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Women Online Are Listing 26 Surprising Things They Didn’t Know About Men That men rarely ever receive compliments in their lives. I purposely go out of my way to express even the smallest compliments in case they haven’t heard one for a long time.

ThunderThief92 , Riley Kaminer Report

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378points

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Tamra 2 years ago

A lot of women won't compliment a man because they're worried their kindness will be mistaken for sexual interest. Which is a sorry situation for everyone.

500points

Women Online Are Listing 26 Surprising Things They Didn’t Know About Men That they suffer from gender stereotyping too.

debzmonkey , Mitch Barrie Report

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363points

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Stealthzilla 2 years ago

Thank you

146points

Women Online Are Listing 26 Surprising Things They Didn’t Know About Men That they are not criticizing women’s bodies as much as women are led to believe (maybe by themselves or whomever is driving this culture). They are far more acceptant of how women look like naturally than women themselves. This was such a game changer for me.

RedFox_SF , Ian Livesey Report

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361points

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Luke T 2 years ago

Well, growing up in a southern country town here in the U.S. A lot of my female friends never wore makeup and were more interested in shooting sports. They were always the most beautiful when they were just doing what they wanted and not focusing on their appearance. We had beauty pagents and stuff, high school girls that were obsessed with looks and all, but I never saw the appeal of that. They looked much better natural with the confidence that they were more than their appearance.

184points

Women Online Are Listing 26 Surprising Things They Didn’t Know About Men Most men don’t actually know how to fix things. They just pull it apart and put it back together again and hope for the best.

lurkyturkyducken , _ubik_ Report

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354points

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Hypoxia Smurf 2 years ago

Fix-it-ability, like any other skill, requires training. It's not instinctual.

156points

Women Online Are Listing 26 Surprising Things They Didn’t Know About Men At my first job, I used to work mostly with women, then switched to IT and now it’s mostly men. I was surprised to learn that guys don’t hold a grudge as much as the women I worked with did. We’d have an argument on Friday, I was worked up about it all weekend and worried how it would affect our future relationship, then come Monday and boom…nothing. They genuinely seemed like they let it go. It’s a pretty sweet thing.

tigreturbo , Masa Israel Journey Report

Final score:

339points

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Hugh Cookson 2 years ago

Most times it's easier just to let it go ..... No drama. Failing that a good fist fight solves most petty squabbles.

136points

Women Online Are Listing 26 Surprising Things They Didn’t Know About Men That they want to be loved as badly as we do and they’re also mushy gushy

crasstyfartman , freestocks.org Report

Final score:

338points

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Doctor Strange 2 years ago

I make no secret about this. My greatest dream has always been to have someone to share my life with.

158points

raemontune , Les Chatfield Follow Report

Women Online Are Listing 26 Surprising Things They Didn’t Know About Men You guys can sit there and think about nothing

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323points

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Yourname942 2 years ago

Literally just enjoying existence in the moment

144points

PeachymooGaming , Casey Muir-Taylor Report

Women Online Are Listing 26 Surprising Things They Didn’t Know About Men Not surprising but i’m shocked that some women genuinely don’t think men suffer from mental health problems. I’ve heard “he’s lazy” or “he expects the woman to do everything” when 60% of the time it’s just him being depressed as s**t.

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302points

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DennyS (denzoren) 2 years ago

I can confirm. Sometimes you just don't want to get out of bed or do something because you just can't.

122points

Away-Caterpillar-176 , Nenad Stojkovic Report

#10

Women Online Are Listing 26 Surprising Things They Didn’t Know About Men The fact that men really are physically stronger. I always assumed this was purely based on size but I'm a woman who works out every day (lifts weights, yoga, jogging/peloton.) My older brother doesn't exercise outside of an occasional hike. He's 4inches taller than me and 10 lbs lighter than I am (I'm a dress size 0 or 2.) He's faster than me on a hike (including backpacking) and can lift up heavier things. It makes me SO angry.

Final score:

301points

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Dubs_1117 2 years ago

Men physically have more muscle cells.

