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Bratbabylestrange , Anastasiia Chepinska Report

People Share What Horrible Things Husbands Have Said To Their Wives That No One Should Repeat (35 Stories) When I was pregnant with my daughter, maybe ten-eleven weeks and really wacky hormonal, my ex suddenly looked up and said,

"I know! If the baby is a girl we should make it Stephanie after my one true love."

My name is 100% not Stephanie.

Final score:

309points

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Monday 3 years ago

Was Stephanie perhaps a former pet dog? ...that might be the only way to save this.

133points

Different_Turn3409 , krakenimages Report

People Share What Horrible Things Husbands Have Said To Their Wives That No One Should Repeat (35 Stories) At dinner with my parents last night, my husband said "it was so annoying when you kept throwing up when you were pregnant."

I threw up 3x a day for 20 weeks. I'm sorry it inconvenienced him so much

Final score:

305points

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Otter 3 years ago

Public flogging should be legal for some crimes. Like that one.

187points

Earlier, I spoke with relationship and self-love coach Alex Scot about honesty, trust, and how we can distinguish between secrecy and privacy. According to Alex, it’s best to be completely honest with your loved one if the information affects them directly. We should do our best to imagine ourselves in their shoes and think about what we’d prefer, the truth or lies, in their position.

"If it can affect your partner or family, there absolutely should be transparency. Whenever in doubt, put yourself in the other person’s shoes and ask yourself what you would like if you were in their situation," Alex told Bored Panda.

People Share What Horrible Things Husbands Have Said To Their Wives That No One Should Repeat (35 Stories) I didn't get to try my mother's lasagna till I was twenty years old. Why? My father, in a temporary bout of insanity, whilst eating my mother's home made said to her "this is really good lasagna, but you know who makes REALLY good lasagna? My ex wife."

Tanisis22 , sunorwind Report

Final score:

286points

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chi-wei shen 3 years ago

Saying this to his wife was really insane.

153points

HealthAccomplished25 , Rae Angela Report

People Share What Horrible Things Husbands Have Said To Their Wives That No One Should Repeat (35 Stories) Wasn’t my husband, but an ex of mine once told me “I see why your ex abused you” when I was suffering from mental health issues.

Final score:

276points

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Jihana 3 years ago

what the hell??

176points

People Share What Horrible Things Husbands Have Said To Their Wives That No One Should Repeat (35 Stories) I was modeling some new lingerie for my ex husband and asked “Do you like what you see?” In a flirty come get it kind of way. He looked up from his phone, gave me a once over and said “I’d like you to lose some weight”.

MangoMorning1913 , Fahad Waseem Report

Final score:

255points

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Jihana 3 years ago

"and I'd like for you to grow both up and a penis. Yet here we are"

227points

Enamelcamel 3 years ago

Savage ... and yet ... perfect.

5points

Foxxy (The Original) 3 years ago

Well you lost a lot of weight ditching that husband.

64points

Carol Emory 3 years ago

And the next time he asked for sex, I'd look him dead in the eye and say "I have to lose weight first" while stuffing a dozen Oreo cookies in my mouth...

37points

Mere Cat 3 years ago

Ohh, this is a really good one!!

10points

Julie C Rose 3 years ago

I see why he’s your ex husband.

19points

AzKhaleesi 3 years ago

Similar thing happened with my ex, I had just had our daughter and I was already feeling kinda bad about myself so I went and bought a cute nightie, and "surprised" him, he looked up barely a glance and went "mmhmmm nice" and went back to eating his ice cream. Never did that again and ended up divorced.

15points

Raven DeathShade 3 years ago

Oh, that's terrible. I bet you looked really nice in that nightie, if that's any consolation XD.

7points

Philly Bob Squires 3 years ago

So she lost 170 lbs of unsightly fat by getting a divorce!

9points

Corrine Todd 3 years ago

Bin him!!!! What a pig

7points

Loona 3 years ago

*Starts singing build a b*tch*

3points

SuePrew 3 years ago

Since you say he is an ex, it sounds like you got rid of a large amount of ugly weight

3points

Id row 3 years ago (edited)

I love that top on the left. I wish I was still young so I could pull it off.

1point

Rebekah Tracy 3 years ago

I would’ve asked for divorce right then and there

1point

magpookie1133 3 years ago

Time to get a divorce.

1point

Mark Kelly 3 years ago

Sometimes a marriage is not always about honesty

1point

Dan Buczynski 3 years ago

I can see why he's your ex.

1point

Heather Resatz 3 years ago

Wow .. just wow

1point

Caro Caro 3 years ago

Buy some sexy undies for his phone !

1point

Kimberley Gayle Thomas 3 years ago

"How about you gain some weight by my giving you a fat lip or two?" What nerve. Reminds me how one of my exes said I would be perfect if I gained 8 lbs. I think it's better if we as women lose whatever weight they are instead.

0points

Shinomi Chan 3 years ago

Just asking but, what did HE look like then? Bet he wasn't in the greatest shape.

0points

Deborah Hale 3 years ago

And she promptly did, when the divorce was final. She lost exactly however much HE weighed.

0points

רוזה לוקסנבורג 3 years ago

Fishing for compliments is always risky. Had he liked what he'd seen he would have said so

0points

Paul C 3 years ago

Without a visual context, you can't make head or tails of this...

0points

Pryjmaty 3 years ago

She divorced him and...BAM!!!...instantly lost 250 lbs. of dead weight!

0points

Vicki Perizzolo 3 years ago

scumbag...

