If the genders were switched, would so many people just shrug it off? Glad he got supportive comments.

mamaistired gave a very good response. This girl seems to have mental health issues. Surely on campus there is someone other than the Dean they can go to? Sounds like this girl needs help, and OP needs protecting in case this does escalate

She's definitely a stalker This is truly terrifying What if they were poisoned and she was delusional in some Romeo and Juliet thing? ( I know that they were younger) it does happen. It just is usually is m on f.violence. I can tell you from my experience with many children and raising seven sons and daughters, when a young woman goes out like that, they usually try the whole drama program. They don't have any off switch. But boys can be very emotional and strange at that age as well. Teenagers tend to see their current life as all they'll have. That it doesn't ever get better or change. But if anyone is out there and needs encouragement, those years while intense, and sometimes EXTREMELY painful and hard, do pass. And then, you can be your own person. And you don't have to go down those hallways anymore unless you choose. And college is a while different cookie or so I'm told. Never attended myself. Taught a little, when computers were new.

No means no. You said No and she kept it up anyway. If someone doesn't get the f*****g hint then at that point nothing you do short of violence is being an a*****e. And if she got violent you have every right to defend yourself.

Everyone on here needs to research the term LIMERENCE! It causes brain chemistry to get all messed up, basically causing a dopamine effect like heroin. Very few healthcare professionals know about it or how to treat it. It's not in the DSM... YET! There's no cut and dry cure. She definitely needs help, and the OP needs protection. Document everything!!!

My husband had a stalker who had some mental issues too. I guess once he listened to some of her problems and she found him really empathetic. So she then started calling him at random times and would send him creepy messages. She tried to gift him a guitar too. He declined and told her it was inappropriate. She knew he was married and he tried several times to let her down gently but she just wouldn't get the hint. He didn't want to be too harsh with her because of her mental state and fearing she might attempt suicide. He tried telling her that she should get some help and gave her contacts of a couple of therapists but I don't think she ever went. I think she was very lonely, depressed and had no support system. While I did feel for her issues but she was bothering my husband a lot. He was so tensed and frustrated. His colleagues made fun of him- typical thinking that he was supposed to like the attention

Yeah, NTA. That girl was acting inappropriately. The adults failed this guy.

I had a stalker when I was 15. When my parents found out the phoned the police straight away and stopped it. Thank god. Go to a trusted adult like a councillor or a teacher. I cannot believe your parents are so dismissive of what is going on.

I'm not sure switching the genders would make any difference. I've told lots of people stories about guys being creepy (only one time things though, nothing to this extent) and been told that he was just flirting and I was the one being mean.

This girl will end up boiling your bunny in your own kitchen. Report it!

As the mother of two boys I would definitely say this is harassment. Switch the genders and if it was a boy and not a girl, I bet they’d be arrested. My oldest (a boy) didn’t have problems in high school but my middle child, also a boy, had other boys harassing him. Taking pictures of him and posting them online. Putting their hand on his seat as he’s sitting down so they’d “accidentally” touch his butt. Really creepy weird things. Immediately every time I would call the principal and they’d “talk to them” but it kept happening. My husband is a cop and I’m a psycho so I flat out said I’ll take them all to court and my husband will start getting the law involved because what they’re doing is illegal. It stopped immediately but it’s sad it took us to threaten a higher action for it to be over. It’s not ok no matter the gender

The girl’s behavior is not okay, period. No means no.

If this were reverse and it was a male stalking a female, everyone would be upset and concerned. So the same applies to this guy. He told her to stop, she didn't so he reacted aggressively. NTA.

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PLEASE BP, STOP POSTING SO MANY AITA THREADS. Is this the filler you use when you don't have enough cute / humorous / interesting articles to post? There are close to 8 BILLION people in the world. There will always be a never ending sea of drama situations between people. It doesn't mean they are entertaining or important to people outside of the situation.

Welcome to the real world, kid. Men are never taken seriously when they complain about stalking and abuse.