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Flight Attendant Puts Her Foot Down When Disabled Female Passenger Kicks Up Fuss On Southwest Flight
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Flight Attendant Puts Her Foot Down When Disabled Female Passenger Kicks Up Fuss On Southwest Flight

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Traveling by flight is supposed to be a relaxing experience. You’re just supposed to board the plane, take your seat, and smoothly reach your destination. Unfortunately, a calm journey isn’t always guaranteed, especially with the rise in bizarre flight incidents.

The most recent viral passenger and air hostess interaction will give you a glimpse into what it feels like to fly by plane these days. Brace yourself to witness a new level of entitlement and feel a lot of secondhand embarrassment.

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Demanding passenger is caught on video loudly complaining and ordering flight attendant around while other people look on

Image credits: jaynithof23

The video shows a Southwest flight air hostess trying to deal with a loud and entitled woman

The passenger in question seemed to be demanding a lot from the flight attendant. She also wanted to be buckled in and have her bags stowed away. For some reason, she mentioned that her husband, who has autism, was alright sitting on his own. Meanwhile, the air hostess tried to reason with the woman and find a way to calm her down by stating, “well, we’re not going to have this chaos in the air.”

The passenger explained away her actions, saying that she was hearing-impaired, which is what made her seem “chaotic.” Immediately after that, she interrupted the flight attendant who was trying to talk to her to say, “somebody’s using God’s name in vain behind me.” The air hostess tried her best to maintain her composure throughout the entire interaction.

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The passenger didn’t seem to realize how much trouble she was causing until the air hostess told her, “I’m not going to sit here and be berated”

The calm flight attendant buckled the woman in, put her bags in the overhead bin, and managed to stop the passenger from having more tantrums. Unfortunately, this kind of unruly behavior is becoming more common on flights, and some people almost feel it’s their right to make exorbitant demands from the airline staff. This creates problems for the plane’s team and other passengers who are just trying to make it to their destination.

Image credits: freepik (not the actual photo)

You can watch the bizarre interaction here

@jaynithof23 This is so sad. Kudos to the flight attendants that kept their composure throughout the flight. #anotherkarensighting #southwest ♬ original sound – Jaynithof23

One passenger causing trouble on a flight can disrupt the travel experience for everyone on board

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Image credits: freepik (not the actual photo)

This video is just one of many similar chaotic airline incidents. We say that because there were almost 24,500 unruly passenger episodes just in 2023. That’s almost 1 disruption every 480 flights. Some of the most common issues that occur on board include violence against the crew or the passengers, harassment, smoking, or generally inconveniencing others. 

People seem to forget that the flight crew has specific roles and responsibilities. They are there to ensure every passenger is safe and comfortable. Flight attendants are trained to handle emergency situations, look after passenger health concerns, and be ambassadors for the airline. Instead of respecting the airline crew, many people tend to disregard what they are saying.

Flight attendants may know how to handle tense incidents, but that doesn’t mean they enjoy dealing with them. In the video, the woman kept making demands from the air hostess, and you can see that the worker still remains professional and avoids confrontation. It is extremely difficult to maintain your cool while de-escalating such situations.

Disruptive passengers aren’t just inconveniences; they also threaten the safety and security of the people around them. When flights are held up, it can lead to large-scale operational disruption. In extreme cases, there might even need to be an unscheduled landing. This may cost the airline anywhere between $10k and $200k.

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The International Air Transport Association (IATA) says that airlines should devise ways to prevent passengers from becoming unruly on board. They can do this by explaining how the airline will respond to destructive actions, informing passengers about their zero-tolerance policies, and showing them what consequences they may face. Prevention is one of the simplest ways to keep people from getting out of control.

However, situations can escalate even if the crew has laid down the rules and regulations for the folks on board. When matters get too hard to handle, the command pilot assesses the scene and informs the airline’s central control. They may later involve their internal committee, which will address the incident and decide whether legal action must be taken against the passenger(s).

