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Barely eight years ago, most Americans believed that being gay is "just the way some choose to live." You know, like choosing your diet or hairdo. And while the tide has shifted, with society being more accepting, more folks are coming out as LGBTQ+ than ever before - some chose to and still do forget that it's as real as global warming or Christmas.

The subreddit Sappho And Her Friend, then, is a godsend which sheds light on cringeworthy instances of LGBTQ+ erasure from academia, pop culture and real life. Who knew that straight people completely ignoring the fact that LGBTQ+ is a thing can be so absurdly amusing.

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What To Call Your Straight Aunt's Husband

What To Call Your Straight Aunt's Husband

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In a world that claims progress and inclusivity, it is disheartening to witness the persistent shadows of prejudice cast upon the LGBTQ+ community. From the humblest corners of society to the grand stage of global politics, there exists a myriad of reasons, however wrong, why some individuals remain staunchly ignorant when it comes to accepting and embracing diverse sexual orientations and gender fluidity.

While significant progress has been made over the years, including a growing number of individuals, particularly Gen Z, feeling more comfortable and open about their LGBTQIA+ identities, there remains much work to be done. Unfortunately, even during Pride Month, which spans the entire month of June, incidents like the recent vandalism of the LGBTQIA+ community's flags at Stonewall National Monument in New York City, the birthplace of the modern LGBTQ rights movement, serve as a reminder that challenges persist.

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"Pride Month — and the pride parades — continue to be deeply important in the continued solidarity, fight for human rights, and visibility of the LGBTQI+ community. Additionally, and equally important, is the label 'pride'," Samantha Stein, a licensed psychologist based in San Francisco, told Bored Panda in an email. In 2019, Pride celebrations in San Francisco included 289 parade contingents and held "the largest gathering of LGBTQ+ people and allies in the nation."

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"Over the years, it has continued to increase in size and scope, and I haven't seen or heard of any displays of prejudice there since the 1990s," Stein said. "In some ways, it has lost some of its original power: many of the young people from the Bay Area who attend are not aware of the history and courage of the original PRIDE celebrations. That said, we can view that as a positive change since they haven't had to be!" 

#3

The Apostrophe Is Not In The Wrong Place

The Apostrophe Is Not In The Wrong Place

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#4

“I Think Emily Dickinson Was A Lesbian”

“I Think Emily Dickinson Was A Lesbian”

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June, for those of you who don't know, is a month of celebration that aligns with a significant event in the history of the Gay Liberation Movement known as the Stonewall Uprising. In the early hours of June 28th, 1969, a gay bar called 'The Stonewall Inn' in New York City's West Village was targeted by a police raid. Such raids were common at the time, but on this particular occasion, the patrons of the bar resisted and fought back, leading to what became known as the Stonewall Riots. These protests continued for several days.

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#5

Who's Gonna Tell Them

Who's Gonna Tell Them

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Recognizing its historical significance, the city of New York designated the Stonewall Inn as a historic landmark in 2015, and it was further honored as a national monument by President Barack Obama in 2016. This June marks the 53rd anniversary of the first Pride parade, which took place in 1970, a year after the uprising at Stonewall.

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Marcos Valencia
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If your job is selling bride dresses, you can't be that idiot.

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#8

Sit On My Face But Just In A Friend's Way

Sit On My Face But Just In A Friend's Way

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"Regrettably, prejudice, oppression, violence, and even loss of life persist as harsh realities for individuals within the LGBTQI+ community, both in the United States and worldwide. Alarmingly, numerous states in the US are enacting legislation that actively undermines the rights of these individuals," said Stein.

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#9

Hitting With That Self Sappho

Hitting With That Self Sappho

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Yvonne Dauwalder Balsiger
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When you're so homophobic you don't realize you're gay yourself... I hope she is now a happy queer

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#10

And They Were “Color Enthusiasts”

And They Were “Color Enthusiasts”

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Feathered Dinosaur
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I like to wear rainbow colors and bright colors in general, just because they're pretty. I'm cis-hetero btw, but I don't mind being mistaken as LGBTQ+

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According to The American Civil Liberties Union, there were 19 bills introduced this year so far undermining freedom of speech and expression for LGBTQ people, including ones that target drag show performances.

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Happy Thanksgiving To All Aunties With Lifelong Roommates

Happy Thanksgiving To All Aunties With Lifelong Roommates

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KJ
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They even share a bed, purely to cut down on expenses though, honest!

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#12

Oh My God, They Were Manicurists

Oh My God, They Were Manicurists

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Siddharth Krishnaswamy
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is in Saqqara. And the tour-guides tell everybody that the 2 were "brothers"...and you as a tourist try not to snort and walk on.

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"For a group of people who are told continuously — through laws, religions, media, bullying, and directly — that LBTQI+ people are less-than or should not exist," Stein explained, "it is deeply psychologically important that there be counter-messaging."

She argues that this continuous messaging of inferiority often takes a toll on their mental well-being and can result in profound consequences such as mental illness, addiction, isolation, and even loss of life. "People fear and hate what they are taught to fear and hate, and they often fear what's unfamiliar." 

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#17

Vivianne Miedema - All Round Legend

Vivianne Miedema - All Round Legend

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Annik Perrot
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

French singer Juliette, when asked about "her Romeo" answered " My Romeo is a Juliet."

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#18

It's Perfect

It's Perfect

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SheDeM
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Comparing a flower to an old shoe! :D Perfect. I hope the light turned on in her attic

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#19

The Opposite Of Erasure, For Once!

The Opposite Of Erasure, For Once!

