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Mom Arrested For Letting 10-Year-Old Son Walk Alone, Community Raises Over $55k To Help Her
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Mom Arrested For Letting 10-Year-Old Son Walk Alone, Community Raises Over $55k To Help Her

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Brittany Patterson, a mother from Georgia, USA, was arrested on October 30 for reckless conduct after her 10-year-old son, Soren, was found walking alone less than a mile (approximately 1.6 kilometers) from their home. Authorities claimed the child was endangered, but Patterson argued the short walk was safe. The case sparked community support, with over $55,000 raised for her legal defense.

Highlights
  • Brittany Patterson arrested for letting son walk less than a mile alone.
  • Over $55,000 raised for Patterson's legal defense by community.
  • Patterson was arrested despite no Georgia law against kids walking alone.

Patterson was arrested for allowing her 11-year-old son to walk less than a mile into a small town, The Daily Mail reported on Monday (November 18).

The 41-year-old was charged with reckless conduct on October 30 after her youngest son, Soren, was reportedly spotted walking less than a mile from their home.

Soren was reportedly walking alongside the road in downtown Mineral Bluff, a town of just 370 people, when a woman asked him if he was OK.

Brittany Patterson, a mother from Georgia, USA, was arrested on October 30 for reckless conduct 

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Despite Soren stating that he was doing fine, the woman called the police. Fannin County Sheriff’s Deputies subsequently drove Soren to his home, before arresting Patterson.

Bodycam footage showed Patterson asking why she was under arrest and the deputy responding: “For reckless endangerment.”

The mother-of-four could be heard replying: “And how was I recklessly endangering my child?” to which another deputy responded: “We’re not talking about it.”

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She was arrested after her 10-year-old son, Soren, was found walking alone less than a mile (approximately 1.6 kilometers) from their home

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Patterson went on to say: “Last time I checked, it wasn’t illegal for a kid to walk to the store.” A deputy replied: “It is when they’re 10 years old.”

At the time of the incident, Soren was 10 years old; he is now aged 11.

In the state of Georgia, there is no specific law prohibiting a 10-year-old from walking alone. However, parents and guardians are responsible for ensuring a child’s safety and could face charges under Georgia’s reckless conduct laws (O.C.G.A. §16-5-60) if their actions or omissions are deemed to endanger the child’s safety, Justia Law explains.

Authorities claimed the child was endangered, but Patterson argued the short walk was safe

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This includes situations where leaving a child unsupervised results in a “substantial and unjustifiable risk” to their physical well-being, which could lead to legal consequences like a misdemeanor charge, as per Criminal & DUI Law of Georgia.

Nevertheless, Patterson was arrested by deputies after the female witness reported “a juvenile in the roadway” who had gone into and left a nearby Dollar General store, ABC News reported on Friday (November 15).

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Patterson’s arrest warrant reportedly claimed she “willingly and knowingly did endanger the bodily safety of her juvenile son.”

Patterson told ABC News on Friday that she had been annoyed Soren didn’t tell her where he was going, but didn’t think he was in any danger.

She said: “I wasn’t panicking or concerned because it’s just a short walk from our house. He knows how to get home.”

The case sparked community support, with over $55,000 raised for her legal defense

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The mom’s lawyer, David Delugas, questioned the charge his client is facing, stating: “Our criminal justice system is built on the fact that you did something or you were negligent. 

“You did something criminally negligent. So what is it she did?”

Authorities said they would drop the charge against Patterson if she signed a safety plan that involved the use of a GPS tracker on her son’s phone, but Patterson refused to sign it, ABC News reported.

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She said: “I just felt like I couldn’t sign that and that in doing so, would be agreeing that there was something unsafe about my home or something unsafe about my parental decisions and I just don’t believe that.”

Patterson is currently out on bail, but she faces up to one year in jail with the reckless conduct charge.

She has consequently received significant support from her community, which has raised $55,260, as of Tuesday (November 19) on GoFundMe, to help cover her legal expenses.

“Kids walk to and from bus stops further than this,” a reader exclaimed

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  • Free-Range Parent POV: Believes in fostering independence in children and criticized the overreach of authorities.

