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I Met A 73-Year-Old Woman Living Alone On The Edge Of Civilization And This Is Her Story
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I Met A 73-Year-Old Woman Living Alone On The Edge Of Civilization And This Is Her Story

I Followed An Extraordinary Woman Living On The Edge Of Civilization And Saw Her Everyday StrugglesI Met A 73-Year-Old Woman Living Alone On The Edge Of Civilization And This Is Her StoryI Followed A 73-Year-Old Woman Living Alone In A Russian Village And This Is Her StoryI Met A 73-Year-Old Woman Living Alone On The Edge Of CivilizationI Spent Time With A Russian Woman Who Lives On The Edge Of Civilization And Saw Her Everyday StrugglesI Met An Old Russian Lady Living On The Edge Of Civilization And This Is Her StoryI Met A 73-Year-Old Woman Living Alone On The Edge Of Civilization And This Is Her StoryI Met A 73-Year-Old Woman Living Alone On The Edge Of Civilization And This Is Her StoryI Met A 73-Year-Old Woman Living Alone On The Edge Of Civilization And This Is Her StoryI Met A 73-Year-Old Woman Living Alone On The Edge Of Civilization And This Is Her Story
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My schoolmate Rita told me about an extraordinary woman she knows. I thought to myself, “How? All year around alone in the village?” It surprised me so much that soon I was on my way to the Pskov region in Russia. Lyudmila Vyacheslavovna introduced herself as “Lyuska.”

Lyuska is the only inhabitant of the village called Tolokonnikovo in Pskov. The only amenities she has are a cellphone and non-permanent electricity. Her house is located about 5 kilometers away from the nearest settlement.

Lyuska is the one and only resident of the village of Golovkino in Russia. The only amenities she has are a cellphone and non-permanent electricity

We immediately had a connection with Lyuska. She is a sociable, open, and hospitable person. She always has some treats for a guest.

Her daughter and grandson take turns visiting Lyuska. She helps them with potatoes, pickles, fresh fruits, and vegetables in summer. During the summer season, she also has real neighbors, Yulia with her husband and Rita with her son.

All the things she can’t make herself, like sugar, salt, bread, matches, or cognac Lyuska gets delivered to her house by relatives or neighbors. She has a cellphone, after all – a true sign of civilization.

“Roads, as well as salary, football and cinema are sh*t!” – says Lyuska

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For a 70-year-old, Lyuska does an overwhelming amount of work every day. She has been taught this since childhood

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Lyuska is 70 years old, but tasks around the house are just her everyday struggles in order to survive. She does everything herself – from wood chopping to preparing the sauna on Saturdays to roof repairs. The house is 130 years old, after all.

“Go away, city girl, you will hurt yourself with that axe,” she told me when I tried to help

Her day starts at 4 a.m. She dresses, cleans up, chops some wood, brings water, starts the Russian stove, and prepares food. There are no wells in the village, so she brings water from the stream. She even uses a saucepan instead of a kettle to boil water. The rest you’ve seen in the comedy classic Groundhog Day.

Summers are busier than winters – she has to mow, weed, stack up hay and then sell it for goat’s milk

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“I love you like a bun with butter, I cherish you more than any chops,” Lyuska said to me while filling up my plate

She makes soups and pies on a Russian stove according to her mother’s and grandmother’s recipes

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Lyuska has a sense of style and doesn’t miss an opportunity to show it. “Everyone is jealous of me. I don’t wear Soviet clothes, I’ve got everything from abroad,” – says Lyuska

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Every piece of clothing in her house has a story involved

“Quilted jackets I own are my aunt’s Lipka’s. Once during the war, she gave eggs to fascists so they wouldn’t punish my mother. But someone snitched on her to the Soviet army and Lipka was sent to Norilsk prison for 10 years. Although her stay in prison turned out well. She even sent home a sewing machine,” Lyuska remembered.

To this day she wears her mother’s coat from 1937, which in her words is great, and looks brand new.

New shirt from an old men’s shirt and an apron? Piece of cake. Lyuska designs her own haute couture

She has no equal in designing and sewing her own clothes. Every cloth in her house has a purpose. Sewing for her is relaxation and entertainment.

In this photo, she is sewing a new pillowcase on that sewing machine from Norilsk.

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Lyuska even cuts her own hair

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Lyuska’s mother holds a special place in her heart and she does everything the way her mother did

Lyuska with her mother’s portrait.

