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Dating is tricky. You want to be yourself, but also impress the person; have a fun time without appearing aloof. Hold an interesting and meaningful conversation but not go too deep and bore them. A sprinkle of romance doesn't hurt too.

It's a delicate balance and to make matters worse, you have to find it with a person you don't know that well. So, not surprisingly, sometimes we go a little too far. And while nobody is safe from crossing the line, one Twitter user was interested in hearing how men do it.

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A few days ago, @sohosatan asked everyone to share what was it that guys did on a date that seemed really weird, and got plenty of replies. 2,172 to be exact. Here are some of the most memorable ones.

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digitalin
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yay! I was reading thinking "...but that sounds nice...?" So glad for a happy story.

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We often use the word "creepy" to caution our friends about people to avoid. "Watch out for him," we warn a person we care about, "he's a total creep." But what, exactly, makes someone seem that way?

According to a study published in New Ideas in Psychology — the first-ever empirical study of "creepiness," its authors say — analyzed the perspectives of 1,029 women and 312 men with an average age of 29 to determine the most common markers of a "creepy" individual.

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Amaranthim Talon
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Did Bored Panda get a crossed circuit or something? They used to censor every damn thing- even stupid s**t (See - trying to see if it works) But the person I am responding to has a User name of Oh go eff off?

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Ally MacMann
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's kind of funny but it I would also have huge problem with it. Fish in an aquarium don't really do anything but swim and that makes him angry... I shudder to think what else makes him angry.

Kross T.
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To be fair, he didn't specify aquarium fish, just fish. It probably would have been a bit more difficult to take her scuba diving on a first date tho.

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Ann Coffman
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And then we ate dinner at Long John's Silver's! Take THAT, you stupid fish!

Paul Davis
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well it's better to be up front that is what he is looking for in a life partner. So were you on board with the whole fish-hate thing? Are you guys today burning crosses on fishes lawns?

blue genes
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Word on the street is that they've been spotted at more than one whit(ing) power rally.

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Id row
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Did you make sure he knew how stupid you thought he was?

Flopsy
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I came back after reading the rest of the entries. I would marry this guy immediately!

Susanne B
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wouldn't want to marry someone who hated a whole family of species. What else does he hate?

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Leoninus Fate
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I feel like this dude did this as a bet {like see how fast you can make the date leave} or they did the date for someone else to get them off there back but they didn't really want to do it and was hopping you would just leave

April Stephens
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's either that or his ex broke up with him after a long relationship when they couldn't reconcile their conflicting opinions on fish, and he didn't want to repeat the experience.

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Meishawn Johnston
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How tf are you gonna be angry at fish?? Even Dr Dre would like a good trip to the aquarium

Greennovator
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And how does he feel about the cuttlefish and octopus? (Probably smarter than him) 🤦🙄😆

Janet Pattison
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, the red flags come in many different sizes, and colors, but it’s always good to watch for them!

3 AM
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope you ordered fish if you guys went out to eat after.

Alicia GriffonLady
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If he says the fish's political views are what anger him, you could run, or take notes for a sitcom...

Tina Vanegeren
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Omg im a pisces would have left him there, being too embarrassed to be associated with such a waste of oxygen♓😉

lena canepa
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I know I often judge people on their love (or hate) of fish...?? maybe he secretly really loves them..??

Kross T.
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We would not get along. I love fish. I can tell you all sorts of random stuff about fish (well, marine life, not sure this guy is differentiating anyway) and I have at least 10 ocean documentaries queued up on my streaming services that I watch to relax. I love aquariums too. I also love eating fish, but maybe he does too.

RafCo
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Poor guy. His parents were murdered by a school of clownfish. Second date would've been to the circus

laura lee
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hey, show your weirdness upfront, I say. Don't waste precious time wondering.

Felicia Dale
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Fish aren’t stupid at all. He is, however, woefully and willfully uneducated and misinformed.

Lola
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don’t think it’s the fish that are stupid.

Rahul Pawa
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hating fish is apparently an important part of his personality.

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Jihana
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And that guy found 5 women who not only dated but MARRIED him?

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The results of the research show that men are more likely to be seen as creepy than women, and women who feel creeped out are more likely to also feel sexually threatened than men are.

Furthermore, unpredictability is often associated with creepiness, which we can see a lot in these tweets.