0points

Thomas Turnbull 3 years ago

I can see why he is an Ex husband

0points

Amaranthim Talon 3 years ago

I am noticing a pattern of exes...

0points

Beth Arriaga 3 years ago

Epic loser

0points

シ *’-BLOODLUST-‘* シ 3 years ago

Jeez that was so cold I can fell it here in Korea

0points

Andrea Hartzler 3 years ago

Took my husband shopping for clothes once. Im chubby but I like florals a lot. I came out of dressing room with a floral dress on an he said "looks like a Rose Parade Float" Never wore florals again or took him with me to shop. guess he won

0points

Debs 3 years ago

How did he like never having sex again?? 😎

0points

HammerzToe 3 years ago

me just shaking my head

0points

Sandy Watts 3 years ago

😡

0points

InfectedVoice 3 years ago

Yeah that phone would be getting rammed down my throat if I said that, wow what a total asshole.

0points

SBW71 3 years ago

Notice how in most of these comments there are a lot of Exes! Can see why.

0points

Eagle Girl 3 years ago

*jaw on ground*

0points

Shelli Aderman 3 years ago

😳

0points

Biology muffin 3 years ago

RIP

0points

Laura Gillette 3 years ago

And so she did. She lost however much he weighed when she ditched him. Good riddance.

0points

Azure Adams 3 years ago

and that's why he's an ex

0points

McSydney 3 years ago

“So you have chosen death”

0points

Melanie Wittmier-Steffler 3 years ago

Is he still alive?

0points

Tina Hugh 3 years ago

Maybe he meant "today is Opposites Day and you're perfect"? Nah, I got nothing

0points

Lucy Shupe 3 years ago

Explains the ex in this story.

0points

Tara Leigh 3 years ago

I don’t think there are many women that don’t have a story like this and men wonder why their spouses don’t have sex with them..

0points

Nandina 3 years ago

Soul crushing

0points

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Potato 3 years ago

Not so stupid if she divorced him. Dummy.

0points

Rickster 3 years ago

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"If it wouldn’t impact them, then you have the option of keeping it to yourself. The difference between privacy and secrecy is that secrecy has a sense of shame, guilt, or knowing that your partner or family member wouldn’t be ok with whatever took place."

According to Alex, rebuilding trust takes time and effort and is a real challenge. The bigger the loss of trust, the longer it will take for someone to start believing you and feeling safe around you again.

People Share What Horrible Things Husbands Have Said To Their Wives That No One Should Repeat (35 Stories) Never tell your partner they did something badly if they do something to be good to you.

If they cleaned the apartment on their day off but there was still sand on the rug in the hallway, dont point out the sand and say they missed a spot or that they did it badly.

Say that it was fantastic and you really love it, then you can say "ohh i think i pulled some sand in with me, i'll just go and dust this hallway mat" Next time when they do it they will remember the hallway mat too.

Dont criticize your partner when they are trying to make you happy, they wont do it perfectly the first time around that is ok. If you criticize your partner when they are trying to make you happy, they will stop doing it. If you tell them it was fantastic, that you loved it, they will put more effort into it because its worth it to them, because it makes you happy.

You should also tell your partner how to train you the same way, so you become someone that makes your partner happy.

baronmad , Nathan Dumlao Report

Final score:

248points

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Ozacoter 3 years ago (edited)

I think that it depends if the partner forgot once (then its ok) or if they refuse to do x chore. If my partner says that he "cleaned" but all he did was to put the roomba the first time I will thank him. The tenth I will be angry.

60points

People Share What Horrible Things Husbands Have Said To Their Wives That No One Should Repeat (35 Stories) I was only 23 at the time, but I once told my now ex-wife that her cooking will “never be as good as my moms, no offense though” and boy, that was the dumbest thing I’ve ever said in my life. Like, wtf was I even thinking lol

RustyToaster206 , Alyson McPhee Report

Final score:

238points

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chi-wei shen 3 years ago

I've just seen a documentary about Pearl Harbor and the long war that followed. I do see some similarities.

87points

People Share What Horrible Things Husbands Have Said To Their Wives That No One Should Repeat (35 Stories) That she’s only upset because she’s PMSing. My husband knows my cycle better than I do (which isn’t saying much because I really pay no attention), and I swear he just expects me to get bitchy, so anytime I get irritated in that window of time, he acts like I’m not to be taken seriously.

For the record, I do get PMS—not severely, but I recognize when I’m getting irrationally bitchy, because I feel like I just WANT to be mad. So when I make a reasonable complaint from a rational place and it gets attributed to PMS, it’s infuriating. Like, it’s reasonable for me to get mad that you walked past a heap of cat puke 10 times today but waited for me to get home to clean it up!

Badb_1111 , Jonathan Borba Report

Final score:

224points

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Dianethe Dinosaur 3 years ago

Been there, sister!

61points

Youre_late_for_tea , Tamara Bellis Report

“For smaller offenses, it will take less time, but for larger offenses, be prepared to be overly transparent for a time and hire a therapist or coach to walk you through the process. Trust takes consistency to rebuild and consistency equals effort over time."

#10

People Share What Horrible Things Husbands Have Said To Their Wives That No One Should Repeat (35 Stories) Not my husband, but an ex boyfriend.

I dressed up for a dinner out, feeling super cute in my new dress. So I come up to him, smiley face and all.

I didn't even asked him how I looked. Did not intend to. He just said, with a disapointed face and a lil disgusted tone:

"You really wanna know what I think about your outfit?"