Her mother’s handicrafts are carefully stored in a chest. There also are books, icons, prayers, and her own poems

Handicrafts are taken out and used only on special occasions, like holidays

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“I’ve never used lipstick. Mom didn’t like that. Eye pencil only. Foul language is also not allowed to not hurt mother in heaven,” says Lyuska

If she can’t go to the church, she reads Akathists at home and prays according to her mother’s books. She prayed for me when I left, so I could get home safe

Lyuska is like a magnet. I came back to celebrate New Year with her and upon my arrival, the number of inhabitants in Golovkino had doubled

I crossed the doorstep once again to feel like a true villager

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We changed clothes, pumped up the water from the basement, dug up a ditch, filled up holes in the eaves with a cloth, and prepared the sauna

“New Year is not a holiday to celebrate, Christmas – yes!” Lyuska admits that she was raised like this

In her childhood, Lyuska’s family neither decorated a Christmas tree nor gave gifts. Her mother made some pies and that was it.

Lyuska didn’t have any decorations, so to decorate the tree branch we found outside, we had to use candies from Saint Petersburg and cookies from Moscow.

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We managed to complete all the housework just before Vladimir Putin congratulated us on the New Year

We heard fireworks in the closest neighborhood, 5 km away. I left on January 1st. Lyuska said she would not clean the house for 2 days so that my journey home would be easy and stayed alone waiting for other guests

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Olga Kouznetsova

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I was born in Sankt-Pererburg, now I live in Moscow. Began to shoot about 8 years ago. In total made several stories which aren't a shame for publishing.

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Olga Kouznetsova

Olga Kouznetsova

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I was born in Sankt-Pererburg, now I live in Moscow. Began to shoot about 8 years ago. In total made several stories which aren't a shame for publishing.

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Stella Rose
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6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can't even handle all that work at 14, and she can do it at 70? How?? What a wonderful, self-sufficient woman. Kudos to her.

namjoonie_ k
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Unfortunately this is the reality we have to face nowadays. Many villages around the country are slowly dissapearing, cause younger people are moving to cities where there are more opportunaties for them, while the old willingly prefer to stay behind. She`s very lucky she has some family and kind neighbours who can help her if needed, cause many elderly people who live in remote villages have to fully rely on themselves.

Agnes Jekyll
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow, I envy her self-sufficiency and contentment. I hope someone writes her stories down (the aunt who spent years in jail for giving eggs to soldiers so her mother would not be punished!)

Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Autumn. My heroine Luce it isn't necessary to pump out water in the cellar in dry weather. Let's wish good weather together to Luce!

Jessica Cole
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I agree with everyone. This is such a lovely piece about an interesting, strong, and dedicated woman. The photos intertwine wonderfully with the writing. I would definitely suggest that you keep up with this work, Olga. Especially exposes on people. Humans are the most relatable and interesting subjects, and if you are lucky enough to keep finding interesting people, please, keep doing this. You're good at it.

Brigitta Swart
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love this woman. I want to be her. I want to live like that. Hard work and simplistic living, wow!!!

Nancy Doughty
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What a lovely space she's made for herself. I would love to hear every story of every piece of cloth in her home. The needlework, and it's variations, are beautiful. My grandmother (Busi) made things like that for the church and for local theater. She worked out of her home and all her life as a seamstress.

Fred Burrows
Community Member
3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My Grandparents had the opposite as a little town slowly grew around their country home . Modern homes and streets and there in the middle was my Grandparent place with an outhouse and barn . Grandma grew raspberries and rhubarb and prepared dinner from the chickens and rabbits they had. She sharpened her knives on the stovepipe and kept all manner of jars of canned goods in the root cellar where you could see the corner posts of the house were four birch trees . Grandpa changed a car transmission by himself at age 84 . Blessings to Miss Lyuska .

lara
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She reminds me of my grandmother who was born in Russia and came to the US in 1904. Yes, she is gone now, but I see the very same things in this lady as I saw in my grandmother. I would love to be able to visit her and bring her small gifts. Perhaps some material to make things with, wool for a sweater jacket, things like that.

Stannous Flouride
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The photos that I assume are of her parents were taken during the Great Patriotic War (WW2) and her father is shown wearing a Red Army uniform. She was born in 1950-51 so he likely fought in and survived that horrible conflict and she was birthed. When you see how tough Russians are it's hard to believe that Hitler ever thought he stood a chance of invading and conquering the USSR but he was a megalomaniac surrounded by sycophants attacking people defending their Motherland. (I don't mean to defend the Soviet system or Stalin here, merely to recognize the strength of the Russian people)

Oogiebogieaugiedaddy
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She is a tough cookie! I admire her but would not want to live that life.