And it makes sense. Think about it someone laughing at seemingly random times or making sudden and unexpected attempts to hug you. A big part of the uneasiness they make you feel comes from not knowing what to expect from them next.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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The researchers highlighted that these findings support the idea that being “creeped out” is a response that we evolved to pay more attention to something that could turn out to be a threat.

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When your gut feeling tells you that something is off about someone, don’t instantly dismiss that reaction, even if you can’t pin down exactly why you have it — more often than not, it's there to protect you.

To identify the behaviors likeliest to make someone seem creepy, researchers instructed respondents to rate 44 different patterns on how likely they thought it was that a "creepy" individual would demonstrate them.

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Bobert Robertson
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Should've stopped and let him keep walking to see how long until he noticed he was alone

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1. He watches you before interacting. Being watched by someone before he introduces himself or joins the conversation can make your skin crawl — you're wondering, What is he thinking? while dreading that whatever it is, it's inappropriate.

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2. He touches you frequently. Even a "friendly" hug or kiss on the cheek is unacceptable if it's not invited.

3. He steers the conversation toward sex. Unwanted intimacy can be verbal too.

4. He asks to take a picture of you. Unless you are balancing 10 plates on top of your head while also riding a unicycle, there is no reason a rando should want a photo of you.

5. He asks for personal details about your family. Hey, dude, stick with complaining about the weather or asking me if I have any restaurant recommendations. That's what we call "small talk" — leave my family out of it.

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6. He has greasy hair. Well, there are many possible explanations for having greasy hair, but let's just say it generally isn't a turn-on. Bad hygiene can be a sign that someone isn't aware of or doesn't care about the impression they make on others, a definite creepiness red flag.

7. He never looks you in the eye. This can come off shady and disengaged, as though he's plotting something.

8. He's significantly older than you. To be fair, this one doesn't make someone "creepy" in and of itself, but combined with other behaviors, such as frequent touching or sex talk, it can make someone seem predatory.

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9. He shows little emotional expression. A deadpan stare is disconcerting. Again, what is he thinking — or hiding, for that matter?

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Sum Guy
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm not saying he should have done this on the 1st date... but YES, Thanos was right

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Nadine Bamberger
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Maybe it was a body switch situation and somewhere else in doggy day care a fluffy bobtail was begging for a coffee and the Sunday Times.

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shae
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I remember when I was a kid, my cousin had to tell me red wasn't a flavor but apparently it is

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Mary Rose Kent
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That’s just gross. You can pee into your toilet and then not flush until it becomes absolutely necessary…

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Dorothy Parker
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He then took the paid receipt and deducted the date on his taxes because he talked business.

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Ro Bird
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A man once said this exact sentence to me, I was also in his car. Traumatising.

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Jo Johannsen
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You have my sympathy. Had a couple over for dinner once, had asked in advance if they were ok with Chinese food, assured it was fine. The wife ate NOTHING. I was so embarrassed.

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BigOrangeTractor
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Either the person you lie to about your height doesn't care what height you are, so why lie, or they are shallow enough that they do care in which case they will definitely notice you lied and then be hacked off about it so why lie? Makes no sense.

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Desiree Cretan
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I feel your pain! I don't hate my feet, but strangers touching my feet makes me cringe. I'm unable to get pedicures!

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The Starsong Princess
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I dated that guy. Apparently, it’s a test so he knows you aren’t a gold digger. Generally, guys who do this have very little gold to dig. A guy told me this when we were on our third date - apparently, he does it with all his dates and was very proud of it. He was very into his little tests and I noped out of any further dates.

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Honey Slime
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I signed up for Match when I was 19/20. The other gay men on there acted like they OWNED me. It was insane, I'd get hateful messages if I didn't reply in 5 seconds. They would tell me what I should be doing blah blah blah. I left match.com and never looked back.

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Agent 8433599
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Eating off your plate is horrible! Especially if he has all that food! -not being sarcastic-

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Miguel justino C
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The idiot missed a perfect opportunity to be the sweet considerate guy. “I would rather have you happy than 20 dollars”

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Leoninus Fate
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

sounds kinda sweet, i mean he could have asked but probably thought he was just being nice, I would love if a guy i dated did that {sadly I'm a huge guy and most men are tiny compared to me}

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Kimi Tomminello
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ok so you brought someone to an authentic taco joint who has no clue about the culture or the food and instead of educating him you online shame him for not knowing anything about the food or culture and then make fun of him for liking you? And you think you had the date from hell?

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