He's the ex for many reasons, but this one still makes me angry when I think of it.

Final score:

208points

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Liam Farranree 3 years ago

He didn't even ask what you thought of him as a man. Did not intend to. He found out anyway.

76points

#11

People Share What Horrible Things Husbands Have Said To Their Wives That No One Should Repeat (35 Stories) “I liked your body better before you had kids” Yeah me too.

Lvsucknuts69 , Nathan Dumlao Report

Final score:

207points

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Susan Green 3 years ago

It’s too bad men can’t get pregnant, and give birth. Oh wait, if that was the case, the human population would have died out centuries ago.

155points

#12

People Share What Horrible Things Husbands Have Said To Their Wives That No One Should Repeat (35 Stories) I once heard my stepdad say (my mom was standing right beside him) that his ex wife was a 10 in looks but a 4 in personality, but that my mom was a 4 in looks, but a 10 in personality. He thought it was a compliment. Aaaaand he still hasn't lived it down, but his story has changed over time. My mom is now a 7 in looks lmao

J33P88 , Charles Deluvio Report

Final score:

205points

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Foxxy (The Original) 3 years ago

Noooo, what a horrible thing to say. Here's some advice to men AND women, don't compare your partner with an ex.

180points

#13

People Share What Horrible Things Husbands Have Said To Their Wives That No One Should Repeat (35 Stories) My wife was complaining that there was no food, said she was starving. There was, she's just picky. It got on my nerves a bit and I said..

"Well you don't look like your starving"

Don't ever say that

Mooseknuckle94 , nrd Report

Final score:

200points

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chi-wei shen 3 years ago

Well, that escalated quickly.

60points

#14

People Share What Horrible Things Husbands Have Said To Their Wives That No One Should Repeat (35 Stories) My husband once said “I married my mother”, and I’m still plotting his death.

ChapStick_Hoe , Samantha Gades Report

Final score:

191points

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Otter 3 years ago

If you don't want your spouse to act like your parent... act like a f*****g adult.

128points

beautifulfarts , Siora Photograph Report

#15

People Share What Horrible Things Husbands Have Said To Their Wives That No One Should Repeat (35 Stories) You look better with less weight! You were more relaxed before we had kids. We have 3 kids 5 and under, the eldest most likely has ASD, sensory processing disorder, ADHD and still doesn't sleep. Sorry I'm not as carefree as before.

Final score:

190points

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Susan Green 3 years ago (edited)

Tell him that he would look better with his big mouth duct taped shut.

175points

#16

People Share What Horrible Things Husbands Have Said To Their Wives That No One Should Repeat (35 Stories) Until you know how she feels about how something looks, don’t comment.

My mum bought a dress I thought she looked really good in, she liked it too. She tried it on in front of my dad and he said he didn’t like it. All the happiness drained from her face, she got changed, handed me the dress and said it was mine now. I tried to convince her how nice she looked but nothing changed her mind, a back handed comment from dad (I don’t even think he really looked) changed her whole perspective

maddy_l_13 , Zhanjiang Chen Report

Final score:

168points

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Caro Caro 3 years ago

What a s**t.

93points

#17

People Share What Horrible Things Husbands Have Said To Their Wives That No One Should Repeat (35 Stories) This is to everyone with a significant other that is a female. Saying things like “calm down” “you’re being crazy right now” or “it’s not that big of a deal” is a sure fire way to get us angry, it feels almost hard wired.

Frinla25 , Samuel Regan-Asante Report

Final score:

159points

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A.M. Pierre 3 years ago

If you tell someone "calm down" or any of these things, what that person usually hears is "you shouldn't be getting upset"/"you don't have the right to be upset" or, essentially, "your feelings are wrong". I'm not saying everyone who says these phrases means that, but the phrases imply that. Given that, historically, women's feelings have been downplayed or dismissed far more often than men's, it can touch a nerve.

93points

#18

Don't tell them an ex's gift (or an ex's anything for that matter) was better than yours.

At my partner's last birthday dinner him mom asked what the best gift he'd ever gotten was. He immediately said "oh insert ex gf name who I was with for a really long time got me these awesome custom Marvel Vans like five years ago! I don't think anything has topped that." and he gushed about it for a good five minutes. It absolutely hurt cause I had just bought him a really expensive gift I knew he'd been wanting for a while. So yeah don't do that.

LynGon Report

Final score:

153points

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SocksXD 3 years ago

Rude and inconsiderate

81points

#19

People Share What Horrible Things Husbands Have Said To Their Wives That No One Should Repeat (35 Stories) An ex once told me he loved me almost as much as the ex that broke his heart. He continued to update me as I got closer to “that mark” and finally once I surpassed that mark. I was young and naïve and he was my first bf. I dumped him, am married now, and I think he’s still sulking around wondering why nobody falls for him.

Kneecoall , freestocks Report

Final score:

147points

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Arctic Fox Lover 3 years ago

I hope you're very happy now that you're married to someone better! <3

40points

#20

Don't ever bring up how attractive she was before kids.

This guy I worked with would say that all the time. Holy shit don't say stuff like that. Do you want to get murdered in your sleep for being an insufferable dickhead?

CircleBackMurray Report

Final score:

147points

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Kathryn Baylis 3 years ago

Again, this is your wife. You’re supposed to love her. You’re NOT supposed to shoot her down like that, especially when she’s probably already hypercritical of herself. All you’re doing is piling your own bullshit on top of it. She’s given birth to children you BOTH made, which took a physical toll on her that would kill any man. So either tell her she’s beautiful or shut the f**k up.