Katinka Min
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It sounds like a very lonely existence and a hard life. Good, that she has neighbours, now.

Nikki D
Community Member
6 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And here I figured Russians were so cold and distant, yet this lady is as warm and friendly as they come. May we all be as well as she is at 70! *does a vague religious motion* But..Does anyone know what a Russian stove is? It just looks like a hole in the wall..

Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

About the stove. The stove made of a brick. Stove is to big. there is a place where it is possible to sleep 2 persons on the stove. The stove is heated once a day. It will be warm in the house all day even in a frost is hard.

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Mari
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What a brave and strong woman! She is living a hard life, but that's not a bad thing. In Morocco there are a lot of little villages with the same problems. The younger people are moving to the city. For the eldery people it's a though life to survive, but they are happy. Keep up the good work Olga! It's very important to write down their stories and knowledge. They have a such a rich knowledge about surviving, food, plants, nature.. it's very important to write that down because people nowadays forget everything about that. I wish you good luck Olga!

Belluška Vejvodová
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i cant imagine being only person in whole village. that beacuse i have mess in my head, so im scared to be alone? just asking..

Jjiinnee
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Reading this made me feel extremely happy, and brightened a stressed out Friday. Thank you. <3

Magdalina777
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That looks awfully familiar. My grandmother's sister lives in similar conditions, in winter there is I think 2 people in the village other than her....and, coincidentally, it's also in Pskov region XD It's sad that villages are dying out like that...makes me feel nostalgic, I've always loved going to her village, it has its own charm although I can't imagine living like that full time.

Jer emy
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

“Go away, city girl, you will hurt yourself with that axe,” she told me when I tried to help. - I LOLed at this

alex
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

the putin part brings back the feels. one of my earliest memories is sitting in front of the tv and watching him wish us a happy new year's.

GoddessOdd
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My grandparents were tough Scots Irish stock, lived in a house built by hand, grew vegetables and apples, had a horse, chickens and geese, and I always thought they were tough and self sufficient... and they were, but they had neighbors and extended family around to help. Lyuska is in a league of her own. I wish her many more years in her lovely peaceful home.

Miłka Chromińska
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A wonderful story about a truly tough and creative woman from the old generation! I would love to see her show us how she makes a dress from a man's shirt and just to hear how life used to be when she was in her 20s, was the village full of people then?

Oogiebogieaugiedaddy
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are a remarkable woman! I imagine you were raised with true grit. Women can do it all and it appears you have a full life. You definitely have my respect!!!!

Hannah Edwards
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Thank you for sharing Lyuska’s story with us, it was lovely to see such a vibrant and practical woman.

Elmie Pumpkinbush
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3 years ago

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Vonskippy
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6 years ago

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"Lyuska herself is cut. By a holiday it is necessary to make toilet." Oh the memories, sitting around the table and making holiday toilets.

Stella Rose
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can't even handle all that work at 14, and she can do it at 70? How?? What a wonderful, self-sufficient woman. Kudos to her.

namjoonie_ k
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Unfortunately this is the reality we have to face nowadays. Many villages around the country are slowly dissapearing, cause younger people are moving to cities where there are more opportunaties for them, while the old willingly prefer to stay behind. She`s very lucky she has some family and kind neighbours who can help her if needed, cause many elderly people who live in remote villages have to fully rely on themselves.

Agnes Jekyll
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow, I envy her self-sufficiency and contentment. I hope someone writes her stories down (the aunt who spent years in jail for giving eggs to soldiers so her mother would not be punished!)

Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Autumn. My heroine Luce it isn't necessary to pump out water in the cellar in dry weather. Let's wish good weather together to Luce!

Jessica Cole
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I agree with everyone. This is such a lovely piece about an interesting, strong, and dedicated woman. The photos intertwine wonderfully with the writing. I would definitely suggest that you keep up with this work, Olga. Especially exposes on people. Humans are the most relatable and interesting subjects, and if you are lucky enough to keep finding interesting people, please, keep doing this. You're good at it.

Brigitta Swart
Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love this woman. I want to be her. I want to live like that. Hard work and simplistic living, wow!!!