147points

#11

Women Online Are Listing 26 Surprising Things They Didn’t Know About Men That most men don’t care that your stomach isn’t flat.

chocotacogato Report

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294points

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Hugh Cookson 2 years ago

Yup.

95points

nodontgetheavy , Cristian Ungureanu Report

#12

Women Online Are Listing 26 Surprising Things They Didn’t Know About Men When they say they don't know why they feel a certain way they ACTUALLY don't know. I find it crazy and I couldn't trust it the first times.

Final score:

282points

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Con O Cuinn 2 years ago

Well we're told to "man up" or whatever from such a young age, it's not even not knowing why we feel a certain way. It's not even understanding what we're feeling.

164points

#13

Women Online Are Listing 26 Surprising Things They Didn’t Know About Men That if you show them exactly how much you appreciate them they are more likely to be motivated to complete a task than if you nag them.

Odd_Responsibility62 , bluesbby Report

Final score:

252points

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zak 2 years ago

I would think this applies to all people, not just men? 🤷🏼‍♂️

225points

#14

Women Online Are Listing 26 Surprising Things They Didn’t Know About Men They only pretend to not like gentle affection. Lay your head in my lap and let me pet you you know you like it you fall asleep within minutes.

Odd-Professor-8233 , marneejill Report

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245points

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Donkey boi 2 years ago

We're like dogs really! We'd like nothing more than to curl up on the sofa, head on your lap, and get stroked while we doze.

148points

#15

Women Online Are Listing 26 Surprising Things They Didn’t Know About Men that they have a whole set of unsaid rules about where to pee in public bathrooms

LunaXD854 , Taber Andrew Bain Report

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228points

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Donkey boi 2 years ago

And somehow, we are all born with the knowledge of these rules.

131points

Dutch Swimmer Goes Viral For Super Revealing Trunks During 2024 Olympics: “Is This Legal?”

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#16

Women Online Are Listing 26 Surprising Things They Didn’t Know About Men I am constantly floored by how little some men know about their close friends’ lives! I know multiple men who speak to their best friends super regularly, but could not say with certainty if they’re single, what kind of work they do/where they work, etc. I don’t understand it at all, but I just keep meeting men like this.

suavislupa7 , Tony Alter Report

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225points

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Frando Bone 2 years ago

Because if they wanted us to know, they'd tell us.

131points

#17

Women Online Are Listing 26 Surprising Things They Didn’t Know About Men Some actually want a real relationship and not just f**k

Anxious_Dimension5 , mrhayata Report

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196points

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Hugh Cookson 2 years ago

Actually, most of us chaps who managed to get to being a grown up (at whatever age) want precisely that, some of us are actually an ickle bit romantic too x

102points

#18

Women Online Are Listing 26 Surprising Things They Didn’t Know About Men That 80% of the time they concretely mean exactly what they say, which is why only 20% of the time they understand what I’m saying.

Wild-Wild-West- , 1Day Review Report

Final score:

191points

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Arcady Royzen 2 years ago

So, knowing this, why wouldn't you (a woman) say what you mean? why play games? why want them to read your mind? why getting pissed at them for something you saw in your sleep? And after all, complain about not having proper communication... This is not always the case, but i have seen it over and over between many couples

95points

#19

Women Online Are Listing 26 Surprising Things They Didn’t Know About Men They like being the little spoon too.

avirusa , Wilson Lau Report

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188points

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kitten levels tokyo 2 years ago

I have no idea what this person is talking about.

43points

Woman Put A Water Fountain With A Camera In Her Yard, Here Are 24 Photos Of Regular Visitors (New Pics)

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“Ma’am I Live Here”: Woman Refuses To Back Out Of Driveway, Learns A Lesson The Hard Way

#20

Women Online Are Listing 26 Surprising Things They Didn’t Know About Men when they wake up, they just sit down and stare at nothing for a good 5 minutes...

gmailthemes , Tony Alter Report

Final score:

184points

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love u 2 years ago

Doesn't everyone do this? 😅

140points

#21

Women Online Are Listing 26 Surprising Things They Didn’t Know About Men That when a guy is invested in a girl they are oblivious to other flirting women.

