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You have to respect the company you work for. You can never be late, never question anything and do an exceptional job every day. You must give multiple weeks notice before taking any holidays or quitting. But if the company decides that they’ve had enough of you, well, you could be unemployed at a moment’s notice!

It’s 2024, and it would be great to believe that society is finally fair and equal. But that would be far from the truth. There are still plenty of frustrating double standards affecting us all, so Redditors have recently been calling out the ones they’re tired of. Below, you’ll find a list of double standards that people no longer want to accept, so enjoy reading through and be sure to upvote the inequalities you can’t stand either!

#1

Somebody Just Asked People To Post Examples Of Double Standards, And 45 Responses Were Spot-On I saw a post on a Facebook group I'm in recently. It was a selfie of a mother with her little boy in the backseat eating a pudding cup with no spoon and she had captioned it "making sure he's making his future girlfriends happy" or something along those lines.
I was disgusted by it, my boyfriend laughed. He tried to tell me I was being stuck up and a prude about it. I asked him if I was a father posting a picture of his daughter eating a popsicle and captioned it similar about making future boyfriends happy would you feel the same way? He looked like I slapped him in his face but he instantly got what I was saying.
Sexualizing children in any capacity is gross af and it even happens to little boys. People just need to do better and let kids simply be kids without putting sexual undertones to it. So f*****g weird.

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    #2

    Somebody Just Asked People To Post Examples Of Double Standards, And 45 Responses Were Spot-On Being a morning person and getting up early to get a bunch of stuff done, then going to bed early, is considered virtuous and mature. Being a night person and staying up late to get stuff done, then sleeping late the next day, is considered disorganized and lazy. Even if you did the same amount of work and slept the same number of hours.

    I have colleagues who work 6am to 3pm, and people constantly chirp about how efficient they are. But when someone at my office asked if they could work 11 am to 8 pm because that fit better with their body’s energy cycle, they were mocked for wanting to oversleep like a teenager, and the request was denied.

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    Boootifull Unicorn
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This should be higher, like for me I'm far better at any work I have to do after eleven, it's not a bad thing or a good thing, imo it's just a thing lol and people shouldn't shame for it.

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    #3

    Somebody Just Asked People To Post Examples Of Double Standards, And 45 Responses Were Spot-On If you manage your disability well, despite the difficulties it presents, you’re then not considered “disabled enough” to qualify for any of the social care support you most likely need to continue to manage your disability and live well.

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    #4

    Somebody Just Asked People To Post Examples Of Double Standards, And 45 Responses Were Spot-On When Miley Cyrus gets naked and licks a hammer she is "artistic" or "edgy."


    When i do it, I'm "drunk" and "no longer allowed at Home Depot."

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    #5

    Somebody Just Asked People To Post Examples Of Double Standards, And 45 Responses Were Spot-On I solely raised my daughter as a single father from the time she was a year old until she was almost six when I married my wife. The number of people who have asked about my daughter's mother just to reply with "Oh, she must have had PPD." or "There must be a mental illness involved." or "Maybe she will come around in a few years." is absolutely staggering. Like no man, she just decided she wanted to go party instead of being a mom to our child. No child support. No financial or emotional contribution. Nothing. Hell, I couldn't even get a copy of my daughter's health insurance card when her old one expired because "I wasn't on the paperwork" despite the fact that I was the one who filled out the paperwork for it at the hospital the day after she was born.

    It's infuriating knowing full well that had the roles been reversed, and I'd have been the one to leave, I'd 100% instantly be considered a deadbeat father.

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    #6

    Somebody Just Asked People To Post Examples Of Double Standards, And 45 Responses Were Spot-On Poor people get audited if they fail to report a few hundred dollars of taxes, while multi-billion dollar companies technically operate outside of the country and pay nothing.

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    Donna Peluda
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Big companies have lobbies that bribe,sorry give donations to politicians so they make the laws that allows them to pay less tax or sneak the money into shell companies.

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    #7

    Somebody Just Asked People To Post Examples Of Double Standards, And 45 Responses Were Spot-On We live in an extroverts world.

    In many Western cultures, being outgoing, sociable, and outspoken is often celebrated and encouraged. It's seen as the norm to want to chat, network, and be the life of the party. But when it comes to introverts who may crave quiet, solitude, or just less social interaction, the script flips.