  • Child Safety Advocate POV: Argues that child safety must come first and authorities acted correctly in this case.

  • Libertarian POV: Sees the arrest as government overreach, undermining parental rights and decision-making.

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Kylie
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2 weeks ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is beyond pathetic. As someone else said different times (but bad stuff still happened), BUT my friends and I roamed far and wide from home when we were his age (and younger) and the only rule was be home by dark. Where were these people when kids were very obviously being abused in their own homes but no-one cared?

tori Ohno
Community Member
2 weeks ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But that's just it. Times have changed, but nothing else has. Child abductions and other bad things haven't grown, we only think they have because of the Internet and how it lets us see everything, not just what's in our backyard.

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Maxi
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm sorry but here in Germany children are allowed to walk alone when they are 6 years old??!!

Yvonne Dauwalder Balsiger
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

*Confused European shrug* What? Why? In Switzerland, 4-5 years old kids walk to Kindergarten on their own and her area is apparently safe as well

Bart
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Exactly, Haute-Nendaz, Wallis, and my 6y old walks almost 3km to grandma's in summer.

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RAM31280
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I used to go off on my bike more than a half mile away from my house when I was that age, I know times have changed, but really that much where a kid can't go to a store on his own anymore?

Roland Nijveld
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Me and my friends were on the other side of town on our bikes at that age. Like atleast 20 mins of cycling away

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Tams21
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is ludicrous, the average ten-year-old is more than capable walking that distance themselves.

Hobby Hopper
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The only way there is any justification at all in the way the cops handled this is if this is an *exceptionally* dangerous area. Otherwise, it's just beyond ridiculous. God, they would have had a field day with me when I was a kid. I was walking and biking further than that to school every day when I was 8. This is just a power trip on the part of these cops, and they need to be let go. Otherwise they're just going to harass someone else for no damn reason.

Janelle Collard
Community Member
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Right? If there were crack houses or brothels all along that strip of road, I could see everyone having a hissy fit. But nobody's around? Totally ludacris. Small town cops with little to do. :(

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Trillian
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My 8 year old walks to school and has done so for two years now. How are kids supposed to learn?

Kylie
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Exactly. My younger grandson was too far from school to be able to ride the bus so he walked.

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Bernd Herbert
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ah yes, the Land of the free strikes again! Remind me, how is it you guys have more freedom than we in Europe? This is ridiculous

Floeckchen
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I,don't know why you got downvoted. The US is constantly falling on the freedom index and it will fall even further the next four years. But,some of the freedoms the US has over europe are: Putting dangerous or deadly substances into food, unrestricted gun ownership, telling unconstitutional lies without restrictions...

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Mrs.C
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If his school was a mile from his home and the road was safe, there would be no bus service to and from school for him leaving him to walk. This is an absolute overreach! I don't blame this mother for refusing to sign the "safety plan."

Bart
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hahaha, my 6y old daughter walks about 2 miles to her grandmother's place in summer when the weather is nice. But off course I don't live in the land of the free...

sturmwesen
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

at that age I walked the main road 2-3 km to school every day...what the heck.

Will Cable
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Below the age on 10 I was walking over a mile to school. This seems insane that she has been arrested

RP
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And yet parents are allowed to deny their children an education, use corporeal punishment aka beat their child, marry them off as young as 13 in some states, and leave them unprotected against deadly disease by not vaccinating because...'freedom' and 'parents right' FFS

Jane No Dough
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And force them to work in whatever family business they're running, from "influencing" to running Amazon deliveries from the car to your door!

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meeeeeeeeeeee
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She's lucky the police didn't murder her since they love doing that. Soon, kids under 18 won't be allowed outside without an escort and next the women won't be allowed out without a man's permission and then the child bearing women will be rounded up and dressed in red and given to commanders as slaves

FloC
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Maybe the police should make sure that it is safe to walk instead of arresting people who let their kids walk.

