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What’s totally acceptable and completely normal in one country might get you some funny looks elsewhere. Or, in other words, welcome to Planet Earth where there are loads of different countries and cultures that are bound to blow your mind when you travel.

This time, we’re looking at the differences between the United States and the United Kingdom. Even though both countries have a ‘special relationship’ (not to mention a rocky initial history together), far from everything is the same there. Hopping ‘over the pond’ means traveling a large distance both physically and culturally, too. Like you'd expect when going to any new country when you fly abroad.

Redditor TownImmediate9060 went on r/AskReddit and wanted to find out what’s socially acceptable in the US but would be horrifying in the UK. The thread went viral and the responses made us seriously realize the extent of the differences between the two allies. Check out some of the best answers below and remember to upvote your fave ones, dear Pandas.

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30 People List What Things Are Accepted In The US While Are Totally Horrifying In The UK Healthcare that bankrupts you

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30 People List What Things Are Accepted In The US While Are Totally Horrifying In The UK Paying more than the price you see on a price tag in a shop due to taxes. WTF just put how much it costs!

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Cashiers being forced to stand... give them a chair you masochists

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Britain continues to use soft power to spread its influence abroad. Its cultural impact is off the charts. Just consider how influential the Harry Potter books, musicians like Ed Sheeran, and football entities like the Premier League really are.

They’re known and respected globally. As such, the UK’s able to draw in plenty of tourists (global pandemic notwithstanding because it’s hit everyone badly) and students from abroad because it remains at the forefront of people’s minds.

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30 People List What Things Are Accepted In The US While Are Totally Horrifying In The UK Politicians mentioning religion when campaigning

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#5

New mothers going back to work almost immediately after giving birth, because they don’t have paid maternity leave

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30 People List What Things Are Accepted In The US While Are Totally Horrifying In The UK An $800, four-block ambulance ride.

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However, research shows that the confusion and uncertainty around the long-term effects that Brexit, the UK’s exit from the European Union, will have slightly dampened the country’s influence abroad.

Meanwhile, the British Council found that it’s actually culture, not politics, that deepens the ties between the UK and the US. And it’s culture that’s going to play a vital role in the future of both nations as well.

#7

That whole thing where American kids pledge their allegiance to the flag. That is completely weird and scarily totalitarian to us Brits.

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30 People List What Things Are Accepted In The US While Are Totally Horrifying In The UK Overworking. It's rewarded and encouraged in the U.S., but during my time in the U.K. my colleagues were horrified by the long hours and lack of holidays that was the norm in the U.S.

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30 People List What Things Are Accepted In The US While Are Totally Horrifying In The UK Greeters in supermarkets. Just feels fake.

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“Culture and history were the two top rated factors contributing to the UK’s attractiveness among American respondents, with 43% identifying ‘cultural and historic attractions’ as a major draw and 42% identifying ‘history,’” the British Council explains what it discovered in its research.

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30 People List What Things Are Accepted In The US While Are Totally Horrifying In The UK Driving everywhere.

In the UK it's perfectly normal to have your kid walk to school and walking to the shops to do your shopping.

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Offering full-time employees anything less than 28 days of paid holidays per year - it's not only socially unacceptable - it's illegal!

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Bragging about how expensive something was.

In the US "this is a $100 shirt" ...smug face

In the UK "can you believe I got this whole suit for £25!" ...smug face

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Despite some of the more superficial cultural differences between the US and the UK, both nations appear to care about pretty much the same issues.

“The research showed a high degree of shared concern about global issues among young people in both countries with poverty, extremism/terrorism, and climate change as the top factors chosen by young people in both the US and UK,” the British Council found. “The research suggests the relationship between the two countries is at root a cultural as much as a political phenomenon, and viewed in those terms it is indeed special.”

#13

Labelling the winner of a sports tournament that only your country plays as ‘World Champions’

Calling Football ‘Soccer’

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30 People List What Things Are Accepted In The US While Are Totally Horrifying In The UK A rubber in England is not the same as a rubber in the US.

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30 People List What Things Are Accepted In The US While Are Totally Horrifying In The UK Gaps in bathroom stalls

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Ironically, the actual term ‘special relationship’ sees very little use in the US, primarily being a British way of categorizing the tight bonds between the two nations. However, this doesn’t change the fact that both countries are very much skipping along arm-in-arm, primarily admiring each other’s cultural output (leaving politics a secondary concern).

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30 People List What Things Are Accepted In The US While Are Totally Horrifying In The UK Making tea in a microwave.

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#17

When my Brit friends were visiting, they were horrified when the waiter took their credit card to swipe back at the terminal. This made them REALLY uncomfortable.

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#18

Cutting lines for things, I’ve seen some people when going to Disney world trying to cut lines for random reasons. Queueing in the uk is like our national sport

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Redditor TownImmediate9060’s thread about the differences between the US and the UK was a roaring success. It got more than 67.7k upvotes in just over a week. What’s more, the thread got over 51k comments which just goes to show that the OP hit the nail on the head and chose a niche topic that plenty of folks were interested in.