    It’s socially acceptable to nudge the quiet person in the room and say, "Why don't you talk more?" But imagine telling a chatty person, "Can you be quiet for a bit?" It would be considered rude or offensive.

    This double standard underscores a deeper societal bias towards extroversion. The noise and buzz of constant interaction are often valued more than the quiet, reflective spaces introverts thrive in. It's like we're saying one way of interacting with the world is better than the other, when in reality, both have their strengths and should be equally respected. In a world that can't stop talking, sometimes we forget the power of silence and introspection. - An extroverted introvert.

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    sofacushionfort
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Imagine a sports event with 30K introverts attending. Dead quiet unless something happens worth commenting on

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    #8

    Somebody Just Asked People To Post Examples Of Double Standards, And 45 Responses Were Spot-On People are encouraged to reach out and ask for help when they are struggling with mental health - but still stigmatised if they have mental illness.

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    Suzie
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And good luck finding that aforementioned support for Mental Health

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    #9

    Somebody Just Asked People To Post Examples Of Double Standards, And 45 Responses Were Spot-On If a dad gets pizza or fast food for his kids instead of cooking a meal, he's considered the "fun dad"

    If a mom gets pizza or fast food for her kids instead of cooking a meal, she's considered a "lazy mom"

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    Philly Bob Squires
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    10 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My Mom was a hella good cook and loved to do it. I learned much from her. But if she bought us pizza or burgers... she was still cool as all hell! She needed a break too!

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    #10

    Somebody Just Asked People To Post Examples Of Double Standards, And 45 Responses Were Spot-On canceling appointments.

    if I cancel an appointment, I get charged $50 (like a doctor or therapist).

    if i’m walking out the door and they call and cancel, no consequences.

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    T MB83
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was once at the hospital with a very sick relative and had to run across the street to go to a doctor's appointment and was not even five mins late and they said because I was late they wouldn't see me and I ended up bursting into tears and yet usually when I go I'm sitting there for at least 30 mins waiting.

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    #11

    Somebody Just Asked People To Post Examples Of Double Standards, And 45 Responses Were Spot-On Attractive and popular people can get away with some foul s**t compared to the average person

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    #12

    Somebody Just Asked People To Post Examples Of Double Standards, And 45 Responses Were Spot-On Pretending to take a cigarette break is more accepted than taking an actual break. And not just at work.

    Like, it's weird if I take five minutes to go outside, decompress, and breathe in some fresh air.

    But if I inhale toxic fumes from a burning plant while I do that, it's fine.

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    Pittsburgh rare
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I worked at a company that allowed cigarette breaks and I'm not a smoker, so l started going out as well. When asked why, I pointed out the double standard. I was allowed to take breaks as well from them on.

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    #13

    Somebody Just Asked People To Post Examples Of Double Standards, And 45 Responses Were Spot-On The double standard between women, especially teenage girls, being fans of things, and men being fans of things.

    It’s deemed as somewhat normal and almost to be expected than men go absolutely mental over sport, especially things like football, to the point that when there are football games on the local police are usually on standby to deal with the riots and fights that usually happen. And that’s just kind of seen as part of it and to be expected and is just people being passionate.

    On the other hand, if you get a group of teenage girls getting a bit excited over like, idk, a BTS concert or a Taylor Swift show or something, suddenly that’s deemed weird and stupid and they get dragged for it.

    It’s literally the same thing. The latter is also far less disruptive yet is the thing that is always demonised. It’s not a new thing either it goes back as far as like The Beatles and Elvis where it was just passed off as ‘ridiculous hysteria” meanwhile you’ve got a brexit geezer going absolutely feral because Manchester United lost.

    Lowkey pisses me off a lot that anything women and teenage girls like is demonised yet things like sport get a free pass.

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    BTDubs
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Anything teen girls like is deemed "basic" or "immature". Take for example the hate directed at the band Mother Mother, their fanbase consists of mainly teen girls and they get totally slated for it. Great music tho, give them a listen :)

    MezzoPiano
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not to even mention how often men freak out if women like the same thing they do. See: gamergate

    BlueBlazer999
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Honestly, it’s just sports. If I got this exited over video games, people would outright call it unhealthy. But in sports, it’s “passion.”

    Amalie Jaye
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Also that if teens are into anything, gender regardless it’s always a “phase”.

    LegendsNeverDIE
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And it's especially horrible for the people actually being demonised. What's wrong with liking Taylor swifts music??

