I feel this in my bones! I've been shamed my whole life for the way men behave around me. It finally took my husband saying that I could wear a burlap sack and still look sexy for me to realize that I will NEVER be able to control the thought/begaviors/feelings of those around me, so why worry about it. We really need a cultural shift to start teaching our boys/men how to control their own thoughts/behavious/feelings and stop relying on women to do it for them!

I hope this makes it to #1

Teenage girls in the US average 8 hours a week more of care taker and household duties than teenage boys. And then those girls grow into women who shoulder the lion share of it in a M/F relationship even when both people work full time outside the home. It's also currently the number 1 reason why women eventually file for divorce in the US. Parents have got to both teach and expect their sons to run households, do chores, etc.

I don't have children so maybe I am missing out on why women make such a big deal out of this. I have seen my cousins' wives berate another one and say she isn't a "real mom" because she didn't deliver naturally and doesn't breastfeed. I just don't get it. I really thought the only things I needed to care about were these: 1.) is baby healthy; 2.) is momma healthy, and; 3.) when do I get to squeeze the baby? Am I supposed to care about how the baby got to me?

I can't believe women actually do this. That's insane.

As a male i can say that this also pisses the f**k out of me.

Yeah seriously. It's the cheating partners fault and they deserve all the blame especially if the other person didn't even know they were the other person. I mean yeah it's crappy if they did know but your partner gets the main bulk of the blame still because they made the decision to cheat on you.

Absolutely yes! Sometimes words of encouragement makes a world of difference. You got this! You can do it! Don't give up!

This starts when kids are small! When I was in 1st-3rd grade of school there was this boy who would repeatedly kick my over my shins while we were in class and he would "accidently" bump into me pretty violently during recess. When I asked teachers and other adults what I should do they would just smile and tell me that little boys don't understand their feelings so when they like a girl they often behave badly towards her... so yeah. For a while I was led to believe that affection could be shown with violence. Imagine telling that to a victim of domestic violence???? And can you imagine the girls who were told this lie from childhood and who continued to believe it.... can you imagine what sort of love lofe they will accept as adults? Please stop teaching girls that ppl who hurt them do it because they like them. It is NOT ok!!!

HAHAHAHAHA! My mother gladly welcomed all of my sisters-in-law and my brother-in-law into the family with open arms. She was practically giddy when the boys said they were getting married. She goes out of her way to make sure that they are welcome and included in all aspects of the family. I think that it is mostly because she had 12 boys and me and she was tired and wanted rid of all of us.

Ugh! I hate this idea that the kitchen is the woman's place and not the man's!!! Since 75% of all chefs are male, why is it OK for a man to cook dinner outside the home but not in it????

Yep. I'll admit that I can be a bit much sometimes, but I am actively working on it. I'm in therapy and it is slowly working, but I would need someone who can be patient with me at times. Not ALL the time and I'm not saying that I would push the envelope, but just don't be like my ex who called me a narcissist because we were arguing and I mentioned my own needs, which he always and consistently put last. THAT, I definitely don't need again.

Stop dating idiot guys period?

During our first two married years, my wife and me, faced pressure from these older female relatives for not having yet a baby. Finally I was fed-up and replied to one of them: "Let me be auntie! My machine doesn't work!". Never disturbed again.

This is both for men and women, not just between women.

„He is a psycho killer but I can change him through the power of love“

Don't be mean to anyone.

Just tell him what you like it's time people accept that penetration doesn't do the trick for most women

Yeah,Ive seen WAY to many of these things and they always muck up the works. Had one clog an air relief valve today.

I cant stand it..

I often wonder if that is why Hilaria and Alec Baldwin have so many offspring. 8 kids under 10 is just insane.

"Just wait til you have kids then you'll REALLY know what it's like to be tired" b***h stfu, I'm allowed to be child free and really tired and stressed, too.

Yeah but my life is sooo much worse so your problems don't matter (§) I hate people who do this; everyone's problems and issues are valid

Of course you are not like the other girls. But neither are they. We are all individuals.

Hitler had an art teacher that said he couldn't paint .. and look how that turned out ..

Where I work, office full of women and men. The cleaner, a woman, has stated on more than one occasion that the women's toilets are far worse than the men's. One time a nugget of poo was left lying on the floor of a cubicle. Jam rags have also been left on the side in plain sight, no attempt to get rid of them. Even though bins are provided.

I can't grasp the concept..."I'm a very clean person..I don't sit on the toilet"...so we all have to deal with your pee dribble?.. hello..it's just rude to leave your grime there... clean up after yourself

I always pee standing in public toilets but I clean after myself like I would at home

Wha? They pee on the seat to clean germs off it? Surely not.

I *just* taped signs up in the bathroom less than 15 minutes ago! FFS - twice today I've had to wipe someone else's pee off the seat. It's ironic that the person squatting is the very reason that person squats. "Ew - toilets are gross!" Because you pee on the seat.

I hover ... sorry there is no way I will sit on a seat outdoors 😒

I work in a public school, so germs are gonna happen

Yeah yeah ok commenters also remember most children use the women's bathrooms in the belief "it's safer" and they tend to be the ones doing things people are commenting about. It's still the responsibility of the parent but bad parenting can be found on both sides and yes dads will also just tell kids to use the women's bathroom on their own thinking it's too dangerous in the men's but also not willing to go take the child to the toilet himself.

Anyone doing this is disgusting. I’ve seen some rank toilets that I’d rather suffer with an IBS attack than use a toilet that resembles that one from Trainspotting.

I remember years ago when some public toilets offered paper covers for toilet seats that could be flushed away. They were also sold in some pharmacies.

Fun Fact for you Germophobes: Toilet Paper is INCREDIBLY absorbent...

This needs to be a lot higher. I loathe hover princesses with a passion. No, b***h, your precious pee is NOT an honor and a delight for the next woman who has to use that stall to clean up before she can use the facilities herself.

I worked in an office that, for reasons we needn't go into, had only single user toilets. New male hires were invariably appalled. Absolutely appalled.

Then you’ll just have wet TPon the seat.

Ugh! We have a woman in my workplace that does this and refers to one particular guy as "Hubby." It is cringey and the guy hates it so much, you can see it on his face every time she walks into the same room as him.

As a woman I can say that we all agree that this post should be higher

Oh Been there and wearing the tee shirt, the best one was telling my very Christian Boss that I was a witch, he made my life hell ...literally.