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Barely eight years ago, most Americans believed that being gay is "just the way some choose to live." You know, like choosing your diet or hairdo. And while the tide has shifted, with society being more accepting, more folks are coming out as LGBTQ+ than ever before - some chose to and still do forget that it's as real as global warming or Christmas.

The subreddit Sappho And Her Friend, then, is a godsend which sheds light on cringeworthy instances of LGBTQ+ erasure from academia, pop culture and real life. Who knew that straight people completely ignoring the fact that LGBTQ+ is a thing can be so absurdly amusing.

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What To Call Your Straight Aunt's Husband

What To Call Your Straight Aunt's Husband

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In a world that claims progress and inclusivity, it is disheartening to witness the persistent shadows of prejudice cast upon the LGBTQ+ community. From the humblest corners of society to the grand stage of global politics, there exists a myriad of reasons, however wrong, why some individuals remain staunchly ignorant when it comes to accepting and embracing diverse sexual orientations and gender fluidity.

While significant progress has been made over the years, including a growing number of individuals, particularly Gen Z, feeling more comfortable and open about their LGBTQIA+ identities, there remains much work to be done. Unfortunately, even during Pride Month, which spans the entire month of June, incidents like the recent vandalism of the LGBTQIA+ community's flags at Stonewall National Monument in New York City, the birthplace of the modern LGBTQ rights movement, serve as a reminder that challenges persist.

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Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist

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"Pride Month — and the pride parades — continue to be deeply important in the continued solidarity, fight for human rights, and visibility of the LGBTQI+ community. Additionally, and equally important, is the label 'pride'," Samantha Stein, a licensed psychologist based in San Francisco, told Bored Panda in an email. In 2019, Pride celebrations in San Francisco included 289 parade contingents and held "the largest gathering of LGBTQ+ people and allies in the nation."

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"Over the years, it has continued to increase in size and scope, and I haven't seen or heard of any displays of prejudice there since the 1990s," Stein said. "In some ways, it has lost some of its original power: many of the young people from the Bay Area who attend are not aware of the history and courage of the original PRIDE celebrations. That said, we can view that as a positive change since they haven't had to be!" 

#3

The Apostrophe Is Not In The Wrong Place

The Apostrophe Is Not In The Wrong Place

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#4

“I Think Emily Dickinson Was A Lesbian”

“I Think Emily Dickinson Was A Lesbian”

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June, for those of you who don't know, is a month of celebration that aligns with a significant event in the history of the Gay Liberation Movement known as the Stonewall Uprising. In the early hours of June 28th, 1969, a gay bar called 'The Stonewall Inn' in New York City's West Village was targeted by a police raid. Such raids were common at the time, but on this particular occasion, the patrons of the bar resisted and fought back, leading to what became known as the Stonewall Riots. These protests continued for several days.

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#5

Who's Gonna Tell Them

Who's Gonna Tell Them

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Recognizing its historical significance, the city of New York designated the Stonewall Inn as a historic landmark in 2015, and it was further honored as a national monument by President Barack Obama in 2016. This June marks the 53rd anniversary of the first Pride parade, which took place in 1970, a year after the uprising at Stonewall.

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Marcos Valencia
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If your job is selling bride dresses, you can't be that idiot.

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#8

Sit On My Face But Just In A Friend's Way

Sit On My Face But Just In A Friend's Way

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"Regrettably, prejudice, oppression, violence, and even loss of life persist as harsh realities for individuals within the LGBTQI+ community, both in the United States and worldwide. Alarmingly, numerous states in the US are enacting legislation that actively undermines the rights of these individuals," said Stein.

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#9

Hitting With That Self Sappho

Hitting With That Self Sappho

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Yvonne Dauwalder Balsiger
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When you're so homophobic you don't realize you're gay yourself... I hope she is now a happy queer

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#10

And They Were “Color Enthusiasts”

And They Were “Color Enthusiasts”

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Feathered Dinosaur
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I like to wear rainbow colors and bright colors in general, just because they're pretty. I'm cis-hetero btw, but I don't mind being mistaken as LGBTQ+

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According to The American Civil Liberties Union, there were 19 bills introduced this year so far undermining freedom of speech and expression for LGBTQ people, including ones that target drag show performances.

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Happy Thanksgiving To All Aunties With Lifelong Roommates

Happy Thanksgiving To All Aunties With Lifelong Roommates

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KJ
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They even share a bed, purely to cut down on expenses though, honest!

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#12

Oh My God, They Were Manicurists

Oh My God, They Were Manicurists

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Siddharth Krishnaswamy
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is in Saqqara. And the tour-guides tell everybody that the 2 were "brothers"...and you as a tourist try not to snort and walk on.

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"For a group of people who are told continuously — through laws, religions, media, bullying, and directly — that LBTQI+ people are less-than or should not exist," Stein explained, "it is deeply psychologically important that there be counter-messaging."