ZGutr
Community Member
2 weeks ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Had this been 'normal' practice then most Europeans would be have served at least 4 years before the kid reached age of 10

that one guy
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Me and my friends used to bike over 10 miles out of the city to the local mountain bike park, nobody cared, we would bike to the gas station and buy food, nobody cared, we went to creeks, nobody cared, so long as our phones were on us.

Kamal Hasan
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

From walking the neighborhood to sparking a national debate, Brittany Patterson’s story is a modern-day David and Goliath. Who knew a mile could make such a journey, raising not just questions about parenting and freedom, but also $55k in community support!

KatSaidWhat
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

These are small town cops with not enough to do. Get him a scooter.

Child of the Stars
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The only reason my kids don't walk to school (which is just over a half mile) alone is because they have to cross 4 extremely busy streets and one particularly dangerous intersection.

Hobby Hopper
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Reasonable. We as parents all have to make decisions based on our specific circumstances. Somehow I don't think intersections are an issue in Blue Ridge Georgia, population 370.

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Max Fox
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love how Republicans keep on complaining that the Democrats are the ones who are running a "Nanny State" and "snowflakes". This is a deep red part of Georgia, and is as conservative as any place in the USA.

Nils Skirnir
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Interesting that the areas most likely to impede on freedoms are the ultra right wing areas

pep Ito
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

At that age I walked alone to school, which was 1.2 km away. Sometimes with friends from the neighborhood who went to the same school. I never had any problems

Leg less In Minneapolis
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I was a kid we would travel miles from on foot and bicycle and there was no way to track us at all. Although this could have gone worse for the family. The Mom could have been black or brown and they would have just S H O T and K I L L E D her in front of her son. This country has so jumped the shark

Surly Scot
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So glad i'm leaving America, all logic has gone out the window.

Comment Deleted
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is beyond insane. My child walked to and from school every day. He came home for lunch alone at 11 years old and retuned to school . Nothing ever happened. People need to mind their own business. There are children who died from child abuse where no one in the community spoke up. But a kid decided to walk to a store and some idiot makes the families life hell.

StrangeOne
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I walked to school and to daycare on my own at that age. I was at home by myself for about an hour when my mom got home from work at 10. My daughter walked to school on her own at that age, too. Never would have occurred to me there's anything wrong with that. Heck, I was walking to the store by myself in grade 3, as it was just a few doors down and around the corner. My mom followed me to make sure I was safe. But that was when I was in grade 3. So about 8 or 9 years old. There were bad people around, too. Lots of dangers with traffic and kidnappers. We were taught what to do in dangerous situations. No one bothered to call CFS unless there was some serious, major problems. Kids are in more danger with being on their phones and the internet all the time.

🇺🇦 PrincessPatton 🇺🇦
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Are you kidding?! In my country in the EU, it's normal for kids this old to be out on their own. They go out together, to the cinema, to a friend's house... we know their routines and their friends, but there's no need for them to have an adult on their a*s all the time. And even much younger kids walk to and from school by themselves, even on public transportation to another town (we don't have special school buses, public transportation works great).

Bob Brooce
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was in Kindergarten during the Cuban missile crisis, and one day we had a drill and were supposed to run home as fast as we could. It was a bit shy of 1/2 mile, but this was a government policy that came from high up in the school district administration, and perhaps the (small) town government or even the county.

Fred L.
Community Member
2 weeks ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Kids would be much safer e.g. with sensible gun laws or sufficient driving lesson requirements but obviously we don't have time for reasonable solutions. And it is not government overreach, while the police work here seems suboptimal they don't make the laws or the mindsets, it is a cultural issue.

tori Ohno
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had a key to the house when I was 10. I would get off the bus, go home, and even get a simple dinner started. Usually turning the oven on and putting a chicken in. Then came cartoons, play, and homework. No wonder college kids don't know how to turn a washing machine on. They're being babied and coddled. Children are capable and intelligent, they can do so much more than what the government idiots nowadays think. I'm glad I chose not to have any, I'd get arrested or CPS called for daring to let my child chop broccoli, GASP, with a REAL knife.

Cee Cee
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I used to wander around in the African bush looking for bird feathers and pretty stones. Back here in England we used to roam far and wide on the downs in Wiltshire.