    You stole that from Robocop
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nah, my niece grew up being a massive comic book geek, no one batted an eye, probably because I was too.

    Wintermute
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow, I'd never thought about this, but it's absolutely right.

    Fire Singer
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    And god forbid the women/girls who like sports! They're constantly having to prove that they're "real" sports fans. And the men/boys who like Taylor Swift or BTS or whatever? That's seen as being so wrong. Guess what, just let people like what they like. Oh and don't be a prick about it and ruin it for others by having riots.

    Aiden Brough
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm a gamer and have been since a kid (40+ years). I only play a couple of hours a week and I find it relaxing. But my mates find it weird. The same mates who spend 6 hours play golf in all weathers on chasing a golf ball... Or traveling 5 hours to watch over paid men fall over kicking a ball for 90 minutes and then complain that another bloke behind a screen got the result wrong (VAR) and spend another 5 hours traveling back... And I'm weird?

    Nathan Shipman
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I thought this was going to be about teen girls enjoying themselves at a sports event of some sort or a group of men enjoying themselves at a pop-concert.

    Mukke Pedersen
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's worse, because men tend to react violently in a tribal surrounding like a football match. How it is accepted by society that you need police to control the crowd at a sports event when it is down to hooliganism, is beyond me. You can have just as many people gathered to a concert with only a token representation of the police when you'd have a full squadron of riot police for a 3rd tier football match.

    Je L
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A few years back Sandra Bullock pointed out the lack of respect given to rom-coms and how they never win awards. Anything targeted for women is less than and it applies to everything.

    Hester
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's not about your gender, it's about what you get excited about and about the people who get rude about it... if a boy gets excited over say a BTS concert or a Taylor Swift show people question their sexuality. In the end it's a toxic masculinity thing.

    Gavin Johnson
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I love live music, it’s an addiction that I encourage in everyone I meet, that includes my daughter, 13, who has a somewhat eclectic taste in music, shares my love of extreme metal, hates my love of country music, loves StrayKids, like she LOVES them, I encourage it, it’s music! I may not understand the Korean pop band (‘cause I can’t speak Korean and I’m 49, not 13!) but I wholeheartedly encourage my daughter and I’ll be funding a trip to see StrayKids, it’ll be a blast. PS she’s doing duolingo to try to learn Korean, I love that dedication to the cause! PS we are English 😀

    Bruce Horton
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never have I ever heard anyone make a comparison like this. But in my mind they're equally ridiculous.

    Five Years
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Or the Brits going nuts over Brexit while Americans go "Is something happening over there?"

    MR
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I've seen this before but it's not entirely accurate. There are subtle differences between the two types of fandom. A lot of it is specific to fans of a broad spectrum thing like a "team" or "sport" vs fans of a specific individual and the influence they have over you. There's a lot of nuance in there. There's nothing wrong with either in moderation. But I would say that rabid fandom of any sort is a little too much. It shouldn't become your way of life the way both sets of fans let it. It's inherently dangerous for your mental health. I don't care how much of fan you are or of what. If you p**s yourself in excitement, you may need serious help.

    LaserBrain
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    How many people really get upset over teenage girls getting excited about BTS?

    Louis Blaine
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The Beatles hell, The girls were going just as crazy over Frank Sinatra, Yeah I'm ancient.

    censorshipsucks
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As a guy I get zero excitement from sports games but pretty excited at music concerts so... maybe I would be misgendered in the west?

    Andy
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    10 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think this is true, but only to an extent (in regards to the conclusions this post goes to). Obsessively following something is common, especially when young, and agree there is nothing different between a girl who goes to Taylor Swift concerts and has their room covered in posters of her, and a boy who goes to football matches and has his room covered in scarves, posters etc for his team. However the "mania" for the beetles, Elvis etc is something entirely different, that is an extreme fanaticism. If men stood outside of a hotel where their favourite football player was staying, screaming, crying and fainting, it would not be considered normal, they would absolutely be judged for it, and a lot worse for being a man doing it. And a football hooligan going on a rampage is only viewed as ok by other hooligans, society as a whole definitely views them as scum and criminals.

    j k
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nobody has ever thought a group of kids going to a concert as fans was stupid.

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    I'll just say this: soccer fans don't cry when one of the players gets engaged.

