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Woman Can’t Take Stepdaughter’s Behavior Anymore, Kicks Her Out And Separates From Husband
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Woman Can’t Take Stepdaughter’s Behavior Anymore, Kicks Her Out And Separates From Husband

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Blending families isn’t always easy. No matter how much you love your spouse, their children might take some time to warm up to you. And yours might not be thrilled to have a new parent and new siblings all at once. But family drama should not escalate to the point where police have to get involved.

One woman recently posted a story on Reddit detailing how her teenage stepdaughter lied to the police and attempted to get her arrested. Below, you’ll find all of the details, as well as a conversation with the mother and some of the replies concerned readers shared. 

It’s common for children to have complicated relationships with their stepparents

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But when this woman’s stepdaughter attempted to have her arrested, she knew that they could no longer live together

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“We’ve gotten through any ups and downs previously, but this last time was the last straw for me”

To learn more about this situation, we reached out to the mom who shared this story online, Reddit user One-Prompt7701. She was kind enough to have a chat with Bored Panda and provide an update on the situation.

“Stepdaughter is living with my mother in law. She has a phone, all social media and has full freedom to do what she pleases,” the mother shared. “She just started a job today. My husband refuses for any punishment to be given to her outside of being kicked out. She’s had zero consequences at my MIL’s house either. She got what she wanted. Freedom from rules, got pulled out of school to take GED at 18 and has a job to buy everything she wants.”

We were also curious about the author’s relationship with her stepdaughter. “I’ve been married for two years, friends [with my husband] for 14 years and together for 7 years,” she says. “My relationship only goes downhill when she acts up with police involved or does something manipulative. We’ve gotten through any ups and downs previously, but this last time was the last straw for me. Her and I were just fine prior to her police calling in June. She acted like those Velcro kids you have to peel off of you.”

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But unfortunately, the mom says she’s unsure if she’ll ever have a relationship with her stepdaughter again. “It would have to be some serious change and probably her being grown and becoming a mother before we even sit down for a conversation again,” she noted. “But I’ll never trust her again. I don’t want her talking to or around her siblings until they are 18 and making their own decisions without her evil guidance.”

“I had so much faith in her and invested so much love and time and money into her, and she slapped me in the face with what she did”

We also asked the author what she thought of the replies to her post. “[They] were exactly how I felt, but my husband was trying to diminish those feelings of not wanting her around or forgiving her. Some people mentioned some helpful possible diagnosis for her, but we may never know if she’s mentally messed up or just plain evil. She refuses to do the work with a therapist or even see a psychiatrist. I’ve tried two therapists who both said to let them know when she’s ready to actually do the work.”

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Unfortunately, the teen has not shown any remorse for her actions. “She still stands firm that I beat her with the laptop, even though there’s cameras with multiple viewpoints to show I never once touched her. I didn’t even yell at her,” the mom says. “She’s back on social media on twerk pages bent over with her butt out and smoking vapes and weed. She’s right where she wants to be and doing everything she dreamt of.”

“Her goals were to be an internet star and video girl. She has so much potential to be more than that, and she’s a beautiful girl with A LOT more to offer than her body. It’s sad because I had so much faith in her and invested so much love and time and money into her, and she slapped me in the face with what she did and pissed on it,” the mother shared. “It’ll never be the same. I see my marriage ending in divorce at this point.”

Blended families are extremely common nowadays

While it might not be the most traditional way of having a family, remarrying and combining families to include stepchildren and stepparents is extremely common. According to the Pew Research Center, 40% of new marriages in the United States are actually remarriages, and a quarter of married adults aren’t with their first spouse at the moment. 

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And of course, many of these couples have children. Smart Stepfamilies reports that there are over 10.5 kids living in residential stepfamilies in the United States. At the same time, about a third of Americans have a step-relationship with at least one other person. 

So although there is an archetype of the wicked stepmother, the reality is that many people coexist with their stepparents and stepsiblings quite well, once they’ve gotten through the initial adjustment period. When it comes to building a relationship with stepchildren, Smart Stepfamilies notes that the most important thing is to let the child dictate the pace of the relationship.