When my husband and I were still dating I saw women hitting on him so bad and he not realizing these women were hitting on him was jaw dropping.

Me: what do those 2 girls wanted? (All dresse up with drinks in their hand)

Edit2: girls were all smiling, giggling and doing the hair thing. And I kept an eye on those 2... they did not go to the restroom after talking to him.

My husband: they wanted to know where the bathrooms were.

Me: dude, these women knew where the bathrooms are, they just wanted to make small talk with you.

My husband: nah, i told the the bathrooms were over there.

Me: 🤯

Envy0711 , Wyatt Fisher Report

Final score:

176points

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Con O Cuinn 2 years ago

He was being nice. He realises. And it's weird, because the minute you're in a relationship as a guy, it seems women start throwing themselves at you. Whether it's because without the nerves of chatting up you notice signals more, or that being in a relationship makes you more attractive to women, I really have no idea.

110points

#22

Women Online Are Listing 26 Surprising Things They Didn’t Know About Men You guys really can love and be faithful

Considering the environment I grew up, that’s surprising

cupcakesz_ , Phil Dolby Report

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160points

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DennyS (denzoren) 2 years ago

We can, more than we're given credit for actually lol (I do acknowledge however that it's not all of us).

54points

50 Of The Most Incredible Shots That Were Submitted To The Comedy Wildlife Photography Awards

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#23

Women Online Are Listing 26 Surprising Things They Didn’t Know About Men Men like things that women seem to be insecure about

bnnybby0 , bluesbby Report

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140points

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kitten levels tokyo 2 years ago

The man in the photo is leading the woman up to the edge of an erupting volcano. We do that stuff all the time.

76points

#24

Women Online Are Listing 26 Surprising Things They Didn’t Know About Men how much they touch you

my boyfriend won’t let me sit away from him when we’re together (long distance pain :,) and he’d be touching me in some way- hand on my leg, twisting my hair with his fingers, holding my wrist while he scrolls on his phone or looming over my shoulders while I eat and on. I find it funny when while standing he absent-mindedly holds my waist instead of keeping his hand on his xD

flipsidebook , Wyatt Fisher Report

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133points

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Aroace tiger (she/they/he) 2 years ago

I honestly would love this-

78points

Adventurous-Owl2363 , Natasha Chub-Afanasyeva Report

#25

Women Online Are Listing 26 Surprising Things They Didn’t Know About Men Sometimes its good to just "fade out" you know. Let the brain go on autopilot and not think about anything "important".

Final score:

127points

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Hypoxia Smurf 2 years ago

ProTip: take heed of surroundings -- do not stumble over walkway obstructions.

56points

thathorsegamingguy , Darren Foreman Report

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Women Online Are Listing 26 Surprising Things They Didn’t Know About Men It took me way too long to notice public bathrooms don't keep toilet paper near urinals and the implications of that scar me to this day.

Final score:

123points

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Justin Jones 2 years ago

Um... that's what "The Shake" is for.

124points

Josh Carpenter 2 years ago

Ugh, those last 3 drops... No matter how you shake it, they're hanging on and waiting till everything's back in your pants

39points

Finn 2 years ago

Saw this somewhere else on BP but you can't shake more than 2 time otherwise your playing with yourself?

13points

Kristie French 2 years ago

If you shake it more than twice….

7points

Austin Frank 2 years ago

I believe that's why men instinctually shake the gas pump as well.

6points

Susie Elle 2 years ago

I wish it wasn't, though.