    BTDubs
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Still better than starting a riot and beating up the supporters the opposite team. One costs literally zero tax dollars to fix! But you're right, the kid crying about a engaged idol is worse 🙄

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    #14

    Somebody Just Asked People To Post Examples Of Double Standards, And 45 Responses Were Spot-On I'm expected to make it through an entire workday while it's snowing outside, while children are allowed to stay home and drink hot chocolate and go sledding. Absolutely unfair (I'm 29).

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    Somebody Just Asked People To Post Examples Of Double Standards, And 45 Responses Were Spot-On Rich people don't face consequences for crimes like normal people at all. Fines were designed to punish the poor and let the rich get away with disregard for society. Bail was also designed this way because it means your ability to get out of jail is dependent on the size of your bank account.

    People should not be fined for crimes or be able to get out of them with money period.

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    #16

    Somebody Just Asked People To Post Examples Of Double Standards, And 45 Responses Were Spot-On The way we view emotions.



    If a man cries or shows fear, it is instantly taken as weakness while being socially accepted by women.

    If a woman shows anger or asserts dominance, it's taken bad where as those emotions are socially accepted by men.



    Also aging. Women aging=bad, washedup, need to settle down.

    Men aging=good, wisdom, getting better with age, embrace the grey.

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    Candace
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    10 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Thank you for pointing out that double standards can go both ways. Many people think its only unfair for women! edit: punctuation

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    #17

    Somebody Just Asked People To Post Examples Of Double Standards, And 45 Responses Were Spot-On If I don't wear makeup to work, and fix my hair and wear feminine outfits, I am asked multiple times if I am feeling okay that day.

    I am dressed professionally in pants and a shirt, with my hair brushed and my face washed, just like ALL the men here.

    Why are my requirements different? It's not on paper anywhere, but it is implied every single day.

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    Kirsten Kerkhof
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some male colleagues of mine were talking about how they didn't like women with lots of make-up. I pointed out I was wearing make-up, and they were, 'No, you're not." Dude, I'm wearing lipstick, mascara, eyebrow pencil and face powder. My face is literally fully covered in make-up. But apparently to them that was as 'no make-up' as their faces. They are good colleagues and I don't mind it (and I like wearing make-up, I truly think I look better with it), but it kinda amazed them just how much make-up it takes to look groomed as a professional woman.

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    #18

    Somebody Just Asked People To Post Examples Of Double Standards, And 45 Responses Were Spot-On Body positivity really only applies to women. Calling a man a fatass vs a woman will garner very different responses. Also making fun of the size of a man’s member is a lot more acceptable than making fun of a woman for her attributes( I don’t agree with either, it’s just my observation)

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    #19

    Racism against white people. Idc bring on the downvotes it’s so true.

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    Power puff scientist
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    10 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    it's amazing to me how often you see or hear people say you can't be racist against white people.

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    #20

    People get pissed off when min wage increases but say f**k all about billionaires avoiding taxes

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    Luke Branwen
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As Fry said in Futurama: "Just wait 'till I become a billionaire. Then people like me should better watch out."

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    #21

    Somebody Just Asked People To Post Examples Of Double Standards, And 45 Responses Were Spot-On This is probably small potatoes, but it’s kinda crazy that people are comfortable demanding height minimums on dating sites and just in conversation. Quite a few tinder profiles say ‘must be over 6ft’. It’s the only demand on a physical attribute that is commonly casually stated. It’s totally okay to feel that way, but it seems kinda rough to remind every short guy swiping that he has limited options. I’m over 6th and it still kinda pissed me off to see it. I have short friends. I always imagine the painful little ping they’d feel any time they saw it.

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    Ace
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never really done the dating site thing, but is it, or is it not, acceptable these days to also state preferences for eye or hair colour, hair length, even weight? If not then I think that's the real double standard.

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    #22

    Somebody Just Asked People To Post Examples Of Double Standards, And 45 Responses Were Spot-On women get a pass for being predatory.

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    #23

    I’m American (so I’m not sure if this happens in other countries) and Christian people when they sit at your dinner table and do the guilt thing right before you eat saying “Wait, arent we going to pray first?” And even the non religious people look guilty and pretend to pray. It took me until my 30’s to realize the double standard if I were another religion and sat at their table and insisted we pray to my god, they likely wouldn’t take so kindly to it. Now I say “you’re welcome to pray but I’m going to go ahead and start eating”

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    Jihana
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Seems impolite. I would wait till they are finished praying, but not pray myself.