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The thread also got over 300 awards, proving that TownImmediate9060’s fellow Reddit users really appreciated them asking the question in the first place.

#19

30 People List What Things Are Accepted In The US While Are Totally Horrifying In The UK My (British) partner & I (American) were in London, running late to meet our friends. Just as we get to the tube station, I see our train has just pulled in; we haul ass across platform and I yell, “HOLD THE DOOR.” Someone does, we make the train, I don’t see a problem. My partner, by contrast, is mortified. This was 4-5 years ago & he is still mortified. Apparently we were meant to just...let the train leave? Without us?? & wait for the next one???

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30 People List What Things Are Accepted In The US While Are Totally Horrifying In The UK Asking new neighbors, "Have you found a church yet?"

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#21

30 People List What Things Are Accepted In The US While Are Totally Horrifying In The UK Huge portion sizes. Kids meal in U.S is like a adult meal in U.K.

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What’s your opinion about the relationship between the US and the UK, dear Readers? What, in your opinion, makes this relationship between the two special? What do you think are the main cultural differences between Americans and Brits? Let us know what you think in the comment section below. We’d absolutely love to get your take on this, especially if you’re currently living in the US or the UK.

#22

I was in Japan once and there was a vending machine selling beer outside my hotel room.

So, being British, I bought a can and went to the elevator where I shared an excruciating couple of minutes with two American business men. They were horrified at my early day drinking, and I at their willingness to express this.

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Shelp
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What's particularly wrong with day drinking? I mean, night won't reduce your drunkenness

J-A Laine
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Having one beer shouldn't be something to frown upon. It's just one beer. I suppose it depends on what relation one has towards alcohol. Some can have just one beer and some can't. Some drink alcohol only when they want to get drunk so their mind is set on alcohol = getting drunk, while somethinks alcohol = I choose one beer/glass of wine/ one drink to relax and don't need to have a second or more drinks. I was one of those who couldn't stop at one drink so I've chosen to not drink alcohol at all however I do enjoy alcohol free beer occasionally. We're all different and shouldn't judge one and others drinking habits. Just my 2 p.

Kim Irving
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You're on VACATION!! When else are you supposed to day drink?!

King Joffrey
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I work in London and if you go out for lunch with colleagues it is totally acceptable to grab a beer or a glass of wine with the meal. The thing is, people wouldn't really get drunk at these things... well, most of the time.

David Beaulieu
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Um... you were not in an elevator with American businessmen that judged YOU for day drinking., Maybe 2 Mormon missionaries. But no adult male American professional would be even mildly shocked at someone drinking during the day time.

Bill Karp
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

guess it might depend where you are, I've seen early as noon. but then again can't BBQ, without for most. in the US

Celtic Pirate Queen
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Or maybe you just ended your shift at work and your "evening" is just beginning. Mind your own f*****g business.

Martha Higgins
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I used to often get off work at 6 or 7 am. What's wrong with having a beer then? I'd have breakfast when I woke up around 4 or 5.

Mari Bryant
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How is this an American thing? You weren't in America. It's the opinion of two tourists. He just didn't like being called out. Don't drink in a freaking elevator in the morning then.

Tim Haight
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

When I was in the Air Force, I arrived at my dorm in the middle of the night. Saw a vending machine with beer. It was great to get a couple after traveling all day. I was also a shift worker. So after a graveyard shift it was nice to get a cold one to wind down before trying to sleep.

InfectedVoice
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We are a nation of drinkers, no question, we see beer in a strange context we want to drink it, the first time I went somewhere with beer in Mcdonalds, I was drinking beer with chicken nuggets and fries which of course tasted horrible but you know.........beer in Mcdonalds!!!!

Em.
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ah yes, I love the smell of 5am drinking in the British airports

Id row
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's their own particular quirk. I was a bartender for 9 years on the day shift. More people drink at night, but there's a lot who drink during the day.

NgatiDreadz
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just tell 'em you work night shift and you just got off followed by "oh yeah and mind your own f*****g business" skull can burp scrunch throw it away or at them

Bex
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Drinking doesn't always have to end with drunkenness. It's nice to have a drink at lunch.

CatWoman312
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

American here. Do what you’d like. It’s none of my business and what I do is none of yours

Sarah Grape
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm more suprised that there was beer avalible in a vending machine

CaptainWolfy125
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I mean, most Americans drink everyday all day, (especially during weekends and holidays)The people he might of met are the rich snobby people.

N G
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Beer for breakfast is just wrong, but mid-morning and onwards is fine

Sasy
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That is hilarious, when I was on the commuter train from NY to Conneticut, I was stunned at people in suits walking through carriages with beers. In Aus people drink after work sure, but in bars not on public transport, oh and by the way no one in Oz drinks Fosters unless 90 and we dont even have those big cans, you got played.