Don’t try to force anything, and don’t pressure them to hang out with you. Respect their boundaries, and understand that it might take them time to adjust. And remember to relax. You have plenty of time to spend with them and strengthen that bond; don’t feel like you’re in a rush.

It’s very rare for children to lie about abuse

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If your stepchildren are teens, remember to be incredibly patient. We all know that puberty, hormones and the stress of adolescence can turn teenagers into sassy, independent young people who constantly feel misunderstood. The vast majority of parents have conflicts with their teens, so it’s understandable that these issues might be even worse for stepparents.

But in this particular story, the teen wasn’t simply sneaking out in the middle of the night or getting grounded for talking back to her parents. She could have ruined her stepmother’s entire life with her accusations. The Indiana Chapter of the National Children’s Alliance notes on their site that teens and kids rarely lie about abuse, so it’s always best to believe them unless there’s proof that they’re fabricating a story. 

It’s an unfortunate fact that 90% of the time, when a child is abused or sexually assaulted, the perpetrator was someone that they know, often a family member. And it’s much more common for kids to deny that abuse is happening when it actually is than for them to make it up. In fact, the National Children’s Alliance reports that false accusations only make up about 2% of all child sexual abuse reports. 

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Lying to the police can actually be a crime in and of itself

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But in rare circumstances like this story, when a parent truly has been wrongfully accused, Verywell Mind has shared recommendations for how to respond. They suggest complying with the investigation and being as cooperative as possible, gathering evidence to support your case, informing friends and family about what’s going on and asking loved ones if they would be willing to provide a statement or interview supporting you.

In the United States, child abuse is either a misdemeanor or a felony, depending on the state and the circumstances, Shouse Law Group explains on their site. But it can also be a crime to lie to the police. According to CriminalDefenseLawyer, lying to a police officer could lead to charges of making false statements, obstruction of justice, giving police a false name, falsely reporting and/or accessory after the fact.

While child abuse is an extremely serious topic that should not be taken lightly, it’s scary to know that this teen could have ripped her family apart and destroyed her stepmother’s life just because she was bitter about her laptop being taken away.

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We would love to hear your thoughts on this situation down below, pandas. Do you think this mom was overreacting? Then, if you’d like to check out another Bored Panda piece featuring similar family drama, we recommend reading this article next. 

Readers assured the woman that her reaction was warranted and shared advice on what to do next

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Howdy, I'm Adelaide! I'm originally from Texas, but after graduating from university with an acting degree, I relocated to sunny Los Angeles for a while. I then got a serious bite from the travel bug and found myself moving to Sweden and England before settling in Lithuania about two years ago. I'm passionate about animal welfare, sustainability and eating delicious food. But as you can see, I cover a wide range of topics including drama, internet trends and hilarious memes. I can easily be won over with a Seinfeld reference, vegan pastry or glass of fresh cold brew. And during my free time, I can usually be seen strolling through a park, playing tennis or baking something tasty.

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Moosy Girl
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If this was in America and they’re black her stepdaughter’s lie could’ve gotten her killed, sheesh.

RAM31280
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

NTA. How is this kid not facing legal ramifications for multiple times of calling police with false claims?

Papa
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Because she's a minor. If she tries that in a year or two she will likely be in for a rude awakening.

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Jihana
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So, she does not want to live with her mother, her father or her stepmother, since she called the police on all of them. So where does she want to live, I wonder? What's the plan here?

Sergio Bicerra
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Have all arrested, kids go to foster care and she's got the whole house for herself.