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#20

Oh, Yeah, Definitely Cis, Just Pretending To Be A Man...for 50 Years

Oh, Yeah, Definitely Cis, Just Pretending To Be A Man...for 50 Years

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HannahNo
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well, in that time it could be possible, that she loved the job and not women. It would have been impossible to achieve this much as a woman back in the days. There are records of successful men that suddenly got pregnant. Think about Mulan :D

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#21

They Were Roommates!

They Were Roommates!

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Juniper_theBoredPanda12
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All jokes aside I think this is so beautiful as a homosexual my self and a trans young woman I love all of these post but this is my favorite and I love the support of the community🥰🥰

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#22

People Acting Like Gay People Didn’t Exist Until 2020

People Acting Like Gay People Didn’t Exist Until 2020

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xxx
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Reminds me of the controversy surrounding The Little Mermaid. How the actual f**k is her skin colour a problem. She's a MERMAID. And before you say 'oh but original Ariel was a redhead' It's a fictional character, and if they had changed just her hair colour - there wouldn't have been an outcry. People try and pretend it's about hair colour, but it's not-so-well-hidden racism.

Monday
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The original isn't even a redhead from what I can find. In the original Hans Christian Anderson version only her eye colour and the texture of her skin is described. "Her skin was as soft and tender as a rose petal, and her eyes were as blue as the deep sea, but like all the others she had no feet. Her body ended in a fish tail". No mention of skin colour at all. No mention of hair colour. So technically the only thing the new version got "wrong" was eye colour.

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Susie Elle
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah because we all know gay people were invented in the 90's, silly

WFH Forever
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, Freddie Mercury and Elton John (and Liberace before them) were no not-gay 😆

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Eastendbird
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can assure you there were plenty of gay people around in the 1980s. I studied drama at uni in that decade, so I should know...

Tinykame
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The problem was Reagan and his refusal to mention aids or acknowledge gay people, put a whole continent in fear.

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Cactuar Jon
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's hilarious when people (homophobes) refer to the 80's as being not like it is today (meaning no one was gay). If I'm not mistaken... EVERYONE was gay in the 80's!!!

Luna
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6 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

People saying gay people are new when ancient men would sleep together regularly,

JP Purves
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Everyone knows that gay people didn't exist until the late 1990's.

Arenite
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The Little Mermaid is a horrible story. Why is everybody so obsessed with it?

Brainmas
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There were no gay people in the 80s! (Watches Mannequin again because "Hollywood" is so fun and obviously straight)

Amy Taylor
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As someone who was a teen and young adult in the 80’s trust me on that one.

Niall Mac Iomera
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Whether or not her race matters, or Disney's reasons for doing so: we'll never know. But we can agree that this movie is a soulless cash grab.

Kaceria DiRigazzi-Bonaccorso
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I loved the little mermaid i just thought the fact that people wanted to argue about race when SHE’S A MERMAID. it is a shoe that is literally about mermaids, singing sea animals, and sea witch. And if she spends all her time in shallow water, the dark skin would make sense. If she spends it in very deep water then she would (or could) look much less like what we consider a normal human

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#24

"Neighbours"

"Neighbours"

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#25

"Twisting Classical Characters Like Dorian Gray Into A Homosexual"

"Twisting Classical Characters Like Dorian Gray Into A Homosexual"

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Marcos Valencia
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well, I can understand being personally confused, but at a hotel reception desk? Both women could even be married to other two women and just cheating... Hotels usually handle things with total discretion, not with "horror and confusion".

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Regulus Black
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's kinda weird how random strangers just stop someone and tell them stuff like this or "I thought that you two sisters look so cute together" or something like that. So weird

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#29

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Feathered Dinosaur
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She just wants the other girl to be her roommate. Like, share the house. And the bed, of course.

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Blue_Mouse (queen)
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Damn. Betcha they tried turning it into “well you seem more gay than bi…”

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#31

I Believe This Man Is Really Close To Having A Realization About Himself That He Is Going To Be Uncomfortable With

I Believe This Man Is Really Close To Having A Realization About Himself That He Is Going To Be Uncomfortable With

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#32

What Is A Gay Bar For?

What Is A Gay Bar For?

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OmBoyGanesh
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I mean, aren’t gay clubs synonymous with cis-hey bridle intentional misspelling) showers anyways? I can see the mistake here, given the queers are often marginalized in their own spaces for the sake of some weird tokenism. I bet the grossed out girl has a GBF (🤮) she thinks of like an accessory.

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#34

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[insert Joke Title Here]

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rullyman
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A huge amount of research into sex and gender was burnt by the nazis at one of their big book burnings. They targeted the Institut für Sexualwissenschaft.

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witchling
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Really? My bff and I were out once and I told a couple of guys that we were married so they'd back off. Backfired terribly.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

LOL reminds me of how when they dubbed season 3 of Sailor Moon into English and suddenly Sailor Neptune and Sailor Uranus were cousins. Like y'all actually just made it ten times worse because now it's definitely incest. xD

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#37

Ah Yes, Clearly Just A School Friend

Ah Yes, Clearly Just A School Friend

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#38

I Am A Very Clueless Individual

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Kathryn Baylis
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

TBH, I’m heterosexual and as a child, there were many times I shared a bed when I slept over at a friend’s house. Hell, I also did it as an adult when traveling with a group, and hotel rooms were scarce. Wasn’t considered an unusual thing back in the day. Friends and siblings often slept in the same bed. Big whoop-de-do!

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"When Did You Stop Being Gay"

"When Did You Stop Being Gay"

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