85points

#21

Never tell your wife something designed to hurt her out of anger. You live with her and know what will hurt her the most, don’t weaponize it.

Never say something that implies you find someone else more attractive. Some relationships you can acknowledge someone else is good looking. Some you can’t. But either way, your words should never state or openly imply someone else is MORE attractive.

Never talk harshly about the people she’s close to. You can carefully express annoyance about her friends or family, but don’t be petty or hateful towards them directly or in her presence.

Never blame her mood on her period. A woman’s mood may be exaggerated (sometimes a lot) by hormones, but the feelings are very much real and any implication that it’s all about her period is dismissive.

Maxwells-Ghost Report

Final score:

139points

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Kathryn Baylis 3 years ago

Nasty s**t like that can’t be unheard once it’s been said. Great way to sabotage the good thing you have, but sure do not deserve, asshole.

33points

#22

Dad was drunk one night when i was 16 and said to mum that she was a fat fucking cow and wished she didn't get that surgery as it made her who she is today. She had breast cancer and had to have surgery to get rid of it, she had a tissue expansion which made her d's become e's for a period of time and dad hated it.

EnchantedvortexEV Report

Final score:

136points

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Foxxy (The Original) 3 years ago

What an absolute d**k.

174points

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#23

“Trust me woman, I know what I’m talking about. I’m 100% positive on this.”

Welp, 5 minutes later after a Google search she showed me, with a mischievous smile, I was in fact, wrong. Fuck.

Final score:

133points

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Ratterlin 3 years ago

If you worded it like that, you 1000% deserved it...

81points

#24

People Share What Horrible Things Husbands Have Said To Their Wives That No One Should Repeat (35 Stories) My ex boyfriend told me he was "glad my boobs weren't any smaller than they already were" and that my boobs were "too far apart". Cue the complex about my boobs I never had before that comment

t00manycooks , Alrick Gillard Report

Final score:

122points

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Agfox 3 years ago

I used to work with a woman who told me that when she first met the guy whom she later married, one of the first things he said to her was 'I have a joke that will make you laugh your tits off - oh, I see you've already heard it". My first thought was why would you even want to see him again let alone marry him

112points

Dutch Swimmer Goes Viral For Super Revealing Trunks During 2024 Olympics: “Is This Legal?”

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#25

People Share What Horrible Things Husbands Have Said To Their Wives That No One Should Repeat (35 Stories) Wow your sister maintained her figure really well after their kid was born.

armystrongmd , Rodolfo Sanches Carvalho Report

Final score:

120points

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M Calad 3 years ago (edited)

This reminded me of a friend whose husband used to compare her with me 🤦. "You should do like *me*, she works out and keeps herself well", "see *me*? She is applying to study. You should do the same". It was so awkward and embarrassing. I knew he wanted to motivate her and set me as an example but his method was totally wrong making her feel below me. She stopped being my friend because of that.

61points

#26

First time I ever tried shepherds pie made by my mum was a few days ago when I (33) was visiting for dinner. Why do you ask? He told her just after they were married (a man who can’t cook mind you) that it’s not the way his mum makes it.

It was so damned delicious too!!!!

Cheap_Brain Report

Final score:

118points

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Samantha Lomb 3 years ago

My friend's 50+ year old husband still does that. I have no idea why she puts up with him other than she is afraid of being alone when she is old

36points

#27

"I like more athletic looking women" like an Allison Stokke type.

I work full time, I'm in college full time, and I take care of our daughter most of the time. I don't have time for the gym and I don't look that terrible. I'm 5'7 135lbs with a little tummy squish bfd

meybley Report

Final score:

117points

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Otter 3 years ago

Tell him that if he'll assume responsibility for the kid for three hours a day, you'll have time to work out like a demon.

87points

#28

Probably shouldn't tell her that since he was unable to get the person he was most attracted to, he got you instead.

That leaves a pretty lasting impression.

Holybull79 Report

Final score:

115points

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May 3 years ago

That's when you leave

75points

Woman Put A Water Fountain With A Camera In Her Yard, Here Are 24 Photos Of Regular Visitors (New Pics)

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#29

Once had a partner tell me that I "Have a forehead you could lay a mattress on" I used to style my hair with a part down the middle, but after that I made sure to get bangs and am super obsessive about moving my hair to cover my forehead. I was bullied a lot in school, so I had a lot of self consciousness about other bits of my appearance, but the forehead thing was news to me at the time.

MayBeAPossum Report

Final score:

108points

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Susan Green 3 years ago

What an a$$hole.

73points

#30

That the best sex he ever had wasn't with her

GingeroftheYear Report

Final score:

96points

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beastmachine. 3 years ago

Seems like a cardinal sin

26points

#31

“You must be getting your period soon”

neek555 Report

Final score:

93points

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rspanther 3 years ago

Why would anyone say something stupid like that?

39points

#32

We had a baby two weeks ago.

The night after labor, while sitting with our boy. I told her I'm tired.

Should not have said that. I apologize.

Uutuus-- Report

Final score:

90points

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Dorothy Parker 3 years ago

That's not bad at all. They didn't say they were more tired than the new mother.

68points

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#33

My bf went to jail for a few months some years back. I was hella depressed when he was gone, and self medicated with food and alcohol. I would visit him every Sunday with his mom. When he got out, he got drunk one night and told me. “Every week when you came to visit, I always though….man she’s getting bigger!” Didn’t need to know that.