Brian Long
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

are you f*****g kidding me??? our parents had to idea where we were. just be home when the street lights cam on was the only rule. F*****g Karen tell her to mind her own god damn f*****g business

Boo
Community Member
2 weeks ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

FFS! When I was 11 or 12, I used to cycle MILES every day during summer vacation. We lived in the middle of nowhere (rural Michigan) and we didn't have mobile phones back then, so our parents never knew where we were. When my girls were growing up, once they hit secondary school, they walked to and from school themselves (a huge city of around 3 million people). How much of a busy-body do you need to be to report this to police?? My god woman, get a fücking life!

Winter
Community Member
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You have to be kidding me! A country that makes NO effort whatsoever to enact enforceable gun control to protect children at school, deems it a felony to allow a fit and healthy 10 year old to walk to the nearest store, approximately one mile away! Americans, you're *BARMY*!

Mikah
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have to wonder if there's more to this story. Maybe it's like the "free-range" kid story from years back. I know the kids that were involved in that, and though I never saw it in any reports, I can say that the boy was a real a-hole. The kids weren't simply walking alone nicely, they were running in the streets, acting up, and causing lots of trouble with the neighbors.

Earonn -
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"OUR CHILDREN GET TOO FAT!" "WHY ARE YOU WALKING MORE THAN 10 METRES. ARREST THE MOTHER!!!"

Canadadreams
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No one knows what a mother would know about her child. The woman who reported her should be arrested. She created the unnecessary drama by overreacting. Tht stupid woman should have minded her own business… crazy woman

John Nelson
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was walking to school and into town to run errands for my mom at 5. I was woodsrunnig, hunting and fishing by myself before 10, too. Just had to be home before dark. Usually was home for dinner though! lol

Damned_Cat
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm glad this wasn't a law when my young friends and I rode our bikes for miles with no particular destination in mind.

Bremusa4u
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If these were a law in our county, then every parent of a child living within a 2 miles radius from school would be arrested. No bussing to school if children live 2 or less miles from school.

Orysha
Community Member
2 weeks ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Cops harassing people instead of protecting them..nothing new here. What's the real reason beheingd her arrest : she doesn't want to date a cop, she believes in abortion or women's rights? That sounds like harassment.I would sue their dirty as.ses back.

Sarah Matsoukis
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The way we roamed around when we were little, as long as we got home when the street lights turned on

Kerry Fletcher
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think safety is key. If he has a phone and a tracker as well and mom is checking in? Probably ok. My nephew started at 12. I also never went to the store at ten by myself. I think that's too young

Lynchamigsakta
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why not just arm 10 year olds with guns if it's so unsafe to walk to the store 🙄

Sian E
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My 10 year old nephew walked home from school today, about the same distance. And the school is absolutely fine with this. He's a smart and sensible person, my sister wouldn't let him do it if she thought for one moment that he couldn't do it safely. If a child can show maturity and it's a safe area to do so, give a bit of independence.

jade s
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This whole story is ridiculous. She left him at home with his Grandad, 10year olds are perfectly capable of walking to the shop on their own, surely arresting the mum left both kids on their own for a prolonged amount of time, but also what is the money gonna do? Why throw a go fund me at this. She just needs a pro bono lawyer.

iseefractals
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Terrible, but not surprising. The result of nearly 40 years of overly involved, and perpetually terrified mothers, and yes it is specifically MOTHERS, who won't be happy until the world is wrapped in bubble wrap and no one in society is permitted access to anything they've determined to be inappropriate for their children specifically. They constantly exude concern, while never actually taking responsibility for their own children. The fact that you've failed so completely as a parent that your 10 year old child can't manage get around their town unassisted without the looming threat that they'd drown in a puddle, doesn't mean the rest of the society needs to limit themselves and their children to the baseline of your incompetence.

arthbach
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2 weeks ago

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There's a few key points to take into consideration. How fast is the traffic travelling? Is there a pavement/sidewalk? Is it common for pedestrians to use walking this street? Are there safe places to cross the road? If it's common for people to be out walking on a pavement, and the traffic is below 25-30 miles per hour, then the action the police have taken is ridiculous. If the traffic is fast, and pedestrians are uncommon, then yes, it is dangerous.