6points

Jes.the.Mess 2 years ago (edited)

Shaking a va-jay-jay doesn't really work. That's why not using toilet paper seems so horrifying to us

4points

3 Owls In A Coat 2 years ago

I am currently vacationing in Thailand. Brought a pack of toilet paper because many of the bathrooms just have bidets and no toilet paper (and I have no idea how to dry off after a bidet so - toilet paper!) my male friend that I’m travelling with did not bring toilet paper because he just does “the shake” 😅 seems obvious but I just learned this when I asked “where tf is your toilet paper?” (I don’t wanna know how he’s handles pooping so I haven’t asked hahaha)

4points

Ian B 2 years ago

No matter how much you wiggle or how much you dance, the last drop ends up in your pants.

4points

ryan_needs_a_life 2 years ago

Exactly

2points

P. Mozzani 2 years ago

"The Shake" doesn't cut it. There is no guarantee that all dribbles are shaken off. It's about cleanliness.

1point

Inmate 24601 2 years ago

You ever see us at a gas station and we shake the handle after the tank fills up? That's not accidental, that's years and years of practice.

1point

RajunCajun 2 years ago

shake, you don't twist it? like ringing out a towel..... I will let myself out.

1point

Charles Whitaker 1 year ago

The shake works great, until somewhere between 45 and 50. Then you can shake it until even you think you're playing with it, but still get a leak. :(

0points

Najhiah Hall 2 years ago

Um not everyone knows this

0points

Madeleine Willemse 2 years ago

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0points

Samira Peri 2 years ago

Shaking is gross and unhygienic.

-2points

kitten levels tokyo 2 years ago

How long has this woman been going into men’s bathrooms, which is the only place urinals are located?

11points

Calane E. Vanya 2 years ago

I noticed long ago that nobody kicks me out of the men's bathroom if I just quickly make my business (ofc in the stall). It's unbelievable useful if there's long queue to women's bathroom.

14points

Feșăn 2 years ago

You can see that when you pass by the bathroom and the door is open

1point

Ashi Mari 2 years ago

Maybe a custodian?

0points

TheHalloweenTeen 2 years ago

Maybe it's a unisex bathroom? Portable restroom?

0points

Luna Crow 2 years ago

Restrooms shouldn't be gender segregated anyway.

0points

DJR 2 years ago

Places like gas stations that only have one bathroom will have a urinal in a room authorized for women.

0points

JB 2 years ago

No matter how you shake/or how you dance/the last few drops/are in your pants

9points

Finn 2 years ago

Exactly!!

2points

Richard Henderson 2 years ago

It’s pretty hard to make the paper go down the urinal after using it.

4points

Hypoxia Smurf 2 years ago

So siddown on the toilet, spew any liquids and semi-solid masses, and wipe off. See, it's easy.

4points

Lyone Fein 2 years ago

Yeah, it's gross.

4points

Frando Bone 2 years ago

lots of natural bodily functions are gross.

10points

BG 2 years ago

That sphincter is at the base. No amount of shaking gets those drops out of the urethra. there's gonna be drippage.

3points

Keith B (Toby) 2 years ago

Wait until you hit 70. That bottom sphincter never really fully closes. You can shake until you're 80 and it's still gonna drip. Just can't talk myself into using panty liners. WTF happens if I wake up in the ER. I'd never be able to look any doctor or nurse in the eye again.

1point

Howard Shubs 2 years ago

You should have seen some of the older urinals. Circles where everyone pees looking at each other, troughs, others.

3points

Cassi Lyris 2 years ago

Well, they're not supposed to dribble all over themselves. Girls don't have to either, for that matter, we're just taught not to touch ourselves. Meanwhile guys are taught two shakes are fine, but three is just playing by 4.

2points

James Derry 2 years ago

And 75% of them do not wash their hands afterwards. Then go back to their meal in the restaurant. Maybe touch your cheek in an affectionate way.

2points

Mihai Fox 2 years ago (edited)

Wash before or after, never both

0points

Christos Arvanitis 2 years ago

"No matter how you shake and dance, the last few drops get in your pants" -author unknown (but likely a man)

2points

BoredPandaSucks 2 years ago

or sometimes your sock....you can use your own imagination to put that to a catchy rhyme.