Ok_Stranger_8930 Report

Final score:

82points

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Samantha Lomb 3 years ago

This whole relationship sounds deeply disfunctional

82points

#34

My ex boyfriend used to repeat every day that I was way prettier when we met.

Charming-Sea8691 Report

Final score:

79points

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I' Gomez & Morticia's kid 3 years ago

Maybe cuz he is bad at treating you 🤷🏽‍♀️

44points

#35

That she behaves like her mother.

LikeChicken Report

Final score:

72points

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chi-wei shen 3 years ago

I think a husband who makes such a statement is fully aware of the fact that they will get into a fight.

40points

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#36

Never introduce her as “my first wife” even as a joke.

resetmypass Report

Final score:

26points

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ThoughtsAreNotFacts 3 years ago

Ooh, yeah no. Don't do that! It'll be a self fulfilling prophecy

8points

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Mom Leaves $250k Inheritance To Son, Throws A Fit When Daughter Stops Looking After Her

#37

When I asked how I looked to my partner (after getting all dressed up), he glanced up and down, shrugged his shoulders and remarked “you look just like every other mother at the school gate”. The unfortunate fact is that many mothers at ‘the school gate’ where I live, have sadly not taken care of themselves for whatever reasons. I’m not judging them, most happen to be incredibly lovely ladies! Sometimes life happens. But this comment hurt me to no end when I make consistent effort and look better than I did many years ago. It was unbelievably hurtful. Men, if you don’t have anything good (or at least constructively helpful) to say to your wife, either smile and nod or keep quiet altogether.

BarefootandWild Report

Final score:

25points

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Nathan Pogorzala 3 years ago

If you married someone, you support them. You make them feel good about themselves. What trash ego could you have to knock someone down that is married to you? if you do that, you are a mother f**k.

4points

#38

I told my then GF, now wife: "you dance like a white girl." (she is) We never went to another club again. And now I'm sad again.

silentxxkilla Report

Final score:

25points

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Prilsy 3 years ago

I'm sad for the wife.

23points

Woman Refuses To Chip In For Babysitting Because She Doesn’t Even Have Kids, Asks If She’s A Jerk

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#39

You were more fun before we got married.

Zeldaxlove47 Report

Final score:

24points

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Airis Malfoy 3 years ago

look what you did to her, you jerk!

25points

#40

My brother was in with my SIL when she was getting a c-section. He looked behind the curtain at her guts all open and came back around and just blurted out "you look awful". Lol the nurse was like "you can't say that!" I mean it probably does look awful when someone is cut open.

TheSadSalsa Report

Final score:

23points

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Jihana 3 years ago

Ok, that one is not bad. I'm sure she would not have liked a compliment about her intestines either.

10points

Passion-Interesting Report

#41

"I don't know if I love you yet"

or

"you're not hot enough to have an attitude like that"

Final score:

21points

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May 3 years ago

The first one is perfectly fine - honesty is a good thing

16points

#42

I’m currently 8 months pregnant and a couple days ago my husband, thinking he was being cute, said “get over here big body” while pulling me close to cuddle. I’ve never got out of bed so fast. So yeah, don’t say that.

Mper526 Report

Final score:

21points

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May 3 years ago

Oh come on - why is that a big no no? You're supposed to have a big body at 8 months pregnant.

3points

"I Didn't Start The Dryer": Karen Gets Taught A Lesson After Throwing Out Neighbor's Wet Clothes

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#43

I didn’t have enchiladas until I was 7 because when my parents first married my dad said they were different than his mom’s.

DDChristi Report

Final score:

19points

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Foxxy (The Original) 3 years ago

So.... He said they were different. Not gross, nor weird, not terrible. Just different. Not that big of a deal in my opinion.

7points

#44

“This hot new girl just started at the office” My bf’s business partner learned that the hard way.

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18points

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Amina Hays 3 years ago

I'm a bit confused <easily done!) :-D What do you mean by his business partner found out the hard way? Sorry, I'm autistic and need some things explained to me, especially if there's an undertone to it.

3points

#45

That you don't have to be attracted to someone to get married to them or that you regret marrying them. (Girlfriend's dad said this in front of his wife and kids)

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18points

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Otter 3 years ago

I don't get the people who marry people they don't like. But it happens .

10points

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lenka 3 years ago

Most of these are about how women dont look as good after marriage, kids and the passage of time. Perhaps its about time we started pointing out how men grow a gut, loose muscle tone and start sagging in all the wrong places. How they also wrinkle and go grey and get bald. Why are women accused of 'letting themselves go' when men arn't exactly the studs they were in thier 20s. In most of these comments, the appropriate response is, looked in a mirror lately?

72points

Caro Caro 3 years ago

Ienka, this is spot on!

18points

D S 3 years ago

It´s like age and life (like pregnancies) change your body... who would´ve tought...

9points

alloutbikes@yahoo.com 3 years ago

Men get mature, women get old. Men get distinguished, women get old. Men get filled out, women get fat. Men have character lines, women get wrinkles.

3points

Caro Caro 3 years ago

I stopped reading these posts because the cruelty got me all pissed off! What is wrong with these men?

28points

Evil Little Thing 3 years ago

They are stupid assholes.

17points

Davor Jelacic 3 years ago

Most of these people are psychopaths. Not chainsaw slaughter psychopaths, but still...