Nancy Doughty
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What a lovely space she's made for herself. I would love to hear every story of every piece of cloth in her home. The needlework, and it's variations, are beautiful. My grandmother (Busi) made things like that for the church and for local theater. She worked out of her home and all her life as a seamstress.

Fred Burrows
Community Member
3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My Grandparents had the opposite as a little town slowly grew around their country home . Modern homes and streets and there in the middle was my Grandparent place with an outhouse and barn . Grandma grew raspberries and rhubarb and prepared dinner from the chickens and rabbits they had. She sharpened her knives on the stovepipe and kept all manner of jars of canned goods in the root cellar where you could see the corner posts of the house were four birch trees . Grandpa changed a car transmission by himself at age 84 . Blessings to Miss Lyuska .

lara
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She reminds me of my grandmother who was born in Russia and came to the US in 1904. Yes, she is gone now, but I see the very same things in this lady as I saw in my grandmother. I would love to be able to visit her and bring her small gifts. Perhaps some material to make things with, wool for a sweater jacket, things like that.

Stannous Flouride
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The photos that I assume are of her parents were taken during the Great Patriotic War (WW2) and her father is shown wearing a Red Army uniform. She was born in 1950-51 so he likely fought in and survived that horrible conflict and she was birthed. When you see how tough Russians are it's hard to believe that Hitler ever thought he stood a chance of invading and conquering the USSR but he was a megalomaniac surrounded by sycophants attacking people defending their Motherland. (I don't mean to defend the Soviet system or Stalin here, merely to recognize the strength of the Russian people)

Oogiebogieaugiedaddy
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She is a tough cookie! I admire her but would not want to live that life.

Katinka Min
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It sounds like a very lonely existence and a hard life. Good, that she has neighbours, now.

Nikki D
Community Member
6 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And here I figured Russians were so cold and distant, yet this lady is as warm and friendly as they come. May we all be as well as she is at 70! *does a vague religious motion* But..Does anyone know what a Russian stove is? It just looks like a hole in the wall..

Community Member
6 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

About the stove. The stove made of a brick. Stove is to big. there is a place where it is possible to sleep 2 persons on the stove. The stove is heated once a day. It will be warm in the house all day even in a frost is hard.

Load More Replies...
Mari
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What a brave and strong woman! She is living a hard life, but that's not a bad thing. In Morocco there are a lot of little villages with the same problems. The younger people are moving to the city. For the eldery people it's a though life to survive, but they are happy. Keep up the good work Olga! It's very important to write down their stories and knowledge. They have a such a rich knowledge about surviving, food, plants, nature.. it's very important to write that down because people nowadays forget everything about that. I wish you good luck Olga!

Belluška Vejvodová
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i cant imagine being only person in whole village. that beacuse i have mess in my head, so im scared to be alone? just asking..

Jjiinnee
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Reading this made me feel extremely happy, and brightened a stressed out Friday. Thank you. <3

Magdalina777
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That looks awfully familiar. My grandmother's sister lives in similar conditions, in winter there is I think 2 people in the village other than her....and, coincidentally, it's also in Pskov region XD It's sad that villages are dying out like that...makes me feel nostalgic, I've always loved going to her village, it has its own charm although I can't imagine living like that full time.

Jer emy
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

“Go away, city girl, you will hurt yourself with that axe,” she told me when I tried to help. - I LOLed at this

alex
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

the putin part brings back the feels. one of my earliest memories is sitting in front of the tv and watching him wish us a happy new year's.

GoddessOdd
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My grandparents were tough Scots Irish stock, lived in a house built by hand, grew vegetables and apples, had a horse, chickens and geese, and I always thought they were tough and self sufficient... and they were, but they had neighbors and extended family around to help. Lyuska is in a league of her own. I wish her many more years in her lovely peaceful home.

Miłka Chromińska
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A wonderful story about a truly tough and creative woman from the old generation! I would love to see her show us how she makes a dress from a man's shirt and just to hear how life used to be when she was in her 20s, was the village full of people then?

Oogiebogieaugiedaddy
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are a remarkable woman! I imagine you were raised with true grit. Women can do it all and it appears you have a full life. You definitely have my respect!!!!

Hannah Edwards
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Thank you for sharing Lyuska’s story with us, it was lovely to see such a vibrant and practical woman.

Elmie Pumpkinbush
Community Member
3 years ago

This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

This comment has been deleted.

Vonskippy
Community Member
6 years ago

This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

"Lyuska herself is cut. By a holiday it is necessary to make toilet." Oh the memories, sitting around the table and making holiday toilets.

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