4points

Ashi Mari 2 years ago

Once I discovered my little cousin had no idea you were supposed to wash your hands after peeing and I was never the same after that

1point

Merlin Oddog 2 years ago

What man wipes his penis with toilet paper?

1point

Angel Mist 2 years ago

That's why they "flick the bic".

1point

Deth Invictus 2 years ago

I hate urinals.

1point

ConfusedCub 2 years ago

Especially those 'all the way to the floorx ones. Mai gawd what a disgusting mess, I'll use a stall.

0points

Michal Mánert 1 year ago

This is why women send men to clean their junk during one night stands if they plan to do anything without a condom. Unless its the heat of the moment kind of situation.

0points

Elizabeth Butler 1 year ago

Many men do not seem to realize why women need way more TP than they do.

0points

gen101394 2 years ago

This is why my dad carries wet wipes. Even when there is toilet paper it doesn't feel like it gets everything.

0points

J L 2 years ago

You can't flush em in the urinals anyway, it'll just clog it up! Lol!

0points

Zach Thompson 2 years ago

Normal

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Duncan 2 years ago

Why would there be paper at an urinal?

0points

Graham Hackett 2 years ago

We don't pee from our a*s.

0points

Mimi M 2 years ago

I have read that (if a man wants), he can press the last few drops out by pressing along the length till the base near the tip. But it was also said that they don't want to do this in front of others. Personally, I'd pee in the stall so I can press out last drops and use toilet paper too. It would not be okay with me to have pee stains and smell in my underwear and pants all day.

0points

IamMe 2 years ago

Hold on a minute. Don't guys just shake it off?

0points

Josh David Whitmore 2 years ago

Played music on the road, and the best little sign I ever saw in a men's room was tacked up about 4 feet above the urinal and it said, "Niiiiiice pee pee...."

0points

Mr. C ò.ó 2 years ago

You really don't need it tbh

0points

Rostit . 2 years ago

Why would I have tp when I pee? Does this op know how men pee?

0points

Matias Marczak 2 years ago

I grew up not knowing I could/should use toilet paper after number one, when I found out about it it was a game changer. No more last drops on my pants, that a good advice for hygiene.

0points

rodger coghlan 2 years ago

Just look at the floor near a urinal - sometimes I wonder it was a good idea to teach us to stand and pee

0points

Channo Sagara 2 years ago

I'm asian. Most urinals has that little pipe on the middle that you can use to wash the head. If they don't, we wet our hand before going to the urinal.

0points

Gary Harkins 2 years ago

Umm ya because you don't s**t in a urinal. It's pretty simple explanation actually

0points

HoRace 2 years ago

I worked at a department store in college. After some remodeling, we had a grand reopening. I was the only guy working, all the rest were women. I got called to Customer Service because they needed to guy to scoop the poop out of a urinal!

0points

Helmut Kok 2 years ago

Shake it off, I shake it off I, I, I shake it off, I shake it off I, I, I shake it off, I shake it off

0points

Surfing Panda 2 years ago

"We just shake it off, shake it off..." Ask Taylor Swift... she knows.

0points

No Name 2 years ago

That’s why, as a man, I never use urinals. Disgusting

0points

HARRY KOPPERS 2 years ago

'shake it twice to clear the bore. Shake it thrice you sin some more.'

0points

SlightlyTarnished 2 years ago

It's just pee, and dries fast, so, there.....

0points

John Bujold 2 years ago

Shake and wash

0points

Tim 2 years ago

They'll clog the urinals. But yeah, it's not clean.

0points

Kikadin 2 years ago

0points

Justin Rogers 2 years ago

We shake, women stomp or cough

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Kyndal T 2 years ago

I learned something! Men prefer oval shaped toilets over round so they have somewhere to put their dangly bits! I had no clue round toilets caused squishing before we bought a new toilet. Husband hasn't shut up about how much roomier it is. Might have something to do with how hilarious the convos get though!