She argues that this continuous messaging of inferiority often takes a toll on their mental well-being and can result in profound consequences such as mental illness, addiction, isolation, and even loss of life. "People fear and hate what they are taught to fear and hate, and they often fear what's unfamiliar." 

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Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist

Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist

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#17

Vivianne Miedema - All Round Legend

Vivianne Miedema - All Round Legend

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Annik Perrot
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

French singer Juliette, when asked about "her Romeo" answered " My Romeo is a Juliet."

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#18

It's Perfect

It's Perfect

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SheDeM
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Comparing a flower to an old shoe! :D Perfect. I hope the light turned on in her attic

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#19

The Opposite Of Erasure, For Once!

The Opposite Of Erasure, For Once!

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#20

Oh, Yeah, Definitely Cis, Just Pretending To Be A Man...for 50 Years

Oh, Yeah, Definitely Cis, Just Pretending To Be A Man...for 50 Years

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HannahNo
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well, in that time it could be possible, that she loved the job and not women. It would have been impossible to achieve this much as a woman back in the days. There are records of successful men that suddenly got pregnant. Think about Mulan :D

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#21

They Were Roommates!

They Were Roommates!

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Juniper_theBoredPanda12
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All jokes aside I think this is so beautiful as a homosexual my self and a trans young woman I love all of these post but this is my favorite and I love the support of the community🥰🥰

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#22

People Acting Like Gay People Didn’t Exist Until 2020

People Acting Like Gay People Didn’t Exist Until 2020

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xxx
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Reminds me of the controversy surrounding The Little Mermaid. How the actual f**k is her skin colour a problem. She's a MERMAID. And before you say 'oh but original Ariel was a redhead' It's a fictional character, and if they had changed just her hair colour - there wouldn't have been an outcry. People try and pretend it's about hair colour, but it's not-so-well-hidden racism.

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#24

"Neighbours"

"Neighbours"

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#25

"Twisting Classical Characters Like Dorian Gray Into A Homosexual"

"Twisting Classical Characters Like Dorian Gray Into A Homosexual"

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#26

Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist

Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist

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Marcos Valencia
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well, I can understand being personally confused, but at a hotel reception desk? Both women could even be married to other two women and just cheating... Hotels usually handle things with total discretion, not with "horror and confusion".

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Regulus Black
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's kinda weird how random strangers just stop someone and tell them stuff like this or "I thought that you two sisters look so cute together" or something like that. So weird

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#29

Me_irlgbt

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Feathered Dinosaur
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She just wants the other girl to be her roommate. Like, share the house. And the bed, of course.

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#30

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Blue_Mouse (queen)
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Damn. Betcha they tried turning it into “well you seem more gay than bi…”

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#31

I Believe This Man Is Really Close To Having A Realization About Himself That He Is Going To Be Uncomfortable With

I Believe This Man Is Really Close To Having A Realization About Himself That He Is Going To Be Uncomfortable With

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#32

What Is A Gay Bar For?

What Is A Gay Bar For?

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OmBoyGanesh
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I mean, aren’t gay clubs synonymous with cis-hey bridle intentional misspelling) showers anyways? I can see the mistake here, given the queers are often marginalized in their own spaces for the sake of some weird tokenism. I bet the grossed out girl has a GBF (🤮) she thinks of like an accessory.

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#34

[insert Joke Title Here]

[insert Joke Title Here]

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rullyman
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A huge amount of research into sex and gender was burnt by the nazis at one of their big book burnings. They targeted the Institut für Sexualwissenschaft.

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#35

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witchling
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Really? My bff and I were out once and I told a couple of guys that we were married so they'd back off. Backfired terribly.

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#36

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detective miller's hat
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

LOL reminds me of how when they dubbed season 3 of Sailor Moon into English and suddenly Sailor Neptune and Sailor Uranus were cousins. Like y'all actually just made it ten times worse because now it's definitely incest. xD

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#37

Ah Yes, Clearly Just A School Friend

Ah Yes, Clearly Just A School Friend

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#38

I Am A Very Clueless Individual

I Am A Very Clueless Individual

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#39

Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist

Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist

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Kathryn Baylis
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

TBH, I’m heterosexual and as a child, there were many times I shared a bed when I slept over at a friend’s house. Hell, I also did it as an adult when traveling with a group, and hotel rooms were scarce. Wasn’t considered an unusual thing back in the day. Friends and siblings often slept in the same bed. Big whoop-de-do!

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#40

"When Did You Stop Being Gay"

"When Did You Stop Being Gay"

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#41

Well, An Attempt But A Failed One Thank Goodness

Well, An Attempt But A Failed One Thank Goodness

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#42

Definitely Not Gay

Definitely Not Gay

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#43

I Mean... Isn't It Obvious?

I Mean... Isn't It Obvious?