Kylie
Community Member
2 weeks ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is beyond pathetic. As someone else said different times (but bad stuff still happened), BUT my friends and I roamed far and wide from home when we were his age (and younger) and the only rule was be home by dark. Where were these people when kids were very obviously being abused in their own homes but no-one cared?

tori Ohno
Community Member
2 weeks ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But that's just it. Times have changed, but nothing else has. Child abductions and other bad things haven't grown, we only think they have because of the Internet and how it lets us see everything, not just what's in our backyard.

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Maxi
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm sorry but here in Germany children are allowed to walk alone when they are 6 years old??!!

Yvonne Dauwalder Balsiger
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

*Confused European shrug* What? Why? In Switzerland, 4-5 years old kids walk to Kindergarten on their own and her area is apparently safe as well

Bart
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Exactly, Haute-Nendaz, Wallis, and my 6y old walks almost 3km to grandma's in summer.

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RAM31280
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I used to go off on my bike more than a half mile away from my house when I was that age, I know times have changed, but really that much where a kid can't go to a store on his own anymore?

Roland Nijveld
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Me and my friends were on the other side of town on our bikes at that age. Like atleast 20 mins of cycling away

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Tams21
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is ludicrous, the average ten-year-old is more than capable walking that distance themselves.

Hobby Hopper
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The only way there is any justification at all in the way the cops handled this is if this is an *exceptionally* dangerous area. Otherwise, it's just beyond ridiculous. God, they would have had a field day with me when I was a kid. I was walking and biking further than that to school every day when I was 8. This is just a power trip on the part of these cops, and they need to be let go. Otherwise they're just going to harass someone else for no damn reason.

Janelle Collard
Community Member
Premium
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Right? If there were crack houses or brothels all along that strip of road, I could see everyone having a hissy fit. But nobody's around? Totally ludacris. Small town cops with little to do. :(

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Trillian
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My 8 year old walks to school and has done so for two years now. How are kids supposed to learn?

Kylie
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Exactly. My younger grandson was too far from school to be able to ride the bus so he walked.

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Bernd Herbert
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ah yes, the Land of the free strikes again! Remind me, how is it you guys have more freedom than we in Europe? This is ridiculous

Floeckchen
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I,don't know why you got downvoted. The US is constantly falling on the freedom index and it will fall even further the next four years. But,some of the freedoms the US has over europe are: Putting dangerous or deadly substances into food, unrestricted gun ownership, telling unconstitutional lies without restrictions...

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Mrs.C
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If his school was a mile from his home and the road was safe, there would be no bus service to and from school for him leaving him to walk. This is an absolute overreach! I don't blame this mother for refusing to sign the "safety plan."

Bart
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hahaha, my 6y old daughter walks about 2 miles to her grandmother's place in summer when the weather is nice. But off course I don't live in the land of the free...

sturmwesen
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

at that age I walked the main road 2-3 km to school every day...what the heck.

Will Cable
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Below the age on 10 I was walking over a mile to school. This seems insane that she has been arrested

RP
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And yet parents are allowed to deny their children an education, use corporeal punishment aka beat their child, marry them off as young as 13 in some states, and leave them unprotected against deadly disease by not vaccinating because...'freedom' and 'parents right' FFS

Jane No Dough
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And force them to work in whatever family business they're running, from "influencing" to running Amazon deliveries from the car to your door!

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meeeeeeeeeeee
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She's lucky the police didn't murder her since they love doing that. Soon, kids under 18 won't be allowed outside without an escort and next the women won't be allowed out without a man's permission and then the child bearing women will be rounded up and dressed in red and given to commanders as slaves

FloC
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Maybe the police should make sure that it is safe to walk instead of arresting people who let their kids walk.

ZGutr
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2 weeks ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Had this been 'normal' practice then most Europeans would be have served at least 4 years before the kid reached age of 10

that one guy
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Me and my friends used to bike over 10 miles out of the city to the local mountain bike park, nobody cared, we would bike to the gas station and buy food, nobody cared, we went to creeks, nobody cared, so long as our phones were on us.

