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We humans are curious creatures, and what we say or do doesn't always seem rational. At least not on the surface. So Reddit user Fastenbauer got interested in digging a little deeper—they asked people online to share the things that everybody knows but nobody talks about out loud. And their post quickly went viral! Continue scrolling to check out the unspoken truths folks keep quiet, whether out of fear of judgment or the risk of offending others.

#1

People Share 30 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Say Out Loud When people betray or abuse you, they know what they're doing. They're doing it on purpose, and they're not sorry. They're consciously making a choice.

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#2

People Share 30 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Say Out Loud Money absolutely matters.

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Ellinor
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Money would solve 70% of my problems, and I could pay a therapist to help me with the last 30%

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#3

People Share 30 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Say Out Loud Having mentally sane parents is one of the most important privileges in life, yet it isn't talked about nearly as much as race, class etc.

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Pervinca
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would say that having good, hard-working parents is even more important and crucial that having rich parents. The right mentality can make you go a long way

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#5

People Share 30 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Say Out Loud People who get paid the least do most the work.

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Donna Peluda
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In Business this is called the hooker paradox, the better you do your job, more people want to f**k you

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#6

People Share 30 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Say Out Loud There actually *are* people above the law.

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Tamra
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In the US, if you have enough money and influence, you absolutely can be above the law. In fact, we currently have a man who's been convicted of multiple felonies and not only is he still walking around free, but his sentencing was kindly delayed so he could run for president.

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#7

People Share 30 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Say Out Loud Looks do matter, and they matter a lot.

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PeepPeep the duck
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah sadly they do, I look very normal / plain when I go out make up free but done up Im very pretty (made a living out of it) , and I like to take notice of the bias in people depending on my look. I used to go further in art school and mix up my old goth look into it too. Turns out no matter what ‘clique’ you dress for, there’s always gonna be haters, but lots of love too ❤️

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#10

People Share 30 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Say Out Loud That religion is a social construct, where you are born largely determines your religion. If you happened to be born in India there is over an 80% chance you will be Hindu. If you are born in the US you probably will be a Christian.

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Lucifer
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Religion should be like underwear. If it fits you, wear it. Don't force others to wear it & don't let your behind hang out of it for others to see....

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#11

People Share 30 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Say Out Loud Children that are complete a******s exist.

The parents know.

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#12

People Share 30 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Say Out Loud Some friendships only last as long as they're convenient or beneficial.

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Ali H M Salehuddin
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1 week ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Unpopular opinion. I kinda like it that way anyway. Why would you want to maintain contact with your high school friends who are now so far removed from your life? Sure, if you somehow run into one another, a little chat over coffee is welcomed. But to keep your life story updated, organizing yearly re-unions and whatnots - naah!

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#13

The amount of Government incompetance and wastefulness in many countries is staggering. And the only reason I'm not a libertarian is that I don't trust private enterprise either. History has shown time and time again that companies big and small will absolutely f**k over people given half a chance and especially if there are no laws and regulations.

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Sand Ers
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Private enterprise devotes an enormous amount of time and money working at having as few laws and regulations as possible. It is worse than government. Government may be inept, but it’s usually fairly benign. Private enterprise is sociopathic and greedy.

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#14

People Share 30 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Say Out Loud Most newborn babies are ugly on the first day. 🤣.

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Child of the Stars
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love my kids, but I'll be the first to admit that they both looked like a cross between frogs and an old man for the first 3 months or so.

Freya the Wanderer
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Somewhere in my family is a picture of either my aunt or my uncle when just hours old. The wee bairn looks like a prize fighter!

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Amelia Jade
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I guess I'm the odd one out because I disagree. I was a doula for several years and got to be present when many babies entered the world. I genuinely found them all so cute. It was such a privilege to snuggle brand new babies on the regular. The one in the pic above? Adorable.

Upstaged75
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No one looks good after being squeezed through a small opening. ;)

Blondie23
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My daughter was actually really pretty the first couple of weeks... then she got a bit gremlin like for about a month and then back to pretty... it was weird. But yeah... not all babies are pretty!

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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

my son looked pretty fugly the first day, but by the second he looked like a Gerber baby.. he's still a strikingly handsome boy, which is weird since neither his father nor I are that attractive.. lol

Philly Bob
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1 week ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Parents and friends: "OMG! It's a boy! Who does he resemble?" Me: Well, if Mr Potato head created a bloody football looking lump, you could say...

Brian Droste
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have seen new borns or a few months old babies and people will say isn't she or he cute, and I am thinking no, it isn't cute.

Cornelia Banski
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But the MIL shouldn't be the one to point it out to the new mother. It destroyed the already tense relationship between my mother and her MIL completely.

PismoBob
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This sounds like something that Robert Heinline would have written.