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Daria
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

TBH that could've been me because I'm really bad with social clues and romantic hints.

cartoon.ghostss
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Honestly same I absolutely suck at social cues my ex pretty much told me straight up he was attracted to me like five times before we dated and i was still clueless

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#44

Has Scantily Clad Male Dancers, Sings About Bussy, But Still Probably Straight

Has Scantily Clad Male Dancers, Sings About Bussy, But Still Probably Straight

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#45

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OmBoyGanesh
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ugh! All. The. Time. Try being two married men with a 9yo son. That literally blows their minds if they’re not calling the cops assuming we’re kidnappers or pedophiles.

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#46

How Many Here Are In The "More Options" Category?

How Many Here Are In The "More Options" Category?

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Rizzo
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I bet if one presses "more options" a popup appears with the message: "Are you sure?". 🤣🤣🤣

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#47

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#48

But Boys Don't Get Periods??? Lol

But Boys Don't Get Periods??? Lol

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Remi (He/Him)
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Boys also sometimes do get periods. It's not like coming out as a trans dude magically summons a fairy godbro that "bibbiti bobbiti boos" away your uterus and such. Even though that would be kinda awesome now that I think about it.

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#52

Such Friendship, Much Platonic

Such Friendship, Much Platonic

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#53

They Must've Been Such Good Friends

They Must've Been Such Good Friends

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starsailor (they/he)
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

hope aunt cecilia and her "best friend" had a good life together with lots of wine, cheese, and chocolate!

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#54

Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist

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#55

Friendship Is A Blessing

Friendship Is A Blessing

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KJ
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Never out someone else, not your news to share regardless of how obvious it is!

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#56

I Have To Go Before I Put Your Head Through A Wall

I Have To Go Before I Put Your Head Through A Wall

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#58

Yup… Just Friends

Yup… Just Friends

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#59

Aunt Pat And Her "Roommate", 1986

Aunt Pat And Her "Roommate", 1986

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Dani M
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

good for them.... but the sartorial choices in this pic are the really hard pill to swallow... gotta love the 80ies

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#60

How Could The Artist Have Seen This Naked Man? How?

How Could The Artist Have Seen This Naked Man? How?

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#61

Author Of The Book Behind A New Bbc Drama

Author Of The Book Behind A New Bbc Drama

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Monday
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Honey I'm so sorry to tell you this but according to twitter I'm not gay".

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#62

How History Will Remember Pride Parades

How History Will Remember Pride Parades

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Straight-People-Forgetting-Gay-Couples-Exist

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#64

Should We Tell Her?

Should We Tell Her?

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#66

Rewrite History

Rewrite History

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Aidan Pite
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love how despite the 'censoring' you can still clearly read that the poster's username is a lesbian joke.

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#67

Just Another Gal Pal Meme Lol

Just Another Gal Pal Meme Lol

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Adam Belaire
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's the safest response they could probably program in since there is no real romance option in AC.

#68

1 Month After My Mom And Uncle Came To The Conclusion My Cousin Isn't Gay:

1 Month After My Mom And Uncle Came To The Conclusion My Cousin Isn't Gay:

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Say No to Downvoting
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Literally saw my mother in law introduce her daughter’s partner-of-10-years-fiancé-and-co-parent-of-their-three-children to some visiting distant relatives as her “friend”. Funnily enough, mother in law doesn’t see her daughter much any more,

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#69

Me But It’s All Trans People

Me But It’s All Trans People

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#72

For Those Who Don't Get It, "Alta" Is Feminine, And This Guy Is Gay Trying To Say His Type Is A Tall Male "Alto"

For Those Who Don't Get It, "Alta" Is Feminine, And This Guy Is Gay Trying To Say His Type Is A Tall Male "Alto"

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Marcos Valencia
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I used to teach Spanish at a Spanish university, and I would have never correct it. Maybe I would have given also the "alta" for other preferences in the classroom.

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#74

Ah, Yes. I Love My Pda-Filled “Friendships”

Ah, Yes. I Love My Pda-Filled “Friendships”

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Dodo
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I know Cara's dated women but I have to admit I don't think she ever dated Rihanna or Kim K (not sure who that is in the centre). So I think maybe the caption is half right here.

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#76

She Literally Has A Girlfriend

She Literally Has A Girlfriend

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Sandella
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wonder how many of his good male friends he routinely makes out with then haha

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#78

Is It Straight For A Woman To Have Crushes On Women?

Is It Straight For A Woman To Have Crushes On Women?

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Marcos Valencia
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

On one hand, it's true that teenagers can have (and have) moments of uncertainty. On the other hand, your role is being an adult who cares, gives support, love and guidance. Maybe she actually doesn't know what she wants, or what she is... This was your moment to say "I just want you to be happy and a good person, and you to know that I will always be on your side". And you missed that magical moment. You should run a little to take this train, since you're absolutely on time, just run!

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#80

Every Review From Our Airbnb Hosts Is Like This: Me And My Gal Pal Love To Just Escape To The Countryside And Cosy Up In A One Bed Room Cabin Together

Every Review From Our Airbnb Hosts Is Like This: Me And My Gal Pal Love To Just Escape To The Countryside And Cosy Up In A One Bed Room Cabin Together

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Isa's left eye
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why would they assume that they were dating? How should they know?

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