Kamal Hasan
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

From walking the neighborhood to sparking a national debate, Brittany Patterson’s story is a modern-day David and Goliath. Who knew a mile could make such a journey, raising not just questions about parenting and freedom, but also $55k in community support!

KatSaidWhat
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

These are small town cops with not enough to do. Get him a scooter.

Child of the Stars
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The only reason my kids don't walk to school (which is just over a half mile) alone is because they have to cross 4 extremely busy streets and one particularly dangerous intersection.

Hobby Hopper
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Reasonable. We as parents all have to make decisions based on our specific circumstances. Somehow I don't think intersections are an issue in Blue Ridge Georgia, population 370.

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Max Fox
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love how Republicans keep on complaining that the Democrats are the ones who are running a "Nanny State" and "snowflakes". This is a deep red part of Georgia, and is as conservative as any place in the USA.

Nils Skirnir
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Interesting that the areas most likely to impede on freedoms are the ultra right wing areas

pep Ito
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

At that age I walked alone to school, which was 1.2 km away. Sometimes with friends from the neighborhood who went to the same school. I never had any problems

Leg less In Minneapolis
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I was a kid we would travel miles from on foot and bicycle and there was no way to track us at all. Although this could have gone worse for the family. The Mom could have been black or brown and they would have just S H O T and K I L L E D her in front of her son. This country has so jumped the shark

Surly Scot
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So glad i'm leaving America, all logic has gone out the window.

Comment Deleted
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is beyond insane. My child walked to and from school every day. He came home for lunch alone at 11 years old and retuned to school . Nothing ever happened. People need to mind their own business. There are children who died from child abuse where no one in the community spoke up. But a kid decided to walk to a store and some idiot makes the families life hell.

StrangeOne
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I walked to school and to daycare on my own at that age. I was at home by myself for about an hour when my mom got home from work at 10. My daughter walked to school on her own at that age, too. Never would have occurred to me there's anything wrong with that. Heck, I was walking to the store by myself in grade 3, as it was just a few doors down and around the corner. My mom followed me to make sure I was safe. But that was when I was in grade 3. So about 8 or 9 years old. There were bad people around, too. Lots of dangers with traffic and kidnappers. We were taught what to do in dangerous situations. No one bothered to call CFS unless there was some serious, major problems. Kids are in more danger with being on their phones and the internet all the time.

🇺🇦 PrincessPatton 🇺🇦
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Are you kidding?! In my country in the EU, it's normal for kids this old to be out on their own. They go out together, to the cinema, to a friend's house... we know their routines and their friends, but there's no need for them to have an adult on their a*s all the time. And even much younger kids walk to and from school by themselves, even on public transportation to another town (we don't have special school buses, public transportation works great).

Bob Brooce
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was in Kindergarten during the Cuban missile crisis, and one day we had a drill and were supposed to run home as fast as we could. It was a bit shy of 1/2 mile, but this was a government policy that came from high up in the school district administration, and perhaps the (small) town government or even the county.

Fred L.
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2 weeks ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Kids would be much safer e.g. with sensible gun laws or sufficient driving lesson requirements but obviously we don't have time for reasonable solutions. And it is not government overreach, while the police work here seems suboptimal they don't make the laws or the mindsets, it is a cultural issue.

tori Ohno
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had a key to the house when I was 10. I would get off the bus, go home, and even get a simple dinner started. Usually turning the oven on and putting a chicken in. Then came cartoons, play, and homework. No wonder college kids don't know how to turn a washing machine on. They're being babied and coddled. Children are capable and intelligent, they can do so much more than what the government idiots nowadays think. I'm glad I chose not to have any, I'd get arrested or CPS called for daring to let my child chop broccoli, GASP, with a REAL knife.

Cee Cee
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I used to wander around in the African bush looking for bird feathers and pretty stones. Back here in England we used to roam far and wide on the downs in Wiltshire.

