I work in A and E and frequently have people in alot of pain. I tell them to curse and swear as it's a great pain reliever. The more offensive the better and if they know any foreign obscenities at least I'm learning something new.

Ram something the size of a baby’s head up the doctor’s a**e. If you can get it all the way in without him swearing once, you owe him an apology. If not, he owes you one.

Yeah.... Dr is an unprofessional ahole. If the doctor has issues with his religion in his workplace he should find a new job. The patient is a patient for a reason. When I was in labour (no drugs) with my daughter, I told the midwife I couldn't do it. My husband held my hand and said, just think about holding that baby and I look him dead in the eyes and gritted out "I dont give a f*k about the baby". My midwife just smiled indulgently. She knew it was just the pain talking and not at all true. Baby was in my arms less than 5 minutes later.

From what I understand as a male, giving birth is 2nd only to being burned alive in regards to pain... any woman going through this procedure should get a free pass on swearing... and seriously folks, are we REALLY going to tell women they can't swear when giving birth? I sure as hell would be screaming every foul word in my lexicon if something like that was exiting my body for 30hours... if the doctor told my wife to watch her language during birth, both of us would cuss that MF'r out.

Lol no, he CAN go fûck himself.

Let the first man to give birth tell ya you need to apologize.

I do not understand why religious people get into the medical field just to deny people the best care, or medication they need. sure, maybe it's against your religion, but its not against mine, so get a new job and f**k off

I kicked a doctor in the face as they "examined" me without any warning, it was a reflex and 100% deserved. Would do again in the same situation.

“Using the lords name in vain,” is things like putting, “In God We Trust,” on money and saying, “Thank God for Donald Trump.”

Don't tell a woman what is appropriate to say during childbirth if you haven't experience that degree of pain. Actually the doctor was out of line: the guidelines say to leave the mother in her bubble so whatever the brain does during childbirth can work properly (and it definitely switch to a special program!). Talking to a birthing mother is disruptive, especially when there's no anaesthetic and the mother is experiencing the whole thing fully.

ABSOLUTELY NOT! Was either of them he the one to push a whole a*s human being out of their fucken body? No? Okay then NTA! You are allowed to swear, yell, cry, pass out, poop, sweat, yell at your husband, squeeze hands, speak like you're possessed & so much more WHEN YOURE LITERALLY GIVING BIRTH! Why do men think they're entitled to tell women how to act when all they do is stand there & make dumb comments like "give her an extra stitch for me" or "ouch you're squeezing my hand too hard" or my favorite.... passing out. N a doctor of all ppl should know that this isn't about him & his love for the lord. Like.. keep your religion out of my fine Birth room bro! I hate religion. All religion. But if you're someone who practices & doesn't try to recruit ppl or force ppl who don't practice to live by the rules of your religion when they're not even in your home then idc. You do you. But don't bring your god b******t to my birth room. Or you will be told to f**k off & worse

I’ve personally ordered a doctor to leave my room and never come back on more than one occasion. The first time I stood up for myself, the doctor had the nerve to tell me I rated my post op pain too high because if I was “really at an 8” I wouldn’t be able to talk to him. Told him who the hell was he to decide if I’m truly in pain and my baseline level is a 6 so I’m a bit more adapted to dealing with pain than the average patient. He called me a liar to my face and I then let profanities fly. Ordered him out, contacted my nurse and told her he would not be my doctor and to get my regular doctor in my room even if he wasn’t the on call. He came and took care of my needs and was appalled at how I had been treated. I was lucky I had a witness in my mild mannered husband. Even he was red with anger over it. Once out of the hospital I went straight to my doctors office and told them to note that the offending doctor is NEVER to come near me again. They were happy to help.

The doctor clearly needs to read up about giving birth and try pushing a 10 pound watermelon out his crack and see what he splutters as he does so. I bet he wouldn't be as fussy, nor quiet. I can recall asking if I could have someone who knew what they were fing doing during my labor.. to be fair the trainee anesthesiologist had fd up my epidural 10 times by that stage. On being introduced my son I told my husband to f off and leave me alone.

My first birth was very long and slow. My second birth was less than 3 hours. Needless to say, by the time I got to the hospital I was 9 cm’s and I couldn’t have an epidural. It was painful and the nurse asked me if I could give them a urine sample. While the baby is about to come out. I probably sounded like an open mic during a rap battle at the very least. My doctor let me go at it. The nurses took no offense. And the baby came healthy and strong. You don’t have much control over what comes out of your mouth during this time. But giving birth to my baby hurt less than my periods with my endometriosis. Hysterectomy was a great thing

NTA but the doctor is. Personally, I'd still apologize to the doc for lashing out but say that what he said was also completely inappropriate, especially for the situation. And then I'd switch doctors.

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The fact that she can remember this conversation from end stage labor, and remember that the doctor didn't say anything else after that - leads me to believe this is fake.