed products.

Danielle Holder
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hundreds of millions of females around the world have NO access to any kind of feminine products. Even here in the US there are millions who have access but can't afford them. Reusable products also need to be sterilized, which again many have no access to do it, or places to rinse them out and put it back in. So NO, women around the world do NOT have access to those products.

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Lynn Noyes
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just curious, but why was this boss so familiar with what items were in the women's bathrooms. Did he hang out there a lot?

Honesty Olishia
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well he sees how much the company is paying for those things because he's the boss.

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Suzi Gauthier
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And this is not the first time I've heard of a man who thinks that, although I've heard some real ignorance among young women too about their own reproductive system. It's just sad.

Keuthonymos
Community Member
6 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Beside the relentless stupidity of her manager, which I agree he should be re-educated on the matter,. I am getting off topic with this next bit; what gets me is this argument of men not paying tax, at least in the UK, for their razors is ridiculous. Razors are taxed at 20% whereas tampons are taxed at 5%, the minimum tax the EU set out, not the UK. The ironic thing being, most of the people who voted stay in the EU are the one's who want this tax abolished. There are other options; the reusable 'moon cup' as disgusting an idea it is, is pretty much the equivalent to a mans electric razor. So, pay tax and be quiet until they abolish the tax for it (which I wholeheartedly agree with) or go the reusable route. but yes this girl should have ignored her manager and did her thing.

Random Panda
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In my country we learn that (and everything sex-related) in biology class. My teacher wanted us to know all the phases of the female monthly cycle by heart.

IWishIWasBob
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A dildo? Seriously?? Yes we choose to turn on our period so we can experience utter pain and a horrible mood to be “lazy”. Why tf would someone think that?? Gosh, if I had the choice I’d choose to NEVER start. Also, you shouldn’t have to have permission to go to the bathroom as a GROWN WOMAN. If he said no, I’d end the conversation and go to the restroom. If I get fired then I don’t think that’s to bad if I had a boss like that. Because 1) I do not want to stain my clothes 2) I do not want to smell and 3) I just don’t want people to know I’m on it at all

Time Itself
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Do they not teach sex ed or f*****g biology in school or something? Why are men going around getting married or just living in general without knowing this s**t?

Juta Isate
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Aren't you studying anatomy at school? The state of education in the USA is even worse than I thought.

Wreathy
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A long ago ex was confused that my period went on longer than a day. 'Um, how much blood do you actually think is involved?' 'Er, a teaspoon?' Oh, if only.

Misterscooter
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

These men are stupid. And likely, someone that raised them or taught them was stupid, too. It isn't that complicated to understand.

Nomadus Aureus
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And I thought I had it bad, when I had to explain STDs to my 36 year old, university lecturer ex........

Ruth Beaty
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I really cannot believe a grown a*s man thought this s**t! did his wife not educate him? Or was she too embarrassed to say anything? My dad knew 50 years ago! My husband sure as hell knew 40 years ago, and my boys know now. I just cannot believe this, and find it hysterically funny that there are some that still need education on this subject! Go to ladies and embarrass the hell out of them until they all get the idea.

James Grey
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow! Ignorance is no excuse for being stupid. People need to educate themselves. I'm so sorry for that guy's wife.

Little Menace
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To show the government that these aren't luxury items, women should choose a day where they just don't wear any hygiene products but still go about their lives on buses, in restaurants, at work etc. That would be a very gross but effective way to show that these things are essentials.

RockBottom
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This whole website is blatant social engineering. Are you all bind, are you bereft of reason?

Sheanna Caban
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I once had a boss ask if I could "just hold it." Like, it's not p**s, man. And, if I could, don't you think I would probably hold it, like, indefinitely? Jackass.

Taryn Wallace
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love my bf so much we have been together for almost 10 years and he grew up with 4 sisters yet he STILL asked me (about a month and a half ago) why I needed a tampon when we went swimming. Apparently he thought that when we got in the water it just stopped. He seemed genuinely confused when I explained that there was no way to stop the flow of blood and that even if I fully submerge my body in water I can still bleed. He was super sweet about it but it was baffling that a 32 year old man didn't know we couldn't control it.

Carmen Elena
Community Member
6 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

whaaaaat?! Many many men will never understand how our period is. That´s the truth. NO matter how many times someone explains this to them.

Brad Hill
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a man, I find this story amazing, and appalling at the same time. Just goes to show our best and brightest are not in our government, but what does that say about us who keep voting them in. On the point people make about sex ed, I agree it should be taught, but the issue many people have with sex ed today is the schools are teaching not just the basics, but a**l sex, homosexuality, and transgenderism that many Americans don't believe is necessary for a proper education about the sexes. Maybe if the cut out the unnecessary they would have time to properly explain the reproductive systems of both sexes.

Martha Meyer
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But there ARE homosexuals and transgenders sitting in these sex ed classes! You can't just choose to be heterosexual any more than women can choose when to have their period. So this information isn't unnecessary. It's helpful.

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Victor Manteca Hierro
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Honestly, this looks like some US "Bible Belt" issue. I cannot imagine any man I know being so ignorant about the matter, and I know some pretty thick minded guys. Damn, I grew in a catholic family and went to a catholic school, and still I know what period is and how it works since I was 8-y-o or so.

First Name
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't know anyone who is that uninformed nor have I ever been shamed for having my period.

Scott White
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What's with all the topics on BP about Lucifers waterfall recently?

John Smith
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6 years ago

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Your mom said tampons are dildos for the lonely.

William Teach
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6 years ago

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Quite frankly, this sounds like yet another story by someone who cannot prove it. In this day and age, any boss that is that stupid to say that stuff would have been fired long, long before. People just want to make themselves into Victims and get likes and have people telling them how great they are.

Nawww
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6 years ago

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What do I think? I think her story is b.s. Come ON; that is a prank story. And those who commented "oh yes, my [fill in the blank other person] said the same thing to me." I think they are full of b.s. too. People, don't be so trusting and willing to believe what total strangers attest to.

James Smith
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6 years ago

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This is almost as bad as women who think they can change their sex down at the doctors office.

Bob 2.0
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why did you bring that into this? I'll just assume you're trying to p**s people off and not make an actual point.

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Nevaeh Nicholas
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6 years ago

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Only then does the small 12 year old girl relize that she is dating a girl....and she is going to go through her period in a few days with out chocolate and has no pads or tampons....and her girlfriend will be there in the store, trying to get Tampons and pad, possibly some chocolate until she relizes that she dont have the money...then dad steps in and buys the sruff forgetting everything other then the chocolate and eats it infront of his daughter. Happens everytime

Bob 2.0
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Um, wow, nice story. What did that have to do with any of this? Pretty specific to happen "every time".

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Naomi Armitage
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6 years ago

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Please STOP blaming religion for everything. I don't know much about other religions, but I know the Bible mentions lady functions more than once, so if people are hung up on it, it's not the Bible's fault.

John Smith
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6 years ago

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Mommy, why are all women so weak? PMS darling, PMS.

Joseph Stewart
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6 years ago

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Funny when feminists post about how men are raping them with tampons because a man invented it.

Kiahna
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have NEVER seen anything like that on the internet. Where did you get that from?

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Trixster Million
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6 years ago

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Women CAN turn off their period at will, if they take birth control pills - skip the placebo pills. There has to be a downside to this, but no one has explained what it is yet. I have been period-free for years.

Biorysunki (Natalia)
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not all women can/want to use birth control pills. In the case of some health issues/diseases/beliefs it is impossible. Besides, hormonal contraception has many cons. For example, it increases the risk of thrombosis, which may eventually lead to pulmonary embolism or a stroke.

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