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Dating is tricky. You want to be yourself, but also impress the person; have a fun time without appearing aloof. Hold an interesting and meaningful conversation but not go too deep and bore them. A sprinkle of romance doesn't hurt too.

It's a delicate balance and to make matters worse, you have to find it with a person you don't know that well. So, not surprisingly, sometimes we go a little too far. And while nobody is safe from crossing the line, one Twitter user was interested in hearing how men do it.

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A few days ago, @sohosatan asked everyone to share what was it that guys did on a date that seemed really weird, and got plenty of replies. 2,172 to be exact. Here are some of the most memorable ones.

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yay! I was reading thinking "...but that sounds nice...?" So glad for a happy story.

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We often use the word "creepy" to caution our friends about people to avoid. "Watch out for him," we warn a person we care about, "he's a total creep." But what, exactly, makes someone seem that way?

According to a study published in New Ideas in Psychology — the first-ever empirical study of "creepiness," its authors say — analyzed the perspectives of 1,029 women and 312 men with an average age of 29 to determine the most common markers of a "creepy" individual.

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Jihana
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And that guy found 5 women who not only dated but MARRIED him?

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The results of the research show that men are more likely to be seen as creepy than women, and women who feel creeped out are more likely to also feel sexually threatened than men are.

Furthermore, unpredictability is often associated with creepiness, which we can see a lot in these tweets.

And it makes sense. Think about it someone laughing at seemingly random times or making sudden and unexpected attempts to hug you. A big part of the uneasiness they make you feel comes from not knowing what to expect from them next.

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Tinykame
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sure, I'll go on a first date to a dumpsite with someone with a gun. Famous last words

Bobby
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't believe in owning a firearm because I don't have any hobbies that utilise them. Sometimes I think I'm the only american without a gun. I do believe in gun safety though, and a gun range close by does a family gun safety course. I knew plenty about guns myself having served in the military but my wife and kids extent of knowledge was don't point it at something you don't intend to shoot. Anyway we did a class on gun safety and then everyone got to shoot a few rounds at a target. Kids really liked it and I'm much happier knowing they are better educated on firearm safety. I think something like that would make a great date or family fun day

Katherine Boag
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Having to wear earmuffs is always great when youre getting to know someone...

rumade
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would actually really enjoy something like this, but not as a first date. Head down the arcade and shoot zombies instead

Kross T.
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

At the dump, really? I mean, no problem with shooting small nuisance animals, but preferably someplace less... odiferous.

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Amaranthim Talon
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh heck.. I was hoping this was a "We went to the gun range on ladies' night" or something fun... rodent murder is not high on my list of fun ways to get to know some one..

Janet Pattison
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I like your handle Mama Bear, but it might attract gun happy red necks. You’re not from Upper Tupper are you? (Tupper Lake, NY)

Beachbum
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow! That is absolutely awful, would have left as soon as he said shoot rats. But yes going to a gun range and shooting targets is so liberating! I absolutely love it!

Katherine Heasley
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My sister's date took her out target shooting, and now they're married. But he didn't take her to the dump.

CHRISTY SMITH
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's f****d up, those rats were minding their own damn business - poor babies.

robman1ok1 Hernandez
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Where do you live??? In Oklahoma you can't shoot a gun in city limits, unless he wanted to save money and treat you to dinner at the county jail.

Janet Graham
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well, shooting moving targets is more fun than stationary targets. At least you didn't have to clean and eat what you killed.

Ambry Petersen
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Target shooting fun, rat shooting not so much, and the dump usually smells too.

Tammie Braggs
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Imagine being the only person on earth dumb enough to do this and then seeing this post 😂

Susanne B
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It offends me, that he calls shooting living creatures target shooting

CMKL
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well,it was target practice, a specifically a moving target, but still target practice.

lena canepa
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I always thought I might meet my mate at the dump, rummaging for cool useable "junk"... even maybe FEEDING rats, but dat man, not suitable

Hans Bass
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Did you get the bubonic plague? Maybe thats what he was hoping for,lol.

JustAFan
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If someone took me on this kind of date, I'd marry them on the spot.

Trisha Howson
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well......that ant kinda scary. For a date what the heck was he thinking and rats??????

Huddo's sister
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Is it even possible to not only visit the dump, but shoot at moving targets inside it?

Kross T.
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Depends on the dump, I'm sure. Someplaces don't incinerate anything, and so the "dump" is generally more toxic and dangerous than places that incinerate small waste, meaning the dump is usually a dryer, less sink-hole-prone environment with larger trash like old refrigerators.