30points

Ashley Williams 2 years ago

Dangly bits! 😂😂

12points

Deborah Harris2 2 years ago

Is Bored Panda part of the Reddit Company? I've also seen shared posts on the Chive Nation from here too and Vice Versa. Are all media outlets merging? It's so boring seeing the same posts on different media platforms ...

13points

censorshipsucks 2 years ago

they copypaste off reddit. I prefer it here because reddit is really hard to follow with the indents and indents...

22points

Memere 2 years ago

All of the BP "listicles" like this are pulled from reddit, twitter, facebook, etc. If you want to see other types of posts, look under the categories at the top of the page, there's plenty of other stuff to scroll through!

5points

tuzdayschild 2 years ago

The solution to this problem? Pick one and only read that one. Easy peasy. I'm a natural born make it simple kinda girl.

4points

Mr. Vash 2 years ago

It's just copy paste.

3points

Ace Girl 2 years ago

I concur with the frustration of how men are so often naturally physically gifted. I also lift weights, work out, do strong girl things, but can't hold a candle compared to even skinny dudes! It's really annoying. I can still win arm wrestling contests against my 9yo son but I know even those days are numbered!

12points

Cookie 2 years ago

This is why transwomen beat women in sports but you will never see a transman even make it into the men's team.

5points

Frando Bone 2 years ago

As much as i like this article, none of it is new info LOL. upvote anyway

8points

Duke Ferris 2 years ago

Ay other men out there dislike for women to wear high heels? Or just not care? You couldn't design a dumber, barely functional shoe. Yet I get told all the time how men love them, but I have always suspected it is more of a competition among women.

4points

William Smith 2 years ago

Personally, I hate high heels. The clacking sound they make sends a chill up my spine.

2points

Jorts Valjorts 2 years ago (edited)

Ok hon - you started by asking men if they dislike high heels. That question is irrelevant to any man who doesn't WEAR high heels. Yeah, son - it's not very progressive to verify your point by asking men what they think, and then applying that to what women should do - and then gaslight women by suggesting that they're doing it to themselves for the benefit of other women. I suspect you're trying, though. Adapt. But boy - you ain't got this yet.

1point

Cookie 2 years ago

I (a woman) wandered over to the men's section of the shoe shop and the sandals were sooo wide, flat and comfortable.

1point

UpQuarkDownQuark 2 years ago

It’s nice to see more mention of men being able to be emotionally honest and loving. I know that growing up in the 80s as someone who wore their emotions on their sleeve, who liked tenderness, and who eschewed violence and braggadocio I was often ridiculed my most other boys, most men, and quite a few girls, too, as a “wimp” “p***y” f*****t” etc. I think this is changing, and men are more and more allowed to be fully realized human beings, not just stifled bags of anger and frustration. I see more and more men that are much more masculine than me, with typical “manly” interests, that can freely express themselves with their partners, their children and their animals. I love seeing some big ol’ bearded biker doting on his little Frenchie in a doggie sweater! That WOULD NOT have happened 40 years ago!

3points

William Smith 2 years ago

"men are more and more allowed to be fully realized human beings." Well...not by women.

-1point

Luna Crow 2 years ago

It was quite refreshing to read a post about things women learned about men, after seeing so many vice versa. I'd say we need more of these, but really a lot of the items in either apply to humans in general, not necessarily by gender

3points

Jorts Valjorts 2 years ago

Nonsense. You're gonna give a medal to Bored Panda for asking about the experience of being male in a male-dominated world? While we're at it, let's ask Sauron about the trials of being an omniscient force of malevolence in a world he has made in his own image. Stop acting like the oppressor's story is as compelling as that of the people they oppress.

-3points

Arachnid 2 years ago

where is the mention of the nods??

2points

Yvonne Dauwalder Balsiger 2 years ago

And another round of stereotypes and general assumptions, this time about men. Come on, people are super different, men are much more diverse than the hypothetical "average man". The average man or the average woman does not exist IRL. You really need to look at the person before you.

2points

XenoMurph 2 years ago

True, but a lot of these are true for a huge majority of blokes, so I don't feel stereotyped.