People don’t seem to understand the gravity of their actions, which is why we still hear about so many horrible flight situations. The woman in the video tried to explain that she had a disability, which is why she may seem “chaotic.” She used that as an excuse to create issues for the flight attendant who was just doing her job.

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The air hostess may have been able to keep her cool, but people who watched the video were baffled by the passenger’s weird behavior. The viral video got 8.4 million views and sparked a huge conversation about how people treat airline staff. There is definitely a need for flight travelers to be kinder to the crew on board; after all, even though it’s their job, they’re still human beings.

How would you have responded to this woman if you were one of the flight crew members? Let us know in the comments.

The comments were flooded with support for the flight attendant, people who used to work as airline staff and nurses said that they’ve also had similar horrible experiences

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René Sauer
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4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I rolled my eyes so hard when I read about her complain " Someone behind me used gods name in vain" 🤣

Rebel Peewee
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Right, bc her behavior on the other hand was totally inoffensive to everyone.

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StrangeOne
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She's using her disability as an excuse. My understanding is if you're going to bring a carry-on you must be able to store it away properly, yourself, or the flight staff will have it go in checked luggage.

CanadianDimes
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’ve been on plenty of flights where the flight attendants have helped people put their bags up but always either if the person was trying and having troubles or asked politely. People can struggle with this for a number of reasons and still be polite about it

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Roan The Demon Kitty
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"i have a hearing impairment but i can still hear the people behind me and am eavesdropping on their conversation that has nothing to do with me just so I can complain about it" honestly, I doubt she has a disability at all, she's just a fat lazy karen.

KatSaidWhat
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Time flight attendants wear cameras to prove or prevent this kind of b******t. People tend to behave when they are on camera

Gen X Feral
Community Member
4 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Her: someone's using the lords name in vain Me: oh you ain't heard nothing yet 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬 😬

Historyharlot93
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No disrespect to Southwest, but if you expect pampering, picking a barebones flying bus isn’t the way to go. (I’ve been lucky to be upgraded to first class a few times by other airlines, and you still wouldn’t expect this level of entitlement). If this is how she abuses strangers, imagine what a delight she is to her family. I bet she’s a blast during the holidays.

Beth Wheeler
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What do you mean you don't get paid during boarding? You should be paid from the second you have to be there, which is before people start boarding.

R Dennis
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The video really doesn't show a lot of detail. But as a disabled traveler myself, it is extremely difficult to navigate the simple things people take for granted. I am extremely thankful and try to be pleasant, but it is such an internal struggle that people aren't even aware of. I can't imagine if my wife was disabled as well and we had a child! A lot of people will just say "Well, then don't travel!" As if the disabled should just disappear and stop wanting to exist. I don't have the lady's full story from this video, but she seems more stressed and frustrated than anything... I have seen dozens of far worse passengers. It doesn't mean a free pass for bad behavior, but this snippet is lacking. (Though I flew on SWA once since becoming disabled and they were absolutely wonderful!)

R Dennis
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As for people saying she is fat and lazy: I was a hockey player and extremely fit. When I started having symptoms, it took seven years to diagnose. By then I could barely walk and had gained 100 lbs from the medication they threw at me - it didn't help with what I was finally diagnosed as having. I have managed to drop half of it, but it's difficult to do now that I can't use my arms and legs very much... and yes, I am about to give up on traveling because as my condition worsens, I am terrified of the effort it will take and the help I will need.

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Sandra Moon
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm hard of hearing. Hearing anything behind you is difficult at the best of times, but with all the background noise on a plane, it's impossible. Plus, your hearing doesn't affect your limbs. I hate people like this woman give all of us a bad name. Rude Karen!