Surgichick
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh God yes.. except some of the C-sections babies that weren't squished

Littlemiss
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yep my son resembled a plucked broiler chicken. My friend was horrified at my comment. He was 5.5 pounds, scrawny, deathly pale and my most beloved, adored, and wonderful baby.

MonicaChicagoGal
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I dunno maybe I was predijust but I thought mine was a lil wrinkled cutie 🥰

Marilyn Holt
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well--the poor kid has spent nine months squished up in a sac of warm salty water then squeezed through a tube headfirst into a brightly lit room. No chance to do his hair or wash up.

Cool crow
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And yet we love them anyway! I guess looks don't matter after all.

Rae Reyn
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My older two kids came out looking like some unholy combination of Danny Devito and Tommy Lee Jones. My youngest looked like a renaissance cherub. Third times the charm, I guess.

Lou Cam
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Cute/ugly though like a featherless baby bird. Cute just seems to be the lable our brains put on things we know we need to or want to look after.

BookFanatic
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I know someone whose kids both looked like they'd been made out of a cross between raw dough and a potato. Privately, I called them the "World's Ugliest Babies." They...ah...did not improve with age.

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#15

People Share 30 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Say Out Loud Some People don't apologize because they have remorse for what they did. They apologize because they think it will end the conflict.

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#16

People Share 30 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Say Out Loud I shouldn’t have to ask “how are you” in a work email. It should be ok for me to just talk business and get straight to the point. .

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#17

People Share 30 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Say Out Loud Nobody’s actually read the Terms and Conditions, like ever. We just scroll to the bottom, hit accept, and hope we didn’t sell our souls to some tech overlord. 😂.

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Fat Harry (Oi / You)
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That one guy did, and discovered a clause about winning $1000 if you were the first person to contact the company about the clause!

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#18

People aren’t equal. I don’t mean by race. Racism is nonsense.

Some people are good looking nice smart and athletic and had the right upbringing. They got it all . Some people have nothing going for them.

Not even equal before the law.

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#19

People Share 30 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Say Out Loud That we are all certain to die and be completely forgotten within a handful of generations.

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#20

People often pretend to be happy when they're not.

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#21

People Share 30 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Say Out Loud We are all just kids walking around in grown up bodies.

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Kombatbunni
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’m 50 and I still feel like I’m stuck in my teens mentally sometimes. As someone once said to me, I may grow old, but I will never grow up :D

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#22

Consumer capitalism is destroying our habitat super quickly and with every passing day we make it worse.

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Júlia Fortes
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

there's an author in my country that says that "Only when the last tree is cut down, the last fish is caught, the last river is polluted, will people realize that they cannot eat money", i wish more people would listen to what he has to say

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#23

People Share 30 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Say Out Loud Everybody knows that success often comes from luck and timing, but we rarely admit it. We prefer to believe it's all hard work and talent.

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María Hermida
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We don't "prefer to believe..." We are fed that lie so that we work like slaves to make a few people rich instead of admitting the system is against us and we'll just survive paycheck to paycheck forever. We are closer to being homeless than rich. Any misfortune can make you destitute, however hard you've worked.

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#24

People Share 30 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Say Out Loud That being alive at all and conscious is just really, really weird.

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Freya the Wanderer
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That the Universe even exists is really, really weird. Where did all this come from? No invoking a creator deity, because you're just kicking the can down the road - where did that deity come from?

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#25

Most people spend their time complaining about things out of their control rather than fixing things in their control.

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#27

People Share 30 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Say Out Loud Most meetings could easily be an email, but no one wants to admit it because 'face time' somehow still feels important.

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Umberto Cavallaro
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Often speaking to each other in person resolves issues more quickly than a Q&A via email

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#28

Gambling is a sucker’s game. Unless you make it a career (and in some cases even then), you will lose more than you win in the long run.

As long as you recognize that and you are willing to “spend” the money for entertainment purposes, more power to you. But if you think gambling is a good money-making idea, think again.

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Donna Peluda
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1 week ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I work in the gaming industry. The amount of people I hear that make a living, professional poker played etc. All BS. The pros you see on TV are sponsored but the on-line gaming platforms. That's how the make a living. Poker at best is a game where you can apply strategy the same way you can in monopoly ludo or parchís. But at the end of the day it's a game of chance.

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#29

Most of the gay scene (from an LGBT perspective) is extremely toxic and ironically closed minded and judgmental of any outsiders (i.e. straights).

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Clown fish
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1 week ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've seen them be judgemental of more, than straight people

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#30

People Share 30 Things That Are True, But No One Wants To Say Out Loud How disturbing the food industry is. How pigs, fish, cows, chickens are all harvested so we can eat them. How can we not expect aliens to do the same s**t to us if that’s what we do to our fellow earth inhabitants.

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