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    #24

    Somebody Just Asked People To Post Examples Of Double Standards, And 45 Responses Were Spot-On Governments allowing themselves to do what they’ve banned others from doing.

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    #25

    Somebody Just Asked People To Post Examples Of Double Standards, And 45 Responses Were Spot-On I gotta give you 2 weeks notice ima quit, but you can fire me at any point? Nah fam

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    Emma S
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    10 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    American problem. In the UK, it's quite difficult to fire someone. There needs to be gross misconduct on the employees part and even then there's a strict disciplinary process that needs to be followed. You could be be facing an employment tribunal if you don't.

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    #26

    Somebody Just Asked People To Post Examples Of Double Standards, And 45 Responses Were Spot-On That in the US, disabled people need more money to afford healthcare, but they aren’t legally allowed to have more than like $2000-$2500 in assets if they’re on disability. And it’s less if they’re married

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    #27

    Somebody Just Asked People To Post Examples Of Double Standards, And 45 Responses Were Spot-On Bullying is looked down upon, but so are the victims.

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    Boootifull Unicorn
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The idea that bullies are bad but we also have to toughen up and learn to take it sucks. Maybe we wouldn't have to be "prepared" for the cruel world if everyone was actually raised to have a little empathy.

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    If you make any mistake with money like overdraft, miss a payment, forget to pay tax, you get royally screwed and have to often pay even more in penalties and get no say in the matter. But if the banks, business, or insurance f***s up they owe you nothing and you often have to fight to get what you owe and often still lose out in money and time

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    #29

    Men being abused physically by women is funny. For instance, the trailer for "Anyone but You" had Sydney Sweeny sucker punch her love interest in the balls. If the man sucker punched her in the privates, I doubt anyone would've laughed.

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    Adrian
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    10 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    THIS IS SO WRONG! WOMEN DO ABUSE AND KILL MEN!!!! Just different ways, like poisoning... I'm sick of all the comments here implying that only men are the abusers. People abuse people, period!

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    #30

    People seem to think nothing of a man choosing to not have kids, but women who don't want them are judged to hell and back and even told "they'll change their mind."

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    Con O Cuinn
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I really don't know where people get this idea that men aren't pressured to have children. Maybe men talk about it less, but you're being willfully ignorant if you think parents don't pressure their sons to get married and have kids. All those comments you mentioned, I've heard from relative strangers as well as my parents.

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    #31

    Somebody Just Asked People To Post Examples Of Double Standards, And 45 Responses Were Spot-On We feel so so so compassionate toward disabled people, but our policies require them to live life in deep poverty, with s****y medical care, while we run around saying how every life is precious. Sure.

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    BrownTabby
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We don’t feel compassionate, really. We pat ourselves on the back for showing basic kindness and they rightfully can’t stand it.

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    #32

    Female genital mutilation is illegal in most western countries (as it absolutely should be) but half the US and 25% of Canada STILL support mutilating boys. Mutilating anyone’s genitals should be illegal.

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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A lot of people still believe in the debunked claim that circumcision somehow means better hygiene. It doesn't.

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    #33

    Somebody Just Asked People To Post Examples Of Double Standards, And 45 Responses Were Spot-On Casual racism against certain skin colors.

    It's never okay to discriminate against someone based on something out of their control.

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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Horrific to be racist against a person of color. A person of color saying they can't be a racist against a Caucasian person because they are a person of color.

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    #34

    Somebody Just Asked People To Post Examples Of Double Standards, And 45 Responses Were Spot-On The justice system. There’s definitely multiple justice systems depending on things like class and race. While it’s definitely noticed, it’s not like anything is actually being done about it so by practical standards it goes unnoticed.

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    #35

    Sex workers are exploited, but the 9-5 workers getting underpaid while CEOs grant themselves another $50 million raise are somehow not.

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    Con O Cuinn
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A prostitute is selling their body but you think a coal miner isn't. Suuure...

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    #36

    Romance and love between straight people is perfectly fine and normal to depict in children's media, in fact many many Disney movies end with a princess kissing a prince, but if we show *any* hints at all that a character is gay that's *perverted* and *unacceptable* for children.

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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    By right wing logic, I should have been brainwashed straight ages ago, but I'm still questioning lol

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    #37

    Somebody Just Asked People To Post Examples Of Double Standards, And 45 Responses Were Spot-On Perfectly fine for society to dislike cats because "they're thankless pets" and whatnot, but if you dislike dogs you're labelled an untrustworthy sociopath.