Corey Threadwalker
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can explain every part of this without her being rude or “lazy” or even “at fault” for being overweight. There are tons of much ruder people yelling and swearing and even physically attacking flight attendants, but you choose to pick on the disabled one just for not being polite enough (when she might be too overwhelmed to be as polite as she would like) and asking for what she needs? If she, like me has ME/CFS (a deeply debilitating condition that affects both brain and your whole body) or something similar like MS she would have arrived in her wheelchair at the gate. They would have told her she would be helped (per the law) but sadly the training by the airlines for helping the disabled to meet the requirements of this law is lacking. https://www.transportation.gov/.../passengers...) If she had a seat in back with her husband and child they would have given her that front row seat she was in as part of disability services, but would not have included her husband and child.

Jessie
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She said her only disability was that she was hearing impaired but even that doesn’t seem to be true because she could eavesdrop on the people behind her during a conversation.

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Thom Serveaux
Community Member
3 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Honestly...I've dealt with far worse in my time. I'm not saying what she did is ok, but if she was skinny this wouldn't have made it to the internet.

Coffeemama05
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Anyone working with the public deserves a raise. And the people dealing with her- they have more grace than me. Because I would have made her cry. People are on these planes for various reasons- funerals, family reunions, vacation, work etc. Some people, like me, have a huge phobia of flying and she probably would have triggered my anxiety which in return would have made my husband physically restrain her and help escort her off. And how can you have a hearing disability but be able to hear things not close to you? Should not be able to fly again and the attendants deserve something for keeping their cool

Binky Melnik
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Her “disability” seems to be that she’s annoying and stupid, in which case there sure is a metric fuckton of disabled people on planes these days.

CanadianDimes
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was on a flight a few weeks ago where the passenger sitting across the aisle from me asked the flight attendant to open a window because it was too warm. My brain dämn near exploded - can’t imagine how the flight attendant felt!

Michael Wlodarczyk
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Being a fat, lazy, entitled piece of s**t does not mean you are handicapped.

LokisLilButterknife
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ah yes, because all people who are fat are entitled pieces of "s**t." What a disgusting comment. Weren't you the same person that told women to "eat c**p and die" in one of your comments?

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The Starsong Princess
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4 months ago

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Shame on the person who recorded this woman to post for internet humiliation. She seems like she is neurodiverse and is having a meltdown. Or possibly mentally ill. Some compassion is in order.

Dragons Exist
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you're being this much of a piece of shít then you deserve to be recorded and shamed

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René Sauer
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I rolled my eyes so hard when I read about her complain " Someone behind me used gods name in vain" 🤣

Rebel Peewee
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Right, bc her behavior on the other hand was totally inoffensive to everyone.

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StrangeOne
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She's using her disability as an excuse. My understanding is if you're going to bring a carry-on you must be able to store it away properly, yourself, or the flight staff will have it go in checked luggage.

CanadianDimes
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’ve been on plenty of flights where the flight attendants have helped people put their bags up but always either if the person was trying and having troubles or asked politely. People can struggle with this for a number of reasons and still be polite about it

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Roan The Demon Kitty
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"i have a hearing impairment but i can still hear the people behind me and am eavesdropping on their conversation that has nothing to do with me just so I can complain about it" honestly, I doubt she has a disability at all, she's just a fat lazy karen.

KatSaidWhat
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Time flight attendants wear cameras to prove or prevent this kind of b******t. People tend to behave when they are on camera

Gen X Feral
Community Member
4 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Her: someone's using the lords name in vain Me: oh you ain't heard nothing yet 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬 😬

Historyharlot93
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No disrespect to Southwest, but if you expect pampering, picking a barebones flying bus isn’t the way to go. (I’ve been lucky to be upgraded to first class a few times by other airlines, and you still wouldn’t expect this level of entitlement). If this is how she abuses strangers, imagine what a delight she is to her family. I bet she’s a blast during the holidays.

Beth Wheeler
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What do you mean you don't get paid during boarding? You should be paid from the second you have to be there, which is before people start boarding.

