My husband is against all my step kid choices. I warn them when the storm is coming but the negativity is hard to watch. All good for us but he's being an a,#hole to his adult kids. I know i can't intervene physically but mentally, how can i get him to back to back off.
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Tell him everything on your mind, and if he cares about you or his kids then he'll put in an effort to stop
Perhaps telling him (at a moment that he seems receptive to it) exactly what you wrote above. What you’ve stated here is coming off somewhat toxic though & you may want to look into the situation deeper…