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Casey Horn
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

now.. for him, this is genius. if he finds the one who wants to do this, then a happy couple will form. but couples don’t have to do EVERYTHING together

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

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The researchers highlighted that these findings support the idea that being “creeped out” is a response that we evolved to pay more attention to something that could turn out to be a threat.

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When your gut feeling tells you that something is off about someone, don’t instantly dismiss that reaction, even if you can’t pin down exactly why you have it — more often than not, it's there to protect you.

To identify the behaviors likeliest to make someone seem creepy, researchers instructed respondents to rate 44 different patterns on how likely they thought it was that a "creepy" individual would demonstrate them.

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Bobert Robertson
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Should've stopped and let him keep walking to see how long until he noticed he was alone

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1. He watches you before interacting. Being watched by someone before he introduces himself or joins the conversation can make your skin crawl — you're wondering, What is he thinking? while dreading that whatever it is, it's inappropriate.

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2. He touches you frequently. Even a "friendly" hug or kiss on the cheek is unacceptable if it's not invited.

3. He steers the conversation toward sex. Unwanted intimacy can be verbal too.

4. He asks to take a picture of you. Unless you are balancing 10 plates on top of your head while also riding a unicycle, there is no reason a rando should want a photo of you.

5. He asks for personal details about your family. Hey, dude, stick with complaining about the weather or asking me if I have any restaurant recommendations. That's what we call "small talk" — leave my family out of it.

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6. He has greasy hair. Well, there are many possible explanations for having greasy hair, but let's just say it generally isn't a turn-on. Bad hygiene can be a sign that someone isn't aware of or doesn't care about the impression they make on others, a definite creepiness red flag.

7. He never looks you in the eye. This can come off shady and disengaged, as though he's plotting something.

8. He's significantly older than you. To be fair, this one doesn't make someone "creepy" in and of itself, but combined with other behaviors, such as frequent touching or sex talk, it can make someone seem predatory.

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9. He shows little emotional expression. A deadpan stare is disconcerting. Again, what is he thinking — or hiding, for that matter?

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Sum Guy
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm not saying he should have done this on the 1st date... but YES, Thanos was right

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Nadine Bamberger
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Maybe it was a body switch situation and somewhere else in doggy day care a fluffy bobtail was begging for a coffee and the Sunday Times.

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shae
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I remember when I was a kid, my cousin had to tell me red wasn't a flavor but apparently it is

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Mary Rose Kent
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That’s just gross. You can pee into your toilet and then not flush until it becomes absolutely necessary…

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Dorothy Parker
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He then took the paid receipt and deducted the date on his taxes because he talked business.

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Ro Bird
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A man once said this exact sentence to me, I was also in his car. Traumatising.

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Jo Johannsen
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You have my sympathy. Had a couple over for dinner once, had asked in advance if they were ok with Chinese food, assured it was fine. The wife ate NOTHING. I was so embarrassed.

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BigOrangeTractor
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Either the person you lie to about your height doesn't care what height you are, so why lie, or they are shallow enough that they do care in which case they will definitely notice you lied and then be hacked off about it so why lie? Makes no sense.

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Desiree Cretan
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I feel your pain! I don't hate my feet, but strangers touching my feet makes me cringe. I'm unable to get pedicures!

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The Starsong Princess
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I dated that guy. Apparently, it’s a test so he knows you aren’t a gold digger. Generally, guys who do this have very little gold to dig. A guy told me this when we were on our third date - apparently, he does it with all his dates and was very proud of it. He was very into his little tests and I noped out of any further dates.

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Honey Slime
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I signed up for Match when I was 19/20. The other gay men on there acted like they OWNED me. It was insane, I'd get hateful messages if I didn't reply in 5 seconds. They would tell me what I should be doing blah blah blah. I left match.com and never looked back.

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Agent 8433599
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Eating off your plate is horrible! Especially if he has all that food! -not being sarcastic-

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Miguel justino C
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The idiot missed a perfect opportunity to be the sweet considerate guy. “I would rather have you happy than 20 dollars”

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Leoninus Fate
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

sounds kinda sweet, i mean he could have asked but probably thought he was just being nice, I would love if a guy i dated did that {sadly I'm a huge guy and most men are tiny compared to me}

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Kimi Tomminello
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ok so you brought someone to an authentic taco joint who has no clue about the culture or the food and instead of educating him you online shame him for not knowing anything about the food or culture and then make fun of him for liking you? And you think you had the date from hell?

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