23points

Donna Shaw 3 years ago

When my husband and I were first married I asked him if he would please take off his socks right side out so that I wouldn't have to stick my hand inside his stinky, disgusting socks (he was a mechanic). He said "I never asked you to do my laundry"! And I never did his laundry, never, ever again! ;)

15points

KT 3 years ago

throwing stones. Toxic behavior for a relationship

2points

Luke Oakridge 3 years ago

I'm a man and I prefer to do my own laundry. I just find it weird for other people to touch my clothes, even if I'm married to them.

1point

Tina Hugh 3 years ago

I thought he was telling her not to not trouble herself to do his laundry and he wants to do it himself because he has his own way of doing it

-1point

Aunt Messy 3 years ago

My father is the youngest of seven kids, so I have 27 first cousins. My two siblings are adopted, I am not. Mom couldn't have more kids after me. This will all make sense, I promise. ...///... We were at a family dinner, when my father pointed at my brother and sister and said, "I know those are mine, I've got papers to prove it". ...///... Then he pointed at me (in front of 16 adults and about 25 kids) and said, "I don't know where the hell that one came from." ...///... That was when I was about 12. From that day on, I never spoke to him directly again. He died when I was in my mid 30s.

14points

Memere 3 years ago

I'm so sorry for the pain that has caused you, I know it too well myself. I was around 13-14 when my father had spent an hour chewing me out for something I had got in trouble for at school, when he told me to my face "I wish you had never been born, I never wanted you anyway", then stomped out of the room. I'm almost 70 now, and I cannot remember him ever telling me to my face that he loved me or that he was proud of me for anything. He died alone in a Veterans Home.

13points

Ola Polowczyk 3 years ago

My ex once told me that "I smile too widely" and "Show too much teeth when smiling" and that "I should practice it"

13points

Missy Moo Moo 3 years ago

What an odd thing to say?!? Smiling is the absolute BEST thing anyone can do. Strange what men request, I had an ex who my daughter loved so much she called him "Jeffy weffy". He got so angry - told me that I bought my child into our relationship and I need to control her (to show him respect). I said I bought him into our relationship and she could call him a lot worse. Just imagine how hard life is for men like this who want to control everything in their life. They will always be miserable

6points

Ssss 3 years ago

Lots of these stories sound cruel. You'd think someone would want to be nicest to their partner above everyone else.

13points

Leo Domitrix 3 years ago

Hubby to me while I was curled up in agony with monthly cramps, about 30 years ago: "You make cute whimpers when you're in pain." I'm sure he meant well. I'm also sure I feel absolutely zero remorse for my reaction, and he never said it again. :-)

11points

Memere 3 years ago

My husband, maybe 20 years ago, once tried to compare menstrual pain, pregnancy discomfort, & labor/delivery pain to some of the pain he had felt over the years from sports injuries. That got him a shut down I don't think he's ever experienced in his life, and yeah - he's never tried that again!

5points

Kuromi 3 years ago

My ex once complained about a meal I made, that I cut the chicken wrong as the instructions stated cubed and I didn't cube the chicken correctly in his opinion. He then also commented that my lasagna had too much sauce. This was a guy who didn't cook and would expect me to cook his dinner after he's been home all day and I've been at work for 14 hours. I don't regret leaving his critical, opinionated, condescending ass.

10points

Franc Esca 3 years ago

This is a checklist of when to dump your spouse

8points

Foxxy (The Original) 3 years ago

I think a lot of these men are suffering the same disease, foot in mouth.

7points

Mazer 3 years ago

Get a crisp new sheet of paper, now crumple it up and then try to make it smooth again. Words can cause people serious harm. Some carry those words like the crumpled paper carries the marks of being crumpled. The singer Karen Carpenter is an example, off handed remarks by one person ended up costing her years of agony and eventually lead to her death. Think before you talk or type to anyone, be it a customer service person or your SO.

5points

Missy Moo Moo 3 years ago

Wow that's an amazing analogy!! I love it and agree. There is something called cognitive behavioral therapy that will help to stop that piece of paper from getting too crumpled in the first place. You can't control what another person says. So if someone says something nasty or thoughtless it reflects more on them as a person, than you. I'd say almost all of the time, a nasty comment brushes past me. If anything I feel for the person saying it rather than taking it on personally. Takes years to learn this but great when you do

4points

Sandy Bergeson 3 years ago

My ex said after I lost 25 lbs "You look good. I couldn't believe you let yourself look that way for so long."

5points

Patti Vance 3 years ago

one of the worst comments from my ex was the best thing he did for me. he started attending college & began treating me like i was an idiot bc of his getting a higher education. pissed me off so bad i had a garage sale for first semester tuition & worked my ass off for scholarships/grants for rest of the time. made deans list ever semester; graduated w/3.94 (damn that A- in political science!), as well as graduated w/highest award presented to graduating student. and, bc i took summer/extra classes, did it one year earlier. him? took shortened classes w/little more than average grades for what i called a 'mc degree' as it was through a military program designed to get a degree to increase educational levels in the military.

4points

Solidhog 3 years ago

While my wife was giving birth and pushing down hard in pain....... "Oi! Your stretching my t-shirt." To be fair, just before that the doctor said if things did not move quicker they would have to cut her and help the baby out. As the doctor left she looked me in the eyes (I swear they glowed red!) and said "IF SHE COMES BACK IN THIS ROOM YOU PUNCH HER!"