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Whitefox
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Shes lucky. My family went through some S**T because a kid decided to play these kinds of games. CPS ate her story *UP* The cameras in the house didnt matter because they could be manipulated, familial testimony didn't matter because everyone matched their stories up. Timing problems for her made up allegations didn't matter because she's just a kid (15) and gets confused. Even though her siblings thoroughly disputed everything she said about their parents they removed all the kids. Adult Protective Services investigated because of the severely disable sibling. But they saw right through her bs. The cops and the district attorney saw right through her c**p and refused to press charges. But, CPS just couldn't believe that a kid could be so full of hate. They made the families life hell for over a year before conceding that the 2 younger siblings should be returned to the home. in the meantime, the instigator was turned over to CPS. Then she accused her fosters of the same stuff.

TribbleThinking
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would get the incident filed with a police crime number so that it is recorded as what she has done before. Because that little miss with her clan of enablers is going to be back through some legal messiness somehow and trying to drag you and yours into it. If you are in the UK, make sure that it is a CRIME number, not an INCIDENT number, as it's downgraded and they seem to look "lose" it. Get guidance from Citizens Advice as I strongly suspect the police will try to brush you off when you do this. Good luck.

Alexandra
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This 16 year old knew what she was doing and knew what the consequences for you could be. Not only for you, but also for your children and she didn't give it a second thought. In the interest of yourself and your children you should keep her as far away from you as possible. As for your husband...tell him that it's non-negotiable for her to come back and if he doesn't agree, he can join her.

CBolt
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"knew what the consequences ..... didn't give it a second thought." Wrong - she intentionally took action (after going so far as to do research online) in a deliberate attempt to bring on those consequences.

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DarkViolet
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

NTA. I don't know why you are even asking that question. That 16-year-old demon could have cost you everything you hold dear, and still have gotten a pat on the head from Daddy Dearest. For your and the children's safety, change the locks, get security cameras, and open your own bank account. Be sure that no one else but you can access it. Then get a lawyer and prepare to file for divorce. You are no longer a priority to your husband, as he is too quick to defend his toxic child. Sooner or later, she'll make the mistake of crying "Wolf!" once too often, and on the very wrong person. It won't end well for her.

Rabbit Of ill Portent(she/her)
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She's almost an adult and she has to go through 10th grade all over again smh. That little girl needs to get scared straight. She sounds like Cartman "whateva! whateva! I do what I want!!"

Matt
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why didn't the step mother or the cops charge her with false informing in the U.S. it is a crime to report a fake crime

KatSaidWhat
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

betting the cops were ashamed that they had been so badly manipulated. Personally, I would have taken her back in the car for a charge.

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Nimitz
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3 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well that's one side of the story. As someone who was kicked out at 17 by abusive as f**k parents though, I am not inclined to believe this without concrete evidence. The OP takes responsibility for absolutely nothing, and in situations like this, that's a giant f*****g red flag. I somehow doubt that the kid is entirely the problem, in which case, it's on the adults to resolve these situations. Teenage years are rough, and it sounds like the daughter's been crying for help and instead of getting it she's being told to straighten up and fly right, to show more respect, obey... No, this is not the whole story.

Pyla
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When they find grandma in dead, dad will know he has his head up his butt.

Jan
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why did she still have the school issued laptop if it was the last day of school. My grandson's school takes back the issued laptops at the end of the year and the parents a financially liable for damage or for not returning them.

Natasha Clark
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

OP lost me at primary parent & financial provider... so you married a bum dildo with sperm that does absolutely nothing including discipline HIS child? To make matters worse have kids with him too, separation was bound to happen. 🤭

Ash Conner
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I took care of a kid that was pulling the sàme BS. I was nice enough to let her stay at my house. She is not related to me. She was in counseling and everything. The pace she was going to was disorganized though. If it were my choice I would have signed her up somewhere else. I ended up sending her to another family members house. Kids today

CBolt
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

NOR but her dad is a huge part of the problem. Sounds like you've put a lot of effort into raising his child but he doesn't see much to be upset about on this occasion - just wants her to get a job & get on her feet. Between her attitude & her lack of education she's not likely to find the kind of job that will pay for all these fun things she wants to do (MIL shouldn't be surprised if she finds her wallet empty one day), much less support her when MIL tosses her out too. Dad has a lot to answer for & you need to do whatever's necessary in order to protect yourself & the other children. I do wish "community service" weren't used as a punishment. First, helping others should be seen as a positive thing to do. Second, it doesn't have any impact on those sentenced to do community service - it's more like, "Yippee! I got away with it!"