R Dennis
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The video really doesn't show a lot of detail. But as a disabled traveler myself, it is extremely difficult to navigate the simple things people take for granted. I am extremely thankful and try to be pleasant, but it is such an internal struggle that people aren't even aware of. I can't imagine if my wife was disabled as well and we had a child! A lot of people will just say "Well, then don't travel!" As if the disabled should just disappear and stop wanting to exist. I don't have the lady's full story from this video, but she seems more stressed and frustrated than anything... I have seen dozens of far worse passengers. It doesn't mean a free pass for bad behavior, but this snippet is lacking. (Though I flew on SWA once since becoming disabled and they were absolutely wonderful!)

R Dennis
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As for people saying she is fat and lazy: I was a hockey player and extremely fit. When I started having symptoms, it took seven years to diagnose. By then I could barely walk and had gained 100 lbs from the medication they threw at me - it didn't help with what I was finally diagnosed as having. I have managed to drop half of it, but it's difficult to do now that I can't use my arms and legs very much... and yes, I am about to give up on traveling because as my condition worsens, I am terrified of the effort it will take and the help I will need.

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Sandra Moon
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm hard of hearing. Hearing anything behind you is difficult at the best of times, but with all the background noise on a plane, it's impossible. Plus, your hearing doesn't affect your limbs. I hate people like this woman give all of us a bad name. Rude Karen!

Corey Threadwalker
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can explain every part of this without her being rude or “lazy” or even “at fault” for being overweight. There are tons of much ruder people yelling and swearing and even physically attacking flight attendants, but you choose to pick on the disabled one just for not being polite enough (when she might be too overwhelmed to be as polite as she would like) and asking for what she needs? If she, like me has ME/CFS (a deeply debilitating condition that affects both brain and your whole body) or something similar like MS she would have arrived in her wheelchair at the gate. They would have told her she would be helped (per the law) but sadly the training by the airlines for helping the disabled to meet the requirements of this law is lacking. https://www.transportation.gov/.../passengers...) If she had a seat in back with her husband and child they would have given her that front row seat she was in as part of disability services, but would not have included her husband and child.

Jessie
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She said her only disability was that she was hearing impaired but even that doesn’t seem to be true because she could eavesdrop on the people behind her during a conversation.

Load More Replies...
Thom Serveaux
Community Member
3 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Honestly...I've dealt with far worse in my time. I'm not saying what she did is ok, but if she was skinny this wouldn't have made it to the internet.

Coffeemama05
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Anyone working with the public deserves a raise. And the people dealing with her- they have more grace than me. Because I would have made her cry. People are on these planes for various reasons- funerals, family reunions, vacation, work etc. Some people, like me, have a huge phobia of flying and she probably would have triggered my anxiety which in return would have made my husband physically restrain her and help escort her off. And how can you have a hearing disability but be able to hear things not close to you? Should not be able to fly again and the attendants deserve something for keeping their cool

Binky Melnik
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Her “disability” seems to be that she’s annoying and stupid, in which case there sure is a metric fuckton of disabled people on planes these days.

CanadianDimes
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was on a flight a few weeks ago where the passenger sitting across the aisle from me asked the flight attendant to open a window because it was too warm. My brain dämn near exploded - can’t imagine how the flight attendant felt!

Michael Wlodarczyk
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Being a fat, lazy, entitled piece of s**t does not mean you are handicapped.

LokisLilButterknife
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ah yes, because all people who are fat are entitled pieces of "s**t." What a disgusting comment. Weren't you the same person that told women to "eat c**p and die" in one of your comments?

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The Starsong Princess
Community Member
4 months ago

This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

Shame on the person who recorded this woman to post for internet humiliation. She seems like she is neurodiverse and is having a meltdown. Or possibly mentally ill. Some compassion is in order.

Dragons Exist
Community Member
4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you're being this much of a piece of shít then you deserve to be recorded and shamed

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