3points

Ray Heap 3 years ago (edited)

I read all this and raise you: During the birth of my daughter the midwife told me to lay down next to my wife to give her comfort during labour. I had had a long day and it was middle of the night... next thing I know was a kick in the ribs from midwife and a rather gruff voice telling me that the baby was coming. My, by now very much ex wife, likes to bring this up from time to time.

3points

Luke Oakridge 3 years ago

I've never heard of a husband lying down next to a wife in labor. It's weird that the hospital suggested that.

0points

Tangee Wilson 3 years ago

1. My sister died of an aneurysm back in 1992. Ex husband says “do we have to go to the funeral? You weren’t that close”. My parents were in our living room and had just arrived for a short cruise. We were in FL, they flew in from MD. 2. No I don’t want to ruin my day off and go with you to the doctor. 30 min later doc says tests came back and it was likely a blood cancer. Went home, called my family, my father in law and waited long time before I gave him the news. Also, this was the beginning of the end with him. I’d had enough of being ignored and taken for granted. 3. Asked for divorce when I was finished with treatments. He replied “don’t think I’m paying child support. Those aren’t my kids”. We adopted them, together.” Once over the initial pain and shock, he did triple what the state would have asked. He co parented and took care of all their expenses. They were 14 and 16 yo girls. They were expensive and he stepped up freely. Great dad, not so great spouse.

2points

KT 3 years ago

To me, In a lot of these comments you can tell how much men have been obsessed with a pornographic view on life. You can tell how it has damaged their views on women and what is even acceptable to think or say it's disgusting

2points

Huddo's sister 2 years ago

Yep. I'm constantly saying it- we need more teaching of healthy relationships in school. Plus positive modelling by parents. If it's a toxic relationship, get out. Don't let the kids see you putting up with things like that.

1point

Lovin' Life 3 years ago

How can people be so cruel? Of course we change over the years. And comparing someone to an ex...just wow! Maybe think before you speak.

2points

Yep. Yep. Yep. 3 years ago

The last one is funny to me because he told me I was acting like my mother one day for something he didn't do that really wasn't a big deal and I cried because I was acting like her. Totally changed my outlook on how I behaved towards him.

1point

Doris Bennett 3 years ago

My now-ex husband once said: 1. "Extra weight never hurts men's prospects, but it destroys a woman's." He was heavy at the time, not me. #2. HE was invited to his high school reunion and he said I couldn't go with him because, "you're not invited!" #3. He would cut off a discussion by yelling "END OF SUBJECT!" #4. When I was younger and still attractive ... I asked him if he thought I was sexy? He said "NO ... you're not that type!" He was hurtful, immature and spoiled, It took me 30 hard years to realize that.

1point

Jackie Porter 3 years ago

I noticed most of these are about ex partners, says it all really.

1point

Annette Easton 3 years ago

My ex MIL always hated me. Just straight up hated me. Fortunately for me we lived many hours away from the inlaws. I've battled my weight most of my life and have yo-yo'd up and down. The one and only time my inlaws came to visit us my MIL very kindly told me that she'd decided that I wasn't FAT, I was just retaining a lot of water and she'd been looking into herbal remedies for it. A few days later she changed her mind and told me that I WAS fat after all, but it wasn't my fault it was because I had low self esteem. I was not impressed. When I told this to my ex, expecting him to be as outraged as I was, he said "Well, she's not wrong."

1point

Totally legit 3 years ago

I had an ex who used to make weird faces when I made jokes, and said that women can't be funny...

0points

Arenite 3 years ago

Stay single, ladies! It’s so much better for your physical and mental health.

0points

Luke Oakridge 3 years ago

So are we going to get a list of things that women shouldn't say to their husbands?

0points

LolaInTheDesert 3 years ago

Ex long-time boyfriend went home to visit his family. Came back and wanted to talk about our future. “All my friends are getting married and starting families. I want that too. So I think we should get married if you lose 10 pounds”. We met in the USMC. I was quite fit, thank you very much. It broke my heart because I knew it couldn’t be about my weight.

0points

KT 2 years ago

that must have broke your heart :( I'm so sorry you had to go through that

0points

Catherine Spencer-Mills 3 years ago

My favorite: If you don't like how I do , do it yourself. Either way, I win. "That's okay, you are going fine." and the griping stops. Or, my oldest son took over laundry and ironed his own clothes because he didn't like how I was doing it. Win!

0points

SBW71 3 years ago

Ladies whenever your man says something derogatory about your looks, weight, attitude or whatever usually just say back "Really? I don't hear anyone else complaining but you. Maybe your the one with the problem(s) not me". Works every time to shut them up. Makes them think.

0points

Huddo's sister 2 years ago

Isn't that as intentionally cruel? If you are going to say something it should be truthful and assertive, not passive aggressive. Don't let them get away with it but also don't make it into a one-upping situation.

0points

Zak Rasten 3 years ago

Humans should live two lives. At the end of the first life go into a chrysalis, then later emerge - with all memories intact - for the second life - as a member of the opposite sex to the first life

0points

Mark Fuller 3 years ago

Can we perhaps start a post about all the vicious, vile, bitchy things that woman have said to their husbands?? Just to even out the score a little and quit the tedious, "all men are bastards" line that Bored Panda seems to promote a tad too often?!

0points

Nikki Sevven 3 years ago

I agree with your point, Mark, but I didn't read this article from an "all men" perspective. These are just some men. And I have no issue with your suggestion either, and second it; there should be equal time. The more we speak to one another, the more we understand one another.