Tenebre
Community Member
3 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So... the parents had a s****y, messy divorce, and the child's father moved a woman with 3 other kids and now a baby into his child's life... but there's no talk of any form of therapy? They let that kid down. OPs husband was 17 when he had the kid. Something tells me none of the adults in this child's life were good to her

CBolt
Community Member
2 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

OP said there had been therapy & 2 therapists told her bring the girl back when she was ready "to do the work." She obviously didn't want to go & didn't cooperate.

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Me. Just Me.
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3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

One thing I'm not seeing pointed out here is the fact that dad is 34 at the time of the post, meaning he was a teenager when she was born, and probably also her biological mother. Most people at that age are not equipped to provide for a child, as they are barely mature themselves. So this girl has not likely grown up in a nurturing household. It sounds like OP is the mature one in this family and dad still hasn't grown up and learned how to set boundaries for his daughter, so this was never going to be a good situation. Not sure what the girl was thinking getting her parents jailed, so where was she going to go. She could end up in an even more strict situation and she is not used to being told no. She's going to have a rough time in life unfortunately and one can only hope she'll wake up before she's 30.

Schmebulock
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sounds like a terrible family where everyone is the AH and they are raising four more future AHs on top of it.

Moosy Girl
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If this was in America and they’re black her stepdaughter’s lie could’ve gotten her killed, sheesh.

RAM31280
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

NTA. How is this kid not facing legal ramifications for multiple times of calling police with false claims?

Papa
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Because she's a minor. If she tries that in a year or two she will likely be in for a rude awakening.

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Jihana
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So, she does not want to live with her mother, her father or her stepmother, since she called the police on all of them. So where does she want to live, I wonder? What's the plan here?

Sergio Bicerra
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Have all arrested, kids go to foster care and she's got the whole house for herself.

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Whitefox
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Shes lucky. My family went through some S**T because a kid decided to play these kinds of games. CPS ate her story *UP* The cameras in the house didnt matter because they could be manipulated, familial testimony didn't matter because everyone matched their stories up. Timing problems for her made up allegations didn't matter because she's just a kid (15) and gets confused. Even though her siblings thoroughly disputed everything she said about their parents they removed all the kids. Adult Protective Services investigated because of the severely disable sibling. But they saw right through her bs. The cops and the district attorney saw right through her c**p and refused to press charges. But, CPS just couldn't believe that a kid could be so full of hate. They made the families life hell for over a year before conceding that the 2 younger siblings should be returned to the home. in the meantime, the instigator was turned over to CPS. Then she accused her fosters of the same stuff.

TribbleThinking
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would get the incident filed with a police crime number so that it is recorded as what she has done before. Because that little miss with her clan of enablers is going to be back through some legal messiness somehow and trying to drag you and yours into it. If you are in the UK, make sure that it is a CRIME number, not an INCIDENT number, as it's downgraded and they seem to look "lose" it. Get guidance from Citizens Advice as I strongly suspect the police will try to brush you off when you do this. Good luck.

Alexandra
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This 16 year old knew what she was doing and knew what the consequences for you could be. Not only for you, but also for your children and she didn't give it a second thought. In the interest of yourself and your children you should keep her as far away from you as possible. As for your husband...tell him that it's non-negotiable for her to come back and if he doesn't agree, he can join her.

CBolt
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"knew what the consequences ..... didn't give it a second thought." Wrong - she intentionally took action (after going so far as to do research online) in a deliberate attempt to bring on those consequences.

