Bad person in a nutshell

I don’t understand how a bad person, throwing quotes from the Bible or contradicts what they say verses what they do , and is ok with it

I think most people in the comments have never seen the pictures of dogs who were friendly towards Hitler

And when somebody was traumatised in their childhood by an animal and then is scared of them, so animals feel this negative emotion and don't like this somebody. Unfair.

Nonsense.

This one i disagree with, animals dont like me but im not a bad person nor do i hurt anybody... :( i love animals they just dont like me very much.

This one's ridiculous, there could be any number of reasons an animal doesn't like someone and it's not always something someone can help.

That soley depends on the individual animal, there are some that may like the person and some may just dislike them for whatever reason.

My Eskimo loved EVERYONE, aside from one of my sister's exes. He knew before the rest of us the guy was abusive.

Animals sense it.

Depends on animal---rats don't generally like anybody

Totally!!

That may be pushing it.

animals that i don't enjoy being around LOVE ME and I hate it lol

Animals can sense things we don't always pick up on. I trust their judgement

We used to have a cat that LOVED to hang out with all humans that hated cats. Every time my horrible, mean aunt came over who hated animals, he was crawling all over her. It was amazing to see her squirm. I miss that little idiot furball. But not a great cat for this kind of red flag detection.

I will trust my cat's opinion of a person far more than I'll trust a person's opinion of my cat.

First thing I look for when meeting someone new.

like my yaya

MAY ALL WHO LITTERS PILLOWS BE EVER WARM,AND MAY THEY ALWAYS TRIP ON THEIR WAY DOWN THE STAIRS!!!

I don't put it away to protect peoples cars, I do it to be nice to the employees who have to go round up the carts

Or don't vaccinate.

Being rude to anyone is a d*ck move, but being rude to someone who literally is not allowed to walk away from you is in a category by itself.

I'm in an office building next to a large apartment, and their are loads of people who take their dogs over to our parking lot to poo and then don't pick it up. I have started calling out, "Can you please pick up after your dog?" A lot of times they shrug and say, "I forgot a bag." So I have a roll of plastic bags and I make sure I have one in my pocket for them!

A person stepped on my dog's foot once while walking him. Total accident, you know how they can get under foot. It was a bad step tho and the dog was bleeding. "I didn't do that" the person said immediately, next to irrefutable evidence he did. Even though it was an accident, they couldn't admit they had done it. They're not in my life anymore. The dog was fine after a few days!

Oh,you can be sure they're talking about you too.

Or they only interact with you when they need a favor but exclude you from other parts of their life yet claim they are a friend.

They are incapable of paying anyone a compliment or taking pleasure in anyone else's success. There was a woman I used to work with, and if someone got promoted, it wasn't "congratulations" it was "Do you really think you're up to the additional responsibility?" If someone got engaged, it was "well I hope he doesn't mind having a working wife." She could never, ever pay a simple straightforward compliment, it was always twisted into spiteful criticism.

I’m not racist, I just hate people………

"It was a joke" is the lame-a*s excuse of every bully on the planet. It's never a joke. It's just bullying.

Sounds like my mom tbh

I have never met a person who told me they are a good person who actually was a good person. If you are a good person you do good and can tell about what you did. If you can't tell me about the good you actually did but still feel the urge to tell me that you are such a great person, I really doubt that's true

I told a woman I was having Prostate problems. she said "I had mine out years ago" Nice trick lady !

Indeed. This is my sister's mantra and she treats her friends and loved ones very poorly a lot of the time.

:::::cough:::: mother

The problem is that people love to claim that they have no filter or are only telling the truth when they're going out of their way to say really hurtful things. If you say: I really don't like that dress, the blue one looks so much better on you, that's something I'd accept as having no filter, you are too fat for this dress, the blue ones is hiding you better is just being a glassbowl

It’s a different scenario when it’s done to them though

I don't think I do the 'silent treatment', but there are times I tell whoever I'm in an argument with (usually my SO) I need to not talk to them for a little while because I don't want to say anything I'll regret. Is that the same thing?

I’ve experienced this in the workplace as… “Your opinion doesn’t count because you haven’t worked here long enough.” Soooo… my 20 years of experience suddenly doesn’t matter because they didn’t occur HERE? Yet I was hired HERE because of my experience.

People with social anxiety can tend to talk a lot to cover their nervousness. I wouldn't say this is necessarily a sign of narcissism...it's when they express NO interest in or are dismissive of what others say that's a bigger flag.

This is all my dad except the last one. Bro really can't give me a break💀

I'm blunt and would never say anything behind your back that I wouldn't say to your face, but I'm careful what I'm blunt about. I would rather go out of my way not to hurt someone's feelings. Even if it means I get hurt instead.

For me it often goes hand in hand with "I only do this because I love you" to excuse any kind of hurtful behavior.

I’m going to explain this from my personal perspective (and that may mean some down votes)… I never set out to hold something against someone. Mistakes happen. All of us make errors in judgment. I’m no exception. I’ve ended up hurting people and I should’ve made better choices. However, for me… if I find myself unable to “let something go”… and I ruminate on it… it’s because I’m not getting what I need from the other person who “harmed” me. For example… a colleague once incorrectly “corrected” me in front of a group of other colleagues. I knew he was wrong. Later, he apologized, but in private. He never corrected his mistake in front of our other colleagues… AND THAT’S WHAT I NEEDED FOR HIM TO DO, in order to feel better about the situation. This happened 10 years ago. I’ve never brought it up. BUT… I’ve also never forgotten about it. My advice is to ask others, “What do you need from me in order to let this go? How can I make it right?”

For me that depends on why they lie. I do accept white lies that are truly protecting people. Like telling a child that their pictures are pretty even though they look like the dog ran over the paper with dirt on their paws. Or a birde being immensely enamored with her dress, just loving it obviously, then telling her she's beautiful even when the dress looks like last years dishrag. Or telling me my cooking is divine when we both already know I forgot the salt. But if it's just done for their own convenience, it's definitely something that would destroy my trust. I believed for two decades that my mom loved hyacinth. I bought her hyacinth every spring, wanting to give her something nice. Eventually I found out that she willfully killed every hyacinth I ever gave me, lying to me about several incidents and whining how much she loved it, because in reality she hated those plants. I was furious. She made me waste a lot of money I didn't have at that time, directly throwing it away.

I had the best math teacher I've ever had quit in high school because of the other students being so rude to him. I was heartbroken!

An a*s hole.

Honestly, I do stuff like this with my friends in a joking manner. I don't know if that counts but it might

I used to have a friend who's thankfully not in my life anymore. They were always like "I never lie" or "I hate people who lie". Almost a year after I switched schools, they texted from their mom's number saying they overdosed/slit her wrists and commited you know what. A day later, I find out they were lying and blocked them on everything. Honestly, I don't need that kind of person in my life. They made me change myself a lot more than I was comfortable with. Moral of the story, get these kinds of people out of your life. You'll do much better.

“If you run into an arsehole in the morning, you ran into an arsehole. If you run into arseholes all day, you're the arsehole.”