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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm a dog person and I distrust anyone who doesn't like either. And please let's stop with the cats vs dogs narrative.

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    #38

    Somebody Just Asked People To Post Examples Of Double Standards, And 45 Responses Were Spot-On Body hair

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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The great thing about winter is that nobody can see my leg hair to judge me, so I get an extra layer of warmth and to save on razors!

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    #39

    Somebody Just Asked People To Post Examples Of Double Standards, And 45 Responses Were Spot-On Justice. If you're rich you can get a good lawyer and avoid jail.

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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Half the time if you're rich you don't even have to hire a lawyer. You get excused immediately.

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    #40

    Somebody Just Asked People To Post Examples Of Double Standards, And 45 Responses Were Spot-On As someone in the legal field...courts not being on time.

    If you're late or not on time, good luck. But if the court is late or double booked etc. well you can't really complain.

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    #41

    Men get f****d in divorce cases, even if the wife was abusive, and we can’t really ever talk about it without sounding like Mens Rights A******s.

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    #42

    The classism inherent in judging the poor for the same behaviors as the wealthy.

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    #43

    Somebody Just Asked People To Post Examples Of Double Standards, And 45 Responses Were Spot-On People caring about mental health unless it's a really icky one like schizophrenia or narcism.

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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I think this is perpetuated by the media. When was the last time you saw a character with bipolar disorder living a normal life with a job and family instead of being a psychopath or murderer? Or someone with schizophrenia whose symptoms are managed with medication and only see what's actually there? Movies and TV shows do almost nothing to promote understanding and acceptance of severe mental illness.

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    #44

    For the most part men can’t wear shorts to work in the summer but women can wear skirts, capris, etc.

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    One time a Man unfamiliar with our facility accidentally used the Boy’s locker room (instead of the Mens) to change before working out (middle of the day, no kids around because they’re in school) and everybody freaked the f**k out. (I 100% know it was an honest mistake. The guy was so embarrassed because of how the staff reacted.) While on the other hand - adult Women routinely used the Girls locker room because ‘it’s too crowded’ (or whatever the excuse, etc). This was allowed by management for a looong time. Finally got that policy enforced equally when I confronted it after we all had the implicit bias training…

    Edit- probably file this under r/unpopularopinion, but someone asked - and it is what it is
    To be clear, the policy was ‘Only adults accompanying young children that need assistance are allowed in the Youth locker rooms’

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    10 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Any sports or concert events where the woman's room line is a mile long, women can use the stalls in the men's room and no one cares. If a guy went into a woman's room, he'd come out with a high heel in his a*s!

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    #46

    Somebody Just Asked People To Post Examples Of Double Standards, And 45 Responses Were Spot-On People with blinding headlights can shine them at your face because "the car came that way", but you can't flash your highbeams back at them to let them know *that you can't see* without being an a*****e

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    Philly Bob Squires
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Those halogen daylight sunshine-like blinding a*s headlights should be outlawed. Now they are LED, but tone them down a bit?

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    #47

    People are told to talk to each other about grievances they are having, but they are also expected to not complain to each other.

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    #49

    The standards men and women both seem to hold each other yet not fulfill themselves is something I’m worried is so embedded that it may not ever change.

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    Jahl
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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Men: I'm young at heart (nothing wrong with that.) Women: I'm free spirited (you're not in your twenties you need to settle down and get serious about life.) 😒

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    #50

    If you got large numbers of people killed within the last 300 to 500 years, you're a war criminal. If you did the same thing at an earlier point in time, you're a great statesman. Think Julius Caesar or Genghis Khan.

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    10 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's more like if you are a succesful war criminal then it's ok. The winners get to write the history books. It's awful but true.

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    #51

    Older generation acting like the younger generation is naive and susceptible to being duped.

    Meanwhile it's only old people I see who:

    * Post FB updates like "I DO NOT GIVE PERMISSION TO FB TO USE MY PHOTO" or
    * Believe fake news or
    * Answer calls from spam phone numbers or
    * Get pillaged by a Nigerian prince or
    * Provide their social security and credit card numbers to an unknown number

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    Jahl
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    10 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Having worked in call centers previously, I have spoken to people of all ages who will fall in for those scams

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