Hugo A-niro
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Seems to me the brits think their way is the only way. They need to stfu

Heather Pobicki
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And here you are for the weekly post expressing your distaste along with others about Americans

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#23

As a Brit in the US, this is a fun one!

Pharmaceutical adverts on the TV are still weird af to me

The length and frequency of commercial breaks in general on TV is shocking

Low hanging fruit, but anything relating to child beauty pageants just makes me feel physically sick

Here's a nice one: taking 20+ minutes to help a complete stranger who is struggling with something. The amount of times a total stranger has stopped to assist me or someone I know? Y'all really make my heart melt!

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#24

Spray on cheese

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#25

30 People List What Things Are Accepted In The US While Are Totally Horrifying In The UK Addressing a stranger as ‘Sir’

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30 People List What Things Are Accepted In The US While Are Totally Horrifying In The UK Responding to work emails while on leave/vacation.

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30 People List What Things Are Accepted In The US While Are Totally Horrifying In The UK high fructose corn syrup

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Chanting the acronym of your country at any given opportunity.

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I don’t know how common it actually is there, but going fucking wild at the cinema during a hugely popular film like Avengers: Endgame or a Star Wars film. There’s a bunch of videos on YouTube of the audience reactions to various big franchise films and I don’t know how anybody lasts more than a few minutes in that room.

When I saw The Force Awakens, like two people half-heartedly cheered when the title screen came up and then someone immediately told them to shut up.

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#30

Refuse a drink to a grown-ass taxpaying 20 year old

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30 People List What Things Are Accepted In The US While Are Totally Horrifying In The UK Telling me how much the tip is going to be.

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#32

30 People List What Things Are Accepted In The US While Are Totally Horrifying In The UK Not wanting to call for an ambulance if hurt

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#33

30 People List What Things Are Accepted In The US While Are Totally Horrifying In The UK Anything taking over an hour to get to being a "short trip"

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#34

Chatting with a stranger on the street. I do it all the time. My best friend is English. It horrifies him.

I said “how do you meet new people, like to date?”

“Oh, we get positively trashed in a pub and then it can happen.”

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#35

30 People List What Things Are Accepted In The US While Are Totally Horrifying In The UK Chatting casually at the lift.

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#36

Not pronouncing the 'h' in 'herbs'.

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#37

Not horrifying but pausing a show or event to ask members of the military to stand up for an applause would be weird over here.

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#38

The fake enthusiasm that everyone knows is fake but everyone buys into and plays along with.

I'm Irish but work for a company that has a very large UK client and a very large US client and I don't really see that fake enthusiasm coming from the Brits. You might get the odd person but everyone will just think they're a wanker where as with the yanks it's on a whole other level. Gets pretty dry when absolutely everything is "awesome".

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#39

Talking so loud that everyone within 100 meters can hear what you are saying.

Whooping. Just don't Chad, you aren't on a bucka-roo now.

Listing your positive qualities like you are in a job interview, but in a normal conversation. You must only speak ill of yourself.

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30 People List What Things Are Accepted In The US While Are Totally Horrifying In The UK Americans will ask 'How ya doing?' but not really expect an answer.

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#41

Naming your child Randy.

British people ITT: wait, people don't really name their child Randy, do they?

Americans: what's wrong with Randy?

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#42

As I found out is done in another thread the other day "eating sandwiches without butter on the bread" being from the UK this horrifies me.

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#43

Coming from the perspective of a British guy, your style of customer service. Not universally, but very commonly, it’s way too over the top for us.

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#44

30 People List What Things Are Accepted In The US While Are Totally Horrifying In The UK I’ve learned from my British friends that you have to be very careful giving peace signs. If you have your hand facing a certain way, it’s like a “f**k you” in the UK basically, whereas in the US it doesn’t matter which way it’s facing really. Several years ago I sent them a picture with me doing an “incorrect” peace sign and they were appalled

ETA: The offensive version is where your palm is facing inwards

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#45

30 People List What Things Are Accepted In The US While Are Totally Horrifying In The UK When somebody says you should come to their house sometime, actually going by their house sometime.

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#46

Asking for a tour of their house. *SHUDDERS*

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#47

30 People List What Things Are Accepted In The US While Are Totally Horrifying In The UK Saying “hello” when you pass people.

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#48

Calling "Where's Wally" "Where's Waldo".

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strangers asking "where" not if you go to church.

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#50

When someone says, 'make yourself at home' actually making yourself at home

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#51

A lot of ice in drinks. My grandfather visited Ireland and asked for ice in his drink. He said the people at the restaurant were confused and gave him two ice cubes.

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#52

30 People List What Things Are Accepted In The US While Are Totally Horrifying In The UK "Bum bag", not "fanny pack".

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#53

Saying someone has a lot of spunk

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#54

Talking about money. It's a bad habit of our never to discuss wages.

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#55

Looking around someone's house and complimenting things

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