2points

Mimi M 2 years ago

I like this post that is not about how toxic, scary and dangerous men are. Yes, 'some' men are, but so are 'some' women.

1point

Jennifer Biness 2 years ago

Yeah, none of this is surprising, y'all just live in your own little worlds, don't you? The only thing that is surprising (though I've heard it many times), is the whole "not thinking about anything" thing, I just can't wrap my head around that. Like I already have heard about it a ton, so the fact that it's a thing for guys isn't surprising, but the ability to do that is surprising, I just can't see it

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Jorts Valjorts 2 years ago

Sorry - what is this for? To cuddle up to the "unseen" trials that men experience? Honey, yall boys got nobody to blame but the patriarchy. THIS IS WHAT WE'RE SAYING. Capitalism, colonialism, slavery - the psychology of these things CANNOT EXIST without the psychology of the patriarchy - the notion that some humans are made for success, while others are made for servitude. It's a lot easier to see a tribe of people as "less than" when you've already made that distinction in your own wife. Barbarism begins at home, kids. You don't like it? Cede power. We're not making these requirements of you. Nobody relates to the "hero" who faces no hardship. If you want anyone to sing when you're winning, they have to see how you behave when you lose. I really don't want to hear about the "unseen" troubles of men when we live in a world where the #1 killer of women is femicide. We are not equal, as men have made abundantly clear. Neither are men's struggles equal to those of the women they dominate.

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Oscar Turing 1 year ago (edited)

So when a woman says on TV that women are unfit to be President, who would be at fault for that? If it's her, that would mean women DO contribute to preservation of the patriarchy. I can easily imagine someone saying, "She was indoctrinated by the patriarchy!" Fair enough, but why is indoctrination only a valid excuse for women? Have men NOT been indoctrinated by the patriarchy? Isn't criticizing men for a bad thing and then tolerating the same bad thing from women kind of like holding women to a LOWER standard than men?

0points

Stephanie Peryton 2 years ago

Its pretty tiring to see these kinds of articles.

-2points

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Kyndal T 2 years ago

30points

Ashley Williams 2 years ago

Dangly bits! 😂😂

12points

Deborah Harris2 2 years ago

13points

censorshipsucks 2 years ago

they copypaste off reddit. I prefer it here because reddit is really hard to follow with the indents and indents...

22points

Memere 2 years ago

5points

tuzdayschild 2 years ago

The solution to this problem? Pick one and only read that one. Easy peasy. I'm a natural born make it simple kinda girl.

4points

Mr. Vash 2 years ago

It's just copy paste.

3points

Ace Girl 2 years ago

12points

Cookie 2 years ago

This is why transwomen beat women in sports but you will never see a transman even make it into the men's team.

5points

Frando Bone 2 years ago

As much as i like this article, none of it is new info LOL. upvote anyway

8points

Duke Ferris 2 years ago

4points

William Smith 2 years ago

Personally, I hate high heels. The clacking sound they make sends a chill up my spine.

2points

Jorts Valjorts 2 years ago (edited)

1point

Cookie 2 years ago

I (a woman) wandered over to the men's section of the shoe shop and the sandals were sooo wide, flat and comfortable.

1point

UpQuarkDownQuark 2 years ago

3points

William Smith 2 years ago

"men are more and more allowed to be fully realized human beings." Well...not by women.

-1point

Luna Crow 2 years ago

3points

Jorts Valjorts 2 years ago

-3points

Arachnid 2 years ago

where is the mention of the nods??

2points

Yvonne Dauwalder Balsiger 2 years ago

2points

XenoMurph 2 years ago

True, but a lot of these are true for a huge majority of blokes, so I don't feel stereotyped.

2points

Mimi M 2 years ago

I like this post that is not about how toxic, scary and dangerous men are. Yes, 'some' men are, but so are 'some' women.

1point

Jennifer Biness 2 years ago

0points

Jorts Valjorts 2 years ago

-1point

Oscar Turing 1 year ago (edited)

0points