5points

Rita Shapiro 3 years ago

Just a minor point: if a man thinks it's okay to point out that a woman has aged or that her body has changed because of childbirth, they should have NO problem with their S.O. if she should point out his beer gut, something he has absolute control over.

3points

Yoga Kitty 3 years ago (edited)

Start it then, if you like - I am pretty sure there will be equally horrifying stories! We can also start a thread about terrible things parents said to their children, children said to their parents, brothers to sisters, sisters to brothers, parrots to the family cat, the goldfish to the neighbour's dog and really any other combination you can think of. What will we prove in the end? That people of any gender, age, colour, sexual orientation, profession, nationality, believe and whatsoever can be asshats!! And everytime somebody else will be offended and say "But not me, I am nice!" So, can we all please focus a bit more on positive things and encouraging each other? Can we start seeing more of the bright side of life and help each other to get there? This kind of post is nice to let go of some bad memories and to connect with others who maybe have made similar experiences but "bathing in it" does not do any good in the end. I would prefer some pictures of puppies or kittens by now!

2points

Tina Hugh 3 years ago

I agree. Write a Bored Panda post and link to it, please; we can all contribute

1point

Tracy Sellars 3 years ago

Oh goodness yes women can be just as bad if not worst. Making us out to be saints is so wrong.

1point

Full Name 3 years ago (edited)

Thank you, Mark. This is a point I have brought up too many times on this site and every time I get downvoted. Just last week I said pretty much the same thing you did and someone commented "BP isn't anti-male, they're anti-jerk". I get it. But almost ALL of the "jerk" content is targeted towards men.

-2points

Full Name 3 years ago (edited)

Can we please stop ignoring how 95% of the stories on this page that have to do with horrible/unacceptable/ignorant/shocking behavior are about men?

-2points

Tina Hugh 3 years ago

Yeah, someone's gonna start a post that focuses on women's bad behavior

1point

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BastWren 3 years ago

Seriously, Ryan, there is no need for you to continue commenting like this; we get it...you have no understanding of women.

6points

Aunt Messy 3 years ago

I thought you were going to keep whining about your looks.

3points

13 3 years ago

Define we.

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lenka 3 years ago

72points

Caro Caro 3 years ago

Ienka, this is spot on!

18points

D S 3 years ago

It´s like age and life (like pregnancies) change your body... who would´ve tought...

9points

alloutbikes@yahoo.com 3 years ago

Men get mature, women get old. Men get distinguished, women get old. Men get filled out, women get fat. Men have character lines, women get wrinkles.

3points

Caro Caro 3 years ago

I stopped reading these posts because the cruelty got me all pissed off! What is wrong with these men?

28points

Evil Little Thing 3 years ago

They are stupid assholes.

17points

Davor Jelacic 3 years ago

Most of these people are psychopaths. Not chainsaw slaughter psychopaths, but still...

23points

Donna Shaw 3 years ago

15points

KT 3 years ago

throwing stones. Toxic behavior for a relationship

2points

Luke Oakridge 3 years ago

I'm a man and I prefer to do my own laundry. I just find it weird for other people to touch my clothes, even if I'm married to them.

1point

Tina Hugh 3 years ago

I thought he was telling her not to not trouble herself to do his laundry and he wants to do it himself because he has his own way of doing it

-1point

Aunt Messy 3 years ago

14points

Memere 3 years ago

13points

Ola Polowczyk 3 years ago

My ex once told me that "I smile too widely" and "Show too much teeth when smiling" and that "I should practice it"

13points

Missy Moo Moo 3 years ago

6points

Ssss 3 years ago

Lots of these stories sound cruel. You'd think someone would want to be nicest to their partner above everyone else.

13points

Leo Domitrix 3 years ago

11points

Memere 3 years ago

5points

Kuromi 3 years ago

10points

Franc Esca 3 years ago

This is a checklist of when to dump your spouse

8points

Foxxy (The Original) 3 years ago

I think a lot of these men are suffering the same disease, foot in mouth.

7points

Mazer 3 years ago

5points

Missy Moo Moo 3 years ago

4points

Sandy Bergeson 3 years ago

My ex said after I lost 25 lbs "You look good. I couldn't believe you let yourself look that way for so long."

5points

Patti Vance 3 years ago

4points

Solidhog 3 years ago

3points

Ray Heap 3 years ago (edited)

3points

Luke Oakridge 3 years ago

I've never heard of a husband lying down next to a wife in labor. It's weird that the hospital suggested that.

0points

Tangee Wilson 3 years ago

2points

KT 3 years ago

2points

Huddo's sister 2 years ago

1point

Lovin' Life 3 years ago

How can people be so cruel? Of course we change over the years. And comparing someone to an ex...just wow! Maybe think before you speak.

2points

Yep. Yep. Yep. 3 years ago

1point

Doris Bennett 3 years ago

1point

Jackie Porter 3 years ago

I noticed most of these are about ex partners, says it all really.

1point

Annette Easton 3 years ago

1point

Totally legit 3 years ago

I had an ex who used to make weird faces when I made jokes, and said that women can't be funny...

0points

Arenite 3 years ago

Stay single, ladies! It’s so much better for your physical and mental health.

0points

Luke Oakridge 3 years ago

So are we going to get a list of things that women shouldn't say to their husbands?

0points

LolaInTheDesert 3 years ago

0points

KT 2 years ago

that must have broke your heart :( I'm so sorry you had to go through that

0points

Catherine Spencer-Mills 3 years ago

0points

SBW71 3 years ago

0points

Huddo's sister 2 years ago

0points