Brian Long
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

are you f*****g kidding me??? our parents had to idea where we were. just be home when the street lights cam on was the only rule. F*****g Karen tell her to mind her own god damn f*****g business

Boo
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2 weeks ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

FFS! When I was 11 or 12, I used to cycle MILES every day during summer vacation. We lived in the middle of nowhere (rural Michigan) and we didn't have mobile phones back then, so our parents never knew where we were. When my girls were growing up, once they hit secondary school, they walked to and from school themselves (a huge city of around 3 million people). How much of a busy-body do you need to be to report this to police?? My god woman, get a fücking life!

Winter
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You have to be kidding me! A country that makes NO effort whatsoever to enact enforceable gun control to protect children at school, deems it a felony to allow a fit and healthy 10 year old to walk to the nearest store, approximately one mile away! Americans, you're *BARMY*!

Mikah
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have to wonder if there's more to this story. Maybe it's like the "free-range" kid story from years back. I know the kids that were involved in that, and though I never saw it in any reports, I can say that the boy was a real a-hole. The kids weren't simply walking alone nicely, they were running in the streets, acting up, and causing lots of trouble with the neighbors.

Earonn -
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"OUR CHILDREN GET TOO FAT!" "WHY ARE YOU WALKING MORE THAN 10 METRES. ARREST THE MOTHER!!!"

Canadadreams
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No one knows what a mother would know about her child. The woman who reported her should be arrested. She created the unnecessary drama by overreacting. Tht stupid woman should have minded her own business… crazy woman

John Nelson
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was walking to school and into town to run errands for my mom at 5. I was woodsrunnig, hunting and fishing by myself before 10, too. Just had to be home before dark. Usually was home for dinner though! lol

Damned_Cat
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm glad this wasn't a law when my young friends and I rode our bikes for miles with no particular destination in mind.

Bremusa4u
Community Member
1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If these were a law in our county, then every parent of a child living within a 2 miles radius from school would be arrested. No bussing to school if children live 2 or less miles from school.

Orysha
Community Member
2 weeks ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Cops harassing people instead of protecting them..nothing new here. What's the real reason beheingd her arrest : she doesn't want to date a cop, she believes in abortion or women's rights? That sounds like harassment.I would sue their dirty as.ses back.

Sarah Matsoukis
Community Member
2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The way we roamed around when we were little, as long as we got home when the street lights turned on

Kerry Fletcher
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think safety is key. If he has a phone and a tracker as well and mom is checking in? Probably ok. My nephew started at 12. I also never went to the store at ten by myself. I think that's too young

Lynchamigsakta
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why not just arm 10 year olds with guns if it's so unsafe to walk to the store 🙄

Sian E
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My 10 year old nephew walked home from school today, about the same distance. And the school is absolutely fine with this. He's a smart and sensible person, my sister wouldn't let him do it if she thought for one moment that he couldn't do it safely. If a child can show maturity and it's a safe area to do so, give a bit of independence.

jade s
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This whole story is ridiculous. She left him at home with his Grandad, 10year olds are perfectly capable of walking to the shop on their own, surely arresting the mum left both kids on their own for a prolonged amount of time, but also what is the money gonna do? Why throw a go fund me at this. She just needs a pro bono lawyer.

iseefractals
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2 weeks ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Terrible, but not surprising. The result of nearly 40 years of overly involved, and perpetually terrified mothers, and yes it is specifically MOTHERS, who won't be happy until the world is wrapped in bubble wrap and no one in society is permitted access to anything they've determined to be inappropriate for their children specifically. They constantly exude concern, while never actually taking responsibility for their own children. The fact that you've failed so completely as a parent that your 10 year old child can't manage get around their town unassisted without the looming threat that they'd drown in a puddle, doesn't mean the rest of the society needs to limit themselves and their children to the baseline of your incompetence.

arthbach
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2 weeks ago

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There's a few key points to take into consideration. How fast is the traffic travelling? Is there a pavement/sidewalk? Is it common for pedestrians to use walking this street? Are there safe places to cross the road? If it's common for people to be out walking on a pavement, and the traffic is below 25-30 miles per hour, then the action the police have taken is ridiculous. If the traffic is fast, and pedestrians are uncommon, then yes, it is dangerous.

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