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DarkViolet
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

NTA. I don't know why you are even asking that question. That 16-year-old demon could have cost you everything you hold dear, and still have gotten a pat on the head from Daddy Dearest. For your and the children's safety, change the locks, get security cameras, and open your own bank account. Be sure that no one else but you can access it. Then get a lawyer and prepare to file for divorce. You are no longer a priority to your husband, as he is too quick to defend his toxic child. Sooner or later, she'll make the mistake of crying "Wolf!" once too often, and on the very wrong person. It won't end well for her.

Rabbit Of ill Portent(she/her)
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She's almost an adult and she has to go through 10th grade all over again smh. That little girl needs to get scared straight. She sounds like Cartman "whateva! whateva! I do what I want!!"

Matt
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why didn't the step mother or the cops charge her with false informing in the U.S. it is a crime to report a fake crime

KatSaidWhat
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

betting the cops were ashamed that they had been so badly manipulated. Personally, I would have taken her back in the car for a charge.

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Nimitz
Community Member
3 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well that's one side of the story. As someone who was kicked out at 17 by abusive as f**k parents though, I am not inclined to believe this without concrete evidence. The OP takes responsibility for absolutely nothing, and in situations like this, that's a giant f*****g red flag. I somehow doubt that the kid is entirely the problem, in which case, it's on the adults to resolve these situations. Teenage years are rough, and it sounds like the daughter's been crying for help and instead of getting it she's being told to straighten up and fly right, to show more respect, obey... No, this is not the whole story.

Pyla
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When they find grandma in dead, dad will know he has his head up his butt.

Jan
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why did she still have the school issued laptop if it was the last day of school. My grandson's school takes back the issued laptops at the end of the year and the parents a financially liable for damage or for not returning them.

Natasha Clark
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

OP lost me at primary parent & financial provider... so you married a bum dildo with sperm that does absolutely nothing including discipline HIS child? To make matters worse have kids with him too, separation was bound to happen. 🤭

Ash Conner
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I took care of a kid that was pulling the sàme BS. I was nice enough to let her stay at my house. She is not related to me. She was in counseling and everything. The pace she was going to was disorganized though. If it were my choice I would have signed her up somewhere else. I ended up sending her to another family members house. Kids today

CBolt
Community Member
2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

NOR but her dad is a huge part of the problem. Sounds like you've put a lot of effort into raising his child but he doesn't see much to be upset about on this occasion - just wants her to get a job & get on her feet. Between her attitude & her lack of education she's not likely to find the kind of job that will pay for all these fun things she wants to do (MIL shouldn't be surprised if she finds her wallet empty one day), much less support her when MIL tosses her out too. Dad has a lot to answer for & you need to do whatever's necessary in order to protect yourself & the other children. I do wish "community service" weren't used as a punishment. First, helping others should be seen as a positive thing to do. Second, it doesn't have any impact on those sentenced to do community service - it's more like, "Yippee! I got away with it!"

Tenebre
Community Member
3 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So... the parents had a s****y, messy divorce, and the child's father moved a woman with 3 other kids and now a baby into his child's life... but there's no talk of any form of therapy? They let that kid down. OPs husband was 17 when he had the kid. Something tells me none of the adults in this child's life were good to her

CBolt
Community Member
2 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

OP said there had been therapy & 2 therapists told her bring the girl back when she was ready "to do the work." She obviously didn't want to go & didn't cooperate.

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Me. Just Me.
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

One thing I'm not seeing pointed out here is the fact that dad is 34 at the time of the post, meaning he was a teenager when she was born, and probably also her biological mother. Most people at that age are not equipped to provide for a child, as they are barely mature themselves. So this girl has not likely grown up in a nurturing household. It sounds like OP is the mature one in this family and dad still hasn't grown up and learned how to set boundaries for his daughter, so this was never going to be a good situation. Not sure what the girl was thinking getting her parents jailed, so where was she going to go. She could end up in an even more strict situation and she is not used to being told no. She's going to have a rough time in life unfortunately and one can only hope she'll wake up before she's 30.

Schmebulock
Community Member
3 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sounds like a terrible family where everyone is the AH and they are raising four more future AHs on top of it.

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